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Letters from Herbert Sutcliffe, the cricketer

Cutting from The Times 1932 – Cricket; Yorkshire at Hove.  Sutcliffe’s record


HAND-WRITTEN on folded notepaper stamped with home address – with envelopes

Southroyd House

Pudsey

Nr Leeds Dec 7/33

Dear Mrs Stair

This is to thank you most sincerely for the excellent time you gave me during my stay in town – every minute of which was thoroughly enjoyed.

You were so kind to me – all of you, and I shall always have most happy recollections.

A thousand thanks!

Every good wish

Yours sincerely

Herbert Sutcliffe 


Southroyd House

Pudsey

Nr Leeds Nov 21/34

Dear Mrs Stair

Thank you so much for your letter.

You will be pleased to hear that my wife has made rapid progress after her operation and she is expected home on Saturday.

No it wasn’t my son who developed a temperature – it was the dog.  I think I said that I had taken him to the vets.

I hope you are all well.

I am not certain whether I shall motor to town or go by train on Dec 3.  I favour the train but I may decide to send my car to the AC works for a check over.

It is very kind of you to ask me to lunch or tea on the 4th.

The trouble is this – I may take another fellow with me and I know you can’t be bothered with extra trouble.

I’ll phone you on Dec 3rd or if I go up by train I’ll let you know, then if you are in the Kings X vicinity perhaps you can call round as you suggest.

All good wishes

Yours sincerely

Herbert Sutcliffe


HAND-WRITTEN, on a card stamped with home address – with envelope

Dear Mrs Stair March 2/34

Many thanks – I do wish I could accept for the 16th but I’m afraid it’s impossible

I have just bought an AC car in town.  I like it immensely – the engine runs like silk.  It is a much smaller car than my Sunbeam and I’m afraid I shall miss the lavish space, but it is much faster – and cheaper to run – 24mp gallon against 17 mpg by my Sunbeam.

I will let you have a look at it sometime in April.

My salaams to all and the best of best wishes too.

Yours sincerely

H Sutcliffe


HAND-WRITTEN on Herbert Sutcliffe’s business letterhead – with envelope

Nov 24/33

Dear Mrs Stair

It is very kind of you to ask me to stay and I shall be delighted to do so on Mon & Tue Dec 4 & 5.  I am not quite certain about the Wedy.  I have to attend Sir Home Gordon’s dinner and I arranged to stay at the hotel with one of the chaps.

I think I told you that I have a Lodge meeting on Monday evening.  It is too bad staying privately and leaving for dinner etc.   however, Tuesday is entirely free.  If Mr Stair finds it difficult to leave business for a game of gold – do please tell him not to worry.  In my case my handicap is much too long for Mr Stair who would probably prefer to play with a Scratch man and not a rabbit.

Would Mr Stair like to go with me to my Lodge meeting on Monday?  I’d be delighted if he could.

I have asked Arthur Gilligan to be one of my guests.

My very best wishes to you and all

Yours sincerely

Herbert Sutcliffe.

(in same envelope – together with a signed photo and a cutting from the Daily Mirror – HS at wicket after opening indoor nets at Kettering Baths, Northampton)

Dec 3/33

Dear Mrs Stair

This is to let you know that I am travelling by train tomorrow – by the 10.15 – arriving at Kings X at 1.55.  Shall lunch on the train – of course.  I am looking forward to seeing you all.  My meeting is at 4.30 at the Holborn Restaurant – much too early.

Every good wish

Sincerely yours

Herbert Sutcliffe


Nov 9/34

Dear Mrs Stair

It was good to hear from you again.  I have heard nothing in regard to attending the special meeting on Nov 21.

As far as I know at the moment I shall only be in town once before Xmas and only for two nights.  I have a few appointments on Dec 3 & 4.

My wife is to have an operation on Monday – not a serious one.  However she will be in the nursing home for about a fortnight.

She really should have had the operation yesterday but her mother was taken ill and I had to fetch my wife out of the nursing home on Wedy night.  This has been a vile week – everything has gone wrong – even our dog developed a temperature on Thursday of 104˚,

If I can get along to see you on Dec 4 I’ll phone you.  I do hope I can for it would be grand to see you again.

I shall arrive about 3.15pm on the 3rd but I am due at the Holborn Restaurant at 4.0 in dinner jacket so I shall have to rush.

My very best wishes to all

Yours sincerely

Herbert Sutcliffe


(including a cutting June 20 1934 headline Sutcliffe will be England Captain if Wyatt is still unfit)

June 29/34

Dear Mrs Stair

I much regret I had no chance to phone you on Tue evening.  Anyhow the stump was left for you.  The Hall Porter gave instructions for same to be wrapped in brown paper and I wrote your name as follows: –

MRS STAIR

TO BE CALLED FOR

Would you be good enough to call again and make enquiries.  The Day Head Porter had the stump in hand.

It was jolly good of you and Mr Stair to give us such a happy evening.  My wife paid you both lots of wonderful compliments.  It’s a wonder your ears didn’t burn.

Cheerio and thank you so much

Yours sincerely

Herbert Sutcliffe


Dec 1/34

Dear Mrs Stair

I intend catching the 9.0 o’clock train from Leeds – due in Kings X at 1 -3.

This will be a most inconvenient time for your I know, so please don’t trouble to do your ‘good deed for the day’ unless you happen to be in the vicinity of the station.

I have a few calls to make in town and thought it better to catch an earlier train.

My last meeting doesn’t start till 5.0pm, what about a spot of lunch with me – and Virginia too!

Will look out for you but I shall quite understand if you are not there.

Best wishes to all

Herbert Sutcliffe


(includes Yorkshire County Cricket Club Season 1935 booklet)

March 13/35

Dear Mrs Stair

I am thrilled to hear that you are to be presented at Court on March 29th – my hearty congratulations.

I only wish that I could join your party on that day, but we have arranged to have the w/e in Sheffield and we go on that very day.

I am due in town on Tues Apr 2 – having promised to give a lecture at the Pollytecnic (sic) during the evening – but I have to leave again first thing on Wedy morning.

We are exceptionally busy at the moment – receiving orders for the coming season – and I simply can’t stay away for more than two days.  Anyhow, I’ll give you a ring to ask all about the 29th.

I am not quite certain about the golf balls for Mr Stair but I have instructed my manager to send ‘Silver King’.  Do hope they are alright.  I can guarantee a round of 85 or under even despite the larger proportions which you say has developed in your ‘better’ (?) half.

I too have increased half a stone during the winter months.

My book is to be published on May 2 and I have noted your ‘two’.

All good wishes to all

Yours sincerely

Herbert Sutcliffe


(no envelope)

Jun 6/37

Dear Mrs Stair

Thank you so much.  I’m so glad you are still in the land of the living.  Truth to tell, I thought the worst!!!  Your news is certainly reassuring.

Your 45 acres sounds good to me.  I’d love to see it sometime.  It must be marvellous.  But I know it will be in keeping with the very high standard attained many years ago – and still held mind you – but you and your husband.  Speech!!!  But I’m sincere about this.  You will ask me sometime – won’t you?  Then if you are good, you may be allowed to visit my mushroom farm.

Was in town last Monday but had to return the same night on account of my Test press work.

Didn’t see the article you mention – please let me have it unless you have destroyed same.

All good wishes to you all

Yours sincerely

Herbert Sutcliffe


Letters from Leicester

87 Greenwich Avenue, NYC: 15 Feb 1924

My dear old toplet

It really is awful sweet of you to write such a nice long letter to me – ‘specially after the way I have neglected you.  But you know how it is – we have spent so much time fixing our place and so on that letter writing simply has not been possible.  I feel terribly guilty about it, but when I tell you that I didn’t even write home for three weeks, you will appreciate my excuse for not writing.

I think I had better start by answering your questions.

No, I have not seen HER yet.  You remember she wrote to me in England saying she would not write any more – well, I let it go at that but she did write again and the letter was forwarded to me here.  I then wrote her, saying I was now living in New York and asking her when she would be visiting this ‘burg’.  She answered that she expected to be here this year sometime, possibly in the autumn when she will share an apartment with her friend, Margery, who is coming here to take some course or other at Columbia University.  So you will possibly have an opportunity of seeing her when you are over here.  Won’t that be amusing?  If she is here then, I absolutely insist on you meeting her. 

She is sure to be very amusing and while on the question of you being here, you don’t know how bucked I was to hear you are coming out this fall.  And I am looking forward to seeing you tremendously and so is dear old Bob.  We are awfully anxious to show you our apartment and no doubt you will be able to five us some excellent advice on how to make the place really top notch.  You seem to have an idea that it must look somewhat like furnished rooms at present – but I can assure you it certainly does not look like that.  In fact, many people have said it is the most liveable and comfy place they have ever seen.

I suppose while Arthur is in New York, you won’t be able to stay here with us – but when he takes any of his trips without you to Chicago, Pittsburg, ‘Frisco, etc, will you come and stay with us here then?  We have a very nice little spare room which will be very comfy, so I am issuing an invitation now on behalf of both of us to come and stay here whenever you can and want to.

Now, to deal with your second question re the arrangement of the apartment:  the reason we have the living room so far from the kitchen is because 1) it has two windows whereas the room next to the kitchen has only one and 2) because the room we now have as the living room has a gas log fire as well as a radiator – so it is altogether more desirable as a living room.  Also it has a more pleasing outlook than has the bedroom.  We consider these things of greater importance than the minor difficulty of carrying food from the kitchen through the bedroom and anyhow, we always have breakfast in our bedroom on a circular table we have there for that purpose.

Yes!  we most certainly can use the black and green curtains and they look stunning.  We use one pair as portières in the doorway leading from the hall into the living room and the other two curtains we have hung at the opening either end of the hall.

The only place in which we lack curtains now is the spare room – and we shall have these in a week or two now.

Fortunately, we have not invested in bed linen etc and are anxiously awaiting the arrival of the things you are sending out.  They will be more than welcome!!  We need those things more than anything else.  Bob and I have spent practically all our spare time here in the apartment since we moved – and really we have a lot of fun out of fixing up the place.  We have a good clean and scrub on Sunday – and it would no doubt amuse you if you could see us as WORK!  Later on, we shall no doubt have a coloured woman in once a week to do thing- but at present, we don’t feel we can afford luxuries of that sort.

It makes me feel terribly envious when I read of your taking The Nest for next summer.  How I wish I were going to be there again!  You can’t realise how much I enjoyed being there with you last summer.  It was perfectly wonderful.

And I’d give anything to be able to drop in to tea under the conditions you wrote about.  Why upset my equilibrium with your glowing descriptions of these things!!??

I wonder how Mrs Cade and Gladys are enjoying the trip?  From all accounts, Mrs Cade seems to be more interested in whether she will call at or near New York on the way back than on anything else.  I must stop now.  Bobs and I are both very well and all is OK.  Bob is, I believe, writing you ce soir. 

Lots of love to you, Betty, Alastair and Virginia and also to ‘Pop’,  from thine ever, Leicester

PS  I was going to write something else but thought better of it at the last moment.  You are still rather young!!


58 West 85 Street, NYC 31st Oct 

My dear ‘Betty’

It was most awfully sweet of you to write me such a lovely letter and I hope you will forgive me for taking such a long time to answer.  I really have not had much time since I arrived here to do anything but work very hard – and at the end of the day, have really felt too tired even to think about writing letters or doing anything else but sleep.

I arrived in New York on a Sunday morning and Uncle Bobbie was on the dock to meet me.  We drove to 58 West 85th Street in a taxi – and went out to a restaurant where we had a somewhat late breakfast and a long talk.

Up till last Sunday, we both had separate single rooms on the top floor of this house – but we have now got quite a nice little flat on the first floor of the same building.  We have a small kitchen now – and are therefore able to make our own breakfast instead of going out to have it at a restaurant.  We also cook our own dinner here most evenings so we are really very comfortable.  Wouldn’t you like to come here to dinner with us?  We should love it if only you could.  We would put on a specially good dinner for you.

Your daddy arrives here the day after tomorrow – so I shall see him the same evening.  Unfortunately I shall not be able to get away from business to go and meet him at the dock – but I think Uncle Bobbie will be able to manage it.

Uncle Bobbie has written a letter to you and is sending it off by the same mail as this will go by. 

His hobby at present is keeping tropical fish and turtles.  The fish are very pretty in colour and very small – have you ever seen any?

I shall be interested to hear how your school dance went off and whether your mummy was able to get a dancing partner.  I don’t think she would experience half as much trouble as you seemed to anticipate.

I congratulate you on being the head of your form but you must not let the responsibilities bother you too much.  Remember that whatever happens, it will be all the same 100 years from today.

I must stop now, as I have numerous letters to answer – and in every case replies are long overdue.

Heaps of love from Leicester.


Hampstead, NW3; 8 Jan 1926

My dear old thing

One of the most famous of our many illustrious poets once made a notable discovery and immortalised it by given the world those inspiring words, ‘How time flies!’.  I don‘t remember off-hand who it was, but probably Marshall or Snellgrove or Pete Robinson.

Well, this preamble leads me to what I want to say – and that is how true those words are.  Here we are, two weeks from Xmas and not a word have I sent you to thank you for the book you so kindly sent me.  Appreciative as I am of the book, even more so am I of the very kind thought which prompted you to send it and tho’ my thanks come late – they are none the less sincere.  Please forgive my neglect which I assure you has not been wilful.

Please tell Virginia how much I have enjoyed having her beautiful flowers to look at.  It has been a ray of sunshine typifying her own sweet smile.

If they would not be too bored, I should love Betty, Alastair and Virginia to come over with you one afternoon next week to tea.  Would you let me know if they would like to – and if so, which day would suit you best.  Any day except Tuesday and Friday, these being the afternoons my practitioner comes.

Best New Year wishes to you all and lots of love from Leicester.


Hampstead, Monday

My dear Ethel

I am very glad to hear you can all come over on Thursday.  I shall look forward with much pleasure to seeing you.

Your news about Dorothy doesn’t in the least surprise me – in fact, it is as I predicted.  All the same, I am very sorry for her.

We will exchange news bulletins on Thursday

Love to you all, Leics


Letters from Gladys Cade

The Green, Southgate: May 7th 1899

Dearest Mother

I hope you are quite well.  We were so disappointed that Mable and Marjery could not come on Satday.  Mary went to there house on Friday to ask them and they had just gone out to see some of their friends.  I can ride a bycicle now and I can start my self and I can get off in a way I think it is lovely.

Baby has not been vaccinated yet.  We did have such a lovely box of sweets sent to us nobody nowes how it is from they are most lovely sweets in it.  I hope you will not mind the spelling.  It was very cind of you to sent me that little book.  Would you mind if I was to use your paint box againg be cause I do take grate care of it.

Jim sends his love to you and baby does to I expect don’t you and you now all the animals.

From your loving Gladys


309 Military Road, Cremorne: Sept 4th 1934 (addressed to Lily Lankford, 6 The Close, Southgate)

My very dear Family and Lily

Thank you just ever so much for your lovely letters, I got them this morning when I came ashore.  We left Melbourne on Saturday morning and we ran into a really dreadful storm, it was horrid and I felt so ill and when we arrived, the Pilog cutter could not get near us for ever so long on account of the sea, so I could not come ashore yesterday.  I did this morning and the doctor came and fetched me and Quilla was ever so pleased to see me and all that, she is going to have a baby next month, so I shall be able to help her make some of her things. 

Oh, dear! I really would give the world to be able to say I was coming home when Bill comes, I feel at present I dare not stop in Australia while he goes home, but of course, you know what a silly ass I am when I get away anywhere.

My dear Theo, what a night you did have really, you dear people, are screams.  I am glad Ethel, you are all having such a nice time and I do hope your holidays will do you all a lot of good.  Oh!  Lily, I am so glad you love my little Mona so much, I do really feel so happy about her, while you are looking after her.

Thank you, Auntie Adeline, so much for your letter, dear.  I was ever so glad to get it.  Everyone on the Port Bowen was as kind as they could be and my dears, while we were in Melbourne, Bill was in Sydney, so he got leave from the office and came down to Melbourne by train and he arrived on Thursday mid-day and we were together until my ship left, on Saturday morning.  Phyllis Berry took us for a most lovely drive up the Dandilon Mountains, we were out all day, it was a really wonderful day.

Bill was a perfect darling, and ever so well and adorable.  Will you give this stamp to Annette, I will try to get more to Nickie later on and John, if he collects them.

I do hope Nickie had a nice birthday and thank you very much for the photos, they are very good, aren’t they.  This is a very nice house, and very comfy but, Oh dear, I have a very sad heart at present, I’m afraid – this afternoon, I got a very lovely and altogether sweet letter from Bill, and when he comes back up north I am going to Brisbane – it is about another 500 miles north, heavens, by the time I get home, I shall be a very well-travelled person but, all the same, my own little home and all you dear people are the best.

Quilla and I went for a walk this evening, of course I am glad we shall not have to dash about to different places all the time, but I can see when I go back to Melbourne I shall be fairly rushed off my feet.  Tomorrow I shall get all my luggage and be able to get all my things out and give them a shake.  Captain Kirkwood, such a dear, who is something to do with the docts, is looking after my chair and my tea things for me until I come back again.

Please give my love to the children, I will ask about Mr Asser, who I do not know.  Also give my love to my sweetie pie and Min and Mee.  I will write again soon, but I do not like really to stop and do any more now.

So, my dear, I will send you all lots of love and Auntie and Lily thank you both, my dears, for your prayers, they have been answered, dear.

Best love to you all

From your very, very , loving Gladys


Commonwealth& Dominion Line,TSS  Port Auckland.  Oct 29th 1934

My dearest Family and Lily

Thank you all for your letters, I will write you all in turn and thank you, Lily for your photo, it is very good, also for the one of Molly, she does look a sweet little girl.  Did any of you take any photos while you were away?  If you did, do send me some snaps – I have taken some but my camera is now broken so when it is mended I hope to get some more nice ones. 

On Saturday evening, we went into Melbourne with the Miss Marshalls and they took us all around the town to see the lights, they were really lovely, and so gay, the fire station is the best, it looks just as if it was on fire, and steam all coming out of it, which really looks like smoke.  I wonder if I shall see the Duke while he is in Melbourne and then after we had seen the lights, we went and saw Scotts plan – oh, you would love to see it, it is bright red and such a beauty.  We got quite close to it and touched it.  Then, yesterday, Sunday, Ted and Randall came down in Ted’s car and took us for a lovely drive up the hills and we were joined by Phyllis and Nelsonand the girls in the other car – so you see, we were quite a large party, eight of us, and we all went to tea at a sweet little place called The Red Mill, and on our way back, we saw some Aborigines throwing boomerangs, it was most interesting and very wonderful the way they always come back to them.

One old man came over and talked to us – you can guess how dreadful I am feeling ab out being left in Australia alone, it is quite bad enough when Bill goes away when I am home, but I just feel dreadful about being out here alone.  Still, I suppose it is rather silly if I do not stay for a bit now I have got as far as this, and just wait until he comes out next time and then come back, so as to get home about the same time as Bill does.

I have been fairly dashing around the place these past two weeks – I went to Brisbane by train and then back by boat and then down to Melbourne by train.  I met a man on the train, going to Brisbane, quite a nice, kind old thing, the Hon J F Coates, I will tell you all about it when I get home, and I had a very good time on the Crungal coming back to Sydney and then, when I came to Melbourne by train and came with some men out of the Dutch plain, they were great fun and fairly travelled with me all the time.  Ted me me at Melbourne and, so to speak, saw me off to Geelong, where I joined the ship and am still there.  I shall stay with Bill now until he goes home, heaven how sick inside that makes me feel.

I am so glad you are all well at home and I do hope baby still likes school.  Also I hope, Lily, your father has arrived allright and that he is well.  I will write you a letter in a day or so, thank you so much for your letter; and also Theo, thank you so much, dear, for your letter.  I will write you in a day or so; also Virginia, thank you, dear, also; and Ethel, thank you.  I will also answer you.  They have had such a lot of rain in Australia that there are miles of floods, but still, today is quite nice and fine but not at all hot.  They say it is very cold for the time of year.

Bill went ashore this morning for some fruit for me – the most lovely oranges they are, so much nicer when they ripen on the tree than when we get them at home.

I will send one of the petticoats in a day or so, Theo, I do hope you will like it, I am very keen o it and I will finish the others in a few days’ time.  I got some more dark blue silk sponge cloth, quite nice for 7½d a yard, so I got 5½yds and I have made quite a nice frock for the mornigns, so you see it was quite cheap, only 3/6 for a frock.  Quilla got some as well, but she has got to get hers made for her, so it will cost her more.  Bill sends his love to the family, and so does Quilla and I say:

Well, my dears, I don’t think there is much more news.  Oh!  Lily, perhaps you had better cut a small bit of grass out round the rose trees, if they are not doing very well.  With best love to you all

From Gladys

Thank you, Auntie, for the card, it does look a ncie place.  I am ever so keen to see your little home.  Please, Lily, give my love to Sweetie Pie, Minnie and Mee.


225 Bank Road, Nov 12th

My dearest Ethel and family

This is to wish you all a very happy Xmas.  How I wish I was going to be home with you all, but I don’t expect I will ever do this trip again so I suppose it is best to make the most of it while I can.  On Saturday, I went and saw the air pageant, it was very nice and we had quite a good day and yesterday we all went to the Dedication of the Shrine.  I was a wonderful service and I am very glad I saw it, but it has fairly bowled me over, I have got a beast of a back and a bad head, because it was so hot in the sun.  it does seem so funny to be having such hot weather now, when I suppose you, dear people, are all cold.  I am so sunburnt, I really feel when I come home no-one will know me.

Now, dear, please will you get something, for about 10/- for Auntie Adeline and give Elizabeth, Alastair and Virginia 10/- each for Xmas from me and the £1 is for you, dear, so please get something you want.  I will try to get a few small things for you all when I come home, but really there is nothing here that one cannot get in London.  Melbourne is a really very beautiful city and I do wish some of you were with me.  Phyllis has gone away for ten days motor tour, so I am on my own, which is rather lonely when you do not know people and it is not your own home.

So I am going to make a black lace frock for myself while she is away and a green silk frock.  I got the silk at a sale for 7d a yard; just the colour of my green hat.  I have picked such a lovely lot of flowers this morning out of the garden for the house so it really looks quite gay.

Well, my darlings, I do hope you are all well and happy and I do hope you will see my precious while he is home and be very nice to him.

Best love to you all, Ethel, Arthur, Elizabeth, Alastair, Virginia and Mr Woo.

From your loving, Gladys


225 Bank Rd, Melbourne: Nov 19th

My dearest family

Just fancy, tomorrow is Mother’s birthday, bless her.

Today I got some lovely letters, thank you, Auntie Adeline, it is sweet of you to write and I am so very sorry you are having a bad time with your teeth, also I am looking forward to seeing your little house.  I am sure it will be very nice.  Of course, I am seeing a lot of wonderful things and Edward is a perfect dear, I just love him and  must say this last week has been lovely.  Phyllis is away, she is, of course, very nice, but is so nervy, she really tires one out.  When she is home, I just spend all my time finishing things she starts, she never seems able to settle to anyting.

So glad Dot had such a lovely time with you, Auntie, I guess you did both have a very happy time.  Nearly all the time Bill and I were together was wonderful, but I miss him very much and, of course, now I am looking forward to the time when he gets back and then, when he leaves, I hope to be about a week or two before him.

Thank you, Lily, for the paper cutting.  I am now sending you on.  Never mind about the hot water bottle.  Just fancy Mona being so fond of onions, she really is a funny little thing.  I also wish I could see the garden; this garden is really very lovely and, of course, everything grows so fast. 

I am going to try and bring back a nice lot of seeds and things for my garden when I come.  How lovely the garden will look in the Spring, thanks to you dear people.  Really, Lily and Mr Lackford, you are dears to do so much, also it is ever so kind of Douglas.  Thank goodness Molly is better , poor little sweet, I am sorry she has been so ill, but thank goodness she is better now – and give my love to Frances and tell her how glad I am she is better.

How sweet of Nickie to get the chocolate for his mother, you see, he will turn out a lovely sort of man, because he has such a kind streak in him.  And, of course, they will all be darlings.

Oh, well, my daer, I am sorry you are having so much trouble with Nellie.  I wonder why she is so trying – still, do not worry about it.  I think you are doing wonderfully with your money and thank you, dear, for being so good.  God bless you.  Yes, Lily, it was my evening coat, it really is smart, but not it is loose, I will have to have a bit taken in, that is if I remain as I am, which I hope I do, only I would like to get thinner.

I was so sorry to hear about Mrs Dar.  I have written to them, also I am very sorry you did not know, as I would, of course, have liked to send some flowers.

Thank you for the message from Dr Shepherd, I do hope he is a bit happier now, poor old darling.  Really, I do thing Fred is the limit, he is silly not to be more careful about his jobs.  I am afraid, Lily, when I get back, Mona will not want me any more, she will have got to love you so much.

Please give my love to your dear Dad, from me.  Of course, I have always said  Mona has not got the manners of a lady, has she, poor little darling.  I am so glad dear old Min and Mee are well and happy and I am so glad they all love you so much, Lily.  I am sorry about Bill TRodd’s man, he must have something the matter with him to get so thin as that.  I do hope he will soon be better.

Yes, I’m afraid also that Bertie and Fred will not be very happy unless she changes in her ideas a bit.  I expect she was glad to get the Pyrex casserole, it was good of you.

Thank you, Ethel, very much for the snaps – they are lovely.  How nice looking Arthur is, I gues you are proud of him and really Virginia is a sweet kid, but how tall she has got, I shall have to carry a  box around with me to stand on when I am with her.  The one of you with the dogs is really lovely and the other one shows your lovely hands very well.

The big hat Tina lent me has had a great deal of use, I can tell you.

Thank you just ever so much for your letter, Ethel, dear.  I am sorry I am such a bad hand and letters, but as you know, I really never was much good.  I am so glad you have one of those boxes – the darlings gave me one, as well.

You must not suffer any pangs because, dear, I know just how you feel and I am really praying hard for you all, and, if we go on doing that, I feel sure all will come well, dear. 

I have wiped my mind, dear, except for my prayers, dear.  I have had quite a lot of tricks, as you call them.   I must say, dear, the Australian’s are not slow workers.  Help!!!!  I did, indeed, enjoy my stay in Brisbane, it was wonderful and I will have such a lot to tell you all when I come back.  I am afraid the peaches do not restart until January or February, but you bet, when they do, I shall be there.

Maybe Bill will tell you about the Hon G F Coates, MLC.  He rang me up from Sydney the other day and Phyllis was quite upset, she really is funny.  No, dear, I have not seen Bill Bird, but Nelson is going to get home of him for me.  But I hear he has quite spoiled himself and is suffering from a very swelled head.  It does seem a pity, because they say he was so nice when he first came out.

Also I have not been able to get hold of Jack Daw yet.  I do wish I could get some of the lovely flowers over to you, they are wonderful.  Really, you are a scream about the bath sponge.

Yesterday, we went to the sea and had a lovely time.   Edward left his car for us so a Mrs Olsen, such a dear, Nelson, and two girlfriends of his went and we had a lovely time and had tea at such a sweet little place.  Of course, Phyllis has got the Packard, they have all gone to Portland, about 300 miles away.  She drives very well and they are taking it is easy stages and staying with friends on the way. 

On Saturday, Edward took me out to dinner and the pictures – I loved it.

Heller and I are having a lovely time, nice and quiet, and she is such a nice girl and a wonderful  cook and a really good maid.  She says she would like to live like this with me always.  So you see, I don’t seem to have gone off much.

I am sorry, but my camera got hurt so I am afraid I will not get any photos, still I will try and tell you everything when I see you all. 

My best love to you all from your ever loving, Gladys

I may get some more letters tomorrow.  If so, I will answer them.  Oh, the other day, I went to tea with Elsie Holmes (Cooper).  She has four girls and a small boy, very spoilt.  I really never was in such an uncomfortable house in my life and so untidy and dirty, really I nearly had a fit.  When I went there 10 years ago, with Mother and Aunt Georgie, the front steps were broken – and they still are; no curtains; no carpets, only a few matting rugs, and it really did seem dreadful.  Still, she seems quite happy and it does not seem to worry her at all.

Poor old Jack Daw turned up while I was having my lunch; heaven, he does look old and he is ill and has a bad back and has to walk very slowly, so he is going to see a doctor this afternoon and, if he has to go into hospital, he says he will let me know and then I can go and see him.  But he does not want Mrs Daw, or Nell, to now he may have to go into hospital.  He had just got a letter from England telling him about Mr Daw, so don’t tell them he is so bad.

Well, now, I must write to Bill, my dears.

While we were at dinner last night, the telephone rang and it was from the Melbourne hospital to say Mr Daw had been admitted this morning.  I rang up and they said he had had a comfy night and I shall go and see him tomorrow.

Oh, dear, I do wish he wold go home, he really does want someone to look after him and he never seems able to keep any money, even when he makes quite a lot.

If you can, Lily, will you ring Auntie Polly and tell her I have been to see Mrs Holmes, but don’t, of course, mention what I said.  Do you know, I cannot get it out of my mind – I suppose the place is never tidy, because she asked me the Thursday before to go to tea on the Wednesday.

Well, if you have any snaps, Theo, darling, I do wish you would have sent them, but if you send them when you get this, I will be in time because I have got to wait until Bill comes out next time.

My best love to you all.

From your ever-loving, Gladys


225 Bank Road, Dec 11th

My dearest Family and Lily

Thanks for the letters, also the cuttings from the papers, I do hope I am going to have one of those photos of Lena when I come home.  Also Gertrude does look nice, doesn’t she.  I would love to have been there to see the wedding – no, dear, I did not see Scott & Black, but I did see the plan and I touched it.  No, I have not seen the swarms of grasshoppers but I have heard them making such a noise it sounds just like a saw mill going all the time and it is really quite true what they say in the papers but it is some way from us.  Also I have seen the floods and they are truly dreadful.  I expect you will see pictures of them but I just cannot describe them on paper, I must wait until I get home.  I am going to Sydney soon after Xmas but I expect Bill will give you my address, but if you still send letters to this address, they will send them on for me.

I am so sorry you are having sucha  bad time with the people in the flat below, that is the limit, I do hope they have stopped by now.  I do hope the new maid will be a success and I do hope Edith is jolly, Theo, dear, and doing better.

We are having nice hot days now, and I am a dreadful colour, a sort of brick red, which is really dreadful but I always have a big hat but even then the sun gets me.  I quite agree with you about going to a hospital or nursing home, Ethel, but out here nearly everyone goes away to have their babies, I think it dreadful.  You would love baby Crawford, she is a pet and so good, just lies in her cot all day and never cries very much.

Peaches have started to come in now – at first, rather expensive, say 6d or 8d a lb; it does make me smile, one never thinks anything of eating three or four – as you can guess. 

This evening we – Edward, Phyllis and I – are going out to an evening with some people.   Phyllis and Del are out now, so I thought I would write while I was alone.

I was so sorry to hear about the Pinchards having to give up Egham Close, it does seem hard luck, doesn’t it.  I am now, of course, just waiting for a cable from Bill to say what he is doing, because I am now just longing to come home.  I think I have been away quite long enough.  How lovely about the money, I am glad.  Also, dear, I quite agree with you, it would be a very good idea to hold on to Bobbie’s if you can.  My dear, I am so sorry you are still having so much trouble with the New York house, it does seem a shame, doesn’t it.

Thank you, Lily, very much for your letter, my dear, and for all you are doing.  I am sure the home and garden must really look very nice now, and I am just longing to see it again.  Don’t forget to let me know just everything about how you get on while Mr Johnston is home, and if he seems  happy, and if he misses me.  And oh! Well, I think you know.  I have done quite a nice lot of work, odd tray cloths and things to give to people for Xmas.  I do so wonder if they will change the ship this tip or if he will still come out to Stralia.  I would love to have been on the Bowen coming home, so we were together all the time.  How I would have loved that.

I have done my washing and ironing today and, as I am on my own, I thought I would get this letter done.  What a sweetie pie Mona is, I will be pleased to see her again, and Min and Mee, bless them.  And I do hop[e you will all keep well and not get flu, or anything, this winter.  Do be sure and take care of yourselves.

There is not really very much news but still, I will write again soon.  Best love to you all and God bless you my dears, from your loving, Gladys


225 Bank Road, East Malvern, Melbourne: Dec 20th

My dearest family and Lily

Thank you for your letter, it must have been a wonderful day on the 11th, it was very wonderful at the Shrine.  I have sent some papers of the town so you will see a bit what it is like.  Well, my dears, when you get this, I will have started my long journey home, sweet home.  I leave Melbourne on Feb 8th, Auntie Adeline’s birthday, so please, Lily, will you ring her up and wish her very many happy returns from me.  I will arrive in Jull on March 28th.  I just hate having to come all the way down from Hull, but still, it will soon be over and will you bring a car to the London station, Lily, to fetch me.   I will, of course, send a wire to say what time.

Oh!  I am so excited at the idea of seeing you all again, I do hope you will all come and see me quite soon.  You can guess I was pretty upset when I got the cable from Bill, also I see it was sent from Southgate, therefore, on the telephone bill, that will be nice for me.  Also I have a feeling that perhaps I could not say what I feel.  Oh, I do hope I am not right.

We are having lovely hot weather, but of course, it does not feel at all like Xmas as you can guess.  I have made things for nearly everyone out here, so I have been very busy.  I am going to Margaret’s on Thursday for about a week and then back to Sydney, and I shall sail from there.  I do not know anyone on the boat, but I shall get Captain Kirkwood to see I have everything nice and comfy.  I have not had a letter yet from Bill, it does seem such a long time since he went away.

Twice I have rung Bill Bird but he has been out each time and, when I have asked each time that he would ring me, he does not, so I will give him one more chance and, if he does not take the trouble, then I am afraid he can get on with it.

I have worked a tray cloth for Phyllis for Xmas and I took it to a place where they sell lovely work to get the thread for the edge and the dame there, who teaches fancy work, said it was fit for an exhibition, so I was very pleased, as you can guess.  Also I have done a tablecloth for Quilla – I do hope she will like it as well.  On my way back, I am going to do some more, nice bits for you people I hope, that is, if I am not sick all the time.

Thank you, Lily, for the paper cutting, also how sweet of little Mona.  Oh! Dear, I really feel as it I just cannot wait until February 8th but I expect the time will soon go.  I do hope the little frock will soon come from Edmunds’ Orr.  I am busting to see it – also I have made myself some quite pretty undies, I think when I get home, I will try and get some orders for work, because I love doing it.

Now I will only be able to stay with Margaret for about a week, but she and Walter are coming to England in April, so they are rather the tin hat, talk about swank, I do hope Margaret will not blow up one day.

Oh! The flowers, they are so lovely, I do wish I could bring lots back to you all and the peaches are now 4d lb and just lovely and the mangoes – heaven.  I could go on till I bust.  Pineapples are rather expensive now, about 1/9 or 2/- each, huge ones. 

I do hope Theo, dear, you  have got the petticoats and that they are all right.  I have not got enough stuff for another so I think I will make it when I get home.  Please give my love to all the children.  I will send a cable for Xmas to everyone and it can be sent through to each one.  I am sure the garden will look lovely and I am so excited to see it, and that everything will be lovely when I get home.

Thank you all, darlings, for everything you are doing for me, lovely letters and all the work.

Best love to you all

From your very loving and excited

Gladys.


Very early letters

April 11th 1863

Dear Delphia wished me never to allow Trotty and Della to live apart and not to be separated except when Della may go to Mrs Collins on a visit.

To have them both living with me and to have them educated together at home under my own care.

To be dressed alike and in every way treated as sisters and every care to be taken to cause them to love each other.

To live in or near to Epsom so that the children can be visited by Grandma and their Aunts and so that they can visit their dear Mamma’s grave.

Delphia’s pink silk dress (presented to her by SC) to be taken care of for Trotty when she grows up.

Delphia’s underclothing and black silk dress, etc etc, to be used up for her dear little Trotty only and her rings, lockets, brooches, etc to be saved for her and given to her when she has grown up, to be kept by her for her dear Mamma’s sake.

She wished me to give all the baby clothing to her sister, Sarah, for her great kindness shown to her at all times, particularly during her illness.

Della wants new drawers and she wished her to have some made out of the piece of new calico to be found in the cupboard upon the landing.

On the 21st March, before we were married, I presented a small daisy to Delphia in some fields near to Nottingham which she has dearly prised and which she requests me to take care of, for her sake.


On August 16th, min the year but one before we were married, I first saw Delphie at Mr A Hebbs, Park Terrace, Nottingham.

Mr Myles now with me.


Died on April 15th 1863 at 9.20pm

And Buried, April 30th in Epsom Churchyard.

Present at the funeral

Rev J Hay

Rev J Heaton

Joshua Ward, Surgeon

Mr Thomas Coote

Mr S Cropper

Mr H Wright

And myself.


Carpenters Lane, Foleshill: July 20th 1870

Dear Mamma

I should so love to see the baby.  I like staying here but I want to come home.  Della had a letter from Grandmamma Wright, is she staying at our house?  I suppose if we were at home, we should have to go to school so I would rather stop here.  I think Lippy is coming to our house when Grandma Smith goes with us perhaps she will come back with us.  We went to Coventry to Chapel of Sunday and on Monday and yesterday and to Grandma Smith’s today.

Anne has brought baby today, she has just come.  Grandmother said we might come home when you send for us, so be quick.

With love to baby and all the rest of your Grandmamma

I remain your loving daughter

Trotty

I have not a piece of India rubber to rub out the lines.


Dearest Mrs Puss

I hope you and all our friends are quite well.  Pussey (sic) here is very well.

We are coming, perhaps.  I hope your friend Dick is quite well, give my love to him and give him many kisses.  I hope they give your dinner.  Will you write and tell me where you sleep.  I hope you do not get disturbed. 

Accept much love and many kisses, I remain your dear friend, Trot.  Give lot to all friends and tell Della I got her a sunshine for her.


Dear Trot

I suppose I must answer your letter, I hope it will be fine on Monday.  I am very glad that Flit has run away, I, who am always inclined to lead a quiet life, did not approve her unsettled habits and therefore I think it was quite as well for her to leave the country and go abroad.

Della is trying to make me sit on the table to tell her what to say but I do not like it at all.  My master has made a hole in the door for my special accommodation that I may have a good supper every night.

I caught a mouse last night which I liked very much.  I am just washing myself now.

I want to give your love to one of my friends through the window but I found I could not get through the glass so I made a great noise and startled the people in the room.  You made a mistake when you called Dick my friend.  I should like to hug your Dickie, a great deal better. 

Much love to you, your loving friend Puss


Killiney, Hatherley Road, Sidcup: 1 October 1898

My darling Ethel

We are thinking so much about you and when you get this we shall be wishing you ‘Very Many Happy Returns of your birthday’.  We should like to give you a big hug and tell you how much we love you, if we could.  I wish I had thought the other day to ask what you and Gladys would like.  I remember when a little girl having a book given me the title of which was ‘Little Mary, or God in Everything’.  I was so fond of that book.  Now I want you, my dear Ethel, to remember who has given you so many good things, such a lovely house, garden, pets, etc and all the love that is around and all comes from God whose nature and whose name is love.

I know you love Him, you are by obedience and little acts of kindness showing your love, I have no doubt, and in doing your best at school.  May you always know Jesus as your loving Saviour and Father.

Fondest love and kisses, from your loving Grandma MAS

John Wright

(1802 – 1853)

Surgeon and Poet

Family records show that John was born 13 March 1802 at Bingham, Nottinghamshire.  This small village is to be found eight miles due east of Nottingham itself, measured from the centre.  The old Roman road, known as the Fosse Way (from fossa, a ditch) runs roughly north eastward just a mile to the west of Bingham, after a king four miles south where the north east becomes  (perhaps) north east by north.  This left of the road is running from Leicester to Newark.  The whole road runs from Axminster to Lincoln.

Bingham takes its name, probably, from being a ‘woodland clearing of the family or followers of a man called Bynner, an Old English personal name (per Oxford Dictionary of English Place Names 2nd edition 1997, by AD Mills).  It is specifically noted as being mentioned in Domesday Book (1086) as Biingheham.

Wright, as a surname, is noted widely across the country and is, understandably, the term for a carpenter or joiner.

The registers for the parish of Bingham show his baptism on 22 August, the son of Joseph and Philadelphia.  Their marriage has been found, also at Bingham on 6 October 1799.  A very helpful rector of the parish in the years 1955-62, who was pleased to examine the registers and write of his findings, was (retired) Bishop A Morris Gelsthorope, former Bishop in the Sudan, who was at King’s School Canterbury with Jim Flower and who recalled meeting him, returning to France after leaving during WWI.

Joseph Wright is shown as a miller and grocer in county directories.

A major source of information about John Wright has been second-cousin-once-removed, Dudley Jarrett (1902-1972), grandson of John’s daughter, Decima, who married Samuel Cropper.  He greatly valued this descent and the documentary evidence he possessed and was happy to share the information from that archive with his relatives.

The resources of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, the Mormons, have been the greatest value in filling out the rather sparse early information.  While we knew little of John’s siblings, we had no idea of how many there were, or of where they were baptised.  It is here that the International Genealogical Index (IGI) was of such great assistance.

Within their church, the Mormons desire – and evidently require – genealogical information about their forbears to be able, post mortem, to include them in their church records as recognised persons within their church.  To effect this they have, throughout Europe – and particularly in Britain – copied official parish registers of baptisms and marriages (but not deaths).  Wright being a very common surname, there were very many pages of entries – too many to copy in their entirety to examine at leisure.  In fact, the pages numbered 21,721 to 21,913, that is 193 pages of Wrights in Nottinghamshire, with up to sixty entries (baptism or marriage) per page!

What the IGI showed was that John was the second child of his parents.  The first was Anne, who was baptised at Bingham on 20 November 1799 or 1800.  There is some confusion, not understood here, but presumably the latter is the correct date, being some 13 months after the marriage.

Next, the IGI comes fully into play.  It was necessary to examine every Nottinghamshire page on which Wright occurs, to seek the baptism of children of Joseph and Philadelphia.  It if had been, say, John and Elizabeth – or any other pair of the most commonly used Christian names, the result would have been an amalgam of many different families, thus requiring places and dates to be examined to make a plausible family.  However, in Joseph and Philadelphia we were lucky.  Having noted them all, we only then had to put them in date order.  There was evidently only the one so-named couple.

Thirdly came William, baptised 27 June 1804 at Papplewick.  This little village is eleven miles north west of Bingham and thus seven miles north, north west of Nottingham

And, at the same place, the fourth child, Joseph, was baptised on 13 December 1805 or 1806.  The confusion is not understood.

Then, on 27 January 1808, was baptised Thomas, the fifth child, at Bulwell, four miles almost due south of Papplewick, where the family remained, now only three miles north west from the centre of Nottingham.

The next five children, completing the family, were all baptised there:

Henry 5 February 1811

Philadelphia 5 November 1813

Samuel 6 December 1816

George 2 August 1818

Mary 4 April 1820

There were, thus, seven sons and three daughters to make up the total family of ten children.

It was only in Mary’s baptismal entry that father Joseph was, for the first time, described not only as a miller, but a grocer also.

If John went to school at an early age, this would probably have been at Bulwell, where the family had removed at least by early 1808, before he was six and, possibly, any time after late 1806.  These surmises are based on the dates and places of Joseph’s and Thomas’ baptisms.

Haydn’s Dictionary of Dates mentions riots in Nottingham, in which the rioters ‘broke frames, etc’ in the period 14 November 1811 to January 1812.  And, in April 1814, there was ‘much similar mischief’.  At Bulwell, in these years, the family were probably well away from the disturbances.  The ‘frames’ were evidently key parts of the manufacturing machinery of local industry, or lace-making or weaving.

William White’s Directory of Nottinghamshire of 1832 (no earlier directory has yet been traced, says of Bulwell: ‘In the vale of the Leen, 4 miles NNW of Nottingham, is a populous village and parish where there are three bleach works, a lace thread mill, three corn mills, several extensive limestone quarries and kilns and a number of stocking frames and bobbin net machines.  It contains 2,611 inhabitants and upwards of 1,600 acres of land, all enclosed except 120 acres in the open forest.  The church, dedicated to St Mary, stands upon a steep declivity.  The Wesleyan and Primitive Methodists and the Baptists have each a chapel here.  The Free School was erected in 1668 and the master teaches eight free scholars.’

Recollections induced by the recovery of a stone that furnished a mutual source of pleasure to me and my sister during childhood’ opens a small window on the simple pleasures of early days.  This they rolled along the ground with great delight, but while ‘the childish friends that gathered near’ had all survived, his sister, ‘to whom my youthful heart with pure affection always glowed’, had not.  He ends with:

Her spirit, freed from eath’s embrace

Darts o’er the bright celestial plains

To swell the theme of saving grace

In lovely and immortal strains.

Oh! that I might in heaven renew

That hallowed intercourse of mind

Which ripened as we hourly grew

Till she her precious life resigned.

Fifteen six-line verses tell another story of childhood, the story of willow trees beside the river Leen, by his youthful dwelling and to which he became attached.  When the plan was to cut them down, his please for two to be reprieved, ‘to calm his anxious breast,’ the boon was granted.  For when domestic murmurs drove him from the scene, he always went directly to these spreading trees and ‘recreated there at ease’.  Between these trees, he made a garden.  But later these two were sought to be felled.  But he was granted the reprieve of one.  When this, however, died, he and his mother twined osiers ‘to form a thickly verdant bower, impervious to the hasty shower’. And here she liked to sit.  And, when ‘her soul exhaled – and went to heaven……. those willows form a weeping bower.’

What greatly surprises me is that nowhere do it find John delighting in the fact that the Leen, which flows on its way to Nottingham from the lake before Newstead Abbey, ancestral home of his much admired ‘illustrious Byron’, was quietly flowing past his beloved willows.

We do know, for a certainty, that John attended a school at Hucknall.  This most useful information comes from a note to his poem, ‘The Blackbird’ which appears on page 60 of his ‘Poetry, Sacred & Profane’.

The road from Bulwell to Hucknall Torkard (the second half of this name appears no longer to be used), passing through the estate of the Rev Alfred Padley (Lord of the Manor) affords in summer a delightful treat to the lovers of rural scenery.  The school at Hucknall, but a few yards distant from the church in which lie the remains of the illustrious Byron, though it presents not now a like claim to distinction was, at the period, I allude to, conducted by the Rev Joseph Bosworth, whose researches in Anglo-Saxon literature have earned for him a place in the esteem of every distinguished European scholar.’

Attention to this substantial footnote is drawn by an asterisk at the end of lines ‘…. Yielding cheerfully to rule, I bounded lightly o’er the green, in journeying to the distant school’.

It is no surprise to learn that John was no reluctant scholar.  Ever a lover of the natural world, the four mile walk would have fed his soul.

This footnote is a real nugget of information.

Bosworth merits more time than a page in the Dictionary of National Biography, though the article is critical of his published works.

Joseph Bosworth DD (1789 – 1876) was educated at Repton, Aberdeen and Trinity, Cambridge.  His Latin publications tempt us to attribute to him John’s love, not only of literature but also his Latin scholarship.  After ordination as deacon in 1814, and as a priest in 1815, he was appointed to a curacy at Bunny, in Nottinghamshire.  Bunny is seven miles to the south of Nottingham, half way to Loughborough.  Bunny, being about nine miles from Hucknall, would surely have been too far for a daily journey at that time, so perhaps his school-mastering days were before his ordination, though John accords him reverence.  Could this school have catered for all John’s general studies, or might he have progressed elsewhere for his final years (say 1816-20) or so?  Wherever it may have been, we now know that it was not at the ancient Nottingham High School.

Not only was John a Latin scholar, but clearly he was proficient also in Italian, as demonstrated by his translation into English of two sonnets of Petrarch (Italian lyric poet and scholar 1304-74) at pages 192-195 of PS&P, as well as German – ‘The Story without an End’, on pp 247-253 and 334-336.

Another reference to his journey to school appears in a footnote (p97) to his volume ‘The Relative Influence…’ (which work will be referred to later).

…. a curious specimen….. appeared in one of two brothers, who journeyed with me daily to school, about three miles distant from the village in which we lived.  He was a hungry-looking, long jointed lad, the very counterpart of Noah Claypole (Noah Claypole was a charity boy, apprenticed with Oliver Twist, to Mr Sowerberry, the undertaker. ‘A large-headed, small-eyed youth, of lumbering make, and heavy countenance – a red nose, and yellow smalls – mother a washerwoman and father a drunken sailor).   Nor did his looks deceive the speculative observer; for he could east as never lad did beside him.  His mother was an indulgent creature: having provided a commodious receptacle for food, made after the fashion of a domestic clothes basket, but not quite so large, her next pleasure was to fill it, whensoever its interior bespoke a nevessity for her doing so, which was once in twenty-four hours.  The prevailing repast consisted of a ‘boiling’ of potatoes, interspersed with fragments of bacon, which the youths preferred to convey by means of a stick, to which their basket, with its contents, was suspended.  It was always a matter of complaint with him, whose consumption exceeded not that of other boys, that he should be compelled to carry half of the provision; and he would endeavour, occasionally, to shove the basket handle beyond the notch which, by parental authority, had been indicated in the middle of the rod.  If foiled in the attempt, his next contrivance was to get in advance of the starveling and importune him to come up with the load – a request which the latter always avowed the utmost willingness to comply with, on condition that he first be allowed the privilege of translating into his own stomach……’

Where, and when, he finished his school, we just don’t know.  He had surely moved on from the village school at Hucknall.

The ninth and tenth children of his parents, George and Mary, were baptised in 1818 and 1820 but had all his nine siblings survived?  Again, we don’t know.  The only survivor of whom we know for certain, was the eighth child, Samuel, baptised in 1816, of whom more will be heard.  The family were still to be at Bulwell, for the County director of 1832 lists there both Joseph Wright, grocer and miller, and also Joseph Wright, bobbin net maker but the occupations suggest two men of the same name.  The Nottingham director of 1834 is a little more helpful with ‘Millers: Wright, Joseph (steam), Bridge Street, h. at Bulwell.’

For how long John knew that he wanted to study medicine we have no idea.  Had he experienced, perhaps in the death of infant siblings, or other misfortunes of family or friends, a desire to minister to the sick, or was it, perhaps, a later decision when the time came to choose just what he would do with his life?  We are unlikely to find the answer to this.  However, his character suggests that he long knew just what he wanted to do.

He took his first step by becoming a surgeon’s pupil to Mr William Watts, who practised in Nottingham – the family doctor, or a friend, perhaps?  There is no hint as to the formal or financial arrangements.  Was there a contract signed?  Was there payment of a capital sum?  And was there a small wage?

If the study term were five years, which seems likely, he would have started in the spring of 1819, when he was seventeen years old.  So his schooling had ended by then.

Mr Watts is shown by the directory of 1814/15 in Bridlesmithgate.  The next available director is for 1828, when he was in Poultry.  So quite where John was with him is uncertain.  Mr Watts came from Kinoulton, Nottinghamshire, and was fourteen years John’s senior.

We must imagine them in the surgery and on visits together, the willing helper to the man of experience, the observer of all that the calling required of one.  All this for about three and a half years.  It has not proved possible to say exactly where all this took place.  The Nottingham library does not have town directories at this early date and the Royal College of Surgeons has no medical directories earlier than 1845.

The date 2 October 1822, in the Guy’s Hospital medical school register, now held by King’s College, London, seems to have been his starting date there.  On the same day, he was issued with an admission card to surgical operations and practice, but with no anatomy or dissections for twelve months.  He was a student for twelve months to 17 November 1823 and paid £1/2/- for the privilege – for the whole of his training?

The real evidence of his progress is the succession of related certificates of courses attended, studies completed and of his admission to membership of certain bodies (no pun intended!).  The whole series of ten of them was held by the late Dudley Jarrett.  However, the continued existence of them all is uncertain.  Some were given to fellow descendants, but the record of those known about is detailed below, in date order.

2 October 1822

Guy’s & St Thomas’s Hospitals

Admission card:

Admit John Wright, a pupil,

for twelve months to

the surgical operations and practice

Signed:  Wm Keall, Steward Richard Stocker, Apothecary

(No anatomy or dissections)

**

23 December 1822

MIDWIFERY

These are to Certify that

Mr John Wright has diligently

attended One Course of our Lectures on the

THEORY and PRACTICE of MIDWIFERY

and likewise attended and delivered in real labour

Witness our hands and seals at LONDON. 

This 23rd day of December in the

Year of Our Lord 1822

John Haighton James Blundell

(This certificate is held by the writer of these notes)

**

3 May 1823

THE LONDON DISPENSARY, Artillery Street, Bishopsgate Street

for administering advice and medicine

to the poor at the dispensary

or at their own habitations.

Instituted 1777

John Wright hath diligently attended

the medical practice

at this Institute during nine months

John B Davis MD R Gayton, Apothecary

**

4 May 1823

Two courses of lectures on General and Pathological Chemistry

And on the Natural, Chemical & Medical History

Of the Materia Medica

20 Norfolk Street, Strand

F Collier

**

APOTHECARIES OF THE CITY OF LONDON

John Wright, Member, 8 May 1823

**

9 May 1823

Theory and Practice of Medicine

John Wright diligently attended

2 courses of my lectures

David Unwins MD

**

20 January 1824

THEATRE OF GUY’S HOSPITAL

Three courses of lectures on Physiology

James Blundell

**

ROYAL COLLEGE OF SURGEONS

John Wright Member

5th March 1824

It is believed that this certificate is now in the possession

of Mr Hugh Wright Jarrett in Australia

**

John received a letter, dated 12 March 1824, from Astley Cooper attesting to his strict attention to his duties as a medical student and his confidence in him.  Cooper was later a baronet and became President of the Royal College of Surgeons.

And, in the following year, Astley Cooper wrote to him at King’s Place, Harvey Gate, Norringham, a letter of 25 November 1825, and marked ‘Entre nous’.  It sought his support for the ‘Resurrection Men’, who disinterred recently buried corpses for clinical dissection.  Both these letters were in the possession of Dudley Jarrett.

With his medical studies successfully behind him, and no doubt some medical practice in Nottingham, John was able to embark upon the next major step in his life.

A glimpse of his professional life is given in ‘An Epicurean Address’ (pp 30/21):

Engaged as I am in the arduous plan of treating disease, which compels me to walk many miles in a day, and incessantly talk to those who are either affectedly weak, or willing, but really unable to speak.’

On 2 October 1827, at the church or St Mary the Virgin, the major church in Nottingham, and in the presence of Samuel and Anne Hurst, he married Sarah, daughter of John Mackley of Radford, Nottinghamshire, and his wife, Lucy (nee Grew, of a family from Sibson in Leicestershire).  The only other personal information given by the formal certificate (it being still ten years before the institution of civil registration with its more comprehensive information requirements) was John’s residence within the parish of St Mary’s.

The immediate reaction to the certificate is to ask why there was no member of the family witnessing, but the Anne Hurst may well have been his elder sister, Anne, the first born of the family, now married.

John and Sarah’s first child, also Anne, was born on 20 October the following year (1828), with her name perhaps underlying a close bond with John’s own sister.  Perhaps this is the sister whose death he lamented in the verses recalling the finding of the stone with which they had both played in childhood, already quoted.

Sadly, though, daughter Anne died aged only a year and a half, on 21 April 1830.  She was buried at Holme Pierrepont, the first of a number of family burials noted there, a third of the way east from Nottingham towards Bingham, John’s birthplace.  Perhaps this was the former parish of the Wrights.

The loss of Anne was, perhaps, a little compensated for by the birth, two months before, of John on 26 February 1830.

In the following year, Philadelphia was born.  She was named after her aunt and grandmother and many other ancestors who bore this treasured name.  They are dealt with elsewhere.  She will, of course, be the focus of our attention later.

Haydn’s Dictionary of Dates reports that, on 31 December 1831, the castle at Nottingham was burnt to a shell by rioters during the ‘Reform Excitement’.  Although no mention of the event is found with reference to John, it must have been a tense time, and memorable.  The castle was restored in 1875 and is now a museum.

It was in about1832 that John took on an apprentice in the person of his brother, Samuel, who would have celebrated his sixteenth birthday in December of that year.  Reference to this event appears in the support of John for Samuel for his candidature in 1841, referring to nine years of work together.

On 21 March 1833, Sarah Anne was born, receiving her mother’s name with that of her aunt, and that of the first-born.  Then, on 6 February 1835, Hannah.

At about this time Samuel, John’s brother, born 1817, must have started his medical studies at Edinburgh University.  Did John perhaps help fund these studies?  And, if he didn’t, who might have done?

In furtherance of his researches for his book, ‘The Relative Influence of the Sexes….’, John embarked, in March 1835, upon an expedition to the west country and the reader should now refer to his own account, as set out on pages x to xiii in that book, incorporated therein.

And in September of that year, with the same aim in view, he undertook an expedition to Chesterfield, for a related purpose, set out on pages xiii to xvii, also incorporated herein.


THE RELATIVE INFLUENCE OF THE SEXES

PROLOGUE

In the month of March, 1835, I determined to investigate the claims of the Devonshire cattle to the flattering representation given of them, in the Treatise, published under the superintendence of the Society for the Diffusion of Useful Knowledge; and having business to transact in London, which could very shortly be disposed of, I proceeded by that route.  The first day was consumed in reaching the Metropolis, – the next in passing thence to Exeter, where I arrived late at night, after travelling, in two days, on the outside of coaches, a distance of two hundred and  ninety-seven miles, in unmitigated pain, arising from an obscure abdominal disturbance, of long standing, and counter-irritation, established for its cure. 

The judges were, at that time, on their circuits, and I could obtain no accommodation at either of the large inns in the town.  A fellow, after the class of those to be found often in the neighbourhood of such establishments, tendered his services to conduct me to an abode.  Five minutes stay, however, within its walls, served to convince me that both my person and property would be endangered by remaining; and, in angry mood, I rushed, unceremoniously, into the street, in search of a more hospitable roof. 

Whilst treating hastily along, and observing the previous bustle and anxiety of the day merge into the growing stillness of night, I was deploring the infatuation that had brought me thither, when, on a sudden, my reverie was interrupted by the separation of two elderly men at the door of one of the parties.

I mentioned my condition to the resident of the house, who, happening to be an innkeeper on a limited scale, was glad enough to entertain me.  On the following morning, I proceeded by coach to Barnstaple, in time for a quarterly cattle market, to be held there the next day.  The business of the market having been concluded, I rode a pony over ten or twelve miles of bad road, to the house of Mr Davy, of North Molton (a man of pleasing frankness and intelligence) with whom I passed an evening in profitable conversation.

Another day was spent in the inspection of Mr Davy’s beautiful herd of North Devon cattle, and in visiting Mr Tapp, of Twitching, and the Messrs; Quartley, of Molland for the same purpose.

At night, I reposed at South Molton, intending to proceed by the mail, that should pass through, the next morning, on its way from Barnstaple to Bristol, in my return home.  I rose by 6am and the mail not being expected till 9 o’clock, I slung my carpet-bag, weighing, with its contents, and an upper coat for which I had now little occasion, 17lbs, across my shoulder, and walked leisurely on to North Molton, for the sake of contemplating, from a hill in its immediate vicinity, a spot renowned for the excellence of its cattle, and one too, where I had recently experienced the greatest possible kindness.

After feasting my soul awhile in meditation, I wandered along a circuitous path, that led me to the Bristol road; and now I discovered that a walk of four or five miles had served to advance me about one and a half on my way home.  Presently the mail came up, and lo! It was full.  I had, therefore, the option to return to South Molton, where I must have remained unoccupied till the following day, or journey in a direction that should afford me no refreshment within the next fourteen miles. 

Not liking to retrograde, I pursued my way and, by noon, found myself comfortably seated at the Reindeer, near Bampton – having completed about eighteen miles, under the grievous burden already mentioned, without food.  Ten or twelve miles, if my memory serve me aright, yet lay betwixt me and Wiveliscomb, whither I was anxious to arrive that day.

Before doing so, I grew very tired; when observing a man of professional exterior approach, who was riding in the same direction, I begged that he would, for a few minutes, relieve me of my load.  Thinking, probably, that so great an act of condescension would ill accord with the dignity of his station, he refused; and I, feeling invigorated by the repulse, experienced little subsequent fatigue. 

Having reached Wiveliscomb, I passed the night there and, hastening on to Bristol the next day, arrived in time for the mail to convey me thence to Birmingham, by night; and at noon, on the eighth day, I was with my family, after travelling six hundred miles (five hundred on the outside of coaches), and that, too, under the pressure of unceasing pain.


At four o’clock one morning, in the latter part of September 1835, I set out for Chesterfield, where the Derbyshire Annual Agricultural meeting was about to be held, intending to proceed thence to Wiseton, for the purpose of enriching my stock of information, if possible, with some facts, derived from a survey of Earl Spencer’s short-horns.  By 11am, I had accomplished the first part of my undertaking; and after spending two hours in the show yard, I resumed my walk in the direction of Worksop.  In the village of Staveley, I had the good fortune to come up with a gentleman, who was driving thither, and who generously invited me to accompany him.  I now thought there was a prospect of reaching Barnby Moor that night, and immediately, on leaving my friend, proceeded along the road he had described, through Bilby, and arrived where I anticipated the comfort of repose, before 7 o’clock.

Whether the honour conferred on the posting establishment in Barnby, by her Majesty (then Princess Victoria) having been graciously pleased to sleep there, on her way to Doncaster, shortly before, had rendered its inmates insensible to the necessities of so mean a subject as myself, or whether it was the custom of the house to refuse an entertainment to pedestrians, I know not.  But this I know – it was denied to me; and, at the instance of those with whom my interview was conducted, I subsequently applied to another establishment in the same place, where, for my consolation, I was assured that they lodged none but coachmen and guards.

This negative, like the former, was accompanied with a friendly intimation that I should most likely be able to find an asylum elsewhere – that is to say, if I would incur the trouble of walking to Sutton.  The proposition was, in some measure, acceptable to me, since that village lay a mile nearer the estate I was about to visit.  Still I could hardly forbear to reproach myself for having risked so much bodily fatigue and mental torture, without the least probability of realising either an immediate or prospective advantage.

Already had I walked nearly forty miles, to say nothing of two hours’ exercise in Chesterfield; and had partaken of no food since my breakfast at Mansfield, excepting some bread and cheese, the best fare the good landlady, at whose house I rested awhile, in Staveley, could provide; and I was both hungry and tired.

While musing on the horrors of impending starvation, the village I was in quest of appeared in sight; and thinking it advisable, without regard to the occupation of its inhabitants, to make my case known, wherever there should seem to be indications of comfort, I did so.  One had not a spare bed, another had, but it had been so long out of use, that my safety would unquestionably be endangered by sleeping in it.  Others declared that to be a cross-country road, in which men of honourable pursuits were never benighted, and affected to regard my application as a marvellous piece of daring.  Prudence forbade me to tell them that I had money, wherewith to discharge every obligation, lest I should share the fate of a later resident of that village, who had been murdered for the sake of a few pounds he had with him. 

At length I entered public house, at the farthest extremity of the place and was making my best appeal to the feelings of its inmates, when a good-natured man, who listened attentively to my story, observed that, if I would wait till he should have emptied his cup, he would engage to procure me a lodging at Lound, another mile yet on the road to Wiseton.

With a promise of a few more ‘cups’ when he should have accomplished his purpose, we started off together; and soon he introduced me to a matronly lady who, after surveying me with an air of singular curiosity, avowed her willingness to serve me in the best way she could.  Having administered to the demands of hunger, she conducted me up a crazy staircase, into a three-bedded room, appropriated, ordinarily, to the use of two grown up sons, and an elderly man who lodged with them. 

To have demurred would have been ungrateful, since any accommodation within doors, was preferable to the fields or highway; but never shall I forget the inconvenience to which I was subjected.  The bed set apart to my service was so unaccountably short that, though commanding no greater altitude than five feet nine inches, I could not stretch myself out at full length, even when observing some degree of obliquity. 

In this state I lay, unable to sleep and afraid to request that the old man, whose stocking emitted a most noisome stench, would be pleased, for my sake, to draw them on his legs again, till the light approaching more should invite me to a purer air. 

Shortly before 6am, I arose and walked to Wiseton Hall, where I had the good fortune to meet his lordship’s bailiff, commencing the routine of his daily labour.  After inspecting, with as much minuteness as time and opportunity would allow, what perhaps might justly be deemed an unrivalled herd of cattle, I returned to Lound, at a somewhat unseasonable hour, for breakfast; then walking to Worksop, in time for a coach that should pass though that town, on its way to Nottingham, I got home in the evening of the same day.


In 1837, after five years, Samuel’s apprenticeship with his brother John ended.

Mary was born on 27 January 1837 and Joseph on 30 April 1838.  But, on 14 April 1839, Hannah, but four years and two months old, died and was buried at Holme Pierrepont with Anne.  John’s son, Samuel, was born on 3 March 1840.

John, perhaps for the first time shown at 21 High Pavement, Nottingham, on 20 December 1840, lecturer on midwifery and diseases of women and children to Nottingham medical school writes, in a testimonial to Samuel’s offering himself for the Chair of pathological anatomy and clinical medicine at University College, London: ‘I certify that Dr Samuel Wright served an apprenticeship of five years to me …..  It was his maxim always to keep pace with the progress of the day ………….  directing his great talent mainly to the cultivation to literature and science.’

And, in his own curriculum vitae, Samuel wrote: ‘…… five years were passed by me in the form of apprenticeship with my brother, a practitioner resident in the town of Nottingham, under whose guidance and instruction I enjoyed very extensive opportunities of professional improvement for, during the last two years of my servitude, I had the chief management of sick clubs, whose members numbered about eleven hundred, together with the patients chargeable to an extensive parish in the neighbourhood of Nottingham’.

The above quotations are taken from a bound copy, inscribed on the title page: ‘To my brother John, with my affectionate regards and best thanks’.  There is no evidence that Samuel actually achieved his purpose here.  This again is taken from the archive of Dudley Jarrett.

A tantalising letter, dated 15 March 1841, arrived from Buckingham Palace, from Mr G D Anson, Private Secretary to HRH Prince Albert, the Prince Consort.  John’s own letter was acknowledged and his enclosure had been laid before the prince.  He was commanded to thank him for his observations upon a subject in which the prince is much interested and which must always be important to the country at large.

Upon enquiry in 1998, the deputy registrar of the royal archives at Windsor Castle observed ‘unfortunately, surprisingly little of the Prince Consort’s correspondence has survived, and I regret that I cannot find any letters from or two John Wright in our files, nor any reference to him’.  My own surmise is that John’s letter to the prince had related to a matter of public health.

The census of 1841, taken on 6/7 June, listing the family, now at High Pavement (but house numbers are not given) in the east of Nottingham, shows a household of eight, with John and Sarah given as 40 and 35, though actually John was 38 (not 40 until August 1842) and Sarah 34 (not 35 until July of 1841).  A text book on the subject explains, specifically for 1841: Exact ages in years are given for children up to the age of 14 inclusive.  For persons of 15 and older, ages are given in five-year groups indicated by the youngest year of the group; that is ages from 15 to 19 inclusive are shown as 15; from 20 to 24 as 20, and so on.  People, however, did not always state their ages correctly.

That may have been the rule, but they got it wrong as John should have been show as 25 and Sarah as 30!

The children ranged in age from ten years to one.

In the Introduction to ‘Poetry, Sacred and Profane’, John avers that ‘not one of the poems was constructed before I had entered on my fortieth year’.  He writes (pp v-vi):

‘…… as it seldom happens that a man begins to exercise the faculty of imagination at that period of his life, the reader may be curious to know why the usual course of things has been reversed in me.  The story is simple, and may be soon told.  Until then, excessive irritability combined with constitutional powers of endurance that few enjoy, prompted me daily to physical pursuits very far exceeding the demands of a laborious profession.  A seeming superfluity of nervous impulse was my inheritance; and preferring the pure atmosphere of the fields to that artificial mode of existence which the usages of society impose, my delight was to expend it in walks which, were I circumstantially to record them, might be thought by many to exceed the bounds of credibility.

As time, however, progressed, though as yet sensible of on diminution of nervous activity, a growing inaptitude for vigorous exercise was discovered and I sought, in retirement, to profit by a long train of previous observation.  In spite of a prejudice imbibed, on reaching manhood, against poetry, for reasons that some little reflection on lovely woman – prejudice so strong that, for nearly twenty years, I would neither read, nor suffer to be read to me, any production of the divine art, I now began to meditate in verse.  Progressively my evenings became more and more devoted to this amusement; and when those who feared that the pursuit might endanger my health enjoyed rest, the only reply I could offer was that of the Roman poet, verum nequeo dormire ; and dreading a worse imputation, aut insanit homo, aut versus facit ; I have occupied my leisure in the cultivation of elegant literature with such intervals of relaxation as the kindred pursuit of gardening has required, thought the last ten years.’

In May, 1841, a bazaar was projected for reducing the debt incurred in the erection of Wesley chapel, Nottingham.  In honour of the occasion, John produced an address in verse, which covers seven pages (78-83) of his published works.

The chapel was in Broad Street, and stood not quite square to the road.  There was a grand faux portico, the whole crowned byh a plain pediment with just ‘1839’ on the plain frieze.  There were six pilasters, the outer two being square and quite plain, but the inner four were fluted and with Ionic capitals.  In the upper story were five tall round-headed windows and below two doors alternating with three windows.  Within, there was a substantial gallery which ran round the whole of the interior, and at one end was an enormous organ with a most impressive display of over seventy pipes.  This instrument is now in Nottingham University great hall.  The total seating capacity must have been many hundreds – the record shows 2,000.  The site had cost £2,000 and the building work £11,000.

At a service in 1844, during the visit of the American evangelist, the Reverend James Caughey, the youthful William Booth (1829-1912), later founder of the Salvation Army in 1878, embraced Methodism and was accepted into membership in this very chapel.  He may thus have been known to John.

At its peak of activity I 1863, the Sunday school ad 1,111 children and 157 teachers.  The last service was held n 1954.  It was then sold and, after being an educational centre, it became the Broadway Media Centre, showing films and as a training centre for those entering media work.

The building still stands and can be recognised with its ‘sanitised’ columns and its sitting askew to the road.  All this information has been supplied by the Nottingham Methodist archivist.

!842 opened with the birth of Lucretius on 6 January.  Reference will be made to him later.  He was named after the Roman poet and philosopher.

On 20 May, he dated his preface to his book ‘The Relative influence of the Sexes Considered, in reference to propagation, as well in Man as in the Lower Ranks of Animals’.  This he published privately: ‘Printed for the author 1842’.  The copy held bears the inscription: ‘My dear son John – In testimony of his Father’s love’.

This is a difficult book to describe, as it was a difficult book to read, even for the second time.  He seeks to understand and rationalise the progeny with the parents, not only in terms of their mental and physical characteristics, but also with the circumstances of their conception, but in environmental terms, and in their mental states at that time.  Whether his musings on the subject, taking very many actual cases into account, would find much favour a century and a half later, is more than I can surmise, though while looking for possible influences, I had the feeling that some imaginings were somewhat fanciful.

In his research for this study, he travelled round the area and further afield, and he gives accounts of some of these travels.  The two major expeditions have already been interpolated in their due time in this story.

In February 1843, an infant died but not, apparently, one of his, from the complete record we have of his family.  However, he was sufficiently moved to write a poem ‘suggested’ by this death and titled ‘The Snowdrop’ (pp5/6), ending with the touching couplet ‘The flower when withered truly dies – the soul forever lives!’.

Such was his interest in their affairs, that he wrote some verses, a dozen of the, for the anniversary meeting of the Agricultural Society of England, held at Derby, 12 July 1843.  Tantalisingly, this is dedicated ‘To *********’.   It would have been nice to know whose identity is hidden behind these asterisks.

On 3 September 1844, a very special event was the arrival of twin daughters, Decima (being his tenth child) and Daphne.

There was another proud moment at the beginning of 1846.  John had written to Charles Dickens (1812-1870), by then already famous as author of ‘Pickwick Papers’, ‘Nicholas Nickelby’, ‘Oliver Twist’ and others.  John had sent ‘some lines’ to enquire of the novelist whether they were ‘of a creditable order’.  He must have been gratified to be told, in a letter of 9 January 1846, in the hand of a secretary, but signed by the author (later authenticated by  his son, Sir Henry Dickens, as his father’s signature), that they were ‘certainly very creditable indeed’ and that they had been read with pleasure and thought very good’.  A very optimistic enquiry was initiated to see if the ‘lines’ themselves could be identified.  This was sent to the Dickens museum, in Doughty Street, London but, as anticipated, no help could be given, as no relevant papers could be traced.

A year later, on 8 January 1847, the twelfth child, Horace, was born and named after the great Roman poet and satirist.  John’s literary preoccupations force this presumption.  It seems more likely than referring to Horace Walpole or another.  Lucretius is such sufficient precedent.

On 28 January 1848, an ‘impertinent youth’ had ‘spoken contemptuously’ of a sermon preached by the Rev J Loutit;  Although titled ‘A Gentle Remonstrance’, the first of two four-line verses begins: ‘Thou spark of Hell’s creative blast, which no amount of grace can smother…..’.  (PS&P p133)

Later the same year, he wrote ‘Reflections on Time and Eternity’, suggested by the close of another year, 1848 (PS&P pp326-8), nine verses of six lines each.  This is philosophical rather than historical and refers to no particular events in the year just passed.

1849 was a year to be remembered  with horror and, thereafter, thanksgiving.  The former for the ravages of cholera and the latter for the devotion and unrelenting work of the doctors and medical staff fighting it and for the survival of the more fortunate and eventual slow end to the outbreak.

John wrote, on 25 September, on the evening of the day appointed for fasting and public worship during the prevalence of cholera.  There were three verses of six lines each.

Haydn’s Dictionary of Dates, under ‘Cholera’, for the year 1849, gives: ‘Another (after 1832) visitation of cholera in England.  The number of deaths in London, for the week ending 15 September 1849, was 3, 116, the ordinary average being 1,008 and the number of deaths from cholera from 17 June to 2 October, in London alone, 13,161.  The mortality lessened and the distemper disappeared about 10 October 1849.’

But the Nottingham outbreak was nothing like so dreadful as in London.  There seem to have been fewer than  a dozen deaths – all connected with ‘noisesome privies’ in three locations.  And these responded to the efforts of the sanitary committee, with no recurrence.  The seats of infection, namely: Brewitt’s Yard; Crosby Place, Leenside; and Gedling Street, tempt visions of Dickensian squalor.

The report clearly shows that the more wretched and less salubrious parts of the town were intolerably offensive.  But the same can probably be said of most, if not all, towns at that time.

A surgeon notes: ‘the poor are not disinclined to cleanliness, though many of them do not know in what it consists’.

John must have been sorely tried at this time.

Written for one of my twin daughters to ………..’  is the title of a three page narrative poem dated 13 October 1849 (pp237-9).  It is an imaginary letter beginning, ‘Sir’ and ending ‘I am, etc, Daphne Wright’.  The twins had been five years old earlier in the month.  But who might the addressee have been?  It relates to toys not thanked for from him (yes, ‘he’ is referred to) and their fate at the hands of Deci, Horace, Joe, Delphia and Sally.  It could be called an apology, I suppose.

Again he indulged Daphne in a supposed letter in verse, addressed to ‘Mr William’, ‘her lover’, who was ill.  She sought an earlier recovery and signed off ‘your warmest friend is Daphne Wright’.  Whoever might he have been?

The first of three parts of ‘Pastimes with the late Poet Laureate’ is dated 26 January 1850.  The poet concerned is William Wordsworth, who was John’s bête noir and the subject of much criticism and ungenerous comment.  These ‘pastimes’ amount to some 86 four-line verses; parts II and III are dated 6 and 9 February 1850 (pp290-311).

John and Sarah’s last child was born on 27 February in 1850.  Interestingly, he was called John Junius.  Double interesting, in fact, for elder brother John (born 1830) was still living.  It is not unknown to genealogists that there are plenty of instances of there being two children of the same name co-existent in a family, but it still strikes on as odd and one wonders why.  Secondly, the name Junius.  There are two possible reasons for this and both have literary associations.  Francis Junius (1591-1677) was a German-born Dutch philologist (philology is the science of the structure and development of language).  Also Junius was the pen-name of the (never certainly identified) author of a series of letters in the late eighteenth century attacking political figures.  So take your pick from these.

‘Stanzas’, (seven four-line) were suggested during an attendance at divine worship, on the evening of Sunday 22 September 1850.  …… what a godless void unhappily prevails in me’.  So John, as one would suspect, of one of his sensibility, was subject, from time to time, to self-examination.  (pp116-117)

The frist event noted in 1851 is the census, taken on 31 March.  The family is still at High Pavement.  John is shown as 49 and Sarah as 44.  Actually John was not 49 until 22 August 1851, but Sarah was indeed 44 on 20 July 1850.  Seven children are shown.  John is there, aged 21, which is, perhaps, a surprise since the record within the family is that he had gone to Australia the previous year!  Philadelphia is absent.  She would have been 19 and is, perhaps, living in as a secretary or companion elsewhere, perhaps nearby, or even staying with friends.   (*Ancestry.co.uk 1851 census reveals Philadelphia was an ‘assistant’ at a girl’s boarding school in Nottingham; the school was run by Mary Ann Cusworth and her sister, Ester Blackley Oldham).

Sarah and Mary are included as 18 and 14, which ages are agreed.  Joseph and Samuel are missing.  They should be 12 and 11.  Joseph had supposedly gone to Australia with brother, John, but this is very doubtful.  The suspicion is that they were, at this time, staying with friends.  And Lucretius, Decima, Daphne, Horace, and John Junius (at 8, 6, 6, 3 and 1, all agreed) are listed.

The penultimate poem published by John (at p329) was ‘written on Easter Sunday, 20 April 1851, after the performance of a surgical operation on my right cheek.’  One suspects that this was a cancerous growth.

The last is written two days later (p330) and is headed ‘Thoughts suggested by the prospect of death, whilst walking with a few friends, on the evening of 22 April 1851’.

1851 saw the publication of ‘Poetry, Sacred & Profane’, John’s introduction to which is dated 18 July.  It is a nicely produced volume, published in London by Longman, Brown, Green and Longman, octavo, in boards covered with red cloth and impressed with decorative stylistic leaves and scrolls on the borders and panels on the spine.  It consists of an ‘Introduction I – xxxix and 341 pages, including notes.

The dedication to: 

To

Samuel Wright,

MB DCL LLD FAS &c, &c, &c

This volume

Is affectionately inscribed

By

His brother


It was printed by Spottiswoodes and Shaw, New Street Square, London.  A small sticker on the back endpaper records that it was ‘Bound by T R Eeles & Son, Cursitor Street, London’.  This street, off Chancery Lane, was the present writer’s last office address before retirement, known as ‘cursed whore street’!  It was named after the office of the Cursitors who issued writs in the name of the Court of Chancery.

The list of contents shows 128 separate poems.

How does one do justice to this product of a dozen years?  The natural world was clearly his chief inspiration, with 19 poems to creatures, mostly birds (two to the skylark, pp 100 and 137) but including a sonnet ‘Reflections on a garden slug (p134) and ‘The fate of a tyrant pig’ (p189) and a dozen to flowers and trees, and a number to the love of women.  It may be supposed that all are fairly free of the matters he found so infelicitous in the works of William Wordsworth.  His Epigram on Wordsworth, Poet Laureate: ‘Had I been asked, I should have guessed his name had been applied in jest – so truly do his works set forth a claim to ‘words’, but no one to ‘worth’ (p289).

The volume of John’s poems held by the writer hereof is inscribed:

To Sarah,

My dear wife

Who, as Heaven’s best gift

Has never ceased to ‘serve’, ‘love’ and ‘honour’ me

Through all the waywardness implied

In the pursuit of literature

September 3 1851

John Wright

I would recommend the reading of this volume of poems to any descendant.

John’s mother, Philadelphia (nee Jones) died 24 August 1852, aged 81

John himself, aged 50, died 17 February 1853 of a malignant tumour of the colon and was buried at Holme Pierrepont on 25th February.  An embossed memorial card is held.


EPILOGUE

THE GENIUS OF WORDSWORTH

Harmonised with

THE WISDOM AND INTEGRITY

of

HIS REVIEWERS

This, John’s third book, was published posthumously in 1852.  He wrote most of the Preface (see below) but this was concluded, after his death, by ‘E’, with the date 19 April 1853.  The first 20 pages repeat the Introduction to ‘Poetry, Sacred and Profane’, which there covered pages i to xxix.

Thereafter, from p21 to p130 (the end of the book) comes ‘A Reply to an article on Mr Wright’s ‘Poetry, Sacred and Profane’ as contained in the Nottinghamshire Guardian of October 30 1851.  Unfortunately, it has not proved possible to obtain a copy of this article as copies of this newspaper are not held locally, and those at the British Library Newspaper Library at Colindale, Hendon, are too fragile to be handled.

The Preface explains the article quite vividly:

‘In a volume I published a year ago, entitled ‘Poetry Sacred and Profane’ were included some imitations of Wordsworth, together with a satire called ‘Pastimes with the late Poet Laureate’.  As an apology for the latter, I prefixed to the verse an ‘Introduction’ containing a summary of the Poet’s character.  This gave serious offence to that inflated tribe of public censors, termed reviewers’ and they castigated me unmercifully – one craving a ‘stone bow’ to hit me in the eye, or in the event of failure, a scaffold – on which I might expiate my crime.  The ‘Morning Post’ led the van; then followed ‘Tait’, ‘Fraser’, ‘The Literary Gazette’, ‘The Critic’ and a host of servile imitators – amongst which appeared the ‘Nottinghamshire Guardian’, whose exploits on the occasion afforded no little amusement in this neighbourhood.  Its proprietor aspired but to an echo of the ‘Morning Post’; but none of the literary junto connected with the journal could furnish even that.  He heard of a disciple of the Lake school who, with creditable amount of scholarship, could swallow as much laudanum with impunity as did Coleridge.  This man was invited to the task; and he achieved it as might have been expected of one under the habitual influence of a deadly narcotic.  Confiding in the integrity of my own cause, I replied to the local critic, when the proprietor of the ‘Nottinghamshire Guardian’, seeing the hopelessness of his position, dismissed his new ally.’


Here Mr Wright’s engagement on his own little work closed from fast increasing bodily necessities; and the explanation which he was unable to complete must be thus shortly supplied.  Soon after the appearance of a Reply to the article contained in the ‘Nottinghamshire Guardian’, Mr Wright proposed to enter upon a yet more elaborate consideration of Wordworth’s character as a poet, with a view to justify the course he had already adopted.  His design was accomplished in the Essay concluding this work.  Declining health, however, for some time prevented Mr Wright from making a fair transcript of what he had written; nor was this perfected until a few days before his death, which occurred on the seventeenth of February 1853.  Regarding his last treatise as a continuation of the subject occupying the earlier publications, it was Mr Wright’s intention to print it, accompanied, in the order of their composition, by the ‘Introduction’ to his poems, and the ‘Reply’.  This arrangement it has been thought right still to observe; and there only remains to regret that it was not permitted to him to fulfil a task which no other hand can perform as well.’

It might be an interesting pursuit, for the more literary-minded, to locate some, or all, of the comments made following John’s attack on the late Poet Laureate, but it would be beyond my ability to make much of it.  Locating the relevant references would be a task in itself.  It has already been noted that the ‘Nottinghamshire Guardian’ is not available, and the ‘Morning Post’ is also elusive.  However, I would like to have read some of the more personal remarks made about Wright in the course of this controversy.

This slim volume in blue, is bound en suite with the Poetry volume itself.  The copy held bears the following inscription:

The last work of her

Lamented Father

Presented

To Philadelphia Wright

By her

Affectionate Mother

May 20th 1853

At John’s death, his widow, Sarah, had many children still to care for.  While John and Philadelphia were of age, Sarah Anne was nearly so, but from Mary, sixteen, onwards, there were still eight children to be looked after.

Being the widow of a surgeon, she was eligible for assistance from the Royal Medical Benevolent Society, who admitted her as a pensioner at Epsom, near the college, that was also part of the same foundation.  There she remained to the end of twenty-five years of widowhood, dying on the 27 June 1878, aged 71 and being buried in Epsom cemetery.  A memorial card is held.

What is known of the children is set out below, child by child, rather than chronologically during their mother’s later life.

Of the thirteen children, two had died young, as already recorded.

John (No 2) supposedly sailed to Australia in 1850 but, as already noted, he was listed as at home at the 1851 census.  The fact of his going is not doubted but clearly the date is suspect.  Enquiry of the City of London Guildhall Library failed to find a ship sailing from Liverpool on 11 July 1850.

Philadelphia (3) married, as his second wife, John Smith of Coventry, then in Glasgow.  Full reference is made to her life, from their first meeting to her death, in the account in John Smith’s life as ‘a family man’.

Sarah Anne (4) married Samuel Cropper, member of the Nottingham branch of a family that manufactured folding boxes.  She had nine children and died in  1870, being buried at St Martin’s church, Epsom.  Her widower married her sister, Decima – see below.

Mary (6) of whom we know nothing more, died in 1880 and was buried at Abney Park cemetery, Stoke Newington, London.  Her death certificate would tell us a little more but it has not been followed up.

Joseph (7) supposedly sailed with John in 1850 but he would then have only been 12, so this is surely mistaken.  No doubt they went at some later date.

Samuel (8), born 1840, also went to Australia, but no date is suggested for his going.

Lucretius (9) was a Foundation scholar at Epsom college but, after twice running away, he was expelled.  He is said to have gone to India.  A very helpful librarian at the India Office section of the British Library tried to trace him but, despite the unusual name, he found nothing.

Decima (10), born 1844 (known to certain relatives as ‘Aunt Deci’) married in Scotland in 1872 Samuel Cropper, widower of her elder sister, Sarah Anne (was it not then legal in England to marry a deceased wife’s sister?).  From her descent the Jarrett and Stockall families.  Her elder sister, Sarah Anne, had nine children by the time of her death, so Decima’s firs child was Cropper’s tenth, so Decima’s first was also named Decima.  This could be a unique circumstance.  She was known to certain relatives as ‘Auntie May’.

Daphne (11), twin to Decima, married – and died in 1928 when the present writer was but nine days old

Horace (12) born in 1847, was educated at Christ’s Hospital – he is recorded as there in 1853.  He also went to Australia and was drowned, crossing a creek.

Finally, John Junius (13) born in 1850, died as West Ham a month before his eighth birthday and was buried at Holme Pierrepont.

There is no photograph extant of John Wright, his death taking place in the fairly early years of professional photography.  There is, however, a photograph of Sarah, evidently taken well into her widowhood.  The original is identified as being ‘Aunt Deci’s mother’.

John Wright would not have been content for an account of himself and his family to fail to give some place to his brilliant brother, Samuel, fifteen years his junior and a physician.  He had qualified at Edinburgh University in 1840.  Had John, perhaps, funded his studies?  He died on 29th May 1853, only months after his brother, John.  His library of about 3,000 volumes was sold by Sotheby & Wilkinson, 3 Wellington Street, Strand, London on 14 – 16 November 1852, fetching £496/18/- in total.  Apart from medical works, there were numerous editions of Shakespeare and an extensive collection of Shakespeareana.

A convenient account of Samuel’s medical life is given in Washington Irving’s ‘Abbotsford and Newstead Abbey’, and a copy of the encomium for Bulwell, his birth place, is included as an illustration hereto, which should be read.**

There was a controversy in relation to the authenticity of, and the authority for, some of the degrees and honorary appointments of Samuel.  This was conducted by a David Nelson, MD Edin, who addressed a formal letter to the Rt Hon Lord Lyttleton, Principal of Queen’s College, Birmingham on 12 April 1853.  It is not clear how this matter was eventually settled.

On 12 February 1838, Samuel delivered a speech of about 3,000 words ‘In Defence of Capital Punishment’ to the Associated Societies of Edinburgh University.  Dudley Jarrett had a booklet of 26 pages recording this.

In 1839, Samuel replied to Daniel O’Connell MP’s letters to The Wesleyan Methodist Society in a spirited defence of the memory of John Wesley.


Bulwell may well be proud of having given birth to Dr Samuel Wright, an eminent medical practitioner, who died during the year 1853, in the prime of his life, and the full career of his fame and usefulness, at Birmingham.  Few men ever possessed greater talents that Dr Wright, or a more happy way of employing those talents with advantage to himself, and without being burdensome to others, or awakening jealousy among competitors for similar honours.  Nor were his talents solely confined with the range of his medical studies.  A ready and copious elocution, a sparkling wit, a cutting sarcasm, with great store of erudition upon almost all subject which engage the attention of the scholar and man of science, there was scarcely any topic he could not handle with ease and familiarity; so there was no walk of life open to genius and industry, in the which he would not have been able to distinguish himself above almost all competitors.  Whilst a student at Edinburgh, Dr Wright twice obtained the annual prize of the Harveian Society for a medical essay, in one of which his competitor was the most learned physiologist living in this country.  He was also elected senior president of the Royal Medical Society, which as a student’s society is considered as standing altogether unrivalled in the world.  This appointment, so ardently aspired after by the most accomplished alumni of the University, may justly be considered as proof positive of the high reputation that Dr Wright enjoyed among the most jealous and discriminating of judges – namely, his fellow students.  In 1840, he took his degree of Doctor of Medicine.  Before proceeding to the degree, it is necessary for the candidate to write a thesis on some subject connected with medical science.  Dr Wright selected the popular drug mercury for the subject of his dissertation.  So important were his researches, that he obtained one of the gold medals of the University for his thesis.  Among many other valuable testimonials which were borne to the extraordinary talents of Dr Wright, may be mentioned that he was presented with a diploma of membership in the Imperial Society of Physicians at Vienna, one of the first medical societies on the Continent of Europe, and the corresponding membership of the Medical Society of Genoa.  At the time of his death, Dr Wright held the situation of senior physician to the Queen’s Hospital at Birmingham.  As a professor, his merits here were probed to be of the highest order.  His eloquence, his power of luminous statement, and his singularly extensive reading on subjects that interested him, combined to make him a most efficient and popular teacher.  His premature decease, whilst thus in the full career of his usefulness and honour, was a loss to be deplored, alike by his profession, his country and the world.

Sarah Elizabeth Cade’s youngest half-sister – Adeline Smith

Edith AdelineEdith Adeline was the seventh, and last child of John Smith II and the second of his third wife, Mary Anne Fowle.  She was also the seventh daughter; two half-sisters, daughters of John Smith’s second wife, Philadelphia, had survived for only a few days but the rest survived to adulthood.  Her sister, Grace, was two years older than Adeline, and they were very close.

Their mother, Mary Anne, died in 1901, aged 70, leaving John Smith a widower for the third time.   Adeline lived with their father, and looked after him until he died in 1916.  Grace married, in 1909, William Micah Williams of Hobart, Tasmania and, while they visited England several times, made their home in Hobart.  Grace died, suddenly and unexpectedly, in Hobart in December 1915.

After John Smith II died, Adeline lived alone until she married, in 1920 as his second wife, Frederic Maitland, a widower.  He had eight children by Louisa, his first wife, all of whom became friends with their step-mother.  Fred died in 1930 after which Adeline lived in South Croydon.

She wrote a diary every day from 1903 until just before her death; she also recorded many trips she did with her family in the 1880, 1890s and 1900s.

She died in 1969, aged 97.


Tours

FIRST VISIT TO SCOTLAND

Taken by John Smith II, his third wife, Mary Anne together with his daughters, Grace and Adeline

July 1887

as recorded by Adeline, aged 15

JOURNAL

July 9th

Father, Mother, Grace and I left the Hermitage Docks, Wapping, at 2.20pm by the steamer ‘Iona’.  We had a private cabin, with four berths.  It was lovely going up the river; we got to the sea at 6pm.  At night, the moon was shining and it was very calm.  We thoroughly enjoyed it and stayed on deck until about 11pm.

July 10th

A rough sea and strong wind; we went on deck about 4am and found it bitterly cold, with a heavy Scotch mist.  We could hardly keep our feet on deck against the wind and all, except Father, felt very ill so did not enjoy the day.  We had our breakfast at 8.30am in the saloon.  We skirted the coast of Northumberland and passed close to Bas Rock, where there were quantities of seagulls.  We were soon in sight of Scotland, it looked lovely.

We landed at Leith at 7pm and drove to Milne’s Hotel, Greenside Street, Edinburgh.  Too wet to go out that night.

July 11th

Edinburgh is a very beautiful city.   The houses are built of stone, and the roads paved with stone.   Princes Street is one of the finest streets in Europe.  On one side are large shops; on the other, beautiful gardens through which the railroad runs.  Beyond lies the castle, built on the rocks, and Carlton Hill.  Scott’s monument stands in Prince’s Street, 200ft high. 

We went to the castle and watched the soldiers drill.  It was a fascinating sight, as they were drilled in their white jackets, kilts, red and white socks and Scotch capes, against a background of the old castle.  We saw Queen Mary’s room, the Crown Room, where there was the regalia of Scotland, a very old chapel and gun, etc.  We then went to St Giles Cathedral, which is decorated with old Scotch flags, used in the wars.  There are a number of monuments to soldiers.

We visited John Knox’s house, a small, quaint place built of stone.  We climbed Carlton Hill and, from the summit, we had a good view of the city; Burns’ monument is here.  We went inside it and saw the collection of curios; amongst others, are a lock of his hair, some ancient pictures, a bust of Burns, one of his old jugs and some letters by him and by his wife.

We saw Colton prison, a strong, stone building, and also visited Holyrood Palace, the residence of Scotland’s early kings and queens.  Saw Queen Mary’s banqueting room; her bedroom containing ancient bedstead, high-backed chairs, remains of an identical blanket used by her, a chair worked by Queen Mary.  One room, full of tapestry, was Charles I’s bedroom.  The ruins of the royal chapel are interesting.  We drove up Arthur’s Seat to see the fine view.  Nestling amongst the scattered rocks, lay miniature lakes and, at our feet, lay the grand old city.  Afterwards, we went about on the top of trams.

July 12th

We started, by the 1.05am train, for Glasgow.  We passed fields full of marguerites and poppies; Glasgow is busy city, and abounds in good shops, particularly sweet shops.  We had our lunch in the Prince of Wales restaurant, a fine place.  We went to the Exchange, Scott’s monument and St George’s Square.  Leaving Glasgow at 2.40pm for Greenock, we passed through Paisley, where we saw the prison. 

Our boat met the train at 3.30pm at Greenock and we went down the Clyde by the ‘Iona’.  The scenery was beyond anything I had seen, particularly when we got to the Kyles of Bute.  Here, the river wound in and out amongst wooded mountains and green hills; little houses nestled amongst the hollows, or stood on the water’s edge.  The clear river was so narrow in parts that our boat almost brushed the banks. 

Passing Rothesay, we landed at Tighnabruaich, and stayed at the hotel situated in a very fairyland of beauty.  In the evening, we went on a charming walk through thickly wooded lanes.

July 13th

We went a delightful walk across the hills and through the woods.  In places, it was so steep we had to drag ourselves up by branches or trees.  A waterfall tumbled over the rocks in a ravine, its sides were thick with trees and studded with wild flowers – kingcups, heather, honeysuckle and ferns.  The higher we climbed, the more exquisite was the scene.  On one side, the steep ravine; on the other, woods and clustering ferns, knee deep; amongst the mountains, we could trace the silver Clyde.  Bird life abounded; blackbirds, crows, jackdaws, ravens and sparrows – we found a snake, dark grey, smooth skinned, but let it go unhurt.

We also saw numbers of anthills and watched the tiny inmates carrying sticks and dead leaves.  When we disturbed the nest, they swarmed out to fight and the nurse ants seized the young and carried them to places of safety.  We were struck with the perseverance of one any carrying a grub as large as himself and tumbling over constantly with his heavy load.

The sheep upon the mountains look so pretty.  We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves and, afterwards, went down to the river banks.  In the evening, we went out again and were caught in a heavy shower.  We went into strawberry gardens in the morning and picked as many as we wanted to eat.

July 14th

We left Tighnabruaich by the ‘Columba’ at 11am and went through Loch Fyne.  It was very lovely, a large loch, and noted for its fine herrings.  It is surrounded by pine-clad mountains; a fresh breeze was blowing.  Leaving the loch, we changed steamers and went by ‘The Linnet; up the Crinan Canal; here we had to pass through numerous locks.  In places, the canal was so narrow that our boat almost touched the banks.  We wound in and out amongst the meadows and forests for nine miles.  Honeysuckle and wild roses entwined the banks and were reflected in the clear waters.  There was a quiet beauty and charm about the scenery.

As there were numbers of locks to go through, Father and Grace walked some of the way.  At the end of the canal, we got into another steamer ‘The Chevalier’, and went from Ardrishaig to Oban.  Here we landed and stayed at the King’s Arms Hotel.

Oban, as seen from the water, is considered one of the prettiest bits of Scottish scenery.  In the evening, we went for a walk through the lanes, where we gathered wild flowers, and through the town.

July 15th

We left Oban by the ‘Mountaineer’ at 1pm for Ballachulish.  Loch Linnhe is very lovely, surrounded by grand, rugged mountains, steep and dark.  Cloud shadows rested on their slopes, their summits were enveloped in cloud.  Mountain torrents rushed down their steep sides, over rocks and boulders.  All seemed to speak of the Majesty of God.  Ben Nevis was engulfed in clouds. 

At Ballachulish, we got onto a coach and drove through the valley of Glencoe.  Here the scenery was awful in its grandeur.  Ossian’s cave was pointed out to us, on the top of one of the mountains.  There was also a pillar erected in memory of the massacre of Glencoe, and the Chief of Glencoe’s house, where he was murdered.  We went through the black slate quarry – one cannot describe the scene in all its rugged grandeur.  We stayed one night at Ballachulish and went for a walk in the evening.

July 16th

We left Ballachulish, at 8am, by the ‘Grenadier’ for Fort William.  Here, we landed and drove for three miles to the foot of Ben Nevis.  Mother waited for us at Fort William and Father, Grace and I climbed Ben Nevis.  It is 4,406ft high, and the road up was very steep and stony; it cut right through our boots.  The ascent was five miles and it took us four and a half hours: we started at 9.30am.  Near the summit, we got right into the clouds and could hardly trace the path, which was marked out by cairns.  Half way up, the scenery was glorious and then the outlook became terribly dreary and it was bitterly cold.

The snow lay thick around and awful chasms yawned on one side, so steep we could not see the bottoms.  At the summit, we found a small hotel, where we enjoyed a good tea – as we had only taken raisins and hard biscuits for the climb, and drank from the springs on the way.

We sent off two telegrams, one to Mother at the hotel at the foot.  It rained hard and we got soaked.  The descent took us three hours.

We all drove from Fort William to Banavie and saw Lock Lochy.  We stayed at the Lochiel Arms Hotel.

July 17th

We all went to one of the wee kirks. The people stood to pray and to sing the Scotch psalms.  It was a very long sermon, but earnest.  The people had brought their lunch with them and ate it during the service.  At the close, the minister ate his in the pulpit and then commenced another service in Gaelic.  Numbers of old women came to this in their white, starched caps: we did not remain.

In the afternoon, we climbed one of the heather-clad mountains; the head waiter went with us, as our guide.  We got into a bog by trying to return by a short cut.  The view from the top was charming, and a fresh breeze was blowing.  We could see the Caledonian, winding amongst the mountains; Loch Lochy lay in the distance.  We gathered lots of mountain flax and heather.

July 18th

We left Banavie by the ‘Glengarry’ at 9am to go up the Caledonian Canal.  It was a grand day and the scenery glorious.  I cannot describe the lofty mountains, with their cataracts and pine forests and snow-capped Ben Nevis.  We went through Loch Lochy, Loch Oich, Loch Eil and Loch Ness.  At Fort Augustus, we got out to see the monastery, a gloomy-looking building.  We also went to the Falls of Foyers, a grand waterfall, dashing and roaring over a steep ravine amongst ferns and trees.  On the banks, we saw fine old castles and had a good view of Inverness Cemetery.

We reached Inverness at 6.30pm and went to the Victoria Hotel, facing the castle, hill and river.  In the evening, we walked to the Ness Islands, which are dotted about the river and reached by rustic bridges.  The river is very lovely here as it gurgles and rushes over stones.  We thought it one of the choicest bits of scenery we had seen.

July 19th

We went through the town again, and to the islands.  We also went to the cathedral, situated on the river bank.  There is a very beautiful font, an angel kneeling and holding a large, white shell in his hands.  We went to the castle, which is now used as a prison, and law courts; we went into the latter.  We went to an entertainment at the town hall, given by the boys from the Royal Academy.  We much enjoyed it – the boys all wore kilts and one recited ‘Scotland’s Queen’; six more did ‘When I’m a man, I’ll be a blacksmith, if I can, and if I can’, etc; this they did well.  Others were, ‘The Will’ by four boys, ‘The Letter’ by two and two French recitations.

After this, we drove to the field of Culloden where, on June 16th 1746, was fought the great battle between the English and the Scotch.  It is a large, barren field marked by a monument and, another, where the cavalry horses were stabled.  The old ruins remain.  A monument marks were some of the Highlanders were buried.  We stood on the stone where the Duke of Cumberland stood to cheer his men; it was interesting.  On our drive back, we saw the new barracks.

July 20th

We left Inverness at 7am by ‘The Gondolier’ to return up the Caledonian to Oban.  Very lovely.

July 21st

We went, by boat, to Staffa and Iona, round the Isle of Mull.  The scenery was lovely and, as we reached Iona, it completely changed and became bleak and rugged and cold.  Islands and rocks were scattered about and divers swam about.  We had to land at Iona in small boats – from forty to fifty people standing and sitting in each boat, packed like herrings in a box.  The sea was choppy.

Iona looked a dreary place – we went over the picturesque old ruins of the cathedral and nunnery and saw the tombs of the ancient kings and chiefs; two were stone crosses.  We went back to the steamer in the small boats and then on to Staffa, where we had to land in the same way, and climb up the slippery rocks.  It is a remarkable island.  Regular pillars rise out of the sea; FIngal’s Cave, which we went into, is grand.  The pillars rise either side from the sea, regular in formation and varied in colour: red, green, black and white; the roof, the same.  The sea dashes and roars up the cave like thunder.

We much enjoyed the day and returned to Oban for the night.

July 22nd

Left Oban, by the 8.10am, train for Crianlarich.  The train wound in and out amongst mountains and woods; we saw the pass of Brandon, Loch Etive and Loch Awe.  From Crianlarich, we went by coach to Ardlui.  It was splendid.  We saw the Falls of Glen Falloch, and the lower falls rushing over the rocks amongst the mountain scenery.  From Ardlui, we went – by steamer – up Loch Lomond to Inversnaid.  Ben Lomond towered above the other heights.  I cannot describe Loch Lomond. 

At Inversnaid, we got out to see the waterfall and Rob Roy’s cave was pointed out to us.  From here, we took the coach again to Stronachlacher, right over the hills.  Then we went by the steamer, ‘Rob Boy’ up Loch Katrine.  This charming spot, the scene of the ‘Lady of the Lake’ is closed in by the mountains Ben Lomond, Ben Venue and others.  Ellen’s Isle is lovely. 

By coach, we went on through the Trossachs – this was the climax of all we had seen.  The solemn grandeur of the dark, rocky mountains seemed to crown all.  At Callander, we got out and went to the Dreadnought Hotel for the night. 

July 23rd

Left Callander, by the 7.50am, train for Edinburgh, passing through Doune, Dunblane, Bridge of Allan and Stirling: here we changed trains.  Our route lay by the Ochill Hills, through Bannochburn, Larbert, Grahamstone, Falkirk, Phillipton, Haymarket, Waverley, Abbeyhill, Leith Walk, Bonnington, Leith.  We got out here to see about the luggage and get it on board for our return voyage.  Then we went back to Edinburgh for a short time.

At Leith, we went on board ‘The Meteor’ bound for England, a fine ship.  We left at 4pm and, as we passed the Bas Rock, the captain blew the whistle and the birds flew up in clouds – a pretty sight.  Mother, Grace and I slept in the ladies’ cabin this time, and Father in the gentlemen’s.

July 24th

Sunday: got up at 7am, feeling very seasick, but were not ill.  A service was held on deck and a good sermon preached on ‘Acquaint thyself with God’.  A smooth passage, we arrived at Gravesend at 7pm but, as the tide was wrong, the steamer had to anchor until morning so we got off at Gravesend in a small boat and took the train to London Bridge and home. 

We have spent the happiest holiday we have ever had.  Scotland is far beyond all our expectations.


TRIP to GERMANY – 1888

Taken by Grace and Adeline together with their mother, Mary Anne Smith

As told by Adeline (16)

TRIP to GERMANY

May 18th 1888

Mother, Grace, Uncle Charles and I left Victoria Station, at 8am, for Dover, where we crossed over to Calais.  The rain cleared off and we had a pleasant voyage.  From Calais, we took the train to Brussels, via Lille, Tournai, etc.  The scenery was flat – we went through the Custom House examination.

We reached Bruxelles Nord soon after 5pm and went to Hotel de l’Univers, in Rue de Neuve.  A fine hotel, opening into a quadrangle, arranged with ferns, flowers and fancy seats; our bedrooms were over-looking the same.  After tea, we drove round the city and saw the following places of interest: Le Bourse, a beautiful building; and Hotel de Ville; Brussels cathedral, with its fine altars and pulpit and many confessional boxes.  Then we visited the lace manufactory and saw the women at work.  Saw some exquisite Valenciennes lace, three quarters of a yard wide, requiring four thousand bobbins and two thousand pins in order to make it.  Some of the delicate Brussels’ lace, one yard wide, took six months to make.  The work appears very tedious and it is all done by artificial light.

The park has some charming walks and drives, picturesque roads winding in and out amongst dark woods.  We saw the monument ‘Fevrier’, La Ministère, Palais des l’Academies, Boulevard de Regent, Palais de la Roi, Palais de Justice, Monument of Godfrey of Bouillon, first king of Jerusalem, and the Royal Museum sculptures.  We saw several dogs drawing carts.

May 20th

Left Brussels, soon after 6am, for Cologne.  Scenery flat, uninteresting – the heat was intense.  We changed trains at Vervier and arrived at Cologne between 12 and 1pm.  Here, we had great difficulty with our luggage as it had again to be examined, and we did not know the language.  After dining at a restaurant, we visited Cologne cathedral.  The exterior is magnificent, on all sides decorated with carved figures and lofty spires.  Inside, the windows are strikingly beautiful.  There are three altars; in front of the largest, incense is kept swinging and, some distance away, another altar is furnished with shrubs and flowers around an image of the Virgin and Child.  Basins of holy water are chained to the pillars. 

Several people were kneeling before an image of the Virgin and Child, enclosed in a glass case and profusely decorated with gems and chains.  To the right, a number of candles were burning and the worshippers were counting their beads.  On the opposite side of the building is a fine specimen of carving surrounded by paintings illustrative of the life of Christ.  Further on is a larger figure of Christ taken down from the Cross with Mary and others standing by, weeping.

The heat was intense.  We went a long way through the city in an open tram.  We visited the Eau de Cologne manufactory, but were not allowed to go over it.  We left Cologne, by the 5pm train, for Bad Kreuznach, after a great deal of difficulty in getting our luggage out of the Custom House

This was the prettiest part of the journey; two thirds of the railway ran along the banks of the Rhine.  On one side, the scenery was hilly and, on the other, flat.  We went through Bonn, Beethoven’s birthplace, and changed trains at Bingen, arriving at our destination at 9.30pm.

A peculiarity of the German trains is that they do not draw up at the platforms; you have to cross the lines to get into the trains.  The guard walks along the footboard whilst the train is in motion to examine the tickets.

Reaching Bad Kreuznach about 10.15pm, we had much difficulty in making ourselves understood.  Finally, we got a diligence and drove to Berliner Hof, where we stayed until the following Tuesday.  The hotel stands opposite the Corn Market, in a large square

May 21st

Bad Kreuznach is a lovely place.  The river Nahe runs through it.  The park is beautifully laid out, with shady avenues of trees; lilac abounds.  In the morning, we went to St Paul’s church, where we attended a sacramental service.  The men sat apart from all the women, and all the unmarried ladies took off their hats.  Uncle went up first with the gentlemen to the Communion table; we followed afterwards with the ladies.  The people went up in streams and stood in a row, four at a time, on the left hand side of the table, there being no rail of division.  The priest then broke the bread and gave to each, moving to the right hand side of the Table; another priest administered the wine, bowing to him, each returned, in single file, to their seats.  All this time, the organ was playing.  It was a solemn and beautiful service and, although it was all in German, we enjoyed it.

After table d’hote at 1pm, Mother and I went to call on Dr Heusner.  Coming back, we lost our way and failed to make ourselves understood, with the result that it was two hours before we succeeded in reaching the hotel.

In the morning, the churches here are filled; in the afternoon, all the shops are open again and business goes on in the usual way.

May 22nd

We spent the morning in the park.  in the afternoon, we went to an open air concert from 4pm to 6pm.  The music was beautiful.  We are struck with the politeness of the German people, a gentleman never passes us in the hotel without bowing.

May 23rd

Left the Berliner Hof for private apartments in Friedrichs Strasse.  Our sitting room opens by bay windows into a veranda covered with sweet-smelling wisteria.  The hills opposite are richly wooded and in front are rows of lilac and chestnut trees full of bloom. 

German beds seem strange to us: they are made of wood and very short; the pillows are quite one yard square and, to each bed, there is a second pillow, two yards square, to cover the feet.

In the afternoon, we took the van to Munster, a pretty spot, with one very high rock.  Grace and Uncle climbed to the top of the hill, whilst Mother and I drove home in a fly.

May 24th

At 7.45am this morning, we went to the Elizabeth Spring in the park.  In the afternoon, we took a train to Bingen, such a charming place, where we went for a walk amongst the hills, the path winding about among the trees and rocks, wild flowers in profusion.  Where the Nahe joins the Rhine, the waters are quite a different colour and so remain distinct for some little distance before they become mingled completely together.  We arrived home again at 7pm.

Beautiful, well-cared for bullocks are used here for drawing carts and the plough, the reins are secured to their horns.  A bright moonlit night, we can distinctly see the outline of the trees and hills; bats are flying close to our windows.  The birds were singing at 2.40am the other morning.  Bullfinches are so tame they come to our feet to pick up crumbs; one alighted on the table close to me in the park.  There are jackdaws, chaffinches, cuckoos, and a pretty bird with a silver-grey body and black head, which has a peculiar note resembling ‘tut tut’.  A lovely insect flew into our balcony, it was about one inch in length, a dark colour, with gauze wings folded over its back, and it buzzed.  I have also seen a large, coal black, bee.

May 25th

We went to the spring before breakfast and then visited the Inhalatorium, a long room with brushwood down either side, mineral water trickling through the brushwood, making the atmosphere quite cold.  A delightful place on a hot day, for delicate people.  A tame jackdaw, with only one foot, lives there, evidently a pet.

In the afternoon, whilst the band was playing in the park, the people were amused to see a little girl, dressed in white and with a broad-brimmed, blue hat, step out from amongst the visitors and begin to dance, very gracefully, and in perfect time to the music, seemingly unconscious of the sensation she was making.  Both the musicians and the audience gave her a hearty clap at the finish.

A clear, moonlit night, the park looked very pretty illuminated; we stayed some time listening to the band, which was first class.

May 26th

Uncle Charles returned to London.  We had tea in the garden and then sat under the large chestnut tree and read.

May 27th

Very cold, not so pleasant in the park before breakfast.  Spent the afternoon in the park by the Inhalatorium.  In the evening, we went to hear the band in the grand saloon, a fine room.  The ceiling is painted blue, and gilded so as to sparkle in the gas light; the chandeliers are all glass.  The gallery and windows are draped with gold-coloured material and, between each window, is a large pier glass.  The room is furnished with ruby velvet couches and chairs and small tables are scattered about.

May 28th

Sunday: in the morning, we went for a walk through the old town; the river is crossed by a wooden bridge, where you pay a three pfennig, or ¼d toll.  A stone bridge also crosses the river, with free passage.  Old fashioned houses lean over the waterside; there are narrow roads paved with rough stone – and minus pavements. 

Finding the English church shut up, we concluded there was no service and went into the park instead.  Spent the afternoon reading under the trees by the Inhalatorium; the river was sparking in the sunshine.

May 29th

Every morning, we go to the Elizabeth Wells before breakfast.  Spent  this afternoon in the park listening to the band and reading.  Under the chestnut trees, the ground is covered with soft, white, wool-like substance cast from the trees and used by the birds to line their nests.  I often lie awake of a night and listen to the heavenly chorus of the nightingales singing beneath our windows.  One takes the lead and then there is a sudden burst of song as they view with each other in exquisite liquid trills.

May 30th

Cold, and rain falling.  In the afternoon, we crossed the river and, after following a winding path amongst the vineyards, climbed the hills.  The path was steep in parts and led us through the woods.  Tall, dark pines rose on either side; from the summit, we obtained a pretty view of the park surrounded by the river Nahe, and also the town.  We much enjoyed our walk and took home a large bunch of marguerite daisies – one of the fields was white with them.  In the distance, we heard the cuckoo’s notes.  Brilliant red, gold and green coloured beetles were sporting in the sunshine.

May 31st

Mr Meir took our photos and, afterwards, we went into the park.  In the evening, there was a heavy fall of rain, making everything lush.

June 1st

Spent the afternoon in the park and, in the evening, strolled as far as the Inhalatorium.  The sunset, reflected by the river, formed a peaceful, quiet scene

June 2nd

After dinner, we climbed the hills through the woods which, in some parts, were very dense.  The view was pretty, but flat.  We saw numbers of ruby and green beetles and heard the crickets chirping merrily all around.

After a pleasant time in the woods, we had tea at the Kaiser-au refreshment rooms on the banks of the river, and went for a stroll in the park.

June 3rd

Went down the old town in the afternoon.  In the evening, we listened to the band in the park – they played a lovely piece by Rubenstein

June 4th

Went to the 5pm service in the small chapel adjoining St Paul’s church.  Sixteen persons were present, only one gentleman and no-one to play the harmonium.  A good sermon from Mr King, on Malachi III; 16,17.  It was a treat to hear English spoken again.

June 5th

Heat intense; went out before breakfast and not again until the cool of the evening, when we sat by the riverside.

June 6th

Weather cooler – after dinner, we went to the Inhalatorium, where we made the acquaintance of two English ladies from Cornwall.  Went into the large reading rooms, where there are English as well as German papers.  In the afternoon and evening, we listened to the band.  At night, a young girl played exquisitely on the harp, the audience were breathless.  One band pieces was a Fantasie from Stabat Mater.

June 7th

The lilacs have died off and, in their place, are numbers of pure white acacia.  The pink climbing roses are in bloom.  A delicious scent comes from the leaves of the walnut trees.  The plane trees have no leaves near the trunk, but at the tip of each thick, knotted branch there is a bunch of green leaves

In the morning, we breakfasted in the veranda and then sat by the Inhalatorium to read.  A heavy thunderstorm, accompanied by beautiful sheet lightening and rains, prevented our going out in the evening.

Jun 8th

Weather fresh and bright, thunder at intervals, and rain.  We were out in the morning and afternoon.

June 9th

After hearing the band, we went to the Kaiser-au to have tea.  Then we walked towards Munster as far as the bridge by the saline works, crossed over and returned home on the other side of the river.  Again, a very heavy storm, lasting until 10.30pm; one awful crash shook the house.

June 10th

In the evening, we went to see the illuminations in the park.  Lamps were suspended from the trees in festoons; large, coloured stars and crowns were scattered over the grass.  Lanterns decorated the covered walk.  The fountains in full play, had coloured lamps below them and roses and other flowers arranged round them. 

The Kaiser-au bridge was hung with lamps.  Two bands were playing; a military one and the usual band of forty musicians under Karl Meyer.  They music continued until almost midnight, great crowds were present from neighbouring places.

June 11th

In the afternoon, we heard Mr King preach at the English church, subject: Influence.  Better attendance than last week.

June 12th

Went to outdoor concert in the evening, several pieces by Beethoven, very grand.  Fraulein Bull and Herr Kahlau played Andante by Mozart on the harp and flute, the runs and shakes were lovely.  Another fine piece was a composition by Wagner.

June 13th

Four hundred people drink the water at Elizabethan Quelle each day; in the year 1872, they numbered eleven hundred.  Heard the band in the afternoon and evening.  One day last week, Herr Fischer played a pretty solo on the zither.  The white wool I have mentioned before doesn’t come from the chestnut trees but from some tall trees resembling our poplars; it hangs in thick clusters amongst the branches.

June 14th

Spent the afternoon in the Inhalatorium.  Very wet night, so stayed at home in the evening.

June 15th

Too wet to go to the mineral springs before breakfast as usual.  Between 12 and 1pm, it came down in torrents, making a great noise.  English rain is nothing to it.  Violent hail almost shutting out the view and thunder in the afternoon and a peculiar appearance on the distant hills.

In the afternoon, we went into the arcade and, in the moonlit night, paraded in the park.  Dr Heusner comes once a week to see me – it is a pleasure to see him, he is such a nice man.

June 16th

Heavy hail storms, with crashes of thunder at midnight and early in the afternoon.  A telegram has just come to the house telling of the death of the German Emperor at 11.15am today.  He passed away at Potsdam.  May God comfort his friends and country.  An official telegram was sent to each house. 

We went into the park in the afternoon, a strange stillness prevailed – no band.   Black flags were hoisted and most of the people were in mourning, although it was only within a few hours of the sad news.  A third thunderstorm broke out in the afternoon and we had to seek shelter in the reading room.  Storms are of frequent occurrence in these parts.

June 17th

A very wet day and we had to seek shelter in the afternoon.  No music playing and, in many shop windows there are pictures and busts of the Emperor draped in black.  In one, is a large photo, draped in black, with a crown of artificial violets on the head and a cross of real roses and Canterbury bells, etc.

June 18th 

Wet again: went for a short walk before tea.  Black flags are flying everywhere and bells are tolled each morning from 12 to 1pm.

June 19th

Too wet to go out all day.  The funeral takes place at 12pm to 1pm.  Bells toll for an hour every morning and will continue to do so for the next fortnight.

June 20th

Sunshine at last – the river is very full.  Watched the people playing tennis in the afternoon and, in the evening, we went for a lovely country walk beyond the station across the liens and up a long road leading towards the hills, shaded by large trees, which meet overhead.

June 21st

Went to the spring in the morning and read in the park all afternoon.

June 22nd

The band commenced playing again today.  This morning, they played ‘The Marche of the Priests’ and, this afternoon, commenced with Chopin’s ‘Funeral March’, all standing the while.  It was most touching.  No light dance music is played at present.

June 23rd

This morning, we went, by the 1.18pm, train to Bingenbruch and walked from there to Bingen.  It was intensely hot.  We crossed the Rhine by steamer; a pretty scene, the hills covered by trees in their fresh Spring foliage.  At Rudesheim, we took the train to the Niederwald monument.  The rack and pinion railway consists of a single line which starts from the middle of the road in the village.  The train consists of two carriages, both open and containing four compartments each; the engine pushed the train up the steep mountainside.  It was a delightful sensation.   First, the line passed between vineyards on either side and then through shady woods.  At the terminus, we got out and walked to the temple, a circular stone building from which a charming view is obtained.

Below lay the Rhine; on our right, Bingen nestled amongst the green hills and, beyond, the river curves abruptly and is spanned by a stone bridge.  On the left lay Rudesheim.  Miniature islands, covered by dark pine trees, dot the Rhine and are reflected in its clear waters.  A slight thunderstorm passed over us.

The Niederwald monument was erected in commemoration of the unanimous rising of the German nation, and the foundation of their new empire in 1870–1871.  On a projection of the hill, standing out boldly against a background of wooded hills, it looks most imposing.  Commenced in 1877, it was finished in 1883, and inaugurated in the presence of the German Emperor, and other princes.  The base is 78ft high and, on this stands a colossal figure of Germania; in one hand is a crown and, in the other, a laurel-wreathed sword.  The face, long, flowing hair and dress, are very fine; the figure is 33ft high.  A large sculpture stands in front, representing King William of Prussia on horseback, with a number of German princes and representatives of the various German troops.  Below this, is their national anthem.

On the right, a large figure stands representing ‘Peace’, with an olive branch in her hand.  On the left, is ‘War’, holding a sword and a bugle, and with a fierce expression on his face.  Below these, are two more figures, Rhenus and Mosella; the former holds a bunch of grapes and the latter, an oar.  On each side of the monument are scenes representing the departure and return of the troops; the expressions are wonderfully wrought in metal.  All the figures are made out of solid iron taken from the cannons used in the wars between France and Germany.  The base is of stone and the whole monument cost £55,000.

We then went for a stroll in some lovely woods close by.  The train back, again came straight down the sheer mountainside at a great rate.  We reached Rudesheim at 5pm and saw the two old castles, one in ruins.  Crossing the river by steamer, we took the train back to Kreuznach, arriving about 8pm, having spent a very pleasant day.

June 24th

A heavy shower of rain whilst the band was playing scattered the people in all directions, their laughter drowning the music.  In the evening, we had the most terrible storm we have ever experienced.  The awful thunder claps shook the house; the forked lightening lit up the hills, whilst torrents of rain came down.  For two hours and a half it continued without a break, such a storm had not been known for years.  The cellar of our house – and many others – was flooded.  It came on about 6pm and the thunder was still rumbling at 10pm.  The night was moonlit, though pouring rain continued.

June 25th

A lovely day followed the storm.  Sat in the park after dinner and then went to chapel, subject of discourse: ‘What will ye do with Jesus?’  In the evening, we strolled out by the river and watched the moon rise over the distant hills.

June 26th

Listened to the band in the park – ‘Pell Mell’ was one of the prettiest pieces.  Another storm, the sky black as ink and the wind terrific whirling everything before it.

June 27th

The last day of our visit to Kreuznach, we have been here five weeks and four days.  A very pleasant time – tomorrow we leave for the Black Forest.  We listened to the band for the last time – the played selections from ‘The Last Rose of Summer’, ‘Oh, had I wings to fly’, and ‘When the swallows homeward fly’.

In the evening, we packed up.  In Kreuznach, there is a peculiar tree with long, brown pods called the trumpet tree.  Of an evening, the frogs in the Nahe make quite a disturbance with their croaking.

June 28th

We left Bad Kreuznach at 3pm.  Upon leaving, Mrs Meyer presented us each with a bunch of lovely roses, on the petal of a flower in each bunch, a message was written, viz: ‘Farewell’, ‘Good voyage’ and ‘Remembrance of Kreuznach’.  Fraulein Meyer came to the station to see us off.

We passed through Bingerbruck, where a number of vines had been broken down by the storm.  Passing along the banks of the Rhine, broad in some parts and exceedingly pretty, we arrived at Mainz at 4.12pm.  Here we changed trains, leaving again at 4.20pm.  We reached Mannheim at 6.40pm.

An amusing incident occurred here.  After much difficulty, we made a porter understand that we wanted the right platform for Karlsruhe, pointing to one on the further side, we at once crossed the lines.  To our surprise, the two station masters ran after us, looking very flushed and angry and, talking excitedly in German, all the time waving their arms about.  Supposing they wishes us to go back to our former platform, we pointed to our luggage, but this put the official into such a temper that we hurried across to the other platform, amid a volley of angry words and a crowd of curious eyes.

Not knowing what offence we had committed, it was not a nice situation to find ourselves the centre of an angry crowd and we were truly thankful, when our train came up at 6.30pm, to leave the spot!  We passed through Heidelberg, noted for its beauty and historical interest.  Close to the station are wooded hills, partly cultivated.  Heidelberg forms the key to the valley of the Necker.  Going on through dark pine forests, the Palatine mountains stretched away to our right, cultivated at their base and sloping away to dark woods towards their summits.  On the left, the country was flat. 

We reached Karlsruhe at 8.14pm and went to the Victoria Hotel, a fine building opposite the station.  Our bedrooms adjoin and are large, comfortable rooms, furnished with couches and a table, the beds being shut off by curtains.  The dining room is handsome, with its pine wood floor and ornamental ceiling.  By night, Karlsruhe looks picturesque; the station in front of us is bright with electric laps, and red and coloured laps illuminate the streets; down each side of the wide road, are trees and, in the distance, the hills are visible.

June 29th

We left Karlsruhe at 11.50am, in pouring rain and, passing through Baden Baden, we reached Appenweier at 1.06pm.  Here, we changed trains and the scenery from here to Oppenau was charming.  We were now well in the Black Forest.  A long chain of mountains rose behind each other, black with pine trees.  The shades of green, from pale to dark, were lovely and the clouds rested on the mountain summits. 

The scene was grand beyond description.  Here and there, old world cottages, with glorious gardens full of roses and sweet william, etc, added to the beauty of the scene.  In the fields, women and girls were making hay and, in the orchards, the trees were laden with fruit.  This was the Renchthal railway, and it wound through the valley of the river Rench, ascending the mountainside.  We arrived at Oppenau at 2.20pm and, here, we found a difficulty in making ourselves understood.  After a long discussion, in mixed English and German, we finally got into the diligence and drove on the Friedersbach.  The scenery surpassed that on the Renchthal railway.

We arrived at our destination about 4pm, and found a beautiful hotel, where we put up.  Our bedroom is like a large sitting room with three beds, a large table, couch and armchairs, and a nice balcony.  There are several public sitting rooms and the large dining room has a great outlook.  The Friedersbach hotel is situated in a charming nook, right amongst the pine-clad mountains; fruit, and other trees, grow in luxuriance.

After tea, we went a short way up the mountainside.  In front of the hotel is an enclosure with seats and, in the centre, is a fountain which plays into a pond with goldfish.  A path leads up to this lined, on either side, by rose trees in full bloom.  A small garden also adjoins the hotel.  On the road to Bad Peterstal, fig trees are growing in pots by the roadside. 

The heavy rains and brought out numbers of brick-red slugs and, in the tiny pools, there were skipjacks.  The finches were so tame that they came to us when we held our hands out and chirped for crumbs.  We found some wild strawberries.  By a winding, shady path, we wound down to Bad Peterstal village, an old-fashioned spot with a Roman Catholic church, surrounded by a graveyard.

June 30th

Showery: this morning, there was a Roman Catholic procession here – it passed our hotel.  It is held twice a year – today’s was to pass a benediction on the fields.  It was a pretty sight as they wound through the valley.  First came two boys, bearing an image of Our Saviour on a cross; little boys followed, ranging up to men – all chanting their prayers.  Then came the girls and women, dressed in red, green, blue and gold dresses and kerchiefs; the brighter the colour, the prettier the effect.  Their hair was all tightly plaited, and they carried rosaries and the tiny children wore dresses down to their feet.

Next came the band.  The men had black coats lined with scarlet, their coat tails fastened back to show the lining, and scarlet waistcoats, knee breeches and white stockings, with black walking boots.  Wide-awake hats, flat crowned with, on one side, a high plume, white at the top and red at the bottom was fastened; a bunch of artificial flowers, with a tinsel ornament, and white bands completed the hat.  Their instruments were trumpets and drums. 

The soldiers came next in a similar costume but the plumes were entirely red.  These two lots are the only small army which remains in Germany today of those that used to protect the little villages in olden times; people came from distant parts to see them.

Four tiny girls followed them, bearing wreaths on long poles; then little boys tinkling bells as they walked, and swinging incense.  Under a golden canopy, came the priest, supported by two more priests, gorgeously attired in gold and white robes.  As he walked, he repeated a benediction.  Numbers of men and women brought up the rear, the latter wearing little black capes, a sign of marriage.  All who preceded the priest were unmarried men and women; those who came behind him were married.  From Bad Peterstal to Friedersbach and back again, as far as the church, the procession wound whilst cannons were constantly fired.

When the procession had passed, we climbed the mountain opposite the hotel – words fail to describe the view.  Soft, grassy slopes, rising from the valley, were outlined by the dark pine forests which seemed to shut out the great world beyond.  In the hollows nestled old-fashioned cottages and the river Rench threaded its silvery way through the valley.  Over our heads, cherry trees laden with their scarlet berries; along the banks, clusters of huckleberries with, here and there, a clump of blue forget-me-nots, completed the beauty of a scene which will be impressed upon our memories.

The fruit trees were owned by the proprietor of our hotel and he gave us full liberty to help ourselves, we had only to bend the boughs to gather as many as we wanted; the little crickets were chirping merrily at our feet.  It seemed impossible to conceive of a scene more lovely, a paradise on earth, and I wondered what could await us that could be more beautiful – in the land, which eye hath not seen, nor heart conceived.  It must, indeed, surpass our highest imaginations.

After table d’hote, the military band passed again and were treated to wine and cigars by the proprietor of our hotel.  They all sat out in the open round the little tables and played several pieces.  In their smart uniforms, they looked very picturesque.  They were very generous with their wine, sharing it with some of the poor boys round and one gave his glass to an old man.  Having finished their wine, the order was given to march, with the leader going in front to beat time with his gold and red stick adorned with a tassel.  Several hotels in the village treated them to wine and beer afterwards.

We went out again and visited the various mineral springs.  There are three in this hotel – you go down a flight of stone steps to them; two more are in a house further down the road and a sixth one is at Peterstal.  This village was gay on account of the festival.  Wreaths and festoons adorned some of the houses and the people wore their holiday clothes and the military had halted in front of the town hall.  There was a miniature fair, which consisted of one stall laden with a mixture of goods. 

Upon our return to the hotel, we went to see the animals.  Some fine horses, five cows and a calf, poultry and five cats, etc, all well cared for.  The servants, who wait on us here wear native dress, and can rarely understand what we say, much to our amusement.  The proprietor is the only one who knows a word of English and his knowledge is very scant.  We get a dictionary and write out our wants, translating the answers when necessary. 

As an instance, we asked for some ham at tea today and they brought us a dish of serviette rings – this is one of the many funny mistakes.

July 1st

Very wet all day, only got a short walk and visited the stables and cow house.

July 2nd

Very wet again but managed to get out between the showers.  All was looking so fresh and pretty, with the river bubbling over the stones in the valley.  We had to seek shelter in one of the quaint houses and, with native hospitality, they took us in where the family were sitting – two men, three women and five children.  The living room had a low ceiling, wooden floor, a bench around the walls, a table and two chairs.  All the people here are Roman Catholics and we are the only English, and the only Protestants.  Although Sunday, they have all been having a dance in the recreation room downstairs.

July 3rd

Sunshine: we went for a long walk up the mountains; the scene was enchanting as we climbed a narrow path, steep and rugged.  Before us stretched the ever-lasting hills, clean out against the blue sky.  Men were gathering the cherries and, in the fields, the girls were cutting hay while women of the hills beyond were picking the ripe huckleberries, which they gather with a comb.  Here and there, the river forms cascades, or little waterfalls.  Crossing a wooden bridge, we came to Peterstal and Bad Peterstal, a pretty village with an hotel and a mineral spring. 

Beyond this, a little further than we walked, lies the village of Friedersbach.  Every here and there, on the hillside, large bare rocks jutted out from amongst the foliage.  On the stream side, forget-me-nots, foxgloves and stellaria were growing.

In the afternoon, we went towards Oppenau, where the mountains shut us in on every side until we reached a small village inn, where there had just been a wedding.  A band was playing and dancing was going on indoors.  Many of the cottages are decorated here with pieces of wood shaped like the letter ‘U’.  The women work much harder than the men.  Often we see the latter lounging about smoking their pipes, whilst their wives and daughters carry heavy loads on their heads, draw carts and cut the grass, etc.

July 4th

After going to Peterstal, we walked to the pine forest, three quarters of a mile from here.  A quiet gloom pervaded the forest, broken only by the sighing of the wind amongst the stately, dark trees which grow so close together.  The air was fresh and bracing and, in the afternoon, we had a thunder shower.

July 5th

Climbed the hills again and, in the evening, went for a stroll in the avenue across the road where the branches of the trees are trained in in opposite directions so as to let in more light.  One side of the avenue is a large hay field; on the other, the river.

July 6th

Very wet, but cleared in the afternoon.  We met a lot of women with large baskets of cherries and huckleberries on their heads.  We have noticed a great many crosses erected on the roadsides; some have figures of our Saviour on, occasionally there is a figure of the Virgin.  At Kreuznach, there was a large stone cross on the bridge in the town.  They are erected to keep before the people the story of the Cross and what it signifies.

July 7th

In the morning, we walked towards Sheppach – the road lay between the Rench valley and the hills.  Mountains closed us in on every side.  In one village, all the cottages were thatched and moss grown and there were several water mills.  Contrasted with this, was a part so dirty it might have been a corner of London.  Here, we sheltered in a barn from a shower.  Wild strawberries, foxgloves, forget-me-nots, pansies, bluebells and dog daisies abounded.  In the rocks, we found some wasps nests, a deserted one we secured.  We saw a number of grasshoppers, some grass-green, two inches in length, others light brown, a quarter of an inch long.  They came onto my umbrella, so we examined them well.

Our walk was full of interest; ants, gaudy hornets flashing in the sunlight, leaf insects, blue and other coloured butterflies made me long to study nature more than ever.  There were quantities of wild maidenhair ferns.  We had rain and thunder in the afternoon.

During table d’hote, we had a concert.  A man, with a girl of twelve and a lad of ten, played a variety of instruments beautifully; some had a sad, sweet tone.  Their dress was very picturesque.  The little girl wore a red shirt trimmed with black ribbon, a black velvet bodice laced in front with blue and gold, a blue satin apron, white elbow sleeves tied up with blue and curly hair.  The boy had a black coat and knee breeches, tied up with green ribbons, and red stockings.

In the evening we walked to Peterstal.

July 8th

A lovely day, very hot: we walked beside the river – on the far side, a waterfall tumbles over the stones and, passing under a wooden bridge, falls again, bending its course, flows through the village.  In the fields, the women wear large straw hats trimmed with red wool feathers.  The butterflies will alight on our hands and, like the birds, seem devoid of fear.  A heavy rain came down after we got home.

In the afternoon, a party of eleven of us started off from the hotel for a long ramble.  All were Germans and, being unable to speak English, we had a good deal of fun.  Two gentlemen led the way; Frau Smit, Fraulein Lull, Elsie and Emily and their mother and father, were amongst the party.  The path we took was steep and winding and led us right amongst the mountains until the valley was almost lost to sight, such a grand scene.

We returned home by a steep path through the woods.  We had great fun crossing the bogs and clambering down steep banks.  We got a large basket full of cherries from a man who was gathering them and altogether had a happy time, reaching home about 6.30pm.  We stayed at home in the evening.

July 9th

We walked to Friedersbach in the morning, to the village.  Saw a barley crop growing on a rock with only two or three inches of mould, a fine lot, about one and a half metres high.  This village is not so pretty as ours.  The scenery is flatter, the river winds through it and rocks are scattered on the hillsides.   

In the afternoon, we took a new hill road towards Oppenau.  A charming view opened out before us, the chain of mountains in the distance covered with dark pines; at our feet, the valley through which we could hear the river gurgling as it tumbled over the stones, forming lovely cascades in its course.  The scent from the hay fields reached us on the hillside; barley fields and one tiny cottage added to the variety of the scene.  We found a number of wild raspberries.  We strolled about near home in the evening.

July 10th

In the morning, we went towards Oppenau, taking a wide road; as we climbed, the view became lovely.  The wind was strong.  Crossing a little valley, we entered a wood and, going over a bridge, found we were in a cottage garden so had to retrace our steps.

We gathered lots of dog daisies, forget-me-nots, wild briar roses and strawberries.  In the afternoon, the rain set in.

July 11th

Very wet today: an American gentleman, and his daughter, are now staying here, so we are able to talk to someone in English again.  They went for a walk in the afternoon with us.  And, in the evening, we walked to Peterstal.

July 12th

Bitterly cold, with rain coming down in sheets, and wind howling whilst the mist hides the hills.  Sometimes the mountain tops appear above the clouds, standing sharply outlined against the sky.

July 13th

Very wet again: we walked towards Oppenau in the afternoon and found lots of wild raspberries, fine ones.  Also a pale green butterfly with two narrow, white stripes on each wing, snow white underneath and eyes green.

July 14th

Sat out of doors in the afternoon and went up a steep path between the mountains.

July 15th

Grace’s birthday – gathered a large bunch of wild forget-me-nots for her, the loveliest I have seen.  In the afternoon, found out a new walk; climbing a hill near, we crossed a wooden bridge over a stream onto another hill.  Here, along a narrow path between the bushes, we found a nice seat commanding a lovely view.  One of the most glorious days of sunshine we have had – blue sky, with scarcely a cloud, and a gentle breeze.  The fountain opposite our hotel looks like a shower of diamonds in the sunlight.  The goldfish are quite tame and will eat out of my hand and glide right into it.

July 16th

Very warm and bright today: during our walk up the hill, near Peterstal, we saw a remarkable sight.  One large bush, standing alone, was smothered with caterpillars, hanging in clusters to every branch and weighing them down.  They were about one inch in length, black with red spots and silver-grey hairs, black bristles and red legs.  In the afternoon, we sat out of doors and read and worked.  Stayed at home in the evening.

June 17th

The sun was shining brightly in the morning, when we went into the pine forest; leaving the regular path, we got onto a slippery, downhill path.  It was dark and gloomy, the dead lower branches of the pines making it look dreary.  We came across some men gathering cherries and bought some from them. 

At the entrance to the wood, we found some stones by a rivulet, where we rested.  Sat out of doors during the afternoon, and worked.

June 18th

Very wet morning; cleared in the afternoon and we went for a walk with the Americans, Mrs Bernard, another lady and Elsie.  In the evening, we went into the village.

June 19th

Very wet – kept in all day.  In the evening, we all joined and had games together, a very enjoyable time.

June 20th

Wet, but went for a short walk in the afternoon.  In the evening, we drove to Oppenau to meet Papa by the 7.35 train – a lovely drive both there and back.  It is so delightful to have him with us again.  We got home about 8.30pm.

July 21st

Went on some lovely walks up the hills and to the village

July 22nd

An exquisite day: in the morning, we all, with Mr Hindberger and Pauline, went up into the pine forest, where it was beautifully cool; we thoroughly enjoyed it.  On the top of the hill, we sang some hymns.  I found a pile of empty nut shells on some old tree trunks, so there must be squirrels or some animals about.

July 23rd

At 10am. We all – with Pauline – started for a day’s drive.  The horses were Marlie and Fritz.  It was a beautiful day, the country looked fresh and lovely after so much rain.  First we drove to Oppenau, a picturesque little town shut in by the hills.  The river runs by the side of it; the houses are whitewashed and have green shutters, small and quaint looking.  Here and there, we passed groups of peasants with their children. 

At Oppenau, we turned off to go to Allerheiligen, where the waterfalls are.  The scenery was beyond description; as we followed a winding road, the mountains closed us in on every hand.  The river falling in miniature cascades, now and again lost itself amongst the bushes and then flashed out again like a gleam of silver in the sunlight.  All this time, we were slowing ascending the mountainside, the pines looked black and gloomy.  One wood was beautifully shaded from pale to very dark green.  Far below us, on the other side, the hills rose up and wild flowers climbed the banks. 

At 11am, we reached Allerheiligen, were we got out to climb the heights.  Hundreds of steps led to the summit and numbers of small wooden bridges crossed the falls.  The great waterfall was the chief object of beauty; it fell from a height with tremendous force over some rocks.  Turning a sharp corner, some huge boulders intercepted its course and, rushing through a narrow space, it fell to a great depth like a large silver cascade.  Still rushing onward, it fell again and again until, at last, it reached the valley and flowed calmly on , shut in by the lofty mountains on either hand.

We stood, lost in admiration at the exquisite grandeur of the scene.  On one side of us was a huge moss-covered cave.  In the valley far below, the light was shining through dark pine forests.  The ground was covered with dead leaves and moss-grown stones; moss hung in festoons from the pine branches, every dead branch was covered with its lovely green.  Ferns climbed the banks, some of these we secured.  Rocks, solid and tremendous, rose on either side of us; we could follow with our eyes the rush of the water until it turned a corner; dead forest trees impeded its course at places.  All this grandeur and beauty was enclosed by a narrow space from 20–30ft wide between the hills.

Reaching the summit, we had table d’hote at the hotel there.  Behind the hotel, we found some beautiful old Abbey ruins, which we explored – the black forest formed a sombre background.  Reluctantly, we tore ourselves from the lovely spot and wound our way back to where the carriage waited for us.  Then we drove to a place called the end of the world.  Here the forest is so dense, that no road or path penetrates into its gloom.

At an hotel here, we had some coffee, etc, in a fine dining room draped with red and white curtains and containing a music gallery.  In the basement of the building, there is a mineral spring; the water is brought up to the patients by means of a tiny lift behind a counter in a lofty room.  A man fills the glasses down below.  We drove home by the same route through fairy-like scenes of beauty.  A bank near Oppenau was one mass of red, white, yellow and blue wild flowers.  A solitary cross was erected on one high rock in memory of one who had been suddenly killed on that spot.  We reached home about 7pm, after having had a most enjoyable day.

July 24th

A lovely day: sat out of doors and Papa went fishing in the afternoon.  Showers later

July 25th

A lovely morning, intensely hot: we all started off with Mr Hindberger, Pauline, Mr and Mrs Roeder and two guides, for a picnic into the forest.  Leaving at 10.30am, we drove as far as the waterfall, the gentlemen walking and the guides carrying our luncheon hamper and cloaks.  We reached the waterfall at 11am, which was very pretty.  Tumbling over some large rocks, it fell between moss-covered stones and ferns and then under a rustic bridge and on to the valley between woods on either side.  Here, we all met and soon penetrated into the forest.  It was much cooler here and, in some parts, like twilight.

We soon lost sight of everything and, reaching an open space from which paths diverged in all directions, had our first halt.  Going on again, we reached a very dense part of the Black Forest, no house or living creature was near; nothing but the solemn, dark pines stretching away for miles.  Too lonely even for any birds, the only sound was the wind signing through the trees overhead.  Here, in this secluded spot, we found a tree trunk and, making this our seat, and the bare ground our table, we opened out our luncheon basket.  We thoroughly enjoyed our meal, having bought roast fowls and forgotten knives and forks, only added to the fun. 

Having rested well, we continued our walk for another hour, when we had reached the summit of one of the highest mountains, 4,000ft about sea level.  Just hear, the trees were thin and it was more open.

Descending a little, we came to one of the densest parts where there is a black lake, its waters without a ripple, black as ink, shut in by majestic mountains; from its brink, the lofty pines rear their dark branches; absolute stillness reigns.  The spot is awe-inspiring and weird in the extreme.  No one has succeeded in fathoming the dark waters, though men have tried.  Sky and clouds are reflected in the glassy clearness of the lake; the pines cast their huge shadows across it; dragon flies, azure and gold, dip their gaudy wings on its surface.  But I cannot describe in words this scene. 

We rested on the margin of the lake, chained to the weird spot, which threw its spell over us all.  It stands at an elevation of 4,000ft above sea level.  Wending our steps towards home, we came to a place where the land had slipped and, through the break, we could look down upon pine-covered mountains far below us, a tremendous depth.

The road home was lovely in the extreme.  All round, the light broke through the pine trees and fell upon a carpet of moss; the tops of the trees were thick with clusters of pine cones.  We followed a grass-grown path, where Napoleon’s troops had trodden before us – the heat was suffocating.

Passing from one forest to another, we gradually descended until we reached the valley of Bad Griesbach.  Here, a little village nestles in a narrow valley between the hills.  Tired out, we sat down on the roadside whilst the gentlemen sent for a conveyance to take us the remaining three miles back to the hotel.  The distance we had walked was tremendous, but we had seen the Black Forest in its lonely grandeur, and had a delightful day.

July 26th

There was a heavy thunder storm last night, with sheet lightening – the thunder claps echoed from mountain to mountain it was very wet in the morning.  We left for our journey home at 3.30pm.  All the people from the hotel came to see us off in the carriage for Oppenau.  Mr Meyer presented Mamma, Grace and me with three lovely large bouquets of roses, done up with white lace paper, and two little girl visitors gave Grace and me two smaller bouquets of roses so, like a wedding party, amid many good wishes and wavings of hats and handkerchiefs, we left Friedersbach, the little dog running after the carriage to give us a farewell bark.

We left Oppenau by the 4.55pm train for Appenweier, where we changed for Mannheim, a pretty place with beautiful avenues near the station.  From here, we went on to Karlsruhe and changed for Mainz.   At Mainz, we took a bus for the Hotel de Hollande, arriving about 11.30pm.  We had a good night’s rest.  The streets here are lit well by electric light.  It is a fine hotel, we breakfasted in a cool saloon, where a very good string band was playing.

Last night, we saw one of the loveliest sunsets we have ever seen, when we were on the train.  Against the blue of the sky, gold and black clouds shaded to purple and deep pink; the sun sinking like a ball of fire behind the pine trees. 

We went out in the morning.  Mainz is a fine place, broad stone-paved roads, tall houses and good shops.  The market was a busy scene, crowded with people.  Cherries, peaches, pears, raspberries and all kinds of fruit and vegetables filled the stalls.  The women who served wore handkerchiefs tied over their heads.  Making our way through the busy scene, we went to the cathedral, noted for its beautiful sculptures.  It looks very old and contains some fine paintings.  One represents Our Saviour, with a crown of thorns, bearing his cross; the face has a wonderful expression.  Amongst the sculptures is one representing the last supper; another, the ascension; one is a kneeling figure, the robes carved to perfection.  A striking one is that of a man lifting the lid of his coffin; on one side stands the skeleton Death and, on the other, Time. 

People were kneeling before some of the figures, where candles were burning; a lady was embracing and kissing one of the altars.  Swinging incense, a ceiling of blue and gold, a carved pulpit, a figure of Christ on the cross surrounded by a large wreath, were amongst the noticeable features. 

Leaving the cathedral, we passed the town hall, a fine exterior.  The Rhine, which flows in front of our hotel, is very wide and is crossed by two bridges; there are a number of fortifications along the banks.  Canons are placed on the hills around.

July 27th

A lovely day; we left Mainz by the 9.30am steamer, the ‘Humboldt’, to go down the Rhine as far as Koln.  We passed Bingen and Rudesheim, where we again saw the Niederwald.  On a small island, we saw the Mouse Tower: there is a legend to the effect that a clergyman once had to seek refuge there because of his religious views.  On one side of the river, a railroad goes to Frankfurt; on the other, to Koln.  The trains pass through a number of small tunnels through the rocks, the entrance to each being built to resemble watch towers. 

Amongst the places of interest were Assmannshausen, a pretty spot; Rheinstein Castle, an old ruin situated on a hill; the castles of Falkenberg and Sooneck; the village of Niederheimbach, with Tower Heimburg; Kaub, where the Prussian troops crossed in 1814 against the French.  It was here that the Russians marched under the direction of Blucher.  The Paflz Tower stands in the river.  In one rock, an archway has been cut and a figure of the Virgin put in.

At the Lurlei (Lorelei), a massive rock, the scenery is very beautiful.  It was here that the famous song was composed.  At St Goar, the river is narrow and deep – and very dangerous because of the rapids and the rocks.  The bottom is sandy and good salmon are caught here. 

On the other side of the river are the Goarshausen mountains covered with vines and trees forming the chief beauty of the scenery, and the old castles on the banks.  One of the prettiest is Marksburg – this was not destroyed by the French.  There are numbers of rafts about.  We had a good view of Coblenz from the steamer.  The country here is pretty, there are strong fortifications on the hills against the river.  There is also a palace, and a bridge or boats.  This consists of a number of black boats placed side by side, a platform crossing from one to the other.  One, or more, are worked by steam so as to allow passenger boats to pass through it.  It is the kind of bridge used in war, as it can easily be taken to pieces.  Champagne is made in Coblenz.

Passing Neuwied and Andernach, we came to Bonn, which looked lovely from the river, the large houses interspersed with old-fashioned ones.  Then we came to Remagen, where Appollinaris water is manufactured, and Roland near Konigswinter, is Baron Lesseps’ castle, the builder of the Suez Canal.  It is a fine building, considered one of the best on the Rhine, set on the summit of a hill amongst the trees.  From here, the scenery was flat and the river wide. 

We stopped at all the places mentioned, so had a good view of them.  We passed many strange looking ferry and dredging boats on our way.  After having table d’hote on board, we landed at Cologne at 6pm and drove to the Disch hotel.  The day on the Rhine we much enjoyed.  This is a grand hotel, up all the staircases, there are massive marble pillars.  There is a good lift, furnished like a miniature room.  In our bedroom, the ceiling is painted to represent blue sky, with white clouds floating about.

In Papa and Mama’s room, there is a large glass chandelier.  The beds are covered with lace eiderdown quilts, lined with pale green and crushed strawberry.  As soon as we had called at the hotel, we went out for a walk and, once again, visited the cathedral, which I have described before.  We went to a dark place, resembling an Abbey, and then to the shops and the arcade, the florists and the china shops, struck us as the best.  We were pleased with what we saw of the best parts of the city.  The boat we came down by arrived at Koln at 6pm.  It is a busy town, with narrow streets but good shops.

July 28th

After a short walk through the town, we left Cologne by the 10.14am train for Brussels.  Most of the scenery through which we passed was flat and uninteresting.  Some of the places were Aix la Chapelle, Liege, Louvain and Verviers.  Here, the country is wooded and there is a pretty river.  We arrived at Brussels at 4.30pm and took rooms at the Hotel de l’Univers, as before.  A drenching day, and high winds. 

We took a train to the exhibition – these trams are divided into two parts – a door leading from one to the other division.  The Brussels’ exhibition was similar to our colonial one, but not so fine.  The grounds are well laid out; at the entrance are two gift figures standing on large pillars.  A switchback, boat swings, a large balloon, fanciful buildings, etc are in the grounds.  In the art gallery, the sculpture is very fine, particularly one pulpit.  The exhibition abounds in machinery; tapestry pictures; delicate Brussels’ lace fans, painted by hand with pearl handles.  One dress is entirely composed of this lace.  The Paris dolls are a striking feature; boy dolls, with powdered wigs and cocked hats, in various dancing and other positions; girls with fancy headdresses and miniature lace fans, their faces most expressive.

Amongst other exhibits were marble fireplaces, brass and china work, stuffed animals, live seals and a pretty grotto.  We did not see all as it was nearly closing time when we arrived.

We walked about the town and saw the Bank, House of Commons, cathedral, etc.  The broad streets are paved with stone; some of the houses are fine, also the shops, particularly confectioners and cigar shops.  AT 8.30, we returned to our hotel for tea.

July 29th

We first went to an old church, but the people were coming out, so we went on to the cathedral.  The service was proceeding and a large number were present.  The people were all kneeling on their chairs, a small bell called to different forms of prayer.  A man collected money during these devotions, giving change to some.  A white-robed priest, with a large green cross embroidered on his surplice, officiated before the altar over which was a statue of the Virgin bedecked with jewels.  On each side of him, two small boys knelt, dressed in white and scarlet.  Every ten minutes, the priest bowed low then, going a little to one side, mumbled a few verses from the Bible.  Elevating the Cup to the Virgin, he drank from it and then turned and solemnly waved his hands over the kneeling congregation, forgiving their sins. 

Their form of worship struck us as very sad.  Everyone bowed and continually crossed themselves, even little children reached up to the holy water vessel to dip their fingers in and make the sign of the cross.

Having left the cathedral, we went to see all we could.  The shops are beautiful.  We visited the town hall – in the council chamber; the ceiling is painted by a pupil of Rubens.  The seats are ruby velvet, and a large mirror fills one end of the room.  We went into the feast room, and ante-chamber, and sat in the Lord Mayor’s chair.  It is a very fine building.

Then we visited the museum, which contains a number of ancient pictures, medals and books, etc.  The flower market was a very busy scene in spite of the day being Sunday.  A number of the boys here wear wooden shoes.  After table d’hote, we walked to the park, which contains nice walks and sculptures; also some ornamental gardens.  We visited the Palace of Justice, situated on a hill.  It took seventeen years to build and cost £2,000,000.  There was a good view of Brussels from here.  We saw several places of interest and went for a walk through the boulevards.  It is a beautiful city.

July 30th

Very wet, but we went out a little into the arcades.  At 10.20am, we left Brussels for Calais – scenery, flat.  At the French frontier, we all had to get out to have our boxes examined at the custom house.  It was great fun.  One gentleman had his pockets examined because they found a small packet of cigars in his bag.  We passed through Tournai and saw the cathedral.  We arrived safely home again in the evening.


NOTES on our TRIP TO SCOTLAND

June 14th to September 14th 1899

As told by E Adeline Smith

SECOND TRIP to SCOTLAND

June 13th

Mother, Father and I left Kings Cross, by the 10am train, for Whitley.  We arrived at Whitley Park Hotel soon after six.  Spent a happy time with Jack and Fannie and the others.

June 15th

Early in the afternoon, we left Whitley for Edinburgh.  Most of the scenery was flat and uninteresting.  Berwick on Tweed looks very pretty from the rail.  We reached Edinburgh at 6.30pm and drove to Darling’s Regent Hotel in Waterloo Place, a continuation of Princes Street.

In the evening, Father and I went up Princes Street and George Street, fine wide streets running parallel, with first class chops and a good arcade

June 16th

We spent the day visiting different places of interest in Edinburgh.  First we went, on the top of a tram, to the botanical gardens; after seeing over these, we went to see the British Linen Company’s bank, a find building with mosaic floors, gilded ceilings and granite pillars.  Then we drove to the castle which, from its prominent position, overlooks Prince’s Gardens and the city.  The soldiers were going through their drill when we got there.  In the Crown room, we saw the regalia of Scotland, other things of note were the Argyll Tower, and prison cell, Queen Margaret’s chapel, Queen Mary’s room. 

On the battlements, enclosed by miniature iron railings, is the soldiers’ pets’ cemetery.  Twelve tiny tombstones mark the graves of favourite dogs that have followed the regiments for so many years.

After leaving the castle, we went to the fine old cathedral of St Giles; its special features are the exquisite stained glass windows and the time-worn flags of Scotland.  It is here that the Heart of Midlothian marks the site of the old Tolbooth prison.  There is a gloomy, oppressive, air about the old building, so rich in historic associations.  It was in this church that the struggle took place, so many years ago, at the introduction of the English church service, when Jane Geddes took up her stool and hurled it at the bishop’s head.

We next drove round Arthur’s Seat, its summit was enveloped in clouds.  Amongst other places of interests, we saw Holyrood Palace, with its ruined Abbey, Edinburgh prison (still in use), Carlton Hill, crowned by Nelson’s monument, the monuments of Scott and Burns – the former is ornamented by carved stone figures representing the characters in his novels; and the university, the fine dome of which is surmounted by a figure of Fame.

Edinburgh is a most beautiful city, but it seems to consist of West End and East Wynd, there is no middle class.  On the one hand it abounds in find public buildings and private residences and yet, in the midst of all its wealth, there is on the other hand, the most abject poverty.  Some of the closes consist of eight or nine-storied houses in which the wretched population are crowded together like animals.  It is the question ‘Darkest England’ (William Booth) over again, which seems to defy solution.  The closes are entered by dark, narrow passages which open into dirty courts, and as extended rods from the upper windows serve as drying grounds the picture is one of squalid misery.

June 17th

Went for a walk after breakfast down the Canongate, where John Knox’s house is, and then on to the university.  Taking a tram back to Prince’s Street Gardens, we spent a short time there.  There is a fine monument of Sir Walter Scott in the gardens.

We left Edinburgh, by the 10.27am train, for Oban, arriving at 4.52pm.  The Highland railway to Oban passes through some exquisite scenery; it winds through glens and rugged mountain scenery and along the banks of Loch Awe and the gloomy Pass of Brander.  Upon first leaving Edinburgh, the country is flat, but it soon gains grandeur and beauty.  We came through the flowing places of interest: Stirling, Bridge of Allan, Dunblane, Doune, Callander – where we had to change; Crianlarich and Dalmally. 

Upon arriving at Oban, we drove to our apartments, previously engaged, at Oban Times Buildings on the Esplanade.

June 18th

A very wet, cold day: in the morning, we went to St John’s Episcopal Church and, in the evening, to St Columba Established Church, where we heard an earnest sermon from the Rev Alfred Brown; we much enjoyed the service.  In the evening, we went a long ramble amongst the hills.

Our apartments are in a charming situation.  We have seventy-three stone steps to ascend to reach our flat.  The front windows command an extensive view of loch and mountain.  Just below lies the blue bay, studded with white-sailed yachts and rowing boats; the slopes of the mountains and hills, which surround the bay, are covered with pines; upon their summits the white clouds rest at times.  In the centre of the bay rises the green island of Kerrera.

June 19th

Bleak and wintry, brighter later.  In the evening, we went a drive to Lochan  a Bhuilg Bhith – a very bad road for driving, some parts almost impassable, the wheels being within two or three inches of the edge of steep banks on  one side and brushing the hill slopes on the other; so jolty, we had to hold on.  At last we reached one of the fairest representations of ‘Peace’ I have ever seen.

Leaving the conveyance, we walked to the side of a still lake, nestling in a hollow of the mountains.  No sound disturbed the unbroken silence save the plaintive cry of the seagulls, which our presence disturbed.  A few sheep were scattered on the slopes; no other life was near.  It was such a silence as can be felt, the calm of God seemed to brood over the scene and enter into one’s soul.

The hill slopes were rich in varied ferns, and one field was covered with yellow iris; we gathered a handful to bring home.

June 20th

Cold and raining most of the day.  In the early morning, we went for a circular coach drive, going by Glenshellach and returning by Gallanach and the Sound of Kerrera. 

Most of the road was a narrow, steep, mountain path with towering cliffs and jagged rocks rising on one side, clothed with dark fir trees, clinging ivy and varied ferns.  The highland sheep, with their little snow-white lambs dotted the green slopes of the hillsides.

June 21st

Weather improved, air balmy and warm: at 10am, we went, by the steamer, St Louse, to Connel Ferry, a two hour trip.  The water was so still and clear that it reflected the trees along its margin.  We landed at Dunstaffnage Castle to explore the old ruin.

Scaling the wall, by means of a perpendicular ladder, we had a fine view from the ivy-clad summit of loch and mountain.  At one time, the castle was taken possession of by Bruce, after his victory over the lords of Lorne.  Flora Macdonald is supposed to have been detained there as a prisoner.

In the evening, we drove, by inland route, to the castle.

June 22nd

In the morning, we went a five mile drive to Loch Nell, at Kilmore.  On our way, we met a funeral party, about thirty followers on foot, winding their sad way down the mountain paths; it brought to mind Ian Maclaren’s pathetic pictures of Scottish village life.

At Kilmore, we dismissed the carriage and wended our way to the loch.  Unmooring one of the small boats on the river, we pushed out into the lake; I rowed whilst Father fished; there was a strong swell and it was hard work going against the current.  The air was warm but it rained heavily all the time.

Loch Nell is about two miles long, and is situated in a mountain glen; the river Nell winding its way through fields of buttercups and banks of yellow iris and foxgloves, empties itself into the loch.  Two or three shepherds’ cots dot the distant hill slopes, no houses spoil the beauty and solitude of the scene.  There is one miniature inn, spotlessly clean.  Standing on the porch, you look right out upon the mountains with the running river at their foot – a very paradise of quiet beauty.

We stayed on the river until nearly four, the rain continued all the time.  After having tea at the inn, whilst Father fished, I went a lovely stroll alone to drink deep of the beauties of nature.  It is when alone with God, and nature, that one realises something of the ‘feeling infinite, most felt when we are most alone’; the very Presence of the Highest over-shadows the soul and stirs thoughts which cannot find expression in words. 

At six o’clock, we drive home again, the rain holding off for a time.  We saw a number of peewits and passed a picturesque burn on the roadside.

June 24th

Sunshine, strong north wind blowing: at 10am, we took the steamer to Connel Ferry, a small boat met us and took us to shore.  The Falls of Lora are very beautiful; at low tide there is a fall of some six or seven feet over the rocks from Loch Etive into Oban Bay, a wild, surging volume of water in which seals and salmon abound. 

It is called ‘The Rapids’ and is celebrated in the Ossianic Cycle.  At high tide, nothing is noticeable but a strong current.  Beyond The Rapids lies Loch Etive; on either side rise mountains on which cloud shadows rest.  Above the rest, towers Ben Cruachan, the highest mountain in Argyllshire, 3,611ft high. 

After a walk over the moors, where we stayed to gather the mountain flax, we crossed The Rapids in a shaky steam launch used by the workmen.  Taking the boat as near as they can to the Falls, the force of the water drifts it rapidly down the loch to a landing stage on the furthest side.  We lunched at the old posting house and returned to Oban by the 3pm boat.

It was a calm evening, still daylight at 10pm and full sun at 9pm.

June 25th

Rain and mist: in the morning, we went to the Free Church in Argyll Square; the singing was very good, conducted by a Precentor.  In the evening, we went to two of the churches but, finding them closed, we climbed one of the hills.  On the summit, there is a large building, representing the Coliseum at Rome, which is in the course of building.  Mr Mccaig, a wealthy banker, is bearing all expense of the structure from which a fine view is obtained, will comprise a museum and a picture gallery.

June 26th

In the morning, we walked to Dunollie Castle, a picturesque, ivy-clad ruin situated on a hill over-looking the bay.  The castle is approached by a lovely avenue, about a mile long.  Some parts are so thickly wooded that it is like twilight under the spreading trees; the steep hill which skirts the avenue is clothed with primroses and clumps of ferns; here and there stern rocks read their heads above the undergrowth, ivy, lichens and mosses clinging to their rugged sides.  From the hill crest, the scene is one beautiful panorama of loch and mountain, wood and town.

The days was glorious – sea and sky vied with each other in azure tings, now and again a passing steamer disturbed the calm waters of the bay or yachts, with their white sails spread to the breeze, glided swiftly by.  In the distance, the cloud shadows rested on the mountain sides whilst, at our feet, the ground was carpeted with white marguerites and golden buttercups.

In the evening, Father and I walked over the hills to Glenmore.  The clear, crisp air was delightful.  There is a peculiar charm about the moors, a sense of freedom indescribable.  To wander for miles over the undulating hills, the greensward elastic beneath one’s feet, the air perfumed with the faint smell of heather and wild flowers; the silence only broken by the bleat of the lambs on the grassy slopes, is to understand that deep joy of which Byron speaks when he says, of nature:

‘There is a rapture on the lonely shore, by the deep sea and music in its roar.

I love not man the less, but nature more, for these our interviews

In which I steal from all I may be, or have been before

To mingle with the universe and feel what I can ne’er express

Yet cannot all conceal.’ (Byron – Childe Harold’s Pilgrimmage)

At past ten o’clock, the sunset glow was still upon the bay, and it was light enough to read out of doors.  In Scotland, in the month of June, the light is so clear that one may almost say ‘there is no night there.’ (John R Clements)

June 27th

Before the rain commenced, we drove through Glenmore, where we had a good view of Lismore, the Sound of Mull, and the hills of Mull and Morven.  These scenes are so graphically described by Scott in his ‘Lord of the Isles’.

June 30th

Drove to Loch Nell, by way of Barron, very steep, mountainous roads.  We saw Loch Feochan, with the hills of Loch Etive, blue in the distance.  The heather is just coming into flower, wild roses abound.  We gathered a bunch of honeysuckle and dug up some wood ferns to send home, the latter grow in profusion, and in the crannies of old moss grown walls, choicer sorts abound.  We saw a lovely squirrel in the woods, some lapwings and grouse in the fields.

July 1st

In the early morning, we drove to Loch Nell.  It was raining when we started but the country looked so sweet and fresh.  However, when we reached the hotel, it seemed to have set in for a wet day, so we drove straight back again. 

On the road to Glenn Nell, there is one of those fascinating mountain burns which find their solitary way down the mountain sides to lose themselves in the tangled grass of the meadows.  The clear water of the burn rushes over some rocks between steep banks of fern and overhanging trees then, flowing gently over its pebbly bed, it winds in and out amongst the moss-grown stones.  The music of a burn has a peculiar charm, a charm which can better be felt than expressed in language.

July 2nd

We heard the Rev Alex Duff preach in the morning at the Established Church; a cold service, poorly attended.  In the evening we went to the new Established Church, St Columba, where we heard a good sermon from Rev A Brown: a well-filled church and reverent, earnest service.  Sundays are well-observed in Scotland, a quiet orderliness prevails.

At Oban, we noticed the cab stand is empty, all shops and the golf links are closed, hardly a small boat or yacht Is in use, all lie anchored in the bay.  Roman Catholicism is strong in Oban and we are told that the Roman Catholic church has the largest congregation in the place.

July 3rd

Father and I went a long ramble over Glenmore.  From the summit of the hills, the view was glorious.  On our left, in a hollow, lay the little town of Oban, with its grey stone houses and churches.  At a bend in the bay, rose the ivy-clad ruin of Dunollie Castle, the rock on which it stands washed by the blue waters of the bay.

Opposite to us stretched the green island and the Sound of Kerrara.  Nestling in a hollow of the hills, was a weed-grown curling pond, which mirrored the blue sky overhead and the rushes on its banks.

On every hand, rose mountains and hills; upon their gentle slopes, the light and shadows fitfully shifted with the play of passing clouds.  Overhead, the skylark poured out is melody until it became a speck against the sky; peewits flitted here and there amongst the heather, sometimes a yellowhammer, or a tiny wren, would alight close by upon the greensward.  ‘Earth’s crammed with heaven’ (Elizabeth Barratt Browning); the moors themselves are full of hidden beauties, numberless tiny flowerets carpet the ground; every rock has its mosses and lichens of delicate tints, each cranny hides some exquisite fern, or seedling, more lovely than the rest.

Leaving the moor, we entered a pine wood; some of the dark trees had been newly hewn and the air was fragrant with their with their perfume.  Skirting the wood stretched a large bed of yellow iris, some of which we gathered to bring home.

In the evening, we all drove a new way through Glenmore: leaving the high road, we drove over the braes and, winding in and out amongst the hills, emerged at last on the sea front and took the sea road home.  It is a lovely road running along the waterside, shut in on the other side by towering rocks; the strata of the Pillar Rock is similar to that of Fingal’s Cave, Staffa.

July 4th

We climbed some fresh hills, knee deep through the bracken, and saw a more extensive view even than from Glenmore.  Undulating hills stretched away into the distance for miles; between them gleamed the blue waters of the lochs.

In the evening, we drove to the inn at Loch Nell and stayed there the night.  Such a quaint little place, whitewashed outside and polished wood floors and ceilings inside.  Pink and white convolvuli twined round the porch.  My bedroom had no window but a skylight in the roof; by standing on a chair, I could put my head through the roof and have a glorious view of the country round.

All night, a corncrake sounded its strange note beneath my room and, as the day dawned, the sleepy twitter of the birds mingled with the bleating of the sheep on the mountain slopes and the shrill cry of the peacock in the garden of the inn.

Father fished in the evening, whilst we rambled along the river bank and watched the sunset until the last tints faded from the sky.

After supper, I went out alone; all was so still and peaceful, no human being within sight.  The grand mountains looked more solemn at night, their summits darkly outlined against the sky – ‘high mountains are a feeling’ (Byron – Childe Harold’s ‘Pilgrimmage’).

The evening star shone brightly overhead, bats whirled round my head, to vanish amongst the sombre trees; a beautiful hare came out close by my feet and, after poising itself a moment on its hind legs to gaze at the intruder, bounded away into a barley field.  Even the cattle seemed to revel in their freedom as they playfully chased each other round the fields. 

All nature was fraught with beauty and with ‘the feeling infinite’(Byron – Childe Harold’s Pilgrimmage).  ‘Nature never did betray the heart that loved her’ (Wordsworth – Lines composed a few miles above Tintern Abbey, on revisiting the banks of the Wye during a tour, July 13th 1798), but as a shining ladder, she leads from earth to heaven and is a stepping stone from man to God.  The calm beauty of that mountain scene will linger long in the memory, although it is impossible to paint its loveliness in poor, human words.

July 5th

In the morning, we took a man with us and went fishing on Loch Nell.  The day was warm and bright, the water reflecting on its clear surface the blue sky and trees fringing its banks.  Some parts were a fretwork of blue and green, varying with the ripples which played upon the water.  Two tiny islands dot the lake and a bed of white and yellow water lilies extend along one bank; we gathered a large bunch to take home.

As we rowed along the banks, wild fowl scudded away at the sound of our oars and shaggy highland cattle, with their calves, came down to the water’s brink.  About three, we went back to the inn for lunch.  Later on, Father fished up the river and caught three eels and a few trout.

Mother read out of doors whilst I wandered up the river, and lay upon its bank listening to the murmur of its waters and drinking in the peaceful beauty of the scene.  With difficulty, I gathered a bunch of silken flax from a peat bog close by.  At 7pm, we bade farewell to this charming glen and drove back to Oban, arriving just before a heavy sea mist rolled down from the hills and veiled everything from sight.

July 6th

A glorious day, we went for a forty-two mile drive – Miss Macdonald went with us.  We left Oban at 10.30am and drove, with a pair of horses, to Taynuilt; here we changed horses and drove on to Loch Awe.  On the way back, we took up the same horses at Taynuilt to return to Oban.

The first part of the drive lay through Dunstaffnage and Connel Ferry; the tide was very low.  Some of the fields were white with marguerites.  Our road lay by the side of Loch Etive, situated in lovely scenery; at the head of the loch lies the picturesque highland village of Taynuilt, comprising one old-fashioned hotel, a few cottages and shops and the river Awe.

Leaving Taynuilt, we drove round the base of Ben Cruachan; in addition to its great height, it is one of the finest-shaped mountains in Argyllshire, a deal of granite is taken from it for building purposes.

The scenery increased in grandeur as we drove on, leaving behind us fields of bog myrtle, and entering a shady avenue of trees, we arrived at the Falls of Ben Cruachan.  The volume of water dashes down a steep incline and leaping from rock to rock, flows into the river Awe at its foot.

We then entered one of the finest bits of Scottish scenery, the celebrated Pass of Brander.  The river Awe, black as ink on account of the towering cliffs looming along its banks, flows through the Pass.  Awfully grand are those cliffs, for the most part bare of verdure, majestic in their height.

From these steep cliffs, or mountain sides, burns trickled, or rushed down to meet the river, beginning like silver threads showing up against the dark background; they widened as they descended, falling like miniature cascades over rocky ledges and gaining volume until, with a rush, they emptied their crystal waters into the dark river below.  Here and there, the calm flow of the river is broken by large stones and projecting rocks around which the water foams and chafes as if impatient of delay.

Colonel Murray owns most of the river; he was fishing in his kilt, true highland fashion, when we passed; the deep pools abound in salmon.  At one part of the river was a picture fit for an artist’s pen – ankle deep in the clear water stood a little girl and boy with primitive fishing rods in their hands, bare-footed and bare-headed, the gentle breeze playing with the girl’s fair hair.

Emerging at last from the long, narrow Pass, a charming view of Loch Awe lay before us.  It extends for twenty-one miles and is dotted by green islands, with a few ruined castles. 

Driving some miles along its bank, we reached a miniature church of St Conan, smothered in ivy and woodbine, with its ‘keep’ used as a manse, on which are the words inscribed ‘Watchman, what of the night, etc’ (Isaiah, 21:11)

A little further on is Loch Awe Hotel, considered to be on one of the finest sites.  The extensive grounds overlook the calm, blue loch so celebrated for its beauty; at the point where the hotel is situated, it extends some three to four miles across.  Twenty-four islands stud the lake, which lies 118ft above the sea level and is completely shut in all around by mountains, conspicuous amongst them being the massive Ben Cruachan.

We had lunch at the hotel whilst the horses rested, leaving at 2.30pm we returned by the same route, stopping at Taynuilt Hotel, where we had tea and arriving back at Oban about 7pm.

We saw a fine sunset, followed by exquisite tints of blue and gold, across the bay between ten and eleven.  The shifting dark clouds casting their shadows on the bay and across the boats and sailing vessels anchored for the night.

July 9th

Heavy gale with rain and mist: we went to the Free High Church on the hill, one of the old churches where the people sit to sing and stand to pray.  They use psalms, but no hymns; a Precentor leads the singing; the pulpit is half way down one side of the church.  We heard an earnest, thoughtful sermon, preached extempore.  There was the same eager attention and reverence so manifest in all the services here.  The people come to worship, there is no ritualism but a beautiful simplicity in the form of service, combined with intellectual thoughtfulness in the discourses, which tells of careful preparation.  Gaelic services are held every Sunday in most of the churches.  A great many of the poorer class use such broad Scottish it is difficult to understand them.

July 10th

We drove, by coach, to Easdale, leaving at 1pm.  The route lay through Glen Nell, along the banks of Loch Feochan, a salt water lake of considerable extent.  Passing the pretty village of Kilninver, we drove along the banks of Loch Seil and crossed one of the oldest bridges in Scotland, the Clachan Bridge, a very fine arch.

We stopped to water the horses at Tigh an Truish and then drove on to Easdale, a bleak, dreary island in a group of four, celebrated for its slate quarries, owned by the Marquis of Breadalbane: they have been in operation over two hundred years.  It is one of the most dreary, desolate villages I have ever visited; slate quarries have a gloomy aspect and the miners’ cottages did little to relieve it. 

We drove four miles across Seil Island, a lonely moorland opening out to the sea, sixteen miles from Oban.  It was bitterly cold and bleak.  The horses put up at Easdale for the night and we returned home by steamer, arriving at 5.30pm.  Mr Macdonald spent the evening with us.

July 11th

Father drove to the Pass of Melford.  It was wet and cold.

July 12th

Heavy rain all day: strange phenomenon at 9.30pm.  The bay was clear, but the mist completely obliterated the island of Kerrera, giving the appearance of an expanse of open sea upon which the yachts, with their varied lights, lay at anchor.

July 14th

In the evening, I went to the castle grounds to watch the sunset.  The blue sky was flecked with white and grey clouds, the sun cast a glorious golden pathway of light across the bay; as the clouds, in passing, veiled its glory, the light changed to shimmering silver.  The brightness was dazzling in its glory. 

In the distance, rose the dark purple hills of Morven, the crimson afterglow outlining their summits and touching the water with a tint of red.  The dying rays struck the grassy slopes, making the gloom of the pine woods more conspicuous by contrast. 

Last night, the yellow-grey clouds, as they drifted before the wind, threw dusky shadows on the rippling water, giving the strange appearance as of clouds of dust sweeping across the bay.  Yesterday, and today, Father spent at Loch Nell, fishing; he caught six trout and two eels.

July 16th

Rain and mist: we went to the Congregational church and, in the evening, to St Columba (Established), where we heard a beautiful discourse on ‘Solitude’, by Rev A Brown.  It is a pretty sight to watch the small boats going to and fro from the yachts to bring the people to service.

On weekdays, we hear the bells ringing across the bay, calling the men to change of duty.  Sir Charles Newnes’ yacht is anchored opposite our windows – he is the editor of ‘Tit Bits’.

July 18th

We left Oban at 12.30am, by steamer ‘Fusilier’, arriving at Fort William at 4pm, on our way to Inverness.  Our first stop was at the long, tapering island of Lismore.  Port Appin was a lovely corner but the scenery, which surpassed all other, was that at Ballachulish.  Grand beyond all description were the scarred, jagged mountains on every hand with their numerous watercourses.  Loch Leven and Loch Linnhe vied with each other in beauty. 

Landing at Fort William, a dirty, noisy little town, we took the train to Banavie, a five minute run.  Here we stayed the night at Lochiel Arms Hotel.  Ben Nevis, in all its solemn grandeur, rises on the other side of the canal, so near that it appears to join the hotel grounds. 

We watched white clouds roll down from its lofty summit into the hollows of the mountains to rise again and rest upon its crest at night.  The awful silence of the everlasting hills seemed to reign supreme, filling one’s heart with a deep sense of awe and adoration.

July 19th

We left Banavie at 9.30am, by steamer ‘Gairlochy’, for Inverness, via the Caledonian Canal.  Around us lay the romantic scenery of Lochinvar, the land of Prince Charlie.

After leaving the lochs at Banavie, we passed Ben Nevis on our right, with its winding salmon river.  Whilst the steamer was passing the lochs at Gairloch, a boy and a girl, in highland costume, played the bagpipes and danced some highland dances.  Further up the canal, an Irish man and boy, in native costume, played and danced to the pipes.

The canal curves about through the most exquisite scenery, the still, clear water like a mirror, reflecting the clouds and the ferns and bushes on its banks.  Ruined cottages, relics of the highland clearances, and whitewashed, thatched shepherds’ cots, dot the hillsides. 

After leaving Gairlochy, we entered the loveliest of all the lochs, Loch Lochy.  Sheer from the waterside rise the wild, rugged mountains; down their wooded ravines, the water courses flow.  Low on their slopes hung the thick, white clouds; above them rose the mountain crests. 

A sublime solitude reigns in such scenes.  Miles of deer forest clothed some of the slopes.  Before passing into Loch Oich, the canal is thickly wooded on either side with fir trees.  On the banks of this small loch are the castle ruins of Glengarry, the broken walls and battlements ivy-grown.

After passing this, the canal runs parallel with the river Garry.  Across the latter, there is a pretty suspension bridge – it is considered one of the finest salmon rivers in Scotland. 

After leaving Cullochy, we reached Fort Augustus, where we landed for an hour whilst the steamer passed through the four locks, each of which is at a lower level than the preceding one.  The pretty village of Fort Augustus is situated at the head of Loch Ness, a large loch, finely wooded.

There is a large monastery situated on the canal bank, standing in extensive grounds.  Inverlochy is one of the prettiest spots on Loch Ness.  We stopped at the following piers: Falls of Foyers, Temple Pier (Drumnadrochit), Abriachan and Dochfour.  The last part of the way, the canal runs parallel with the river Ness.  The former winds round the foot of the beautiful cemetery of Inverness.

We arrived at Inverness at a quarter to six in the evening.  An hour before we got in, a very heavy Scotch mist came on; in the morning, the weather was mild but, on Loch Ness, it was bitterly cold, a strong east wind – like winter.  Seagulls followed our boat for miles; a number of us fed them with bread, which they caught in their beaks before it touched the water.  They were so fearless, they came almost within touch.

We drove to the Caledonian Hotel, were we stayed for two nights.

July 20th

This hotel is situated in the best part of the town; the back overlooks the river Ness and to one side is the castle.  In the morning, we went in search of apartments and drove through part of the town; nothing much in the way of shops or public buildings, but there are a good many poor parts, composed of straggling, dingy-looking, small houses.  The lovely river Ness is the best feature of the town, with its several suspension bridges and cathedral and churches along the banks.  It seemed a softer, warmer atmosphere than in Oban.

July 21st

We moved into our new apartments, c/o Mrs Ferguson, St Leonards, Island Bank.  A charming little house, very tastefully furnished and situated so that the front garden sloped down to the river bank.  Close by is the loveliest spot in Inverness, the Ness islands, connected one with another by tiny bridges; and, further down the river, is the cathedral. 

There is a quiet beauty about the scene, quite different to the rugged scenery we have been amongst lately.  The islands, which extend for about a mile, are wooded and laid out with shady walks: a little paradise of beauty. 

Our new quarters are about a mile from the town, but in the prettiest part of Inverness.

July 23rd

We all went to St Andrews Cathedral (Episcopal); the service was cold and the singing poor.  There is a lovely font there, an angel bending on one knee and holding in his hands a large, white shell.  The chimes sound very pretty coming to us across the river.  It was a very wet night; Father went to church and we stayed at home.

July 24th

Nell came over from Nairn and spent the day with us.  We went together to the islands in the afternoon.

July 25th

A strong gale; Father went fishing and caught ten trout and one eel in the river Ness, four miles further up.  I walked to Little Drummond in the evening and met him driving home.

July 26th

An awful gale during the night, followed by a cold and windy day: at 1pm, we went to the unveiling of the statue of Flora Macdonald on Castle Hill.  About three thousand people were present; an address was delivered by the Provost and the statue unveiled by Mrs Fraser, a daughter of the donor.  Four soldiers in kilts paraded, playing ‘Bonnie Prince Charlie’ on the bagpipes.  The statue is a graceful figure of Flora leaning forward and shading her eyes to scan the landscape in search of the Prince’s enemies, her collie dog by her side.

July 27th

Very cold: whilst Father was fishing, Mother and I went on the islands.  Later on, I went for a long walk as far as the canal bank; it was so peaceful all around, no human being within sight or hearing.  Only the calm flows of the water as it sweeps round the foot of the cemetery and travels onward through banks of leafy foliage.  The solitude of the woods on Ness Islands made me linger long.  The rays of the setting sun, as they penetrated fairy foliage, touched the pine-strewn ground, with light playing with the fitful shadows, cast by the trembling leaves overhead.  Then, as the shades of evening darkened the wood, the rooks flocked noisily home to roost.

Probably it was such a scene the Psalmist wrote when he said ‘Everything is His temple saith glory’.  I do not wonder that Wordsworth used to bare his head upon entering such a temple of nature; it awakens in the soul the sense of reverence and love.

July 29th

Father caught two salmon trout.  We often see gentlemen standing all day up to their waists in the river fishing, wading up and down.

July 30th

We all went to the public hall, where we heard a powerful sermon, from the Rev Norman Macleod, on the words, ‘I reckon that the sufferings, etc’.  The Established Church is under repairs at present but the hall was crowded by an attentive audience.  The Fergusons had tea with us and, in the evening, Father and I went to the Free Church, in Academy Street; a cold, lifeless service.

July 31st

We drove to Culloden; Mr Ferguson went with us: a sudden change in the weather, to intense heat.  It is an uninteresting drive, the country so flat all around.  We walked over the battlefield; there is a strange pathos about the spot where so many brave Highlanders lie in nameless graves.  The battle took place on the open moor; Prince Charlie’s army numbered five thousand men and it was all over in less than one hour.  Rough stones, inscribed with the names of the clans, mark the last resting place of those gallant Highlanders.  The Macintoshes suffered most; their trench is fifty-four yards long; a road has been cut through it.  Pine plantations enclose this pathetic spot around which the memories of the past still linger.

Mr Duncan Forbes caused a rough cairn to be erected in honour of the brave soldiers.  The English were buried in a large field close by which is now used for agriculture.   We climbed the identical stone, where the Duke of Cumberland stood to command his forces.  Two or three cottages still remain, battered to ruins.  There is a look of desolation all around.

Culloden is five miles from Inverness.  We returned by Beauly Firth, a calm stretch of blue water.  In the evening, we went to meet Grace; she did not arrive until 11.30pm.  It is delightful to be all united once again after our seven weeks separation.

August 2nd

We took the train to Beauly in the evening, leaving Mother at home with Mrs Ferguson.  The highland railway beats any railroad we have travelled on for slowness.  At Lentran, we all got out and walked about waiting for it to move on; the gentlemen had plenty of time for a quiet smoke.  When it does go, it is at a snail’s pace and, sometimes, the trains do not arrive until from half an hour to an hour’s time after advertised; then they wait for people who come up late.

Really, they are a joke; today it took us just fifty-five minutes to go ten miles. 

Beauly is a unique village.  The principal street consists of a wide square, surrounded by tiny shops; no pavements.  We called at some friends of the Ferguson’s and Mr Mackenzie kindly asked us to stay for tea with them.  After spending an hour or so there, we walked along the banks of Beauly river as far as the ferry.  The river belongs to Lord Lovat, his seat is near here.

The country is very flat and uninteresting; we visited the old priory, an ecclesiastical relic, dating from the thirteenth century.

Our train home was an hour late in starting, so it was 10.30pm before we turned up at home.

August 3rd

Father, Grace and the Fergusons went for a picnic to Loch Ruthven, fourteen miles distant.

August 4th

Went to the flower show in the public hall, a miserably poor affair.

August 5th

Left, by the 10am train, for Strathpeffer to see the highland games.  It is the prettiest place we have seen near Inverness.  The little village nestles in a charming glen amongst the hills, Ben Wyvis lying close by.  There is a spa, noted for its sulphur springs.  The games, which were held in the grounds of Castle Leod, an old residence of the Earls of Cromartie, lasted from 12 to 6pm: the weather was perfect, it was a sight we shall not soon forget.  It was a typical highland gathering; thousands of people came from all surrounding parts to witness the games, amongst them the lairds and county families.  We had good seats in the grandstand.  Soldiers in kilts of the various clans played bagpipes incessantly for four hours.

To appreciate the bagpipe, one needs to hear it at such a meeting amongst the Scottish mountains.  The sports included vaulting with a long pole, high leap, throwing the hammer (22lbs), obstacle and sack races; bagpipe competitions, highland flings, reels, sword dances and sword exercise, etc.  All the latter were very fine; we were quite fascinated. 

Afterwards a detachment of Seaforth Highlanders gave a splendid military display (Ross-shire Buffs, the Duke of Albany’s).  We have never seen training brought to such absolute perfection.  They went through Indian club exercises, bayonet, sword and dumbbell exercises, vaulting, parallel bars and musical drill etc.  they are a wonderfully fine, athletic set of men.

We had tea at the pavilion and returned by the 6pm train, after having spent a most enjoyable day.

August 6th

We went to the United Presbyterian Church and heard Professor Cameron, DD, of the Free College, Aberdeen.  At night, we heard Rev Norman Macleod give a grand sermon on the words ‘He that is faithful in that which is least’, etc.  A crowded hall, greatly respected and loved by his people.

August 9th

Father had permission to fish in the private estate of the Mackintosh, so we left, by the 10am train, for Moy.  Moy Hall is a magnificent mansion situated amongst ideal scenery.  The extensive grounds are laid out with pine avenues, a burn flows through them crossed, at intervals, by rustic bridges; the air laden with the scent of fir cones.  There is a lake a mile and a half in extent, nestling between wooded banks.  The blue sky, the rushes and wild flowers, were mirrored on its glassy surface.

Two islands add another touch of beauty to a scene already perfect; on one is erected a granite obelisk (70ft) in memory of Sir Aeneas Mackintosh, Bt.  The other is supposed formerly to have been a place of capital punishment.  It is the scene of the ‘Curse of Moy’, as told in song.

The purple hills enclose this calm spot.  We spent four hours on the loch; Father fished while Grace and I rowed, in turns.  We then had tea at the lodge.  Moy itself, beyond the seat of the Mackintosh consists of a few cottages and no shops – quite an out of the world little place. 

Our train was an hour and ten minutes late in starting so it was nearly ten when we arrived home.

August 11th

Grace and I sat under the trees on the canal bank all morning, the heat was intense.  Another glorious sunset, gorgeous crimson and gold shading off to pale green, reflected upon the river.

August 12th

We took the steamer to Glenurquhart; a strong breeze on Loch Ness.  We went through Loch Dochfour; on the banks is situated the lovely residence of Mr Baillie, MP.  Glenurquhart is at a charming bend on Loch Ness, and right amongst the mountains.  On point of land jutting out into the loch is occupied by a fine old castle ruin, a former stronghold of the Grants of Seaforth. 

We walked two miles to Drumnadrochit Hotel, the heat was intense.  We lunched there and spent the afternoon in the hotel grounds, driving back to the pier in time to catch the 5.15pm boat, which arrived at Inverness at 7pm.

August 13th

In the morning, we heard Rev Norman Macleod preach from the words ‘Except a grain of wheat,’ etc.  Went to the Wesleyan chapel in the evening.

August 14th

We went for a drive to Clacknaharry and along Beauly Firth.  Low tide, the tints were lovely; brown and green seaweed strewn along the yellow sands; seagulls wading in the still, blue pools left behind by the tide whilst jet black rooks hunted about amongst the weeds for food.

Grace and I walked to Tomnahurich cemetery in the evening.  It is situated 200ft above the sea level and is said to be quite unrivalled for beauty.  In shape, it is like a boat turned upside down; at its base winds the Caledonian Canal; numbers of little steps and winding paths lead up to its summit.  This is laid out beautifully with wide, smooth paths lined by stately cypress trees which stand out in solemn grandeur against the sky.  Under the trees are the polished granite tombs, crosses, urns, figures and broken pillars.  There is a majestic peace about ‘God’s Acre’, the temple of the dead, which

‘His dewdrop mutely on the hill,

His cloud about it saileth still,…………

More softly than the dew is shed,

Or cloud is floated overhead,

He giveth His beloved, sleep.’

(The SleepElizabeth Barratt Browning)

The sides of the hill are thickly wooded.

August 18th

We left Inverness for Aberdeen by the 1.40 train, passing through Nairn, Forres and Elgin.  From here to Craigellachie, the scenery was lovely.  We then ran along the banks of the river Spey, a charming part of thickly wooded country.  At Rothes, there is a ruined castle, the stronghold of the Leslie family.  We passed through Keith, Huntly, Inverurie, etc arriving in Aberdeen at 5.10pm, when we drove to the Forsyth Hotel in Union Street.

August 19th

Aberdeen is a beautiful city, rightly called the ‘granite city’.  Union Street is a celebrated thoroughfare, very wide and extending for nearly a mile.  All the buildings are of white granite, substantially build, their fronts glittering in the sunshine.  Cobbles pave the streets, which are wide.  The fine public buildings, the municipal buildings, the university, Marischal College, Salvation Army Citadel, the market cross, and Union Bridge over the Denburn valley.  There is also a statue of Wallace on a red granite pedestal.  Churches abound with lofty spires, all of them beautiful buildings.  The air is exquisitely clear and crisp, quite different to anywhere else.

In the morning we went, by open tram, to the Bridge of Dee.  A pretty river, the bridge has seven good stone arches.  Then we went, on top of a tram, in the opposite direction to the Brig o’Balgownie, or the ‘old bridge of Don’.  This is a most picturesque spot, a subject for the artist’s brush. 

The bridge was built in 1320, its one pointed arch spans a black pool of the Don; behind rise dark woods.  Stretching along the Don bank are a cluster of red-tiled cottages with climbing roses and woodbines.  It is one of the prettiest villages I have ever seen.  Further up the Don, there is a new, stone bridge with five arches; just beyond, the mouth of the river flows into the open sea.  Old Aberdeen is on the banks of the Don.  New Aberdeen is on the banks of the Dee.

In the afternoon, we went a circular tour on a tram through the residential part of the city.  We then walked to the quay, where the herring trawlers are anchored and watched the women, in their mackintosh coverings, gut and pack the herrings for curing, the men shovelling them up in spadefuls.

After supper, Father, Grace and I went to the market; it was a sight worth seeing, but sad.  All the slums seemed to have been emptied into the square; haggard, wretched-looking men and women, pale-faced little children, without any guardians.  We had work to push our way through the crowd and it was a terrible riff-raff.

Aberdeen appeared under its dark aspect, there are always the two sides to a large city.  The cheap-jacks were shouting their wares, and each stall had its flaring gas jets, which threw a lurid glow over all the wretchedness and want of the market place.  Yet, in the midst of all this din, some noble men had gathered to hold services, and preach the love of Christ to the outcasts of the city.

Afterwards, we visited the market buildings, where another crowd had gathered.  There is a galley upstairs, and an underground fish market.  It was nice to see the old Scottish women in their white-frilled caps and plaid shawls.  Some had quite superior faces, so refined-looking.

August 20th

We went to the East Church (Established) and heard the Rev Walker preach.  The East and West churches are connected by a fine tower in which there is a chiming clock.  A Grecian colonnade separates the graveyard from Union Street.

In the evening, Mother and I went to Holborn Parish Church, where we heard a good sermon from Rev J A M’Clymont DD.  Father and Grace went to the Wesleyan church.  Sunday is well observed in Aberdeen, train and tram services are stopped

August 21st

Before breakfast, we went to the quay; the herring fleet had just come in.  Some of the trawlers are out for a week or ten days at a time.  It was a pretty sight to see some of them hoist the brown sails and glide out of the harbour one by one.  The quay was a busy scene; crowds of fishermen, and fishwives, where gathered in knots round the different auctioneers as they plied their busy trade.  Pile of turbot, salmon, skate, whiting, etc lay all along the quay.  Numbers of the men were unloading the boats, hoisting the fish up in buckets by means of a trolley.

After breakfast, we drove to the sea; the air was lovely, so soft and clear.  Aberdeen Bay has a beautiful stretch of open sea, and a capital beach for bathing.  There are no houses along the sea front – refreshment rooms and baths being the only buildings.  There is a parade, but inland the scene is most desolate.

On the right, lies the harbour, where we were this morning.  The fleet consists of three hundred boats.  At 3pm, we went to a three hour drive by coach.  The route lay along Deeside as far as Maryculter and returning through Cults.  The scenery is quiet and pretty, but rather flat.  The Dee winds amongst agricultural fields.  We had tea at the Peterculter Hotel.

August 22nd

Another glorious day – we went on a tram to the Brig o’Balgownie and spent most of the day on the banks of the Don, by the red-tiled village of Seaton.  I visited Machar Cathedral; it is 600 years old, part of it is in ruins and there are a number of old tombs.  There are two steeples and a fine west window; the ceiling is decorated with coat of arms, a nun’s walk runs round the top of the building.  A graveyard surrounds the cathedral. 

Upon our return, we went over the Municipal Buildings; we saw the large hall, board room, etc – the latter is hung with life-size portraits of the Lord Provosts of Aberdeen.  The ceiling is painted with coast of arms.

August 23rd

We left Aberdeen, by the 1.10pm train, for Glasgow, changing at Perth, an intensely hot journey.  The coastline beyond Aberdeen was wild and rugged, particularly near Stonehaven.  After passing through Laurencekirk, Forfar, Coupar Angus, etc, we came to Perth: most of the country was agricultural, the reapers were busy gathering in the luxuriant harvest.

In Perthshire, the scenery was exquisite; densely wooded, with winding rivers, reminding one of the Trossachs.  We crossed heather moorlands and then passed alongside the Ochill hills.  Passing through Kinross, Rumbling Bidge, Dollar, Tillicoultry and Alloa, a woollen manufacturing town, we arrived at Queen Street station, Glasgow, at 7pm.  We drove to the Alexandra Hotel, in Bath Street.

August 24th

Glasgow is a busy, smoky city, very much like London; the shops are fine.  We spent most of the day looking at them and seeing different parts of the town.  Sauchiehall, Argyle and Buchanan Streets are some of the best thoroughfares.   The heat was something awful,

We went on a tram-top to Kelvin Bridge, up the Great Western Road, and then we explored part of the West end, a very nice part.  Walking on to Partick, Father took us to see the places he knew so well when he used to live in Glasgow, the first house he had when he was married, etc.  Taking a tram back again to Argyle Street, we passed the university, botanical gardens and infirmary, the former a very fine place.

We went to lunch at the Prince of Wales’ Restaurant.

August 25th

Father and I called at Colonel Grant’s office.  Then we all went to the municipal buildings in St George’s Square.  There is a magnificent marble and alabaster staircase there, the finest in the United Kingdom.  All the steps are pure white marble, the walls and pillars are alabaster; the ceiling of the entrance hall is tessellated.

We also went to the Trongate, one of the busiest thoroughfares in Glasgow.  We left St Enoch’s Station for Colmonell, via Ayr, in the afternoon.

Spent a delightful ten days at Colonel Grant’s house.

September 4th

Left Colmonell, by the 1.20 train, for Glasgow, via Ayr and Paisley.  We arrived at St Enoch’s Station at 4.30pm.  This time we stayed at St Enoch’s Hotel, a large, comfortable place in St Enoch’s Square.  We liked Glasgow much better this time, the weather was not so intense. 

After tea, we went down the arcade, Buchanan Street and Argyle Street, looking at the shops.

September 5th

Pouring rain, cleared later: we left Queen Street Station by the 11.35am train for Luss.  The railway ran parallel with the river Clyde as far as Dumbarton.  Dumbarton Castle is situated on a high rock rising out of the river.  We arrived at Balloch at 12.15 and took the steamer, Princess May, to Luss.  It was a delightful trip up Loch Lomond, scenery charming.  We arrived at 1.15pm and walked to Luss Hotel, where we are staying.

In the afternoon, Grace and I went for a long stroll along the banks of Loch Lomond.  Luss is one of the prettiest villages.  A road leads up from the loch to the quaint little hotel where we are staying; on either side there is a row of bungalow cottages; around their porches, and latticed windows, cluster woodbines and roses.  One shop is all the village can boast of; an old grey stone church standing in a graveyard, some of the graves being 150 years old.

The glen is overshadowed by mountains and wooded hills rising 2,000ft high.  On the opposite side of the blue loch, Ben Lomond rises in all its grandeur; numbers of islands, amongst others, the Heather Island, dot the loch.  The river Luss winds its way through the glen.  I love to watch Ben Lomond under its varied aspects.

Sometimes the lofty summit is outlined sharply against a clear, blue sky.  On a changeable day, the dark, fantastic clouds overhead cast their ever-varying shadows upon its slopes as the wind hurries them across the sky.  At night time, when ominous black clouds overhang the crest of the Ben, it looks sombre and awful in the darkness.

But the time when, in grandeur, it surpasses the others, is when the white clouds cap it and the mists unfurl along its precipitous slopes.  Then it appears to rise to unknown heights behind the veil which nature casts as a shroud around it.  In the evening, a rainbow was visible on the mountain slopes, but we could trace no sign of it in the sky.

September 6th

Father went out fishing with a man.  Mother, Grace and I took the 1.12pm steamer, Prince George, to Ardlui, at the head of the loch.  The weather was perfect and the scenery beyond description.  The loch is twenty-one miles in extent and varies in width from one to five miles.  Rightly, it is called the ‘Queen of Scottish lochs’.   It’s clear waters mirror the blue sky and wooded banks, solemn mountain ranges, purple in the far distance, green  and jagged as they rise from the water’s edge, lock it in.  Silvery water courses thread their way to the loch down mountain torrent beds.

The rippling water laps the numerous emerald isles which are scattered about the loch.  We called at Rowardennan, the landing stage for Ben Lomond, 32,192ft high; close to Tarbet rises Ben Reochm 2,168ft.  At Inversnaid, we saw the falls and also passed close to Rob Roy’s cave.

We spent an hour and a half at Ardlui and had tea in the hotel grounds on the loch side.  Then we walked to Glen Falloch, such a charming, narrow glen shut in by mountains with the river Falloch flowing through the peaceful valley until, at a bend, it is lost to sight amongst the hills.

We left by the 4.20 boat, getting back to Luss at 6pm.

September 7th

Today, we spent in going through the Trossachs.  Leaving Luss by the 9.30 boat, we went to Inversnaid, where we took a coach to Stronaclachar.  It was a steep, mountainous road; at last we reached a lake in a hollow of the mountains.  Running out of it, there is a tiny stream which flows through quiet pastures until it reaches the sloping ground.  Bubbling over the rocks, which impede its downward course, it presently enters a deep ravine, wooded and covered with ferns.  Down this it rushes, increasing in volume until it reaches some wild rocky ledges, over which it thunders in a foaming cascade until its waters mingle with those of Loch Lomond. 

We stood on the narrow bridge between the mountains at Inversnaid and listened to the ceaseless roar of these, the Inversnaid Falls.

At Stronaclachar, we took the steamer, Rob Roy, up loch Katrine, an hour’s trip.  This is one of the gems of Scottish scenery.  A halo of romance lingers round the spots so vividly described by Scott; Ellen’s Isle, the Silver Strand, Ben Venue, Ben A’an and the Goblin’s Cave.  Especially striking is the wild grandeur of Ben Venue, with its rugged summit and its sides strewn with moss-covered crags and mounts – ‘the fragments of an earlier world’.  The purple heather on some of the islands is five foot deep.

After leaving the steamer, we took another coach through the Trossachs Pass.  This is one of the finest scenes, ‘where winds the path’ between lofty rocks and wooded mountains.  Aspen trees add a touch of fairy-like beauty to this exquisite scene.

We lunched at the Trossachs Hotel, a very fine building overlooking the loch.  We returned the same route, by two coaches and two steamers, to Luss, where we arrived at 6pm after having spent a most delightful day.

September 8th

Weather perfect: after breakfast, we walked up the banks of the river Luss as far as the watershed behind our hotel.  Then we strolled a long way up Glen Luss; as we climbed higher and higher, the scene increased in beauty until below us stretched a magnificent panorama of Loch Lomond, with its islands and mountains; an enchanting view.  The air was most exhilarating.  I gathered handfuls of purple heather to take back.

In the afternoon, we left Luss by the 2.50 boat for Balloch and then took the train on to Stirling, where we arrived at 5pm and went on to the Lennox Station Hotel, where we stayed.

September 8th

We took the 10am train for the ‘Rumbling Bridge’, changing at Alloa, and passing through Dollar and Tillicoultry, and close to the range of Ochill Hills.  At 11am, we reached our destination.  Totally different to any other scene we have visited, the Rumbling Bridge would be hard to surpass in grandeur.  The river Devon winds through Glen Devon; on one side stretch green meadow and, on the other rises a mossy wood.  Below it winds the river path, strewn with pine needles and flecked with sunlight shining through the fairy-like foliage which forms a canopy overhead. 

Contrasting this scene is the wild grandeur of the Rumbling Bridge.  Here the river rushes down a ravine 120ft deep, boiling and surging over the black rocks below, with a thunderous noise, and lashing itself into foam.  At one part, it falls into a dark, deep fissure of the rocks, the force of the water stirs up the pebbles beneath grinding them against each other.   This uncanny spot is called the ‘Devil’s Mill’. 

Two bridges built, one above the other, cross the ravine at its deepest part; beneath, in a narrow fissure of the rocks, the dark water reflects the foliage of the overhanging trees.  In some parts, it is too deep to catch sight of the water below. 

Close beneath the bridge, there is a dark cave, the water oozes from the roof.  A shaky wooden bridge is thrown across the ravine, from which point of vantage, a grand view is obtainable.  We lunched at the hotel and returned to Stirling about 4pm.

Then we went on the top of a tram to the Bridge of Allan, a pretty, residential place.  Stirling itself is beautifully situated amongst the hills; the river Forth winds through it, spanned by the old Bridge of Stirling.  On a hill, is the castle, so full of historic interest and, on another, is Wallace’s Monument, which cost £16,000 to erect.

There are a great many churches, but no particularly good shops.  Some parts of the town are very old.

September 9th

In the morning, we went to Greyfriars’ church (east), a fine old historic building close against the castle.  It measures 200ft and is now used as two churches, east and west.  The nave was built as early as 1270; there are some beautiful coloured windows of a later date.  Queen Mary was crowned, when a few months old, in this church, in 1543, as was James VI, at a year old.  John Knox preached on the occasion.

The tower bears marks of shots received in 1651, during the siege of Stirling.  A large cemetery surrounds the church; Henry Drummond is buried there, his church is opposite our hotel.  A large monument is erected in memory of the martyred Covenanters.  Also, under a glass shade, there is a statue of the martyr, Margaret, and to her sister, Agnes.  She was drowned in the Solway Firth, tied to a stake, rather than give up her faith.  Some pathetic lines are inscribed on the tombstone.

We had a beautiful service, the Rev J S Lang gave an excellent sermon on the words ‘The harvest is over and the summer is past, yet are we not saved.’  It was one of the best services we have attended.

After service, we climbed the Lady’s Hill, from which there is a most extensive view.  Ben Lomond, Ben Venue, Ben Ledi, are on one side; Stirling Castle, The Ochil Hills and Wallace’s Monument are to the right.  In the valley below winds the Forth. 

At another point, you look down upon the quaint old town, the King’s Knot and gardens and the field of Bannochburn.  In the distance rises the square tower of Cambuskenneth Abbey.

We then visited the castle.  It stands on a rocky cliff; some parts of it are ornamented by quaint stone carved figures.  The old drawbridge, cannons captured at Sebastopol, and the Douglas Room and garden, in which the earl was murdered in 1452 by James II, are all of historic interest.

Being Sunday, we were unable to go inside the castle.  Other places of interest that we saw were the military prison and hospital, Argyll’s lodgings, Darnley’s house and James II’s nursery.  Some of the streets and houses are very old; altogether it is a most interesting town.

Mother and I went to the same church in the evening where we heard another excellent sermon from the same minister, on the words, ‘No night there’.  There is a very beautiful organ.  Father and Grace went to the Wesleyan church.

September 10th

We went on a walk as far as the ‘King’s Park, a nice, residential part of Stirling.  We left Stirling, by the 12.30pm, train for Edinburgh, arriving at 1.52pm.  Passing through Alloa, Dalmeny – the seat of the Earl of Roseberry, and Dumfermline; we crossed the Forth Bridge.  This grand structure took seven years to build and cost £3,500,000.  It is a fifth of a mile in length and is the highest bridge in the world.  From the base to the highest point, it is 450ft.  It was constructed by Sir William Arrol and has a metal surface of 25 acres.  Fifty thousand tons of steel, 250 tons of paint, 35,0000 gallons of oil and eight million rivets were used in this gigantic structure.

We stayed at Darling’s Regent Hotel, as before.

September 12th

We all went to Holyrood Palace in the morning, where we saw the banqueting hall, Queen Mary’s and Darnley’s rooms and the room where Riccio was murdered, etc.  But most interesting of all are the picturesque old ruins of the Chapel Royal.

Then we drove to St Mary’s Cathedral, a grand place.  The windows are exceptionally fine, and also the organ and mosaic work.  One peculiar feather about the building is that now two things are alike; even the naves differ from each other in constructure.

We returned by tram and lunched at a shop in Prince’s Street.  In the evening, the four of us climbed Carlton Hill and went to see Greenside church near a very nice residential part of the City.  Edinburgh looked it’s best in the bright sunshine.

September 13th

We all went to the exhibition of Scottish Artists – a rather poor show.  Then we went on to the MacEwan Hall, a fine building where the university functions are held.  We again visited the fine old cathedral of St Giles.  In the evening, some of us went to the fruit and flower show in Waverley Market Place.  The band of the Scots Guards were there, and a great crowd of people.  It was the best show of the kind we have ever seen; one bunch of grapes weighted 7½lbs; the fruit, flowers and vegetables were very fine indeed.  It was raining most of the day.

September 14th

We left Edinburgh by the 10am train for King’s Cross, arriving at Sidcup between 9 and 10pm.


TOUR IN NORTH WALES

by Grace and Adeline Smith

August 1st – 15th, 1900

As told by Adeline Smith

TOUR of NORTH WALES

August 1st

Grace and I left Paddington, by the 9.30am train, arriving at Llangollen at 3pm and travelling via Maidenhead, Reading, Oxford, Leamington, Birmingham and Shrewsbury.  After crossing the Welsh borders, the scenery became lovely and, as the train steamed into the little station at Llangollen, a charming view arrested our attention.  The tiny village nestles picturesquely amongst the Welsh hills; the river Dee flows through the valley, its course constantly broken by large rocks;

Looking upstream, the great hill ‘Geraint’ rises on the left of the river; in front are the Berwyn mountains and, on the right, is the castle-crowned hill, Dinas Bran; Bridge End Hotel, where we are staying, faces the river at Llangollen bridge.

After tea, we went for a stroll up the river bank.  The clear water reflected the blue sky and the red tiled houses on its brink.  We then went to see the famous residence of the Ladies of Llangollen, Plas Newydd;  they were Lady Eleanor Ponsonby and the Hon Miss Sarah Ponsonby.  The romantic story of these maiden ladies who, for fifty years, never slept one night away from their secluded Welsh home, their deep affection for each other and for the old servant who, after serving them faithfully for so many years, left them £500 in her Will, all add interest to the residence which, in itself, is unique and charming.

Inside and out are evidences of the passion the owners had for oak carving; doors, walls and staircases are of oak most exquisitely carved.  Each friend who came to stay with them was expected to bring a carved oak panel; these form the walls of the hall and stair case – hence there is a great variety and richness in design.  Each room is tastefully furnished and full of curios, making a veritable museum of antiquity.

An old world picture represents these famous ladies in their peculiar masculine-looking dress and short, powdered hair.  One died at the age of 90, the other at 75.

Prettily laid out grounds surround Plas Newydd and a new house corresponding, as far as possible, with the old, has been added to it by the present owner, Mr G H Robertson of Liverpool.  One oak panel dates back to 1192

August 2nd

We left Llangollen at 10am and went, by the canal boat which is towed by a horse, to Valle Crucis Abbey.  The two mile glide up the narrow canal was delightful.  The river Dee runs parallel with the canal and, on either side of the valley, rise high, wooded hills.  We landed near the fine old ruins in the Vale of the Cross.  They date back to the year 1200, when they were dedicated to St Mary.  At the time when Henry VIII rebelled against the Pope, this Abbey was one of the first to be demolished.  Some Roman baths of unknown depth still remain; also a collection of ancient bibles, amongst which is one of the first bibles ever printed.

After leaving the Abbey, we climbed the Berwyn hills; from the summit, an enchanting view met our gaze.  The glen lay at our feet, shut in by green, undulating hills on every side, their summits fir-clad and, at their base, running side by side, wound the silver waters of the Dee and the tiny canal.  In the distance lay the village of Llangollen.  Descending on the other side of the hills, we had our first view of the chain bridge which crosses the Dee at Berwyn.

We lunched at the little hotel on the terrace by the river and then strolled along the canal to the horseshoe falls and on to the tree-sheltered church of Llantysilio, a pretty miniature building dating back seven hundred and twenty years.

Returning to Llangollen by the canal boat from Berwyn, we took a landau and went for an hour’s drive through the Pengwern vale at the foot of Crow’s Castle Hill.  What strikes us about the Welsh scenery is the beauty and softness of the hill outlines as compared with the rugged grandeur of the Scottish mountain scenery.

At 10pm each night, a trio come to play and sing outside our windows.  The harp sounds lovely accompanied by undertone of the flowing river; all the players are good musicians

August 3rd

We left Llangollen at 10am for Betws-y-Coed.  The scenery as far as Glyndyfrdwy, was charming, most of our journey was along the banks of the Dee.  The river scene changes every few mile, in some parts the water seems to meet in contrary current, forming white-foamed waves upon its surface; or else like a torrent, it rushes over its rocky bed.  Then, again, it widens and flows quietly through the green valley or winds a zigzag course amongst the hills.

Passing through Corwen, our first change was at Bala junction and then, again, at Bala where we had to wait some time. Bala Lake is the largest one in Wales.  Our next stop was at Blaenau Ffestiniog, one of the most wild and dreary-looking place I have seen, situated right in the heart of the slate quarries and at the foot of Snowdon.  We had a splendid view here of the Snowdon range, towering in all their bleak grandeur far above the other hills. 

We had to take a bus from one station to the other and wait here for an hour and a half.  The weather was awful, the rain, which had commenced before we left Llangollen, had turned into a steady downpour, driving in sheets across the hills; a howling wind, almost too strong to stand against, blew in gusts round the foot of the mountains and whistled around the slate quarries.  On some of the bare mountains grew the richest coloured heather I have ever seen. 

Leaving Blaenau Ffestiniog, our train passed through a very long tunnel which had been blasted through one of the slate mountains.  We passed the old castle, where the last Prince of Wales was born.  We reached Betws-y-Coed at 3pm and went to the Glaber Hotel.  Rain continued the same until nearly dark, when we went to see the river, which was flooded. 

The Llugwy joins the Conway at Pont-y-Pair bridge.  It was a grand and impressive sight to watch the mad rush of the flooded river over the boulders which impede its course and, under the arches of the bridge which only needed a slight rise more of the river to render it unsafe.  We stood and watched it for some time, the ‘mad’ river of the poet’s song.  Gardens, walls and even the fir-grown island in its centre were swept by its dark waters above which a few shrubs reared their heads and bent to the force of the on-rushing waters

August 4th

A fine, clear day after the storm of yesterday:  the first place we visited was the fairy glen; climbing down some irregular stone steps, we reached this exquisite glen.  A deep wooded gorge, through which the waters of the Conway tumble and foam down a steep, rocky incline;  Whilst we were there, a flash of sunlight caught the waters as they fell, giving and added charm to the scene.

We spent most of the morning sitting on the rocks in this lovely spot.  After lunch, we drove to the Swallow Falls; these are beyond description, grand in the extreme after such heavy rains.  The Llugwy has torn a channel through the rocks some 50 to 60ft wide.  Down this chasm, a tremendous volume of water dashes and foams with a noise like thunder; leaping from boulder to boulder, it throws up white clouds of spray into your face as you stand on the rocks at the foot of the waterfall.

We then drove to the Miners’ Bridge and it was here that we saw the first old Welsh woman in the picturesque national costume, with the tall black hat, etc.  The bridge, which we crossed, is a steep, wooden structure thrown across the Llugwy and used by the miners to cross the torrent from one mine to another.

Before dinner, we climbed one of the richly-wooded hills, from the summit of which there was a fine view of hill and dale.  The heather-covered boulders and fantastic foliage of the trees overhead – through which gleams of sunshine broke, lighting up the carpet of brackens beneath our feet – made this temple of nature a paradise of beauty.  Although so clear and bright, the day has been cold.

Betws-y-Coed is a lovely place, shut in by surrounding hills, soft and rounded in outline and thickly set with fir trees.  The rivers Llugwy and Conway flow through the village which is composed of grey stone houses straggling about a mile in extent.

August 5th

Weather uncertain, thunderstorm in the afternoon; morning and evening we went to the pretty little church of St Mary, facing the Conway.  A Welsh service is held here previous to the English one.  The funeral march, during which we all stood, was played before the service in memory of the late Duke of Edinburgh.  After lunch, we went the Beaver Walk, a beautiful valley, each surrounded hill looks like a brushwood of green first. 

At night, we again watched the river from the Pont-y-Pair Bridge.  Betws-y-Coed looked lovely in the soft light of evening with its dark hills outlined against the deep blue of the star-spangled sky.  Behind the fir trees, the new moon was rising from a cloud of yellow and white.  The black river rolled over its rocky bed at our feet, murmuring its never-ceasing song.  The air was laden with the fragrance of flowers after rain, the calm beauty of the scene made us linger for some time.

August 6th

We have hardly been out today, it has been pouring incessantly.  After dinner, a gale blew up suddenly; sheets of rain drove across the hills, accompanied by thunder and lightning

August 7th

Cold and wet; we left Betws-y-Coed,  at 10.30am, for Llandudno.  As we had to change at the junction, it took us just over an hour.  We are staying at the Maelgwn Hotel.  The rain continued all day; in the afternoon we went to see the shops and to the Parade, but it was so cold and wet we were glad to get in again.  After dinner, we went to a concert in the Pier Pavilion, a fine concert hall, lighted by electricity and holding over three thousand people.

August 8th

This morning we went, by train, to Llandudno Junction and walked over the suspension bridge to Conway Castle.  These massive ruins overlook the river on one side and a creek on the other.  There are eight fine towers, each one capped by a smaller tower; unfortunately the railway has been carried through one part of the castle, somewhat spoiling its romance.  The castle was built in the reign if Edward I; during one war, he narrowly escaped being trapped there by the Welsh. 

Having crossed the river before the coming in of the flood tide, his army were unable to follow.  The small band in the castle held out bravely until the tide lowered and the army were able to cross to his relief.

Some of the houses in the old town of Conway are of great antiquity; the church has a carved oak rood screen and some fine stained glass windows.  But the building of most interest is Plas Mawr, Queen Elizabeth’s old house.  It is a large, rambling old place; the quaint chimney corners, sculptured over-mantles, and time worn floors are full of historic interest.  At present, the rooms are utilised by the Royal Cambrian Art Society for their annual exhibition of paintings, some of which are very beautiful.

Massive ivy-grown walls surround this ancient town, in shape like a right-angled triangle; from the suspension bridge, there is a fine view across the estuary of the Conway of the old, walled town, its castle ruins and chain of mountains beyond.  A tubular bridge also crosses the river parallel with the suspension bridge; we returned via the former to Llandudno.

In the afternoon, the sun came out and it was much warmer.  We spent some time on the pier, which is 1,200ft in extent.  Llandudno lies in a crescent-shaped bay; at one point is the Little Orme’s Head; at the other, that high, bare promontory, the Great Orme’s Head.  The Parade extends a mile and a half.  Behind the town, rise a chain of mountains, the loftiest being Carnedd Llewelyn and Foel fras.  The clouds today rest low on their summits.  Tonight we have been to the Happy Valley, a large pleasure ground at the foot of the Great Orme.

August 9th

Another wet day but, before the rain came on, we went for an hour and a half’s drive round the Little Orme’s Head.  Scenery is quiet and rather pretty, the mountains being the chief beauty.  We drove along the coast as far as Rhos-on-Sea and returned by an inland route, the rain coming down heavily.  In the afternoon, it was so cold and wet that we went to an entertainment in the Pavilion and then for a walk round the Great Orme.

August 10th

Dull, but brighter later.  At 8.55am, we took the train to Deganwy and steamer from there up the Conway to Trefriw.  This river is called the Rhine of Wales; the scenery is charming.  It was a twenty-eight mile trip there and back and the sudden bends of the river keep opening up new and lovely scenes.  From the river, Conway castle looks a strikingly fine ruin overlooking the wide river, which continued to grow narrower and more beautiful as we neared Trefriw.  Today, a purple haze softened the mountains and, on their summits, the white clouds rested.

Trefriw itself is a quaint and lovely little Welsh village nestling between the river and lofty, wooded hills rising one behind the other.  In beauty, it rivals – if it does not surpass – Betws-y-Coed.  There are some sulphur and iron springs, similar in virtue to the Harrogate springs and frequented by invalids.  After lunching at a quaint little temperance inn, we walked to the Fairy Falls, a pretty cascade, the waters of which turn a rustic watermill.

The steamer returned to Deganwy at 12.30pm, where the train met it for Llandudno.

This afternoon, we have been for a five mile drive round the Great Orme’s Head.  The scenery is stern, the precipitous headland rises sheer and bleak-looking from the sea; it is skirted by a long carriage drive.  The hills were like a switchback and the horses took them at a dash, the driver carelessly ignoring the numerous ‘caution’ placards to drive slowly downhill and round sharp curves.  As we rounded the headland, a fine view opened up of Puffin Island, Anglesey and the lower peaks of the Snowdon range.

The remainder of the afternoon and evening we spent on the Parade.

August 11th

We left Llandudno for Barmouth at 11.05am.  Our first change was at the junction; from here the train ran along the sea coast through Penmaenmawr as far as Bangor, where we had to change trains again.  From here, we passed along the banks of the Menai Straits across which there is a fine suspension bridge as well as a tubular bridge.  Anglesey looked very flat and uninteresting.  We had a good view of Carnarvon Castle as we came through. 

At Porthmadog, our next change, we put our luggage and walked to the Royal Commercial Hotel, where we had lunch.  Then we went, by the narrow gauge railway, to Blaenau Ffestiniog, an hour’s run.  The scenery surpassed any we have yet seen in Wales.  Most lovely were the Penrhyn and Ffestiniog valleys.  A panorama of mountains, valleys, rivers and sea opened up before us as the miniature train curved up the mountain sides or dipped down into the valley. 

It is called the ‘Fairy Line’ and is a fine piece of ingenuity.  It is only 2’ 7” wide and the train climbs the mountains to an elevation of 700ft.  The carriages are open and the passengers sit back to back like an Irish jaunting car.  The only drawback to the open carriages is that, when the train passes through a long slate mountain, you are nearly choked with the sulphur fumes from the engine and are in total darkness.  We were delighted with the beauty and novelty of the journey.

At Blaenau Ffestiniog, we had time for a walk.  This bleak-looking mining village impressed us with the same look of dreary desolation one sees in slate quarry districts generally.

We returned by the toy railway to Porthmadog, where we spent a couple of hours.  This is a beautiful spot amongst the mountains, the finest view obtainable of Snowdon is from Porthmadog.  Beyond the village are lovely walks and drives.

Leaving Porthmadog for Barmouth at 7.40pm, our train skirted Cardigan Bay and there was one of the most glorious sunsets I have ever seen; sea and sky were one blaze of burnished gold tinged with pink, the water reflecting the gorgeous tints of sunset glow.  As the night came on, white clouds lay like piles of snow on the low-lying hills, a peculiar effect due to the fact that the clouds had the appearance of having fallen from the sky.

We arrived in Barmouth at 9pm; it was quite dark and as there were no conveyances at the station, we had to walk a mile to our hotel – Orielton Hall.

August 12th

Bright and warm, this hotel is situated on the top of a hill overlooking the estuary of the Maw, where it flows into the sea.  The grounds extend for twenty acres and are laid out with shady pine walks skirting the Maw; a tiny burn runs babbling to the river and large rocks rear their heads one above another.

Barmouth far surpasses Llandudno in beauty.  Where the Mawddach joins Cardigan Bay, a promenade bridge crosses it, half a mile in length.  The estuary stretches away as far as the eye can see between two lines of mountains, purple on the lower slopes with heather.  At high tide, the sea pours its waters into the Maw and, as the tide ebbs, the river bed is one long stretch of golden sand with miniature pools scattered like blue lakes in its hollows.  The current is very strong. 

The town consists of one street; behind it rise dark rocks with terraces of houses, one above the other; in the morning, we heard the Rev Pope preach in the Wesleyan chapel.  In the evening, we went to St John’s, a large church built in the face of the rock.

In the afternoon, we all had tea in the garden – this is a very jolly hotel but it is so full that a number of us have to sleep out.  Tonight there is a full moon shining across the river, its light throwing up the dark outlines of the hills and the black rocks behind the town.

August 13th

Glorious weather: at 11am we went, by a four-in-hand, to Dolgellau, a drive of twenty-four miles there and back.  The scenery was grand – this drive is considered the finest in North Wales.  We got out at the Halfway Hotel to view some of the Merioneth gold mines – at the present time they being worked.  The coach road winds round beautiful heather-covered mountains.  Penmaenpool we passed on our right, also Miss Frances Power Cobbe’s fine residence.  We drove as far as the torrent walk and her we dismounted and, passing through a small gate, entered the delightful leafy glade through which the mountain torrent rushes and tumbles in romantic cascades and rapids: it extends for about a mile.

The coach took us back to Dolgellau, where we spent a couple of hours after having lunch at the Waverley Hotel.  This is a quaint old town made up of straggling, irregular streets giving one the impression that the inhabitants had each one built his house just where he liked, irrespective of any road or street.  But the beauty of the country round atones for any fault in the town.  Cader Idris rises immediately behind the town.

After looking through the town itself, we followed a shady lane as far as the Pandy mills.  Retracing our steps, we went over the old church, which possesses some fine coloured windows.  Then we walked to the recreation ground, situated on the river bank close to the picturesque low, arched bridge and surrounded by mountains.

The coach returned at 4pm and we were back at the hotel by 6pm.  We thoroughly enjoyed the beautiful drive amid such charming scenery. One of the hills we drove past is called the Waterloo Hill – it was planted with firs by the Welsh Fusiliers after their return from the battle of Waterloo.

A perfect, moonlit night: we went down to the beach and sat on the sands listening to the Royal Welsh Male Voice choir; this choir is composed of carpenters etc and they have fine voices and sing with so much expression and taste.  Most of their songs were sacred, solo and part songs and the effect was beautiful, with the singing accompanied by the gentle breaking of the waves on the seashore.  Stars overhead and the light of the full moon upon the water – one of the best was ‘In the sweet bye and by’, taken in parts.

August 14th

A very hot day: as soon as breakfast was over, we started for the panorama walk, or the ‘Queen of the Welsh Walks’ as it is called.  A narrow path winds in and out amongst the heather-clad hills; at every bend the scene becomes more lovely.  Down in the valley below winds the broad blue estuary of the Mawddach, enclosed by the mountains, some green with fir trees and others purple with heather blooms.  Beyond rise the distant azure ranges and the lofty peak of Cader Idris – 2,929ft.  To the right stretches Cardigan Bay, its waters sparkling in the brilliant sunshine.

We left the path and crossed the hills, skirting the river and climbing to the summit, where an old farm house stands.

In the afternoon, we sat on the beach in camp chairs until it was time to go back to dinner.  At low tide there is a good stretch of sands but it is astonishing how rapidly the tide covers it all.  We are surprised to find how much Welsh is still spoken in Wales; the village children are taught English in schools.

After dinner, we again heard the Welsh choir sing at Porkington Terrace.  Then we went across the bridge but the moon was partially hidden by a dark cloud, so we did not get much view.  This bridge is half a mile in extent and the scenery for some distance on the other side is lovely.  It is used both as a promenade and a railway bridge.

August 15th

We left Barmouth for Paddington at 10.15am and returned the same route by which we came.  By 7pm we were once again in the dear old home.


TRIP TO DEVON

with her Father, John Smith II

in April 1902

as told by Adeline Smith

TOUR OF DEVON – 1902

Apr 28th

Father and I left Paddington, by the 11.45 train, for Ilfracombe, via Taunton and Barnstable.  Arrived at our destination at 7pm and put up at the Arcade Private Hotel.

Apr 29th

In the morning, we climbed to the summit of Tors Hill, an elevation of 600ft.  A grand view from  the top, miles of hills and dales bordered by a rugged, broken coastline, the silence, broken only by gentle lapping of the sea around the bare, steep rocks skirting the cliffs.

In the afternoon, we drove to Hele and Chambercombe Valley; the road wound in and out amongst hills, very steep in some parts.  We explored the Watermouth caves.

Apr 30th

Climbed Lantern Hill, overlooking the harbour – on the summit is a small cliff chapel.

In the afternoon, we drove to the Lee Valley and went down onto the beach – great beauty in formation of the rocks, pink and white spar predominant.  Explored the caves – a cottage, five hundred years old, in Lee village, most picturesque.  Went, by the coast road, returned by the inland route.

May 1st

Walked up Tors Park and went round Capstone in the afternoon.  The mist was lying low on the hills and the sea breaking over the rocks in white foam: nature, calm and grand.

May 2nd

We left Ilfracombe for Lynmouth, via Barnstable.  Changed at Barnstable and walked through some of the old market town and then went, by narrow gauge railway, to Lynton.  This railway is nineteen miles long and winds in and out amongst charming hills and coombes; it rises to an elevation of 1,000ft above sea level.

The route includes Barracombe, were there is an old church, supposed to have been built by Thomas a Becket’s murderers; Blackmore, Valley of Yeo, with its winding river and Woody Bay, etc.

In the afternoon, we walked through glen walk, a deep wooded glen, through which the river Lyn tumbles over and runs in and out amongst large rock boulders covered, in places, with ferns and moss and overhung by threes.  Here and there a rustic bridge crosses the babbling river; violets, primroses and anemones adorn the steep banks.

The Lyn Valley Hotel, where we are staying, overlooks the river and, a little further beyond, the sea.  The coastline is softer here, sandy, and the beach is composed of broken cist and rock.  The quaint village, built up from the riverside, is shut in entirely by high hills and bounded by the little bay.

May 3rd

We went for a long walk to Watersmeet.  The scenery was exquisite and the narrow path winds in and out between high hills, following the course of the river Lynn.  The clear water pursues its zigzag course down the wooded gorge, rushing over to impede its downward flow.  Hills rise on either side, varying from 500 to 600ft, some bare and precipitous, others green and wooded slopes, receding some distance.  The silence is only broken by the murmur of the river gliding by moss-covered stones, or eddying in deep pools, clear as a crystal. 

At each bend of the glen, hills shut out the surrounding country on each side.  It is rightly called the English Switzerland.  At Watersmeet, two branches of the river flow together; higher up, a lovely cascade comes tumbling over the rocks.  In many places, trees overhang the waterside; through the branches sunlight and shadow play upon the undergrowth of ferns and moss.  White wood sorrel, primroses and violets, etc, cover the banks and adorn the crevices.

May 5th

Returned home, via Barnstable, and Exeter, to Waterloo.


TRIP TO DORSET

with her father, John Smith II

and sister, Grace

September 1902

by Adeline Smith

TRIP TO DORSET

Sept 11th

Father and I went down to Minehead, where we met Grace, who had previously engaged rooms for us at Mrs Hawkins, ‘Hatherleigh, Blenheim Gardens.

Sept 12th

Drove to Dunster.  A quaint erection, formerly used as a yarn market, stands in the centre of the town.  The castle is well situated on a wooded hill and is now the property of Captain Luttrell; it has been in their family since the reign of Edward III.  It was taken by the Roundheads, and retained as a prison.  William Prynne was confined there.  Conygar Tower stands on a wooded hill overlooking the sea.

Sept 13th

Drove to the lovely little village of Porlock, one of the scenes of ‘Lorna Doone’.  Some of the whitewashed cottages, almost hidden by myrtle and fuchsia trees, and gay with various coloured flowers, with their funny chimneys in front, is worth going miles to see.  Porlock Weir, two miles further on, has an old world inn, much resorted to by stag hunters.  Some of the pink and mauve hydrangeas in the cottage gardens were a sight to see.

Sept 15th

Drove to Dunster, Wootton Courtney and Dunkery.  Dunkery Beacon is the highest point in Somerset.  In the afternoon, we climbed to the top of the north hill, where we had tea at a farmhouse, Greenaleigh Farm.  We lingered on the summit of the hill to enjoy the beauty of the scene, and the rich colours of the setting sun.  Minehead lay at our feet, with its quiet little bay and the village church nestling against the side of the hill.  In front stretched the Bristol Channel and, in the distance, a dim outline of the Welsh coast.

A rainbow rose suddenly out of the water, for a few minutes its bow hung over our heads and, as quickly, faded from our view again.

September 17th

Drove to Selworthy, a beautiful road, down part of which was an avenue of trees, the branches interlaced completely overhead.  A pretty old church, stood on a hill from which a fine view is obtained.  The alms houses form a picturesque group, nestled between the surrounding hills.

Sept 18th

Drove to Luccombe, and Horner Woods; the scene of so many wild stag hunts.

Sept 19th

Drove to Dunster, Carhampton, Bilbrook, Washford, Blue Anchor and Cleeve Abbey.  The latter was founded for the Cistercian monks in 1199.  Some of the original pavement is still preserved and also the refectory, cloisters, chapter house and sacristies.  It is a pretty old ruin and considered the ecclesiastical gem of the district.

Sept 20th

Drove to the top of the moors and walked back.  A lovely stretch of heather and broom, and a wide view of hills and dales.

Sept 21st

Drove to Bossington, one of the pretties of villages.  Went into an artist’s house there and saw some interesting relics of the Doones, including a portrait, in oils, of Sir Ensor Doone, a bell and a pipe, etc. from Doone Castle.  Also saw the artist’s niece, who claims to be descended from the Doones; came home through Bracton.

Sept 24th

Drove to Porlock again and went over the old church, which was built by a Crusader, Sir Simon Fitz-Roges.

In the afternoon, we drove on to the moors again and walked home.  Under foot, a carpet of springy heather and yellow broom; overhead, a grand but lowering sky: the setting sun, casting its beams of gold athwart the slopes of the hills; in the distance, the fading beauty of a rainbow.  A semi-twilight in the pinewoods, the air laden with perfume, a stillness which could be felt.

Sept 25th

We returned home via Taunton, Bristol and Reading.


TOUR of SCOTLAND

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taken by John Smith II and his daughters, Grace and Adeline

July 13th to August 2nd 1904

as told by Adeline Smith

TOUR of SCOTLAND – 1904

July 13th

Father, Grace and I left St Pancras, by the 11.30am, train for Langholm, via Leeds, Armathwaite and Carlisle, where we changed trains and had to wait two hours for our connection.  Changed again at Riddings Junction and arrived at Langholm at 8.40pm; drove to the Buck Hotel, proprietor Mr Grant.

July 14th

A glorious day; we walked as far as the Esk Island, where Father fished all day.  We picnicked on the river banks, which are steep and beautifully wooded.  Moss-grown narrow paths lead down to the river; foxgloves and bracken grow knee deep on either side and the air is laden with the scent of pines.  The Esk rippling over large stones and forming many miniature cascades, divides to circle the island, which is connected to the mainland by a spider bridge.

July 15th 

Grace’s birthday: a pouring wet day, the river in flood.  We climbed a hill in spite of the rain but were prisoners most of the day.  This is a small, old town consisting of one main street, behind which the river runs until it flows through hilly, beautiful country.

July 16th

After breakfast, we drove in a dog cart to the island two miles away; Father fished here until 1.30pm and then we drove home again.  Honeysuckle abounds everywhere, some hedges are a mass of bloom.  After lunch, we drove to Canonbie and had tea at the Cross Keys in a garden overlooking a fine stretch of the river Esk.  This is the scene of Helen’s song in ‘Marmarion’.  Scott writes of young Lochinvar and ‘Canonbie Lee’ in this poem.

Drove home after tea – a twelve mile drive there and back.  In the evening, Father fished in the Ewes, which winds its narrow course through meadows knee deep in marguerites and fancy grasses.  The only sound is that of the running water, whilst the beauty of a July sunset touched the surrounding hills.

July 17th

Before service, we climbed the hills overlooking the town and then went to the Presbyterian church on the riverside; and the Unitarian Free church at night, where we heard a capital sermon on ‘reading’.     Spent an hour in the woods in the afternoon.  After dinner, we went for a lovely walk up a road which led amongst the hills and watched the sunset glow on their summits.

July 18th

Again we drove to the same spot and Father fished until 3pm.  Then he fished the Ewes in the evening – I stayed with him whilst Grace went for a walk.  Some black steers let me pet them

July 19th

We started at 10am, by the mail coach, for Eskdalemuir, a thirty mile circular drive.  The coach stopped at the farms and cottages on the way to collect letters and parcels.  A whistle warned the people of our approach – some had pigeon boxes fixed in the wall for letters and some cycled out to meet the coach from distant houses.  It was a beautiful drive over moorland mountains, the roof of Dumfriesshire.

These parts are called the southern highlands.  Our first resting place was the Bent Road Inn.  We passed piles of peat stacks, ready for winter use.  The river and the burns added much to the scenery.  At Eskdalemuir, we stayed to have lunch at a farmhouse.  We then visited the tomb of a martyred covenanter, who was rolled down the hillside in a barrel full of nails.

We returned by another route, over hill and dale; the air was the purest.  On our coach there were a party of country folk and they joined in singing ‘Count your Mercies’, etc, coming home, taking their parts well

July 20th

A drizzling rain: we left Langholm for Moffat by the 9.45 train in the morning, arriving at our destination at 3pm.  We went via Riddings Junction, where we changed, Longtown, Gretna Green – where we changed again for Dumfries.  From the station, Gretna Green looks a lonely, flat country, one pretty house, a churchyard and a few cottages, only one visible from the station.

From Dumfries, we went on through Locherbie and Beattock to Moffat.  Here, we stayed at the Annandale Arms Hotel in the main street; it is a wide thoroughfare and in the centre is a ram, standing on a high pedestal, emblem of sheep farming, the principal industry. 

The town is a health resort, noted for its mineral springs.  It is shut in by the hills and the Annan water runs through the town.  The Covenanters hid in the old churchyard on their road to Edinburgh and there is a monument there which was erected in memory of the guard and driver of a mail which was caught in a heavy snowdrift.  These men made a heroic effort to carry the mail to Moffat but perished in their efforts.  Burns stayed at the Black Bull Inn and wrote verses on a window pane.

Near to Moffat is the ‘Devil’s Beef Tub’ where the outlaws hid their stolen cattle, a recess shut in by hills; it is mentioned in ‘Red Gauntlet’, by Sir Walter Scott.  We visited the bowling green and watched the game and went for a stroll by Annan water

July 21st

We left Moffat for St Mary’s Loch, Yarrow, by the 10.15am coach – a drive of sixteen miles – and arrived at the Rodona Hotel at 2pm.  Our route lay through Annandale, the glen of Moffat water.  The scenery was more rugged and beautiful than our former drive.  Places of interest we passed: the Moffat hills, Hart Fell, Queensberry, White Coomb – the highest in Dumfriesshire, Burn’s cottage, where ‘Willie brewed a peck o maut’, Cragieburn, where the ‘Lassie wi’ the lint white locks’ was born.  We also passed the haunt of James Hogg’s ‘Brownie of Bodsbeck’.

There was a large farm, where they were shearing the sheep amid piles of fleece; a glen, where a pair of falcons built their nest, suffering no pigeon to remain in their vicinity; Saddle Yoke, a sharp pointed hill towering above the others. 

Our first stop was at the Grey Mare’s Tail, where we all alighted to climb up to the waterfall.  The fall was 300ft from ‘dark loch Skene’ in Scott’s Marmion; also Hogg writes about it.  It is a beautiful and dangerous place – some eagles still build on a crag on the loch side.

Birk Hill was our next rest, a place made famous by a book written in its honour ‘Watch Knowe’, where two covenanters were shot by Claverhouse’s dragoons; a hill where the covenanters were wont to meet; a broken ridge where a waterspout had burst; a wooded crag where raven build; foxes also breed round here.

We passed the dividing walls between Peeblesshire and Dumfriesshire and crossed the border into Selkirkshire.  And so, through rugged hills, where Moffat water winds and burns spring everywhere, we came to the Loch of the Lowes, which joins St Mary’s Loch; the latter is three miles long and half a mile wide.  At the commencement of the loch is the Tibbie Shiels Inn and here we alighted to see the old historic spot where Hogg spent so much of his time.  Tibbie died 25 years ago, at the age of 96.  In the kitchen are two box beds with wooden gates, where Hogg slept; also Tibbie’s spinning wheel.

Then we drove on to the Rodona Hotel, situated at the loch side.  Father fished in the evening on the loch.  On a clear day, the hills are perfectly reflected in the loch and each swan is double.  Wordsworth notes this in his poem ‘Yarrow Visited’.  There are no houses in sight, but a mile further on is Coppercleugh post office and a miniature kirk in a wood.  We watched the sunset glow on Meggat burn, touching it with fire.  An owl flew out of a wood close by and watched us from a neighbouring tree.

July 22nd

The Duke of Buccleuch owns most of the property round here; he is one of the largest land owners in Scotland and his name means Buc (buck) cleugh (shoulder of a hill). 

Grace rowed Father on the loch in the morning and I rowed him in the afternoon.  He caught several perch and eels.  In the morning, I climbed the hills – it was very steep towards the summit and knee deep in bracken, the ground between carpeted with white, pink and yellow and mauve wild flowers: a fine view of the two lochs, limited by a tiny stream.

After tea, Grace and I walked to Coppercleugh and in the evening we all went for a stroll

July 23rd

Grace rowed Father on the loch and I walked to Tibbie Shiels.  Hogg’s monument stands on the spot where he was born; behind is a background of fir trees.  James Hogg, the Ettrick shepherd, was born 1770 and died in 1835.  The lonely hills, with their dew-laden, flouring grasses, are beautiful in their variety of colouring.  When the sun shines, the vivid green contrasts with the blue of the loch, whilst the distant hills glow purples.

A clouded sky throws its shadows on their slopes – it is then I love them best.  When the sky is grey and the clouds hang low, all the scene is changed;  then one can understand why the poet speaks of ‘the dowie dens o Yarrow’.  There is an extreme solitude here, often unbroken except by the washing of the water on the loch sides.  I have seen yellow linties, wagtails and water ousels, but even birds seem scarce.  One can walk for miles and meet no signs of life.

All today has been heavy with mist; Father went on the loch again after lunch.  Sir Archibald and Lady Murray (a very old Scottish family) are staying at our hotel.  A German lady joined us today at our table and went for a walk with us all in the evening.

July 24th

Sunday: Scotch mist; in the morning, we walked to the Meggat.   Very silent all around and shut in.

In the afternoon, Grace and I went to the annual Covenanters’ meeting held on the hill top.  It was a two mile walk – after going some distance, we left the road and began to climb the hills, across the heather and knee deep through bracken, we reached at last a lovely ravine through which a burn trickled.  Ferns and wild roses grew up either bank.

Crossing the stones, we reached St Mary’s churchyard, the historic spot where, long ago, the Covenanters used to meet.  Hundreds of farmers, shepherds etc, with the families, had walked from miles around to attend the four o’clock service.  Rev Thomas Borland had come over from Yarrow (writer of Borderland Raids and Reivers) to preach.  He took as his text ‘Prepare to meet thy God’ and gave a very good sermon.

The people sang psalms, ‘The Lord my shepherd is’ and ‘Unto the hills I lift mine eyes’.  It was impressive and beautiful to hear them amongst the stillness of the hills, mist capped; the running water and bleating sheep being the only other sounds.  The minister stood on a tombstone to preach and his people sat round in groups, either on the grass or the old bombs.  The service lasted an hour. 

Father met us coming home and we did not go out again.  Sheep climb the grass terraces of our hotel and sun themselves under our windows.

July 25th

When we came down this morning, the hills were blotted our; later in the day the heavy mists turned to rain and we were prisoners most of the day.  I went out a little in the afternoon but it was a dreary scene.  In the evening, we all walked to the post office at Coppercleugh – it was a calm, fresh night.  From our windows, we hear the running burn.

July 26th

All morning, Father fished the Meggat and we sat about on the banks – cold and sunshine and mist at intervals.  I love to watch the collies gather the sheep scattered on the hillsides, and forming them into a group, driving them home to the farms.  Whilst Father fished the Loch of the Lowes in the evening, we walked as far as a lovely ravine on the Tushielaw road.  A wealth of ferns and foxgloves decked the banks; a burn rushed down to join the loch.  We had a chat with one of the shepherds and his dogs.  Father caught four perch and an eel.

July 27th

Another cold, misty day amongst the ‘dowrie glens of Yarrow’.

July 28th

I rowed Father on the loch all morning whilst he trolled for pike.  It was lovely on the water rowing, though the sun is still hidden and mists cover the hills.  Such a contrast to their vivid green when the sky is blue overhead and, in the clear water, every curve is perfectly reflected.  Alone at night, I went for a stroll by the loch, so calm and still.

July 29th

Warmer and brighter; we all went as far as the ravine on the Tushielaw road and lingered there long enough to enjoy the beauty of the scene.  In the afternoon, whilst Father and Grace were on the loch, I walked at sunset to the Meggat and watched the shifting lights on the distant hills.  We went there again in the evening.

July 30th

All went for a stroll in the morning and then, at 2pm, we left St Mary’s Loch for Selkirk, by the mail coach – a drive of eighteen miles in a heavy Scotch mist and driving rain.  Yarrow Vale was very beautiful but much of the scenery was shut out by the mist.  We passed Yarrow kirk and the manse, where the Rev Borland lives; a tomb, which marks the resting place of two sons of an ancient king; the hill down which the Covenanters drove the Royalists into Yarrow, which swept them away; Old Brig of Yarrow and Yarrow ford; Newark Tower, situated on a hill, where one of the Edwards was imprisoned, the scene of one part in ‘Marmion’.  Mungo Park’s cottage, the African explorer; Philiphaugh, Mr Steele’s (the millionaire) mansion; Ettrick forest, the lovely Yarrow river and hills.

Crossing the Ettrick, we reached Selkirk about 5pm.  From here, we took the train to Galashiels, a manufacturing town, where we changed for Melrose, arriving at 6pm.  We drove to the George & Abbotsford Hotel, where we stayed.  After tea, we went for a walk through the old town.

July 31st

At 9.30am we drove, with a party from the hotel, to Abbotsford, Sir Walter Scott’s home.  We passed Darwick Tower, mentioned in ‘The Monastery’; the three Eildon hills, supposed to be the resting place of King Arthur and his knights; the Cheviot range in the distance and a monument in memory of Waterloo. 

Abbotsford is beautifully situated on the river Tweed; this view of the river and hills beyond was Scott’s favourite one and it was looking upon this from his windows that he passed away.  Lovely terraced gardens surround the house, with well-trimmed shrubs.  In one, there are a number of medallions round the old creeper-covered walls; in another is a statue of one of Scott’s characters in Rob Roy.  The place now belongs to his great-granddaughter, Mrs Scot Maxwell.

Passing through the entrance hall, we entered Scott’s study, where he wrote all his novels, and then on to the library which contains twenty thousand volumes.  In the drawing room, there are several paintings of the Scott family and the Chantry bust; the wallpaper is hand-painted.  In the armoury, there are a large number of curious, including Rob Roy’s sword and purse, Flora Macdonald’s pocket book, two pistols taken from Napoleon’s carriage when he was taken prisoner, Robbie Burn’s tumbler, etc.  Everything in the house was designed and arranged by Scott

From here, we drove back to Melrose Abbey – five miles both ways.  This is a fine old ruin; round the pillars, there is the curly, male tracery.  The heart of Bruce lies here and the tomb of Michael Scott, the wizard.  We saw Scott’s favourite seat and the old graveyard adjoining.  Melrose Abbey is described in ‘Lay of the Last Minstrel’.  It was built by King David I, in 1136, and dedicated to St Mary.  Alex II also lies here.

From the Abbey, we all drove on to Dryburgh, five miles from Melrose.  This is a prettier ruin, overgrown with ivy and creepers and bluebells.  The druids worshipped here – now it is owned by Mr Erskine of Dryburgh House.  The Chapter house and St Catherine’s window were two of the chief features.  Sir Walter Scott and his wife are buried here.  It dates from 1150.  An old yew against the ruin is as old as the Abbey.

We drove home by the Tweed valley, saw the Leader foot bridge over the river and the viaduct, 133ft high;  ‘Ravensbury’ – the Master of Ravensbury was one of Scott’s characters; Thomas the Rhymer’s stone and glen; the villages of Newstead and Newtown.

After tea, we went for a stroll along the Tweed bank by the Weir, a broad sheet of water.

August 1st

In the morning, we went to St Aidan’s and heard Rev Simpson preach – he was from Edinburgh high church and he preached a very good sermon on John the Baptist.  In the afternoon, we sat on the river bank.  In the evening, we went to High Cross church. 

Although wet early in the day, it cleared later.  After dinner, we walked to the old world village of Dingleton, situated on a high hill from which a good view of Melrose can be seen, nestling between the hills.

August 2nd

We left Melrose by the 11.30am train for Carlisle, via Hawick – a manufacturing town; and arrived at 1.30pm.  We stayed at the County and Station Hotel and, in the afternoon, we went on top of electric trams in three directions; to Newtown, past the cathedral; to Stanwise, past the pleasure gardens on the banks of the river Eden and to Warwick Road.  In the distance, we saw Skiddaw and the Keswick hills.  Our hotel faces the law courts and county jail.

From the ramparts of the castle, where we went in the afternoon, we had a good view of the city and river with the bridge, cathedral, etc

August 3rd

Weather very hot; we started for home about noon and reached Carshalton at 9.30pm.


TRIP DOWN THE THAMES 1905

taken by John Smith II together with his daughters, Grace and Adeline

as told by Adeline Smith

TRIP DOWN THE THAMES 1905

July 15th

Father, Grace and I left Paddington for Oxford by the 4.45pm train and arrived at 6.09pm.  Drove to the Wilberforce Temperance Hotel, Queen Street and then went for a stroll in the evening.  A beautiful city, full of fine buildings – we are all charmed with it. 

July 6th

Went, on top of a tram, to Folly Bridge and up the High Street, which is considered one of the finest in Europe.  Passed Christ Church College; here, at five minutes past nine at night, ‘Great Tom’ tolls 101 to warn the students that the gates are closing.

Carfax Tower, one of the oldest in Oxford; Wolsey’s house, St Mary the Virgin church, where Ridley and Cranmer preached and Amy Robsart, of Scott’s Kenilworth, is buried.  Every year, the university sermons are preached here and, also, the Bampton Lectures.  We just saw inside the church.

We spent most of the morning in the Botanical Gardens and Christ Church meadow, from which there is a fine view across the river of Magdalen College.  After lunch, we rowed for two hours on the river Isis, as far as Iffley, whilst father fished – and peaceful, pretty scene.

July 7th

We went, by train, to Woodstock, the scene of Scott’s novel.  Went over Blenheim Palace, seat of the Duke of Marlborough and saw his two little sons out driving.  The palace was the gift of Queen Anne to the first Duke of Marlborough, for his services at the Battle of Blenheim.  As you enter the grounds, a lovely lake, crossed by a bridge, lies in a hollow to your left.  The clear water reflected the blue sky; from its brink, gentle wooded slopes rose in the distance; very lovely. 

We went over the state rooms, and the stables, saw some of the horses and ponies – perfect stables.  We walked through the grounds to see the rosary and then went back to Woodstock village and had lunch at The Old Bear.  Got back to Oxford soon after 3pm and went, on top of a tram, to Summertown, past Balliol College, where the Yellow Book of Browning’s ‘Ring and the Book’ is preserved.  Grace and I went for a stroll at night, the buildings seemed to have an added grandeur as they stood, all clearly outlined against the dark blue sky of night.

Amongst other places we saw, were the Bodleian Library, the Camera reading room, Keeble College, a new red building, Martyr’s memorial, Taylor Institute, and St Michael’s church, etc.  At the hotel, we met a Swedish lady, Mrs Carr, and got very friendly with her.  We also saw the Sheldonian Theatre, etc.  There is a peculiar charm about Oxford, with all its classic and historic interests.

July 8th

We left Oxford, by the 9.30am steamer, for Abingdon, arriving at 11.30.  The route was by Iffley Mill, Sandford, and Nuneham – seat of Sir William Harcourt; just at the river bend here, are a group of cottages which have been painted for the Royal Academy.

We went to the Crown & Thistle hotel, a favourite haunt of Ruskin’s when he was at Oxford.  In the evening, we rowed for two hours on the river whilst Father fished.  Abingdon is a fair sized town, with a quaint town hall and a park.  It possesses a mayor and sheriffs.

July 9th,

Sunday: we went to St Helen’s church – a fine structure, in the morning and the Wesleyan church at night.  Mr Gill came to see us in the afternoon and Grace went back to have tea with them.  Mr Gill went to the park with us afterwards.

July 10th

Left Abingdon, by the 11am boat, for Shillingford, arriving there at 2pm, via Culham Lock, Clifton, Day’s and Benson Locks and then went to Shillingford Bridge Hotel on the river bank; showery, but a peaceful, lovely evening.  Father fished and I rowed him from five to eight.  Grace walked to Wallingford.

July 11th

Father went out fishing all day, with a man; he caught two large and several small fish.  Grace and I walked to Wallingford, about two miles out – the heat was intense.  After tea, we went for an hour’s row alone.

July 12th

Father spent the morning out fishing with a man and Grace and I walked to Shillingford village.  We left, by the 1.40pm boat, for Pangbourne, arriving at 4pm; dad lunch at The Lamb Hotel, Wallingford; via Cleeve (a lovely spot), Goring and Whitchurch.  This was the finest scenery along the Thames.  The river twists and turns about amongst beautiful wooded hills.  At Goring and Streatley, it is charming.  We went to the Elephant Hotel, most comfortable, with a pretty, shady garden where we had tea.

In the evening, we went for an hour’s row.  A number of pretty villa residences line the bank of the river, with a walk along in front and the hills rising sheer behind.  Pangbourne and Whitchurch are very prettily situated, one on each side of the river.  A bridge with an old toll gate connects them.

July 13th

We rowed about all day on the river whilst Father fished.  We landed, for a short time, on an island just beyond Mapledurham, a mile and a half up the river.

July 14th

In the morning, we walked to Uplands, Whitchurch, to call on Violet’s aunts, the Miss Woods.  Violet’s father came back with us to lunch.  We left Pangbourne, by the 4.15pm boat, for Henley.  Met Mrs Carr again on board, so went together to the same hotel, arriving at 7.15pm.  The route was via Mapledurham, Reading, Sonning (very pretty), Shiplake and Marsh Lock.  The river at Henley widens considerably and is lined on either side with artistically decorated houseboats.  The flowers on some of them were beautiful. 

We went to the Catherine Wheel Hotel and, after tea, we went to look about the town; Mrs Carr went with us.

July 15th

Grace’s birthday: we left Henley by the 10am boat, also Mrs Carr, for Windsor, arriving at 2.15pm; the route was via Hambledon, Hurley, Temple Locks, Marlow (a lovely spot), Cookham – where the river  is very narrow and beautifully wooded, Bourne End, Boulter’s Lock, Maidenhead, Bray and Boveney Locks.  We went to The White Hart Hotel, in the High Street, just opposite the principal entrance to the castle.  After tea, we explored part of the town: old-fashioned, very pretty round the castle and parks.

July 16th

We attended service in St George’s Chapel.  It is very beautifully decorated with carved wood and iron-work, gilt figures, flags, gold cups and plates and cross on the Communion table.  Also a gold cross, £300 cost, given by Queen Victoria.  Fine coloured windows; the chorister boys wore scarlet and white and the musical service was perfect.  One of the resident Canons, Bishop Barry, gave a beautiful sermon on Romans VIII.23, subject for Animal Sunday.

In the afternoon, we went into the Great Park, eighteen hundred acres in extent.  Then we went onto the east terrace at the castle.  It is thrown open to the public on Sunday afternoons.  The view over the park is lovely.  The bank was playing and numbers of soldiers on guard, their scarlet coats blending with the geraniums.  A sunk lawn, a fountain, trimmed shrubs and bright flowers made up a gay scene.  The sun shone gloriously.

Behind it all, rose the massive grey castle, with its turrets and towers.  It dates back to William the Conqueror’s reign.  The part contains the mausoleum, the Duke of Cumberland’s lodge; the home park surrounds the castle and a rosary.  St George’s Chapel and the Memorial Chapel join.  Within a few miles of Windsor are Ascot, Burnham Beeches and Virginia Water.  As our stay was so short, we could not do much sight-seeing.  We went to the Wesleyan Chapel in the evening and heard the Rev Arthur Sharply preach.  A lovely night, the full moon shining on the castle made it look very majestic.

July 17th

We left Windsor, by the 9.15am boat, for Kingston via Eton College and chapel (a thousand boys), Old Windsor, Romney, Bell Weir, Holloway College, Staines, Penton Hook, Chertsey and Weybridge, Shepperton, Sunbury and Molesey Locks, Surbiton and Kingston and  Monkey Island.  Arrived at 1.30pm and lunched at the Griffin Hotel; we then took a train to Clapham Junction and home.


VISIT TO SCOTLAND

June 8th – 28th 1906

by Adeline Smith

TRIP TO SCOTLAND – 1906

June 8th

I left London, by the 10am, train for Stirling, arriving at 7pm, and went to stay with Nellie Macaulay at Clarendon Place.  Jim met me at the station.  Mr David Muir came down by the same train to stay a few days.

June 9th

Nell and I went into town in the morning and spent the afternoon in King’s Park.  We played bridge in the evening

June 10th

We all went to the East church on Castle Hill in the morning and heard the Rev Lang preach.  In the afternoon, we had tea with Professor Drummond’s brother, under the trees in his garden; met Mr and Mrs Hope Patterson there.  We went for a stroll in King’s Park in the evening – a lovely view of the castle and surrounding mountains.

June 11th

Nell and I went into town after breakfast and Mr Muir went for a long walk with us in the afternoon.  Nell and I spent the evening on the golf links – light until 10 o’clock.

June 12th

Mr Muir left.  Nell, Jim and I drove to, Doune, via Bridge of Allan, fifteen miles drive.  We had tea there at Mrs Dicksee’s  – beautiful grounds to their house

June 14th

Nell and I went to the castle, Martyrs’ monument, and the Roman Catholic church.  Went by tram to Wallace’s monument and climbed to the summit from where we had a grand view of the mountains and windings of the Forth.  In the evening, we went for a walk

Jun 15th

Nell and I went to Dunblane by train.  We had tea at a little shop on the banks of the Doon and then went over the cathedral.  Not much to see

June 16th

John and Nellie came over to lunch and tea and then we all went out on the golf links

June 17th

We went to church in the morning and heard Rev Purvis preach; this was followed by Communion service and another sermon by Dr Forrest, writer of ‘Authority of Christ’.  Jim and I went again in the evening to hear Dr Forrest – a very fine preacher.

June 18th

I went for a lovely stroll alone round the foot of the castle hill – glorious country.  We went for a walk together in the afternoon and climbed to the Beheading Stone on the hill.  In the evening, Jim went with us to Torbrex village, a typical Scottish village.

June 19th

Jim took us both to Edinburgh for the day.  First we looked at the shops in Princes Street and then walked down Canongate, a poverty-stricken neighbourhood, past Knox’s house to Holyrood Palace.  Went over the palace and had lunch at the Royal British Hotel.  We went on a circular tour on top of a tram and then had tea at one of the large shops out on a balcony overlooking Princes Street.

June 20th

I went for a stroll round the castle in the morning; a wet day

June 21st

Nell and I started directly after breakfast for Callander .  We went by train, then walked the Trossachs’ road for several miles.  Glorious mountain scenery and, winding through the valley, the river Teith; Ben Ledi prominent amongst the heights. We had our lunch in a meadow by the river side and returned home by another road where trees interlaced overhead.

June 22nd

I left Stirling, by the 1.13 train, for Glasgow, arriving at 2.50pm.  Found Nellie Grant and Ian waiting for me.  We went together and looked at the shops and then had tea at the Grosvenor.  Left Glasgow by the 4.05pm train for Gourock and, from there, took a steamer to Kilcreggan, arriving at 4.50.  Found Mr and Mrs Gilchrist waiting for me with the carriage.  ‘Woodside’ is a lovely house on the loch side.

June 23rd

A misty day; went for a stroll alone in the morning with the three dogs and sat on the rocks by Loch Long.  Ellen and I went for a walk on the hills behind their house in the afternoon and, in the evening, Mr Arthur entertained me with his phonograph

June 24th

We all went to church in the morning and heard a good sermon from the Rev Welsh, of Edinburgh.  I stayed with Mrs Gilchrist in the evening

June 25th

In the afternoon, we went for a drive to Coulport and Kilcreggan.

June 26th

Mr Gilchrist took Ellen and me on a steamer trip up Loch Long to Arrochar and then, by coach, to Tarbet, on Loch Lomond.  Great clouds rested on the grand mountains and hid the summit of Ben Lomond.

June 27th

We drove to Roseneath and Gareloch – the weather wet and cold as it had been all week.  Ellen and I had tea at the Miss Anderson’s.

June 28th

I left Cove, by the 8am steamer, for Gourock – Ellen came with me.  Came through direct, from Gourock to London, arriving at 8pm.  George met me there.


Diaries

1903

January

T 1 Uncle Charles, Aunt Miria and Maggie Ibbotson spent the day with us; I drove over to fetch them.

F 2 Went to Mill Lane Mission in the afternoon and evening to help with the Xmas tree; Mr Rhodes spent the day with us.

S 3 Clusters of primroses in bloom in our garden; a spray of japonica in full bloom

S 4 Father, Grace and I attended the Covenant service at Sutton; George and Nellie had tea with us after going to the service

M 5 We all went for a drive in the afternoon

T 6 Went to dressmaking class at Croydon in the afternoon and then on to see Mrs Wood; found her very ill.

W 7 Called on a Mrs Adams of Mill Lane for the first time; widow living on the parish; in evening, Grace and I went to a party at Mrs Chandler’s; Mr Cheshire had dinner with Father

T 8 Spent the day helping to nurse Mrs Wood and Florrie; Mrs Wood’s mind wandering very much

F 9 Father and I went for a drive; Trot, Arthur (EAC) and the four children came over to stay with us.

S 10 Trot, Arthur and Cecil left us in the afternoon; Father, the girls and I went for a drive

S 11 All went to chapel, Rev H Williamson preached; May came to tea; in evening, Grace, Ethel and I went to Beddington church.

M 12 Fannie and Edie Williams spent the evening with us.

T 13 Went over to Finchley to stay with Trot; Ethel, Gladys and Jim returned with me.

W 14 Trot, the girls and I went up to Shoolbreds and to see the West End shops; saw procession of the unemployed, about 600 men marched through Regent Street; weather very severe

T 15 Left Trot’s after lunch and went on to see Mrs Wood; spent several hours there, returning home in the evening.

F 16 Too unwell to go out

S 17 Ditto; Mr Parkinson had tea with us; cold continues intense

S 18 Ditto

M 19 In bed

T 20 Ditto

W 21 Ditto

T 22 Cousin Lillie came over to stay with us; still in bed

F 23 Went for a short drive with Lillie in the afternoon

S 24 Lillie left us

S 25 Went to Sutton chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 26 Called on Bessie Hay

T 27 Went to dressmaking class in the afternoon.

W 28 Father and I drove to Epsom in the morning and called on Nellie in the afternoon

T 29 All went for a drive with Nellie through Purley, etc; Mrs and Miss Jessie Robinson called in the afternoon.

F  30 Rev A C Strutt came to see us; all went for a drive in the morning

S 31 Mr Strutt left us

February

S 1 Rev H Williamson preached at Sutton in the morning

M 2

T 3 Went to dressmaking class at Croydon; we all went to Coleridge Taylor’s recital, Croydon public hall; artists were Madam Ella Russell, Ethel Barnes (violin), Ivor Foster (baritone) etc.

W 4 Called on Mrs Antill and Mrs Edwards; Mrs Williamson called on us

T 5 Father, Grace and I drove over to Uncle Charles in the morning; driving home after tea.

F 6 We three visited Mother’s grave; Ashanti Goldfields’ dividend received

S 7 Called on a poor woman, Mrs Turner, in consumption; Arthur sailed for West Africa

S 8 Rev Scott Ligee preached in the morning on ‘The God of thy Fathers’; Mr Antill and Mrs White had tea with us.

M 9 We all went for a drive in the afternoon; in the evening, Edith Williams and I went to Wallington to hear Rev Theodore Wood lecture on ‘Spiders’.  Note on lecture: Spiders are not insects, they possess heart and lungs but no head; two former extend into legs which are 8 in number; can store nourishment in lefts for use when no food is attainable; each thread made up of thousands of strands; the sticky threads catch the prey; the spider herself never walks on the gummy one; in one species, the female is 1300 times larger than the male; former are always much larger; spiders are short sighted, ordinary range of vision extends only two inches; Australian species bred in observatories for the sake of their fine threads, which are composed of three strands; these, unravelled, are used by astronomers to represent the median line when tracking the course of starts; difficulties of courtship; trap door; female always ends by devouring the male and, often, the young; very pugnacious; wonderful construction of tube placed by slope and door hinged; one kind live entirely in a burrow, each particle of earth conveyed to a distance so as to evade detection; raft spiders, water spiders, living in air filled bell-resembling thimble which has to be constantly refilled by air bubbles.

T 10 Attended dressmaking class in the afternoon.

W 11 Father and I went to home missionary meeting at Sutton and heard Rev Peter Thompson speak

T 12 Visited Stratton’s wife; Father and I drove with Grace to Kitty’s and had tea there; left Grace there to dinner; Volta rode over to see us in the afternoon.

F 13 Had tea with Auntie Miria

S 14 Called to see Nellie; Mr and Mrs Champness came in the afternoon; Mrs Champness, Grace and I drove to Woodmansterne; Mr Champness returned home in the evening

S 15 Mrs Champness went with us all to Sutton chapel; Grace and I went to Beddington in the evening

M 16 Mrs Champness returned home; I drove to Balham with her and I went on to Violet’s to tea; Florrie Wood came back with me for a few days, in the evening

T 17 Father, Florrie and I drove over Epsom Downs; I went to dressmaking class in the afternoon.

W 18 Visited Mrs Turner; Uncle and Auntie came over for the day; George came in the evening

T 19 Went to Croydon in afternoon with Florrie; returning by motor bus

F 20 We all went for a drive; in afternoon, I took Florrie home and had tea with Violet

S 21 Grace went over to Trot to stay a few days.

S 22 Father and I had tea with George and Nellie

M 23 Grace returned home

T 24 Attended class at Croydon in the afternoon

W 25 Went for a drive with Father in the afternoon; Arthur’s ship arrived at the Gold Coast

T 26 Met Violet in town and heard Rev R S Campbell preach at the City Temple – subject ;God’s Remedy for Sin’; Temple crowded; then called on Mr Rendell; went over home for stray cats in Hammersmith

F 27 Called on Bessie Hay

S 28 Agnes Heaton came over in the afternoon to stay a few days

March

S 1 Rev H Williamson preached at Sutton; Mr Cheshire came to tea

M 2 Agnes left

T 3 Marian, Captain Scott and Nellie Grant spent the day with us; called on Mrs Anthill in evening

W 4 Father went over to Trot’s; Grace and I went up to Great Central Hotel to see Mrs Grant; Violet came down in the evening to stay

T 5 Grace went to Sidcup

F 6 Father, Violet and I went for a drive in the morning.  I called on Mrs Henman in the afternoon; George and Nellie called in the evening

S 7

S 8 Rev Organs preached in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Violet and I went to Beddington church in the evening

M 9 We all went for a drive in the morning; visited Mrs Turner; Father, Violet and I heard Mr Walter Maunder lecture on astronomy in the evening

T 10 Attended class at Croydon

W 11 Father drove to Croydon with Violet and me; we called on the manager of the omnibus company to take ‘Black Beauty’ for his men; went in to Mrs Pearce and Mrs Turner; grace went to Sidcup

T 12 All went for a drive across Epsom Downs; Violet and I went across the park in the afternoon

F 13 We drove over Shirley Hills in the morning; I called in at Nellie’s in the afternoon; Grace and Violet walked to Sutton

S 14 Violet left

S 15 Rev H Williamson at Sutton; Father and I walked to Wallington chapel at night

M 16 Visited Bessie Hay

T 17 Attended dressmaking class

W 18 Mr and Mrs Robinson spent the evening with us; Sent banner to Sidcup’s Band of Mercy

T 19 Visited Mrs Turner; cat had kittens

F 20 Spent the day over at Trot’s

S 21 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us.

S 22 Father and I walked to Wallington chapel in the morning; George and Nellie had tea and supper with us; went to Carshalton church at night; Grace unwell, so did not go out.

M 23 Commenced Spring cleaning

T 24 Attended dressmaking class in the afternoon

W 25 Father unwell

T 26 Went to Sidcup to Annual band of mercy meeting; lecture by R Kearton, on ‘Wild Nature’s Ways’.  Fine lecture with beautiful slides; a crowded hall; Mr Crawford in the chair; banner unfurled; saw a lot of our old friends and stayed the night at Mrs Oliver’s.

F 27 Returned home from Sidcup in the afternoon

S 28

S 29 Mr Williamson preached at Sutton; Father stayed at home

M 30 Grace went to Eastbourne to engage rooms for us for Easter

T 31 In the morning, Rev J Wright came to stay with us; Mr Cheshire had dinner here and George came in afterwards; Mr Wright and I went for a walk in the afternoon; Father better and able to go out in the garden again

April

W 1 Grace and I went to the dog show in the public hall.  Mr Wright left us in the afternoon, I drove with him to Sutton.

T 2

F 3

S 4 Too unwell to go out.  Mr Wood called with George in the evening; Grace went to a concert in London

S 5 In bed with an abscess

M 6 Ditto

T 7 Ditto; Grace went to meet the Ethel and Gladys home from boarding school

W 8 Father gone on to Eastbourne, was not well enough to go with him today

T 9 Grace, Nellie and I joined Father at Eastbourne in the afternoon; George came down in the evening; are staying at Denbigh Boarding House in Howard Square.

F 10 Weather perfect; spent morning on the front, called at the Aunties – they had tea with us in the afternoon.

S 11 Spent the morning on the pier, the afternoon in town; much colder

S 12 We all heard Rev Gillie preach morning and evening at the Scottish Presbyterian church; beautiful sermons and a crowded church; a fine preacher; all had tea with the Aunties in the afternoon.

M 13 Sleet showers, bright between; spent morning on front; I had tea with Aunties

T 14 Spent morning on front; went for a long stroll in the afternoon; in evening, Grace, Nellie and I went to hear Grossmith at the Pavilion.

W 15 Bitterly cold; spent the morning on front; in afternoon, we three had tea with Aunties; some visitors there – Mr and Mrs Brimcombe and their son and daughter, Mr Yeoman, her brother, Mrs Duke, Mrs Davies and a German gentleman

T 16 George left for London early and we all followed in the afternoon; Have spent a happy week together at Eastbourne; Aunties came to see us off at the station.

F 17 Sent off parcels of clothes to Mrs Price, Mrs Brewer and Mrs Goodsell; and one for bazaar to Mr Rendell

S 18 Grace and I visited our darling mother’s grave

S 19 Ethel very ill with congestion of lungs; Grace been over to see her; Father and I had tea with George and Nellie; a very anxious day

M 20 I had tea with Violet

T 21 Spent the day over at Trot’s; found Ethel a little better but still very ill

W 22 Visited Mrs Turner

T 23 Ethel improving

F 24 Took Lassie up to see Bessie Hay; called on Mr Antill; sent a little dress off to Adeline Price

S 25 Called at Bampfylde

S 26 George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Jessie Cooper, from Sidcup, called to see me; is in service here.

M 27 Mrs Robinson called; George and Nellie came in the evening

T 28 Attended dressmaking class; Mr Knight and Mr Robinson called; made sweets for bazaar; became a member of the ‘Humane Needlework Guild’.

W 29 Grace taking a stall at Wesleyan bazaar at Sutton; Father and I went in the afternoon.

T 30 Took Grace’s place at the stall in the afternoon; went up again in the evening; Grace playing at a concert in Sidcup and staying the night with Miss Cowdrey

May

F 1 Went to Violet’s for a week; in the evening, Violet, Hubert and I went to the anti-vivisection meeting at St James’ Hall; speakers were Lord Llangattock, Hon Stephen Coleridge and Lord Ernest Hamilton

S 2

S 3 Went with Hubert to Canon Edward’s church twice; stayed for the sacrament in the morning; vicar preached and the Rev Dawkes in the evening.

M 4 Arthur (EAC) died on the West Coast of Africa; news did not reach England until the 12th

T 5 Called on Mrs Babister; Mr and Mrs Statham went home to Carshalton for a week.

W 6 Mrs Wood, Violet, Hubert and I went to the annual meeting of the Clapham and Stockwell Band of Mercy; a well-attended meeting; Rev Dawkes gave the address and had supper with us afterwards.

T 7 Returned home in the morning; Mr and Mrs Robinson dined with us; Mr Kirk called

F 8 Visited Mrs Turner’ Mr Cheshire and Mr Antill called; George and Nellie dined with us

S 9 Sent kitten to Bampfylde; called at Nellie’s; Mr and Mrs Hillbrook called

S 10

M 11 Grace went to the Hippodrome with Mrs Statham

T 12 Mr and Mrs Statham left us; cable received from Africa with news of Arthur’s sudden death; an unexpected blow; have just been over to see poor Trot.

W 13 Grace brought Jim (Arthur Gordon) home with her

T 14 Auntie Miria came for a few days

F 15 Went over to see Trot

S 16 Visited darling Mother’s grave; Uncle Charles came over; Bruce went to Mrs Williams

S 17

M 18 Auntie Miria left us

T 19

W 20 Called on Mr Antill; parted with ‘Bruce’; Father bought the new horse, ‘Rob Roy’.

T 21 Father and I went over to see Trot; took Jim back to Finchley

F 22 Visited Mrs Turner; we all drove to Kingswood in the morning and gathered bluebells in the woods; found a hedgehog in the garden

S 23

S 24 George and Nellie had tea and supper with us; we all went to the Baptist church at night and joined in a public protestation against the new education bill; all present pledged themselves to strenuously oppose it.

M 25 Visited Bessie Hay; we all drove to Shirley

T 26 A little daughter born to Trot, Theo Daphne; shopping in London; Grace went to Finchley and Father to Temple flower show with Uncle

W 27 Derby Day

T 28 I went over to see Trot and the baby; both doing well.

F 29 The Oaks; called on Mrs Robinson and at Nellie’s

S 30 A terrible storm in the afternoon and again at night; Roads and lawn flooded and the stream overflowing

S 31 All had tea at Bampfylde and supper

June

M 1 Mr Robinson and Mr Sidney Robinson, Mr Anthill and Mr Brook called.

T 2 We drove into Croydon to do some shopping; Mrs White came to stay a couple of days with us

W 3 All went to Daisy Antill’s wedding and reception at the hall adjoining the church; 50 guests present; Ray and Edith called

T 4 I went with Father to the Ashanti Goldfield Corporation’s offices to see Mr Daw and hear particulars of Arthur’s death; we had lunch at Holborn restaurant; Father went on to Trot’s and I met Grace at Violet’s, where we had tea; Mrs White left us

F 5 Grace went to Trot’s; Father and I drove to Purley

S 6 Mr Robinson and George came in the afternoon, Mrs White in the evening

S 7

M 8 Father went to Coventry; Grace and I went to a Strauss festival concert at St James’s Hall – the Amsterdam Orchestra, Richard Platt pianist and Mengelberg conducting

T 9 Visited Mrs Turner and Bessie Hay; called at Nellie’s with Grace in the evening

W 10 Grace and I had tea at Auntie Miria’s

T 11 Jack, my favourite pony, died

F 12 Took Bessie Hay for a drive; Father returned home from Coventry in the evening

S 13 We all spent the day at Beckenham with Uncle and Auntie

S 14 SS Anniversary services – Rev Goodrich preached a good sermon

M 15 Fred and Laurie came to spend a week with us

T 16 Drove to Purley, etc

W 17 Called on Mrs Antill; visited Mrs Turner

T 18 Memorial service for Arthur at Finchley chapel – Rev Smith gave the address; Father and I had tea at Trot’s and stayed the night; Grace came over to the service with Fred and Laurie in the evening

F 19 Father and I got home to lunch and brought Ethel back for one night; continued rains, floods in many parts

S 20 Grace, Ethel, Laurie and Fred went to the Candle festival; Ethel returned home from there; Father and I had tea at Nellie’s

S 21 We all went to Wallington chapel in the morning; Fred, Laurie and I went to Beddington church at night

M 22 Fred and Laurie left us; we three went for a drive in the afternoon

T 23 Mr and Mrs Child had dinner with us and stayed the night

W 24 Visited Mrs Turner

T 25 Father, Grace, Ethel and I started on a driving tour – our route to Epsom, then Leatherhead, Great Bookham, Effingham, East Horsley, Merrow  and on to Guildford (twenty-four miles), where we stayed the night at The Angel, four hundred years old, the crypt seven hundred years.  Went rowing on the Wey for two hours in the evening.

F 26 Visited Guildford castle and alms houses; started on our journey at 11am – route through Compton, Puttenham; Farnham – where we put up and had lunch at the Bush Hotel – then on to Bentley, Froyle, Holybourne, Alton, Chawton and Four Marks (twenty-three miles), where we stayed the night at the Windmill Inn – a very quaint place; we had a lovely stroll through the woods.

S 27 Left Four Marks at 10am and took a route through Medstead, Alresford, Itchen Stoke, Itchen Abbas, Martin Worthy, Kingsworthy and Winchester (seventeen miles), where we put up at the George Hotel – five hundred years old; went out to see the town, the river, market cross and town hall.

S 28 Attended service in the cathedral in the morning – Assizes begin here tomorrow; Mayor and judges attended the service in full state; the two judges are staying at this hotel – the Scott/Russell case comes on tomorrow; intensely hot; in the evening, went to St Cross, founded by Henry of Blois in 1132; ancient dole of beer and bread still continued for wayfarers; a beautiful sermon on ‘Speak, Lord’.

M 29 Went over the cathedral – longest in England, with magnificent architecture; earliest English kings lie there; parts date back to William I and oak beams given by him; left, at 4pm via Pitt, Standon, Hursley, Knappsfield, Ampsfield, Romsey, Cadnam, where the New Forest begins, and on to Stoney Cross (eighteen miles) where we stayed the night at the Compton Arms; had a lovely walk through the forest in the evening to the Rufus Stone.

T 30 Left, at 11am, after a lovely stroll; route through Picket Post to Ringwood – scenery fine, long stretches of heather and bracken-clad moorland (nine and a quarter miles); stayed at the White Hart Hotel; spent all the time on the banks of the river Avon, Father fishing.

July

W 1 Sat on banks of Avon all morning, Father fishing; left at 3.30pm, route Lower Kinston, Avon, Burton, Staple Cross, Purewell, Christchurch and to Bournemouth (fourteen and a half miles), where we stayed at the Lansdowne Hotel .

T 2 Father went home for one night to lay the stone of the new chapel at Finchley.  We took the steamer, at 12pm, to Swanage, where we spent the afternoon at Tilly Whim caves, returning by the 5pm boat.

F 3 Spent the morning and evening on the pier and had tea at the Quadrangle; weather continues perfect

S 4 Left at 10.15 – route Boscombe, Pokesdown, Iford, Christchurch, Purewell, Holmsley station, Bank, Lyndhurst (twenty and a half miles) – stayed at the Grand Hotel – a fine hotel with beautiful grounds. Went for a walk in the forest; arrived here at 1.15pm

S 5 Went to Lyndhurst church both morning and evening; heard Rev Hamps preach on ‘Our duty to animals; there is a fine fresco in the church – ‘Ten Virgins’ by Sir F Leighton- and a monument of women reclining; behind clasped hands and rising sun, a butterfly (symbolic of a soul escaped).

M 6 Left at 10am –route Hounsdon, Kimbridge, Totton, Redbridge, Millbrook, Southampton, Northiam Bridge, Bittern, Hedge End, Botley and Bishops Waltham, where we lunched and rested the horses at the Crown Hotel.  Saw the castle ruins, the ancient palace of the Bishop of Winchester, and then went on to Corhampton, Meon – here we had tea at the Red Lion – and went to Langrish and Petersfield (thirty-six and a half miles), where we stayed the night at the Dolphin Hotel.  The views in the Meon valley were fine.

T 7 Spent the day on the lake side and Father had some fishing; went over the old church and town; left at 5pm – route Sheet, Rake to Liphook (eight miles).  Between the two last, the scenery was most lovely, wooded hills and valleys and open heather-clad moorland.  Stayed the night at the Royal Anchor and went on a country walk.

W 8 This very old hotel used, in coaching days, by Queen Anne, George III, Queen Charlotte, William IV and Queen Victoria – all have stayed here.  Rooms all match board walls – had our dinner by candlelight.  Left at 10.30 – Hammerhill, Shottermill (where George Elliot wrote ‘Middlemarch’), Lions Green, Haslemere (Tennyson’s house), Milford, Godalming – where we lunched at the Angel – Shalford, Chilworth, Albury – tea at the Drummond Arms – Shere, Abinger, Wotton Hatch, Coast Hill and on to Dorking (twenty-eight miles), where we stayed at the White House Hotel.

T 9 We went, on top of a bus, to Holmwood – came back by train.  Walked to Betchworth Park later, where Father fished on the Mole – Countess of Marlborough’s estate there, Deepdene; saw Charterhouse school.

F 10 Left at 10am – route over Box Hill, Walton on Hill, Tadworth Green, Burgh Heath, Banstead, Sutton, Carshalton, arriving home at 12.30 (twenty miles).  The heat was intense – weather perfect all the time.  Total of two hundred and five miles in a fortnight and a day.  Drove through ninety-five places.  Mrs Atkinson, Miss Stanmore and Mr Cheshire called.

S 11 Ethel returned home.

S 12 George and Nellie had supper with us

M 13 Went to Mother’s grave and then went on to Clapham to have a dress fitted

T 14 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us.  Called on Mrs Antill in the evening

W 15 Grace’s birthday; Mr Robinson, George, Nellie, Fannie and Mr Bell called

T 16 Went to the Sidcup Band of Mercy field gathering; called on Mrs Price, Mrs Staples, Dr Crombie, Mr Blight; had tea with the latter; returned home the same night; a large attendance at the meeting

F 17 Visited Mrs Turner; called at Nellie’s; Trot and Cecil came over to stay a few days; all drove to Banstead, etc in the afternoon

S 18 We all drove over Epsom Downs

S 19 Fannie Williams came to tea

M 20 Took Cecil to see Bessie Hay and Mrs Antill; Trot and Cecil left us in the afternoon

T 21 Father and I drove to Cheam, etc – Mrs and Miss Blackie called

W 22 Head tea at Mrs Wood’s

T 23 We all went over to Epsom to a garden party at Mrs Atkinson’s, Woodcote Place

F 24 Visited Mrs Stratton

S 25 Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us; Father and I drove over in the morning to fetch them.

S 26 Too wet to drive to Sutton; Grace went to Beddington church; Father and I went to the Baptist church in the evening

M 27 Went to Clapham to the dressmaker’s; Violet came back with me from Balham for a few days; had our stream stocked with roach and perch

T 28 Violet and I called at Nellie’s; Rev G Bolton had dinner with us

W 29 Uncle, Auntie and Aunt Janie spent the day with us; Grace and Violet drove over to fetch them.

T 30 Violet left us; we went up together to the RSPCA annual meeting in St James’ Hall in the afternoon; Earl of Kilmorey took the chair; speakers were the Bishop of Hereford, Mr Colman, Sir Harold Vincent, Countess of Portsmouth, etc.  Aunt Hannah and Della came to stay with us.

F 31 Sent MS to Fred

August

S 1 Cousin Bert came to stay with us

S 2

M 3 Uncle Charles, Kitty and Arthur and all of us went to the flower show in the park; came back with us to tea and supper; we took five first prizes – grapes, cut flowers (gloxinias, coleus and potatoes); three second prices – table foliage plants; vegetables, pot plants and two thirds – carnations and foliage ferns.  Grace took 1st prize for a basket of flowers.

T 4 Bert left us; called to see Nellie; visited Mrs Turner.

W 5 Left St Pancras at 9.30am for Scotland; came via Nottingham, Sheffield, Leeds, Carlisle and Armathwaite; changed at Kilmarnock and Ayr, arriving at Killochan Castle at 8.45pm.  Colonel Grant and Nell met me at Killochan station; Grace saw me off at St Pancras; Cat had four kittens.

T 6 Killochan Castle dates back to the 15th Century, the Covenanters held their meetings in the dining hall; wet morning – Mrs Grey drove over to lunch; John came down in the afternoon; Nell and I drove him back to Girvan station and then met Miss MacDougal at Killochan; Miss N Ingle came to tea; drove to village in evening

F 7 Strolled about grounds and we climbed the turret towers; too unwell to go driving; Mr MacDougal came to stay; Mr B Ingle came in the evening.

S 8 Very stormy day; not well enough to go out; Miss MacDougal and I played billiards all morning; Mr Farquhar Tinn called in the afternoon and stayed the night.

S 9 Strong gale, no one able to go to church; in afternoon, had a lovely stroll alone through the extensive grounds; after tea, Nell , Mr Tinn, Mr Ingle and I went for a long walk; Mr Tinn went home in the evening; sang hymns most of the evening.

M 10 Mr MacDougal left; I spent the morning roaming about the country and grounds; castle belongs to Sir Reginald Cathcart of Carlton; drove to Girvan and through Kennedy’s Pass in the wagonette after lunch; Nell and I went through Bargany grounds after tea; played billiards after dinner; Mr Durant, Pharie and Grace Grant came in the evening.

T 11 Miss MacDougal left; were out all morning; drove with Mrs Grant and Nell to Girvan and Dailly in the afternoon; weather lovely.  In the evening, Mr C Thompson, Mr Macaulay and John arrived; had music and billiards in evening; Killochan ghost trick at night and climbed on the tower by moonlight.

W 12 Perfect day – spent morning in grounds; Nell and I walked to the lake and house in Bargany, Lord Stair’s estate; most lovely spot. Went for a drive to Turnberry and Maidens in polo cart after lunch, Nell driving; in evening, Mr B and Dr Ingles came in and we all played pool and had music; nine gentlemen and four ladies.

T 13 A perfect day; in grounds and Nell and Grace Grant and I drove, in polo cart, to Girvan, etc in the morning; in evening, Mr B Ingles and Miss Ingles came to dinner; numbered eight gentlemen and five ladies; in evening played pool and had music

F 14 Very wet and windy day; John and Mr Macaulay left in the morning; went for a short stroll in the morning and a long walk in the afternoon with Nell and Grace; Aunt Hannah and Della returned to Coventry.

S 15 Another wet day; cleared a little later; Nell, Grace and I went to the station to see the fishing party off; Nell and I had a walk in the afternoon; in evening, we watched a game of fives in the billiards room.

S 16 Nell, Mr Grant and I drove to the church at Dailly and heard Principal Stuart of St Andrew’s – a quaint, old place, the Killochan pew in the gallery; in afternoon, I had a delightful stroll alone, could see Girvan from the top of the hill, sea glistening in the sunshine.

M 17 Mr Thompson and Mr Durant left; spent the morning in the grounds; after lunch, Mrs Grant, Nell, Grace and I drove beyond Girvan along the sea shore and had tea on the rocks; a perfect day; played billiards in the evening.

T 18 Played a game of billiards with Colonel Grant at night; Grace and I drove to Girvan early to see Pharie and Captain Brook off; had lunch at twelve; Mrs Grant, Nell, Grace and I drove to Colmonell via Girvan and Lendalfoot; went to Dalreoch and wandered around the old spots; went into a lodge, called at Maggie’s cottage; had tea at Mrs Gray’s, Kirk-hill and put horses up there; returned at 4.30pm via Pinwherry and Pinmore – twenty miles in all.  Met Miss Dill at Mrs Gray’s.

W 19 Climbed the hill by the oat field and got a pretty view over Girvan; drove to Blair to call at Mr Watson’s, saw Mrs Watson and Miss Burne; drove on to Girvan; lovely morning but turned cold and wet later; Mrs Ingle and Mr Myer called in the afternoon; Pharie came back and night.

T 20 Nell and I spent the morning in Bargany grounds; after tea, we three girls and Mr Grant walked as far as the kennels to see the dogs; bright in the morning, heavy rain in the afternoon.

F 21 Spent the day at Ayr with John’s wife, four of us went over; Mrs Kelso was staying with her; after lunch, we roamed about the town and did some shopping; Mr Colonel, John and Pharie at Ayr coming home.

S 22 A lovely day; out all morning – Mrs Grant, Nell, Grace and I drove into Girvan and along the shore in the polo card after lunch; Nell and I went for a walk in the afternoon and again after dinner; Mr B Ingles came in the evening

S 23 Had a lovely stroll alone before and after breakfast; we drove to Dailly church in the morning; John and Mr Thompson came over to lunch; Mr and Mrs Brown and Mr Coulson came to tea; Nell and I had a walk in the afternoon.

M 24 Left Killochan at 9.07am for St Pancras, via Ayr and Kilmarnock; Mr Grant, Nell and Grace saw me off; had an hour to wait at Ayr, so went for a walk; arrived at St Pancras at 9.30pm; home 10.30pm.  Grace met me in London; Mr Statham, Rev G Bainton came to stay with us; Donald Price was born.

T 25 Drove over Epsom Downs in the afternoon; called at Nellie’s in the evening – George came in.

W 26 Mr Robinson called; the four gentlemen drove to Shirley; visited Mrs Turner

T 27 Went for a drive before lunch; Mr Statham and Rev G Bainton left us in the afternoon; Mrs Lander called; Fannie and Edie had tea and dinner with us.

F 28 Went up to help with Mothers’ meeting gathering at Miss Robinson’s in the afternoon.

S 29 Called at Bessie’s and Mrs Antill’s; Parton came to stay a few days.

S 30

M 31 Father, Parton and I drove to Purley in the morning; called on Mrs Lander, Miss Christie and Mrs Edwards

September

T 1 All went for a drive in the morning; sent parcels of clothes to Mrs Price and Mary Price

W 2 Parton left for his first circuit – Porlock; Bessie Hay called; called at Bampfylde, Grace went to a concert in town.

T 3 Trot, Gladys, Gordon and Jack White spent the day with us; Father, Trot and I visited darling Mother’s grave.

F 4 I spent the day in London shopping with Grace; Father went to town.

S 5 Sent parcel of clothes to Mrs Goodsell and literature to Seamen’s Mission; Mr Biney came to stay

S 6 Our new Minister, Mr Brooks, preached at Sutton; all went to Wallington chapel in the evening.

M 7 Called at Nellie’s and Mr Robinson; drove, with Father, to Shirley; Mr Biney left us; Grace went to Lowestoft to look for apartments; George and Nellie came in.

T 8 Went up to Balham to do some shopping and to dressmaker; visited Mrs Turner

W 9 Miss Craig came to dinner; Father and I drove to Croydon in the afternoon.

T 10 Father, Grace and I left Liverpool Street station by the 1.40pm train for Lowestoft; arrived at 4.40pm in the pouring rain; are staying at the Victoria Hotel Mansions, facing the sea.

F 11 An awful storm in the night, rough sea this morning; rain but cleared later; great damage done to the parade and cliff, saw a large piece washed away and wreckage all round, parts now railed off as unsafe.

S 12 Went, by train, to St Olaves in the morning and drove to Fritton Broad, very pretty old-fashioned garden adjoining the lake; had lunch at The Old Hall, drove back to St Olaves and returned by train.

S 13 Went to SB Anniversary service at Wesleyan chapel – sermon by Rev Robert Culley; in evening, we went to British and Foreign Fishermen’s Bethel, a crowded chapel.

M 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; wet and stormy day, only out a little in the morning

T 15 Two years ago today Mother passed home; very cold; went down to fish quay in the morning; then took tram to Bellevue Park and Sparrow’s Nest Park, where we spent the morning – very pretty; Oliver Cromwell slept in a house in the latter; spent afternoon on the pier.

W 16 Spent morning on fishing quay and pier; very went for the rest of the day

T 17 A lovely warm day; went, by steamer, up river to St Olaves; had lunch at Bell Hotel and drove to Fritton; went fishing on lake in small boat – Grace and I did the rowing; Father caught five bream; had tea at Old Hall, walked to the station, returned by train in time for dinner.

F 18 Drove to Oulton Broad in the morning, went out fishing on Broad without a boatman and caught six perch; stayed on the water until 4.30pm and then drove home again; found George here when we got back; has come down to stay with us; a lovely day.

S 19 Spent morning on pier; went to see water polo match and swimming competition at the baths in the afternoon

S 20 Heart Gipsy and Mrs Smith at Fisherman’s Bethel in the morning; went to Wesleyan chapel at night; strong gale blowing all day, sunshine.

M 21 Sunshine and gales; grand sea dashing over pier; went on pier in morning and then took train to Bellevue Park; after lunch, went for two hours’ drive through Gunton, Oulton, Parkfield, etc.

T 22 Again, strong gale and grand sea, watched fishing smacks from pier all morning – waves dashing right over the pier end.  George left us in the afternoon; we went over Mr Heron’s garden and greenhouses in the afternoon; rain later.

W 23 Father and I spent the day on Oulton Broad; caught 47 roach; Grace stayed by the sea.

T 24 Left Lowestoft by the 1.30pm train for Liverpool Street, arriving home at 5.45pm

F 25 Called at Nellie’s; Mr and Mrs Taylor came down to tea and dinner (of Townsville)

S 26 Had lunch and ta at Violet’s; Mr and Mrs Champness came down to dinner

S 27 All walked to Wallington chapel in the morning; Mr Willett preached

M 28 Grace went to Sidcup for a few hours; Nellie, Edie and Miss Williams called in the afternoon and George came in the evening.

T 29 Trot and Mrs Cade came over for the day; we all drove over to Norwood to visit darling Mother’s grave and to see the memorial stone for Arthur, the lines are: ‘Through the gates of death we pass, to our glorious resurrection.’

W 30 Went to London, shopping

October

T 1 Father and I drove to Purley, etc; Grace and I called upon Mrs Mann and Mrs Brooks; George, Nellie and Miss Williams came in the evening

F 2 Nellie and Mr Cheshire came in the afternoon; the latter spent the evening with us and photographed my animals; Aunt Lissie came to spend a fortnight with us.

S 3 Father, Auntie and I drove to Banstead, etc and called on Mrs Antill

S 4 All went to Bampfylde to tea; went to Wallington chapel in the evening; kitten went to a new home.

M 5 Father’s birthday; George, Nellie and Miss Williams spent the evening with us

T 6 Grace went to Sidcup and to a concert at Queen’s Hall in the evening.

W 7 Went to London in the morning and called at Violet’s and the dressmaker; home to lunch; Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; Father and Aunt Lissie drove over to fetch them; Mrs Antill called in the evening, Rev Waterhouse in the afternoon.

T 8 Visited Mrs Turner and Bessie Hay; Mr Robinson called

F 9 All went for a drive in the morning

S 10 Mr and Mrs Taylor spent the day at Carshalton; I went to Florrie Wood’s wedding at St Giles, Camberwell and spent the day with them all at Mrs Wood returning home in the evening; received a letter from the Dumb Friends’ League asking me to join their London committee and form a local branch in Carshalton.

S 11 A very wet day; Grace unwell; Father and I went to chapel in the morning; heard our new Minster, Rev Waterhouse

M 12 Auntie Miria came in the afternoon and to stay the night; very wet.

T 13 Visited Mrs Dyball, poor woman, eighty-two years of age; Auntie Miria left in the afternoon; Father, Grace and  the Aunties went for a drive in the morning.

W 14 Sent several parcels of clothing to Humane Needlework Society

T 15 Grace, Auntie and I drove over to Croydon to do some shopping; Aunt Lissie and I went over to Auntie Miria’s to tea; George and Nellie came in the evening.

F 16 Father, Auntie and I went for a drive in the morning.

S 17 Aunt Lissie left us, we all drove over to Uncle Charles with her and spent the day at Beckenham

S 18 Grace and tea and supper at Nellie’s

M 19 I went over to Trot’s in the morning to stay the night; after lunch, Trot, Cecil and I drove to Old Southgate in the governess cart with Merrylegs; very wet.

T 20 I left Trot’s by 1.31pm train home; Grace drove over to Kitty’s to tea.

W 21 Father went to Coventry for a visit; Grace and I went to London to call at the Dumb Friends’ League office; I undertook the secretaryship of a branch at Carshalton where they have no society at present; looked at shoes, went to a concert at St James’ Hall – Monsieur Jean Gerardy, cello, very fine, and Miss Pollyanna Fletcher piano.

T 22 Grace and I had dinner and spent the evening with George and Nellie

F 23 Mabel Oliver came down to stay a few days.  Mrs Oliver and Eva came to have lunch and tea with us.   Not well enough to go out.

S 24 In the afternoon, Mabel and I drove over to Crystal Palace to a concert; returned by train in the evening; Artists were Wilhelm Backhaus, pianist – very fine; Herr Paul Grummer, cello, Miss Lilian Foulis, violin; soloists: Mr John Harrison (very good) and Miss Alice Hollander.  Volta married Cissy Hale.

S 25 Too unwell to go out; Grace and Mabel went to Sutton in the morning and Beddington at night; Bessie Hay came to tea.

M 26 Still unwell; sent parcels of clothing to Mrs Price and Mrs Goodsell

T 27 Father returned home from Coventry; Mabel, Edie and I drove to Crystal Palace after lunch to see the national cat and bird show; returned home by train in the evening; Edie came to lunch and dinner.

W 28

T 29 Went for a drive to Cheam, etc in the morning; Mr Cheshire came over in the evening.

F 30 Sent off parcel of clothes to rummage sale and of Dumb Friends’ League.  Mabel Oliver left; visited Mrs Dyball, and ole Mr and Mrs Dunn.

S 31 Visited Mrs Turner; Mr & Mrs Jowett came to stay over Sunday.

November

S 1 All went to Wallington chapel in the evening

M 2 Went for a drive over Shirley Hills in the morning; Mr & Mrs Jowett left after tea; I walked to Wallington with Father to see proposed site for new chapel

T 3 Called to see Mrs Antill; Nellie had dinner with us

W 4 Drove over to Kit’s and had tea and dinner with her; came home by train in evening; awful fog.

T 5 Visited Bessie Hay; Mr Tattersall had tea and dinner with us

WF6 We all went for a drive in the morning; Miss Jessie Robinson came to dinner and spent the evening with us.

S 7 Rose and Ada Cowdrey came down to spend the day with us; in the afternoon, we took them for a drive and called to see George and Nellie; they came in the evening; Rev W and Mrs Brooks called in the afternoon.

S 8 Missionary Anniversary; preacher, Rev Findlay; Grace walked to Sutton at night and had supper at Bampfylde

M 9 Too unwell to go out; Grace went to a lecture on Sullivan at night

T 10 Father and I had a drive in the morning; Grace went to London with Miss Craig to a musical dinner; Mr Antill and George came in the evening.

W 11 Visited Mr & Mrs Dunn; Miss Brooks and Miss Muriel called; Father, Grace and I went to the Foreign Missionary meeting at night at Sutton, Rev Findlay spoke on work in West Africa; cat had kittens.

T 12 I called on Mrs Pears in afternoon; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

F 13 Grace and I went to darling Mother’s grave; planted three lovely heathers and had the bulbs and forget-me-nots put in for the Spring; roses still out in the garden.

S 14 Lassie very ill; sent for vet, Mr Leonard; said it was animal poisoning; better after treatment; gave up engagements at Mrs Mount’s and Violet’s as a consequence; Rev Eric Waterhouse had dinner with us and spent the evening.

S 15 George and Nellie came to supper; roses still in bloom.

S 16 Grace went up to Mrs Champness to tea; visited Mrs Turner; Father and I went through the park in the afternoon; first sharp frost; Mrs Stacey and Edith called.

M 17 Spent the day in London with Father; called at Ashanti Auxiliary Officers’ etc; lunched at Holborn restaurant.

T 18 Called DFL, Mrs Carse, Mrs Barrow, Mrs Strong and Miss Stenning; called at Nellie’s.

W 19 Went to Our Dumb Friends League (ODFL) office in the morning on business; had lunch at tea at Violet’s

F 20 Trot’s birthday, Grace went over to spend the day with her; Took Lass to see the vet again in the morning; suffering from slight derangement of nervous system consequent to poisoning.

S 21 Uncle and Auntie came over to tea and dinner; Lillie came in evening to stay; called at Nellie’s

S 22

M 23 Father, Lillie and I went for a drive in the morning; Lillie left us in the evening; Mrs Clarkson had dinner with us.

T 24 Called on Miss Adams; we all went to Mrs Robinson to dinner in the evening; heard today that a few are trying to form a local branch of the RSPCA

W 25 I opened a sale of work at Sutton Wesleyan church. Gather went with me and gave £10; we called on Mrs Knight; Miss Adams called. Grace went to Clapham for a couple of days to help Mrs Champness at the Springfield Hall Bazaar

T 26 I went to London with Father to buy a billiard table; we called for George and had lunch at Sweetings together; Grace returned home in the evening.

F 27 I went to London to see Mrs Coke and Mr Rendell to consult them as to advisability of giving up the idea of forming a local branch of Our Dumb Friends’ League in favour of a local branch of the RSPCA.  Decided upon trying to start the latter with a few other ladies.

S 28 Rev G B Vaux called; George and Nellie came in after dinner.

S 29 I went to Nellie’s to tea; George came in to see us and stayed to supper

M 30 Trot and Mrs Humphries came over for the day; Trot bought us two St Bernard pups (£5/50 each) from Mr Leonard – sire Czar of Barnet; snowing today

December

T 1 Called on Mrs Strong, Mrs Pears, Miss Adams – found all out.

W 2 Visited Mrs Dyball and Bessie Hay

T 3 Called on Miss Adams; called Rev G B Vaux, Miss Leach, Mrs Pears but found them all out.

F 4 Too unwell to go out; Father went to London and Grace to the dentist and on to Kitty’s to tea; Rev G B Vaux called; Mr Cheshire came to dinner.

S 5 An awful fog all day; Mrs Pears and Rev Waterhouse called; Grace started to go to a concert in London but had to turn back because the fog was so dense; Sent parcel of children’s clothes to Mrs Price.

S 6 Too unwell to go out; George and Nellie came to tea and supper and the three girls to tea.

M 7 I attended the central committee of ODFL at London Officers for the first time; had tea at the rectory where the Rev G B Vaux, Miss Adams and I began the work of a local branch of the RSPCA.  Members of the committee and officers proposed, etc.

T 8 Called at Mrs Antill’s and Miss Leach

W 9 Visited Mrs Turner; Mr Robinson called; went to see Stratton who is ill; called at Nellie’s with Father; Grace went to the dentist and had tea with Auntie Miria.

T 10

F 11 Unwell; Father and Grace spent the day in London

S 12 Unwell; Grace went to a concert in London with Aunt Miriam

S 13 Stratton still unwell, so we all waked to Wallington chapel in the morning.

M 14 I went to Croydon by bus in the morning to do some shopping; Father, Grace and I went to Bazaar at Wallington chapel in the afternoon; Rev Mr and Mrs Brooks came to dinner and spent the evening with us.

T 15 Grace and I drove to Norwood to take a Xmas wreath for our darling’s grave; I called on Miss Leach in the afternoon.

W 16 We all went up to Ashanti meeting and had lunch at Holborn restaurant with Trot, Mr Statham, Mr White and May; a full meeting in afternoon; Mr Daw gave a report, having just returned from the mines; we three had tea there with Mr Statham (who returned home with us), Mr W Berry, Mrs Cooper, Mrs Humphries, Trot and Ethel.

T 17 Mr Statham left us midday; I spent the day shopping in London

F 18 I had tea at Mrs Wood; our new billiards table arrived

S 19 Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us; I drove over to fetch Kit in the morning; George and Nellie had dinner with us.

S 20 All went to Sutton in the morning; I went to Lake church at night – Rev G B Vaux preached.

M 21 Trot, Ethel, Gladys and Cecil spent the day with us; we called at Mrs Antill’s in the afternoon; Mrs Kendall passed away.

T 22 Grace spent the day in London shopping; Father and I drove over to Uncle’s to them their presents; Mr Robinson came in the afternoon; I called at Mrs Antill’s; George came at night; sent off Mrs Staple’s Xmas parcel.

W 23 Auntie Miria, Lillie, Volta and Marian spent the day with us; Rev E Waterhouse came in to tea in the afternoon.

T 24 Unwell, called at Mrs Dunn’s, Mrs Turner’s and Mrs Dyball’s; and the small florists opposite to take Xmas presents; Mrs Henman called.

F 25 George, Nellie and the girls spent the day with us; a peaceful, happy day all together; darling Father so bright and well; this helped us more than anything to get through the day.

S 26 Grace went to Bampfylde to dinner

S 27

M 28 George and Nellie came in in the morning and again in the evening to play at billiards.

T 29 Called to enquire after Mrs Antill

W 30 Visited Mrs Turner, is removing to some distance; Grace went to the dentist.

T 31 Intense cold; Uncle Charles came to spend a few days with us; Kit and Arthur came over for the day.


1904

Mother

Day after day we think what she is doing

In those bright realms of air

Thus do we walk with her, and keep unbroken

The bond which nature gives

Thinking that our remembrance, though unspoken

May reach her where she lives

The heavenly and the human blend

Their hundred lines in one

January

F 1 Uncle and Auntie are staying with us for a few days.  Mrs Strutt and Nora came for the day

S 2

S 3 We all went to the Covenant service at Sutton; George, Nellie and the two girls went with us; George and Nellie spent the evening with us

M 4 I attended the committee of ODSL

T 5

W 6 Uncle and Auntie returned home in the evening; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

T 7 Grace spent the day in town, shopping with Nellie

F 8 I spent the day in town, met Violet there in the afternoon, and Uncle

S 9

S 10 Mrs Antill passed away

M 11 Gladys and Jim came to stay

T 12 Fannie and Edie came in to spend the evening

W 13 Trot came over to Mrs Antill’s funeral and took the children home with her; I was to have distributed toys from Xmas tree at Mill Lane Mission but too poorly to go; Grace played at a concert at Sutton chapel

T 14 In bed all day

F 15

S 16 Father, Grace and I went to a party and whist drive at Bampfylde; we spent a very enjoyable evening

S 17

M 18 Attended committee of ODFL and went to inspect offices at 118 Victoria Street.  We decided to take same at £140 per annum

T 19 Rev Fergus Wood had lunch and tea with us; Grace went to a musical lecture in London

W 20 Attended inaugural committee of Carshalton, Wallington, Beddington Auxiliary of Epsom and Sutton branch of the RSPCA.  Fourteen present, a splendid start of our new undertaking

T 21

F 22

S 23

S 24 Was taken ill

M 25 – 28

F 29 Came downstairs for the first time onto the couch

S 30

S 31 George and Nellie had tea and supper with us

February

M 1 Trot and Mrs Humphries came to tea and dinner; Aunt Miriam came over for a few hours sin the afternoon

T 2

W 3

T 4 Went out for a drive for the first time since I was ill; Father and Grace went to London; Mr Chaffer had dinner with us

F 5 Eva came down for a few days; we both went for a drive in the morning

S 6 Mr Parkinson came to see us

S 7 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Eva and I went to Lake church at night

M 8 My birthday; Grace went over to Trot’s to a ‘guess’ party and to stay the night; Eva and I went for a short walk in the park and drove to Sutton with Grace; we played billiards with Father after dinner

T 9 Eva left; Grace returned in the evening; she went to a musical meeting in the afternoon

W 10 I called at Nellie’s in the morning; Mr Cheshire and Mrs Chandler came to dinner; had my first lesson in slide mounting; Grace went to Organ recital at Wallington

T 11 Visited Bessie Hay; Father and Grace went to London

F 12 Father and I went for a drive; Auntie Miria came to stay in the morning; dreadful gale of wind and rain; hail storm at night

S 13 Auntie and I went for a drive in the morning; Grace went to London for the day to a concert and musical meeting; Auntie left in the evening and took the kitten home with her

S 14 We all went to Nellie’s to tea and supper and I met Mr Maugham there

M 15 Mrs Nicholson and her cousin had tea with us

T 16

W 17

T 18 Grace went to musical lecture at Sutton

F 19 Grace went with George and Nellie to Kitty’s to tea and dinner

S 20 Rev W Brooks had tea with us

S 21 George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 22 Miss Adams called twice to see me about branch RSPCA; I helped her draw up the first Minutes

T 23 Attended committee of ODFL in their new offices in Victoria Street; Father went to London

W 24 Father in bed with a cold part of the day

T 25 Ditto

F 26 Ditto; snowing

S 27 George and Nellie came to dinner

S 28

M 29 Heavy fall of snow; Violet came in the morning for a few days

March

T 1 Inaugural meeting of the Carshalton etc RSPCA at 3pm at Mrs Moon’s house;  a well-attended and successful meeting; Rev G B Vaux in the chair; W Rendell speaker; Grace, Violet and I went; I met Mr Rendell at the station

W 2 Violet went home for a night; Grace went to the dentist; prevented returning on Thursday

T 3 I visited Mrs Brown, of Butter Hill, old Mrs Dunn has died since I was there last.

F 4 Grace and I went for a drive

S 5 Visited old Mrs Dyball

S 6 We all went to Sutton in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper; Grace went there to tea.

M 7 Attended committee of ODFL; then met Violet in town, had lunch together and went over Westminster Cathedral, not yet completed.  Went to a claviola recital at St James’ Hall, where we met Fannie and Edie and all had tea together at Slater’s.  Mr Somerville Wood showed me over new offices.

T 8 Grace went to a musical meeting in London; Father and I went for a drive; visited old Mr Turner and his blind son and Mrs Stepney, who has just lost her baby

W 9 We all drove over to Beckenham in the morning and spent half an hour with Uncle and Auntie; visited Mrs Dyball and took Edie Williams with me; called at Nellie’s; weather glorious

T 10 I called on Miss Adams, RSPCA business; sent two letters to local Times; Grace and I visited darling Mother’s grave, took two lovely hyacinths.

F 11 I had tea at Mrs Wood; cat had kittens; George and Nellie called in the evening

S 12 I went with Rene to visit the old people in the alms houses; called at Nellie’s; Uncle came over to lunch and tea; Fannie W came to dinner, she and Grace went to a concert at Croydon in the evening

S 13 Father and I went to Sutton chapel; Grace unwell so did not go; I went to Lake church at night

M 14 Grace and I went to Croydon shopping in the afternoon; Grace went to hear Rev Ensor Walters lecture at Wallington in the evening

T 15 Trot and Mary Hanson came over for the day; Mr Statham and Lissie came in the morning to stay a few days.

W 16 Father and I went with Mr Statham and Lissie for a drive; Grace, Lissie and I took the busy to Croydon in the afternoon to look at the shops; Old Mr Staples passed away.

T 17 Visited Bessie Hay; called on Mrs Blackie; Mr and Mrs Robinson came to tea; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Father, Grace and the Stathams went for a drive in the morning; sent jacket to Adeline Price

F 18 Mr Statham and Lissie left us; I went to Clapham to the dressmaker and had lunch at Mrs Wood’s; went to the local dog show in the afternoon at Carshalton Hall

S 19 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us

S 20 We all went to Sutton in the morning; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 21 Father went to London; Grace and I went up to London to do some shopping; Grace went on to the dentist.

T 22 Visited Mrs Dyball; called to enquire after Mr Dunn; had tea with Miss Leach

W 23 I went to Sidcup to stay with Mrs Oliver; attended a children’s concert – Band of Mercy – in Longland’s Parish hall at night; capital meeting, well attended – Rec E Green gave the address; weather very cold

T 24 In the afternoon, the girls and I called on Mrs Staples and Mrs Price; Father and Grace spent the day at Beckenham

F 25 Mabel and I called on Mrs Brewer, Miss Cowdrey and Mrs West in the morning – and also Mrs Parkinson; in afternoon, the girls and I had tea at Dr Crombie’s.

S 26 I returned home to lunch; Mrs Taylor and Freda spent the day with us; Rev E Waterhouse came to dinner and George came in the evening

S 27 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea

M 28 Father went to London; Violet came down in the morning; after tea, we went for a drive; Violet spoke at Mill Lane church Band of Hope, in connection with the RSPCA at night; I went with her.

T 29 Violet and I went for a drive in the morning; Violet returned home in the evening; heavy hail and a thunder storm

W  30 Father, Grace, Nellie and I went to Bournemouth for a week; we went down by train, arriving at 4.17pm and stayed at the Lansdowne Hotel.

T 31 We spent the morning on the pier; George joined us in the afternoon; very wet later in the day

April

F 1 Spent the morning on the pier; at night, Grace, Morris Champness and I went to a concert at the Winter Gardens; soloists were Madame Emily Squire (good), Mr Charles Bennett, recitations (splendid); Mrs Alexandra Watson: the Martyr Maid of Scotland, Legend Beautiful; it was a sacred concert.

S 2 Went on top of a tram to Boscombe, walked to Pokesdown; in afternoon, we had tea at Quadrangle and looked at the shops; wet later

S 3 All the others went to church twice – I could not go out at all; abscess in my eye which had been coming on since Thursday

M 4 Stayed in bed until lunch, too unwell to go out; Grace and Morris went to an afternoon concert

T 5 Went, by tram, to Talbot woods and wandered about in the woods all morning – lovely there; had tea at bungalow and looked at shops in the afternoon; Grace caught a bad cold.

W 6 Spent the morning on the pier; took a tram to Boscombe and had tea in the Arcade, walked home along the cliffs; weather lovely

T 7 Spent the morning on the pier; left Bournemouth by the 5.10pm train, reached home soon after 9pm

F 8 Lovely Spring day, warm; Grace went to Sidcup to the dressmaker; found two robins’ nests in the garden, with eggs in

S 9

S 10 Grace still has a bad cold so did not go out; I went to Lake church at night; Father and I went to Sutton in the morning; George came to supper

M 11 Began Spring cleaning; Father went to London

T 12

W 13

T 14 Attended committee of ODFL and did some shopping in town

F 15 Grace went to Sidcup

S 16 Father and I went for a drive in the afternoon

S 17 We all went to Sutton in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 18 I had another abscess below my eye, in bed for most of the week

T 19 Grace and Father went to McHardy about Father’s eyes, for advice

W 20 Father went to London to attend a Kamloop meeting

T 21

F 22

S 23 Father and Grace went for a drive in the afternoon

S 24 All went to Sutton in the morning; Fannie and Edie came to tea and George and Nellie to supper

M 25 Father and I went for a drive in the afternoon

T 26 Trot, Ethel, Gladys, Jim, Cecil and Theo came over for the day; baby’s first visit to us

W 27 Mrs Robinson had lunch with us and drove over to Chipstead to a sale with Father afterwards; I went to dressmaker at Clapham and spent an hour with Mrs Wood

T 28 Father and Grace drove to Chipstead to the sale; I called on Mrs Dale, Mrs Dow, Mrs Bawden and Mrs Robinson, collecting for the RSPCA; also called in to see Nellie

F 29 Father and I drove over to Chipstead to sale in the afternoon; we finished Spring cleaning; sent off parcel of baby clothes to Mrs Goodsell.

S 30 Professor Woodruff took Trot, Ethel, Gladys, Jim and myself over the Royal Veterinary College at Camden Town, it was most interesting; afterwards, we had lunch together at Beale’s in Holloway; Mr and Mrs Stacey spent a few hours with us at home; Father went to Chipstead again

May

S 1 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Father and I went to chapel in Wallington at night

M 2 Attended ODFL committee meeting in London; Gladys went to Brussels for three months

T 3 Grace spent the day in London; Father and I went for a drive in the afternoon; I went collecting for the RSPCA

W 4 Anniversary of Arthur’s death (EAC); Father and I went for a drive in the morning; collected for RSPCA in the afternoon; visited Olive Antill, who is ill

T 5 Father and I went over to Trot’s in the morning and stayed the night; after lunch, drove over to see Countess and her foal; attended opening services afternoon and evening in New Chapel; Dr Waller preached; Trot, Ethel and Jim went with us; had tea at chapel; Mr and Mrs Cooper and Mr and Mrs Hill came to supper

F 6 We left Trot’s soon after breakfast and went to a service of the West London Mission at St James’ Hall – crowded; Dr Jowett gave a beautiful sermon, on ‘I will give you rest’; had lunch afterwards at Slater’s with Uncle and Auntie

S 7 Uncle and Auntie spend the day with us.

S 8 We all went to Sutton in the morning; I went to Lake church at night; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 9 Went to dressmaker to be fitted and had tea at Mrs Wood; Mr Waterhouse came in to spend the evening

T 10 Grace went to the dentist and to a musical meeting in town; sent a parcel of clothing to Mrs Bennett

W 11 Father and Grace went for a drive in the afternoon; I visited Olive Antill, did some collecting and called on Nellie.

T 12 Called on Miss Leach; collected in the morning; we all drove to Croydon in the afternoon; kitten went to its new home at Woodside

F 13 Collected in afternoon; visited Mr Dunn and Mrs Dyball

S 14

S 15 We all went to Sutton in the morning and Grace went to Nellie’s for supper

M 16 Attended ODFL committee and did some shopping in town; Father and Grace drove to Croydon

T 17 Went to Violet’s in the afternoon and stayed the night; Violet and I went to an antivivisection meeting at St James’ Hall at night; speakers were Lord Llangattock, Hon Stephen Coleridge, Bishop Michinson; Rev M Talbot, Rev Spear, Mr Noakes etc – a crowded hall; Father and Grace went to London

W 18 I took Mrs Wood for a walk; returned home in time for dinner; Grace went to a concert in London at night

T 19 We all went for a drive in the morning; I collected in the afternoon.

F 20 I went up to St Paul’s churchyard in the morning and got back home to lunch; we all drove to Croydon in the afternoon; Mr Cheshire had dinner with us.

S 21 Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us

S 22 We all went to Sutton in the morning and to Bampfylde to tea and supper

M 23 A glorious day; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea and dinner; Father and I walked up there after dinner for a couple of hours

T 24 Father and I drove to Croydon in the afternoon; George, Nellie and Fannie came to dinner; we all played ‘Nap’ in the evening

W 25 I collected in the morning; Father and I drove to Croydon in the afternoon; Grace went to Norwood by train and then went on to have tea with Auntie Miria

T 26 I went to London with Father; Theo’s first birthday

F 27 Trot and Ethel came to spend a few days with us

S 28 Mr and Mrs Hill spent the day with us; Trot, Ethel and I went up to see Olive in the morning

S 29 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Stanley and Hilda Smith had tea with us

M 30 Attended annual business meeting of the ODFL at 12 and spent an hour or so in Westminster Abbey before it; met Violet at board room and stayed for the annual meeting of Mayhew Home, tea afterwards; Miss Swift in the chair and the speakers were Rev F S Lewis, Mr Rendell, Rev J Lawrence, Mrs Penn-Gaskell, Mrs Bradshaw, etc; Hilda Smith came to tea and dinner

T 31 Father, Grace and Trot went to the Temple flower show; Ethel and I went to DFL festival at Queen’s Hall in the afternoon and evening; Trot joined us in the evening.

June

W 1 Derby Day – pouring with rain all day

T 2 Trot and Ethel left us in the morning – had a letter to say Theo has measles; Father , Grace and I drove to Croydon to do some shopping in the afternoon; visited Bessie Hay

F 3 Grace went to the Royal Academy with Mrs Taylor; called at Mr Dunn’s and visited Mrs Dyball; Aunt Miria came over unexpectedly in the afternoon.

S 4 I went, with Literary Society members, for an outing; we drove to Kenley to Mr Willis’ where we had tea in the garden, then had a paper and discussion on Paracelsus followed by supper; drove home soon after 9.30pm after a very pleasant outing.

S 5 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea and supper

M 6 Attended committee of the ODFL

T 7 Father went to see the oculist again and to make some calls in London; I went with him.

W 8 Calls collecting for the RSPCA; Father and I went for an hour’s drive; tried Wallace for the first time for two months, still a little lame; George went to a meeting at Sutton in the evening

T 9 Father went to Coventry for a few days; Grace and I went to St James’ Hall in the afternoon to a pianoforte recital by Herbert Fryers – very good

F 10 Called on Miss Adams; I went to Mother’s grave and took some lovely roses with me to plant the summer plants; I went on to Kitty’s to tea and dinner; Grace joined me there

S 11 Grace and I went to Crystal Palace Jubilee concert in the afternoon – Handel Festival choir of 3,000 voices and orchestra; Hymn of Praise with miscellaneous soloists – Madame Albani, Ben Davis, Charles Santley, Muriel Foster – very fine – and Agnes Nicholls; August Mann conducting; Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy came in the evening to stay. 

S 12 We all went to Sutton in the morning – a good sermon by Rev Joseph Jones; Grace, Kit and I went to Lade church at night; Rene came to tea.

M 13 Kit, Arthur and Dorothy left by early train; Father returned home from Coventry in the afternoon

T 14 I went to Westminster Palace hotel in the afternoon to meet the Alake of Abeokuta, who was present to receive a deputation from the CSPKA, headed by Sir F G Milner, MP.  The Alake and two attendants were in gorgeous native costumes; he gave an address in Yuruba.

W 15 We all went for a drive in the afternoon; in the evening, Father went to the Royal Ophthalmic Hospital to undergo a week’s treatment for his eye, preparatory to the removal of a cataract; Grace took him up.

T 16 Grace and I went to the hospital at 3pm and stayed with Father until 9pm; Preliminary operation was performed this morning

F 17 Grace went to hospital and found Father much better; I had tea with Mrs Wood

S 18 I spent the day in the hospital with Father; Uncle came to see him in the afternoon

S 19 Grace spent the day at the hospital; I went to Wallington chapel in the morning and to Bampfylde for the rest of the day; Father getting on well.

M 20 I went to the hospital in the morning and brought Father back home in the afternoon; cat had kittens

T 21 Had wire to say Mrs Champness passed away last night

W 22 Visited Bessie Hay; Bessie and Percy came up in the evening as did George and Edie

T 23 Father went to see Mr and Mrs McHardy – Grace went with him; eyes very satisfactory, he says, so no need to go again for preparatory treatment; I visited Mrs Dyball, Mr Dunn and Olive Antill

F 24 Fred and Laurie came t stay for a few days; I called on Mrs Pears

S 25 Father, Fred, Laurie and I drove to Epsom in the morning

S 26 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Grace, Laurie and I went to the Lake church at night

M 27 Fred and Laurie left us in the morning; I went over to spend an hour with Kitty; In afternoon, Gather and I drove to Croydon to meet Aunt Janie and bring her home for a visit; Grace opened a sale of work at Offerton for Wallington chapel

T 28 Father, Auntie and I went for a drive in the afternoon; Howard and MRs Berry came to spend the afternoon and evening with us.

W 29 Paid in £2/8/6d to Miss Adams, being the subscription collection for the local branch of the RSPCA. Mrs Robinson and her niece had tea with us

T 30 Mrs Hopkins came down after lunch to spend the day with us.

July

F 1 In the morning, Father, Auntie and I went for a drive; Mr and Mrs Parkes (from Townsville) came down to spend the afternoon and evening with us.

S 2 Father, Auntie and I went for a drive in the afternoon; Maurice Champness had dinner with us; Jim’s thirteenth birthday

S 3 We all went to chapel in the morning; Grace went over to see Kitty in the afternoon

M 4 Attended ODFL committee; Violet met me afterwards and I went back with her to spend an hour with Mrs Wood

T 5 Father, Auntie and I went for a drive in the morning; Uncle and Auntie came over in the afternoon

W 6 Aunt Janie and I went over to Auntie Miria’s to tea; Father and Grace went to town in the morning

T 7 Grace went to the musical exhibition in London with Miss Craig; Auntie and I went for a short drive; visited Bessie Hay and Olive Antill

F 8 Father went to London and I went with him; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 9 Kitty and Dorothy came over for the day; Auntie and I drove over to fetch them; Arthur came in the evening

S 10 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Nellie and the three girls came to tea and supper

M 11 Auntie Janie left us; Father and I drove her over to Beckenham in the evening

T 12

W 13 Father, Grace and I started for three weeks holiday in Scotland; left St Pancras at 11.30am and arrived at Langholm at 8.40

T 14 Father fished in the Esk; we spent the day on the banks of the river

F 15 Grace’s birthday; poured with rain all day, too went to go out much

S 16 We spent the morning on the banks of the Esk; drove to Canonbie in the afternoon – twelve miles; had tea in the gardens at Cross Keys, overlooking the river

S 17 Went to PE church in the morning and EF church in the evening; went into the woods in the afternoon.  Sermon in the evening on ‘Reading’.

M 18 Drove to banks of Esk in the morning, where Father fished until 3pm; fished again in the river Ewes in the evening

T 19 Went for a 30 mile coach drive to Eskdalemuir, over the roof of Dumfries; very lovely scenery

W 20 Left Langholm by 9.45am and arrived at Moffat 3pm – stayed at the Annandale Arms Hotel; walked by Annan water in the evening.

T 21 Drove through Annandale on the coach to St Mary’s loch, sixteen miles; stayed Rodona hotel on loch side; perfect weather so far.

F 22 Grace went with Father on the loch fishing; I climbed the hills; after lunch, I rowed Father out on the loch for an hour or two; Grace and I walked to Cappercleuch; in the evening, we all went for a walk – a lovely day.

S 23 Grace rowed Father on the loch, I walked to Tibbie Shiels; Father and Grace went on the loch again in the afternoon; chilly, misty day.

S 24 Scotch mist and drizzle; we walked to Meggat Water in the morning; at 5pm, Grace and I walked to St Mary’s churchyard to attend Covenanters’ service on the hill top; much enjoyed it

M 25 Shut in by mist, too dreary to go out until the evening, when we walked to Cappercleuch

T 26 Father fished at Megget all morning and in the Loch of the Lowes after tea; Grace and I went for a stroll towards Tushielaw; mist again.

W 27 Misty and cold; I rowed Father on the loch all morning; Grace went with him in the afternoon and I climbed the hills

T 28 Warmer; all went for a stroll towards Tushielaw – the sun came out later; Grace and Father went on the loch in the afternoon and I walked to Meggat and we all went there again in the evening.

F 29 Left St Mary’s Loch by mail coach at 2pm for Selkirk – 18 miles; heavy mists with rain nearly all the way; came through Yarrow Vale; train from Selkirk to Galashiels; another on to Melrose; stayed at the George and Abbotsford hotel.

S 30 Drove to Abbotsford and saw over Sir Walter Scott’s house; then went over Melrose Abbey and drove to Dryburgh Abbey, where Scott is buried; went for a walk on the banks of the Tweedy after tea.

S 31 Attended St Aiden’s VP church and heard Rev R S Simpson of High Church, Edinburgh, preach; in the evening, went to High Cross VF church and, afterwards, walked to Dingleton

August

M 1 Left Melrose at 11.30 for Carlisle, arriving 1.30pm; stayed County and Station hotel; went on top of an electric tram all about the city; went to the castle later.  At the flower show at home, we took 11 prizes, 3 first, 5 second and 3 third.

T 2 Left Carlisle at 1.12pm and arrived St Pancras 8pm; home 9.30.

W 3 Weather intensely hot; in the evening, we all went for a drive

T 4

F 5 Father and I drove to Croydon

S 6 We all spent the day at Uncle and Auntie’s drove to Beckenham and back

S 7 We all went to Sutton in the morning and Wallington chapel in the evening

M 8 Father and I went for a drive in the morning; Mrs Parkin (E Corderoy) and her children came to tea in the afternoon; George came to stay with us whilst Nellie is at Margate.

T 9 Spent the day at Violet’s

W 10 I visited Mrs Dyball; we called on Mrs Feltham and had tea with Mrs Atkinson

T 11 Father went up to see Mr McHardy and I went with him; Grace and I called on Mrs Knight and Mrs George Smith

F 12 I visited Bessie Hay, Olive Antill and Mrs Stratton and called at Mr Dunn’s; Mr Taylor spent the day with us; George went to Margate

S 13 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; Father and I drove over to fetch them; Mrs Drinkwater and her son called and stayed to tea.

S 14 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Grace went to church at night; I called on Miss Leach in the afternoon

M 15 George returned to us in the evening.

T 16 I went over to Beckenham to stay the night; Father and Grace drove me over in the afternoon

W 17 Returned from Auntie’s in the evening; Mr and Mrs Henman had dinner with us; my favourite cat that I have had for three years, died.

T 18

F 19 Father ill with influenza and slight congestion of lungs; George went to Margate

S 20 Father progressing

S 21 Grace went to Sutton in the morning; I went to Lake church at night

M 22 Trot, Gladys and Gordon spent the day with us; George came back to us

T 23 Called at Bessie’s and Olive’s to take them some grapes; Grace and George went for a drive

W 24 I took Bessie Hay for a drive in the afternoon

T 25 Father came downstairs again in the evening for the first time since last Thursday

F 26 Aunt Hannah and Della came to stay with us; George left us; Nellie and the girls returned home from Margate

S 27 Father was able to go round the garden; I took Auntie and Della for a drive in the morning

S 28 Grace, Auntie and Della went to Sutton in the morning; Fannie and Edie came in to tea; Grace, Della and I went to Beddington church at night; Father much better.

M 29 Father, Auntie, Della and I went for a drive in the morning; Della returned home in the afternoon; Grace went to London to see her off

T 30 We all went for a twenty-two mile drive in the afternoon – weather continues perfect

W 31 Kitty, Dorothy and Miss Mullins came over for the day; Auntie and I drove over to fetch them in the morning – very wet; Uncle came over to tea and dinner and Arthur came to dinner.

September

T 1

F 2 Father, Auntie and I went for a drive in the afternoon; Grace went to a concert at Queen’s Hall with Kitty at night

S 3

S 4 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Auntie and I went to Nellie’s to tea; Mr and Mrs Ross called in the evening and stayed to supper

M 5 Trot, Ethel, Gordon and Cecil came over for the day; after lunch, I went to Violet’s to stay the night; Father, Trot and Auntie drove me to Tooting; I took the kitten to her new home; in evening, Violet and I called on Mrs Hogan.

T 6 In the morning, Violet and I went to Charlie Palmer’s wedding; we went to Mrs Hogan’s to tea in the afternoon; I returned home in the evening

W 7 We all drove over Epsom Downs in the afternoon

T 8 In the afternoon, we all drove to Croydon

F 9 We all went for a drive in the afternoon

S 10 Father, Auntie and I drove to Sanderstead in the morning; Mr Champness and Olive came down in the afternoon and stayed to dinner; in evening, Maurice Champness, and three other gentlemen, came on a motor to take them home.

S 11 We all went to Sutton in the morning; Mr and Mrs Henman came to tea; in evening, George and Nellie, and Mr and Mrs Bell came in; Grace went to Bampfylde to supper

M 12 Marion Scott had a little son last night; sent off parcel of clothes to Mrs Price; visited Mr Dunn and his blind son.

T 13 Violet and Mrs Hogan spent the day with us; we three and Auntie drove over Epsom Downs in the afternoon

W 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; Grace and I made a wreath of mauve chrysanthemums and took it over to Norwood in the afternoon and some scarlet begonias; very wet all day; Mr Waterhouse and George and Nellie came to dinner; I sent a parcel of clothes to Mrs Brewer.

T 15 Anniversary of the day our darling mother entered into rest, three years ago; sent parcel of clothes to Mrs Goodsell; we all went for a drive in the afternoon.

F 16 Father and Trot went to Coventry for a few days; Aunt Hannah returned with them after three weeks’ visit to us; I visited Bessie Hay and Olive Antill; Grace and I went over to Auntie Miria’s to tea.

S 17 I visited old Mrs Dyball; in afternoon, Grace and I drove over to Kitty’s and stayed to tea and dinner with her; Arthur and Dorothy were away

S 18 We both went to Sutton in morning; went to Nellie’s for tea and supper and all went to Beddington church at night.

M 19 Kitty and Dorothy met Grace and me in town and we went together to the West End to look at shops; in evening, Grace and I went to a promenade concert at the Queen’s Hall – Wagner night, with Henry Wood’s orchestra; soloists were Mrs Henry Wood, Miss Elsie Franks and Mr Seth Hughes

T 20 Grace, Nellie and I spent the day in town shopping – went to Harrods stores in the afternoon and had tea there.

W 21 Grace and I drove to Brixton after lunch and went on to Mrs Wood to tea

T 22 Grace and I drove to Croydon in the afternoon to do some shopping

F 23 Father returned home after a happy week in Coventry with Trot

S 24 In the afternoon, we all went for a drive

S 25 We all went to Sutton in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper and Rene to tea; Grace and Nellie went to Lake church at night

M 26 Father and I drove to Burgh Heath in the morning; perfect weather continues still; Grace went to London and to Sutton in the afternoon, to a sewing meeting

T 27 I called at Nellie’s; Grace and tea at Mrs C Priest’s; we all went to Mr Ross to dinner and spend the evening

W 28

T 29 Grace went to London and Father and I went on a drive after tea

F 30 We all drove over to Beckenham in the morning and spent half an hour with Uncle and Auntie; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

October

S 1 Grace helped with the harvest festival decorations at Sutton chapel; Father and I drove up there in the afternoon to take some fruit

S 2 We all went to Sutton in the morning to harvest festival; I went to Lake church at night

M 3 I attended the committee of ODFL in London

T 4 Father took us both up to the horticultural fruit show at Vincent Square; a magnificent display of apples, pears, etc

W 5 Darling Father’s birthday, 73 years old today; Uncle and Auntie and George and Nellie came to spend it with us; Father, Grace and I went for a drive in the morning

T 6 Father went to London on business, I went with him; Trot came over in the afternoon and stayed to dinner

F 7 Father, Grace and I went down to Margate for a few weeks; very wet, cold day; are staying at Mr McHardy’s house, 1 Paragon Fort; Nurse came in the evening (Miss Lucy Hughes).

S 8 Father had the operation for his cataract this morning; successfully performed; done at 10am; he will have to lie in bed for a week with both eyes closed; I have very bad abscesses – both eyes closed.

S 9 Weather perfect all the week

M 10

T 11

W 12

T 13 Was able to go out for the first time – a short walk.

F 14 George came down to stay with us in the evening

S 15 Father sat up a little in the evening and had his best eye unclosed; George and I went for a walk in the morning and Grace and George in the afternoon; we all three went for a stroll at night

S 16 George and I went to the Wesleyan chapel in the morning and then Grace and George went for a long walk in the afternoon; George and I had a stroll in the evening

M 17 George returned home by morning train; Mr Biney came in to tea

T 18 In the morning, I went on the sands; after lunch, Father went out in a bath chair and we went with him to the flag mast; we went for a stroll at night.

W 19 Father went out in the chair in the morning; Grace and I and Mr Biney went with him; we went for a stroll at night.

T 20

F 21 Uncle and Auntie came down in the afternoon and spent a week with us at Fort Paragon

S 22 Gladys came down unexpectedly to stay with us until Tuesday

S 23 Uncle and Auntie, Gladys and I went to Hawley Square chapel in the morning; Grace and Auntie went to Trinity church at night

M 24 Uncle took Grace and Gladys to Barnsgate in the afternoon

T 25 Gladys left in the morning; bright sunshine; Father was out most of the day

W 26 Father had his bandage removed for the first time; Professor McHardy had tea with us; All went to Dane Park and on jetty in the afternoon

T 27

F 28 Uncle and Auntie left us in the afternoon; Trot and Cecil came in the evening to stay; we all went on the sands in the morning.

S 29 Trot, Grace and Cecil went over to Ramsgate in the afternoon; we all spent the morning in the park; very cold.

S 30 We all went to the Wesleyan chapel in the morning; heard very fine sermon from the Rev Newby: ‘Though it tarry, wait for it.’

M 31 Went on sands in the morning; went over Professor’s rooms in the afternoon, most unique

November

T 1 We all returned home together by Granville; left Trot at Herne Hill and got home to lunch

W 2 We all went for a drive and to see Nellie in the afternoon

T 3 Father, Nellie and I went for a drive in the morning

F 4 Trot and Ethel came over for the day; they went for a drive with Father and Grace; Trot gave me a chinchilla kitten, Silver Mist, son of Jupiter Duval, property of Miss Meeson, born June 25th 1904

S 5

S 6 We all went to chapel in the morning; Mr and Mrs Feltham came to tea and stayed the evening

M 7 I attended committee of ODFL in London; Mr Cheshire had lunch and tea at home

T 8 Father went to see Mr McHardy with Grace; I visited Mr Dunn; called at Nellie’s, George has influenza

W 9 Mr & Mrs Corderoy and Mrs Chandler had dinner with us

T 10 Father and I drove to Croydon in the morning

F 11

S 12 The Oyster Literary club met at our house for tea and open discussion on ‘The Soul of a People’ by Harold Fielding Hall.  Paper was ready by Mr Leete and twelvve members were present; in the morning, Father and I went for a drive, weather still continues perfect.

S 13 We all went to chapel in the morning and Grace went at night; George came in to supper and spent the evening.

M 14 I visited old Mrs Dyball; went to hear lecture by Rev Theodore Wood at night – subject: ‘ A country walk’; held by Woodcote Literary Society

T 15 Grace went to a musical meeting and dinner in London

W 16 Mr Hopkins came down in the afternoon; called at Nellie’s; Grace went to an organ recital at night

T 17 Grace went over to Trot’s bazaar at Finchley; Mr Waterhouse had dinner with us

F 18 Kitty and Dorothy came over after lunch and Arthur came to dinner in the evening

S 19 Visited Mrs Dyball; Howard and George Berry came to stay over Sunday

S 20 Trot’s birthday – forty-five years old; we all went to Sutton in the morning; I went to Lake church at night; Paul’s 21st birthday.

M 21 I drove to Tooting and went to Violet’s to tea and stay the night; Dr Hogan had tea with us at Mrs Wood; Howard and George left in the morning

T 22 First fall of snow; Grace met me in town and I went to see Sir Felix Semon

W 23 Father, Grace and I went over to Trot’s in the afternoon to a whist party and stayed the night; 58 guests – nine stayed the night

T 24 We returned home in time for lunch; cold severe

F 25

S 26 Maurice Champness came down in the afternoon and stayed to dinner

S 27 Very cold; Grace and I went to Sutton in the morning; George and Nellie and the two girls came to tea and supper

M 28 Went to see Dr McHardy about my eyes; had drops put in and unable to see as a result for three weeks, reading or working; very poorly for weeks

T 29

W 30

December

T 1 I went to Dr McHardy again; Grace went with me for each visit

F 2

S 3 Uncle Charles came to see us

S 4

M 5 I went to Dr McHardy and afterwards attended an ODFL meeting

T 6

W 7

T 8 Violet came down and stayed until Saturday; wore glasses for the first time; Grace went to a musical meeting and stayed the night at Kitty’s.

F 9 Very went; George went to town

S  10 Violet and I went in the park and called Bampfylde in the morning; Violet went home at night

S 11 We all went to Sutton in the morning; George and Nellie had tea and supper with us

M 12 Kitty came over in the afternoon and stayed the night; she and I went to a lecture on ‘Ring and the Book’ at night at Christ Church hall; Edit came to dinner; Grace went to a musical evening in town

T 13 Grace went to a meeting in town; Mr Robinson spent the afternoon and evening with us; called at Bampfylde; Kit returned after lunch

W 14 Attended committee of local branch of RSPCA at The Old Rectory in the afternoon, a large number present.

T 15 Father, Grace and I went to AGC meeting and lunched at Holborn restaurant with Trot, Mr Berry and Mr White; I went on to Kitty’s in the afternoon and stayed the night; Kitty, Arthur and I went to hear Thompson Seton lecture at night on ‘Wild Animals I have known’.

F 16 I left Kitty’s early, met Violet at Streatham and drove her home; we called on Miss Adams and Rev Boyle about the meeting in January

S 17 We all drove to Croydon in the morning; Violet returned home after dinner

S 18 We all went to Sutton in the morning and I went to All Saints at night

M 19

T 20 Grace went to London shopping

W 21 An awful fog all day; George had dinner with us

T 22 Awful fog, Trot and Gordon came over in the afternoon; sent Mrs Staples’ Xmas parcel off

F 23 Father very poorly, sent for Dr Cressy

S 24 Fog lifted a little in the evening; Father came down in the afternoon; Grace took our Xmas wreath to Norwood; I took Xmas parcels to old Mrs Dyball and old Mr Dunn

S 25 We spent a quiet, happy day together; did not go out at all; Father came down to dinner; George came in during the evening; sunshine for a short spell, then fog returned

M 26 We kept Xmas day; George, Nellie and the three girls spent the day with us; a happy, quiet day all together

T 27 Agnes Heaton, Auntie Miria and Lillie spent the day with us; Uncle Charles came over to lunch; Mr Champness came to tea and dinner

W 28 Kitty and Dorothy came over in the morning; Grace took them for a drive in the afternoon; Arthur came in the evening and they all stayed the night

T 29 I drove Kitty and Dorothy home in the afternoon

F 30 Called to see Nellie

S 31 Very unwell


1905

MOTHER

Day after day we think what she is doing in those bright realms of air;

Thus do we walk with her, and keep unbroken the bond which nature gives,

Thinking that our remembrance though unspoken may reach her where she lives

The heavenly and the human blend their hundred lives in one.

January

S 1 Father and I both too unwell to go out.  Grace went to Covenant service at Wallington with George and Nellie.

M 2 A fall of snow

T 3 Grace went to a family party at Aunt Miriam’s – she drove there and back.

W 4 Called to see Bessie Hay – Father went round the garden for the first time since he was so unwell

T 5 I drove to Sutton; Mr Wright and Queenie came over unexpectedly and spent two or three hours with us in the afternoon.

F 6 I visited old Miss Bonner for the first time; Grace had dinner at Bampfylde; darling Father better and able to get out now on mild days; been having Spring-like days.

S 7 I drove to Streatham in the morning to fetch Kit and Dorothy to spend the day; Arthur came in the afternoon; Kit, Dot and I went to a lecture on Bees, given by Theo Wood

S 8 Father and I went to chapel – Grace unwell; I went to All Saints at night.

M 9 I visited old Mrs Dyball; went to hear a lecture at Wallington on ‘Russia of Today’ (lantern views) by Rev John Gleeson

T 10 Grace went to a lecture on music in London

W 11 I took Gordon up to see Sir Felix Semon instead of Trot – a satisfactory visit; Father and Grace went for a drive.

T 12 Father and I went for a drive in the morning – I drove to Kitty’s in the afternoon and stayed the night; Kit, Arthur and I went to a lecture at night, ‘Mere Man’, by Madam Sarah Grand – liked her very much.

F 13 I left Kit’s early and went on to Violet’s to lunch and tea and returned home in time for dinner.

S 14 Very cold; I drove to Beckenham in the morning to fetch Uncle and Auntie over to spend the day with us.

S 15 Grace and I went to chapel; Grace went to church at night and Bampfylde to supper; George had supper with us and Fannie came to tea.

M 16 The cold intense, our stream frozen; Mr Antill came in the evening.

T 17 I went up to see Dr McHardy again; Mrs Edwards called in the afternoon; George and Nellie came in the evening.

W 18 I drove to Sutton and called on Mrs Gower.

T 19 Called at Nellie’s and on Miss Adams.

F 20 Visited old Miss Bonner; called on Mrs Boyle; George came in the evening.

S 21 Grace went with Aunt Miriam to the college for the blind, festival meeting.

S 22 We all went to chapel in the morning; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea and supper to meet Daisy and Mr Proudfoot.

M 23 Daisy Proudfoot came in for an hour in the morning

T 24 Mr and Mrs Knight called in the afternoon

W 25 Grace and I made calls in the afternoon.  I took round reports of RSPCA to subscribers; George and Nellie, Fannie and Edie came to dinner; we all played ‘Pit’ in the evening.

T 26 I called on Mr Blake, Mr Jasper, Mr Hodgson and Mrs Gibson in connection with the Children’s meeting; also took round reports.  Mr Robinson and George came.

F  27 Grace went to a Kamloops meeting in town

S 28 Grace drove George and Nellie to Shirley, them came back to tea with us.

S 29 We all went to Sutton; Mr and Mrs Henman came to tea; I had tea and supper at Bampfylde; we went to Wallington chapel at night.

M 30 Father and I went for a drive in the morning; Miss Christy and Miss Jinks came in the afternoon.

T 31 I went to Sutton in the morning to meet the members of the local committee of CDFL at Mrs Gower’s house; Lillie came over in the afternoon and stayed the night – she and Grace went to an entertainment at the public hall; Father and Grace went for a drive in the morning.

February

W 1 Lillie and I went in the park in the morning; drove to Sutton after tea to fetch Mr and Mrs Brooks to dinner; Lillie returned home at night; first crocus and snowdrops up.

T 2 Father and I went for a drive in the morning; Mr Waterhouse came to dinner and George came in the evening.

F 3 We all went for a drive in the morning; Grace went to Kitty’s to stay the night and go to a concert in London with them; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Mr Waterhouse brought me an injured sparrow to care for.

S 4 Grace came back in the morning; I called on Mr Boyle

S 5 We all went to Sutton – George and Nellie came in to supper.

M 6 I attended a CDFL committee meeting in London.  Violet met me afterwards and we had lunch and tea in town, also called at RSPCA office to have a chat with Mr Rendell

T 7 Made several calls in connection with the RSPCA meeting; Mr Antill came in the evening.

W 8 My birthday; we all went for a drive in the morning

T 9 I had tea at Nellie’s in the afternoon; George came up in the evening

F 10 Visited Mrs Dyball; CDFL Children’s meeting at Wallington Parish hall, held in connection with local branch of RSPCA.  Lantern lecture on animals by Miss King (assistant secretary), Rev R A Boyle in the chair; a crowded hall – very successful; Miss King had dinner with us.

S 11 Hetty and Oliver came on from Trot’s to spend a few days with us; they went for a drive in the afternoon with Father and Grace.

S 12 We all went to Sutton; George and Nellie came to supper

M 13 Father and I went for a drive with Hetty and Oliver in the morning.  Grace took them to Croydon in the afternoon; Rev R Royle called.

T 14 Hetty and Oliver left; Grace spent the day with them in London sight-seeing; Mr Eastland had lunch with us.

W 15

T 16 Grace and Father drove to Croydon in the afternoon; I went to Kitty’s to stay the night; Kit, Arthur and I went to a recital at night by Mr Alex Watson – Shakespeare and other recitations from David Copperfield, Barrie, etc; very good indeed.

F 17 I came home early and went for a drive with Father.

S 18 We all drove to Beckenham and spent the day with Uncle and Auntie

S 19 We all went to Sutton; Mr Antill and Olive came to tea; Grace went to Bampfylde to supper.

M 20 Trot came over for the day; Gladys, Cecil, Theo and Nurse came too, and stayed the night; Miss Greaves spent the day with us; Wallace had his forelegs blistered by Mr Turner, for sprained tendons.

T 21 The children and Nurse left in the morning; I visited Bessie Hay; Grace went to Mrs Atkinson’s in the afternoon; snow and hail.

W 22 In bed most of the day

T 23

F 24

S 25 Father and I went for a drive; Grace and Fannie went to a local concert in the evening and George came in.

S 26 Very wet – Father and I did not go out; Grace went to Beddington in the morning; George, Nellie and Fannie came to tea and supper.

M 27 Grace drove to Croydon in the afternoon.

T 28 Grace had tea with Auntie Miriam

March

W 1 Mr and Mrs Mann came to dinner

T 2 I visited old Mr Dunn and Mrs Dyball

F 3 Father and I drove to Sutton to see Mr Cheshire, who is ill

S 4 Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us; Father and Grace went for a drive with them in the morning.

S 5 We all went to Sutton; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea and supper.

M 6 I attended CDFL committee in London’ had dinner and tea at Mrs Wood’s and went to Streatham in the afternoon with Violet to call on Mrs Bateman, Secretary of the AVS.

T 7 Mrs Gilchrist and her two daughters, from Cove, came down to lunch and tea with us.

W 8 Father and Grace spent the day in London

T 9 I went to Sidcup to stay at Mrs Oliver’s; in morning, met Mrs Grant and Nell at Hotel Great Central for an hour; got to Sidcup to tea; went to Band of Mercy annual children’s concert at St John’s Hall, Croydon – very crowded’ address by Rev Allen; Rev B W Chancellor in the chair; very successful

F 10 Went out with Mabel in the morning and Eva in the afternoon; called on Mrs Gilbert, Dr Crombie, Mrs Staples and met several old friends

S 11 Returned home to lunch – very wet and windy day

S 12 Father and Grace went to Sutton; Grace went again at night; George and Nellie came to supper; I was too poorly to go out.

M 13

T 14 Grace spent the day in London

W 15 Mrs Grant and Nell came down to lunch and tea

T 16 I was in bed with an attack of bronchial catarrh

F 17 Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 18

S 19 No one went out; George and Nellie came to supper

M 20 Mr Statham came up to spend a few days with us

T 21 Father, Mr Statham and I went for a drive in the morning; Father and Mr Statham went in the park in the afternoon; I called to see Olive

W 22 Father, Mr Statham and I drove over Shirley hills; weather has been perfect the last few days; I visited old Mr Dunn; George came to dinner

T 23 Father and Mr Statham went for a drive; I went to the dressmaker’s at Clapham in the afternoon and to darling Mother’s grave on my way back.

F 24 Mr Statham left us; Father and I went up to town with him and then went to Professor McHardy’s to get Father cataract glasses; Grace went to Sidcup for the day

S 25 Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 26 We all went to Sutton; Grace took SS class there for Miss Cheshire; I went to Lake church; George came in.

M 27 Began Spring cleaning; went to Oyster Club meeting at Mr Morgan’s, Downings.  Discussion on Long’s School of Woods; paper read by Mr Morgan

T 28 Father and I went to London

W 29

T 30 Went to dressmaker’s at Clapham and Brixton; spent an hour at Violet’s

F 31 Grace went to Sidcup in the afternoon and had dinner at Daisy’s; Cecil is six year’s old today.

March

S 1 Father and I drove over to see Mr and Mrs Mann in the afternoon.

S 2 We all went to Sutton; George, Nellie and the girls came to tea and supper

M 3 I attended DFL committee in London

T 4

W 5 Father and I went for a drive in the afternoon

T 6

F 7 Father and Grace went to Trot’s for the day and night and I visited Mrs Dyball and took flowers to Mr Dunn; had dinner at George and Nellie’s.

S 8 Father and Grace came back in the afternoon

S 9 We all went to Sutton; George and Nellie came back to supper.

M 10

T 11 Visited Mrs Dyball; Grace went to lecture at night – the Rev Ensor Walters

W 12 Grace went to Broxbourne and Ware, house hunting; Father and I went for a drive and to a dog show in the public hall.

T 13 Father and I went for a drive; Grace went to Redhill and Dorking, house hunting

F 14 We all went for a drive in the afternoon

S 15 I left King’s Cross by the 10am train for Glasgow (Queen Street), arriving 7.50pm.  Grace saw me off.  Mr Macaulay met me here; route by Newcastle and Edinburgh; stayed 20 Queen’s Gate.

S 16 Nellie and I went to St Strong’s church; spent some time at Athole Gardens; Mrs Kelso came to tea; Pharie, Grace and Miss Mackinnon came in the evening.

M 17 Nell Grant’s wedding; I was second bridesmaid; reception at Athole Gardens; had dinner at Mrs Kelso’s, in Huntly Gardens; party of twelve went to the Royal Theatre for a performance of La Poupee at night.

T 18 I called at Mrs Grant’s and Pharie’s to say goodbye; John and Nellie saw me off by the 1pm train for Newcastle; arrive at 5pm; Dot and Mr Brash meet me there; we came on to Whitley Bay, had warm welcome at Clive House; a snow storm.

W 19 Very wet and cold; Dot and I went out in the morning; Parton returned from college in the evening; four years today since dear Jack died

T 20 Parton, the girls and I went for a long stroll on the sands; sea rough, bitter winds continue; in afternoon, we played Pit and Mr Brash left for Manchester; Fannie, Dot and I went out in the evening.

F 21 We went to a service in the morning; two Mr Jarman came to tea; we went to a meeting at North Shields at night, heard Rev H Haigh speak.

S 22 Dot and I went on to Table Rocks, lovely sea dashing over them; Fannie and I went out in the afternoon. 

S 23 We all went to Trinity chapel and heard Rev Ives preach; all went to hear Rev Dick preach at night; good sermon; Miss Williams came to supper

M 24 Fannie and I visited dear Jack’s grave; after tea, we all went down by the sea

T 25 The girls and I went on the sands in the morning; Parton took me to Newcastle in the afternoon to Hancock Museum.

W 26 I left Newcastle by 10.30am train, arriving at King’s Cross at 4.20pm; got home in time for dinner; Parton and Mr Brash saw me off at Newcastle; Grace met me in London; Father sold Wallace, Roy and the carriage today; they had gone when I got home.

T 27 Grace spent the day house-hunting in Croydon, Addiscombe and Purley

F 28

S  29 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us.

S 30 We did not go to a service; Grace went at night.

MAY

M 1 Jim came over to spend a few days with us; Grace took him over to Epsom Downs after lunch.

T 2 I took Jim over the home for lost dogs at Hackbridge; and to call at Bampfylde in the afternoon.

W 3 Trot came over for the day; Jim returned with her at night.

T 4 Father and Grace went to town; I spent the morning collecting for RSPCA; visited Mr Stratton, Bessie and Olive; board put up to let our house

F 5 I went over for an hour to see Auntie Miriam, who has been ill with lumbago; Violet came down for the day.

S 6 Mr Antill and Daisy came to tea; Lady Murray and friends came to see over our house; Mr Biney came to stay; Arthur came in the evening.

S 7 Unwell – I spent the morning alone in our lovely garden, the others went to Sutton; Mr Biney and I went to Beddington at night – weather perfect.

M 8 Father and grace spent the day in town and attended Fraser River Company meeting; Captain and Mrs Murray came to view the house again

T 9 I spent the morning collecting subscriptions; called at Nellie’s; Father and Grace went to town in the afternoon.

W 10 Grace spent the day house-hunting in Croydon and Reigate.

T 11 Ethel came to spend a few days with us; Father and I went to Croydon to view a house; Bessie had dinner with us; Ethel and I went back to her home with her in the evening.

F 12 Grace and Ethel went to see Stacey’s in the afternoon; Mr Antill came at night.

S 13 Two parties came over the house; Mr and Mrs Knight and two friends called; Ethel went home in the afternoon; Stratton left our service; visited Mrs Dyball.

S 14 We all went to Sutton in the morning – SSA services; Mr and Mrs Henman came to tea; George came to supper.

M 15 Visited Mr Dunn; Trot and Mr and Mrs Humphries came down and stayed the night.

T 16 Our visitors left in the morning.

W 17 I went to Kamloops meeting at Salisbury House with Father; we had lunch in town with Trot afterwards; one of my tame Howdens died.

T 18

F 19 Grace had tea and dinner at Mrs Atkinson’s; George, Nellie and Mr Antill came in the evening.

S 20

S 21 We all went to Sutton; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea and supper.

M 22 We all went to Ashanti meeting – Mr Feltman and Mr Daw reporting.  Fifteen of us had tea together at Holborn restaurant – Oliver and Fred were there.  Father and I went home with Trot and stayed the night; Mr White, Mr Humphries and Mr Cooper spent the evening with us; Grace went to the Coliseum with Oliver.

T 23 The two Miss Daws had lunch at Trot’s; Father and I returned home in the afternoon.

W 24 I attended the annual business meeting of the CDFL at 12 – met Violet afterwards and we went together to the Natural History Museum and then to Gattock’s house; met Mrs Oliver – she and Mabel there, had tea together;

T 25 Collected for the RSPCA; Grace went to see Auntie Miriam and Uncle and Auntie

F 26 Mr Williams, of Hobart, came down to tea and dinner

S 27

S 28 We went to Wallington in the morning and to ‘Bampfylde’ to supper

M 29 Visited Mrs Dyball

T 30 Visited Miss Boner twice, found her dying; Father and Grace went to the flower show in Temple Gardens; thunder storm; Mabel Oliver came down to stay a few days

W 31 Derby Day

JUNE

T 1 Father went to Coventry for a few days; Grace went to town wit him; I visited Miss Boner; Mabel and I spent the afternoon in Croydon

F 2 The Oaks; Mabel left in the afternoon; I called on Mrs Pears and Miss Leach

S 3 I went to Kitty’s to spend Sunday; Mr Hicks came to play whist in the evening

S 4 We all went to chapel in the morning and Kitty and I at night; I went to Mother’s grave in the afternoon.

M 5 I left Kitty’s after lunch and met Aunt Miriam at Victoria; we went together to the DF League bazaar, opened by the Duchess of Portland; very pretty bazaar; got home to dinner; poured with rain all day

T 6 Very wet; Grace and I went up to Bampfylde after dinner

W 7 Called at Miss Boner’s and found she had passed away since I last called

T 8 Visited Mrs Dyball; Father returned home in the afternoon; Grace went with Pearce to Norwood to plant our darling’s grave

F 9 Aunt Lissie came to stay with us

S 10 Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us; Rene came to play with Dorothy

S 11 Very wet; Grace went to Sutton in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper.

M 12 Captain Eales and party came to see the house; Grace spent the half day at Nellie’s to meet a party of friends there; continues very wet.

T 13

W 14 We had Women’s Auxiliary meeting and tea in our garden; Mrs Wiseman spoke; Mrs Chandler too the chair; eighty people present; Mr Robinson and George stayed to supper

T 15 George, Nellie and the girls came up in the evening to play tennis

F 16 Auntie and I went to Croydon in the morning.

S 17 Grace went to a concert in town with Miss Craig

S 18 Auntie and I went to Wallington parish church in the morning; we all went to George’s to tea and supper.

M 19

T 20

W 21 I joined the British Empire Naturalists Association; Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us.

T 22 Aunt Lissie and I went over to Auntie Miriam’s to tea.

F 23 Fannie and Edie came in the evening to play tennis and whist

S 24 Grace went to a concert at the Crystal Palace with Kitty

S 25 Father and Grace went to the Wesleyan chapel, Auntie and I to Wallington chapel; I went to Luke church at night; George and Nellie came to supper.

M 26

T 27 Aunt Lissie left us and went to Beckenham; Violet and I went to an RSPCA annual business meeting at the Hotel Cecil; Mr Colman’s retirement, after forty-five years as secretary; Captain Derriman appointed in his place; We went to St James’ Park and saw the Queen and Princess Victoria.

W 28 Mr Robinson took Father for a long drive

T 29 I visited Mr Dunn and Mrs Dyball; Gather and Grace went to Croydon; Mr Antill had dinner with us.

F 30 I went to town with Father

JULY

S 1 I visited Bessie Hay

S 2 We all went to Wallington chapel; Grace had tea at Bampfylde; Mr, Mrs and Kathleen Feltham came to tea; George and Nellie to supper.

M 3 I attended CDFL committee; saw the King and Queen in semi-state on their way to Southwark Cathedral

T 4 Father and I spent the day at Beckenham at Uncle’s

W 5 Father, Grace and I left Paddington to Oxford by the 4.45pm train, arriving at 6.08pm; went to Wilberforce Temperance Hotel in Queen Street; went for a stroll in the evening – a fine city, lovely buildings, etc; all charmed with it.

T 6 We went on top of a tram as far as it went beyond Folly Bridge; spent the morning in the botanical gardens and Christ Church Meadow; after lunch, we rowed for two hours on Isis whilst Father fished; very pretty and peaceful. Went as far as Iffley.

F 7 We went, by train, to Woodstock; went over Blenheim Palace, gift of Queen Anne to the 1st Duke of Marlborough; saw the state rooms, the lovely lake, grounds and Rosary; lunched at the Old Bear; afterwards went by tram to Summertown, saw Baliol College and Trinity, St Mary the Virgin church, the Radcliffe Camera and Bodleian Library, etc.

S 8 Left Oxford by the 9.30am boat and arrived at Abingdon at 11.30am; went to the Crown & Thistle hotel; passed Iffley Mill; Nuneham, seat of Sir W Harcourt; rowed two hours on the river after tea.

S 9 Father fished while Grace and I went to St Helen’s church and the Wesleyan church; Mr Gill came to see us in the afternoon; Grace went there to tea; this hotel was a favourite haunt of Ruskin when at Oxford.

M 10 Left Abingdon by the 11 o’clock boat, very pretty scenery; arrived at Shillingford Bridge Hotel about 2pm; showery; Father went out fishing from 5 to 8 o’clock; I rowed him; peaceful, lovely evening; Grace walked to Wallingford.

T 11 Father went out fishing all day with a man; Grace and I walked to Wallingford village and went for an hour’s row after tea.

W 12 Father went out fishing with a man in the morning; Grace and I walked to Shillingford village; we left by the 1.40pm boat, lunching at The Lamb Hotel, Wallingford, and then went on to Pangbourne; arrived at 4pm; passed Cleeve, Goring and Streatley, very lovely; staying at The Elephant; had a row in the evening.

T 13 We spent all day on the river; rowed as far as Mapledurham; Father fished; lovely scenery; heat intense.

F 14 We went to ‘Uplands’, Whitchurch to see Miss Wood; Mrs Wood came back to lunch with us; we left Pangbourne by the 4.16pm boat for Henley, via Mapledurham, Sonning, Reading, arrived 7.15pm; went to Catherine Wheel Hotel; scenery lovely, houseboats; met Mrs Carr (Swedish), a girl on board; all went for a stroll in the evening.

S 15 Left Henley at 10am, via Marlow, Maidenhead and arrived Windsor at 2.15pm; stayed at the White Hart Hotel; went into the castle grounds after tea and about the town; Mrs Carr came on the same boat; Grace’s birthday

S 16 Animal Sunday; attended St George’s Chapel – Bishop Barry; attended Wesleyan chapel – Rev A Sharpley; went to the east terrace of the castle in the afternoon.

M 17 Left Windsor by the 9.15am boat and arrived at Kingston at 1.20pm – lunched at the Griffon Hotel and then came on home; boat came via Old Windsor; Holloway College, Eton College, Shepperton, Chertsey, Monkey Island, Surbiton, etc

T 18 George and Nellie had dinner with us

W 19 I went to town with Father; we met Trot and had lunch together

T 20

F 21 Father went to see Professor McHardy – I went with him; report eminently satisfactory.

S 22 Father and Grace went for a drive with Mr Knight; Mr Cheshire had dinner with us.

S 23 We went to Wallington chapel; George and Nellie came to supper

M 24 I had tea at Mrs Wood’s

T 25

W 26 Called at Mrs Dyball’s, found her away; called Mr Dunn – did not see him. Annual meeting of local branch of RSPCA held in Miss Adam’s garden at 5pm; Rev G Vaux in the chair; Grace and I went

T 27 Visited Bessie Hay

F 28 Uncle Charles spent the day with us; George and Nellie came to dinner; I went to a church army meeting in Mr Landon’s garden.

S 29 I went to darling Mother’s grave; had tea with Kitty and Arthur

S 30 We went to Wallington chapel and to Bampfylde to tea and supper

M 31 Kitty, Dorothy and Rene spent the day with us

AUGUST

T 1 Grace went to Trot’s for the day and night

W 2 Mr and Mrs and Miss Williams, of Hobart, spent the day with us; George and Nellie started for a tour of Scotland

T 3

F 4 Violet and Mrs Hogan spent the day with us; I called at Bampfylde

S 5 Fannie took me for a drive in their pony trap; Mr Biney and Agnes Heaton came to stay with us for a few days.

S 6 Wesleyan chapel in the morning; Fannie, Edie and Rene spent the day with us; Mr and Mrs Cecil Henman came to tea.

M 7 Auntie and Uncle came over for the day; we all went to the flower show in the afternoon; played tennis at night; Took five first, one second and one third prize and a silver medal at the show for maidenhair fern.

T 8 Mr Biney and Agnes left us; I visited Mr Dunn

W 9 Trot, Jim, Cecil and Theo came over in the morning to stay the night; Mr Fred Layton came to dinner.

T 10 Trot and all the children left us in the afternoon; called at Bampfylde; Hayes went for her holiday

F 11 I called on Mr Knight and Mrs Chandler

S 12 Fannie and Edie came up in the evening to play whist

S 13 We all went to the Wesleyan chapel; George and Nellie returned from their tour in Scotland a came up to see us in the evening.

M 14

T 15 Called at Bampfylde; Father let the kitchen garden to Dr Cressy at £10 per annum and the orchard to Mr Stepney at £8 per annum

W 16 Marian spent the day with us.

T 17

F 18 Father and Grace went to town

S 19 Mr Wood went under an operation; I went up to be with Mrs Wood during it; Uncle came over.

S 20 Nellie spent the day with us; we went to Wallington chapel in the morning; I went to the Wesleyan church at night; Grace had supper at Bampfylde.

M 21 Painters began outside of house, etc

T 22 Father and Grace went to town; called at Mrs Dyballs, away from home.

W 23

T 24 Grace went to spend the day at Beckenham; Mrs Batty had tea with us; Hayes came home from her holidays

T 25 Very unwell today

S 26 Ditto

S 27 We went to the Wallington chapel; Grace went to Sutton to take an SS class and had dinner; Mr Knight, George and Nellie came to supper; Mr Antill and Mr Morgan called.

M 28 I had tea at Mrs Wood

T 29

W 30

T 31

SEPTEMBER

F 1 Called at Nellie’s; went to Mrs Robinson’s to help with the mothers’ meeting tea

S 2 Cousin Lillie came to stay

S 3 We all went to Wallington in the morning and did not go out at night; Mr Antill came to supper

M 4 Lillie left; Father and I went into the park in the afternoon.

T 5 Visited Bessie Hay

W 6 Visited Mrs Dyball

T 7

F 8 Went to Mrs Leith’s, Kenley, to dinner of Oyster Club meeting at 8pm; discussion on ‘The Egoist’, paper by Mr Marshall; Mr and Mrs Marshall, Mr and Mrs Morgan and I drove there and back; Father and Grace went to town.

S 9

S 10 We went to Wallington chapel; all went to Bampfylde to tea and supper.

M 11 Visited Mr Dunn

T 12 Aunt Janie came to stay with us; I met her at Croydon in the afternoon

W 13 Ethel, Gladys and Jim spent the day with us

T 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; I went over to Norwood early and took some scarlet begonias; met Father at Tulse Hill and went with him to Ashanti Sansu meeting; Grace went to Norwood in the afternoon and took our birthday basket of flowers.

F 15 Four years today since darling Mother went from us

S 16 Mr Antill called in the afternoon

S 17 We all went to chapel; Fannie, Edie and Rene came to tea and supper; Grace and the girls went to church; Mr and Mrs Henman and boy came to tea.

M 18 Grace and I went to Croydon shopping in the afternoon

T 19

W 20 Auntie Miriam came to stay with us; very unwell

T 21 Mrs Atkinson came to view the house

F 22 Auntie Miriam left in the afternoon; I was in bed all day, very poorly; Mrs Atkinson came to view the house

S 23 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; Yates left our service

S 24 In bed all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 25 Dr Cressy came to see me

T 26 In bed

W 27 In bed; Mr Biney came to say goodbye before returning to the west coast

T 28 Aunt Janie left us and went on to Beckenham for a visit

F 29 Sent off parcel of garments to humane needlework society; Grace went to Kitty’s to dinner; Mr and Mrs Atkinson came to view the house again.

S 30 Grace spent the day in Croydon house-hunting; Fred and Laurie came to stay

October

S 1 I did not go out all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 2 We let our house to Mr Atkinson; we went over a house in Wallington and one in Croydon; Fred and Laurie left us in the afternoon.

T 3 Ethel’s twenty-first birthday; Grace went to the grand dance – I was too poorly to go; all went over Wallington house again, twice; I went with Father to see Mr Stewart, the owner

W 4 Father and I went over Sunthorpe again, with Mr Stewart; Grace came back in the evening.

T 5 Darling Father’s seventy-fourth birthday; George and Nellie came to tea and dinner with us.

F 6

Sent off parcels of clothing to Mrs Brewer and Mrs Goodsell

S 7 I visited Bessie Hay; Gladys’ nineteenth birthday; Father took Sunthorpe, St George’s Road, Wallington, on a three year’s agreement.

S 8 Did not go out all day; Father and Pearce went to see the new house; Grace had tea and supper at Bampfylde.

M 9 Father, Grace and I went to London to choose the papers for our new house; Father signed the agreement to take Sunthorpe; the men commenced work there

T 10 Father sold our poultry to George and Mr Gardener; my Howden went to Edie

W 11 Sent off parcel of clothes to Mrs Price

T 12

F 13 Went up to Violet’s to tea; Mrs W very ill; Mr Cheshire came to dinner with us

S 14 Took poor little stray cat to lethal chamber – it was half wild

S 15 Grace and I went to chapel; I went to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came back to supper; Father stayed at home all day.

M 16

T 17 Called at Mr Dunn’s and Mrs Dyball’s – did not see either; Mr and Mrs Atkinson came to go through the house again; Trot and Ethel came to tea and dinner

W 18 First two van loads went to the new house

F 20 Ditto

S 21 Ditto; last load left at 6pm; we left Bramble Haw and moved into Sunthorpe, Wallington; Pearce left our service

S 22 A happy Sunday in our new home; all went to chapel in the morning’ Grace went again at night.

M 23 Nine painters, etc, work in the house, very busy getting it all right.

T 24 Ditto

W 25 Ditto

T 26 Ditto.  I went to Sidcup in the afternoon, stayed the night at Mrs Oliver’s and attended the B of Mercy lecture ‘Our Pets’ given by Eva, slides prepared by Mabel; Mr Chancellor in the chair; full – St John’s Hall – a very good meeting.

F 27 Went to say goodbye to old Mrs Staples, who is leaving Sidcup; returned home in the morning; Father poorly, sent for Dr Cressy – a cold.

S 28

S 29 Grace went to chapel; Father and I too unwell to go out; Mr Antill had tea with us.

M 30 In bed with a severe cold

T 31 Ditto

November

W 1

T 2

F 3

S 4 Grace and I went to chapel; too damp for Father; Sacramental service; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea.

M 5 Mr and Mrs Waterhouse had tea with us; George came to dinner

T 6 I attended the committee of the CDFL at Victoria Street

W 7 Auntie and Uncle spent the day with us; Edie and Rene came to tea

T 8 Grace spent the day in town shopping

F 9 Trot and Gladys spent the day with us

S 10 Grace went to a musical meeting in town; George and Mr Brown came in the evening

S 11 We all went to chapel; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea and supper

M 13

T 14 Mavis left our service

W 15 I went to sewing meeting at Mrs Waterhouse’s; Fannie and Edie had dinner with us

T 16 Grace went to London shopping

F 17 I spent the day shopping in London

S 18 I visited Mr Dunn, Mrs Dyball (out); called at Nellie’s; Grace went to Norwood and took the bulbs

S 19 Grace unwell; Father and I went to chapel; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 20 I went to sewing meeting at Mrs Dale’s; Trot’s birthday

T 21

W 22 I had tea with Auntie and Uncle

T 23

F 24 Called at Bessie’s; Mr and Mrs Brooks had dinner with us

S 25 I went to Croydon in the morning; Mr Champness and Olive came to tea and dinner with us as did Fannie and Edie

S 26 Very stormy day; none of us went out to service.

M 27 Mrs Atkinson and Miss Stanwell and Mrs Willis called; Grace went to Sidcup to play at a concert in the chapel and stayed the night with Daisy; Bessie came in to tea; George and Nellie in the evening.

T 28 Grace returned in the evening from Sidcup

W 29 Went to Violet’s in the afternoon and stayed until Friday; helped Violet with the report, etc

T 30 Took Mrs W for a walk; Miss Culverwell came to tea; went to annual B of M meeting at Studley – Mr and Mrs Sidney Smith in the chair; Rev Arthur Murrell spoke (very good); programme varied, collection, nearly £4; Hubert and Vi, Miss TG, Dr and Mrs Hogan came in afterwards.

December

F 1 Went to see Florrie in the morning; came home after lunch, via Brixton, calling at Miss Gear’s to be fitted.

S 2 Called on Miss Adams; Grace went to Mrs Atkinson’s to tea; wrote report for Violet and drew up a protest for the local society.

S 3 Chapel – Fannie and Edie came to tea and supper; I went to chapel at night with girls; George came to supper.

M 4

T 5 Attended CDFL committee at Victoria Street; went to dressmaker’s at Brixton on the way home.

W 6 Grace had tea with Auntie Miria

T 7 Made a lot of sweets for the bazaar

F89 Grace and Nellie and I went to Wesleyan bazaar at Wallington hall in aid of the new chapel; made soufflés

For the bazaar

S 9 Went to Oyster Club meeting at 4pm at Dr MacDougal’s; papers by Mr Antill, Willy and Dickenson; subject ‘News from Nowhere’ by William Morris

S 10 We all went to chapel and to Bampfylde to tea and supper; met Mr and Mrs Bourne there

M 11 Grace went to London shopping; dreadful fog’ we sent off parcels of clothes to St Giles’ Mission.

T 12

W 13 Trot had lunch with us on her way to Croydon

T 14 Grace went to Ashanti Goldfields Company meeting in town; Father and I unable to go.

F 15 I returned Mrs Boyle’s and Mrs Willis’ calls

S 16 I visited Mrs Dyball. Mr Antill came to stay with us.

S 17 I went to chapel in the morning; Grace to church at night.

M 18 Grace and I went shopping in Croydon in the afternoon; Mr Robinson came in to dinner; Mr Antill left this morning.

T 19 Volta, Sissie, baby and Marian came in the morning and stayed the night

W 20 They all left in the afternoon; Grace went over to Uncle’s to tea

T 21 Grace and I went to darling Mother’s grace to take our Xmas wreath; sent parcel to Mrs Staples

F 22 Bad cold; too unwell to go out; Sent parcel to Mrs Dyball

S 23 Ditto; in bed most of the day; Agnes came in the afternoon to spend Xmas with us; sent parcel to Mr Dunn

S 24 I was too unwell to go out; Best went to service; Grace and Agnes to church at night; Mr Cheshire came to supper; Trot, Ethel, Jim and Mrs Layton came over in motor in the evening.

M 25 George, Nellie and the girls and Agnes spent the day with us; we all had a happy, bright day together; Father well and jolly.

T 26 Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us and stayed the night

W 27 Agnes and Arthur left early; Kitty and Dorothy in the evening

T 28

F 29 Grace went to Mrs Brooks to tea

S 30

S 31 We all went to chapel; Grace had tea at Bampfylde and they all came back to supper.

Flower show results on Bank Holiday

First prizes: Potatoes

Gloxinia

Caladiems

Twelve cut blooms

Foliage plants

Second prize: Grouped plants

Third prize: Vegetables

Silver medal of Royal Horticultural Society for best exhibit in show: maidenhair fern.


1906

January

M 1

T 2

W 3

T 4 Went to Violet’s

F 5

S 6 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us

S 7 We all went to Covenant service; George, Nellie and Fannie came to tea and supper

M 8 Sent a dress to Adeline Price

T 9 Mr Statham came to stay; called at Bessie Hay

W 10 George and Nellie came to dinner

T 11 Mr Robinson came to lunch

F 12 Mr Statham left; Mr Rhodes came for the day

S 13 Kitty, Arthur, Arnold and Ida came to dinner

S 14 Mr Antill and Olive came to tea; I had tea and supper at George’s

M 15 Our Dumb Friends League (ODFL) committee meeting and then went on to see Mrs Wood; Grace went to Guild social

T 16 Grace went to a musical evening and on to trot to stay until Thursday

W 17 Visited Mrs Dyball

T 18 Went over to see Aunt Miriam

F 19 Mr Abraham came to dinner; visited Mr Dunn and Mrs Pearce

S 20 Grace went to a concert; Mr Champness, Arthur and Mr Tucker came in to tea.

S 21

M 22

T 23 Had tea with Mrs Marshall

W 24

T 25 Went to a meeting of ODFL at Rev Montague Fowler’s house

F 26 Went to town to look for lost eye glasses

S 27 Maurice Champness came and Fannie and Edie to dinner; Arthur to tea

S 28

M 29 Called on Mrs Pearce

T 30 Called on Mr Dunn and at Nellie’s

W 31 RSPCA committee meeting at Old Rectory

February

T 1

F 2 I went to see Mrs Wood; Father and Grace went to town

S 3 Grace went to a concert

S 4 George and Edie came to supper

M 5 Attended ODFL committee meeting and then went to Aunt Miria’s to tea

T 6 Mr and Mrs Waterhouse and the Misses Brooks came to dinner

W 7

T 8 My birthday

F 9

S 10 Kit and Arthur came for the evening

S 11 Ian MacLaren preached at Wallington church – a great treat; Nellie and George came to supper

M 12 Grace went to Kit’s and stayed the night

T 13 Eva came and stayed one night

W 14 Had tea at Nellie’s; Mr Antill stayed the night here

T 15 Kitty came to lunch

F 16

S 17 Grace went to a concert; I visited Mrs Dyball and Mr Dunn

S 18 I went to a service alone; George came up in the evening

M 19

T 20 Went to sewing meeting; Gladys engaged to Fred Layton

W 21 Mr Chaffer came in the evening

T 22 Grace went to town in the afternoon

F 23 Trot and the girls came to spend the day

S 24 Mr and Mrs Stacey came to dinner; Auntie and Uncle to lunch and tea

S 25 George and Nellie came to supper

M 26 Went to dressmaker and to Violet’s to tea

T 27 Grace went to a meeting

W 28 Grace went to town with Kitty

March

T 1 I had dinner at Nellie’s

F 2

S 3 Grace went to a concert; Mr Champness came to tea

S 4

M 5 Attended ODFL committee meeting; met Violet and went to see Florrie in the nursing home; called to see Mr Rendell

T 6 Ethel engaged to Arthur Stair

W 7 Grace and I went to the West End shopping

T 8 Visited Mr Dunn

F 9

S 10 Mr and Mrs Taylor and Freda came to dinner; Ethel and Arthur to lunch

S 11 George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 12 Grace went to Sidcup

T 13 New Kitchener stove began to be put in

W 14 Kit came to lunch

T 15 I went to Uncle’s; Arthur came to lunch and dinner; stove finished

F 16 Kitty and Arthur moved into their new home in Carshalton

S 17 Grace went to a musical meeting; I attended Oyster Club and Mr Blake’s house, Seven Gables

S 18

M 19

T  20 Grace went to Sidcup and a musical meeting; Bessie came to tea; Violet’s father died

W 21 I went up to see Violet

T 22 Local RSPCA meeting at small hall, nearly empty – Mr Reeks spoke

F 23 Grace went to Eastbourne to spend the night with Aunties and engage rooms for Easter

S 24 A snow storm; Grace returned in the evening

S 25

M 26 Morris went for a week’s holiday; Gladys came to stay with us

T 27

W 28 Bessie came to tea

T 29 Called on Mrs Pearce

F 30 Gladys left; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 31 Agnes and Margery came to tea; Cecil’s seventh birthday

April

S 1

M 2 Attended ODFL committee meeting and went to Mother’s grave

T 3 Grace went to a concert with Kitty

W 4

T 5 Went to Sidcup and stayed with Mabel; attended annual Band of Mercy meeting – Kearton’s lecture; full hall and a great success

F 6 Visited the Prices, Wests, Cowdreys, Gilberts and had tea with Dr Cromleys

S 7 Came home; Father and Grace went to Uncle’s

S 8 Kit came to tea; Arthur, George and Nellie to supper

M 9 I visited Mr Dunn

T 10 Went to see Nellie; Jack’s birthday

W 11

T 12 We all went to Eastbourne with George and Mr Statham

F 13 – W 18

T 19 We all returned home after a happy week together

F 20 Keaton lectured in Wallington; went with Kit, Dorothy and Rene

S 21

S 22 The Williams all came to tea and supper

M 23

T 24 A snow storm

W 25

T 26 Went to see Nellie

F 27 Kit and Arthur came to dinner

S 28 Went to see Bessie Hay; Grace had supper at Kit’s.

S 29 I had tea at Nellie’s

M 30

May

T 1 Trot, Jim and Cecil came and stayed the night

W 2 I took Father to town

T 3 Kit came to tea and dinner

F 4 I had tea at Mrs Wood

S 5 Mr Antill came to dinner; Grace took a basket of flowers to Mother’s grave

S 6 George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 7 Attended ODFL committee meeting; Fred came to stay the night

T 8 Father and Grace went to town

W 9 Grace and I went over to Croydon

T 10 I had tea with Kitty

F 11 Visited Mr Dunn; Grace went to Beckenham

S 12

S 13 We all had tea and supper at Nellie’s

M 14 Father and I went for a drive with Mr Robinson

T 15 Attended opening of animal hospital with Violet; Mabel came to stay; Grace went to a musical meeting

W 16 Mabel and I went to the local dog show

T 17 Grace went to a concert and meeting; Edie came to dinner

F 18 Mabel left

S 19 Uncle and Auntie came for the day

S 20 George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Mr Cheshire came to tea

M 21 Attended annual RSPCA meeting at Mansion House with Violet

T 22

W 23

T 24 Went over to Trot’s to stay

F 25 Trot, Ethel and I went to West End on a motor bus

S 26 Returned home; Fannie and Edie came to tea and supper

S 27 Grace had tea at Nellie’s

M 28 ODFL committee meeting – did not attend; Mr and Mrs Robinson came to dinner

T 29 Sewing meeting at hour house – ten present

W 30 Derby Day

T 31 Violet spent the day here

June

F 1 The Oaks

S 2 Grace went to Sidmouth to stay and few days and engage a furnished house

S 3 Father and I had tea and supper at George’s

M 4 Grace returned in the afternoon

T 5 Grace and I planted Mother’s grave with large geraniums

W 6

T 7

F 8 I went to spend a fortnight with Nell in Stirling; left 10am and arrived 7pm; Mr Muir staying there

S 9 We spent the morning in town and afternoon in King’s Park; played bridge

S 10 All went to East church on Castle Hill; Rev Lang preached; had tea in Mr Drummond’s garden

M 11

T 12 Received news of Rev John Wright’s death; drove to Doune.

W 13 Too poorly to go out

T 14

F 15 Went to Dunblane

S 16 John and Nellie came

S 17 Heard Rev Forrest preach twice

M 18

T 19 Spent the day in Edinburgh

W 20

T 21 Spent the day in Callander

F 22 Went to Cove

S 23 Aunt Janie had a serious fall at our house; did not know until my return home.

S 24 Heard Rev Welsh of Edinburgh preach

M 25

T w6 Went on a trip up Loch Long, to Tarbet on Loch Lomond

W 27

T 28 Returned home

F 29

S 30 Took Lass to Hackbridge home to board for five weeks at 5/- per week.

July

S 1

M 2 Grace, Fannie, Edie, and Morris went to Cottymeade, Sidmouth

T 3 Father, Rene, Hayes and I followed; taken house for a month

W 4 We all went, by steamer, to Exmouth

T 5 Fannie and I bathed; Rather, Rene and I drove – the rest walked –  to Ladram Bay and had tea at a farm there

F 6 Fannie and I bathed; girls and I took a picnic tea on the beach; Father, Grace and Rene went fishing

S 7 Part drove to Salcombe Regis, the rest walked

S 8 Went to All Saints with the girls; the rest went to the Wesleyan chapel; all went for a walk in the evening

M 9 We bathed; all went out in small boats in the evening

T 10 Went fishing in a small boar for three and a half hours in Ladram Bay

W 11 We all drove to Honiton Common, Sidbury and Sidford

T 12 We went bathing; Father and I went fishing up the Sid

F 13 Rain all day

S 14 Grace and Father fished at Tipton; girls and I went for a row

S 15 Grace’s birthday; all went to chapel in the morning and a walk in the evening

M 16 Fannie and Edie returned home

T 17 We went for an hour’s drive after tea

W 18 We had tea on the river side at Tipton; Father fished

T 19 Father and Grace went to Tipton fishing; Rene and I walked to Ladram rocks

F 20 George and Nellie joined us

S 21 Sea mist all day

S 22 All went to chapel – walked up the hills in the evening

M 23 Drove to Branscombe, a charming village in three parts; the church is 800 years old; had tea at the Mason’s Arms; saw Honiton point and lace made in cottages; a lovely drive

T 24 Picnicked all day on Mutters Moor and in woods

W 25 Rowed Ladram Bay and had tea on the shore; very rough coming back

T 26 Drove to Budleigh Salterton via Newton Popplefords, Colaton, Bicton, Otterton – had lunch at Budleigh Salterton.

F 27 Picnicked at Harpford woods

S 28 Listened to singers on the Parade in the morning

S 29 Went to chapel; Father and I went for a stroll in the evening, the others walked to Salcombe Regis

M 30 Drove to Honiton and saw lace being made; picnicked on the roadside at Ottery St Mary – a fine church and Coleridge’s monument

T 31 All returned home

August

W 1 Fetched Lass back from the dogs’ home

T 2 Trot dangerously ill; I went to Finchley for the day

F 3 Grace went there for the day and brought Cecil back to stay

S 4 Nurse and Theo came to stay

S 5 Went to the Baptist church with Aunt Lissie

M 6 We all went to the flower and horse show at Beddington Park

T 7 I went over to see Trot

W 8

T 9 Trot underwent an operation for appendicitis: satisfactory; Grace at Finchley for the day

F 10 Aunties returned to Eastbourne after six weeks’ stay here

S 11 Father went for a drive with George

S 12 I visited Bessie Hay

M 13

T 14 Went over to see Trot; progressing satisfactorily; Mr Taylor came to dinner

W 15 Visited Mrs Champness, senior

T 16 Auntie Miria seriously ill, a heart attack and congestion of the lungs

F 17

S 18 Nurse took the two children to Tavistock; Auntie better

S 19 All went to chapel went at night for Rev W Brooks farewell; George and Nellie came to supper

M 20 I went to Mrs Robinson’s to help with a mothers’ meeting

T 21 I went up to see Mr McHardy; Grace went with me

W 22 Sent parcel of clothes to the Price’s, dress to Adeline; I had dinner at Nellie’s

T 23 Visited Mr Dunn; I went to Croydon with Father; Trot not so well – colitis

F 24 Vet, Mr Trance, called to see Lass – examination, 3/6 charge

S 25 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us

S 26 All went to chapel – Rev E Waterhouse’s farewell; Grace had tea at Bampfylde; George and Nellie came to supper

M 27 Grace went to town shopping.

T 28

W 29 I went to Croydon with Father

T 30 Hayes went for her fortnight’s holiday

F 31 Vet came to see Lass; Father and Grace went to Trot’s to stay the night; I had tea at Violet’s

September

S 1 Heat intense both days – 128° in the sun

S 2 Ditto; we all went to chapel – Rev Herrick preached; Grace went at night

M 3 Received news that Auntie ‘Miria’ passed away on Saturday; Grace went over

T 4 I went to see Lillie and Marian and take over our wreath

W 5 Grace and I went to Auntie Miria’s funeral at Norwood; took wreath to Mother’s grace

T 6

F 7 Kitty came to dinner; Mrs John Wright called to see us

S 8

S 9 We all went to chapel; Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to tea; I went to the service at night

M 10 Father and Grace went to Mr Statham’s, Coventry, to stay.  I went to see Trot

T 11 I went to see Mrs Wright at Mrs Williamson’s; Kit came to sit with me in the evening

W 12 Kit and I called on the new minister; I went to Bampfylde in the evening

T 13 Father and grace came home from Coventry; I went to Miss Molyneux at Brixton in the evening; Hayes returned from her holiday

F 14 Darling Mother’s birthday

S 15 Five years today since she went from us; Grace went over to see Trot

S 16 We all went to chapel – harvest thanksgiving; I went at night

M 17 Kit and Arthur came to dinner; we all went to a reception of the new Minister at chapel; I visited Mr Dunn

T 16 I had tea with Uncle and Auntie

W 19 Grace went to Scarborough to stay with Fred and Laurie

T 20 Vet came to see Lass

F 21 Attended class

S 22 George drove Father to Shirley; Trot went to Westgate; I called to see Nellie

S 23 Father and I went to chapel; George and Nellie came to supper

M 24 Kit came in to tea; Mr Robinson called in the evening to say goodbye

T 25 Morris went for her other week’s holiday

W 26 I went, with Father, to town; Grace returned home from Scarborough

T 27 I went to the dressmaker at Brixton and to Violet’s for tea

F 28 Attended class; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 29 Miriam came to stay for a few days

S 30 We all went to chapel in the morning; Kit, Arthur and Maurice came to supper

October

M 1 I met Jim in town and took him to see the oculist; the others went for a drive;

T 2 Marian left in the evening

W 3 I went to Croydon in the morning; Ethel’s 22nd birthday

T 4

F 5 Dear Father’s 75th birthday; took him for a drive in the afternoon; Kit, Arthur and George spent the evening with us

S 6 Vet came to see Lass

S 7 Gladys’ 20th birthday; we all went to chapel; Grace went at night; Fannie and Edie came to tea and supper; Olive C, Bessie and Olive Antill came to tea.

M 8 Attended ODFL committee and a lecture ‘Browsing amongst my books’ by the Rev Stuart Robinson;

T 9 Uncle and Auntie came in the evening to stay with us

W 10 We went for a long drive in the afternoon

T 11 Handed £2/12/0 in to Miss A for the RSPCA; Grace and Auntie went to Croydon in the afternoon

F 12 Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Kit and Edie to tea; Edie stayed to dinner; I went, with Auntie, to a lecture on Tennyson at Beckenham.

S 13 George and Nellie spent the evening with us

S 14 We all went to chapel; Grace, Auntie and I went at night; Rev Eddery called; Kit and Arthur came to supper

M 15 Uncle and Auntie left us in the morning; visited Mr Dunn and Mrs Pearce; Edie came to dinner; Grace went to a concert in Croydon with the two girls

T 16 Kit and I attended service meeting at Mrs Bryants; Father gave £40 towards the new chapel and £5 each for Grace and me.

W 17 Grace went to London for the day; sent off parcel

T 18 I had tea with Lillie and Marian

F 19 Grace and I went to Norwood to plant bulbs on our darling mother’s grave; attended class

S 20 Father and grace went to Kitty’s

S 21 We all went to service; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea; they came back with her to supper

M 22 Mr Harry Ribbons called and stayed to dinner; poorly, in bed most of the day

T 23 Father and I walked up to Nellie’s in the afternoon

W 24 Father and Grace went to town; I went to Agnes Heaton to stay the night

T 25 On the way back from Acton, I went to Wembley to see old Mrs Staples

F 26 Attended class

S 27

S 28 We all went to chapel in the morning

M 29 Grace went to Trot’s and stayed the night

T 30 Grace returned in the evening

W 31

November

T 1

F 2 I went to Beckenham and attended a lecture, with Auntie, on Tennyson’s late poems; stayed the night

S 3 Returned home in the morning

S 4 We all went to chapel

M 5 I went, with Father, to Ashanti Auxiliary meeting at Holborn restaurant; Grace went to a concert at Queen’s Hall at night

T 6

W 7 Sent parcel of Clothes to Mrs Brewer

T 8

F 9 Grace went to a concert in Wallington; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 10 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us

S 11 We all went to chapel; Fannie and Edie came to tea and supper

M 12 ODFL committee meeting; fog prevented me attending; Kit came to tea and dinner and then Grace and Kit went to a lecture

T 13

W 14 Went to Croydon by new tram, shopping; Grace had tea with Kit

T 15 Fannie and Edie came to dinner and whist; I called to see Bessie

F 16 Kit and I went to Uncle’s to tea; went with Auntie to a lecture on Browning at Beckenham

S 17 Maurice came in to tea; George and Mr Brown came in after dinner; Agnes came in the afternoon to stay until Monday

S 18 We all went to chapel; Agnes and I went to Kit’s to tea

M 19 Grace went to a concert in town with Miss Craig

T 20 Grace wen tot a musical meeting and dinner with Auntie; both returned at night; Trot’s birthday

W 21 Took first painting lesson from Miss Moore

T 22 Attended a meeting in Clapham; had tea with Mrs Wood; Violet returned home with  me; good meeting, well attended

F 23

S 24 Mr Antill came to dinner; Violet left in the evening

S 25 All went to chapel, I went in the evening; George and Nellie came to supper

M 26

T 27 Attended sewing meeting at Mrs Westcombe’s

W 28 Attended painting lesson; sent sale of work for the new chapel, articles I had made – £1/18/6 total

T 29 Trot and Kate Berry came over for the day

F 30 Maggie, Esther and Mr Chandler came to lunch; Kit and I went to Aunt Miriam’s and a Browning lecture in the evening

December

S 1 Made a lot of sweets for a sale of work; visited Mr Dunn; Grace went to a concert in town; Fannie and I went to George’s.

S 2 Grace and I went to chapel; Grace went again at night; opening of new wing

M 3 Grace and I went to a sale of work at Mrs Daw’s; Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Grace went to a symphony concert in town

T 4 Sale realised £42

W 5 Attended painting lesson; Grace had tea with Lillie and Marian

T 6

F 7 Had tea with Uncle and Auntie and attended Browning lecture with her at Beckenham

S 8

S 9 We all went to chapel; George and Nellie came to supper

M 10 Attended ODFL meeting and did shopping in town; Grace went to a lecture at night

T 11 Grace went to town to do some shopping and attend a musical meeting

W 12 Attended painting class; had tea with Miss Leach; sent parcel of clothes to Mrs Price

T 13 Called at Nellie’s; Fred came up to stay the night

F 14 Grace went to the annual Ashanti meeting

S 15 Mr Herrick, Kit and Arthur and Miss Brookes came to dinner

S 16 Very wet; none of us went out in the morning; I went to chapel at night; Fannie and Edie came to supper

M 17 Grace and I went to Croydon in the morning; Grace went to a concert in town at night;

T 18 Went for a walk with Father in the morning and shopping in Croydon in the afternoon

W 19 Attended painting lesson; Grace went to Uncle’s to tea; George came to dinner; sent parcel of clothes to Mrs Goodsell

F 21 Sent off Xmas parcel to Mrs Staples and overall to Adeline Price

S 22 Grace and I took our Xmas wreath to Norwood and took a parcel of things to old Mr Dunn

S 23 We all went to chapel in the morning and stayed at home at night

M 24

T 25 Xmas day; we all spent a happy day together; George, Nellie and the girls spent it with us

W 26 They came to lunch; Grace went to Bampfylde for dinner

T 27 Snow storm on Xmas Eve continued for several days

F 28 Had ‘Progressive Whist’ party with thirty guests; Ethel, Gladys, Jim and Violet came to stay

S 29 Children left in the morning, Violet in the evening

S 30 Still snowing; Grace and I went to chapel, too cold for Father to go; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 31

XMAS

Sent Mrs Staples parcel: 1 warm shawl, a cape, Xmas cake, packet of butterscotch. ½lb tea; fancy tin of biscuits, small bottle of sweets, calendar

Mr Dunn: Xmas cake, tin of tobacco, Edinburgh rock packet, small bottle of sweets, oranges, calendar

Mr Dunn (junior) a muffler

Adeline Price: overall, embroidered


1907

January

T 1 Auntie and Uncle, Mr and Mrs Rhodes and Mr Cheshire spent the day with us; a happy day with the old friends; Father bright and well

W 2 Attended my painting lesson at the studio; Mrs and Miss Henman and Miss Harmer called; Grace went to Croydon; I went to a lecture on Ghosts by Mr Herrick.

T 3 Grace and I spent the morning in London, shopping; Morgan called in the afternoon.

F 4

S 5

S 6 Grace and I went to chapel; we all three went to Covenant service; George, Nellie and the girls came to tea and supper

M 7 I went over to Trot’s to be with her for a few days while the girls were away in Devon

T 8 Trot and I went out shopping in the morning; Hope Leigh came to tea

W 9 I went to East Finchley for Trot in the morning; she and I went to help with mothers’ meeting supper in the afternoon and evening.

T 10 Jim and I went over to New Barnet to see the remains of a big fire at the Mills, still burning; engines been at work all night

F 11 Trot and I had tea at Mrs Childes and called at Mrs Hills

S 12 I returned home in the morning; Lillie came in the afternoon to stay over Sunday

S 13 Father, Grace and I went to chapel; Lillie’s ankle is too bad for her to go out; Rev Foster came to dinner

M 14 Lillie left in the morning; I attended ODFL meeting in town; Jim came to stay the night

T 14 Grace and Jim went to Croydon; Jim went home in the evening

W 16 I attended painting lesson in the morning; Kit came in to tea

F 17 Father and I went for a walk in the afternoon; Grace went to Epsom to call on Mrs Atkinson; George and Nellie came up after dinner

S 18 Grace went to a whist drive at Orchard Leigh with Kitty and Arthur; Father not able to go (Dorothy Milum’s seventeenth birthday) to go, so I stayed home with him.

S 19 Mr Stacey and Edith came over in the afternoon

S 20 Not well enough to go out in the morning and too foggy for Father; Grace went to chapel, I went at night; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 21 I visited old Mr Dunn; Kit came in to tea; Grace went to a concert in town

T 22 Father not so well; Dr Cressy called to see him; I called at Bessie’s

W 23 Cold intense

T 24 Whist drive at George’s; Grace and Olive Champness went, and Olive stayed the night with us; Father not well enough to go so I stayed home with him.

F 25 Intense cold continues; colder in London than in Iceland

S 26 Mr Champness and Muriel came down to tea and dinner; George, Uncle and Dorothy came in unexpectedly to tea.

S 27 Father better; I went to chapel in the morning, Grace at night; I went to Bampfylde to tea; Fannie and Edie came to supper; George came up after

M 28 Visited Arthur’s mother; great frost is broken!

T 29 Violet came down in the morning to stay and gave a lantern lecture on ‘The Dog’ at the Baptist lecture hall in the evening; Edie went with us and came to dinner

W 30 Attended my painting lesson; Arthur came in to dinner

T 31 Violet went to Mill Lane mothers’ meeting with me, to give an address on ‘Kindness to Animals’. Violet left in the evening

February

F 1 I went to whist drive at Mr Morgan’s; Grace went to Croydon, shopping

S 2 Grace went to Uncle’s to tea; Mr Cheshire and Mr Antill came in to dinner

S 3 Very cold; too unwell to go out; Grace went out in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper

M 4

T 5 Grace went to Fulham with Uncle in the morning and to a concert in town, with Kit and Arthur, at night; weather still too severe for Father or I to go out

W 6 Attended painting lesson; called on Mrs Morgan and Mrs Chandler; Father was able to get into the garden again.

T 7 I went up to Kit’s in the morning; Mr and Miss Herrick called in the evening

F 8 My birthday; a happy day, made bright by the love of dear ones; George and Nellie came in unexpectedly to dinner

S 9 Maurice Champness came in to tea

S 10 Grace and I went to chapel in the morning; Grace at night; Father went in the garden; Bessie and Olive came to tea; Fannie and Edie to supper

M 11 Attended ODFL committee and went on to have tea with Mrs Wood and Violet

T 12

W 13 Attended painting lesson; grace went to a lection on Rome at our chapel

T 14

F 15 I had tea with Nellie; Rev and Mrs Foster came in to dinner

S 16 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

S 17 Father went to chapel with us; I went at night; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea; Mr and Mrs Henman walked over to tea

M 18 I had tea with Kitty; Gather went for a little walk; Mr Herrick came in after dinner

T 19 Grace went to a musical meeting in town

W 20 Attended my painting lesson

T 21 Grace spent the day at Trot’s; Kitty came in to tea; a snow storm

F 22

S 23 Began Spring cleaning; Kit came in to tea; Grace went to Nellie’s to dinner; very cold

S 24 Too poorly to go out since Wednesday; Grace went to chapel; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 25 In bed most of the day

T 26 I went to whist drive at Miss Moore’s at night

W 27 Attended my painting lesson; did first study of flowers from nature

T 28 Trot, Cecil and Theo came over in the morning, to stay

March

F 1 Trot and children left; Grace went to town with them

S 2 I had tea over at Lillie’s; met Arnold and family there

S 3 Grace and I went to chapel; I went at night; Arthur, Kit and Daisy came to supper

M 4 I went to Croydon in the morning

T 5 Grace went to a service and bazaar at the Leysian mission with Aunt Miriam

W 6 Attended last painting lesson of first term

T 7

F 8 Kit and Arthur came to dinner; went to class in the afternoon; Father and we all went to a social at the hall in connection with the new church scheme

S 9

S 10 We all went to chapel; George and Nellie came to supper

M 11 Grace went to Kamloops meeting in town; I could not attend ODFL committee; Mr Herrick came in to dinner; Kit and I went to a lecture, ‘Earth Builders’ by Rev Theodore Wood

T12

W 13 Attended first painting lesson of second term; Kitty and Agnes came up in the evening

T 14 Visited Mr Dunn; Grace went to a meeting at the public hall; Father went out in the afternoon; Arthur and Mr Champness came round in the evening

F 15 I met Mrs Grant, Nell and Marian in town; had lunch and tea with them and went to the Cathedral and Hyde Park; went on to Mrs Wood on way home

S 16 George, Arthur and Kit came in to tea; Father and Grace went, with them, to a sale of garden produce in the afternoon

S 17 We all went to service; Mr Cheshire came in to tea and supper; also George later; Grace went to chapel at night

M 18 I went to Croydon in the morning; Kit came to tea; Father in the garden all day seeing to new shrubs, etc.

T 19 Grace went to a musical meeting and shopping in town

W 20 Attended my painting lesson; Father and Grace went to Croydon

T 21 Mr Hopkins came down to lunch and tea

F 22 Grace and I went to Croydon shopping; Father and I went for a walk in the afternoon; Kitty came to dinner

S 23 I went to Sidcup in the afternoon to Mrs Oliver’s to stay; attended annual Band of Mercy meeting; a full hall

S 24 Went to Christ Church in the morning; Eva and I went to St John’s at night; stayed to Passion music; called to see Dr Crombie on my way home

M 25 Went out with Eva in the morning; called on the Prices, with Mabel; Mr Jowett came to seem and stayed to tea and I returned home in time for dinner

T 26 Grace went to St Paul’s with George and Nellie to hear Passion music

W 27

T 29 Ethel and Arthur Stair came over for the day

F 29 Father and I went up to Kitty’s in the afternoon; I called to see the girls at Bampfylde in the evening

S 30 Mr Rhodes came to tea and dinner; Arthur came up in the morning to see Father

S 31 We all went to chapel in the morning; Fannie, Edie and Rene came to tea

March

M 1 Spent a quiet, happy Easter together; weather perfect; terrible tram accident at the end of our road

T 2 Mr Corderoy and Mrs Chandler came to lunch and tea; I went into Croydon for Father in the morning

W 3 Went to the dressmaker’s at Brixton and had tea with Mrs Wood; George and Nellie came in in the evening

T 4 Grace went to Sidcup and shopping in town with Nellie; Father and I went out in the morning; George came to dinner and Nellie returned with Grace

F 5 Attended class; Grace went to Croydon in the morning; Father went out in the afternoon.

S 6

S 7 A snow storm; blossoms covered with snow wreaths; Grace and I went in the morning to chapel; I went at night; too cold for Father to go out

M 8 Sent off parcel of clothes to Mrs Goodsell; visited Mr Dunn and Mrs Dyball

T 9 Dr Cressy came, attending me

W 10 Attended painting lesson; Miss Moore and Mrs Bryant called; Grace went to a meeting

T 11 I went to the dressmaker’s in Brixton and had tea at Violet’s

F 12 Grace went to Norwood and to cousin Lillie’s

S 13 Found a stray, diseased cat in Maldon Road, secured it and took it up to the chemist’s; called on Miss Leach; Grace went to Uncle to tea; Father and I went up to Bampfylde in the afternoon for an hour or so; Mr Rhodes came to dinner

S 14 We all went to chapel in the morning; Grace went to Bampfylde to supper

M 15 Attended ODFL meeting and visited the animal hospital

T 16 Grace went into Croydon

W 17 Attended painting lesson; called at Mr Dunn’s and Bessie’s; hail storm – very cold again

T 18 Went to Kit’s in the morning; Violet came to stay; I went with her to a suffragettes’ meeting in Carshalton at night; speakers were Mrs Despard and Mrs Holmes

F 19 Violet and I went for a country walk in the morning; Grace went to Sidcup to the dressmaker’s

S 20 Uncle and Auntie came for the day; Violet left in the evening; I went to Croydon at night with George, Nellie and the girls to hear ‘Elijah’ at the public hall; Soloists were Miss Ethel Lister, soprano; Miss Greta Williams, alto; Mr Joe Reed, tenor; Mr Dan Price, bass – very good, he took the part of Elijah

S 21 Grace and I went to chapel – too wet for Father; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 22 Poorly

T 23 Ditto; Mr Herrick called in the evening

W 24 Attended painting lesson; visited Mr Dunn

T 25 Grace went to have tea at Violet’s

F 26 Trot and Jim came over for the day and stayed the night; Grace took Jim to Croydon in the afternoon

S 27 Trot and Jim left in the morning; Mr Shilling (student) came to stay until Monday

S 28 We all went to chapel; grace went to Sutton at night

M 29 I went to darling Mother’s grave; went to dressmaker’s in Brixton in the morning

T 20

May

W 1 Attended painting lesson

T 2 Grace had tea with Mrs Mann; Mr and Miss Herrick came to dinner

F 3 I had tea with Uncle and Auntie; Arthur came up in the evening

S 4 Went to see Mr Dunn and Mrs Dyball; Mr Cheshire came to dinner as did Mr Antill

S 5 We all went to chapel; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came to supper

M 6 I collected for the RSPCA in the morning; Fred and Laurie came to stay

T 7 Grace and Laurie went to Croydon in the afternoon

W 8 Attended my painting lesson

T 9 Grace, Fred and Laurie spent the day in town

F 10 Violet came down to stay; Father took us all for a long drive through Chipstead, Kingswood, Epsom Downs, etc; a lovely day

S 11 Mr and Mrs Gilchrist came down in the afternoon and spent the day with us

S 12 We all went to chapel; Violet and I went at night; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 13 Attended ODFL committee; Fred and Laurie left

T 14

W 15 Violet and I went into Croydon in the morning; Kit and Mrs Roylston came to tea; Miss Moore came to dinner

T 16 Violet and I went to Beddington Orphanage and had tea with Matron; saw over the orphanage – Violet addressed the children; Father and Grace walked to Bampfylde

F 17 Violet and I went to the Royal Military Tournament at Olympia in the afternoon; the King was present

S 18 I hired a ‘bike’ and went for an hour’s ride with Violet; she and I went up to Kit’s in the afternoon

S 19 We went to chapel – too cold for Father; Grace and Violet walked to church in Croydon at night

M 20 Marian spent the day with us; Fannie and Edie came for tennis in the afternoon and stayed the evening; very cold

T 21 Went out with Violet on bicycles and road to The Oaks; Grace went to town; Father, Violet and I went to Croydon in the afternoon

W 22 Attended painting lesson; began first study in landscape; Violet left in the evening; poorly with a severe cold

W 23 Ditto; Grace went to a concert in town

F 24 In bed all day; Father, Grace and Kitty went for a drive

S 25

S 26 Not well enough to go out; Father and Grace went to chapel; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea; George came back to supper

T 27 Called to see Nellie and did some RSPCA collecting

W 29 Attended painting lesson; Uncle and George came to dinner; Father poorly, got a chill. Dr Cressy attending

T 30 Visited Mr Dunn; Father ill in bed, bronchitis; sent dress to Adeline Price;

F 31 Did some collecting for the RSPCA

June

S 1

S 2 I went to chapel in the morning; Mr Cheshire came in to tea

M 3

T 4 Father a little better; Gladys came over to see him

W 5 Derby Day; attended my painting lesson

T 6

F 7 Father better; Mr Cheshire came to see him

S 8 Not so well; sat up a short time; Uncle came to dinner; Arthur came to see Father

S 9 I went in the morning to chapel; Mr and Mrs Henman came to tea unexpectedly; Nellie came in to dinner; Father sat up a little while

M 10 Father better; I attended ODFL committee in town and went to annual RSPCA meeting at the Society of Arts – a lively meeting

T 11 Trot came over unexpectedly and stayed the night

W 12 Attended a painting lesson; Trot left in the afternoon; Ray (gardener) went to plant Mother’s grave, with Grace

T 13 Father came down the first time; visited Mr Dunn; collected for the RSPCA; Arthur and Mr Herrick called – and George in the evening

F 14 Collected; Father went round the garden for the first time; Mr Herrick and Mr Cheshire came to see him

S 15 Visited Mrs Dyball; Mr Antill and George called – a very wet day

S 16 Stayed with Father in the morning and went to chapel at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 17 Father, Grace and I went for a drive in the afternoon

T 18 Visited Bessie Hay; Grace went to a musical meeting in town; weather cold again

W 19 Attended my painting lesson;

T 20 Grace went to Kamloops meeting in town; Mr Cheshire and Mrs Chandler came to dinner; collected for RSPCA in the afternoon

F 21 I spent the day over at Trot’s; Father and Grace went for a drive

S 22 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us

S 23 Animal Sunday; I went to chapel in the morning; Grace went to Mrs Chandler’s to tea and to Sutton chapel at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 24 Attended first painting lesson of new term; finished first landscape from copy; Grace went over to Lillie’s to eat

T 25

W 26 I went to have tea with Mrs Wood and Violet

T 27 Poorly

F 28 Collected for RSPCA

S 29 Grace went to Croydon in the morning; George and Nellie came to dinner; their girls went to Folkestone

S 20 Father went to chapel with us both; I stayed with him in the evening; Grace had supper at Nellie’s

July

M 1 Visited old Mr Dunn; Grace went to Kenley house hunting for Trot

T 2 Father and I went to Croydon in the afternoon; Grace went to a meeting

W 3 Paid £4/10/0 into local branch of RSPCA; Grace had dinner at Kitty’s

T 4 Nellie and I went to the Royal Academy and looked at shops; George came to dinner

F 5

S 6

S 7 All went to chapel in the morning; I went at night; Rev E Dennis came to dinner; Kitty, Arthur and Mr Antill to supper

M 8 Made arrangements for lethal chamber to be started in connection with the local branch of the RSPCA

T 9 Father and Grace went up to Kitty’s in the afternoon and I went to see Nellie

W 10 Kitty and I spent the day with Uncle and Auntie and went to the flower show at Beckenham with them; very cold still

T 11 Grace spent the day at Trot’s

F 12 I went to darling Mother’s grave and had tea with Lillie; Father and Grace walked to Nellie’s

S 13

S 14 We all went to chapel in the morning

M 15 Grace’s birthday; Kitty came to tea and went for a drive with us all afterwards; George and Percy Hay came up in the evening; very hot

T 16 Visited Mr Dunn

W 17 Attended second painting lesson of the fourth term; we all went over to Sutton to look over a house for Trot; Father and I drove there; George came in the evening

T 18 Gladys, Cecil and Theo came over in the morning and stayed the night

F 19 Went up to Kitty’s in the morning with the children; Dorothy came to tea with them; Gladys took them back home in the evening.

S 20 Grace and I went into Croydon in the morning; Fannie and Edie came to dinner

S 21 We all went to chapel; Mr Antill came to dinner; Pearce and Mrs Pearce had tea with Morris

M 22

T 23 I had tea with Nellie

W 24 Morris went for her fortnight’s holiday

T 25 Violet and I came to the Pier Hotel, Folkestone, for a short stay; went in town in the afternoon and walked through the Warren in the evening

F 26 Spent the morning on the beach; went, by motor coach, to Sandgate and then tram to Hythe; back home by motor coach; went to see Raku wrestle with a police constable

S 27 Went to Warren and spent the morning there; beach in the afternoon and paddled there; went to see Raku again at pier pavilion; wrestled with champion of Devon, Lieutenant Bellew, and Private Dunbar; Ragu (jujitsu) won in all; Dunbar won challenge cup, held out over four minutes.

S 28 We went to Wesleyan chapel in the morning and spent the afternoon on the Leas and, after dinner, went to a Dr Barnardo’s meeting at town hall

M 29 Went on beach and walked on the cliffs; in afternoon, Mr Farrell called; we had tea on the pier – turned cold; went to see Raku and to ask his terms for lessons

T 30 We went, by 10.15 boat, to Dover and returned by 4.49 boat; heavy swell; went over Dover Castle and on top of tram to river; very pretty

W 31 Walked into Sandgate and went over castle, built by Henry VIII; paddled and came home by motor coach; in the afternoon, went to the Leas and in town; sat on beach at night.

August

T 1 Walked to Warren and paddled in the morning; went on Leas and in town after tea; to pier at night to see the wrestling competition and hear the Rhondda Miners’ choir

W 2 Went by motor to Hythe, paddled and saw over old church and crypt; back by motor; swimming baths after tea and marine walk; the Leas at night.

S 3 We left Folkestone by 11.25 train and arrived at London Bridge at 2.30 – a glad welcome home by my dear ones.  Morris went for her fortnight’s holiday on 31st July

S 4 Father and I went to chapel, a good sermon by Rev W Sheers of Baltimore; George and Nellie came to tea and supper and all the girls to tea

M 5 Father, Grace and I drove to the flower show in the park; Grace went back with George and the girls to dinner

T 6

W 7 Called to see Mr Dunn, found him very ill

T 8 I spent the evening at Mr Herrick’s – Fannie, Edie and Mr Daw were there

F 9 Visited Mr Dunn and found in a dying stage but so glad to see me

S 10 We all went for a drive in the afternoon and went over Sutton new chapel, now in building

S 11 All went to chapel – a beautiful sermon from MR Herrick on ‘Whatsoever things are lovely’; Grace went to chapel at night; Arthur came to supper

M 12 Called to enquire after Mr Dunn

T 13 Grace went down to Margate to engage rooms for us for September; Father and I went for a walk

W 14 Had my first nature study in the garden with Miss Moore; visited old Mr Dunn and called at Bampfylde

T 15 Hayes went for her fortnight’s holiday.  Mr Hulme called in the evening; Morris returned from her holiday

F 16 Had my painting lesson (fourth this term) in the garden; Father, Grace and I went shopping to Croydon

S 17 Fannie, Edie and Percy and Bessie Hay came to late tea, tennis and cards

S 18 We all went to chapel; I went at night; Arthur came to supper

M 19 Poorly

T 20 In bed all day

W 21 Weather continues so cold

T 22 Father picked, in the garden, 30lbs of plums for preserving

F 23 Visited Mr Dunn; Grace and I made 28lbs of plum jam; Arthur came to lunch

S 24 Jim came in the morning to stay until Monday; Fannie and Edie came in to tea and tennis; George, Nellie and the girls came up again in the evening, former just returned from Wales; Mrs and Miss Foster called in the evening; Jim and I walked home with them and went in to see Mr Foster.

S 25 We all went to chapel in the morning and stayed at home at night; I called to see Bessie

M 26 I returned to Trot’s with Jim and stayed the night; she drove me over to Old Southgate to see her new house – The Chestnuts – in the afternoon; Arthur came in the evening

T 27 Trot came to town with me – we drove in taximeter cab to Victoria; I met Bessie and took her to lunch and the Natural History Museum and Brompton Oratory; home in the evening

W 28 Had my painting lesson; Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; George and Nellie came up in the evening; Father and I went for a walk

T 29 Visited Mr Dunn; Father, Mr Foster and I went for a long drive in the afternoon; Grace went to town with Nellie and to a concert at Queen’s Hall with George and Nellie

F 30 I had my painting lesson in the garden; went into Croydon after lunch, shopping; Hayes back from her holiday

S 31 Grace took our birthday wreath to Norwood; Father and I went for a little walk; George came up in the evening

September

S 1 First anniversary of Auntie Miria’s death;  we all went to chapel; I went at night; Rev S Hunt, preached; Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to dinner and tea

M 2 Father, Grace and I went to Margate for a fortnight; stayed at Brooklyn House, Ethelbert Crescent

T 3 Very cold; we all went to flag mast in the morning and as far as jetty in the evening; four men of war are anchored opposite

W 4 We all went on the jetty in the morning and spent time after tea on the cliffs at flag mast; weather bright, but cold

T 5 We all walked to the flag mast in the morning and, again, after tea

F 6 Father unwell; went out for a short walk in the afternoon and sat on the front; George joined us here in the evening

S 7 All went on top of a tram to Broadstairs; on front in afternoon; George and I went to the flag mast in the morning and Grace walked with him in the evening; Father better

S 8 We all went to the Wesleyan chapel and spent the rest of the day on the front

M 9 George left us in the morning; we went up towards the flag mast; bright weather now; we all went on jetty after tea; I met Mrs Wood at the station and went to ‘Hereward’ in the evening to see her

T 10 Spent the morning and afternoon on front; met Mrs Wood there in the morning

W 11 Spent the morning on the cliff; went on top of a tram to Ramsgate and back and had tea there; I went to Hereward after supper

T 12 I went for a stroll along the beach in thick sea mist; we all went on the front; Mrs Wood and Mrs Amor came to tea; Father and we went for a walk later

F 13 Spent the morning on the front and afternoon at a concert in the Oval; George and Nellie joined us for the weekend

S 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; we spent the morning and afternoon together on the front; I spent half an hour at Hereward with Mrs Wood

S 15 Six years since our darling mother went from us; we all went to chapel in the morning and spent the rest of the day on the front; I went in to Mrs Wood in the evening for a little

M 16 George returned home in the morning; we all came home in the afternoon, after a happy fortnight at Margate together; found all well at home.

T 17 Poorly

W 18 In bed most of the day; Mrs Wright and Mrs Williamson came to tea and Uncle to tea and dinner

T 19 Mrs Champness (senior) and Miss Carson and Miss Herrick came in to tea

F 20 In bed all day; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Kit and Mrs Herrick came to tea; Father and Grace went for a drive

S 21 In bed most of the day

S 22 Della’s birthday; we all went to chapel; Grace went at night

M 23 Nurse, Bobbie (Cecil) and Theo came to stay whilst Trot moves into her new house; I took the children out in the afternoon

T 24 Grace went to London shopping; Dorothy had tea with the children

W 25 We all went to stone-laying at Wallington chapel; Father laid a stone and I present one of the silver trowels to Mr Williams; Mr and Mrs Foster, George and Nellie, Mr and Mrs Hunt, Mr B Foster, Kitty, Arthur and Fannie and Edie came in to us for meals; went to tea at hall and then we all went to a public meeting at night; collections for the day totalled £265

T 26 Visited Mr Dunn; helped Father pick his apples; called on Mrs Herrick; Mr Herrick called here

F 27 Had my painting lesson in the garden; took children to see Mrs Hay; cousin Ernest came to stay

S 28

S 29 We all went to chapel, except Ernest; I went at night and took the children to the Hays in the afternoon; Rev J Cleave came to dinner

M 30 I spent the day in town shopping

October

T 1 Grace and Bobbie went to Brixton in the afternoon; George came up in the evening

W2 Nurse and the children returned home; grace went to opening of Sutton new chapel; sent off parcel for working girls’ club, Stirling

T 3 Visited old Mr Dunn and Mrs Dyball; sent off parcel to Humane Needlework Society; Ethel’s twenty-third birthday

F 4 Made Father’s cake; had painting lesson; attended class and went to guild social in the evening; Grace went over to Sutton in the afternoon

S 5 Darling Father’s 76th birthday; George and Nellie and Kitty and Arthur came to dinner; Ernest left in the afternoon

S 6 Grace and I went to chapel; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea and supper

M 7 Attended ODFL committee in town; went on to Trot’s to Gladys’ twenty-first birthday dance – 55 guests

T 8 Left Trot’s in the morning and went to the dressmaker’s at Brixton; then to darling Mother’s grave and had tea with Lillie

W 9 Had my painting lesson; Grace had tea over at Uncle’s

T 10 Grace and I went to Croydon in the morning; Father picked his apples and the damsons

F 11 Grace went to a guild lecture

S 12 Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Fannie and Edie in the afternoon; George at night; Father and I went up to see the new chapel

S 13 We all went to chapel; I went out at night; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper

M 14 I had tea at Nellie’s; Fannie and Edie came back to dinner and went with grace to Woodcote lecture

T 15 Father and I picked the rest of our apples; Grace went over to Epsom in the afternoon

W 16 Eva came down to spend the day with us

T 17 Visited Mr Dunn; Grace spent the evening at Bampfylde to meet the Testers; sent parcels of clothing to Mrs Brewer and Adeline Price

F 18

S 19 I had tea with Uncle and Auntie

S 20 I stayed at home with Father; George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Grace went to service this morning

M 21 I took Kitty’s place at mothers’ meeting; Father and Grace went to Croydon

T 22 Called at Kit’s

W 23 Attended painting lesson

T 24 Visited old Mr Dunn; first meeting of whist club at our house; George, Fannie, Edie, Kitty and Arthur came; Father and I went to see the new chapel progressing

F 25 Mrs Taylor spent the day with us; Arthur came to tea

S 26 Agnes came to stay until Monday; Miss Foster came to dinner

S 27 We three went to chapel – too foggy for Father; Arthur came in to supper

M 28 I went up to have tea at Violet’s

T 29 Grace had tea with Kitty; Howard Berry came down unexpectedly to dinner

W 30 Attended 11th painting lesson this term; Grace went to Sutton to Mrs Chandler to tea and opening service at night

T 31 I went to Croydon shopping; Mr and Mrs Foster came to dinner

November

F 1 Grace gave a paper on Schubert, with illustrations, at our church guild meeting; very successful; we could not go to it

S 2 Grace went to a concert in town and then on to see Lillie and Marian

S 3 We all went to chapel; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 4

T 5 Visited Bessie Hay; Grace went to a committee meeting at Sutton

W 6 Attended painting lesson; visited Mrs Dyball; Ray went to Norwood to plant the bulbs on Mother’s grave

T 7 Father ill with asthma, sent for Dr Cressy; kept him in bed; George came in unexpectedly to dinner; grace went to whist club – at Kitty’s

F 8 Father better; I had to go to Croydon in the morning; Kitty came in the afternoon and Mr Herrick in the evening

S 9 Visited Mr Dunn; Trot came over for the day; Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Uncle to tea and dinner; George and Nellie in the evening

S 10 I stayed with Father in the morning; Grace at night; George came in to supper

M 11 Thick fog all day; could not attend ODFL committee meeting; Father came downstairs to tea; Grace went to Woodcote lecture at night

T 12

W 13 Had first painting lesson of new term; altered lessons to once a fortnight

T 14 Grace went over to Uncle’s for tea; Kitty and Mrs Edwards came in the afternoon

F 15 I went to class; Mr Herrick and Mr Cheshire came in to tea

S 16 Called at Mr Dunn’s; George and Mr Antill came down in the evening

S 17 I went to chapel in the morning and Grace at night

M 18 Grace went to Croydon; George came in morning

T 19 Nellie, Fannie, Mrs Stacey and Edie came in to tea; I went to the sewing meeting; Mrs Atkinson called in the morning

W 20 Visited Mr Dunn; Mr Rhodes spent the day with us; George came up at night; Trot’s birthday

T 21 Whist club met at our house – six friends

F 22 I went to guild lecture at public hall; Rev Dinsdale Young on ‘What I saw in America’

S 23

S 24 Grace went chapel in the morning and I at night; Rev S Hunt came to dinner; George and Nellie to tea and supper

M 25 Went into Croydon shopping in the morning

T 26 I went to sewing meeting; Violet sent me a copy of her first book, ‘The New Crusade’

W 27 Attended painting lesson; Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; George and Nellie came in to supper

T 28 Ernest came down to wish goodbye to us all before he went abroad; Grace started German lessons from a master in Wallington

F 29 Grace went to a concert in town at night

S 30 Grace went to Queen’s Hall concert and then on to Agnes Heaton’s to spend the evening

December

S 1 I went to chapel in the morning; Grace at night; George came in to supper

M 2 Visited Mr Dunn; Violet came down to stay the night and gave an address at Carshalton church mother’s meeting and another at night at the Baptist hall

T 3 Violet left in the evening; Mr Foster came up unexpectedly to tea and dinner; George came up at night; Grace went to Croydon in the afternoon

W 4 Grace spent the day at Trot’s

T 5 I went to whist club at Bampfylde; Kitty, Arthur, Mr and Mrs Batty, Mr and Mrs Tester, Miss Tester and Mr Kirkness present

F 6 Grace went to Ashanti Auxiliary meeting with Trot

S 7 Grace went to reunion of old Studley Road members with Trot; Uncle to the chair

S 8 Grace went to chapel in the morning, I went at night; George came up to supper; Hayes’ mother died

M 9 Attended ODFL committee meeting and spent a couple of hours with Mrs Wood on the way home; went to Woodcote lecture at night; Mr Gooch spoke on ‘India’

T 10 George and Nellie came up after dinner

W 11 Attended painting lesson

T 12 Visited Mr Dunn; sent 10/6 worth of things I had made to sale of work for new church

F 13 Nellie and the girls, Kit and Dorothy came in to tea and went to sale with Grace; I went for a short time afterwards; Grace went to a whist drive at Mr Morgan’s

S 14 I went to a whist drive at Mr Morgan’s

S 15 Grace and I went to chapel in the morning; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea and chapel at night; Edie came back with her to supper

M 16 Grace went to Ashanti meeting and spent the day shopping in town; George came in the afternoon

T 17 Went into Croydon in the afternoon to do my shopping

W 18 Grace went to town in the morning to meet Georgie Berry; brought her back in the afternoon; Howard Berry and Arthur Stair came to dinner; Ethel and Gladys spent the day with us; I went to a painting lesson

T 19 Whist club met at our house – George, Nellie, Fannie and Edie, Kit and Arthur, Miss Moore, Maurice, Percy and Bruce Foster

F 20 Grace poorly and in bed part of the day; Father went round the garden, the first time since his illness; I went to a recital of Dickens’ Christmas Carol by Mr Leonard Harris, in Carshalton hall

S 21 Grace went to a whist drive at Mrs Stacey’s

S 22 Grace went to chapel in the morning and I at night; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; George and Nellie to supper; I had tea at Bampfylde

M 23 I took our Xmas wreath to darling Mother’s grave; had tea at Uncle and Auntie’s on my way home

T 24 Took my parcel to Mr Dunn; Pearce came up in the evening to bring good wishes

W 25 A happy day; darling Father so bright and well; Bampfylde friends all here for the day

T 26

F 27 Lass and I went up to Kitty’s before lunch; very cold

S 28 Father in bed with a cold

S 29 Ditto; I went to chapel in the morning; Grace at night

M 30 Nellie and Rene came in to tea

T 31 Grace went into Croydon; Father came downstairs again; George came in the evening

XMAS PARCELS

Mrs Staples: cake, two boxes sweets, butterscotch; bed jacket; ½lb tea

Mr Dunn: came, bottle of sweets, bed socks; ½lb tea

Mr Dunn (junior): cardigan jacket


1908

January

W 1 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; Mr Babister called in the morning; Mr Cheshire came in to tea and supper

T 2 George came in to dinner – Grace went to whist club at Kitty’s; sent of parcel of clothes to Salvation Army

F 3 Visited Mr Dunn; Violet came down in the morning to stay the night and recited at the church guild social at the Presbyterian hall. I went with her; Father much better

S 4 Violet left in the morning

S 5 Bitterly cold, with fog; not well enough to go out; Grace went morning and afternoon; Father well again

M 6 Sent a parcel of clothing to Mrs Price; Mr Sylvester called to see me about a lantern lecture at George Street, Croydon; had a long talk with him about humanitarian league lectures and Bands of Mercy; hope it may lead to the work being started there; wrote Mr E Champness proposing Band of Mercy for Wallington

T 7 Returned whist drive call at Mrs Stacey’s, Sutton; Mr Herrick called

W 8 Attended painting lesson; first fall of snow

T 9 I went up to have tea with Mrs Wood

F 10 Grace spent the day in town with Mrs Taylor; Jim came over in the morning to stay the night

S 11 Jim left in the morning; I had tea with Kitty; George and Nellie came to dinner

S 12 I went to chapel in the morning; Grace at night

M 13 Could not attend ODFL committee; Violet came down for the day and we went to Wallington church mothers’ meeting; violet gave the address; Edie and I went to Woodcote lecture at night – the subject, ‘Corsica, the isle of unrest’ by Mr E Young

T 14 I went up to see Kitty in the morning and found her still very poorly; Violet came down for the day and she and I went to Sutton Wesleyan Band of Hope to give her ‘Horse Lecture’; 140 children present; Mr Foster came to dinner and stayed the evening

W 15 Attended committee of RSPCA in Carshalton parish room; proposed a volume of ‘A World’ be sent to W & C Cabmen’s Shelters Men’s Club and Cottage Hospital; visited Mr Dunn

T 16 Whist club at our house – George, Nellie and the girls and Arthur came; George came to dinner

F 17 In bed all day; Father able to be in the garden; Grace went to a guild lecture at night

S 18 In bed most of the day; twenty-nine years since dear Della went home

S 19 Ditto; Grace went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper

M 20

T 21 Fog all day; Grace went to a musical meeting in town and to Dore Gallery; sent went to a concert here at night

W 22 Went to painting lesson; went up to see Kitty in the afternoon; Grace gave prizes at school meeting in out chapel

T 23 Dreadful fog; Kitty came to tea

F 24

S 25 Marian came in the afternoon to stay over Sunday

S 26 Marian and I went to service in the morning; Grace went with her at night

M 27 I had tea with Nellie

T 28 I went to a whist drive at Mr Champness, Clapham; nine tables – Kitty, Arthur, Fannie, Edie and Mr and Mrs Royston went up as well; Father was in the garden

W 29 Mrs Foster and Kitty came in the morning; George and Nellie in the evening; Mr Cheshire came to lunch and tea.  Grace gave a paper on Schubert at Sutton Guild and went to Miss Harmer’s to dinner; I had tea with Arthur’s mother

T 30 Visited Mr Dunn; Grace went to whist club at Bampfylde

F 31 Grace went over to Uncle’s to tea.

February

S 1

S 2 Grace went to chapel in the morning and I went at night – Communion; George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Aunt Janie’s birthday

M 3 I spent the day in town with Violet; went to the Japanese school of defence, the RSPCA office, Time Book Club and did some shopping; Had tea with Mrs Wood; Trot came over for the day and stayed the night

T 4 Trot left in the afternoon; Mr Herrick called; Maurice and Miss Dundas came to dinner

W 5 Attended painting lesson

T 6 Mr E Champness called to see me about starting a Band of Mercy in connection with the Band of Hope; arranged for inaugural meeting to be held on April 3rd and I wrote to the RSPCA to ask for a speaker; Father went round the garden

F 7 Grace went up to have tea with Mrs Wood; George came in at night

S 8 My birthday; Mr and Mrs Stacey came to tea; George and Nellie came up in the evening

S 9 I went to chapel in the morning, Grace at night; Father poorly, called in Dr Cressy – lung trouble again, but slight; Fannie and Edie came in to supper

M 10 Father a little better; I attended ODFL committee and spent an hour at the Tate Gallery and had tea with cousin Lillie

T 11

W 12 Father better; visited Mr Dunn, found family in great trouble because of a sister’s sad death; Grace went to a lecture here at night; George, Nellie and Arthur came up in the evening; wrote article on stray cats and sent it to the paper

T 13

F 14 Called on Mrs Williamson and Mrs Chandler, found both out; sent parcel of new clothes to Mrs Goodsell; Kit came in the afternoon

S 15 Uncle and Auntie and Maggie Ibbotson spent the day with us; George and Nellie came in to dinner

S 16 Grace went to chapel in the morning and I at night; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea

M 17 Mrs Hay and Olive came to tea; Father better

T 18 Grace spent the day in town at a concert and a musical meeting

W 19 Attended my painting lesson; I walked up to Bampfylde after dinner

T 20 I went to Croydon in the morning; whist club here in the evening; George came to dinner, afterwards Nellie, Fannie, Edie, Kitty and Arthur

F 21 Visited Mr Dunn; went to guild lecture at night – Rev S Hunt

S 22 Still very unwell; Dr Cressy came to see me; Father better again now

S 23 I went to chapel in the morning, Rev R Foster preached; Grace in the evening; George and Nellie came in to tea and supper

M 24

T 25 Mr Mann had tea with us

W 26 I walked up to Mr Foster’s after dinner

T 27 George and Nellie came up to dinner; Nellie kept Father company whilst the rest of us went to whist club at Kitty’s; Fannie and Mr and Mrs Hicks there; Mr Merrick came in to tea

F 28 Kitty and Nellie came in to tea; Kit and I went to class; Mr and Mrs Foster came to dinner and spent the evening with us

S 29 A fall of snow; Grace went to musical meeting, etc in town

March

S 1 Grace went in the morning to chapel, I at night; Heavy snow storm, very cold; Mr Cleave came to tea

M 2 Grace had tea at Mrs Foster’s

T 3 Edie and I went to have tea with Uncle and Auntie

W 4 Attended painting lesson

T 5 Visited Mr Dunn; Grace went to George’s to dinner

F 6 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Grace went to musical guild ant chapel

S 7 Mr Riley came up to see Father in the evening

S 8 I went to chapel in the morning; Grace at night; Rev S Hunt came to dinner and tea

M 9 I attended ODFL committee; spent an hour at the Royal Academy diploma gallery; had tea with Mrs Wood; Maurice came to stay a couple of nights whilst Mr Champness moves into a new house at Wallington

T 10 Raised my sub to RSPCA to one guinea; Ethel came over for the day; Bessie came to see me

W 11 Mr Foster came to lunch; Mr and Mrs Mann to dinner; Maurice left in the morning; Father bright and well again

T 12 Mr Harris called in the afternoon; George came to dinner; whist club at our house – George and the girls, Kitty, Arthur and Maurice came; went down to Mr Dunn to take concert tickets for his son

F 13 Grace and Nellie went over to Beckenham to tea; George has influenza; Maurice came to dinner; Kitty to tea

S 14 Percy and Lawrence called to see me; Fred came to stay over Sunday; Grace went to concert here at night

S 15 Grace and Fred walked to Sutton in the morning; I went to a service at night; Maurice came home with me to supper

M 16 Fred left in the morning; I spent the day over at Trot’s

T 17 We began Spring cleaning; I called to see George and found him much better

W 18 Violet and I took Mrs Wood up to the annual RSPCA meeting at the Criterion restaurant; I went back with them; Grace went to Bach choir concert with Kitty at night

T 19 Grace went to Mrs Mann’s to dinner; I attended painting lesson

F 20 Continued frosty, with a yellow fog

S 21 Uncle came over to tea and dinner; Unwell, still in bed part of the day; been under doctor’s for five weeks now.

S 22 I went to the service in the morning; Grace at night; I had tea with them at Bampfylde

M 23

T 24 Kit and I went to the sewing meeting; Father able to be in the garden again; George came up in the evening, first time since his illness

W 25

T 26 Dark fog all day

F 27 Mabel Oliver motored over from Sidcup to have tea with us

S 28 I went to Croydon in the morning, shopping; Kitty and Miss Foster called

S 29 Grace went to service in the morning; I did not go at all; Violet spent the day with us and, in the afternoon, we went to our school where Violet gave an address on being kind to animals; George and Nellie came to supper

M 30 Grace went to Croydon in the afternoon; Mr Herrick came to tea

T 31 I visited Mr Dunn; Maurice came up in the evening; Nellie and Edie in the afternoon; Cecil’s ninth birthday

April

W 1 Attended my painting lesson; Mr Foster came to lunch and tea; George came up in the evening ; Grace went to Palestine exhibition

T 2 Visited Bessie Hay

F 3 Inaugural meeting of the Wallington Wesleyan Band of Mercy at our chapel; Twenty-nine children present and seven adults; Mr Love came down from the RSPCA to give the address

S 4 George and Nellie came to tea and dinner

S 5 I went to chapel in the morning and Grace at night; Mr Champness called in the afternoon

M 6 Attended ODFL committee; called at RSPCA office; spent an hour in the National Gallery; went on to dressmaker and had tea with Mrs Wood

T 7 Workmen came in; Kit called in the afternoon

W 8 Collected for the RSPCA; workmen finished

T 9 George came in to dinner; Mrs Dawe called

F 10 Went to Band of Mercy meeting; joined Wallington Wesleyan Band of Mercy; stayed on to guild meeting

S 11 Grace went to Norwood to Lillie’s for tea and a concert at night; Mr Mann and Jackie came to tea

S 12 Grace went to chapel in the morning; I went at night; Fannie and Edie came to tea; George and Nellie to supper

M 13

T 14 Grace went to a concert in town with Marian; Maurice came in the evening; still very cold

W 15 Attended painting lesson; Kitty and I called on Mrs Foster; finished Spring cleaning

T 16 Grace poorly; George and Nellie went to Folkestone

F 17 Grace still poorly; Edie and Rene came up in the evening; I took Father up to see the new chapel; first time he has been for a walk for seven months

S 18 Visited Mr Dunn and Mrs Pearce; Kitty, Arthur and Miss Mullins came to dinner

S 19 I went to service in the morning, Grace at night; snow showers and very cold

M 20 Bitterly cold, snow storms during the day; did not go out; Grace better again and Father very well

T 21

W 22 Trot, Jim, Cecil and Theo came over to stay the night; I called at Bampfylde

T 23 I took the children out in the morning; Trot and all of them left after tea; Grace went up to Kitty’s to supper; snow and sleet

F 24 Visited Mr Dunn; attended Band of Mercy meeting; heavy snow storm last night; George and Nellie came back from Folkestone yester and came down to see us tonight

S 25 Uncle came over in the afternoon; Rev and Mrs Cleave came to dinner as well; the worst snow storm we have had all winter; bitterly cold

S 26 Grace went to chapel in the morning, I at night; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came to supper

M 27 I went up to tea at Violet’s

T 28 Hayes and Morris gave us notice, the former leaves to be married, the latter to live nearer her parents; both been with us over six years; went to see Mr Dunn, who is dying and asked for me

W 29 Went to my painting lesson; commenced water colour; Grace had tea at Beckenham

T 30 Poorly, in bed most of the day; Mr Foster came to tea; I went up to Bampfylde at night; old Mr Dunn passed away

May

F 1 Went down to see Miss Dunn; Rev and Mrs Hunt came to dinner; very hot day; I went to Croydon with Father

S 2

S 3 I went to chapel in the morning, Grace at night; Mr Cleave came to dinner and tea; George to supper

M 4 Grace went to Mrs Atkinson

T 5 Went to see Mr McHardy about my eyes, Violet went with me; had lunch together at the Cabin; I went to the royal gallery of British artists and then to Mother’s grave and had tea with Lillie and Marian

W 6

T 7 Called at Kit’s; Father and I went up to see the new chapel; weather lovely

F 8 Collected for the RSPCA; called at Bampfylde and at Bessie’s; Arthur came to dinner

S 9 Mr Cheshire came in to supper and Rev A Martin came to stay till Monday and preached twice on Sunday

S 10 Grace went to chapel in the morning and I went at night

M 11 Attended ODFL committee; went to a concert after at Queen’s Hall – violin, Ysaye; piano, Pugno – Mozart, Schumann and Bach sonatas; Mr Foster came to lunch and dinner and Mrs Atkinson called

T 12

W 13 Attended first lesson of new term painting; Gladys and Theo came to stay; Gladys and I went to Bessie’s in the evening

T 14 Children left after tea

F 15

S 16

S 17 I went to chapel in the morning, Grace at night; George and Nellie came to supper; very hot

M 18 Grace went to a concert at Queen’s Hall; glorious weather; Father in garden all day

T 19 I went over to Uncle’s for tea; Father and Grace went, on top of a tram, to Purley and back

W 20 Went to Royal Academy with Miss Moore and her pupils; Father and Grace went to Bampfylde in the afternoon; Percy and George came up in the evening

T 21

F 22 Violet spent the day with us; we went up to see Nellie in the afternoon; Bessie came to see me

S 23 Uncle spent the day with us; Mr Champness and Mr Antill called; Mrs Day came to tea; Father very well

S 24 Father went to chapel with us; had such a hearty welcome; George and Nellie came to supper; Grace went to Kit’s for tea

M 25 Grace and I went into Croydon shopping; I went to help with a jumble sale at Mill Lane; Maurice came in after dinner

T 26

W 27 Attended annual business meeting of ODFL and then went to the Tate Gallery; had tea with Mrs Wood; Father and Grace went for a two hours’ drive

T 28 Collected for the RSPCA

F 29 Grace went to a concert in town with Edie

S 30 I went to Croydon for Father; we had a tennis party to tea and supper; Edie and Jim Stacey, Fannie and Edie, Percy and Olive Champness; George and Mr Newcombe came in after supper

S 31 We all went to chapel in the morning and Grace also went at night; Mr Herrick came to supper

June

M 1 Grace spent the day over at Trot’s; heat intense – 135° in London

T 2 Grace went to town; Father and I walked up to the new chapel; Mr Foster came to dinner and Mrs Foster came in afterwards; a thunder storm at night

W 3 Went to my painting lesson; collected for the RSPCA; Derby Day

T 4 Hayes left us to be married, after six and a half years’ service; Beatrice came in her place; another heavy storm

F 5 Collected in the afternoon and called at Nellie’s; Kit came to dinner; Arthur and Mr Cheshire afterwards

S 6 George came in to tea; I went to tennis and supper at Bampfylde and met Mr and Mrs Frank and Kitty and Arthur there

S 7 We all went to services; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea and supper; Mr Cleave came in to tea

M 8 Father and grace and I went to Bampfylde to tea; Grace stayed to supper; we met Mr and MRs F Williams and Mrs Tester there

T 9

W 10 Collected for RSPCA; called on Miss Dunn

T 11 Grace went to Folkestone for the day to try and engage rooms for us; George and Maurice came in; Father walked up to the new chapel

F 12 Mrs Gilchrist, Ellen and James spent the day with us; had a happy day all together; called at Bampfylde and collected at night

S 13 I went to Croydon in the morning

S 14 We all went to service; Mr Hunt came to tea; George and Nellie to supper; I went to chapel at night

M 15 I went to town to meet Mrs Gilchrist, Ellen and James; we had lunch and ta together and went to the new gallery in Regent Street and also to Hyde Park; Maurice came in at night

T 16 Kit’s birthday; Grace went to town for the day; Uncle came over to lunch and tea

W 17 Attended my painting lesson; first try at flowers from nature in watercolour; Grace went to a concert in town

T 18 Violet’s birthday; I went to Croydon with Father in the morning and to Bampfylde after tea; Mrs Williamson and Queenie Wright came to tea; Kit and Arthur to dinner.  Fannie, Edie, George and Maurice to say goodbye in the evening

F 19 Father, Grace and I came to Folkestone to stay at the Langhorne hotel, the Leas, for a fortnight

S 20 Spent morning and afternoon on the front

S 21 We drove to Shorncliffe camp and saw the march past of troops; could not get in to the service; sat by the sea in the afternoon; I went on the beach at night

M 22 Spent the morning on the front; afternoon on the pier

T 23 Went to the harbour to see Mr and Mrs Hunt off for Boulogne, went to Hythe and Sandgate; I sketched on the beach

W 24 Spent the morning on the front and afternoon on the pier; I went for a stroll along the Leas at night

T 25 Spent the morning on the beach and front; George came down unexpectedly for half a day; we all went, by motor, to Sandgate and had tea and went on to Hythe by tram, back the same way

F 26 Out most of the day

S 27 Ditto

S 28 We all went to Christ Church in the morning

M 29 We went for a drive in a taxi cab round the foot of the Downs – time, forty minutes, charge 7/3d

T 30 Out all day

July

W 1 We drove to Sandgate and Hythe in landau

T 2 We went for an hour and a half’s drive in a landau; Jim’s seventeenth birthday

F 3 We came home after a very enjoyable fortnight by the sea

S 4

S 5 We all went to service; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came to supper; Mr Cheshire to tea and supper

M 6 Ethel and Arthur came over to dinner; Hayes was married

T 7 Aunt Hannah and Della came up to stay

W 8

T 9 Ethel’s wedding day; Grace and I went over early in the morning, returning home in the evening; 150 guests and seven bridesmaids; sunshine

F 10 Della and I went up to see Kitty; Bessie came to tea

S 11

S 12 Animal Sunday – Grace, Della and I went to chapel; Della and I again at night

M 13 ODFL – did not go; made Grace’s cake in the morning; took Della to Croydon in the afternoon; George came up at night

T 14 Grace and Della went to Croydon and to Orchard Leigh in the afternoon

W 15 Grace’s birthday; she and Della spent the day at the exhibition; George came in to dinner

T 16 Aunt Hannah’s birthday – seventy-two; Trot and Gladys came over for the day; Kitty came in to ta

F 17 Grace and Della went into Croydon

S 18

S 19 Grace, Della and I went to chapel – Della and I went again at night; George and Nellie came to supper; Mr and Mrs Henman to tea

M 20 Father, Auntie, Della and I went for a drive

T 21 Auntie and Della left; I went to Band of Mercy meeting in Sidcup; called on Mrs Oliver; Gilbert, Dr Crombie; Mrs Price, Mrs Brewer and Mrs West; returned in the evening

W 22 Attended my painting lesson; Grace went to Uncle’s to tea

T 23 Parton spent the day with us; Mr Herrick and Rene came in to tea

F 24 Father and I went to Bampfylde in the afternoon; I went to Kit’s after dinner

S 25 Aunt Lissie came to stay, also Parton; Uncle and Auntie came over for the day

S 26 We all went to chapel and Grace again at night; Parton preached in the morning and left us in the evening; George and Nellie came to supper

M 27

T 28 Grace went to Ethel’s first ‘At Home’ at Clarence Gate Gardens; Father, Auntie and I went for an hour and a half’s drive; Father and I went for a short walk

W 29 Went to Ethel’s ‘At Home’ and had tea with Mrs Wood and Violet

T 30 Morris left us after six and a half years’ service; Ellen came in her place; Father, Auntie and I went to Croydon to see Bessie

F 31 Aunt Lissie and I had tea with Lillie and Marian; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Mr and Mrs Hunt called

August

S 1 Marian came to stay over Sunday

S 2 We all went to chapel and Marian and I at night; Mr Hunt came to tea; George and Nellie, Rene and Arthur to supper

M 3 Marian left in the morning; we all went to Nellie’s to tea and I stayed to dinner and Rene and I went to the horse and flower show

T 4 I called on the Dunns; Maurice and Connie came in after dinner

W 5 Went to painting lesson

T 6

F 7 Father and I went up to see the new chapel; Inspector Oxley called to see me; I went to see Comyns about lethal chamber and also wrote to Miss Adams

S 8 Cousin Lillie came to stay a day or two

S 9 I went to chapel in the morning, Grace at night

M 10 Lillie left in the morning; I called at Mr Foster’s in the evening

T 11 Uncle came over to tea and dinner

W 12 Aunt Lissie left

T 13 Grace went to Norwood

F 14 Father and Grace went to Beckenham for the day; I went to Brixton shopping and had tea at Mrs Wood

S 15 Mrs Gilchrist came down after lunch and spent the day with us

S 16 We all went to chapel and I went again at night; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea and George and Nellie came back to supper; also Mr Cheshire; Mr Hunt and Jackie came to tea

M 17

T 18 I went to Wesleyan Band of Mercy committee meeting and was selected a member of the same

W 19 Father and I went over to Trot’s by taxi cab from Victoria to stay; Ethel and Arthur came to dinner to meet us

T 20 Wet day; Gladys, Jim and the children and I went to the village sports in the afternoon – and got very wet

F 21 Trot and Gladys drove us back to Victoria in their carriage; we called at Ethel’s flat on the way and had tea there

S 22 George and Nellie came in to dinner

S 23 Very wet day; Grace went to chapel in the morning

M 24 Violet and I spent the day at the great exhibition and stayed to see the illuminations; she returned with me at night; we went on the scenic railway, flip-flap; haunted house; electric launch; in a rickshaw; to the Irish village; Old London, Daily Mail, etc

T 25 Gladys and Jim came to stay; Violet went home at night; Violet and I went to Croydon in the morning

W 26 Gladys and I went to Croydon in the morning; she went home again in the evening

T 27

F 28 Jim went home in the evening

S 29 I went to darling Mother’s grave

S 30 We all went to chapel in the morning; Grace Bampfylde to supper

M 31 Gales

September

T 1 Ditto; Grace went to Violet’s for tea

W 2 Grace went into Croydon in the morning; I had tea with George and Nellie

T 3

F 4 I came to Cove; left Euston at 10am and arrived at Glasgow at 6pm; Grace saw me off in London; Ellen met me in Glasgow and we took the train from Queen’s Street to Craigendoran and steamer to Kilcreggan; drive of three miles – a glorious moonlit night; we much enjoyed the sail on the loch.

S 5 Pouring with rain all day and did not go out; Miss Anderson and Miss MacEwan spent the evening at Woodside

S 6 We all went to church; Rev H Simpson preached and again at night; Ellen and I called at the manse; very wet all day; cleared at night and Mr Gilchrist, George and Bob, Arthur and I had a lovely walk home

M 7 Another very wet day; Ellen and I went to Mrs Anderson’s after dinner to spend the evening – games and music

T 8 A very wet day; went for a short walk in the morning; friends came in the evening – Miss Anderson, Mr and Mrs Tom, Rev H Simpson, Miss Stewart, etc; played ping pong – American tournament; had a jolly evening

W 9 Cold but fine part of the day; Ellen and I went, by steamer, to Gourock and then took a train to Skelmorlie, where we had lunch with Mrs Gow-Smith; she drove up to Largs – 6 miles – and then back to the station; we took the train to Greenock, went for a walk there and then a train and steamer to Kilcreggan and drive home

T 10 Lovely day but cold wind; Ellen and I went for a long walk over the hills in the morning; in the afternoon, we drove with Mrs Gilchrist to Roseneath; Ellen, James and I went for a moonlight walk.

F 11 We drove to Roseneath in the morning; eight friends came in to tennis in the afternoon; James, Ellen and I went for a walk at night; Miss Scott went with us to Roseneath

S 12 A lovely day; in the morning, Ellen and I walked to Cove village, the bowling green and tennis courts, round the golf links and then home; in the afternoon James, Ellen and I went to Miss Templeton’s, Knockderry Castle, for tennis

S 13 We went to church in the morning and again at night – a fine day; fine sermon in the morning from John VIII, v 1 – 11; Mr Gilchrist, Arthur, James and I had a lovely walk home from the church

M 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; I went for a stroll to Cove village in the morning; we drove to Roseneath in the afternoon; came on very wet again

T 15 Seven years today since our darling went from us; I went out alone early; as I stood on the shore, a rainbow shone out overhead – glorious scenery; Ellen and I went for a long walk over the hills; in the afternoon, we sat in the garden – I lingered by the burn; a perfect day, showers and sunshine; Mr Howden called

W 16 I went for an hour’s walk after breakfast; came on very wet all day, so could not go out again; Mr James Wiley came in after dinner and spent the evening with us

T 17 Ellen left for Melrose; I drove to Kilcreggan with her and saw her off and then went for a long stroll alone to Knockderry castle – got caught in the pouring rain; went as far as Cove pier in the afternoon

F 18 Very went – half an hour’s walk in the morning only; played billiards with Mr Gilchrist in both the morning and afternoon; pouring all day

S 19 I left Cove by the 7.45 boat, with Arthur and Bob – Mr Wiley joined us; crossed to Gourock, train to Glasgow Central; Arthur saw me off for Airdrie, where Parton met me; got to Fannie’s by 11am; Parton, Hilda and I went for a walk in the afternoon.

S 20 We all went to chapel in the morning and again at night; Parton preached twice; damp day, raining

M 21 Fannie and I went for a long walk round Airdrie in the morning; Mr Bob Lang came in at night

T 22 I left Airdrie by the 8.15am train; Parton came with me to Glasgow and we spent an hour looking at the shops; I left Central station by 10am train for Euston; arrived home at 8.30pm and found all well

W 23 Auntie and Uncle came over for the day; the new chapel opened at Wallington; Father went with us to both services; President, Rev Scott Lidgett, preached in afternoon and came up to tea with us as did Rev Goudie, Rev and Mrs Hunt; Mr Champness took the chair in the evening – collections for the day were £332

T  24 Mr Herrick called

F 25 I called at Bampfylde

S 26 Inspector Manners called to see me respecting a case of cruelty to dogs; I called Miss Adams and paid in £4/6/6 to the local branch of the RSPCA; Mr Cullingford called to see me about a lantern lecture for Croydon

S 27 Opening services – we all went in the morning and Grace at night; Rev F MacDonald preached an excellent sermon; first Sunday in our new chapel; George, Nellie and Edie came to supper

M 28

T 29

W 30 Had a painting lesson; went to a service at night

October

T 1 Had a painting lesson outdoors

F 2 Grace poorly; sent for Dr Cressy – a chill; Eva and Mabel came down for the day

S 3 Grace in bed but better; George and Nellie came up in the evening; Ethel’s birthday

S 4 Grace came downstairs; George and Nellie came to supper; Father and I went to service – a beautiful sermon from Dr Barber on the vision of Isaiah; I  went again at night; Aunt Miriam’s birthday

M 5 Darling Father’s 77nd birthday; looking well and very happy; George and Nellie came to dinner

T 6 Grace went out for the first time since her chill; I went to East Croydon to meet Aunt Janie, who has come to stay for a fortnight; Inspector Manners called to see me regarding a case of cruelty to goats

W 7 I went to service at night – Rev Wiseman lectured on John Wesley’s hymn book; Gladys 22nd birthday; Daisy called

T 8 Nell MacAulay spent the day with us; Kit came in the afternoon; took pudding down to Mr Dunn

F 9 Grace went over to Trot’s to stay the night; Uncle came to lunch and tea; Bessie came to see me

S 10 Grace got home to lunch and went to Orchard Leigh to tea and dinner; Mrs Chandler called

S 11 We all went to chapel; Rev Waterhouse preached opening services; I went again at night; George and Nellie and Mr and Mrs Robinson came to supper

M 12 Violet came down for the day and also Ethel; first Band of Mercy meeting of session at our new chapel; Violet gave the address; Mr Cecil Amor followed with ‘Conjuring entertainment’; full meeting; George and Mr Robinson came in the evening; Father, Auntie, Grace and Ethel went for a drive

T 13 Father, Auntie and I went up to the new chapel

W 14 Had painting lesson; Grace went to a lecture at the chapel

T 15 Ellen unwell, sent for Dr Cressy; said mild attack of appendicitis; must keep her in bed a week; I had tea with Mrs Wood

F 16 Father, Auntie and I went for a drive; roses still in bloom, the glorious weather continues

S 17 Edie ill, went to see her in the morning; Grace went to a concert at Queen’s Hall

S 18 We all went to chapel; Grace went at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 19 So poorly, I had to go to bed after tea

T 20 Uncle came over to lunch and took Aunt Janie home with him for a visit

W 21 Mr Cheshire came to dinner

T 22 Poorly

F 23 In bed all day

S 24 Ellen came down for the first time; Mrs Cropper and her daughter called; RSPCA committee meeting at the old rectory; too unwell go to, wrote letter giving suggestions

S 25 Not well enough to go out; too cold for Father; Grace went to church in the morning and evening; Mr Hunt came to supper

M 26 Grace went to a meeting; Ray planted our grave with hyacinths bulbs

T 27

W 28 Went out for the first time in eleven days; attended painting lesson

T 29 I had tea with Uncle and Auntie, Aunt Janie, Maggie and Winnie were there; Mr Foster had dinner here; Bruce and Percy came in the evening; Nellie and Fannie in the afternoon

F 30 Called to see Bessie; Grace gave a paper at our guild with music and illustrations; Percy called

S 31 I had tea at Kitty’s

November

S 1 Poorly, stayed in bed till dinner; Grace went to service in the morning and I at night; Mr Hunt came to dinner and tea; George and Nellie to supper

M 2 I went to ODFL committee in town; spent a short time in the Tate Gallery and Westminster Cathedral; got home to early tea; Violet came for the day – she and I went to St George’s Mission in Croydon at night where Violet gave her dog lecture

T 3 Grace spent the day in town

W 4 I went to a social at our church

T 5 In bed part of the day; Mrs Hay and Bessie came to tea; Fannie and Edie to dinner; Grace went to committee meeting in Sutton

F 6 Visited the Dunns and took them to the working men’s club; Grace went to a concert at night

S 7 Agnes came to stay over Sunday

S 8 We all went to chapel in the morning, first Sacrament in the new church; Grace and Agnes went at night; a bitter east wind

M 9 ODFL lecture in connection with Wallington Band of Mercy; Miss King came to dinner; Grace took my place at the meeting as I was too unwell to go

T 10 In bed all day

W 11 Dr Cressy came to see me – says I have to stay in bed for a week

T 12 A week of lovely weather

F 13

S 14

S 15 Took in stray kitten

M 16

T 17 Came down for a little time; found home for stray kitten with Bessie Hay

W 18 Came down on to couch; Grace went to town

T 19 Mr Herrick called

F 20 Trot’s birthday – 49; Paul’s birthday – 25

S 21 Went out for the first time; Grace went to Bampfylde to dinner

S 22 In bed all morning; Grace went to a service; I went at night; Mr Champness came to supper; Father very well

M 23 Mr Foster called; Grace went over to Uncle’s to tea

T 24 Sent parcels of clothing to Mrs Brewer and Mrs Staples

W 25 Father in the garden most of the morning having his tree cut; Grace went over to Purley

T 26 Lord’s rejected the Licensing Bill

F 27 Violet came over for the day; Mr and Mrs Cheshire and Mrs Chandler came to dinner

S 28 Fred came down by late train to stay over Sunday

S 29 Grace, Fred and I went to chapel; George and Nellie came to supper

M 30 Fred left early; I went into Croydon to a Band of Mercy meeting but came home as unwell; Father in the garden having new rose trees planted

December

T 1 Grace spent the day in London at a musical evening and shopping

W 2 Took motor up to Kitty’s called to see Rene

T 3 Ethel and Arthur came over to see us and to stay the night; Mr Herrick called; Dr Cressy still attending me

F 4 Ethel left after lunch; Uncle and Auntie came over for the day; Grace had dinner at Bampfylde

S 5 Called on Mrs Woodruff, Mr Champness and Miss Moore; Grace went into Croydon

S 6 Not able to go out; Grace went to chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper

M 7 Mr Hunt came to tea and dinner and gave an address at the Band of Mercy meeting; I went with him; ODFL committee in town but too unwell to go

T 8

W 9 Attended painting lesson in the new studio; Fannie and Mr Tester came in after dinner; Mrs Stacey came to tea

T 10 Mrs Mann came in to tea; Mr and Mrs Tester came to dinner

F 11 Grace spent the day in town; I made Xmas cake; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner

S 12 Mr Stacey and Edith came to tea

S 13 Grace and I went to chapel; Grace went at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 14

T 15 Grace went over to Lillie’s

W 16 Attended painting lesson; Grace went to Croydon

T 17 Grace went to Ashanti meeting; Trot and Gladys came over afterwards to stay the night; Gladys and I called at Bessie’s, Percy and Bessie came up in the evening

F 18 Trot and Gladys left early; I spent the day in town shopping; went to RSBA sketch exhibition

S 19

S 20 Grace and I went to chapel; Mr and Mrs Herrick came to supper; Fannie’s birthday

M 21 I went to Brixton shopping and had tea with Mrs Wood

T 22 Grace went to Norwood and took our Xmas wreath; Sent off Mrs Staples’ Xmas parcel

W 23 Aunt Miriam came over to tea and dinner; also Mr Cheshire; took in stray cat

T 24 Took Mr Dunn’s (blind man) Xmas parcel to him and also Mrs Pearce’s

F 25 Had a happy day all together; Marian and Agnes came in the morning to stay; George, Nellie and the girls spent the day with us; darling Father bright and well able to enjoy the games with us

S 26 Marian left in the afternoon; Mr Champness and Charlie called in the morning; Ellen and Beatrice had a day’s holiday

S 27 We went to chapel in the morning; Grace and Agnes walked to Sutton at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 28 Grace and Agnes went for a ten mile walk; George, Nellie and the girls came up in the afternoon; I went to a Band of Mercy meeting – a lantern lecture on ‘The Cat’ by Miss Fulbrook; Beatrice took my stray cat to a good home.

T 29 Agnes left; very heavy snow storm; Grace went to a musical dinner in town with Miss Craig; Heard that Uncle Charles had had an accident, seriously injuring one eye; heaviest snow storm for 28 years

W 30 Uncle had his eye removed; Grace went over in the afternoon and found all going on well; 20 degrees of frost; cold intense

T 31 Rapid thaw; gave Miss Dunn a parcel of blouses


1909

January

F 1 Break in the weather, snow gone; I went over to enquire after Uncle and found him going on well; went to a social at chapel in the evening; Mr and Mrs Hunt called

S 2 Grace had dinner at Bampfylde

S 3 Grace went to service in the morning, I at night and both to Covenant service; Rene kept Father company; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 4 Attended ODFL committee; went to darling Mother’s grave and had tea with Lillie; took bundle of Strand magazines to Cabman’s shelter

T 5 Grace went to Sutton for the afternoon; am still feeling very poorly

W 6 Father was round the garden; called on the Dunns and had dinner at Bampfylde

T 7 Called on Bessie, also Mrs Ellis (poor woman) but did not see her; sent Miss Craig advice about her cat; George and Nellie came to dinner

F 8 I went up to see Kitty in morning; Bessie called; Mrs Stacey had tea with us; Grace went over to see Uncle; too cold for Father to go out; had sweep n dining room; I went to guild lecture on ‘Browning’ by Mr Mornay

S 9 Did not go out all day

S 10 Grace and I went to chapel – Grace again at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 11 Father able to go in the garden; I called at Champness’ found them out; Grace went to Woodcote lecture

T 12 Did not go out; still feeling poorly; Father in the garden

W 13 In bed part of the day; Grace went to Mrs Foster’s to tea and to a church meeting at night

T 14 Mrs Taylor and Freda spent the day with us, a farewell visit

F 15 I went to Trot’s for the day and night; we went over Ethel’s new house at Old Southgate; the girls and Jim were away

S 16 I left after lunch and went to Beckenham to have tea with Uncle and Auntie and then home

S 17 Father had a bilious attack; Grace went to church in the morning, I at night; Kit, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 18 Band of Mercy meeting, lantern lecture – hall full but Mr Rendell did not come so meeting could not be held; Father unwell

T 19 Violet came down for the day and spoke at meeting at night; I spent the evening at Captain Brenner’s social gathering of Band of Hope workers

W 20 Grace spent the day in town with Mrs Taylor and went to see ‘Henry V’; Father better

T 21 Very foggy; Kit came to tea

F 22 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; I went to guild lecture on Italy by the Rev Foster

S 23 I went into Croydon shopping

S 24 Both Grace and I went to chapel; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came to supper

M 25 Fog

T 26 Ditto; sent parcel of warm clothes to Mrs Price; Miss Moore called

W 27 Dreadful fog; Grace went to social at chapel; sent parcel of warm clothes to Mrs Price

T 28 Awful fog and severe frost continues

W 29 Fog cleared; severe hoar frost; Fannie and Mr Tester came to dinner; Miss Foster and Daisy Champness called

F 30 Went up to see Kitty; Fred came down to stay Sunday with us

S 31 We went to chapel in the morning; Miss Moore, George and Nellie came in to tea and the latter stayed to supper

February

M 1 Fred left; I went to Band of Hope and Mercy play night; Fannie came up in the evening to tell us of her engagement; Bobbie (Cecil) went to boarding school

T 2 Attended the Grand Council of ODFL in the afternoon; went to the National Gallery and saw the new collection of Turner’s paintings; had tea with Mrs Wood; Aunt Janie’s birthday

W 3 Had my painting lesson at home; Grace went to Croydon

T 4 Grace went over to Beckenham to tea; I called at Mr Dunn’s; Father was able to be in the garden

F 5 Mr Herrick called; Mr Cheshire came to tea; Father in the garden

S 6 Grace went to spend the evening at Lillie’s, to meet friends; Ellen wen to Homerton Hospital to have an operation for appendicitis;

S 7 We went to chapel in the morning; Grace went to Sutton at night; Edie and Rene came to tea and supper; Mr and Mrs Pearce came up; Father in the garden

M 8 My birthday; Band of Mercy meeting, Rev Herrick gave the address on kindness to animals; George came up in the evening

T 9 Grace went up to Trot’s for the day

W 10 I went to Cruft’s dog show at Agricultural Hall with Trot

T 11 I went to a students’ dance at St Michael’s parish hall

F 12 Bitterly cold; did not go out

S 14 In with a cold

S 15 In bed all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 16 In bed all day; ODFL lantern lecture at Baptist hall, Grace took my place for me; Father in the garden

T 16 Got up to lunch; Grace spent the day in town; Mr Foster and Kitty called

W 17 George came in to dinner

T 18 Grace went to town shopping

F 19 Visited Bessie; Grace went to a lecture at night; Father in the garden; sever frost but bright

S 20

S 21 I went to chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 22 Fog; Grace in with a cold

T 23 Trot held ODFL drawing room meeting and undertook to start a branch at Southgate; eight present, a collection of £3/16/0d; five members joined; Mr Coke and Mrs Bradshaw spoke – a capital meeting; I returned home at night

W 24 Had my painting lesson, first of new term; went down to the Dunn’s; George came to dinner

T 25 Intensely cold; snow showers; Grace still in with a cold; Miss Moore called

F 26 Annual Sidcup Band of Mercy meeting; could not go; great success (snow) and hall crowded

S 27

S 28 Grace and I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper; Grace had tea at Bampfylde; heavy snow storm

March

M 1 Snow storm continues

T 2 I went to ODFL committee and also to the winter exhibition at the Royal Academy; did some shopping; George came to dinner; heavy snow storm at night

W 3 Continued very heavy snow storm, lying very deep

T 4 Ditto; Grace and tea with Uncle and Auntie

F 5 Mr Hunt came to dinner; Grace went with him to a lecture at night

S 6 Driving snow and sleet

S 7 Grace and I went to chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper

M 8 I went to Miss Molyneux and had tea with Mrs Wood in their new home at 18 Jeffreys Road; lovely day, the snow nearly gone

T 9 Grace spent the day in town and went to a concert with Mrs Taylor; snow in the morning

W 10 Called on Mr Foster and Mrs Brenner

T 11 Mr Herrick called; Grace went to Sutton

F 12 George and Mr Chaffer came in the evening

S 13 Grace spent the day in town at a concert, etc with Marian; Mrs Knight called; not been out since Wednesday, very cold

S 14 Snow; Grace went to chapel in the morning and at night; I did not go out

M 15 Had my painting lesson at home; Trot came over in the morning to stay the night

T 16 Trot left in the afternoon

W 17 I went up to Violet’s; she and Mrs Wood both ill in bed, so stayed a while to help them; Jim came home from his six month’s stay in Normandy

T 18 Dot comes to London to begin work at Kensington branch of GSO

F 19 Fannie and Edie came up after dinner to play whist; I had tea at Uncle’s and found Lillie there; Ellen came back to us after her six weeks’ absence

S 20 Grace had two teeth our under gas; I went with her; Spring day; Father in the garden

S 21 Both went to chapel in the morning and I went again at night; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 22 Went to be fitted at dressmaker in Brixton; had tea with Violet and found her downstairs and Mrs Wood very ill

T 23 I went up to see Mr Cheshire, found him better and played chess with him; Grace went to a concert in town at night

W 24 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us

T 25 Gladys and Jim came over in the morning to stay

F 26 They left in the evening

S 27 Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Beatrice (cook) had to leave us suddenly after ten months; been ill for some time on and off; our students’ exhibition – I sent in four flower studies from nature

S 28 Grace went to chapel in the morning, I at night; called to see Bessie; George and Nellie came to supper

M 29 We started Spring cleaning; Mrs Pearce came up to help; lovely Spring day

T 30 Violet and I went to the annual RSPCA meeting in the Criterion restaurant; speaker were Sir William Scott, S F Banbury; Lady Churchill, etc

S 31 Cecil’s 10th birthday

April

T 1 Grace spent the day in town, shopping

F 2

S 3 Painters began doing the outside of the house;

S 4 We both went to service in the morning and I again at night; Stainer’s Crucifixion was sung by the choir; Mr Cleave came to dinner and George and Nellie to tea and supper

M 5 I attended ODFL committee and went to the Royal Society of British Artists’ exhibition; went to dressmaker’s in Brixton and had tea with Mrs Wood

T 6 Grace went to St Paul’s to hear Passion music; Mr Foster came to dinner; George, Mr Bruce Foster, Percy and Bessie came in the evening; glorious weather

W 7 I went to Wallington parish church to hear Passion music

T 8 Fannie and Edie came up after dinner

F 9 A lovely summer’s day; Father was in the garden most of the day; I went to a service in the morning; Nellie came in the afternoon, George in the evening

S 10 Men finished painting the outside of the house; Father and I drove up to George’s and spent an hour with them; first outing of Father’s since the autumn; Jack’s birthday

S 11 I went to service in the morning and took the plate at the door; Grace went at night; Arthur came in the morning and George and Nellie to supper

M 12 Spring cleaning all day;

T 13 Men came into the house and began the staircase

W 14

T 15 Uncle Walker died after a short illness; I went to see Nellie and found her ill in bed

F 16

S 17

S 18 We both went to chapel in the morning, I at night; George and Mrs Morgan and Mr Bruce Foster came in in the evening

M 19

T 20 Uncle Walker’s funeral; workmen finished in the house

W 21

T 22 I went to see Nellie

F 23

S 24 Called at Bessie’s; painted and made £2/15/3d worth of things for our bazaar

S 25 I went to chapel in the morning, Grace at night; Mr and Mrs Hendon came to tea

M 26

T 27 1st day of our bazaar, Grace took part on stall; I took Father up to the opening; Gladys and Bobbie came over to stay the night; I went to Croydon for Father in the morning

W 28 I served all day on the stall and too £3/3/9d; Gladys and Bobbie left after lunch

T 29 Grace went to the bazaar in the afternoon, I in the evening; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

F 30 I went to see Sir Anderson Critchett about my eyes – 21 Harley Street; Lass ill

May

S 1 Lass still ill

S 2 We both went to chapel in the morning; Grace went to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came back to supper

M 3 Kitty and I had dinner at Mrs Chandler’s

T 4 Attended grand council of ODFL; went to Tate Gallery and on to darling Mother’s grace and then to see Lillie

W 5 I sent in my resignation to ODFL general purposes committee; Ellen Walker, a new cook, came in; Arthur, Edie and Fannie came up in the evening

T 6 Sent parcels of clothes to Mrs Price, Mrs Brewer and Miss Dunn

F 7

S 8 Ellen Gilchrist came to stay – I met her at Euston

S 9 We went to chapel in the morning, Ellen and I at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 10 Father, Ellen and I went for a two hour’s drive; in the afternoon, Grace took Ellen to the park – drove there and walked back

T 11 Grace and Ellen spent the day in town

W 12 Ellen and I went over to Trot’s and stayed the night; we drove to South Lodge to see Bobbie after lunch

T 13 We left Trot’s early and went to the Royal Academy and then took a taxi to Bermondsey and had tea with Dr and Mrs Stirling (junior); got home about 8pm

F 14 Ellen and I had tea at Bampfylde

S 15 Ellen left us; Grace went to Euston to see her off; Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; George and Nellie came to tea and supper; very cold again

S 16 We both went to service in the morning, Grace at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 17 Had my painting lesson;

T  18

W 19 Grace went to Purley and to a chapel meeting at night; I took Father for a little walk – a perfect day

T 20 Grace and I went into Croydon in the morning; we all went for a drive in the afternoon; I collected for the RSPCA

F 21 Trot, Theo and nurse came over and stayed the night

S  22 Trot left early; Grace took Father up to Mr Champness and I went to the Royal Watercolour Institute and to a lecture with Violet by Mr Elliott O’Donnell on ‘Future life of animals’; went over the animal hospital and home with Violet and then on to tea with her

S 23 Father went to chapel with us in the morning and I went again at night; Grace went to Nellie’s to tea; Nellie and George came back with her to supper

M 24 Went to my painting lesson; Empire Day

T 25 Kitty and Arthur came to dinner

W 26 Theo’s sixth birthday; Derby Day

T 27 Mr and Mrs Mann came to dinner

F 28 Feeling very poorly all day; Dot came down in the evening to stay over the holidays

S 29 Lillie and Marian came to dinner and to stay

S 30 We all went to chapel in the morning an Dot and I at night

M 31 George came up in the afternoon for tennis and tea; Marian left at night

June

T 1 Dot left us early; Father, Grace and I went into Croydon and Father opened a banking account for us both at LC&M bank

W 2 Grace went to Trot’s to stay over night

T 3 Grace returned in the evening, having called at Norwood with Ray and had tea at Uncle’s; Ray planted our darling Mother’s grace with white geraniums; Kit and Mrs Finch called

F 4 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Grace went to Miss Moore’s exhibition

S 5 I went to Miss Moore’s exhibition and helped with the tea, etc; Mr and Mrs Bourne came to stay

S 6 We went to service – too cold for Father; Grace and Mrs Bourne went at night; Mr Hunt came to tea

M 7 Mrs Bourne left after lunch; Mr Bourne in the morning; Violet came to stay; Mr Herrick and Mr Bolton came to tea

T 8 Violet went in the fields with me, sketching; I attended painting lesson at the studio; Father and Grace went for a walk; Parton’s birthday

W 9 Violet and I spent the morning in the park and had tea with Kitty in the afternoon

T 10 Wet, cold day; Grace went to a concert and meeting in town with Trot

F 11 Violet and I went to Croydon shopping; Mr and Mrs Herrick came to dinner

S 12 Cold, wet weather continues; Mr Williams of Hobart came to stay the weekend

S 13 We all went to chapel but too cold for Father; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 14 Violet and I went out sketching in the morning; Grace went to town to a concert; Father and I went up to the studio to see Miss Moore’s pictures

T 15 We went into the fields in the morning and I gathered grasses and buttercups; Grace and Violet went out in the afternoon; Violet and I went up to Bampfylde after dinner

W 16 Violet and I went to the Croydon horse show; Kitty’s birthday

T 17 Grace went to Eastbourne to engage rooms for us to go in July; Father, Violet and I went up to Bampfylde in the afternoon

F 18 Violet’s birthday; we went for a country walk in the morning; Violet and I went over to Uncle’s to tea

S 19 Violet and I went to Bampfylde to tea and tennis; Grace and Violet went to a musical evening in town at night; Lass ill in the morning

S 20 Grace went to chapel with Violet in the morning and I went to Wallington church with Violet at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 21 We went for a country walk in the morning; Violet left in the evening after a fortnight’s stay; I went to painting lesson; Theo has measles

T 22 Grace and Edie went to the Handel festival at Crystal Palace

W 23 Was in bed all day; got up for a short time in the evening; Ethel has a daughter, Elizabeth Della

T 24 Collected for RSPCA in the afternoon; called to see Daisy Champness

F 25 Wet and cold; I spent the ay at Mrs Oliver’s in Sidcup; Rose Cowdrey had dinner and Marian Gilbert to tea there to meet me; Mr and Mrs Rowley called at home.

S 26 Very cold and wet – still having fires

S 27 We both went to chapel in the morning; Mr Hunt came to dinner; George and Nellie to supper

M 28 Walker (cook) left our service; I called on Mrs Hicks to see her invalid daughter; I went over to Croydon to the bank for Father

T 29 Grace went to have tea with Mrs Wood and to a musical meeting in town; prizes Trot took at dog show: Woo tah – two firsts; Pe-chi – second and very highly commended; Litter, third

W 30 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us

July

T 1 I went to town shopping and had tea at Mrs Wood

F 2 Mrs Williams (Hobart) took Grace and Violet to Rose show and African exhibition; Jim’s 18th birthday

S 3 Harry came to spend the weekend

S 4 Harry and I went to chapel in the morning; Grace and Harry went for a walk in the evening

M 5 Gather, Grace and Harry went for a drive in the morning; I went to London with Harry in the afternoon to show him round; we went to the Royal Academy; West End, Westminster and the RC cathedral; he returned to Coventry; Mr and Mrs Childe called in the evening

T 6

W 7 Had my painting lesson

T 8 Collected for the RSPCA in the afternoon

F 9 I went up to Bampfylde after dinner

S 10 Mr Williams (of Hobart) came to stay the weekend

S 11 We all went to chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 12 Went to my painting lesson; Mr Williams left in the morning; Mr Cleave came to dinner

T 13 Made Grace’s birthday cake; Grace met Mr Williams (Hobart) in town and I went to a reception meeting at the Royal Academy with him; he proposed to Grace

W 14 I met Mr Williams in town and he took me over Harrods stores, the royal stables and to lunch at The Cheshire Cheese; I met Lillie afterwards and we went to the Royal Academy together

T 15 Grace’s birthday; she went to town with Nellie and George met them for tea; Trot, Gladys and Theo came for the day; the former stayed the night; Kit called in

F 16 Trot left after tea and Grace went to Croydon

S 17 Went to a committee meeting of the RSPCA; wrote two letters to local papers about cats and summer vacations

S 18 I cooked the dinner; Grace went to service in the morning and I went at night; George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Grace talked to us about Mr Williams

M 19 Father, Grace and I came to Eastbourne to apartments at 9 Lansdowne Terrace; the Aunties met us at the station

T 20

W 21

T 22 Mr Williams came down and stayed the night; Grace gave her consent to the engagement

F 23 We had tea at Aunties’

S 24 Will (Mr Williams, Hobart) came down for the weekend

S 25

M 26 Will left in the morning; Father and I went for a drive in the afternoon; I went to Aunties’ in morning

T 27 Trot came down for the day, unexpectedly

W 28 Grace went to town to meet Will and do some shopping and on to George’s for the night; Aunties had tea and dinner with us and we drove to Beachy Head; Grace had her ring

T 29 Grace and Will came down in the evening; Father and I went out morning and afternoon

F 30 Will left at lunch time; George and Nellie came down in the afternoon to spent the rest of the holiday with us

S 31 We all went on the pier in the afternoon; Grace, George and Nellie went up to Aunties’ in the evening

August

S 1 We all went to chapel in the morning and out in the evening

M 2 We all went into Devonshire Park in the afternoon; Grace and I went to say goodbye to the Aunties at night

T 3 We all came home; Grace went to town by an earlier train

W 4 Trot came over for the day; Will came in the evening and he and Grace went to Nellie’s to dinner; Louie Farage (new cook) came in

T 5 Grace spent the day with town and came down with Will in the evening

F 6 Will left before lunch; I had tea with Uncle and Auntie

S 7 Grace and Nellie went to town; Father and I went up to George’s to tea; intensely hot; Louie gave notice

S 8 Grace and I went to chapel; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 9 I commenced being housekeeper

T 10 I went on a tour with Grace to help her buy her trousseau; Edie came to keep Father company and they both went out for a two hours’ drive in the afternoon

W 11 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; George came up in the evening to make arrangements with us

T 12 Grace went to town to meet Mr and Mrs Bourne and do some shopping; the heat continues intense

F 13 I wrote wedding invitations and sent them out; went up to have tea with Mrs Wood and Violet

S 14 Grace went to Croydon shopping; I took some steak to Mr Dunn

S 15 Grace went to chapel in the morning and then we all went to Nellie’s for tea and supper

M 16 Aunt Miriam came to sit with Father whilst Grace and I went to do some shopping in town; I went on to spend an hour with Lillie and Marian

T 17 Mr Cheshire came to dinner

W 18 Grace went to town; Will came home from Germany and came down with her in the evening; Arthur came in to dinner

T 19

F 20

S 21 Grace spent the day in town with Will and they went over to Uncle’s; he came back at night

S 22 Father did not go out but Grace and Will went to Sutton to church in the morning and he and I went to chapel at night; Arthur came to tea and supper

M 23 Will left in the morning and came back to dinner; I gave Grace a gold watch bracelet for a wedding present

T 24 Very wet – we did not go out; Grace and Will spent the day in town; Father bought a new piano for me, in place of Grace’s grand

W 25 Grace went to Coventry early to stay the night; Pearce came up in the evening; Mr Cheshire came to lunch

T 26 Grace and Will came down at night after having been to Violet’s to say goodbye

F 27 I went with Grace to Croydon in the afternoon; Will left in the morning; Mrs Chandler called

S 28 Grace and Will went to Westgate to see Mrs Atkinson for the day and back home at night

S 29 Grace and Will went to chapel in the morning; Father and I did not go out all day

M 30 I took our birthday wreath to darling Mother’s grace; Grace was shopping in town with Nellie the rest of the day; Alice Spinks (new cook)( came in; Kitty came to tea

T 31 Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Mr Champness in the evening; Grace and Will went to Trot’s for the day

September

S 1 Grace was at home with us; the three girls came up to tea; very cold, had a fire; I took another stray kitten to the lethal chamber

T 2 Grace and Will were in town all day and came back at night; Mr French came to take Father’s photo and mine

F 3 Will took Violet and me to Brighton and back in his new motor car

S 4 Grace spent the morning in town with Will; they both came home in the afternoon; Edie and Rene went with me to Croydon

S 5 We all went to service in the morning and stayed for the Sacrament; Grace’s last Sunday at home before going abroad

M 6 I went to Croydon for Grace

T 7 Grace, Trot and Will went out in the motor car; Grace and Will came home in the afternoon; George and Arthur came up at night

W 8 Kitty came in to tea; Trot came to stay and Will came down to dinner

T 9 My darling sister was married to Will; twenty-nine guests, all went off well; sun shining. Rev S Herrick married them; Uncle proposed their health; Trot stayed the night

F 10 Trot left after tea; Arthur came up in the evening

S 11 George came in the afternoon

S 12 We did not go out; Grace and Will ran down to supper; George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Mr Champness and Kit and Mr Cleave came in

M 13 Grace and Will came down in the afternoon to say goodbye; they returned to London at night; a very sad day for us all

T 14 My darling sister sails with Will today for Hobart, via America; by the ‘Coronia’ to New York; Mother’s birthday; Rev Robinson called; Nellie came this morning and came to dinner; Arthur and Rene called in the evening

W 15 Eight years today since our precious mother went home; Mr Foster came to tea and dinner and Mr Bruce and Kitty in the evening

T 16 Trot and Bobbie came over for the day; George came in at night; Had a letter from Grace at Queenstown, wrote to her in Brisbane

F 17 Wrote Grace to New York; Violet came down for the day; Mr Champness came to dinner

S 18 Father and I packed all Grace’s things; George came up in the evening

S 19 Father and I went to chapel; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 20 Eight years today since we laid our darling mother to rest; Mr Foster called; Mr Cheshire came to lunch and tea; Rene to tea and dinner; wrote to Grace in Vancouver

T 21 Made 12lbs plum jam; Father and I went into Croydon in the afternoon; Violet and Miss Charleston rode over and were leaving as we got back.

W 22 We received a cable from New York – good news; Arthur and George came up in the evening

T 23 Trot came over for the day; we wrote to Grace at Sydney

F 24 We had a packer from Ebbutt’s to finish packing Grace’s things – four cases; Kitty came in to dinner

S 25 Fred and Laurie came for the weekend; Mr and MRs Bourne came to dinner and tea

S 26 Fred, Laurie and I went to chapel – harvest festival; too damp for Father; George came up after supper

M 27 Fred went to Leicester and came back at night; Mrs Hay and Bessie called

T 28 Jim came to dinner and to stay the night; Percy came up in the evening

W 29 Had a man from Ebbutt’s to help Ray move the furniture in bedrooms; I moved into the former spare room

T 30 Our first letters from New York; I went to the bank for Father; Mr and Miss Foster called; had the vet to see Lass – inflated glands on her foot

October

F 1 Uncle and Auntie came to stay; George, Nellie and Arthur came up in the evening

S 2 Miss Moore came up in the evening

S 3 Very went, no-one went out in the morning; Uncle, George and I went to chapel at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 4 Auntie’s birthday; we had letters from New York; Uncle and Auntie left in the evening

T 5 Darling Father’s 78th birthday – he had a happy day and was bright and well; Trot, Ethel, her baby and nurse came over for the day; George and Nellie came to dinner

W 6 Father and I picked three clothes baskets full of apples off one tree; Arthur came up in the evening; Ray went to Norwood to plant our grave with pale blue hyacinth bulbs

T 7 Mr Foster came to lunch; Gladys’ birthday; wrote to Hobart; Ellen’s holiday

F 8 Mrs Chandler and Althea came to dinner; Grace and Will sail from Vancouver in ‘Orangi’ for Hobart

S 9 I went to Croydon with Father; Mr Statham and Miss Pound came to stay; George and Mr Brown came up in the evening

S 10 Miss Pound and I went to service in the morning; we all stayed at home in the evening

M 11 Father and Mr Statham picked some of the pears and apples and were in the garden a lot

T 12 Gladys came over and stayed the night

W 13 Gladys left after tea; vet came to see Lass

T 14 Mr Statham and Miss Pound left after lunch; Alice’s birthday

F 15 Sent off parcels of clothing to Mrs Price, Mrs Brewer and Mrs Goodsell; George and Arthur came up in the evening

S 16 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner

S 17 Very wet  – did not go out all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 18 Made 8lbs damson jam

T 19 Arthur came up in the evening

W 20

T 21 Mrs Atkinson called; Fannie and Edie called and George; had letter from Vancouver; Alice had a day’s holiday

F 22 Mrs Wright and Mrs Williamson came to tea

S 23

S 24 I went to chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 25 Eva and Mabel spent a long day with us; Mr Foster called

T 26 Violet spent the day with us; I rang Trot up on her new telephone

W 27 Made 21 pots of apple jam; wet, dark day; wrote to Grace; Fannie called

T 28 We had a cable from Suva – all well; Trot spent the day with us; Fannie and Edie came to dinner; Dr Cressy came to see me

F 29 Very cold; Edie came to tea and dinner whilst I went up to have tea with Mrs Wood

S 30 Bitterly cold; yellow fog in the afternoon; Lillie came to stay over the weekend

S 31 Lillie and I went to service in the morning

November

M 1 Lillie left in the morning; I went to the bank for Father; Violet spent part of the day with us; Nellie and Rene called; sent subscription to ODFL and BS

T 2 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; George and Nellie came up in the evening

W 3 Yellow fog all day; Fannie and Mrs Bryant called in; Ellen’s holiday

T 4 Fog; Arthur came up in the evening

F 5 Mr Cheshire came for the day; Kitty called in the morning; Mr and Mrs Childe in the evening; Auntie and Uncle and I went to Mrs Atkinson’s to tea; they came to dinner with us

S 6

S 7 I went to chapel in the morning; we spent a quiet day alone

M 8 Called to see Lizzie Pearce, who was ill; Violet came down to lunch; Mr Amor to supper; we three went to a Band of Mercy meeting at the chapel; Mrs Mann came to tea; we had a cable from Hobart – all well; and four letters from Honolulu

T 9 Nellie called in the afternoon and Miss Blewett and Kitty; Kitty and I called at Mrs Robinson’s

W 10 Sent a box of windfall apples to cab horses and a basket to the men; called at Nellie’s and Mrs Pearce’s

T 11 Phoned Trot

F 12 Trot came over for the day; Mr Foster came to lunch; Kitty and Arthur to tea; George and Miss Moore and Pearce came in the evening

S 13 Mr Willis called; I have a cold so didn’t go out

S 14 Too unwell to go out; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 15 Bad cold, feeling very poorly; sent of two Xmas parcels for Grace

T 16 Too unwell to go out; snow shower; Fannie came to tea and dinner

W 17 Finished making Xmas puddings and boiled them; did not go out; Fannie called to ask after me

T 18 Fanny M spent the day with us; Kitty came in to tea; George came up in the evening

F 19 Miss Leach called; Kit and Arthur came to dinner

S 20 Trot’s birthday – 50 years old

S 21 I went to chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 22 Miss Moore came in to tea and I had a painting lesson; Mr Foster came to dinner; very cold weather

T 23 Visited the Dunns; made our mincemeat

W 24 I went to Croydon for Father in the morning; Mr Robinson came in to tea; Mrs Pearce and Lizzie called and George came up in the evening

T 25 Had kitchen chimney swept and boiler cleaned

F 26 Did not go out but Father went round the garden

S 27

S 28 I went to chapel in the morning; George and Nellie came in to supper; Ellen’s mother came to spend half a day with her

M 29 Pouring wet, did not go out; servants went to a concert at night; we had a letter from Suva and diaries

T 30 I went to Croydon to the bank in the morning; Edie and Rene came in to tea; Ellen had half holiday

December

W 1 Trot spent the day with us; I called at Mrs Pearce

T 2 Had sweep in dining room; terrific gale at night, broke two windows in the conservatory; Mrs Willis, Edie and Bessie called

F 3

S 4 Miss Moor came in the afternoon and Mr Robinson – had to miss my painting lesson; George and Nellie came to dinner

S 5 I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper

M 6 Nellie came to keep Father company while I went up after lunch to see Sir Anderson Critchett (oculist); Father got in the garden

T 7 Mrs Pearce came for curtain wash; Arthur came up in the evening

W 8 Auntie and Uncle spent the day with us; Mr Foster called in the morning; George at night; Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Mrs Pearce finished curtain wash

T 9 Miss Moore gave me a painting lesson; first of new term; did not go out

F 10 Did not go out; George came in the evening;

S 11 I did flowers for chapel; Mr Robinson, Kitty and Arthur came to dinner; had first letters from Hobart and Melbourne

S 12 I went to chapel and stayed for the Sacrament; George and Nellie came up after supper

M 13 Arthur came to dinner and kept Father company whilst I went to Foxton Ferguson’s lecture on Xmas folk songs and lore

T 14

W 15 I went to the bank and did some shopping in Croydon

T 16 Sleet and hail; Mr Champness came to dinner

F 17 I went to darling Mother’s grave to take our Xmas wreath

S 18 Hilda and Dot came to stay the weekend

S 19 I and the girls went to morning service; Edie came to ta and the girls all went to service at night

M 20 Fannie’s birthday; Father poorly for the last few days; sent for Dr Cressy, who has given him a tonic; Hilda and Dot left early; Father and I did Xmas cards

T 21 George came in unexpectedly to dinner; Father and I finished our cards

W 22 Father better; I took Xmas presents to Bessie, Mrs Pearce, Mr Dunn and sent Mrs Staples  box off; Pearce came up in the evening

T 23 A very wet day; Dr Cressy called – Father rather better; Kit and Mr Foster came in to tea; George, Nellie and Miss Moore came up in the evening

F 24 Trot came over for the day; Mrs Chandler came to tea

S 25 Our first Xmas without Grace; George, Nellie and the girls spent the day with us; Father not well; Mr Champness and Dorothy came up in the morning

S 26 A quiet Sunday alone; did not go out; George came up in the morning; Arthur and Kit after service

M 27 Both servants had day’s holiday; George, Arthur, Mrs Pearce and her granddaughter as well as Dr Cressy all called; did not go out

T 28 Mr Millar (lawyer) came down to see Father; George and Nellie came up in the evening; did not go out

W 29 Fannie and Edie came up after dinner for a round of whist

T 30 Nellie came up to tea and George in the evening

F 31 Mr Millar came down on business; George, Nellie, Fannie, Rene and Kitty called in; I went up to see Kitty in the morning.


1910

January

S 1 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; very mild, lilac in bud and primroses out

S 2 I went to service in the morning; Father able to go round the garden; George and Nellie came to supper

M 3 I went to the bank for Father; sent a box of apples to the animals’ hospital

T 4

W 5 Trot and Bobbie came over and stayed the night; Fannie and Eddy looked in

T 6 Bobby and I called at Nellie’s in the morning; Trot and Bobbie left after lunch; Mr Ray (oculist) came over to see Father

F 7 Father better; I went to local RSPCA committee in the morning; eight present; George came in the evening

S 8 I went to Croydon in the afternoon to get Gather’s new glasses; Nellie called in whilst I was out

S 9 I went to service in the morning; George came up for an hour in the evening

M 10 Arthur came to dinner and stayed with Father whilst I went to a lecture on Lowell, by Mr Swain, at Woodcote hall

T 11

W 12 Bitterly cold; did not go out

T 13

F 14 Trot came over for the day; George came up in the evening; I visited Bessie in the afternoon

S 15 Did not go out; Father poorly – kept him in bed until the afternoon; Dr Cressy came

S 16 Did not go out; George and Nellie came to supper; Dr Cressy came

M 17 Dr Cressy came

T 18 George came up in the evening

W 19 Della came to stay; Mrs and Miss Childe called; Dr Cressy came

T 20 Mr Latham called; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Dr Cressy came

F 21 Mr Young (vet) came to see Lassie’s foot; George came up in the evening

S 22 Mr Antill came to tea; George, Miss Leach and Dr Cressy called

S 23 George, Nellie and Dr Cressy came to tea; Della, George and I went to service at night

M 24 Feeling very poorly, swollen eye; Nellie called in; Father better

T 25 Did not go out; Dr Cressy attending me; bitterly cold

W 26 Fannie and Eddy came in after dinner for whist; Father very poorly; intensely cold

T 27 Snow; Trot spent the day with us; George and Pearce came up in the evening; did not go out

F 28 Still feeling poorly; Dr Cressy came to see us both; did not go out

S 29 Did not go out; ditto

S 30 Did not go out; Mr Foster came to tea; George and Nellie to supper

M 31 Glorious day; still too unwell to go out; Nellie came in the afternoon; Alice’s holiday

February

T 1 Did not go out

W 2 I went to see Sir Anderson Critchett about my eye; George went with me; Arthur came in to dinner

T 3 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; George in the evening

F 4 I took Lass up to see Mr Young about her foot; decided to go on treatment instead of an operation; Della went to Croydon; Nellie called in

S 5 I had tea with Mrs Wood; Della kept Father company; Mr Robinson called; Edie came to dinner

S 6 Della and I went to service and Sacrament; Mr Hunt came to dinner; George and Nellie to supper

M 7 Trot and Violet came over for the day

T 8 My first birthday without Grace; Della and I went into Croydon to buy Father’s present – twenty-five volumes of Sir Walter Scott’s works; we played whist in the evening; Father much better#

W 9 Della left after a three week stay; I went up to see Kitty; George, Nellie and Arthur came up in the evening

T 10

F 11 Mrs Foster, Nellie and Edie called; George in the evening; I called to see Bessie and enquire after Lambe; Father in the garden

S 12 I called at Bampfylde; Father went round the garden

S 13 I went to chapel in the morning; Mr and Mrs Henman came to tea

M 14 Father went round the garden; George and Mr Robinson came up in the evening and I went to Nellie’s for an hour; Mr Young called to see Lass

T 15 I called to see Kit

W 16 Mr Foster called in the morning; Nellie and Mr Robinson came in to tea and we three went to hear Dr Clifford preach opposite; Arthur came up in the evening

T 17 Edie called in the morning; George came to dinner

F 18 I went to Croydon in the morning shopping; Kit came in to tea

S 19

S 20 I went to morning service; awful gales, thunder and lightning; worst gale in London and around for 20 years

M 21 I had a painting lesson; George came up in the evening

T 22

W 23

T 24 George came up in the evening

F 25 Mr Hunt called; did not go out

S 26 Trot came in the morning to stay the weekend; I went to whist drive at Mrs Stacey’s with George and Edie

S 27 Trot and I went to chapel in the morning; Mr and Mrs Childe came to tea and I went to service with them at night; George came to supper

M 28 Trot left after lunch; Violet came for the day and, in the afternoon, she went to Sutton mother’s meeting to give the address on kindness to animals

March

T 1 Gladys and Lilian Daw came over to stay the night; Nellie and Rene called; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner

W 2 Gladys and Lilian left after lunch; Mr Foster came to tea; Mr and Mrs Latham came to dinner and Arthur came round in the evening

T 3 I went to the bank; Fannie and Rene called and George in the evening

F 4

S 5 Agnes came to stay the weekend

S 6 Agnes and I went to service in the morning; Agnes went to Kitty’s to tea; George came up after supper

M 7 Ellen in bed with pleurisy; I am nursing her

T 8

W 9 Auntie and Uncle spent the day with us, Auntie poorly; Fannie and Edie came in after dinner for whist

T 10 George came in to dinner

F 11 Violet and Miss Charleston rode down to tea; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner

S 12 Edie and Rene came up for a round of whist after dinner; did not go out; Ellen better but not up

S 13 Did not go out in the morning; George and I went to the service at night – Stainer’s Crucifixion – stayed for part of it; Nellie stayed with Father

M 14 Ellen got up for the first time for a week; Mr Robinson came to tea; Mr Foster called; Spring day

T 15 Bessie called to see me; white frost

W 16 Mrs Grant and Nell had arranged to come to lunch but wired that they were prevented from coming; called at Mr Dunn’s and Mrs Pearce; George, Nellie and Kit came up in the evening

T 17 Alive had a day’s holiday; Trot and Theo came over for the day; called at Mr Robinson’s and Miss Moore’s

F 18 A snow storm and blizzard; called on Miss Leach; George came in the evening

S 19 Mrs Grant and Nell came down to lunch and tea; Miss Moore called in the evening

S 20 I went to service in the morning; Percy and Lawrence came in to tea; George and Nellie to supper

M 21 Did not go out; Father went round the garden

T 22 George came up at night; I went to bank for Father; MR Millar came down to see Father

W 23 Called at Nellie’s

T 24 Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Auntie and Uncle came to spend Easter with us; George and Nellie came to dinner

F 25 Father went round the garden; Uncle, Auntie and I went to chapel; Kitty and Arthur came to tea

S 26 Muriel came to tea; Miss Moore called in the evening; Uncle returned home after tea; I gave Ellen and Alice notice from 31st

S 27 Auntie went to service in the morning, I in the evening; Rev G Robinson came to tea; George and Nellie to supper

M 28 Auntie and I walked up to Bampfylde in the afternoon

T 29 Auntie left in the evening; I went to town with Miss Moore to the Royal Society of British Artists, Westminster Cathedral and up the Tower of London

W 30 Began Spring cleaning

T 31 George came in to dinner

April

F 1 Trot came over for the day; Dr Crombie came to tea; Mr Stewart called to arrange about work

S 2 Ellen ill again – pleurisy; sent for Dr Cressy; I took her to London to her mother in the afternoon; she left my service

S 3 I went to service in the morning, and stayed to the Sacrament; George and Nellie came in to supper; Mr Hunt and Mr French called

M 4 Mrs Pearce came to help with the Spring cleaning

T 5 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates here; had sweep in Father’s room and dining room; Violet came for the day; George in the evening

W 6 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates helping; men came in to decorate the dining room; I engaged Amy to come on May 1st

T 7 Mrs Pearce here; Kit came in to tea; I went to the bank

F 8 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates here still; sweep in the kitchen

S 9 George came up at night; workmen finished

S 10 Did not go out; Colonel and Mrs Grant came to tea; Percy called

M 11 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates here; Miss Leach and Miss Hunter called; glorious Spring day; Father out a lot

T12 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates here; Agnes came to dinner; George in the evening

W 13 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates; Ethel came over  for the day; Miss Moore called

T 14 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates; Father in the garden

F 15 Arthur came to dinner; Mrs Pearce here

S 16 Did not go out; snow, hail, a thunderstorm

S 17 Did not go out all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 18

T 19 Mrs Pearce and Mrs Gates here; Mr Cheshire and Arthur came to dinner; I walked up to Bampfylde after dinner

W 20 Mrs Pearce here; I resigned my position at the local RSPCA committee because it is so difficult to get out

T 21 Fannie and Mr Brash spent the day with us; Mrs Pearce here

F 22 Mrs Pearce here; George and Nellie and Mr Chaffer came to dinner; Nellie and I went to an organ and cello recital at the parish church

S 23 Father much better again

S 24 I went to service in the morning; we had a quiet day alone

M25 Mrs Gilchrist, Ellen and James came down to lunch and tea

T 26 Arthur came up in the evening; Father in the garden

W 27 Called at Bampfylde; Dr Cressy came over to see Father; George ill with a bad foot

T 28 I went to see George; Dot came down for the night

F 29 Dr Cressy came to see Father; I called to see George and took him a plant

S 30 Trot came over for the day; I left the plant to welcome Agnes; after lunch, went to the art club in Norwood with Miss Moore and Miss Ballard; Agnes came to live in Wallington

May

S 1 I went to service; Arthur came to dinner; Agnes for the day; I called to see George; dinner by gas light

M 2 Mrs Pearce here for the day; Amy Walton entered our service as housemaid; Alice Spanks (cook) left after 8 months service; dark day, gas on

T 3 Mrs Pearce came for the day; Mr Foster came to dinner; we made rhubarb and fig jam; I called to see George and went to the bank for Father; Spring day, Father out

W 4 Was asked to retain name on RSPCA committee, so consented; I went to Norwood to tie up the hyacinths; Mrs Pearce finished

T 5 Did not go out; Father better and in the garden; Dr Cressy came; Mrs Giles came as a temporary cook general; Arthur came in the evening

F 6 Mr Cheshire came to dinner; in the evening I went  up to see George for an hour; heard of King’s serious illness

S 7 King Edward passed away at 11.45 last night; Miss Harmer and Miss Hawes called to ask me to be a vice president of the Helper’s guild – refused.

S 8 Did not go to service – very cold; called at Bampfylde; Agnes spent the day with us

M 9 Went to see about mourning for the King; Miss Moore, Miss Leach, Miss Hunter, Dr Cressy and Mrs Hunt called; Bessie came to tea; Rene came for a whist drive after dinner

T 10 Gladys came over for the day and night; I called on Miss Hunter (out) and to see Agnes in her new rooms

W 11 Gladys left in the evening; Fannie and Edie came to dinner; I had a painting lesson

T 12 Day in which public were all ordered to go into mourning

F 13 I went over to the bank; Mr Robinson came in to tea

S 14 I had a painting lesson; Dr Cressy called; Lillie came to stay the weekend; Agnes came up in the evening

S 15 Lillie and I went to service and the Sacrament in the morning; I called to see George; chapel pulpit dressed in purple for the King

M 16 Summer’s day; I had a painting lesson; Lillie left early; Father and I went to George for tea; Amy had a day’s holiday

T 17

W 18 I had a painting lesson; Agnes came in after dinner

T 19 George came in to dinner – first time since his illness a month ago

F 20 King Edward’s funeral; day of general mourning – all business suspended; I went to a memorial service at chapel; Arthur came up in the evening; Father and I played billiards

S 21 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; I went to students’ exhibition at Woodcote Halle afte tea; sent in four pictures, Lassie’s head, a geranium study in oils; moonlight and harvest field in watercolour; about 3 hundred people at the exhibition

S 22 I went to service; Mr Foster came to supper and I went to Nellie’s for an hour after tea; summer weather

M 23 I called on Mr Robinson to return a book; two cases of apples came from Tasmania

T 24 Will’s birthday; George came in to dinner; Agnes came up in the evening; Father and I went for an hour’s drive

W 25 Very cold; Dr Cressy called; Mrs Chandler and Althea came to dinner; did not go out

T 26 Did not go out; Father has a bad cold; Pearce came up in the evening; Theo’s 7th birthday

F 27 Father in bed all day; bronchial cough and cold; Dr Cressy came; Arthur had an operation for appendicitis – I went up in the evening; Mr Foster sat with Father

S 28 Called to ask after Arthur – going on well; Father better, able to round the garden; Mr Foster came up in the evening

S 29 Father better; I went to service; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 30 Mrs Giles (temporary cook) left and the new one came, Martha Wright; I called at Kit’s; sent Grace’s present; Agnes came at night

T 31 Wet and cold; Dr Cressy called

June

W 1 Wrote to Grace for her birthday; Arthur out of danger, called in the morning and went to the bank; Derby Day

T 2 Trot came over for the day; Mr Foster came to tea

F 3 Hot summer day; Father in the garden all day; called at Kit’s – Arthur doing well; The Oaks

S 4 Father better; Dr Cressy called; Mr and Mrs Childe called

S 5 I went to service; Agnes came to tea and supper; Mr Champness came to supper

M 6 Mr Robinson came to tea; I called at Kit’s and saw Arthur; Ray planted our grace with geraniums

T 7 Thunder storms through night and day; was up an hour with Lass in the night; awful storm in the morning; George came up at night; Mrs Pearce in the afternoon

W 8 Violet spent the day with us; Amy had a holiday

T 9 Called to see Arthur; Mr Robinson went at the same time, progressing well

F 10 Gladys and Lilian Daw spent the day with us

S 11 Uncle and Auntie spent the day with us; Auntie and I went to see Arthur; Miss Moore called

S 12 Did not go out; we spent a quiet day alone, in the garden for part of the time

M 13 Went to the bank in the morning; George came up in the evening

T 14 Father and I drove up to see Arthur and then on to Bampfylde; Bessie and Agnes came in

W 15 Father and I went for an hour’s drive through Purley and Rose Drive

T 16 I had a painting lesson in the afternoon and Miss Moore stayed to dinner

F 17 Mrs Cropper and Dudley spent the day with us; Father did some of his viola cuttings

S 18 Ernest came to stay the weekend; Mr Cheshire called in the evening; lovely hot day;  Dr Cressy called

S 19 Father and I went to chapel in the morning; I had a warm welcome; Ernest left after tea; George and Nellie came to supper

M 20 I called at Kit’s; Father, Arthur and I went for a drive, Arthur came in afterwards; Agnes came to dinner

T 21 Called on Mrs Pearce; Kit and Arthur went to Margate; Rene and Arthur called; case of Tasmanian apples arrived

W 22 Had three tons of coal in; Mr Latham came to dinner; Mr Foster called; Mr Lawton (vet) called to see Lass

T 23 Edie came to keep Father company whilst I went up to tea with Mrs Wood

F 24 Made the pies; did not go out

S 25 Fannie Milum came to stay the weekend

S 26 Fannie and I went to chapel; Poppy came to tea – she and I went to service at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 27 Fannie left in the evening ; Trot came for the day; Howard and Georgie and Miss Watts came to tea and dinner

T 28 Mr Robinson came to tea; George, Nellie and Fannie called; Father gave £10 towards our new church; I gave £10

W 29 Father and I came to Margate – Fort Paragon Hotel, arriving 5.30pm; Martha went for her holiday; Mrs Pearce came to stay in our house

T 30 Bitter cold wind blowing and a gale; torrents of rain; we only got out for ten minutes in the morning; Arthur and Kit looked in in the evening as did Agnes

July

F 1 Father poorly, very cold wind and hail storms; I went out a little whilst Arthur sat with Father and then we all went out for a short time; Agnes and Kit came up at night

S 2 Gale and heavy rains still; Father got out a little while in the morning and a few minutes in the afternoon; Conjuring in the hotel at night – Mr Brandon; we went to it; Kit, Arthur and Agnes called; latter went home today; Jim’s 19th birthday

S 3 Father went out for an hour and a half in his bath chair; we had tea in a shop and sat on the parade until dinner; I went to Mr Halliday’s house

W 6 Hurricane; I fought my way along the cliff; Mrs Hay and Bessie called; we were indoors all day

T 7 Father went in the bath chair for an hour before lunch; we went to Broadstairs to have tea with Uncle, Auntie and Miss Emily

F 8 Father had a bath chair for an hour and a half; Rev and Mrs Halliday came to tea; Father and I went out for an hour and then I met George at the station and he came to stay the weekend with us

S 9 Very cold; Father went in the bath chair for an hour; George taken very poorly for a time; we all had tea at the Queen’s Hotel and sat on the front; after dinner, George and I went for a walk on the sands and then we all played whist

S 10 George and I went on the sands; Father came out in the bath chair for an hour and a half; we sat on the parade all afternoon and George and I went on the beach after dinner

M 11 Very cold; I saw George in the morning; Father went in the bath chair and after tea, which we had at Queen’s hotel, we sat on the front till dinner

T 12 I went on the sands and then Father went in the bath chair until lunch; we went in town for tea and shopping; after dinner, I went on the sands for half an hour to see the sunset; I have a very bad cold

W 13 Father went in the bath chair; we left by 3.44pm train for Victoria and got home soon after 7pm and found all well.  Amy came home from her week’s holiday; Mrs Pearce left

T 14 Am feeling very poorly with a severe cold; weather hot; Ellen Brooks came to see me; I called on Mrs Pearce

F 15 Grace’s birthday; first year we have been separated; two Swedish ladies called, friends of Dr Largerwell, and had tea; Arthur came to dinner; Mr Cheshire afterwards; Father went for a little walk; my cold is very bad

S 16 Turned chilly again; Agnes came up in the morning

S 17 Feeling very poorly; Kit, Arthur, Agnes and Theo (Miss Moore) called; George and Nellie came to tea and supper and kept Father company whilst Theo and I went to church

M 18 Trot came over for the day; Father has a cold

T 19 Kit and Mr Foster called in the afternoon; Agnes and Margery came to dinner

W 20 I went to Croydon to get a new hat; Father did his viola cuttings; Father better; Martha poorly – sent her to the doctor

T 21 I called at Nellie’s; George looked in; my cold better but have neuralgia

F 22 Father did his viola cuttings; I made the pastry

S 23 Eva Oliver came for the weekend

S 24 Eva and I went to service; Mr Hunt came to dinner and tea

M 25 Eva left in the afternoon

T 26 I called at Nellie’s and Bessie’s; in the evening, George, Nellie and Agnes came in; Uncle’s 83rd birthday; so cold, we had a fire

W 27 Father much better; a lovely day; Nellie went to Croydon with me about a hat and came back to lunch and tea; Uncle and Auntie came, unexpectedly, to tea and dinner

T 28 Gladys, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; Nellie called in

F 29 Father and I drove into Croydon after tea; Agnes came to dinner

S 30 Lovely day; I called to see Dr Pleating about Martha; Father and I went to Nellie’s to tea and super; played tennis and cards; Edie there

S 31 Father and I went to service; George and Nellie came to supper; Martha and Amy had half a day out

August

M 1 I called to see Agnes and Bessie; Father and I went to George’s to tea and supper; played tennis and cards

T 2 Maurice called; Trot and family went to Folkestone; Father so well

W 3 Amy had a day’s holiday; I went over to Croydon bank

T 4 Mr Cheshire came to dinner; I called at Agnes and Bampfylde to say goodbye to George and Nellie before their holiday; called on Mrs Pearce; Maurice called

F 5 Very wet day; George and Nellie went for their holiday trip by motor; Kit and Arthur came up at night

S 6 I gave Martha notice; Hilda and Dot came to stay the weekend

S 7 The girls and I went to chapel; Agnes came to tea and supper and took the girls to church

M 8 Father did his viola cuttings; Hilda and I went to Bampfylde after tea; the girls went to see Agnes after dinner

T 9 Dot and Hilda went for a long walk before lunch and a short one with Father later; I went to Auntie’s for an hour, found her still very poorly

W 10 Hilda and Dot left early; Martha had a day’s holiday

T 11 A summer day; Father and I went for an hour and a half’s drive in the morning; Mr Foster called at night; Martha ill

F 12 Kit and Arthur came to dinner

S 13 Martha Wright left (cook) after two months and two weeks – too unwell to keep her the full month; I went to Sutton after two cooks’ characters

S 14 I went to service in the morning; Father and I alone all day; Theo called at night

M 15 I went to Sutton after a cook’s character; Edie came and sat with Father

T 16 Violet came down for the day; George and Nellie came in to tea

W 17 Mrs Yates came for the day; I called at Nellie’s

T 18 George and Nellie came up at night

F 19 Mrs Yates came for the day; Arthur and Agnes called at night; I went to Registry at Sutton

S 20 Theo called in at night

S 21 Father and I went to service; quiet day alone; Mr Cheshire came in after supper

M 22 Went to Sutton after a cook’s character; Father taken ill in the evening – rupture of lung tissue; I fetched Dr Cressy; up most of the night; Nellie came in the afternoon

T 23 Dr Cressy came; Father in bed ; Nellie came in the afternoon; George at night

W 24 Father going on well; Nellie spent the afternoon here

T 25 Father better; Arthur came up at night; Trot came in the evening to stay and help me

F 26 Kit, George and Agnes called; I went to have tea with Auntie and Uncle; found former very ill still; first I knew about Auntie

S 27 Trot went after a temporary supply cook – and engaged her; Edie and Rene called

S 28 Trot went to service in the morning and I at night; Father got up and came down for the first time since Monday; George and Nellie came to supper

M 29 Trot left early; Mr Foster, Agnes and old Alice called; I had supply cook in (Annie Watts); I called on Mr Robinson; heavy rains

T 30 Kitty came in to tea; Theo, George and Nellie called

W 31

September

F 1 Nellie and Edie called and drove to Croydon with Father and me; Mr Foster came in to dinner and to wish us goodbye; they leave Wallington on Saturday

F 2 I called at Bampfylde; Father well again now; Mr Robinson came to tea; Theo called

S 3 I called to see Agnes

S4 I went to service and stayed for the Sacrament; too cold for Father to go out; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 5 Very cold, had a fire; Kit and Arthur came up in the evening

T 6 I called on Mrs Pearce; Ernest and Mr Cheshire came down to tea and dinner and Agnes to dinner; Helped a little boy take his wounded dog home

W 7 Auntie and Uncle spent the day with us

T 8 Gladys came over to stay; I engaged Ada Blackman to come as cook general on Oct 1st; Father very well

F 9 Grace and Will have been married one year today; I took our birthday wreath to darling Mother’s grace and then had tea with Lillie; Gladys stayed with Father

S 10 I called at Nellie’s and Theo’s; Father and I picked some of our apples and plums

S 11 Father and I went to chapel; Rev Morris is our new Super; quiet day alone

M12 Sent parcel of clothes to Mrs Brewer; gave ditto to Miss Dunn and sent 2/- to Mr Dunn in the infirmary

T 13 I called at Mr Robinson’s; Father and I drove to Bampfylde and found Fannie and Edie at home; had tea with them; George came in to dinner

W 14 Mother’s birthday; Ernest came down for half a day; Agnes came in after dinner; Pearce called; a year ago today since Grace sailed for Hobart

T 15 Nine years today since darling Mother went from us; I called at Kitty’s

F 16 I called at Nellie’s; Mrs Cropper spent the day with us

S 17 Fred and Laurie came to spend the weekend

S 18 Laurie and I went to chapel; Rev Wesley Howells preached; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 19 Fred and Laurie left early; I went into Croydon before lunch; Martha called to see me

T 20 Called to see Theo

W 21 Kitty came to lunch with Father and Trot took me to see Henry VIII at His Majesty’s Theatre (Henry VIII, Arthur Bouchier; Queen Katherine, Miss Violet Vanbrugh; Cardinal Wolsey, Sir Herbert Beerbohm Tree; Duke of Buckingham, Henry Ainley); Kit and Arthur stayed to dinner and Agnes called in

T 22

F 23 A lovely day; Father, Nellie and I went for a two hours’ drive; I called at Bampfylde

S 24 I called at Nellie’s; George still very poorly; Lillie came for the weekend

S 25 Lillie and I went to chapel – anniversary service; went to up see George after tea

M 26 Lillie left before lunch; Mr Latham came in to tea; Theo came to dinner; Edie called

T 27 Lovely day; I went to Croydon to buy Father’s present; Father and I went to Bampfylde to tea; Mr Robinson came to dinner

W 28 Summer day; Father and I went for an hour and a half’s drive in the morning; I went to see Theo’s aunt, who is ill; made 22lbs of damson jam

T 29 I called at Nellie’s; I went over to Auntie’s to tea and found her very ill; Miss Florence and Mrs Giles there; Edie stayed with Father; Arthur came up in the evening

F 30 Father and I went up to see George in the afternoon; Theo called at night

October

S 1 Tooke Mrs Moore a bit bunch of flowers; Annie Watts (supply cook) left my service; Ada Blackman (cook) came

S 2 I went to service; Father and I went to George’s to tea and supper; Mr and Mrs Henman called to say goodbye

M 3 Ethel’s birthday; Father in the garden most of the day; I went up to see George and found him ill in bed

T 4 Aunt Miriam’s birthday; I called at Nellie’s

W 5 Father’s 79th birthday; he had a happy day and is very well; Trot came over for the day; George and Nellie came to dinner

T 6 Father, Trot and I drove over to Purley to see Mrs Childe; Trot left before dinner

F 7 Gladys; 24th birthday; Arthur came up at night and I went to church social with Theo, Edie and Agnes.  Amy had a day’s holiday

S 8 Took large bunch of flowers to harvest festival; called to see George and took him a plant; have been feeling very poorly all week – sent for Dr Cressy at night

S 9 Father and I went to harvest festival service; Agnes came to tea and supper and I went to see George for an hour; asked Mr Robinson to give the address on kindness to animals

M 10 Gladys came over to stay; I went to have tea with Auntie; Mr Foster came in to lunch

T 11 Father, Gladys and I went for an hour’s drive; Gladys left after tea

W 12 I called at Nellie’s; Jim came over and stayed the night; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

T 13 Jim left by the 7.45 train; Fannie and Edie came to dinner; I gave Ada notice

F 14 Very cold, I called on Bessie and at Nellie’s; Agnes came up in the evening

S 15 Heard Arthur was ill; went up to see him; Theo gave me a painting lesson; Edie and Rene came up at night; went after three ‘characters’

S 16 I went to service in the morning; George spent an hour with us in the evening

M17 Violet came down for the say; we went to Mill Lane mothers’ meeting; Violet gave the address on kindness to animals; Arthur came in to tea

T 18 Went after another ‘character’; Edie called; a lovely day; still feeling very poorly; Father well

W 19 Called at Nellie’s, Mrs Pearce and Miss Dunn; Dr Cressy came to see me; Trot came over for an hour to dinner

T 20 I called at Theo’s; Mrs Wood’s birthday; Edie came up home and I went up to Violet’s for tea

F 21

S 22 Fannie and Dot came to stay the weekend; after dinner, Dot and I went up to George’s; Agnes and Theo called

S 23 Fannie, Dot and I went to service; Fannie stayed with Father; Dot and I went again at night

M 24 Fannie left after lunch; Theo gave me a painting lesson here; Dot went up to Bampfylde at night

T 25 Nellie and I went to the West End shopping; Dot stayed with Father; Mr Antill came to dinner

W 26 Auntie and Uncle spent the day with us; Nellie and Rene called; I went up to see Theo

T 27 I took Dot into Croydon to get a hat for her; I had dinner at Bampfylde; Agnes, Dot and Father played whist

F 28 Dot and I went to Sutton after a cook’s character; Miss Leach called; Kit and Arthur came to dinner

S 29 Dot left in the morning; Mabel came to stay the weekend; called at George’s

S 30 Mabel and I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper; Mr and Mrs Pearce had tea with Amy

M 31 Mabel left after lunch; Theo gave me a painting lesson at home; Edie and Rene called; sent Grace’s Xmas present – embroidered teacloth

November

T 1 A awful gale last night; Mr Robinson came in to tea; George walked up and I walked back with him; Dr Cressy came to see me

W 2 Called to see Bessie and Theo

T 3 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; I went to class; Theo called

F 4 Called at Kit’s; Arthur had tea with Father and I had tea with Uncle and Auntie; Agnes came up at night

S 5 Father unwell; very foggy day; Edie called

S 6 Did not go out all day; Father unwell; better at night; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 7 Burglars broke in at 2.30 last night; Lass woke me, barking; Violet came down for the day and spoke at meeting both in the afternoon and at night; Mr Amor came back to supper and conjured; Kit and Arthur came too and, afterwards, George, Edie and Rene; Ray went to Norwood to plant the hyacinths on our grave

T 8 Mr H Stewart called and stayed to tea; George came in tea and I called in to see Agnes; went to Croydon in the morning; Theo called

W 9

T 10 Ethel came over unexpectedly to lunch and tea; I called to see Theo at the studio

F 11 Amy went home for four days’ holiday; Agnes came in to dinner; and I went to a guild lecture on Tyndale by Rev Naylor of Sidcup; Mr Latham came to tea

S 12 Arthur came up to tea and I called at George’s; sent warm jacket to Aunt Janie; Jim had an operation on his adenoids

S 13 I went to service in the morning; we had a quiet day alone; George came up during the evening

M 14 Arthur came up in the evening so that I could go to a lecture ‘Vagabond songs’ by Foxton Ferguson and Miss Beatrice Spencer; Father went round the garden; Amy returned; I had a painting lesson

T 15 Father went round the garden; Dr Cressy came to see me

W 16 Mrs Dale called; eclipse of the moon – a lovely night

T 17 A very foggy day; I went to class

F 18 Trot came over for the day; Rev Morris called and had tea

S 19 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Agnes came up in the evening; I called at the studio to see Theo

S 20 Trot’s 51st birthday; I went to service in the morning; Mr Robinson, George and Nellie came to tea and supper; George and I went to service at night – sleet

M 21 Hard frost; bitterly cold; Edie came up to tea and dinner and I went to see Aunt Miriam and Uncle. Rene came up for dinner and whist

T 22 Cold intense; sent cheque for £1/10/0d to Theo for painting lessons

W 23 Father unwell; kept him in bed until the afternoon

T 24 Father better; I went to class; George came to dinner

F 25 I called at Kit’s; Agnes came in the evening; I let Amy and Ada go to Barnardo entertainment at the public hall

S 26 Detective Moore called to report on their findings about the burglary

S 27 I went to service in the morning; Father and I had a quiet day alone; Wrote to inspector about cruelty to a dog

M 28 Called on Mr Robinson; Theo gave me a lesson at home; Gladys came over and stayed the night; Edie came to dinner and whist

T 29 Gladys stayed till evening and I went over for an hour to see Aunt Miriam; George came up at night

W 30 Very wet day; sent for Dr Cressy to see Father, his breathing is so short; did not go out all day

December

T 2 Very wet day; Father rather better; I went to class

F 3 Mr Herrick came in to tea; Ernest came down to tea and dinner; Dr Cressy called to see Father; I went to the bank in the morning; pouring wet

S 3 Agnes and Theo called; made Xmas puddings

S 4 I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came to supper; pouring wet day

M 5 I had a painting lesson; Spring day

T 6 Trot came over and stayed the night; Father better; I took Bessie to the cat show went at 2pm and got back at 6.30pm

W 7 Trot left in the morning; Nellie, Rene and Kitty came in to tea and I went to sale of work with them afterwards; Amy had a holiday; Mrs Pearce came for curtain wash; Dr called to see Father – he is better

T 8 Mrs Pearce came for curtain wash; Ada had a day’s holiday; Agnes came up at night

F 9 Very wet day

S 10 Ditto; I called at Nellie’s

S 11 I went to service; Agnes came to tea and supper and George and Nellie to supper

M 12 I called at Kit’s; Theo gave me a painting lesson at home; pouring wet; Father well

T 13 I went to see Miss Lambert about Ada’s sight; Mr Cheshire came to dinner and afterwards I went up to Bampfylde

W 14 Very wet; Father and I did our Xmas cards; Theo called

T 15 I went to class; George came up at night; pouring wet, but fine later; Dr Cressy called

F 16 Uncle and Miss Giles came over for the day; Mr Robinson came to tea; gale blowing

S 17 I called to see Nellie; Agnes came up at night

S 18 I went to service in the morning; Father not so well; George came up to supper

M 19 I called on Mrs Latham; Rene came to tea and dinner and I went to Croydon after tea, shopping; Sutton carol party came; sent 5/- to ODFL

T 20 George came in to dinner; Mrs Penny called

W 21 Trot came over and stayed the night; after lunch, I took our wreath to Mother’s grace and then had tea with Auntie and Uncle

T 22 Trot stayed until the evening; I spent an hour with Mrs Wood and Violet in the afternoon; sent off Mrs Staples’ parcel

F 23 Made mince pies; washed Lass; did the decorations; called to take presents to Mrs Pearce, Agnes and Bessie; Arthur came up at night; George called in the afternoon

S 24 Took cabmen 2½ dozen mince pies, papers and a big bag of carrots for the horses; Rene called; I did the flowers at church; Pearce called at night

S 25 Father better; we had a quiet, happy day together; I went to service in the morning; the Williams family, Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came in to kiss Father; Kit and Arthur came to supper

M 26 Kept Xmas day; Father well and happy; George and family, Eddy and Agnes spent the day with us; all went off well and merrily

T 27 Mr Cheshire came in to lunch and tea; George called in the morning; Amy had a day’s holiday

W 28 Hard frost; I called to see Theo; Ada had a day’s holiday

T 29 A lovely day; George and Nellie came up at night

F 30

S 31 Called to wish Bessie a happy New Year; Agnes called

NOTES

Began Spring cleaning on March 30th

30 Top spare room

31 Box room

April

1 Billiard room

4 & 5 Dining room and Father’s room

7 My room

8 Kitchen

9 Workmen finished

11 Finished dining room, began two spare rooms

13 & 16 Drawing room and morning room and finished spare rooms

15 Linen cupboard, bathrooms


1911

‘Grace, mercy, and peace, the threefold blessing of the Triune God, rest upon you for ever and for ever’

January

S 1 I went to service, Mr Robinson preached; I went to Covenant service and Communion; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; George and Nellie to supper; Arthur called in the morning

M 2 Snow showers; Father pretty well; Edie came to be with him whilst I went over to have tea with Auntie and Uncle

T 3 Snow; did not go out

W 4 Had sweep in to do dining room; I went to see Dr Cressy about my hand, which I badly sprained on Xmas day; says I must not use it for a fortnight, torn some ligaments

T 5 Kitty called; I went to class; had sweep in kitchen and boiler cleaned

F 6 A very wet day; I called on Theo Moore; Arthur came up at night

S 7 I called to see Nellie; George came up in the afternoon; Agnes at night

S 8 I went to service; George and Nellie came up to tea and supper

M 9 Did not go out; very wet

T 10 Father went round the garden; a lovely day

W 11 Mr Foster came to lunch and tea; Agnes to dinner; feeling poorly; could not write to Grace because of my hand

T 12 Sleet and very cold; Edie came to lunch and dinner; trot took me to see ‘Peter Pan’ at the Duke of York’s; children went too; we drove to Waldorf afterwards for tea; I got home by 8pm

F 13 Heard Auntie was very ill; went over at once and took water bed; saw her for a few minutes; Gladys, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; Amy had a day’s holiday

S 14 Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to dinner; Agnes, Kit and Dorothy and I went to church concert (Theo) at night; Arthur stayed with Father; Rene called

S 15 I went to service; bright winter’s day; Mr and Mrs Childe came to tea; George came up after supper; Father better

M 16 Dear Aunt Miriam passed home at 3 o’clock this morning; I went over to see Uncle in the morning; Jim spent the day with us; Kitty and Theo called

T 17 Mr Robinson came in to tea; George and Nellie came up at night

W 18 Mr Cheshire came to lunch and tea; Dot’s twenty-first

T 19 Trot came over in the afternoon to stay; Edie, Agnes and Arthur called

F 20 Dear Aunt Miriam’s funeral; I went to Uncle and with him to Norwood; service in Beckenham church at 1pm; Trot stayed with Father; Mrs Childe came over

S 21 Arthur came over to stay the weekend

S 22 Arthur and I went to service; he went to his mother’s to tea and back to supper; Nell and Jim came down unexpectedly to tea; after supper, I went to Bampfylde; Father’s very well

M 23 Arthur left in the morning; Fannie and Rene came to tea and dinner and whist; feeling very poorly with a severe cold; Ada went to the oculist

T 24 Feeling very poorly; lying down all day; Father went round the garden

W 25 Ditto; Nellie, Mrs Hay and Bessie called

T 26 Went out for the first time since Sunday; Father very poorly with a cold; I called to ask after George; Mrs Bruce Foster and Theo called

F 27 Sent for Dr Cressy to see Father, whose cold is very bad; he put my hand in a splint

S 28 Uncle and Alice Giles spent the day with us

S 29 I went to service; quiet day alone

M 30 Dr Cressy came to see us both; Nellie came in to tea; News of Grace’s homecoming

T 31 Bitterly cold; I called at Bampfylde; Mrs Pearce called

February

W 1 Dr Cressy called to see Father who is still very poorly

T 2 I went to class; George and Nellie came to dinner; Agnes called

F 3 Father very ill, sent for Dr Cressy; sat up all night with him; George, Nellie and the girls came in

S 4 Ditto

S 5 Change for the better; Edie, George and Nellie came to help me; George and I went to service at night

M 6 Father better; Nellie came in the afternoon so that I might rest; Theo and Agnes called; Arthur came up at night; Miss Leach called

T 7 Kitty came for afternoon; Arthur, George and Agnes at night

W 8 My birthday; Father still ill in bed; am nursing him day and night; Fannie and Dot came to tea and dinner; Mr Cheshire; Nellie, Edie and Rene called

T 9 Father sat up for an hour, very weak; George came up at night

F 10 Father sat up for three hours; Mr Robinson called as did Arthur, Edie and Rene

S 11 Trot came over for the weekend

S 12 I had got ligaments broken in my hand

M 13 Trot left after lunch; Nellie came up; Mr and Mrs Mew called

T 14 Nurse Humble came to massage my hand each day; George, Kit and Agnes called; I called at Nellie’s

W 15 Father went round the garden; I went to Bampfylde for dinner; Trot came over to stay; Mr Cheshire came to lunch and dinner; Mrs Pearce came for curtain wash; Ada had a holiday

T 16 Dr Cressy took the splint off my hand; I went to class; I called on Mrs Latham; Mrs Pearce here; Amy had a holiday; George came up

F 17 Trot left after lunch; I called at Kitty’s; Lillie came to dinner; Father well again, he went round the garden

S 18 Agnes and Theo called; Dr Cressy called to see my hand

S 19 Did not go out all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 20 I went to Croydon in the morning; Mr Robinson came to tea; Agnes came to dinner

T 21 I called to see Bessie; Dr Cressy came to see me

W 22 I called at Nellie’s and Mrs Pearce; Mr Cheshire called as did Mr Stewart

T 23 I went to class; George and Kitty called

F 24 Edie came to tea and dinner and Rene; I met George in town and he took me to buy bedroom curtains

S 25 Uncle and Alice spent the day with us; Dr Cressy came to see me

S 26 I went to service; Edie and Rene called in the evening

M 27 Began Spring cleaning; Fannie and Agnes came in the evening and we had whist; did not go out

T 28 Dr Cressy came to see us both; Father better; did not go out; Mrs Pearce came to help; my hand out of sling for part of the day

March

W 1 I went to sale of work at Epsom chapel and to dinner at Mrs Atkinson’s; Edie stayed at home

T 2 I went to class; Spring day – Father went round the garden; Fannie and Eddy came to dinner; Arthur came p in the evening

F 3 Gladys and Lilian spent the day with us; Mr Latham came to dinner; I called in at Agnes

S 4 Theo called; I called on Mrs Satch; finished Spring cleaning top floor

S 5 I went to service; Agnes came to dinner and tea; George and Nellie to tea and supper; George’s 49th birthday

M 6 Mrs Yates came to help

T 7 Mrs Yates came; Mr Stewart called

W 8 Mrs Yates came; Dr Cressy came to see us both

T 9 Mrs Yates came; I went to class

F 10 Mr Hill came to tea

S 11 I went to Croydon; Agnes came in; Father much better; finished Spring cleaning 1st floor

S 12 I went to service; George came up after tea; first day I have missed massage for nearly a month

M 13 Mrs Pearce helping; Trot came over for the day; Dr Cressy came

T 14 Mr Robinson called; George came up at night – told us about Fannie’s wedding; Mrs Pearce here

W 15 Snow; I called to see Bessie and Theo; Mrs Pearce here

T 16 Mr Stewart called; Mrs Pearce helping; I went to class; Agnes came up at night

F 17 I went to see Nellie; George came up at night; Mrs Pearce helping

S 18 I called on Mr Robinson for Nellie

S 19 I went to service; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; I went up to see George and Nellie and then came back to supper

M 20 White washing in the kitchen; Mrs Pearce here; I called at Bampfylde; Father went in the garden, twice

T 21 Mrs Pearce helping; painters here; finished Spring cleaning; George came at night; Edie and Rene came in to tea

W 22 Spring day; Father out; I went to Nellie’s; Amy had a holiday; feeling very poorly

T 23 Kitty came to tea and dinner and I went to town shopping; had tea with George at King’s Hall; Percy came up in the evening

F 24 Mrs Stacey called; George and Agnes came up in the evening; Ada had a holiday

S 25 Fannie and Eddy were married in Croydon; I went up to Bampfylde afterwards; bitterly cold and snow

S 26 I went to service; Mr Robinson came to dinner and tea

M 27 I had tea with Kitty and took her a parcel of clothes for poor people

T 28 Called to see Nellie; George came up at night; Father in the garden

W 29 Mr Hopkins came down to tea and dinner

T 30 Misty day; I went to class; Arthur and Agnes came up in the evening

F 31 Bobbie’s 12th birthday; Ethel came over for the day; I went up for an hour to see Mrs Wood and Violet

April

S 1 Went to Croydon; Theo called; sent my RSPCA subscription; raised Ada’s wage to £21

S 2 I went to service; we spent a quiet day alone; Father filled up census papers

M 3 Father better; bitterly cold, snow; went up to Nellie’s and found George had been ill again; called at the studio

T 4 Bitterly cold; I called at Bampfylde; George came and had dinner with us

W 5 Snow storms, a hard frost; cold intense; Mr Cheshire spent the day with us; I walked up to Bampfylde for an hour after dinner

T 6 Snow, the cold continues intense; I went to class; Agnes came up at night

F 7

S 8 Uncle spent the day with us; George came up at night; Theo called and so did Edie; Father unwell

S 9 I went to service; Agnes spent the day with us; Arthur came to supper; George poorly, I went up to see him; Father poorly, sent for Dr Cressy – indigestion

M 10 Trot came over and stayed the night; I went to Sacred concert at our church; Theo came and gave me a painting lesson; sent Jim 10/6 to rig out a scout

T 11 I went to local committee of RSPCA in Sutton; proposed Miss Warner should address the adult school and all local butchers be approached about humane killer; Trot left after lunch; I called at George’s; Kitty came to tea; George called in as did Agnes; Mr Chaffer came to dinner; Agnes came in the evening

W 12 A glorious spring day; Father in the garden

T 13 Father in the garden; I called at Bampfylde; Theo called

F 14 Father in the garden a lot; said he had had a happy day; I went to service; George, Nellie, Edie, Rene and Mr Robinson and his brother all came to tea; Amy had a holiday

S 15 A lovely day again; Lillie and Marian came to stay; Grace left Hobart for home with Will and his sister, Lil

S 16 Lillie and I went to service both times and Communion after evening service; Father in the garden; Theo called

M 17 Lovely day again; Father has been much better during the holiday (Easter); George called in the morning; we all went to Bampfylde to tea, met Mr Wood and his son there; Ada had a holiday

T 18 Lillie and Marian left early; Mr Gilchrist and Ellen came down for a couple of hours in the afternoon; Grace, Will and Lil sail from Melbourne for home by SS Orvieto

W 19 A gale blowing all day; I called at Nellie’s; Mrs Hay and Bessie called

T 20 A lovely day; Edie and Rene came up whilst I went to have lunch at the Grand Hotel with Mrs Gilchrist, Ellen and Mrs Williams; we took a taxi to Kew Gardens; afterwards, I went on to have tea with Fanny and Dot and got home at 8pm

F 21 Did not go out; Dr Cressy called and says Father is much better; Agnes called

S 22 A lovely day; Theo gave me a lesson; Arthur came to stay the weekend

S 23 Arthur and I went to service; I called at Bampfylde after supper

M 24 Sent a parcel of clothing to Mrs Goodsell; Arthur left in the morning

T 25 Gladys,  Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; Father very well; I called at Nellie’s

W 26 Nellie and Edie went into Croydon with me in the morning; George came in to dinner

T 27 I went to class; Miss Dunn called – gave her a parcel of clothes and concert tickets

F 28 Violet spent the day with us; George came up at night

S 29 Mr and Mrs Stacey called; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 30 I went to service; we had a quiet day alone; Father very well

May

M 1 Glorious May day; I called to see Agnes; she came up at night; went to the bank before lunch; started cold baths before breakfast

T 2 Called on Miss Hunter; George came up at night; sent parcel of clothes to Emma

W 3 Cold, wet day; Agnes came up at night

T 4 Lovely day again, Father in the garden a lot; I had tea with Agnes; George came up at night

F 5 I called at Kitty’s; Agnes came in to dinner; Mr Latham came up at night

S 6 Sent in claim for income tax for £2/19/11; Mrs Cropper and Ada called; I had a painting lesson; Father and I went for an hour’s drive before lunch

S 7 I went to service and stayed to the Sacrament; Mr and Mrs Pearce came up to tea with Amy; George came up during the evening

M 8 Nellie came to see us and I called at Bampfylde

T 9 Trot came over unexpectedly to dinner

W 10 Father and I went for a drive in the afternoon; Mrs Pearce came to wash curtains

T 11 A storm; called to see George, still poorly; Mrs Pearce came; Ada had a holiday; local RSPCA meeting in Sutton, could not go

F 12 Called at Kit’s

S 13 Theo came to give me a painting lesson; a glorious summer day; Father and in the garden all afternoon; SS Orvieto passed Suez

S 14 I went to service; a very wet day; we had a quiet day alone

M 15 Mr Robinson came to dinner

T 16 Ethel, Gladys, and Betty spent the day with us; a hot summer’s day; George and Agnes came up at night

W 17 Dot came down to tea and dinner; I called to see Bessie; Amy had a day’s holiday

T 18 I went to class; Arthur came up at night; sent parcel to Lillie and to the jumble sale

F 19 I went to the annual RSPCA meeting in town with Violet; crowded room; introduced to Leonard Hawksley

S 20 Very cold, gone back to fires

S 21 I went to service; had hymn for those at sea; Arthur and Kit came to supper; I went with Kit to service; George and Nellie and Agnes came in to supper

M 22 Lovely day; Father and I gardened in the afternoon; I had a painting lesson in the morning; George came up at night

T 23 Feeling very poorly; called at Nellie’s

W 24 Ditto; lovely summer day; called at Nellie’s

T 25 Father and I had an hour and a half’s drive – the trees were lovely; I went to class; a lovely day

F 26 Uncle and Alice spent the day with us; Agnes came up at night; I spent an hour with George and found him ill in bed; went to see Mrs Pearce

S 27 Went to see George and took him lovely flowers; called on Agnes; Theo came to tea and gave me a painting lesson afterwards

S 28 Lovely summer day; I went to service; Ernest and Agnes spent the day with us

M 29 Mr Herrick called; called at Bampfylde; Father went with me as far as the Green; intensely hot

T 30 Mr Foster came to lunch; Father very well, working in the conservatory all afternoon

W 31 Father gardening; a thunderstorm lasting three hours; Lass not upset – first time; Derby Day

June

T 1 I went to bank and to class and to see George; Father very well, working in the greenhouse; very hot

F 2 Grace, Will and Lil arrived safely from Tasmania; a glad meeting

S 3 A summer day; Grace and I went up to see George and Nellie; Grace and Will went up at night

S 4 Grace, Will and I went to service and stayed for the Sacrament; we all stayed at home with Father at night

M 5 Intensely hot; I went up to see how George was before lunch; Father, Lil and I went there to tea; Mr Robinson, Fannie and Eddy where there; Grace and Will went to Hampstead Heath; Amy poorly

T 6 Grace stayed with Father; Will went to town; Lil and I went up to town to see the shops and to the Royal Academy

W 7 Grace, Will and Lil went to town early and got back to lunch; Will to dinner; Trot came over for the day; Ada poorly; Ray went to plant geraniums at Norwood

T 8 Grace and Lil went to Croydon and, with Will, to the Imperial Institute at night;  Lil and I went to class; Father very well; Grace went with me to see about a gas stove

F 9 I went to have tea with Mrs Wood

S 10 Grace went with me to pay books; Will took Lil and me to Crystal Palace, stayed for the military tattoo at night

S 11 Grace, Will, Lil and I went to service and Lil and I went at night; George and Nellie came to supper; Father not quite so well; weather cold

M 12 Feeling poorly, did not go out all day; Grace and Will went over to Trot’s to stay; Lil went to town for the day; Ada had a holiday

T 13 Lil went to Croydon; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner

W 14 Cold, had a fire; Mrs Stacey and Edith called; I called at Bampfylde; Agnes came up at night

T 15 Lil went to town; Father better, in the garden; I went to class; Kit and Arthur came to dinner

F 16 Uncle and Aunt Lissie came for the day; Father very well; Grace, Will and Lil went to the Colonial Institute conference in town.

S 17 Will took Lil and me to the horse show and to see the suffragette procession, five miles long; when we got home, found Lassie very ill and sent for Mr Stewart – he came at once; was up four times in the night with Lass

S 18 Lassie very ill, paralysis – did not go out all day; Mr Lawton came to see her; Grace, Will and Lil went to service and to Nellie’s and to service at night; Agnes came to tea and supper; Mr Layton and his son to tea.

M 19 A very wet day; Grace, Will and Lil went to town and came back to lunch and then to a garden party up west in the afternoon; Violet spent the day with us; Father not very well; Mr Lawton came to see Lass – she is much better

T 20 I called at Bampfylde; we put up decoration for the Coronation; Father helped

W 21 Grace and Will went on a trip to London port on a steamer; Lil spent the day in town; Father unwell so sent for Dr Cressy; needs a tonic; I called at Bampfylde; Mr Lawton came to see Lassie; Mr and Mrs Childe called

T 22 Coronation of George VI; Grace and Will went to the Abbey; not fine enough for Father to go in the garden; Lil and I went to United service in the parish church; Amy had a day’s holiday; Mr Latham had breakfast with us at 5.50am

F 23 Will took Lil and me to see the Coronation procession; had seats in the Mall, saw all well; left home at 6.55 train and got back by the 5pm; Grace stayed with Father

S 24 Called at Bampfylde; George and Nellie came up to tea; Grace, Will and Lil went to town for the afternoon and evening

S 25 Grace, Lil, Will and I went to service; we all went at night and Grace stayed with Father; Mr Robinson came to tea and supper

M 26 I took Lil over to Trot’s and stayed the night; Mr Bevan was staying there; Jim took me for ten miles in his motor bike at night

T 27 We walked to Ethel’s to see her house; Betty came up both days; I left after tea and spent half an hour with Aunt Lissie and Uncle on the way home; got home before 10pm; Mr Lawton called

W 28 Grace went with me to get a hat in Croydon; I went after a servant’s character; called on Dr Cressy – he took me round his garden; Father better and in the garden

T 29 Grace went with the others and Trot to see the royal procession – stayed in town all day; home to dinner ; I went to class; in garden with Father; Mr Cheshire called

F 30 Grace in town all day; Lil returned to Trot’s

July

S 1 Grace and Will went to a garden party and spent all evening in town

S 2 Grace, Will and I went to service and Will and I went at night

M 3 Grace and I went to see Nellie; Father did his violas; Grace and Will went to town for the afternoon and evening

T 4 Will took Lil and me to a reception by the Lord Mayor and Lady Mayoress at the Mansion House; Mr Robinson came to dinner; Kitty and Arthur came in the evening; Lil and Grace went for a drive; I engaged Mabel Ray to come as housemaid when Amy leaves

W 5 Trot came over for the day; Lil spent the day in town; Father drove up to see Dr Cressy’s garden and then did his violas; Lillie came to tea and Marian came back with her to supper; Will, Lil and the girls and I went to Carshalton pageant at night – ‘Coming of the Dawn’

T 6 Grace and Will and Lil went to a garden party at the Palace; got home to dinner; I went to class; George and Agnes came up at night; Amy went to the pageant

F 7 Grace at home; Lil in town all day; Grace and Will went to Mrs Stacey’s to dinner; I went into Croydon; Father and I picked the currants and cherries; Ada went to the pageant

S 8 Heat continues intense – 85° in the shade; Grace, Will and Lil went to Henley Regatta and opera at night; I made a lot of sweets for sale for our church; called on Mrs Pearce

S 9 We went to service in the morning; all stayed with Father in the evening; Grace and I went to see Agnes after tea

M 10 Grace and Lil went to town in the morning and to a garden party in the afternoon with Will at the Palace; I called at George’s; Father did his violas

T 11 Lil and I went to a garden party at Mr Champness in connection with our church

W 12 Very hot still; Grace at home with us in the morning; she , Will and Lil went to the pageant at the Palace in the afternoon and evening; Father and I went for an hour and a half’s drive; Mr Cheshire came to dinner and Agnes in the evening

T 13 Very hot; Grace went to town with me to choose her birthday present; we went on to Sidcup to see Dr Crombie about the lump in my mouth; he conferred with Dr Callender and decided on an operation; we spent an hour with the Olivers; Lil stayed with Father

F 14 Grace and Lil were in town all day; Grace got home to dinner and Will took Lil and me to the pageant at Crystal Palace – historical; I made Grace’s birthday cake; heat intense

S 15 Grace’s birthday; she and we all spent a happy day; Trot, Violet, George, Nellie, Kitty and Arthur spent it with us; Trot stayed the weekend

S 16 Grace, Trot, Will and Lil went to Sutton church; in the evening, we four went to church while Trot stayed with Father

M 17 Trot stayed until night; Grace went to Sidcup with me and returned in the evening; I went to Dr Crombie and he and Dr Callender performed the operation; I stayed with the doctor until noon on Tuesday (it was a polyp in my mouth); came home and went to bed; Lil went to Scotland

T 18 In bed most of the day, feeling very poorly; Kit and Nellie called to see me; Grace and Will went to Fanny Milum for the evening; Father and I gave Amy a cheque for a wedding present

W 19 Very poorly

T 20 In bed part of the day; I went to class; Father, Grace and I went for a long drive; still feeling very poorly

F 21 Heat intense – 127° in the sun; Mr Wilson came down to dinner

S 22 Heat awful; still feeling poorly; George came up; Grace and Will went to Brooklands and up the river

S 23 Grace, Will and I went to service; they went again at night; heat continues intense; Father well; I still feel very poorly

M 24 Ada went up for her fortnight’s holiday; Mrs Pearce came in her place; Will went to Scotland by midnight train; I called to see Bessie

T 25 Amy left me to be married (Walton) after fifteen months; Mabel Ray came in her place as housemaid; Father and Grace drove to Mrs Mann’s to tea; I called at Bampfylde and went to Mother’s grave

W 26 Rain after twenty-five days of draught; Uncle’s eighty-fifth birthday; Grace went over to have tea with him; I called to see Theo

T 27 Heat intense again; feeling very poorly still; Grace went to have tea with Mrs Wood; George came up

F 28 Grace went to Croydon for me; heat awful; Agnes came in at night

S 29 Grace came to Euston to see me off for Skelmorlie at 10am; train arrived Glasgow Central at 7pm; Ellen met me and we arrived at Ballenoch at 10pm; heat intense travelling

S 30 We all went to church in the morning; Rev Anderson, of Edinburgh, preached; four of us went at night; a lovely walk; George and his wife came to tea

M 31 I spent the morning in the grounds and walked to the village with Annie; after lunch, Mrs Gilchrist, Ellen and I drove to Inverkip – two hours; Mrs and Miss Robertson called; after dinner, Arthur took Ellen and me out for thirty miles in his motor car to Gourock and Greenock; glorious sunset and ride.

August

T 1 Mrs Gilchrist, Ellen, Annie and I went, by 10am steamer, to Lochranza, Arran and Campbeltown; got back at 6pm; glorious scenery; went to Mrs Gow Smith’s with Mrs Gilchrist and in the woods after dinner

W 2 Weather still perfect; went for a walk in the grounds before breakfast every morning; Ellen and I went for a long walk afterwards and, after tea, Mrs Gilchrist, Mrs Wallace, Ellen and I drove into Largs over the hill and back up by the coast

T 3 Walked to the village in the morning; motored to Greenock after lunch and had tea with Mrs Agnew and Mrs Cooke; a long walk at night

F 4 Went for a drive in the morning and to Mrs George Gilchrist’s to tea; they came up afterwards

S 5 I left Skelmorlie by the 11.40 train for Edinburgh via Glasgow; met Lil at Darlings Hotel and stayed the night

S 6 Lil and I drove to Leith and joined Will on board the ‘Avon’, bound for Norway

M 7 In north sea, sighted land at 6.15pm

T 8 Anchored outside Trondheim and landed; spent day there leaving again at 8pm

W 9 At 9am, landed at Andalsnes, drove to Horgheim; went on board again and reached Molde at 3pm; landed back on ‘Avon; at 6.30pm and we sailed again at 9.30am

T 10 Reached Oien and landed at 8.30am; drove to Hellesylt – reached there at 1pm – went on board and on to Merok; reached there at 3pm; landed and off again at 8pm

F 11 My Lassie died whilst I was in Norway; reached Olden at 8am; did not land; on to Loen – landed at 10am and went to Kjendal glacier; back on board at 5.30pm and off at 78pm

S 12 At 11am, reached Gudvangen, landed and drove to Stalheim and back; on board at 4.30, off at 5pm; arrived Balholmen at 8pm and anchored

S 13 Landed at Balholmen and went to the English church there; back on board for lunch and off at 6pm

M 14 Reached Sandal, landed at 8am; walked to Bondhusbreen glacier and back on board at 10am and off; Reached Odda at 2.30pm, landed and drove to Lofoten; back on board again at 7.45pm

T 15 Reached Norheimsund at 8am; landed and drove to Fosse , where we went back on board at 4pm, and off again

W 16 Reached Bergen and landed at 9.30; came back to the boat at 4pm and sailed after dinner

T 17 At night, Will told me about my Lassie, the first I have heard – in the North Sea

F 18 Reached Grimsby at 7am; landed at 11am; great railway strike on; took us nine and a half hours to get home; found Father and Grace well

S 19 Quiet day at home

S 20 We went to service in the morning; I stayed with Father at night and the rest went again; George and Nellie came to supper

M 21 Rain after a long drought; strike ended; Agnes and Theo called; Grace went to Croydon to see about our trains

T 22 Father and I came to Eastbourne for a fortnight – 1 Marine Gardens, Grand Parade; Grace saw us off from East Croydon at 4.22 – arrived 6.10pm; very wet

W 23 Glorious morning; Father went out in the bath chair in the morning; we sat out on the balcony in the afternoon; Aunties came up to tea

T 24 Father went in the chair in the morning and, after tea we spent two hours on the pier

F 25 Father went out in the bath chair for an hour; we drove up to Aunties and had tea with them, coming back about six; weather continues lovely

S 26 Father went in the bath chair in the morning; Grace, Will and Lil came down to dinner midday; after tea, Father went with us – in the bath chair – for a long walk by the sea; after supper, Will and I went up the town

S 27 Will, Lil and I went to chapel; Grace stayed with Father and we all met him, in his bath chair, on the front afterwards; Grace, Will and I went to the Aunties to tea; after tea, we all went on the pier

M 28 Grace, Will, Lil and I went to look at shops; then Father went up with us on the pier to see a diver; Grace and Will walked to Beachy Head before tea; after tea, they all returned home; Father went in the bath chair for an hour and a half; weather still perfect

T 29 Father went in the bath chair in the morning; After tea, he had a chair to Devonshire Park and back and we went to Merriefolk entertainment there; little Edna Maude danced and sang ‘I love a lassie’ in imitation of Harry Lauder, very pretty; I went up to Aunties for half an hour before supper

W 30 Father and I went for an hour’s drive; in the evening, we went beyond Wish in the bath chair

T31 I went up to see the Aunties after breakfast; then Father went in the bath chair for an hour; in the afternoon, we went on the pier to see animated pictures; Aunt Lissie came in after tea; Father and I went up to Terminus Road to do some shopping in the evening

September

F 1 Father went in the bath chair for an hour and a half; very hot day; Aunties came up to tea; Aunt Lissie went out with us for a little in the evening

S 2 Father went for an hour and a half in the chair in the morning and another hour after tea; he went up to town with me shopping

S 3 Father had the bath chair for an hour in the morning and again for over an hour after tea; we went on the lower parade to the Salvation Army service; I did not go to chapel

M 4 Raining slightly; we went for a short walk and, in the evening, Father had an hour and a half in the bath chair; I went up before supper to wish Aunties goodbye

T 5 Brilliant morning; weather been perfect the fortnight we have been here; Father first rate

W 6 Trot came over for the day; Lil went to Clapham for a few days; Trot brought me ‘Boy’ and Mr Robinson called

T 7 Telephone put on; I went to have tea with Mrs Wood

F 8 Grace and Will spent all the day in town; I called at Bampfylde; Mr Stewart, Mrs Wright, Mrs Williamson and Theo called; Father saw them all – I was out; heat awful, feeling very poorly

S 9 Cooler; Grace, Will and Lil spent the day on the Thames; anniversary of Grace’s wedding, two years

S 10 Grace, Will, Lil and I went to service and again at night; Will stayed with Father

M 11 Grace and Lil went to town for the day; Jim came down to dinner and stay the night; I went to Mrs Williamson’s to meet Mrs Wright to tea; she drove me home and came in to see Father

T 12 Very hot day; Grace, Will and Lil went to Surbiton at night; Agnes came in the evening

W 13 Very wet; Grace and I went to town shopping; Lil stayed with Father; we had tea at Uncle’s and then I met Lil and went on to Mrs Stacey’s to supper; Kit and Arthur came up at night

T 14 Mother’s birthday (eighty-one); Grace and Will went to Mr Bourne’s to lunch and Trot’s for the night; Lil spent the day in town

F 15 Ten years today since Mother went; I took our wreath to Norwood in the morning; Grace came home to lunch and went up to Bampfylde after dinner

S 16 Grace stayed with us; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Will took Lil and me to Maskelyne & Devant at night

S 16 Grace, Will, Lil and I went to church; Lil went at night while we stayed home; Volta and Doris came to tea; Grace and I went up to see Kitty

M 18 Grace and Lil at home; Will went out at night; Violet came down to dinner

T 19 Grace went to Norwood after lunch, back to tea; Kitty, Arthur and Agnes came in to say goodbye to her; Lil in town all day; I phoned Ellen at Euston hotel

W 20 Grace, Will and Lil sailed, by ‘Royal Edward’ from Bristol for Toronto; a hard parting; Trot and family saw them off from Paddington; Nellie and Edie came in to say goodbye in the morning; ten years ago today, we laid our darling mother to rest; Agnes called at night

T 21 Did not go out all day; we had a letter from grace on board at Bristol; Arthur came up at night

F 22 Violet and Don came down to stay

S 23 Glorious weather continues; Violet and I went round to Bampfylde after tea; found George in bed; Father in the garden all day

S 24 I went to church in the morning; Violet went at night; I went up to see Kitty after tea

M 25 Violet and I called at Bampfylde; Violet gave an address at Mill Lane mothers’ meeting on kindness to animals; Mabel Ray gave notice because of a disagreement with Ada

T 26 Father better and in the garden a lot; Boy and Don at peace for the first time; Mr Robinson came in to dinner

W 27 A summer’s day; Agnes came up in the evening

T 28 Violet took Don home and came back to dinner; Arthur came up at night; I went to class

F 29 Colder; Kitty came in to tea; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Theo called; we had a wire from Montreal to say they had arrived safely

S 30 Violet and I went to Croydon before lunch; too cold for Father to go in the garden

October

S 1 Very cold; Violet and I went to service in the morning and Violet went again at night; Mr and Mrs Mann called

M 2 Called on Mrs Pearce; Violet went to mothers’ meeting for Kitty; George and Agnes came up at night

T 3 Ethel’s birthday; I made Father’s birthday cake; I went over to see Mrs Atkinson, found her very ill; Violet gave a lecture on the dog at Croydon

W 4 Trot took Ethel and me to see ‘Macbeth’ at His Majesty’s; Violet stayed with Father;  Macbeth – Herbert Tree; Macduff – Arthur Bouchier; Lady Macbeth – Violet Vanbrugh; Lady Macduff – Viva Birkett; Duncan – Edward O’Neill; Banquo – J H Barnes; we went to the Criterion for tea; Aunt Miriam’s birthday

T 5 Father’s eightieth birthday; he spent a happy day and was very well; Trot came over and stayed the night; George, Nellie, Kitty and Arthur came to dinner; Violet went home

F 6 I went to Upper Norwood and Violet’s after a cook’s character; Trot left after lunch and Violet after dinner

S 7 I took some flowers up for harvest festival; went to Sutton in the morning after character of a housemaid; We had our first letters from Montreal; they had a very rough voyage

S 8 I went to service; Father and I went up to Bampfylde to tea and met Mr Brown there

M 9 Mrs Pearce came for curtain washing; Ada had a holiday; engaged Mary Cooper to come in on 25th in Mabel’s place; I called to see Amy; George came up at night

T 10 Mrs Pearce here for curtain wash; had letters from Montreal; sent box of windfall apples up for cab horses and basket of apples for the cab men

W 11 Had sweep in dining room; Mrs Pearce here; I called to see Bessie; had Lassie’s grace planted with forget-me-nots and ivy and tiled round; Inspector Hall called to see me about a don

T 12 Spring day; Father able to be in the garden; Mr Millar came down; I went to class; Mr Robinson called; George came up at night

F 13 Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy came to dinner and Arthur stayed with Father whilst we went to a lecture on Wordsworth by Rev G Robinson

S 14 Uncle and Alice spent part of the day with us

S 15 I went to service in the morning; Eddy, the three girls and Arthur came in afterwards to see Father; Agnes came to tea and supper

M 16 Mr Millar came to see Father; Mr Stewart called and brought a basket of fine pears and apples; I called at Kit’s and found her out; had letter from Toronto

T 17 Had sweep in kitchen and boiler cleaned; Mr Stewart called in the morning and in the afternoon; Kitty came after tea; I went up to give Nellie our birthday wishes; Father in the garden

W 18 Father in the garden; Pearce came up at night to see him

T 19 Warm and Spring like; had six tons of coal in; Mr Latham came in to tea; Mr Millar came down; I went to class; Arthur came up at night

F 20 Gladys and Lilian came over for the day; George came up at night; very wet

S 21 Fred and Laurie came in time for lunch and stayed the weekend

S 22 Laurie and I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came up to supper; gale blowing

M 23 Fred and Laurie left after lunch; Agnes came up at night; I went to see Theo

T 24 Pouring all day; had kitchen stove repaired

W 25 Mabel left after three months’ service; Mary Cooper (housemaid) came; Trot came to dinner and stay the night; George came up at night

T 26 Nellie came in to tea; I went to class; Mr Robinson came to tea; I went to RSPCA committee at the Rectory in Sutton; Mr Bosanquet met our committee; Trot called at Bampfylde; I proposed lethal chamber for Sutton

F 27

S 28 I called at Bampfylde; Ray went to Norwood to plant our grace with pale blue hyacinths

S 29 A hard frost; I went to service; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 30 Pouring wet; had letters from Chicago; bought 17/- worth of RSPCA literature for our bazaar; had a stove removed in Father’s room

T 31 I went to Croydon in the morning with Nellie and Edie; Edie came in to lunch; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Arthur came up at night; Edie, Rene and I went to a meeting

November

W 1 Glorious day; Father able to be in the garden; I went up to see Kitty; George and  Agnes came up at night; Mr Millar came down to see Father

T 2 Kit came in to tea and we went to class together

F 3 Painters came to do inside and outside the greenhouse; I called on Miss Leach

S 4 Theo and Mr Chaffer called; Ada and Mary went to a concert at night

S 5 Kitty and Arthur spent the day with us; I went to service and Kit and I went again at night and stayed for Sacrament; Arthur stayed with Father

M 6 Father not very well; I sent for Dr Cressy – indigestion and weakness; sent fur rug to Mrs Hetherington

T 7 I called at Bampfylde; George and Agnes came up at night

W 8 Painters finished the greenhouse; Trot came over for the day; Dr Cressy called – Father rather better; Grace due at Honolulu

T 9 Spent most of the morning seeing about stray cow; phoned up for Mr Stewart and he came; Ada had a holiday; I went to class

F 10 Visited old Mrs Hetherington and took her basin of soup; went to see Amy and took her tickets for a circus show; Mr Latham came to tea; posted dress for Doris; had our letters from Portland, US

S 11 Parton and Nell came down to lunch; Miss Leach and Dr Cressy called; Father better; had postcards from Seattle, Washington – all goes well; Miss Dunn called, gave her a parcel of clothing

S 12 Did not go out in the morning; George and Nellie spent the day with us; George and I went home to light up and went to service at night

M 13 Mr Robinson called; Arthur came up at night and I went to Foxton Ferguson’s lecture on street ballads; soloist, Miss Beatrice Spenser; had letters from Victoria, BC

T 14 After tea, I went into Croydon shopping; had letter from Victoria and San Francisco; Father in the garden twice; Dr Cressy called; a Spring day

W 15 I called at Bampfylde; Agnes came to dinner; Mary had a holiday

T 16 Fanny and Hilda came down for the day

F 17 Pearce called and brought some lovely flowers; Father much better; George came up at night; Grace due at Suva

S 18 Very wet all day; Dr Cressy called

S 19 Went to service in the morning; Father not so well; we spent a quiet day alone; after supper; George came up for an hour

M 20 Trot’s 52nd birthday; Violet and Edie came in to dinner; I went with Violet to Band of Mercy meeting at our church; she gave the address on kindness to animals

T 21 Trot came over for the day; I went to see Mrs Atkinson after tea and took her a bunch of lilies and violets; George came up at night; Grace due at Auckland

W 22 Frost and yellow fog; Father very short of breath and poorly; I called on Mrs Pearce and Bessie – found both out; Agnes came up at night

T 23 Father better; I went to class; Edie and Rene came up to dinner and whist

F 24 I called at Bampfylde; George and Arthur came up at night

S 25 Grace due at Sydney; Mrs Pearce called, brought some lovely flowers; Mrs Cropper came to tea; Dr Cressy came; Lillie came to dinner and to stay the weekend; George and Mr Elliott came up at night

S 26 Father not very well, so stayed in with him all day; Lillie went to service at night; all Bampfylde’s, Mr Elliott, Arthur and Dorothy came in after service

M 27 Gladys came over in the morning to stay the night; Lillie left early; I walked up to Bampfylde after dinner; Father better

T 28 I went to the bank in the morning; Gladys left after tea; George came to dinner; Nellie and the girls came up afterwards and we all marked bazaar things; Kitty came in to tea

W 29 Grace due at Melbourne; Theo came to give me a painting lesson; I went to see Daisy Champness, who is ill; Bright day, Father got in the garden and is much better

T 30 I went to class; Fannie and Eddy came in to dinner; Agnes came up at night

December

F 1 Had letters from Honolulu; all well; Father much better; Miss Blewett called

S 2 Had cable from Hobart, safe home and all well; I called on Mrs Dawe; Dr Cressy came; George came up at night

S 3 I went to service; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; George and Nellie came to supper

M 4 Miss Stanwell and Miss Tozer called in the morning; Mr Robinson came to tea

T 5 Edie and Rene came up to tea; Edie and I went to chapel to help decorate for the bazaar; Rene stayed with Father and I came back to dinner; Father and George sent £7 worth of goods; I sent £3 worth in table centres and books

W 6 I had a painting lesson; Trot came over to stay; she went to the opening of the bazaar; I helped at our stall all afternoon and evening; we took over £22 at ours; Mr Robinson very ill, unable to be present; Kit, Olive, Edie, Mrs Pearce and I together

T 7 At the bazaar all the time, helping; a very wet day; our stall took about £10; did not get home till 10.30pm

F 8 Trot left after lunch; Rene came for the rest of the day; I was at the bazaar helping all day; just ran home for dinner; proceeds of whole bazaar £342.11.2d; our stall stood first at £52.1.1d

S 9 George, Percy and Agnes came in after dinner; I called to enquire after Mr Robinson; Edie called

S 10 Storm of wind and rain all day; I went to church; we spent a quiet day alone

M 11 I called on Mrs Benson; found Mr Robinson better; Agnes came to dinner and, after, she and I went to a lecture on Yellowstone Park at Woodcote Hall; Arthur came to sit with Father

T 12 I called at Bampfylde; George and Mr Woolmer came up at night; Ada had a holiday; Mrs Pearce came up for curtain wash

W 13 Father very well; I had painting lesson; did not go out all day; Mrs Pearce here for curtain wash; Mary had a holiday

T 14 Edie called; lovely Spring-like day

F 15 I called at Nellie’s; I called on Mrs Benson – Mr Robinson better but still very ill; Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Boy been unwell for two days – phoned for Mr Lawton, thinks it is gastritis; Father and I did part of our Xmas cards

S 16 Boy very ill – with him all day; Mr Lawton came and said it was a paralysis caused by some internal trouble; Father and I did Xmas cards at night

S 17 Sat up with Boy all night – he was so ill that I phoned Mr Lawton at midnight; he came over at 1.30 and gave him an injection of morphine; Boy died, peacefully, at 6.14am; did not go out all day; George came up to supper

M 18 Mr Lawton sent for Boy to do a post mortem – it was a stoppage; I went to the bank and to do some shopping in Croydon; feeling very poorly

T 19 Trot came over and stayed the night; I went to Whiteley’s in the afternoon with George, Nellie, Edie and Rene and we did some Xmas shopping; I called at Mrs Wood’s on the way home and found her too ill to see me; Trot brought me Danny, a seven month old pup; Mr Foster came to lunch; Mrs Morris and Mrs Worsfold called

W 20 Father not very well; Trot left after lunch; Agnes came in; Edie called; I had a lesson; Ada has a bad leg – sent for Dr Cressy to see her yesterday

T 21 Father poorly – sent for Dr Cressy; he has a slight cold, etc; he and I busy all day tying up parcels etc; George and Edie came up at night

F 22 Pouring rain still continues; after lunch, I went to take wreath to Mother’s grave; Rene came in to tea and dinner; I took presents round to Mrs Pearce, Bessie and Agnes; Pearce brought us two plants at night

S 23 Did house decorations; left parcel at Bampfylde; sent cabbies 24 mince pies and ½ bushel of carrots for the horses, 7 calendars and some papers; George came up at night

S 24 I went to service in the morning; we had a quiet, happy day alone; George came up for supper

M 25 Another happy Xmas with our Bampfylde friends; Father not well and I felt very anxious but he got on much better than we expected and said it was a very happy day; dear Uncle – and Alice – prevented from being with us by his severe cold

T 26 Did not go out; Father better; Kit and Arthur and Dorothy came in to supper and whist

W 27 I called at Kit’s; a lovely day; Father better; Dr Cressy called; Ada had a holiday

T 28 Kitty came in to lunch and tea with Father and I met Mr Gilchrist and Ellen in town; we had lunch at Victoria and then took a taxi to the Savoy theatre where we saw ‘Where the Rainbow Ends’.  I got home to dinner; George came up at night

F 29 Took Danny out for the first time on a lead; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; I called to see Bessie; we had a letter from Suva and Auckland

S 30 Spring-like day

S 31 Father not so well; stayed in with him all day; Agnes spent the day with us; George and Nellie came to supper

Xmas presents

Father – bed jacket, picture

Grace – Cosy and bedroom slippers

Trot – Fruit stand

George & Nellie – Cosy

Uncle – Two books

Fannie – glove sachet

Edie – Ditto

Rene – Ditto

Ethel – Baby’s frock

Gladys – Vases

Jim – Pocket book

Bobbie – Game

Theo – Book

Mrs Grant Table centre

Mrs Gilchrist Ditto

Ellen – Book

3 Gilchrist boys Calendars

Mrs Pearce Picture

Bessie – Box of sweets

Agnes – Fruit dish

Alice Spinks Calendar

Amy Walton Ditto

Violet – Bag

Mrs Wood Scent

Violet Goodsell Book

Cabmen 2 dozen mince pies

Mrs Staples Cake, tea, warm petticoat, tin of sweets, box of biscuits, oranges


1912

January

M 1 Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over and stayed the night; Nellie, George, Fannie and Eddy all called; had letters from Sydney and Melbourne; very warm day; Father’s cough very bad

T 2 Trot and children left before lunch; did not go out all day, feeling very poorly; Mrs Mann and Dick came to tea; had letter to say Mrs Atkinson passed away on New Year’s Day; sent 2/6 subscription to ODFL

W 3 Mrs Baden and Mrs Edwards called; Father better; Fannie and Eddy came up after dinner and Father taught Eddy chess; Father, Uncle and I sent a lovely wreath in memory of Mrs Atkinson; had little ‘Boy’s’ grave by Lassie’s tiled round and planted with ivy

T 4 Father better, I went to Croydon shopping after tea; sent parcel of dog biscuits, collars, apples and bandages to animals’ hospital; also a parcel of clothes to Mrs Price; took cabbies their papers

F 5 I went to see Amy in the cottage hospital; Gladys came to lunch; Dot to tea, Jim to dinner and all stayed the night

S 6 Pouring wet; Edie called; Gladys and Dot left after lunch; had Hobart letters first after their return; all well

S 7 Father better; I went to service; George and Nellie came to supper

M 8 Uncle and Alice came over for the day; did not go out

T 9 Mr Lawton came to see Danny, found he has eczema slightly; a Spring day, Father able to get out in the garden; I went up to see Kitty

W 10 A lovely day; Father in the garden

T 11 Gave Danny a medicated bath for his eczema; Mrs Childe, Doris and Bessie Hay called

F 12 Went to see old Mrs Hetherington and took her a dressing gown; Fannie and Eddy came to dinner and I went to Dorothy’s party

S 13 George and Agnes came up at night; I gave Danny another medicated bath

S 19 I went to service in the morning; George came in to supper

M 15 Trot came over and stayed the night; I went up to see Mrs Wood, found her very ill; had tea with Violet and went on to see Uncle; had supper with them and got home at 9.30; George and Olive called in the evening

T 16 Trot went to town and came back to dinner; I went, with George and the girls, to a whist drive at Mr Champness’; we got home about midnight; Theo called in the afternoon

W 17 Very wet again; Trot left before lunch

T 18 Bitterly cold and frosty; Dot’s twenty-second birthday; I went to class

F 19 Started painting ‘a day in June’; called at Bampfylde

S 20 Called at Bampfylde

S 21 I went to service; Rev G Robinson preached; we spent a quiet day alone

M 22 Fog; Ada had a holiday; George came up at night; Father very well

T 23 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; I went up to Bampfylde after dinner; Mary had a holiday

W 24 Visited Amy Walton and Bessie Hay

T 25 Theo gave me a painting lesson; I went to class; Mr Robinson called; Father better

F 26 Mr Stewart called; I went to Bampfylde to ask after George, found him not looking well

S 27 Frosty day; I called at Bampfylde; George and Nellie came to dinner and we played whist

S 28 Father poorly in the morning and so did not go out; George, Nellie, Fannie, Eddy, Edie and Agnes came to tea; Edie and Agnes stayed to supper and Edie and I went to service; Agnes stayed with Father

M 29 Weather continues severe; I called at Nellie’s; Miss Leach called; Father poorly in the evening

T 30 Father poorly and in bed most of the day; sent for Dr Cressy – he said the intense cold had upset his digestion and heart; Mr Stewart and George came in; sent Mrs Staples 2/6

W 31 Frost not so severe; Father better, came down usual time; George came in to dinner; Inspector called to see me about a dog down Butter Hill

February

T 1 Dr Cressy called, Father better; Edie called; I went to class and went to see Amy; Mr Robinson came to dinner; sent Aunt Janie a birthday present

F 2 Hard frost and a snow storm; called at Bampfylde; Father better

S 3 16° frost; went to the bank in the morning; Agnes came up at night

S 4 Father better; I went to service, Mr Robinson preached and I stayed for the Sacrament; George came up to supper; heavy snow storm and a hard frost at night

M 5 Went to see Kit but found her out; snow, 33° frost; coldest spell for sixteen years

T 6 Thaw – a lovely day; Father not very well; I did not go out

W 7 A lovely day; had painting lesson; did not go out; Trot came in afternoon and stayed; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; George came up at night; fell down this morning, feeling very poorly all day

T 8 My birthday; Father better; he gave me Dickens’ complete works, twenty-eight volumes; Trot stayed until after tea; Nellie came up to tea and I walked back with her; Edie came in; pouring rain but mild

F 9 Kitty and Agnes came in; I took Danny up to Mr Stewart’s and called at Mrs Pearce; Father in the garden

S 10 Father in the garden – a Spring-like day; Lillie came to stay

S 11 Father in the garden; the girls and I went to chapel; Lillie and I went at night; Rev Shutter in the morning, Rev Robinson at night; Marian and Agnes went for a walk in the afternoon; George came up after supper

M 12 I went to RSPCA committee meeting in Sutton and proposed that non-conformist ministers became vice presidents; that the lethal chamber at Sutton be same as the one at Carshalton and that petition be filed asking Sutton butchers to adopt the humane killer, etc – all carried; fourteen present; Arthur came at night; I went to a Tennyson recital at church

T 13 Uncle and Alice came over for the day; I called on Miss Leach; George came up at night; I had a letter from Mrs Willmot asking me to be Hon Sec with her of RSPCA local branch

W 14 Had painting lesson; wrote to Mrs Willmott refusing to accept position of joint Hon Sec

T 15 Called on Rev G Robinson and Rev J Ferguson to ask them to become vice presidents of the RSPCA – both consented; went to class; Theo came to dinner; Agnes came up after for whist

F 16 Called on Canon Caffrey, Rev Jasper and Rev Hunter re RSPCA – all consented to be vice presidents

S 17 Glorious Spring day, Father in the garden three times and very well; Fanny Milum came to tea and dinner, unexpectedly

S 18 I went to service in the morning; Father in the garden; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 19 Father in the garden; Mr Stewart took me all over their orchards and grounds in the afternoon; Agnes came up at night

T 20 Edie and Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; I went up after tea to see Mrs Wood and found her very ill

W 21 Mr Stewart called; I called at George’s; had a painting lesson

T 22 I went to class

F 23

S 24 Mr Lawton came to see Danny; George came up at night; Edie called twice; Father in the garden

S 25 I went to service; George and Nellie came up to supper; Father in the garden

M 26 Miss Hunter called; Ada had a holiday; Della came to stay

T 27 Mr and Miss Cheshire came over in the morning and stayed until 6pm; Father in the garden; Danny poorly, better at night; Della and I called at Mr Stewart’s

W 28 Had painting lesson; Della and I called at Bampfylde; Father in the garden; Mary had a holiday; Danny much better

T 29 Della and I went to class; Mr Robinson called; I went to our RSPCA meeting in Sutton – Mr Fairholm gave the address, the new vice presidents were elected and notice given of the Sutton lethal chamber

March

F 1 I went to Wembley in the morning to see old Mrs Staples, who is dying; spent half an hour with her and got home about 4pm; called at bank on the way; Trot and Theo came over for the day; Della stayed with Father; at night, we went to a lecture on R B Stevenson by Rev Ferguson; very good

S 2 Violet came down to tea and dinner unexpectedly

S 3 Della and I went to service – Rev Robinson preached; Agnes came to tea and supper and George and Nellie to supper; Father very well – went in the garden

M 4 Serious coal strike – a lot of trains suspended; Della left after lunch; we commenced Spring cleaning; dreadful storms of wind and rain

T 5 Mrs Pearce came for the day

W 6 Father in the garden; George came up to dinner; I did not go out; Mrs Pearce here

T 7 I went to class; Mrs Pearce here

F 8 Nellie came in to tea and we went to Croydon together shopping; she came home with me to dinner; George had dinner with Father; Arthur came up at night; Mrs Pearce here

S 9 Agnes came up at night; Edie and Rene called

S 10 I went to service, Mr Robinson preached; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 11 Foggy; Mrs Pearce here; did not go out

T 12 Uncle and Alice came over for the day; I went with Kitty to Mr and Mrs Cheshire’s golden wedding

W 13 George came up at night; Amy called; Mrs Pearce here

T 14 Men began on the kitchen; I went to class; gave Mr Latham 5/- for sewing meeting tea; Agnes came up at night; Father went in the garden

F 15 Trot came over for the day

S 16 I called at Bampfylde

S 17 I went to service; Mrs Grant and Nell came down to tea unexpectedly

M 18 I went to a lecture on Wagner’s music and his last opera, ‘Parsifal’ by Rev Hugh Falconer; Arthur and George came up at night; Mrs Pearce here

T 19 Weather colder and very wet still

W 20 I called at Nellie’s; Mrs Pearce here

T 21 I went to class; Mrs Pearce here; cold rain and winds

F 22 Did not go out; Agnes came up at night; Mrs Pearce here

S 23 Still continues very wet

S 24 I went to service; Mrs Childe came in to tea; Father in the garden

M 25 Workmen finished in the house; did not go out; Father in the garden

T 26 A lovely Spring day; Father well and in the garden a lot; Mrs Pearce here; George came up at night

W 27 Alice Spinks came to see me

T 28 I went to class; Mrs Pearce here

F 29 Finished Spring cleaning; Mrs Pearce here; I called to see Fannie Testar in her new home

S 30 I called at Nellie’s

S 31 I went to service; Arthur came in to dinner and tea; Bobbie’s thirteenth birthday

April

M 1 Very cold; Ada and Mary went to a musical service at our church at night

T 2 Frost; I went to the bank; Father was in the garden; sent Nellie a book; Agnes came up at night

W 3 A Spring day; Father out a lot in the garden; I called at Bampfylde; Agnes came to dinner; Mary had a holiday

T 4 I went to class; Edie called; Ada had a holiday

F 5 I went to service; George, Nellie and the girls and Eddy came to tea and super; Mr Robinson came to tea; Kitty and Arthur to supper

S 6 We had a quiet day alone; Father able to be in the garden a lot; Ada and Mary ha d afternoon and evening out

S 7 Spent a quiet day alone with Father – he said it had been a very happy day; I went to service in the morning

M 8 Very cold; Agnes spent the day with us; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; I called at Bampfylde

T 9 I called at Kit’s; Trot came over for the day; George came up at night; I gave Mrs Dunn a parcel of clothes

W 10 Called on Mrs Hawksley

T 11 Went to class; Mr Hill called; cold winds continue

F 12 Father bought a bath chair £2/17/0d; Mr Champness and Daisy came to dinner; I went to Croydon shopping before lunch

S 13 Took Father round the garden in his chair; called at Bampfylde; am still feeling very poorly

S 14 I went to service; Mr Robinson came to tea and dinner

M 15 Ethel and Betty came for a few hours; George came up at night; wreck of the Titanic, over sixteen hundred lives lost

T 16 Feeling very poorly; cold winds but bright; called to see Nellie; Fannie called

W 17 Had painting lesson in my studio; called to see Kitty and found her better; George and Mr Chaffer came to dinner and Father audited Mill Lane accounts with them; Agnes came in at night; we saw eclipse of the sun at noon; the last eclipse was 1858

T 18 I went to class; Fannie and Eddy came to dinner; took Father out for a ride in his bath chair for the first time

F 19 A Spring day; Mary and I took Father in his bath chair nearly to Hackbridge after tea; Mrs Hay and Bessie called; did study of silver birch

S 20 Did study of acacia tree; warm day; I wheeled Father up to Bampfylde to tea and we stayed a couple of hours and Mary took the chair back; Father very well

S 21 Kit, Arthur and Dorothy spent the day with us; went to service – Rev Shutter preached; in evening, Arthur stayed with Father and we went to service;

M 22

T 23 Did study of apple tree; Mary and I took Father out in the bath chair after tea

W 24 Edie came in to keep Father company while I went to St Ann’s Hall, Clapham to hear Violet speak at anti-vivisection meeting; Mr Wood spoke and Dr Cronin took the chair; I went on to Mrs Wood to tea; Florrie and Amy Cox there; Violet came back with me in the evening

T 25 Violet and I went to class; then we took Father, in his bath chair, as far as Hackbridge; Violet left after dinner; raised Mary’s wages to £22

F 26 Had painting lesson; finished June in the Tyrol and gave it to Father; he was very pleased; Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day and their dog, Fairy.  After tea, we all went, with Father in the bath chair, and the dogs and went up to Bampfylde

S 27 Mary wheeled Father up to Mr Champness; we stayed an hour in his garden and I wheeled him home again

S 28 I went to service; we spent a quiet day alone

M 29 Uncle and Alice spent the day with us; I called at Bampfylde

T 30 Called on Mrs Pearce; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; George came up at night

May

W 1 I went to the bank in the morning; Gladys came over and stayed the night; she and I took Father round Woodcote for an hour and a half; Agnes and Pearce came up at night

T 2 Gladys and I went to class; Mr Robinson and Bessie Hay came in to tea; Arthur Stair came to dinner and Gladys returned home with him at night

F 3 Mary and I took Father round by the Plough and Stafford Road home after tea; George and Arthur came up at night

S 4 Sent income tax claim for £3/6/10d; cold, first rain after twenty-five days

S 5 George and Nellie spent the day with us; I went to service; George and I went again at night

M 6 Ada had a holiday; I called at Mr Robinson’s; took Father out in his bath chair for half an hour in the afternoon

T 7 Trot came over in the morning and stayed the night; I went over to see Lillie and Marian for an hour after tea; a wet day

W 8 I went to Sir Anderson Critchett about my eyes; George went with me and took me to lunch; I met Lillie at Royal Academy and we spent three hours there; Trot took Father up to Kit’s; she returned home in the evening; left off wearing glasses except for work and reading

T 9 Went to class; Mary and I took Father out for an hour; hot day; Agnes came up at night

F 10 I took Father up to Bampfylde and back; George came up at night; awake most of the night with severe cold and neuralgia

S 11 Very poorly all day; Mary and I took Father up to Kit’s in the afternoon and had tea with them; Arthur wheeled Father back

S 12 Too poorly to go to service; I took Father up to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came back with us to supper

M 13 Still poorly; Father and I went up to see Fannie – I took him in the chair; George came up at night

T 14 Father and went for an hour and a half drive after tea – we took Danny; hawthorns, lilacs, chestnuts and laburnums, an exceptional mass of bloom this year; I called to see Bessie Hay

W 15 Went up with Danny to have a photo taken for Grace; Geraniums bedded out; Danny one year old

T 16 Mabel Oliver came in the morning and stayed the night; she took some snap shots of Silver and Danny; Awake most of the night with a bad cough

F 17 Mabel and I spent the morning taking photos of the animals; she left after tea; Agnes came up at night

S 18 I called at Nellie’s; weather still too cold for Father to go out in his chair; the two girls went out in the evening; my cold better but feeling very weak

S 19 I went to service; Father and I went to Bampfylde to tea

M 20 Father poorly with toothache and neuralgia; I did not go out; Theo and Mr Gibson called

T 21 Annual RSPCA meeting in London – could not go; Father better and able to get out in the garden; called at Kit’s; Agnes came to dinner

W 22 Did not go out; Father not very well

T 23 Father better; cold, dull day; I went to class

F 24 I went to the bank; Mr Latham called; Will’s birthday

S 25 Took Father up to florists and then to Bampfylde; Lillie and Marian came to stay the weekend; Mr Cheshire came in the evening

S 26 Theo’s 9th birthday; Marian and I went to service in the morning – Mr Robinson preached a fine sermon on the Motherhood of God; Lillie and I went again at night; George came up to supper

M 27 Mary and I took Father out for an hour; glorious day; Lillie left before lunch, Marian after; Mary and Ada went out for the evening

T 28 Lovely day; Father and I went to Bampfylde to tea; Eva came down to dinner and to stay

W 29 Father, Eva and I went for a drive to Rose Walk for an hour and a half after tea; Agnes came up at night

T 30 Trot came over and stayed the night; Eva left after lunch and I went up to the Tate Gallery and spent a couple of hours there and then went into Westminster Abbey; on to tea with Mrs Wood – Violet out but Hubert there; came home via Mitcham by train; a lovely sunset

F 31 Father and I went to Agnes to tea and, afterwards, we took him for a ride; Agnes came back to dinner; called on Mrs Pearce

June

S 1 Eva went to class with me; we took Father round Hackbridge village afterwards; a hot day; I sent Grace’s birthday present through Mr Milsted

S 2 I went to service; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 3 Did not go out, feeling very poorly; weather colder; Ray went to Norwood to plant our darling’s grace with white geraniums

T 4 Mr Robinson came to tea; in the evening George, Kit, Arthur and Agnes came up; I went to the bank in the morning

W 5 I went up to Kit’s to tea

T 6 I went to class; Mary and I took Father out for an hour

F 7 A very wet day

S 8 Did the church flowers for Kitty; called at Nellie’s; Mr Latham came; saw flying machine for the first time – flew overhead

S 9 I went to service – pouring rain; Father and I went to Bampfylde to tea

M 10 Uncle brought Aunt Lissie over to stay; Mrs Giles and Alice came to tea as well; weather perfect

T 11 I took Father out for an hour; Auntie went part of the way with us; Ada had a holiday

W 12 A very wet day; called to see Kit; had painting lesson and finished the sketch

T 13 Went to class; Kit, Arthur and George came up at night

F 14 Dr Cressy came to see Father and sent him a tonic; Agnes came to dinner and to stay the night; Mary had a holiday; I took Father out for an hour; Auntie went with us

S 15 I went to Bampfylde to tea and supper – a tennis party; Marian came to stay the weekend

S 16 We all stayed at home in the morning; Marian and I went to service at night

M 17 I found a baby sparrow fallen out of its nest; put it in the old bird cage in a flannel and hung it out doors; parent birds came into the cage to fed it; a wet day

T 18 Lovely day; Gladys and Theo came and stayed the night; we all went for a long drive after tea; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; after dinner, Gladys and I walked up to Bampfylde; took Auntie for a walk in the morning

W 19 A very hot day; Mary and I took Father out for an hour after tea; Gladys and Theo left after lunch

T 20 Auntie went for a walk with me in the morning; I went to class; George and Nellie came to dinner

F 21 Father, Auntie and I went for a drive; I called to see Fannie; Arthur came up at night

S 22 Heat intense; called at Bampfylde; went to see Bessie Hay; Uncle came over to tea

S 23 I went to service; Father, Auntie and I went to Bampfylde to tea; George and Nellie came back to supper

M 24 Auntie still unwell, sent for Dr Cressy to see her and Father; did not go out

T 25 Auntie better; Edie came in to tea and dinner; she and I went to a sale of work and social at our church and I won a prize at one of the games

W 26 Had a painting lesson; Aunt Lissie returned home and I went to East Croydon to see her off; I took Father out for an hour in his chair

T 27 Went to painting class; I took Father out in the chair afterwards; called to see Fannie; George came up at night

F 28 Fannie Testar had a son; Trot came over for the day and stayed the night

S 29 Trot stayed till evening and took Father up to Bampfylde after tea; I met Lille at Crystal Palace and we heard the Messiah – four thousand performers, Cowen conducting, Clara Butt, Miss Percival Allen, Ben Davis and Robert Radford the soloists; were in our seats from noon until 6.30.  Met Uncle and Marian and Alice there

S 30 Animal Sunday; I went to service – Rev Robinson preached and gave an excellent address on ‘The Righteous man regardeth the life of his heart’; he came to home to dinner and left after an early cup of tea; George and Nellie came to supper

July

M 1 Called to enquire after Fannie and took her a plant; sent Mrs Staples 2/6; Aunt Janie a box of roses and Morris’ baby a jacket and shoes

T 2 I went to the bank in the morning; Agnes came in to tea and dinner and stayed the night

W 3 Jim’s twenty-first birthday; Mary went for a fortnight’s holiday; had a painting lesson; George and Agnes came up at night

T 4 I went to class – last time as Mr Robinson needs the room; called to see Fannie and her new baby; Mr Robinson came to dinner and spent the evening with us; Dr Cressy called; Father better

F 5 Took Father to Bramble Haw in his chair and Pearce took us over the old garden; Arthur came up at night

S 6 Still feeling very poorly; Father and I went up to Bampfylde to tea

S 7 George and I went to service at night; I stayed for the Sacrament with Kit – Mr Robinson preached; George, Arthur and Kit came in to supper; I went in the morning – Mr Morris preached; Mrs Jarrett called

M 8 I called to see Fannie and Amy Yates – Ray took Father out in his chair; Dot came to stay; George and Agnes came up at night; Father and I sent two guineas towards a presentation to Mr Robinson

T 9 After lunch, Nellie and I met George in town and he took us to the national rose show at the Royal Botanical Gardens – we had tea there and then went – by car and taxi – to Hampton Court and, from there, by steam launch up to Richmond and had supper there before coming home;  Mrs Childe came to see Father; feeling very poorly

W 10 Ditto; made cherry jam; two cases of Tasmanian apples arrived; Ray took Father six miles in his chair with Dot and Danny; Dot and I went to the devotional service; I had a painting lesson and  finished ‘Spring time’; Amy Yates came to tea with Ada

T 11 Very poorly; went to see Dr Cressy; Jim came over in the morning to stay the night

F 12 Heat intense; Jim left after lunch; Father, Dot and I went an hour and a half drive after tea; Mr Latham came to dinner; Rene called; Father better

S 13 Still poorly; George came up in the morning; I called there in the afternoon; finished making cherry jam – 11lbs in all

S 14 Heat awful – 88° in the shade; Dot and I went to service in the morning and stayed with Father at night; George and Mr Robinson (Seaford) came up after supper

M 15 Grace’s birthday; the heat continues; I went to town to buy summer dresses, etc; I went to darling Mother’s grave; George and Mr Robinson (Seaford) and Agnes came up at night; servants’ income tax becomes law

T 16 I went to see Fannie and went over the house with Agnes; Agnes came to dinner – she and Dot went for a walk afterwards; I went to see Dr Cressy

W 17 The heat wave continues; Dot and I went to service at night; George came up; Mary came back from her fortnight’s holiday

T 18 Dot left after breakfast; Ada had a holiday; cooler

F 19 Weather turned very cold; had a fire again; went to see Fannie, Arthur came up at night

S 20 Father poorly, sent for Dr Cressy; he sent me medicine to ease breathing; Father and I went to Bampfylde to the christening of Fannie’s son – Ronald Kingsley Williams; we stayed to tea and brought Father home and went back for the evening. Marian came for the weekend; Mr Robinson, Eddy, Mr Herbert and Mr and Mrs Kirkness at Fannie’s

S 21 Father better; lovely day; Marian and I went over to Sutton church; both stayed with Father at night; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 22 Dr Cressy came to see us both; Father better; Ray took him a longish turn in his bath chair, I went part of the way and then went to the bank for Father

T 23 Called to see Kitty; Mary and I take Father to Hackbridge after tea

W 24 Had a painting lesson; Father and I went for an hour’s drive after tea; George and Nellie came to dinner; George, Edie and I went to farewell meeting to Mr Robinson in the field adjoining the chapel; his people presented him with a cheque for fifty guineas

T 25 Dr Cressy came to see us both; Mr Robinson came in to tea and to say goodbye; Trot came to dinner and stayed the night; I went to united class meeting – very crowded out but a beautiful meeting

F 26 Uncle’s 85th birthday; Trot stayed until evening and I went over to have tea with him; Lillie, Marian, Kitty and Arthur went, too; he is very well and bright; Trot took Father out for an hour in his bath chair

S 27 I called at Nellie’s in the morning; Mary and I took Father out for an hour in the afternoon

S 28 Stayed with Father in the morning; Agnes came to tea and I went to service at night, the Rev Robinson’s farewell – the church was crowded

M 29 Had a short painting lesson; Father continues very weak and low; Dr Cressy came to see us both; am feeling very poorly; Arthur came up at night

T 30 Had a very anxious day but Father better in the evening; Mary and I both took Father out for an hour in the chair; George came up at night

W 31 Uncle and Alice came over for the day; Father a little better; I had a painting lesson; Ethel has appendicitis; George and Agnes came up at night

August

T 1 Had a painting lesson; Dr Cressy came to see us both; Father better; Pearce came up in the evening; made 6lbs redcurrant jelly

F 2 Mary and I took Father out in the afternoon; Arthur came in at night

S 3 Ethel had an operation for appendicitis, reported successful and she is doing well; Dr Cressy came; Father not quite so well; I called at Nellie’s; George and Agnes came up at night; Ada and Mary went out in the evening

S 4 Stayed in with Father all day; was better in the evening; George and Nellie came up to supper; Ethel going on well

M 5 Had a fire, rain and squalls; on Saturday, the temperature in London fell to 38°, snow in the Midlands and in Scotland; Hetty and Oliver motored from Coventry and arrived about 5pm to stay

T 6 Raining all day; we did not go out at all; Father continues very weak and poorly; Dr Cressy came to see us both

W 7 Oliver took me for a fifteen mile run in his motor after breakfast – fast; country lovely – through Purley, Coulsdon, Caterham, Whyteleaf and Rose Walk; thunder and heavy rain, cold; sent Mrs Staples a postal order for 3/-; George came up at night

T 8 Trot came over and stayed the night; I went to the bank in the morning; called at Miss Leach and Bampfylde to say goodbye as they are all off to Eastbourne tomorrow

F 9 Trot left after lunch; Fannie and baby came to see us after tea; George, Nellie and the two girls went to Eastbourne

S 10 Heavy rains and thunderstorm, very cold at night; Mr Morris and Agnes called; Father better

S 11 Father better; I went to service in the morning; Agnes and Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; had a fire

M 12 Dr Cressy called; cold, wet day

T 13 Father and I went to 1 Marine Gardens, Eastbourne for a fortnight; Agnes saw us off at Croydon after tea; George and Nellie met us; Father managed the journey well; Rev Fletcher called before we left; Mrs Pearce came to keep Mary company; fine, but cold

W 14 Fine morning, wet evening; Uncle and Marian came in the morning; I took Father out in his chair for an hour and a quarter before dinner and an hour  after tea; lovely air

T 15 Wet and chilly; sun came out for a short time so took Father in his chair for an hour before dinner; Edie and I went up to see Uncle and Aunties after tea

F 16 Lovely morning; I took Father out for an hour and a half in the morning; Jim came down on his motor bike to stay in Eastbourne; had tea and supper with us; Uncle, Aunties, Lillie and Marian all came to tea; After, we wll went out to see an aviator in his water plane

S 17 A lovely day; I took over Aunt Lissie’s birthday basket of fruit from us both and then took Father out for an hour on the front; Trot, Gladys, Bob, Theo and Katherine Armstrong came down to Grand Parade to stay; Trot and I took Father on the pier after tea and we saw three aviators fly; Trot came in after supper; I went out with George and Nellie

S 18 Took Father out for a ride after tea; cold, wet day, did not go to service; had tea upstairs; Uncle and Marian joined the party

M 19 Took Father out for an hour; he and I went to Aunties for tea; Trot and Marian went home today; George and I went for a walk at night

T 20 Strong wind and cold; I went on the beach early and then took Father for a ride; after tea, George took him for a long turn with Nellie and me; I took the children down town to buy them sweets; Uncle and Lillie came to supper; General Booth died, aged eighty-three

W 31 The coldest day we have had, with a strong win and showers; Gladys took Father to far end of parade in the morning; Trot came back to stay; she, George, Nellie and I took Father to Redoubt after tea; in the morning, I went to the nursing home with Aunt Janie to make arrangement for her cataract operation next week

T 22 Bright sunshine but still cold; I took Father for a long turn in the morning and Trot helped; after dinner, Gladys and all the children plus Edie and Rene and I went in a motor boat – very rough and we all got soaked and enjoyed it thoroughly; Trot stayed with Father while I had tea with all of them at her place; we took Father out again after tea

F 23 Pouring rain all day; Father did not go out; I went up to see Aunties in the morning; Trot came in at night and I went to a picture theatre with all the others; a very good show

S 24 Pouring rain again; cleared after tea; we took Father out for an hour; George and Trot stayed with us for a round of whist at night

S 25 A lovely day; Father went to chapel – first time for three years; he much enjoyed the service and he got on well; Trot and four of them went with us; George, Nellie and the girls came down to tea; After, Trot came in and we took Father out for two hours; saw a monoplane close over our heads, flying backwards and forwards

M 26 I took Father out for a long turn in the morning; after tea, Trot went with us for half an hour – it turned colder; George and all of them left after lunch; I went up to see Aunties before supper; Trot and Jim came in for whist afterwards

T 27 A lovely day – we are staying on till Saturday; I took Father out for an hour in the morning; we all went down to the pier in the afternoon; Trot stayed with Father while I took Gladys and Katherine to hear Mark Hamburg – a musical treat; he played Chopin; we saw another biplane; Aunt Lissie came for tea

W 28 Aunt Janie had the preliminary operation for cataracts; I went to her first thing and stayed during the operation (all went well) and then went up to see Aunt Lissie; Trot took Father out, I met them afterwards; I took Father out for two hours after tea; a lovely day, warmer; boat regatta at night, very pretty; Trot and Gladys came in for whist

T 29 Pouring rain and a gale most of the day; I stayed in all day with Father as he was so weak and low; after tea, I took him out for an hour in his chair and then went to see Aunt Janie – found her very ill; Aunt Lissie called in

F 30 Rained in the morning, cleared later; took Father out for half an hour before dinner; we went to Trot’s for tea and then she and I took Father out for two hours; after, I went to see Aunt Janie, found her a little better

S 31 A lovely day; I went up to the home to see Aunt Janie and then to say goodbye to Aunt Lissie; took Father out for an hour; we left by the 4.26pm train – Trot, Ethel, Gladys and the rest saw us off – arrived Croydon at 6.10pm; Agnes met us; found all right at home; both feeling better for the happy holiday

September

S 1 I went to service; we spent a quiet day alone

M 2 I went up to see Kitty

T 3 Cold, but dry; Mary and I took father out for an hour after tea; Father gave me a cheque for £25 – I gave him the £22 housekeeping savings; Arthur came up at night

W 4 Father not so well; we took him out for an hour after tea; I called at Nellie’s

T 5 Father much better; too cold for him to go out; I called to see Agnes; George and Rev Rees called in the evening

F 6 Continues very cold; called to see Bessie Hay

S 7 I took Father up to George’s after tea; Agnes came to dinner

S 8 Warmer, Father better; I went to service and heard our new minister for the first time, the Rev Walter Rees; stayed for the Sacrament; George and Nellie came up to super

M 9 Father and I drove into Croydon to the bank after tea; I called to see Theo; Grace has been married for three years today

T 10 Kitty called after tea; I went to see Mr Pearce

W 11 Coldest September day I ever remember

T 12 I went to Croydon before lunch, shopping; Mary and I took Father out for an hour after tea – sunshine; George came up at night; Father better

F 13 I took our birthday wreath to darling Mother’s grace; Father in the garden; Arthur came to dinner; I went to see Agnes in the evening

S 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; Trot and family came home from Eastbourne; Mr Latham called; I went up to George’s; made 9lbs of crab apple jelly

S 15 Eleven years today since my precious mother went Home; I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie spent the day with us; much warmer

M 16 Father better and in the garden; Rev Rees called for the first time in the evening

T 17 Took a basket of pears and apples to Kitty

W 18 A lovely day; Uncle and Alice spent the day with us; I took a basket of dahlias up to Nellie

T 19 Cold; Agnes came up at night; I sent Mr Pearce’s daughter a winter costume

F 20 Eleven years ago today since we laid Mother to rest; a lovely day; Edie called; after tea, Father and I went for an hour and a half’s drive, the country lovely

S 21 Mary and I took Father out for an hour after tea; Father better; we made 8lbs of quince and apple jam

S 22 I went to service; George and Nellie came in to supper

M 23 Mary and I took Father out for an hour in his chair, he enjoyed the ride; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner

T 24 Trot came over and stayed the night; I went to town shopping after lunch and got back just after 7pm; George took me out to tea; he came up in the evening; Father and Trot went for an hour and a half’s drive

W 25 Very cold; I had a painting lesson; Nellie and Edie called; I called on Agnes

T 26 Father better; I went to class; Rev Rees met it for the first time; Agnes came to dinner; George called in the evening

F 27 I had a painting lesson; Kit, Arthur and Violet came to dinner; Kit and I called on Mrs Rees

S 28 Eddy called

S 29 I went to service; Father well; we spent a quiet day alone; cold on me

M 30 Very wet; stayed in all day

October

T 1 Went to Croydon in the morning; Rev Fletcher called; Miss Hunter called and Mr Latham; raised Ada’s wages to £22, termination of two years

W 2 Father has a bad cold; mine still bad; stayed in all day; Mr Stewart called

T 3 Kept Father in bed all day; Miss Adams called; Rev Rees came up at night as did George; Dr Cressy came to see father – usual weakness; was up with Father several times in the night

F 4 Father very ill; was up with him most of the night, had a bed in his room; Trot came over for the day and stayed the night; George, Arthur, Nellie and Edie called; in all day

S 5 My darling Father’s 81st birthday; spent it in bed but had a quiet, happy day; much better; Trot left before lunch; George, Nellie, Kit, Arthur, Agnes and Mrs Pearce called to see him; he had eighteen letters besides a lot of presents; in all day

S 6 Father better but still in bed; am with him night and day; in all day

M 7 Father sat up for an hour in the evening, much better; Trot came after tea and stayed the night, so that I might have a night in my own room; George and Kit called in the evening; in all day

T 8 Father better, still in bed; Trot left us after tea; George, Agnes and Mrs Pearce called; Ada had a holiday

W 9 Father sat up for a couple of hours in the evening; Mary went to see the oculist and to the dentist so was single-handed all day; in all day

T 10 Father better, sat up in his room for a couple of hours; went out for quarter of an hour

F 11 Ditto; Dr Cressy did not call; George, Arthur and Agnes came up at night; in all day

S 12 Father not so well – an anxious day; in all day

S 13 Father better, dressed for the first time and sat up all day in his room; George came up to supper; Arthur in the evening; did not go out; a lovely day

M 14 Sent off our Xmas presents to Hobart; Father, a silver table vase; I sent an oil painting and some slippers; Father not so well; we were awake with the cough all night; Trot came over for the night and I went to bed; I went to Nellie’s after dinner for half an hour; Ernest came down

T 15 Father a little better; I went up to Kit’s before lunch whilst Trot was here; she left after tea; Mr Rees and Edie called; Mr Cheshire came in to tea and dinner

W 15 Father much better; dressed and sitting up in his room

T 17 Had disturbed night with a cough; Father decidedly better; came downstairs for the first time, to lunch; Miss Blewitt called

F 18 Father better, dressed himself and down to lunch; Mr Rees called in the morning and stayed an hour; I went in to see Agnes; George came up at night; Ada went out in the evening; sent a box of windfalls to the animal hospital

S 19 Weather lovely all this month; Father better; Agnes and George came up at night

S 20 Stayed with Father all day; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; George and Nellie to supper

M 21 Father much better; Mrs Pearce had tea with the girls; did not go out all day

T 22 A damp, cold day; George came up at night

W 23 Ditto; went to see Bessie Hay and Miss Leach; George called; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

T 24 Kitty called; Trot came over and stayed the night so that I could sleep in my own room; I went to have tea with Mrs Wood and Violet; took Father round the garden in his chair

F 25 Had painting lesson; went up to see Kitty; Trot left after tea; Pearce came up at night; took Father round the garden in his chair

S 26 Pouring wet all day; Arthur came up at night; we sent Amy Yates two concert tickets

S 27 I went to service; Mr and Mrs Harry Williams called with George, Nellie and Arthur after service; we spent a quiet day alone; Father much better; warm, Spring-like day

M 28 Mr and Mrs Rees called; Agnes came up at night; Father better

T 29 Had painting lesson; called to see Nellie; Mr H Champness came to dinner

W 30 Amy called and had tea with the girls; Mary went to hospital in the morning; George came up at night

T 31 Trot came over and stayed the night; I spent an hour over with Uncle; George called

November

F 1 Trot left before lunch; Rene called; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; George and Nellie to dinner; students exhibition of small pictures at studio, I sent in four

S 2 Lillie and Marian came to stay the weekend; Ada and Mary went to a concert at night; Lillie and I went up to the students exhibition at the close; Father much better

S 3 Lillie, Marian and I went to service; Rev Rees preached; we all stayed with Father at night

M 4 Marian left early, Lillie left in the morning; I went to the bank at the same time; Mr Spencer Hopkins came to tea; Agnes came in the evening

T 5 A dark, wet day; I called to see Fannie; George came to dinner; Mr Latham called; Ada had a holiday

W 6 Called to see Nellie; Father much better; wrote Xmas letters to Hobart; yellow fog; Mary had a holiday

T 7 I went to class; Mr Childe and George came up at night; Father well, went for a walk round the garden

F 8 Nellie came in to tea and went to Streatham with me to buy a hat; Arthur came in at night

S 9 A Spring day; Father in the garden; Dr Cressy said goodbye to him; he is very well; Agnes came up at night; Ray went to Norwood to plant our grave with pink hyacinths (21); sent ODFL sub of 2/6

S 10 I went to service; George and Nellie came to tea and supper; Jim had an operation for appendicitis

S 11 Nellie went to Streatham with me after tea to change the hat; Mrs Foster and George called; Jim very ill; Eddy came up at night

M 12 Did not go out all day; Edie called; Jim better

T 13 Edie came in to tea and I met Lillie in town and went to Miss Moore’s exhibition of pictures in Bond Street and to Dore Gallery; we had tea together; I got back to dinner; Edie stayed and Eddy came up at night

W 14 Had anthracite stove fixed in Father’s room; Mr Latham called

F 15 Had sweep in the kitchen and the boiler cleaned; I called to see Nellie; George came up at night; went back to my own room to sleep – have been sleeping six weeks on a chair bed in Father’s room to keep fire in all night

S 16 Foggy and damp day – continues all week; Father not so well; George and Agnes came up at night; Jim better; both girls went out in the evening

S 17 I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came up to supper; Father better

M 18 Uncle and Alice came over to tea; Agnes came to dinner

T 19 Sent Trot and oil painting of ‘Spring in the woods’; Mrs Hay and Bessie called; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; I went up to Bampfylde after dinner; Jim better

W 20 Trot’s birthday (fifty-three); had painting lesson; George came up at night; Miss Leach called; Father better; Mary had a holiday; did not go out

T 21 Father keeps very low and poorly; I went to class; Arthur came up at night

F 22 Sunshine; Father much better; went round the garden; Kit called

S 23 Father not so well; Mr and Mrs Antill called; George came up at night; did not go out

S 24 Father better; went round the garden; I went to service in the morning; George came up to supper

M 25 Wind and rain; I went up to see Kit

T 26 Ditto; Mr Rees called

W 27 Had a painting lesson; Nellie, Fannie and Ronald came to tea; I called on Miss Hunter and Miss Leach and found them both out

T 28 Hard frost, bitterly cold; went to class; Jim not so well; still have neuralgia – had it for weeks

F 29 George and Percy came up at night; Mary went out after dinner; specialist came down again to see Jim, who is very ill

S 30 Boiled Xmas puddings – 1 large, 1 medium and 1 small; George called; Mr and Mrs Childe called in the afternoon; Agnes came in the evening; Ada went out after dinner; Jim had second operation – and abscess, very ill

December

S 1 I went to service in the morning and stayed for the Sacrament; George and Mr Elliott came up after supper

M 2 I went to the dentist; George called; Jim better

T 3 I went to Croydon shopping; Father well; Ada had a holiday; Mrs Pearce called

W 4 Dot came over in the morning and stayed the night; I went over to Trot’s for a few hours; found Jim better but still very ill

T 5Dot left early; Father keeping much better; I went to see Edie, been poorly; Mary had a holiday

F 6 George and Mr Latham came to dinner

S 7 Had a painting lesson; Agnes came up at night; Jim much better

S 8 I went to service in the morning; George and Nellie came in to supper; Father keeping well

M 9 Father went round the garden; I called to see Fannie

T 10 Trot came over for the day; I went to the dentist; went to sale of work at our church; spent 15/10 and we sent four dozen mince pies for refreshment stall

W 11 Had a painting lesson; Mr Rees came to tea; George came up at night

T 12 I went to class; George came in to dinner

F 13 Miss Craigie came to see me about forming a Band of Mercy in Carshalton; I went to see Nellie – met Mrs Batty there; went to see Agnes’ cat as it was very ill; Father keeping well; Arthur came up at night

S 14 I went to see Kit and had tea with them; Agnes came in to dinner; Jim going on well

S 15 I went to service; George came up to supper

M 16 Had a painting lesson; went to Croydon shopping after tea; Father wrote five of his Xmas letters himself; we did Xmas cards together at night

T 17 Did not go out; we finished Xmas cards at night

W 18 Went to see Nellie in bed with a bad knee; had painting lesson

T 19 Went up to see Nellie; George came up at night

F 20 Had a painting lesson

S 21 Father not quite so well; Trot came over unexpectedly after lunch for a few hours; we posted our cards and rest of parcels; had painting lesson; finished ‘Danny and Silver’ for Father

S 22 Went to service – Xmas service; George came up to tea; Father better, spent a quiet, happy day together ; he went round the garden; Lilacs are budding and the bulbs up; iris in bloom

M 23 Did decorations in the morning; took our Xmas wreath to Mother’s grave in the afternoon; Mr Cheshire came to lunch and tea; Kit called; Pearce came up at night and brought plants and flowers; sent out rest of parcels; sent ½ bushel of carrots to shelter for cab horses

T 24 Took 2 dozen mince pies to the cab men – a wet and stormy day; Lillie and Marian came at night to stay over Xmas

W 25 All gone off well ; Bampfylde people all came to dinner at four as did the Testars – we numbered ten and the baby; Father got on well and said he had been very happy all day – it was for all of us; spent evening with games and music; storm of wind and rain all day

T 26 Father well; we spent a quiet day alone with the girls and had music all evening; George, Edie and Mrs Pearce called; Mary had a holiday; weather the same as yesterday

F 27 Lillie and Marian left in the morning; we had a quiet day alone; Ada had a holiday; rain and wind continues

S 28 Called to see Nellie; wet continues and very mild

S 29 Went to service in the morning; George came up to supper; colder, with a fire; Father keeping better; Jim came downstairs for the first time for seven weeks

M 30 Had tea with Kit; George came up at night

T 31 Danny poorly; Jim spoke to me on the phone; Edie came up at night; Father well


1913

January

W 1 Father well; a Spring-like day; I had a painting lesson; Uncle and Alice spent the day with us; I went to Bampfylde after tea

T 2 Went to the bank; Kit and Dorothy came to tea; I took Father round the garden in the chair; a Spring day; wrote to Mr Todd about the Band of Mercy work; Mr Rees came up after dinner and stayed the evening

F 3 Finished Silver and Danny’s portraits; called to see Amy, found her ill and sent her grapes; called on Miss Hunter; had tea with her and Miss Leach; took Father round the garden in his chair

S 4 In all day, feeling very poorly with a bad cold

S 5 Ditty; Agnes came to tea and supper

M 6 Ditto; Edie and Bessie called; George came up at night; Father not so well

T 7 Ditto; Gladys came over to lunch and stayed the night; Amy called

W 8 Gladys left before lunch; George came up at night; I went to see Nellie

T 9 Went to class; Kitty, Arthur and Dorothy came to dinner; we all played Nap; I took Father round the garden in his chair; much better

F 10 Violet came down to tea and dinner; gave her 2/6 for Council of Justice; called to see Mrs Pearce; Mary went out after dinner

S 11 Wet, coldest day we have had

S 12 Went to morning service; George came to supper; bright sunshine but cold

M 13 Hard frost; bitterly cold; called to see Nellie

T 14 Ada had a holiday

W 15 Mary had a holiday; Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over and stayed the night

T 16 Trot and the children left after lunch; Mr Latham called; Rev and Mrs Rees came to dinner

F 17 Fannie and baby came in to tea; Miss Leach called as did Mrs Pearce; Ada went out at night

S 18 Dot’s twenty-third birthday; I wrote to Mr Parker of the Baptist church about Band of Mercy week

S 19 Went to morning service; George and Mr Brown came in to supper

M 20 A very wet day

T 21 Trot came over and stayed the night; I went to a whist drive at Mr Champness

W 22 Trot left before lunch; I went up to see Nellie

T 23 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; I went to class; went up to Bampfylde for an hour after dinner

F 24 Visited Bessie Hay

S 25 I went up to Kit’s in the afternoon; Miss Leach called; Mr Foster came to lunch

S 26 Went to morning service; Agnes and Marjory called after tea; George came up to supper; Mr Parker said he was hoping to start a Band of Mercy in response to my letter

M 27 Went to Croydon after tea, shopping; sent a parcel to Lillie and Marian; Mary went out after dinner

T 28 Did not go out; Father much better for the last weeks

W 29 Dense fog all day; I went up to see Nellie; Della had a little son

T 30 Went to see Dr Cressy about Ada’s thumb; went to class; Marjory came in to tea; George and Arthur came up at night; Ada went out after dinner

F 31 Mrs Chandler called; Edie and Rene came to dinner and whist; Ada went to have her thumb operated on at the hospital

February

S 1 Father well; went to see Miss Leach

S 2 Went to morning service; George and Nellie came to supper; Aunt Janie’s birthday

M 3 Trot and Theo came over and stayed the night; Edie, Rene and I went to see ‘Miracle Play’ at the picture palace in Oxford Street and then looked at shops; went up after lunch and had tea at Selfridge’s; got home about 7.30pm

T 4 Trot and Theo left early; Edie called; George came up at night; Just heard Gladys has chronic appendicitis and is to go to bed for ten days

W 5 Went to the bank in the morning; Uncle and Alice came over to tea; I went up to Nellie’s before supper

T 6 Marjory came in to tea; Hilda and Dot came down to stay the weekend; Edie came in after dinner and we played whist; took Father round the garden in his chair

F 7 Made the pastry and cake in the morning; Agnes and Marjory came to dinner

S 8 My birthday; had may loving letters and presents – fifteen letters and cards; took Father round the garden in his chair; the girls and I went up to Bampfylde for half an hour; Agnes came in to tea

S 9 Awake nearly all the night with acute pain in my ear; Dr Cressy came to see me in the morning; Abscess in ear; feeling very poorly; girls went to both services and to see Agnes; six of our friends called

M 10 Jim came over for the day; Dot left after lunch; Edie and Rene came to tea and dinner; Agnes called

T 11 Gladys had an operation for appendicitis – I went over for the day to help them; Hilda stayed with Father, who went in the garden; George and Edie called; Bobbie has measles

W 12 Father not so well; I did not go out; Hilda went for a long walk; Kitty called; Gladys very ill

T 13 Hilda went to Nellie’s to tea; I went there to dinner and Hilda stayed with Father; Father better; thick fog at night

F 14 Ditto; I went over to have tea with Uncle

S 15 Hilda left after lunch; Gladys going on well

S 16 Went to morning service; Mr Childe and Leslie came to tea

M 17 Snow and very cold; Dr Cressy came to syringe Father’s ears – with good results; I went to see Mr Cheshire, who is ill in bed; George came up at night

T 18 Snow; did not go out; Ada had a holiday

W 19 Went up to see Kit; Mary had a holiday; Miss Leach called; Agnes came up at night; Bobbie well again; Dot has whooping cough

T 20 Intense cold; Father fairly well; I went to class; Mr Rees called; George came up at night

F 21 Sent Mrs Staples 5/-; Mr and Mrs Morris called; Gladys better; Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to dinner; I went to a lecture on Francis Thompson while Arthur stayed with Father

S 22 Went up to Bampfylde;

S 23 Went to service; called to see Agnes; George and Nellie came to supper

M 24 Went to tailors at Croydon in the morning; Carshalton Band of Mercy just started; Lantern lecture in the church rooms; George came up at night

T 25 Gladys doing well; Father not so well; did not go out

W 26 Went to Croydon to be measured for a coat; Father better; Agnes came up at night

T 27 Took Father round the garden in his chair; went to class; Mr Chaffer came to dinner; George came up after and, with Father, audited the Mill Lane accounts

F 28 Fog and cold; went up to see Kit

March

S 1 Gave donation to the Carshalton Band of Mercy – 10/-; Miss Adams called; made the pastry; Mr Rees came in to tea; Agnes came to dinner

S 2 Went to service in the morning and stayed to the Sacrament; we spent a quiet day alone; sunshine; Father very well

M 3 I went to Croydon to the bank and to be fitted for a coat; Mr Stewart called; George has influenza; I gave Ada notice to leave on May 13th; gales

M 4 Went up to ask after George and took him an azalea in full bloom; sent Kit a parcel of toys for the convalescent home; Gladys worse, very weak – sent her four books; Mr Farmer Atkinson died

T 5 Took Father round the garden for half an hour this morning and after tea Mary and I took him out for an hour in his chair; went to see Mrs Pearce; Gladys and George better; a lovely day

W 6 Went to class; Mr Rees came to tea and administered Sacrament to us afterwards; took Father round the garden in his chair; Arthur came up at night; a gale at night

T 7 I went to Croydon to the tailor; went to Bampfylde and found George much better; Gladys continues weak; Mary went out after dinner

S 8 Sleet and very cold; Trot and Theo came to lunch and tea; Agnes came at night; Ada went out after dinner

S 9 Went to service; Father poorly at noon but better later; Mrs Grant and Nell came down to tea; Arthur and Theo called in the evening

M 10 Violet and Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; Father better; I am feeling very poorly with lumbago and neuralgia

T 11 A Spring day; took Father round the garden for a long time in his chair; went to George’s and found him better; had painting lesson

W 12 Ditto; Father better; went to Miss Wynard’s Registry; George went back to business

T 13 Took Father round the garden for half an hour in his chair; called at Bampfylde; Spring cleaned the linen press and store; still feeling poorly; Gladys spoke to me on the phone

F 14 Kitty called; went to see a cat who was ill in Taylor Road; Agnes came up at night

S 15 Gales continue; feeling better; made the pastry; went to Bampfylde after tea; Father better; Mrs Landon called

S 16 Went to service; Rev Rees preached a beautiful sermon on Passion Week; spent a quiet day alone; Ethel had a son at 10 o’clock this morning; both doing well

M 17 Snow and hail; Spring cleaned the box room; Mary and Ada went to a concert at night

T 18 Sunshine but cold; I went to Bampfylde; George much better

W 19 Gales continue – cold; George came up at night, first time since his illness – three weeks

T 20 Had a painting lesson; Father well; George and Nellie went to Brighton and Kit and Arthur to Southsea

F 21 Went to service; we spent a quiet day alone; Agnes came up at night; Ada had a holiday; Mary went to service

S 22 Made the pastry; took Father round the garden in his chair; sunshine and then a gale and  storm; Lillie and Marian came to stay the weekend; Mary had a holiday

S 23 Easter Day; Marian and I went to service; I took Father round the garden in his chair; Rev Rees, Mrs Rees and Hugh came to tea; the girls and I all stayed with Father at night

M 24 Dull, cold day; we did not go out all day; Father not so well; played whist at night

T 25 Marian left early and Lille after lunch; I went up to see Edie and Rene; Father better; Miss Hunter called

W 26 Mrs Peace came and spring cleaned the billiard room and the studio

T 27 I cleaned the servants’ room and china pantry; Mrs Pearce here; Trot came over for the day; Father in the garden twice

F 28 Pouring rain; I went to two Registries in Croydon before lunch; sent Miss Craigie eighty copies of the Band of Mercy magazine for distribution at the next meeting; we sent Lillie and Marian a case of books

S 29 Went up to see George and Nellie and round them much better for the change of air; Agnes came up at night; feeling poorly with lumbago

S 30 Went to service; took Father round the garden – better; George and Nellie came to supper

M 31 Silvery mist died, aged nine years; Mrs Pearce here; had three carpets and stair carpet up; George came up at night

April

T 1 Did not go out; workmen came in; Mrs Pearce here

W 2 Went up to Nellie’s; Ray buried Silver by Lassie’s side; Edie and Rene came up for whist at night; Mrs Pearce here

T 3 Father in the garden; did not go out; sent Hilda at wedding present – electro-plated egg boiler

F 4 A cold day; Mrs Pearce here; Arthur came up at night; Ada went out after dinner

S 5 Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; Father better; Mary went out after dinner

S 6 Went to service; Father well, we spent the day alone; Wrote to Inspector about shooing of birds

M 7 Very cold; Mrs Pearce here; Violet came down to tea and dinner; I went to bank and registry in Croydon

T 8 Called at Bampfylde and found George ill in bed

W 9 Very cold and dull; called to see George; Lillie came over to dinner; Father and I paid off their old debts for them. Mrs Pearce here

T 10 Workmen left; Mrs Pearce here; gave two workmen a book each; Croydon inspector called twice to see me about bird shooting; called to see George and found him up

F 11 Snow and very cold; Mrs Pearce here

S 12 Bitterly cold; went up to see George; Father pretty well; cousin Alice died

S 13 Went to service; called at Bampfylde; Agnes and Marjory came to tea and supper

M 14 Called to see Bessie; Trot and children came back from week at Bournemouth; Mrs Pearce here

T 15 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner and George came to dinner; Mrs Pearce here; Mrs Forsyth called for Ada’s character

W 16 Called to see Nellie; Mrs Pearce here half a day; Mary went out for half the day

T 17 Mrs Pearce here; Mr Lawton came to see Danny; I went to Croydon shopping in the morning

F 18 Finished Spring cleaning; Trot and Gladys came over and stayed the night; Arthur and Agnes came up at night; Gladys and I went up to Bampfylde

S 19 Trot and Gladys left after lunch; Fanny and Hilda came for the weekend; Miss Hunter called; Danny better;

Dog accident opposite our house; got owner to bring it in and helped bathe wound

S 20 Father well and in the garden; Fanny, Hilda and I went to service; I went up to see George; we stayed with Father in the evening; Mr and Mrs Rees came to supper

M 21 Fanny and Hilda left in the morning – said goodbye to Hilda, she sails for Canada next week; went to see Fannie Testar; George came up at night

T 22 Summer day; Father well and in the garden a lot and we took him out for a ride after tea; Mr Latham came to dinner

W 23 Summer day; Father in the garden; Fannie and Ronald came to tea; I went up to Bampfylde; Mrs Pearce here – curtain wash; Mary had a holiday

T 24 Another summer day; Father and I went for an hour and a half’s drive; George came up at night; Mrs Pearce here; Ada had a holiday

F 25 Wet day and much colder; I went to see Agnes

S 26 Wind and rain, cold; went up to Bampfylde; Agnes came to dinner

S 27 Went to service; George, Nellie, Edie and Rene came up to supper

M 28 Uncle and Alice came to tea and dinner; I went to the bank in the morning

T 29 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; in went up to Bampfylde; thunderstorm

W 30 Trot came over to stay the night; she went to Bampfylde to tea; I went there after dinner; Agnes called; Ada Blackman (cook) left after two and a half years’ service

May

T 1 I went to Nellie’s after breakfast and stayed until two; George had an operation for gall stones, several removed; doctors are satisfied with his progress; Trot stayed with Father and returned home at night; I went to Nellie’s again in the afternoon; Mr Rees called, as did Mr Cheshire; Mary Hutchings, the new cook, came in

F 2 Went up to Bampfylde three times – George very ill, I saw him for only a few minutes; Mary and I took Father out for an hour in the chair; Arthur came up at night

S 3 Went to Bampfylde in the morning and saw George – and went again in the evening, found him a little better; Laurie and Fred came to stay the weekend; wheeled Father in the garden for an hour – he is well

S 4 Laurie and I went to service; cold again; I sat with George for half an hour – better; we all stayed with Father at night; Mr Rees came in at night

M 5 Went to see George; Fred and Laurie left after breakfast; Father well, took him round the garden for an hour

T 6 I saw George in the morning and found him better; went to Croydon after tea to get some fruit for him; a cold day

W 7 Took Father round the garden; went to see George; Agnes came up at night

T 8 Sent sub to the RSPCA; Mr Rees and Mr Latham called; I went to see George in the morning; Arthur came up at night and I went to the RSPCA annual meeting at Sutton with Miss Hunter – crowded hall, splendid meeting

F 9 Sat with George for an hour after tea; took Father round the garden

S 10 Took Father out for an hour in his chair and in the garden; went to see George; lovely May day

S 11 Went to service; we spent the day alone; too Father in the garden and went to see George

M 12 Father and I went to Bampfylde to tea; had a cab both ways; raining all day; George going on well; Mary Hutchings went out for two hours this evening

T 13 Glorious day; we took Father out for an hour and a half in his chair and called at Bampfylde and saw George; Mr Rees called

W 14 Trot came over for the day; we all went up to Bampfylde after tea

T 15 Saw George in the morning; went to class; Agnes came up at night; cold

F 16 Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; went to see George; we sent off Grace’s birthday present of books

S 17 Lovely day, Father well; after tea, I wheeled Father up to see George and we sat with him half an hour, then Mary and I took Father for a ride

S 18 Went to service in the morning; student called at Bampfylde; Kit and Arthur came to supper; Bessie called; very cold

M 19 Marjory called; I went up to see George and met Mr Stacey there

T 20 Dot came in the morning and stayed the night; I went to the Royal Academy and then on to have tea with Mrs Wood

W 21 Took Father up to see George for an hour in the afternoon; Dot left after breakfast

T 22 2 cases of Tasmanian apples arrived; sat with George and Nellie for an hour after tea and called on Mrs Pearce; Mrs Hawksley called

F 23 Called on Mrs Hawksley and to see George; Mary and I took Father for a long ride across Beddington Park; glorious day

S 24 Intensely hot; took Father up to Kit’s to tea and stayed two hours – Arthur brought the chair back; I went up to see George and found him better; Agnes came in at night

S 25 Went to service; Agnes came to tea; heat intense; Father and I in the garden most of the day

M 26 Theo’s birthday – ten; sent a lot of things to the jumble sale at Mill Lane; took Father up to tea at Bampfylde; we sat with George for a couple of hours; Hutchings had a holiday

T 27 Heat continues intense; 80° in the shade; I went to see George

W 28 Ditto; went to see George; Miss Jordan called; Took two concert tickets to cabbies; Mary had a holiday

T 29 I took Father up to see George and found him sitting up for the first time; Mary and I took Father across Beddington Park; Dr Cressy came in to see him – indigestion; Mrs Pearce had tea with the servants

F 30 A heavy storm last night; Mary and I took Father for a long ride after tea, by Sandy Lane; I went up to Nellie’s; Agnes came in at night; Hutchings went out after dinner; Mr Latham came to tea

S 31 Feeling poorly; Dr Cressy called to see Father; went to the bank; went up to see George; Mary went out after dinner

June

S 1 Went to service; Mr and Mrs Childe came to tea

M 2 A lovely day; Mr and Mrs Gilchrist and Ellen came down for the day – arrived to lunch and stayed until 6pm; I went up to see George after

T 3 Ray planted our grace; Father and I had an hour and a half’s drive; I went up to Bampfylde and found George dressed and downstairs; Pearce came up to see Father; Dr Cressy called

W 4 Derby Day; did not go out; Father and I spent the afternoon in the garden; Mr Cheshire came in the evening

T 5 George came up to dinner – we took him back in the bath chair; Arthur came up at night; Father not so well this week

F 6 Rev Robinson came to lunch and tea; I went to Bampfylde to say goodbye to them; they go to Margate tomorrow for three weeks; Agnes came up at night; called to see Mrs Hay

S 7 Mary and I took Father for a long ride in his chair after tea

S 8 Went to service; we spent the day alone

M 9 Sent Agnes her birthday present; Mr Lawton came to see Danny (dew claws); Dr Cressy called; Mr Worsfold brought Father the church flowers; had a painting lesson

T 10 Trot came over and stayed the night; I met the Gilchrist’s in town; went to the Midland Hotel to lunch and tea with them and to the Royal Academy; then spent an hour with Lillie on the way home

W 11 Trot stayed until 6pm; Mr Cheshire came to lunch; I laid a stone for Brandon Hill Wesleyan Mission hall in the afternoon

T 12 Dr Cressy called; took Father round the garden for an hour; Agnes came up at night

F 13 Dull and cold days continue and we have fires; took Father in the garden; called at Kit’s; Arthur came up at night

S 14 Mary and I took Father across Beddington Park; Lillie came to stay the weekend

S 15 Animal Sunday and Lillie and I went to the service; we’re all in the garden a lot; previously written three letters to papers and asked four ministers to preach on the subject

M 16 Kit’s birthday – sent her a painting; had a painting lesson – last of term; Lillie left early; Violet came down in the afternoon and brought a kitten; heat intense – 86° in the shade

T 17 Still very hot; Fannie and Ronald came to tea; I bought Father a motor cloak for his bed; sent Violet a delaine blouse and belt for her birthday

W 18 Mary and I took Father out for an hour in the chair; Agnes came up at night; Violet’s birthday

T 19 Went to class; Mrs Wright and Foster called; Agnes came to dinner; Kitty came in the morning

F 20 Mr Rees came in to tea; Mary went out after dinner

S 21 Took the kitten back to Miss Drew at Clapham in the morning; took Father round the garden for an hour; Dr Cressy called; Kit and Arthur came to dinner; Hutchings went out after

S 22 Went to service; Father and I sat in the garden for an hour and a half after tea; Mrs Hay and Percy came in after supper

M 23 Had a painting lesson; called on Mrs Pearce; Mr Latham came in the evening

T 24 Fine but cold; went to Croydon after tea

W 25 Howard and Georgie Berry came down in the afternoon and stayed to dinner; Agnes came up at night

T 26

F 27 Trot came over for the day; Rev Bourne and Mr Cheshire came to dinner; called on Miss Leach

S 28 Father and I went to have tea with Agnes; took Bessie a bunch of our roses

S 29 Went to service in the morning; we went to Bampfylde to tea; found all well and George much better

M 30 Had a painting lesson; Mary and I took Father out for an hour in the bath chair; George came up in the afternoon; made 12lbs strawberry jam; Kit and Arthur came up at night

July

T 1 Uncle and Alice came to tea and dinner; Mr Childe came up after dinner

W 2 Mr Cheshire came in to lunch; I went to the bank in the morning; Mary had a holiday; Trot poorly

T 3 George came to dinner; Eddy and Agnes came up at night; Mr Latham came in the afternoon; Jim’s 22nd birthday

F 4 Father and I came to 16 Eastern Esplanade, Cliftonville for a fortnight; Trot and Gladys saw us off at Victoria; Nellie called before we left; Mary went for a fortnight’s holiday and Mrs Pearce went up to keep Hutchings company

S 5 A lovely morning but it turned cold and rain later; took Father out in his chair for an hour and a half before dinner; a short turn after tea; Alice Giles and Miss Florence came over to see us

S 6 Took Father out for an hour and a half in the morning and another turn after tea; cold later in the day

M 7 Took Father our for an hour and a half before dinner and another hour and a half after tea; bright, but cold

T 8 We went round the glad mast in the morning and took Father for an hour and a half in the morning and for two hours again after tea; strong wind and cold but better later; we watched bowls in the morning and did shopping together later

W 9 Warmer day; took Father out for an hour and a half in the morning and two hours after tea; lovely on the front!

T 10 Out for an hour in the morning and two in the afternoon; Father very well

F 11 A lovely, warm day; out usual turn in the morning; Trot came down to stay the weekend; we took Father in the chair for three hours after tea

S 12 In the morning, Trot took us for an hour’s drive in a taxi to Broadstairs and Kingsgate castle etc; in the afternoon, she went to Westgate and I took Father out for a few hours

S 13 We took Father out in the morning and again after tea; we all went to Westgate church at night; Trot and I had a stroll after supper; Father poorly

M 14 Trot left us after breakfast; Father and I had our usual turn by the sea; I took Father out for two hours after tea; heavy rains later and I got caught

T 15 Grace’s birthday; we went out for an hour before dinner and another hour after tea; much colder

W 16 Went out for an hour and a half in the morning and two hours after tea; Father still not so well; eighteen warships in sight; weather grey

T 17 Went out the usual time before dinner and two hours after tea; Father better; Trot came in the evening and stayed the night; I went on sands in the evening

F 18 We left Margate by the 3.35pm train; Trot came with us and saw us off at Victoria; arrived home 7.15 and found all well

S 19 Father better; I went up to Bampfylde; George came up at night

S 20 Went to morning service; Father well and in the garden; George and Nellie came to supper

M 21 We took Father out for an hour after tea into the new recreation grounds; I called to see Mrs Pearce; Agnes came up at night

T 22 Gladys came over for the day; we took Father out for an hour after tea; Gladys and I called to see Fannie; I went to see Bessie; Mr Latham called

W 23 The inspector came to see me about an old horse in the park; I went to Croydon shopping; Bessie Hay came to tea; George came up at night; very cold – we had a fire

T 24 Lovely day, warm; we went for an hour and a half’s drive

F 25 Father out for an hour after tea; I went to see one of the cabmen, who is ill; gave Miss Dunn a costume and some blouses as well as some eggs and jelly

S 26 Edie came home and I went to have tea and supper with Uncle on his eighty-sixth birthday; Lillie, Marian, Kit, Arthur and Miss Avis were there; Uncle very well

S 27 Went to morning service; Father well; we spent a quiet day alone

M 28 A lovely day – Father in the garden all day; after dinner, we took him out for an hour in the chair; George came up at night; Bessie called

T 29 Went to see Mr Bedborough (cabbie who is will) and took him 2lbs 6oz loin of mutton; Took Mrs Hay a bunch of grapes; called on Miss Jackson; Eddy and Agnes came at night

W 30 Grey, cold day; Father in the garden in his chair; Mr Latham and Bessie came in the evening; did not go out

T 31 A lovely day; Father well; Mary and I took him out for an hour and a half after tea; I called to see Mrs Hay who has had an operation for a cataract; sent Mrs Staples 5/-

August

F 1 Went to the bank in the morning; Mary and I took Father out for nearly two hours through Beddington Park and called at Nellie’s; Hutchings went out after dinner

S 2 Marian came in the afternoon, Lillie in the evening, to stay the weekend; went to see Agnes; Mary went out after dinner

S 3 Lillie and I went to service in the morning and stayed for the Sacrament; we all stayed with Father at night; lovely warm day

M 4 Sent Ray’s boy a volume of ‘Animal World’; grey, chilly day, better later; we did not go out except in the garden; Kit and Arthur came to supper; Hutchings went to the flower show

T 5 We all went for an hour and a half’s drive to Rose Walk after tea; played whist at night

W 6 Marian left after breakfast; I went to East Croydon to see her off to Eastbourne; Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day

T 7 Lillie left after tea; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; called at Nellie’s

F 8 Went to see Mr Bedborough and found him dying; sent Mary up with brandy etc later; Uncle and Alice came to tea and dinner; Mr Rees, George and Agnes came up at night

S 9 Called on Bedboroughs and found he had died last night; stayed half an hour with his wife; went to see Mr Forsdick for them, wrote to the insurance company and gave her 5/-.  Father and I went to Bampfylde to tea; George called in the morning

S 10 Went to service; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; lovely day – Father well

M 11 Had a painting lesson – working in black and white; Morris brought her baby to show us

T 12 Lost Pekinese came to the door and I spent a lot of time trying to find the owner; took it to its home after tea; saw Fosdick again about insurance for Mr Bedborough; Mary and I took Father out for a ride; George and Agnes came at night

W 13 Called to see Fannie; Father very well

T 14 Mr Cropper came to tea and dinner; George came up at night

F 15 Wheeled Father about the garden for an hour; called to see Miss Hunter

S 16 Mary and I took Father out for an hour in the chair; Kit and Arthur came to stay the weekend

S 17 Kit, Arthur and I went to service; we all stayed with Father in the evening; very hot day; Aunt Lissie’s birthday

M 18 Arthur left early and Kit left after tea; Violet came down to tea and dinner; Bessie called; Father not so well

T 19 I wheeled Father about in the garden for an hour or two; did not go out; Hutchings had a holiday

W 20 Father better; we went for an hour and a half’s drive and were in the garden a lot; George came up at night; Mary had a holiday

T 21 A lovely day; Mary and I took Father out for an hour across to the park

F 22 Had a painting lesson; called to see Bessie; Miss Hunter came to dinner

S 23 Beautiful fain at last; we were in the garden a lot; Agnes came up at night

S 24 Went to service; glorious sunset and a summer’s day; Father better and in the garden a lot; George and Mr Elliott came up after supper

M 25 A lovely day; we were in the garden all afternoon; Father and I picked some of the apples; Miss Craigie called, told me they have to 90 members affiliated to the RSPCA

T 26 Mary and I took Father out for an hour in his chair; called at Kit’s; George came up at night

W 27 Arthur came up at night and Kit and I went to united class meeting

T 28 Heat intense; went to Croydon shopping in the morning; Mary and Hutchings went out after dinner

F 29 Uncle came to tea and dinner and Alice and Mr Giles to dinner

S 30 Wheeled Father about the garden for an hour; went up to Nellie’s; made 6lbs marrow jam

S 31 Very wet day; we were alone all day; I went to service in the morning

September

M 1 Feeling ill, bad bilious attack, doctor came out to see me; a very wet day; Trot and family came home from three weeks holiday in Dymchurch

T 2 Another wet day; Fanny Testar came to tea; Miss Cheshire called; George and Agnes came up at night; Dr Cressy came to see me; Father well

W 3 Wheeled Father about the garden for an hour; went up to Bampfylde

T 4 Trot came over for the day; am still feeling very poorly

F 5 Feeling very ill; Dr Cressy came to see me; Arthur came up at night

S 6 Mr Cheshire came to lunch; Theo called in the evening

S 7 Went to service and stayed for the Sacrament; we spent a quiet day alone; Father well

M 8 Agnes came to dinner; Dr Cressy came to see me

T 9 Had a painting lesson; sent parcel of clothes to Humane Needlework Society and a parcel of books and a cosy to the bazaar for the Council of Justice; four years today since Grace married

W 10 Went shopping to Croydon; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; called on Miss Hunter; George came at night; sent sub of 5/- to ODFL

T 11 This glorious autumn weather continues; we went for an hour and a half’s drive (Grace’s wishes); called to see Bessie

F 12 Took our birthday wreath to darling Mother’s grave in the morning; Kit came in the afternoon, George at night; Mary went out after dinner

S 13 Father and I went up to Kit’s to tea and stayed a couple of hours; Mr Lovegrove called; sent donation of 3/- to the Feline Defence League; Hutchings went out after dinner

S 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; we spent a quiet day alone; went to service in the morning

M 15 Twelve years today since darling Mother went Home

T 16 Had a painting lesson

W 17 Called to see Nellie; Mr Chaffer came to tea; Bobbie went to Aldenham school

T 18 Father not so well; wheeled him about the garden for nearly an hour; a perfect day; Agnes came up at night; Father and I joined Mudie’s library; went up to see Kit; made 20lbs of apple jam

F 19 Had a painting lesson; wheeled Father about the garden a lot; Mr Rees came to tea; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Mrs Hay and Percy came up at night

S 20 Mary and I took Father to the top of Woodcote to see aeroplanes, we saw ten go by; I went to Bampfylde; anniversary of Mother’s funeral

S 21 Father better; wheeled him about the garden for half an hour; went to service; stayed with Father at night

M 22 Rev Robinson came to lunch and tea; I went up to see Kit; George came at night; Dr Cressy came to see us both; Father better; Della’s birthday

T 23 Father in the garden; Hutchings had a holiday

W 24 Had a painting lesson; Father and I had an hour’s drive; Edie and Rene came to dinner and whist; sent a box of apples to Lillie and Marian; Mary had a holiday

T 25 Trot came up for the day; Howard and Georgie came to dinner; Dr Cressy came to see us both

F 26 Intensely hot day; had a painting lesson; I had tea with Miss Hunter and her sister; George came up at night

S 27 Heat continues; Mr Cheshire came to lunch and tea; Ray picked the last of the apples; Dr Cressy called to see us both; Father better; Mr Lovegrove called; Agnes came up at night#

S 28 Heat continues; went to service; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 29 Mary and I took Father up to Wallington to buy some rose trees; I went to the dentist

T 30 Dot came in the morning to stay a few days; we went for an hour and a half’s drive after tea; George came up at night; went to see Kit in the morning

October

W 1 Dot stayed with Father while I went to see Sir Anderson Critchett; George and Nellie went with me – did some shopping in the West End and went to see ‘Hamlet’ at the New Gallery picture palace; the film cost £10,000 and starred Forbes Robertson and Gertrude Elliot and company; got home to dinner

T 2 Had a painting lesson; Dot left later after tea; Arthur, Kit, Mr Latham and Agnes came during the day; Ethel’s twenty-ninth birthday

S 4 Sent a tin of apples to cabmen’s shelter and another for the horses; went to the bank before lunch. Trot came to stay the weekend; George came up at night

S 5 Father’s eighty-second birthday; well and spent a happy day; Trot here and George, Nellie, Kit and Arthur came to tea and supper; Trot and I went to morning service; Father had eight letters and many presents

M 6 Trot left directly after breakfast; I went up to Victoria by the 2.9pm train and home by the 3.46pm; went to optician to have my glasses altered

T 7 Miss Hunter and Miss Gwen came to tea; I called at Bampfylde; took Father round the garden in his chair; Gladys’ birthday – twenty-seven; Dr Cressy came to see us both

W 8 Heavy rains; had Father’s anthracite stove lighted for the first time; George came up at night; did not go out

T 9 Had a painting lesson; Mr Latham came to tea; sent picture to Luton art exhibition – ‘Daydream’; accepted and placed with professionals

F 10 Went to see Arthur’s motor

S 11 Pouring rain all day; Mary and Hutchings went to a concert at night

S 12 Went to service; we spent a quiet day alone; Father went round the garden in his chair; a lovely day

M 13 Went to see Nellie; Arthur came at night and I went to a lecture on Turner; took Father for a good turn round the garden in his chair

T 14 Took Father round the garden; went to see Mrs Hay; Mr Latham came to dinner and Arthur came in at night; lovely weather continues

W 15 Fanny Milum came down in the morning to stay a few days; Father very well and in the garden; did not go out as feeling poorly with a cold

T 16 Did not go out; Father in the garden; George came up at night

F 17 Had a painting lesson; lovely day and Father very well, out in the garden a lot; Fanny left after lunch

S 18 This glorious weather continues; took quantity of flowers and foliage to church for harvest festival; sent Lillie, who is ill, a box of fruit, jellies, etc; Lawrence Hay called and so did Edie

S 19 Went to service in the morning; Mr and Mrs Pearce came to have tea with Mary; George and Nellie came to supper

M 20 Wheeled Father about the garden for an hour in the morning; Agnes came up at night

T 21 Uncle and Alice came over for the day; did not go out

W 22 Bessie and Mrs White came to tea; Father and I went for an hour’s drive before lunch to Croydon and see Brandon Hill Mission; I called on Mrs Leach

T 23 Had painting lesson; sent two paintings to Tunbridge Wells art exhibition – The Ferry, Walberswick and Fireside Favourite – not accepted; George came at night

F 24 Kit came in the morning; Edie took my place and I went to have tea with Lillie and Marian; Lillie very ill, been in bed for a fortnight; took her fruit and flowers; Rene came at night for whist; fog

S 25 Father in the garden; I called at Kit’s; George came up at night; Trot moved into Bay Tree Cottage

S 26 Pouring wet day; I went to service

M 27 Alice came to tea and to talk over matters about Lillie and Marian; George came at night; warm; did not go out

T 28 Called to see Amy; Kit and Arthur came to dinner; Agnes came up at night

W 29 A lovely day; Father in the garden; George came up at night

T 30 After lunch, I went to Peckham to select two bedsteads for Lillie and Marian; found her able to sit up – got home to dinner; went to make arrangements about getting Lillie to the sea

F 31 Glorious autumn weather still continues; Gather in the garden; Miss Cheshire called

November

S 1 Father in the garden; George and Mr Lovegrove came up at night; packed parcel of bed linen and jacket etc, for Lillie and Marian#

S 2 Went to service – a student preached; George and Nellie came to supper

M 3 Violet came to tea and dinner; she spoke on kindness to animals at Wesleyan Poor Home and I went with her; Mr Rees came in to tea

T 4 Gladys came over for the day; Father in the garden; Hutchings had a holiday

W 5 Went to bank; Father in the garden; George came up at night

T 6 Colder; called to see Kit; Agnes came up at night; heard that Jim has passed his final exams for the army with high marks

F 7 Had a painting lesson; paid Miss Moore £1/10; had sweep in the kitchen; Lilly went to Ryde for a month; Miss Hunter called; Mary went out after dinner

S 8 Called at Bampfylde

S 9 Went to service in the morning; Mr and Mrs Rees and Hugh came to tea; George came to supper

M 10 Father in the garden; Arthur came up at night and I went to a lecture on Matthew Arnold’s poetry; Ray planted Norwood with blue hyacinths

T 11 Trot came over for the day; I had tea with Uncle and got back to dinner; heavy rains; made mincemeat

W 12 Gave £2 towards the expenses for Lillie

T 13 Wrote Xmas letters for Hobart; Agnes came up at night; Father well; weather colder; went to class

F 14 Called to see Nellie; George came up at night

S 15 Called at Kit’s and found Dorothy in bed with appendicitis

S 16 Went to service; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 17 Dot came and stayed the night; I went to Trot’s after lunch to see their new home and got back at 9.40pm

T 18 Dot left after lunch; called to see Kit; George came to dinner; Mr Rees called; Mr Latham came; Father in the garden

W 19 Father in the garden; Fannie and Ronald came to tea; Mr Moffatt called; Edie and Rene came up at night for whist; Dorothy Champness had an operation for appendicitis – going on well; went to see Kit after tea

T 20 Trot’s birthday; went to see Kit; Dorothy very ill

F 21 Had a painting lesson; went to see Kit; Mary went out after dinner

S 22 Went up to Kit’s – Dorothy very ill; George and Agnes came up at night; fog and colder

S 23 Went to service; Arthur came up in the evening

M 24 Gladys came to stay and to help Kitty nurse Dorothy; Mrs Pearce brought up a bunch of large chrysanthemums; Miss Hunter called

T 25 Father in the garden; I called to see Kit; Dorothy worse; Gladys there helping; Mr Latham came to dinner; Mr Cheshire and Agnes called; picked a rose

W 26 Boiled Xmas puddings; Gladys went to Kit’s, Dorothy better; Father unwell, sent for Dr Cressy – usual weariness and cough

T 27 Father better again; Gladys went to Kit; I called for her in the evening and saw Dorothy

F 28 Father in the garden; I called to see Nellie; Gladys left after breakfast and went home

S 29 Went to see Kit – Dorothy better; Father in the garden; lovely weather continues; lilac budding; Agnes came to dinner; have a bad cold

S 30 Feeling very poorly; did not go out all day; Mr Childe and Leslie came to tea; George and Nellie to supper

December

M 1 Ditto; did not go out; Dr Cressy came to see Father; George came up at night; began putting up clean curtains; raised Hutchings wages to £22

T 2 Uncle and Alice came for the day; Rene called; cold better but neuralgia still bad

W 3 I went to the RSPCA committee meeting in Sutton – eight present; Jim came over in the morning to stay the night; Edie and Rene came to dinner

T 4 Jim left after lunch; I went to the bank and to buy books for sale of work; very cold later

F 5 Had a painting lesson; went to Sutton to meet Lillie from the Isle of Wight and bring her home to stay; called to see Dorothy and at Miss Adams; Agnes came at night

S 6 Marian came in the afternoon to stay the weekend; Dr Cressy came; did not go out

S 7 Marian and I went to service; we all stayed with Father at night

M 8 Marian left after breakfast; Father in the garden; I called on Rev Frayne, Mr McKnight and Miss Hunter on RSPCA business; George and Agnes called; I sent 17/- worth of books on animals to sale of work

T 9 I went to the cat show at Crystal Palace after lunch and went on to see Uncle for an hour and got home early; Rene called; Mrs Pearce came to wash curtains; Hutchings had a holiday

W 10 Lillie left in the morning; Nellie and I went to sale of work and spent £1; George came at night; Mrs Pearce here; Mary had a holiday

T 11 Dot came down for the day; Nellie and I went to town by the 12pm train to see the shops and got back to dinner; George came up to dinner as well; Agnes called

F 12 Did not go out except to the village; feeling poorly

S 13 Went to see Kit – Dorothy came downstairs yesterday for the first time; colder

S 14 Went to service; Father better; very cold but lovely; spent a quiet day alone

M 15 Miss Leach called; I went to Croydon shopping after tea

T 16 Trot came over for the day; Mr Rees and George and Nellie called; Old Mrs Cade died aged 92

W 17 Called to see Miss Leach; George came in to dinner

T 18 Jim gazetted to second Middlesex battalion and stationed in Malta; I went to the bank in the morning; Agnes called at night; Hutchings had extra time out

F 19 Had painting lesson; Fanny and Ronnie came to tea; Father not so well; I did not go out; George and Edie came up at night; Mary had extra time out

S 20 Father better; Fanny Milum’s birthday; went to see Kit and found them out; called to see Bessie; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Mr and Mrs Antill came to dinner

S 21 Went to service; George and Nellie came to supper

M 22 Father and I did cards, parcels, etc all afternoon; Arthur came up at night; very busy day

T 23 Went to darling Mother’s grave to take the wreath in the morning; called on Mrs Pearce to take her present; pouring rain and fog

W 24 Father’s cough continues very bad, otherwise fairly well; sent carrots for cab horses; took mince pies to cabbies; did decorations; Pearce came up at night and brought heather for Father; finished sending out parcels; beautiful day

T 25 All gone off well; Father gone on so well and says it has been a very happy day all through; George and family, Fannie and family, Lillie and Marian all with us – thirteen with the servants; had dinner at four and all played games after; lovely weather

F 26 We had a quiet, happy day alone; George came in for an hour in the morning; Lillie and Marian left after breakfast; Father much better; Hutchings had a holiday

S 27 Father well; lovely day; I went to Bampfylde after tea and called to see Agnes; Mary had a holiday

S 28 Went to service; George and Nellie came to supper

M29 Intensely cold, frost; I called to see Theo Moore

T 30 Uncle ill with congestion of lungs; went over in the afternoon for a short time; found him better; George and Agnes came up at night; cold intense

W 31 Ditto; did not go out

Spring cleaning

Mar 17 Box room

Mar 26 Studio, billiard room

Mar 27 Servants’ room and china pantry

Mar 31 Dining room; Father’s first spare room and stairs prepared

Apr 1 Men came in to do dining room

Apr 2 Father’s room, cellar and garden

Apr 3 Finished dining room

Apr 4 Finished Father’s room

Apr 7 My room and spare room

Apr 11 Finished bathroom

Apr 14 Back spare room, boiler cleaned and new fire bricks

Apr 15 Finished drawing room and back spare room

Apr 16 Stair case

Apr 18 Finished spare room

Apr 19 Finished my room, workmen left

Xmas presents

Grace Painting of poppies £        1/1/6d

Wooden shoes 2/6

Father Painting of dahlias  10/-

Books 12/6-

Trot Painting of sunset 4/6

Gladys Painting of figure 2/3

Ethel Book 2/8

Jim Book (Testament) 5/-

Bobbie Book 1/6

Theo Book 1/6

George & Nellie Pair of cushions 5/-

Fannie Diary 2/-

Edie Collar – painted 1/-

Rene Collar – worked 1/-

Violet Blouse (made) 2/-

Mrs Wood Pocket (made) 1/-

Lillie Table cloth 3/11

Marian Blouse (made) 2/-

Agnes Bed slippers 2/6

Ellen Gilchrist Book 3/6

Gilchrist boys Books 3/-

Uncle Book 2/6

Ronald Wood ball

Bessie Book 1/-

Mrs Pearce Shawl 2/6

Mary 2 print dresses, apron and tin of biscuits

Hutchings Ditto

Mrs Staples Jersey, cake, tin of biscuits, 1lb tea, oranges

Cabbies 2½ dozen mince pies, some literature

Cab horses ½ bushel carrots


1914

January

T 1 Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; Fannie and Ronald came to tea; very cold, Father fairly well

F 2 Warmer; Kit and Arthur came to dinner

S 3 Father not so well; I called at Bampfylde; George came up at night

S 4 Went to service; Kit and Arthur came to tea; George came to supper

M 5 Father has a slight cold and his cough is worse; went to the bank and we did accounts together at night; was up with Father in the night

T 6 Sent for Dr Cressy to see Father – an asthmatic cold; Ernest came down to tea and dinner; did not go out

W 7 Father rather better; I called to see Kit; George came at night

T 8 Dr Cressy came to see Father – better, though his cough is still very bad; sent Mrs Brewer a parcel of clothes

F 9 Did not go out; Father easier at night; Kit, Edie and George came over; Mary went out after dinner

S 10 Edie called; very warm day – yesterday was the warmest January day for twelve years; Hutchings went out later

S 11 Stayed in all day with Father; his cough is easier at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 12 Snowing most of the day

T 13 Still snowing; Father rather better; went to see Nellie; George called; Hutchings had a holiday

W 14 Did not go out; Dr Cressy came to see Father; George came to dinner; RSPCA inspector called; Mary had a holiday

T 15 Jim came for the day to say goodbye before sailing for Malta next week

W 16 Alice came over to tea; Kitty and Miss Leach called; George came up at night; Dr Cressy came – Father rather better; bad night with a cough

S 17 Mr Cheshire came in the afternoon to stay the night; I called on Kit

S 18 Went to service; Mr Cheshire left after dinner; Arnold and Beattie came to tea and supper; Father better; Dot’s birthday

M 19 Went to the bank and shopping; Mrs Hay and Bessie called; Agnes came at night

T 20 Father’s cough much better these last three days; Mr Rees called; did not go out

W 21 Went to see Nellie; George and Arthur came up at night; Dr Cressy came to see Father, better

T 22 Miss Leach called; sent 10/6 to Tasmanian SPCA through Grace; did not go out

F 23 Parton and Nell came down to lunch and tea; cold intense

S 24 Frost continues; Jim sailed for Malta to join his regiment; went up to Bampfylde

S 25 Went to morning service; George and Nellie came to supper; frost broken

M 26 Trot came over to stay the night; Nellie called; George came up at night

T 27 Trot left in the afternoon; I went over to see Lillie before lunch – found her ill in bed; Eddy came up at night

W 28 Lovely day; took Father round the garden in his chair; did not go out

T 29 I went to see Nellie; very warm day; Hutchings out earlier

F 30 Mr Moffatt called; I went to see Fannie; George and Agnes came up at night

S 31 Had news Grace and Will expect to come home this year; went up to see Kitty; sent Aunt Janie silk scarf for her birthday; picked first snowdrop

February

S 1 Went to service and stayed to the Sacrament; Father well and in the garden twice; George and Nellie came up to supper

M 2 Went up to see Mrs Wood in the afternoon for an hour and found her very ill; Father in the garden twice; George came at night; Aunt Janie’s birthday; Hutchings had extra time out

T 3 Glorious day; Father in the garden for an hour; Kitty called; Mary had extra time out

W 4 Glorious day again; went to the bank before lunch; Father in the garden; George and Pearce came up at night

T 5 Father in the garden; Dot came down for the day; Agnes came to dinner; did not go out

F 6 Colder; Father in the garden for only a short time; I called to see Kit

S 7 Went into Croydon shopping; rain; bought 24/- worth of books out of Xmas box money

S 8 My birthday; a happy day with my darling Father; I went to service; George and Nellie came to supper; many loving letters and presents

M 9 Went to RSPCA committee meeting at Sutton; Trot came for the day; Violet came to tea and dinner

T 10 Had a painting lesson; Father in the garden; called at Kit’s and Mrs Pearce; George came up at night

W 11 Pouring all day; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; after dinner, I went up to Bampfylde for an hour; feeling very poorly still

T 12 Father in the garden; Arthur and Agnes came up at night; Father better; I still poorly; wrote to Melbourne

F 13 Gladys spent the day with us; Mrs Willmot called to ask me to be secretary of the RSPCA, unable to consent

S 14 Gales continue; called to see Miss Leach

S 15 Went to service; we spent a quiet and happy day alone; Father well

M 16 Called to see Mrs Latham and Mrs Rees; George came to dinner and Mr Lovegrove came after; Father audited Mill Lane accounts with them

T 17 Miss Hunter and Miss Leach came to tea; I went into Croydon before supper; Mr Latham called

W 18 Mrs Pearce called; they leave Bramble Haw on Saturday; Mary had a holiday; feeling very poorly

T 19 Still feeling poorly; called to see Miss Hunter; George came up at night; Hutchings had a holiday; wrote to Perth, WA

F 20 Went to Miss Hunter’s to tea to meet Mrs Willmot and Miss Leach and arrange about meeting, secretary, etc; Alice came to tea later

S 21 Sleet; George came in the afternoon; Agnes at night

S 22 Went to morning service; Agnes came to tea

M 23 Sent Nell MacAulay box of flowers when I heard she was ill; went to have tea with Uncle; Edie came here and stayed to supper

T 24 Called at Mrs Pearce and Bessie; George and Miss Hunter came up at night; Mr Stewart came in the afternoon

W 25 Called on Revs Jasper, Ferguson and Ridley Hunter and Miss Hunter about RSPCA meeting; Mr Rees called; took round a lot of posters and tickets

T 26 Went to RSPCA committee at Sutton; called Miss Hunter; took posters round etc; Father better; wrote to Colombo

F 27 Began Spring cleaning; painters started on the outside of the house; Mrs Willmot called; George came at night; Father in the garden a lot; I called at Kit’s; got chain horse for horse overloaded – Mr Collis helped me; Mary had extra time

S 28 Father in the garden; weather perfect; Arthur came at night; did not go out, still feeling very poorly; very busy week, working for RSPCA meeting at Parish hall; wrote a complaint about overloading to man at Vauxhall

March

S 1 Went to morning service and stayed to the Sacrament; Mr and Mrs Latham came to tea; Father in the garden

M 2 Mrs Pearce here for Spring cleaning; Mr Moffatt called and George at night

T 3 Mrs Pearce here; Miss Hunter called

W 4 Mrs Pearce here; Mrs Willmot called as did Fannie; George came down to dinner

T 5 Mrs Pearce here; Trot came over and stayed the night; went to our RSPCA meeting in the Parish hall; good attendance – a collection of £3/15/- at the door

F 6 Trot left at 12noon; I went to the bank early; Kit and Arthur came to dinner; Kit and I went to a lecture on Lowell by the Rev Robinson

S 7 George and Miss Hunter called in the afternoon

S 8 Went to service; Mr and Mrs Rees and Hugh came to tea; George and Nellie to supper

M 9 Did not go out all day; wet, dark day; Mrs Pearce here; sweep in the dining room

T 10 Mrs Pearce here; frost; George and Arthur came up at night; Mr Stewart came; had billiard table moved downstairs; Hilda had a daughter

W 11 Mrs Pearce here; Father had a game of billiards with me

T 12 Mrs Pearce here; sweep in the kitchen; wrote to Aden

F 13 Mrs Pearce here; called to see Kit

S 14 Gales; Mr Cheshire came to dinner

S 15 Went to service; George and Nellie came to supper

M 16 Gales; Mrs Pearce here; sweep in drawing room; Alastair’s first birthday

T 17 Mr Stewart called; George came up at night; Father in the garden

W 18 Mrs Pearce here; called to see Kit

T 19 Sleet; George came at night; called to see Miss Leach; Mrs Pearce here; wrote to Colombo

F 20 Snow; Mrs Pearce here; finished Spring cleaning; Mary had extra time

S 21 Very cold; Hutchings had extra time

S 22 Went to service; Mr Childe and Leslie came to tea; George and Nellie to supper

M 23 Rain continues, a very wet month; Agnes came at night; Mr Rees called

T 24 Rev Robinson came to lunch and tea; I went to Bampfylde; Fannie called; Father better

W 25 Gave Hutchings notice – been with us eleven months; Mrs Pearce here for curtain wash; Mary had a holiday

T 26 Called to see Mrs Hay; Kit called; George at night; Mrs Pearce here; Hutchings had a holiday

F 27 Trot came over for the day; Edie came at night; heard of Gladys’ engagement to Fritz Hugo

S 28 Father had an hour in the garden; a lovely day but cold later; called to see Mr Rees

S 29 Father well; I went to service; George, Nellie and Mr Brown came to supper

M 30 Rain continues; Mr Moffatt called; Agnes came at night

T 31 Dot came to stay; Father in the garden a lot; a Spring day; I had tea with Mrs Wood and Violet; Bobbie’s fifteenth birthday

April

W 1 Nellie and I went to town after lunch, shopping; got home by 9pm Father went into the park with Dot and Mary for an hour

T 2 Father in the garden; Dot left after lunch; Uncle and Alice came to tea; George came at night

W 3 Had a painting lesson; wheeled Father in the garden a lot; Arthur came up at night; engaged M Hawton to come on May 5th

S 4 Went up to Bampfylde; colder

S 5 Went to service; George and Nellie came to supper

M 6 Ethel and Betty came for the day; Lillie came to stay

T 7 Cold, wet day

W 8 Father in the garden; Lillie and I went to church at night; Arthur stayed with Father; Mr Cheshire came to dinner and tea; Agnes and Mrs Pearce came in

T 9 Lillie left after tea; sent PO for 2/6 to Mrs Staples

F 10 Went to service; Father in the garden; Kit and Arthur came to supper; Hutchings went to morning service, Mary at night

S 11 Did the flowers at church (11/-); Harry came to stay, we went for a walk in the park after dinner

S 12 Went to service; Maurice Champness came to tea; Harry went to early service and at night; Father well and in the garden; glorious Easter weather

M 13 Harry left early; took Father out in his chair for an hour after tea; Miss Leach and Miss Hunter called; called to see Agnes

T 14 Gladys, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; we took the Pekinese puppy to Mr Stewart

W 15 Father in the garden; Mr Latham came to tea; called to see Fannie; George came at night; Mary had half a day’s holiday

T 16 Father in the garden; cold winds continue but bright; I went to Croydon shopping; wrote to Marseilles

F 17 Had a painting lesson

S 18 Fanny Milum came in the morning to stay the weekend; Father in the garden for an hour

S 19 Fanny and I went to service; were in the garden all afternoon; stayed together at night

M 20 I had tea with Uncle and Alice; Fanny stayed with Father; Mr Moffatt called; very hot

T 21 Fanny left after breakfast; Mr Rees called; had tea in the garden; George came to dinner and stayed the night

W 22 Trot came over for the day; wrote to Gibraltar

T 23 Went to dressmaker; did not go out beside; colder; Father in the garden

F 24 Father not so well; did not go out all day; Nellie came up in the afternoon; had painting lesson; sent a guinea to the RSPCA

S 25 Father in the garden; sent for Dr Cressy – indigestion and weakness; called at Bampfylde

S 26 Very anxious day with Father but better by the evening; in the garden in the afternoon; I did not go out all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 27 Trot came over in the morning to bring me a kitten (Peter) and left early; Dick Mann called; Kit came to tea; I called on Miss Leach and Miss Hunter; Hutching’s left after a year’s service

T 28 Mrs Pearce came to stay a week; drove into Croydon in the afternoon and Father did some shopping

W 29 Made cakes ready for Grace’s return; lovely day; Father in the garden a lot; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; I went up to Bampfylde after; Mary had a holiday

T 30 Grace and Will arrived home at 4.30pm, both very well; a glad meeting to us all; Trot met them at Paddington

May

F 1 Grace at home with us; Will went to town; Violet came in the afternoon; George and Nellie at night; Edie and Fannie came in the morning

S 2 Weather still very cold; Grace and Will went to town and got back in the afternoon; Mr Lawton came; Danny gone to him for a week to be attended to; Ray planted Norwood with white geraniums – 1 ½ dozen in all

S 3 Father better, in the garden; Grace, Will and I went to service; George and Nellie came to supper; we all stayed together at night

M 4 Grace stayed with Father and Will took me to the Royal Albert Hall – a choir of 500 voices

T 5 Grace and Will in town; Mrs Pearce left; Mary Hawton came into our service as cook; beautiful rains

W 6 Grace at home with us; Father unwell – Dr Cressy came – but better later; George, Kit and Arthur all came up at night; colder

T 7 Father better; Grace at home with us; heavy rains

F 8 Grace and Will went to Duke of Argyll’s funeral and Uncle’s to tea and supper; Mr Rees came to tea; Dr Cressy called, Father better

S 9 Will took me to Hotel Great Central for the weekend – in the afternoon, we went to a symphony concert at Queen’s Hall – Dr Henry Wood’s orchestra an Dohnanyi the pianist; had dinner at the hotel; went to the Savoy at night to hear ‘A Midsummer Night’s Dream’

S 10 Heard R G Campbell at City Temple in morning; afternoon, Canon Masterman at Kingsway Hall; had lunch in the hotel, tea at Lyons; went to Brompton Oratory at night; concert in the hotel after

M 11 Went to Hampton Court by car and tube, saw the gardens, walked across Bushey Park to see chestnuts; lunch at Hampton Court, home via Richmond; got back 5pm

T 12 Trot came over for the day and stayed the night; Grace went to Croydon shopping

W 13 Grace and Trot went to Nellie’s and Trot left before lunch; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Mr and Mrs Childe called at night; I went to Bampfylde and Agnes came in after dinner

T 14 Grace in town and at Queen’s Hall concert; warmer; I wheeled Father in the garden for an hour; George and Agnes came up at night; a summer day

F 15 Ditto; Mary and I took Father out for an hour and a half in his chair; called to see Nellie; Grace and Will went  to hear ‘Parsifal’; Mary went out extra time; gave Miss Dunn a parcel of clothes

S 16 Will took us all for an hour and a half’s drive in the afternoon; Kit and Arthur came up to supper

S 17 Grace, Will and I went to service; a summer’s day; Father better and in the garden a lot; all stayed with him at night

M 18 Grace went to Croydon with me to do some shopping and then came back and, with Mary, took Father out; I had supper with Uncle and Alice; Mrs Giles there

T 19 Sultry day; Father in the garden a lot; Grace and Will went over to stay with Trot

W 20 Hot day; Alice came to tea and went for a drive with us after; Miss Hunter called; Grace and all of them went to Temple flower show; called to see Mr Stewart

T 21 Father and I went for a two hour drive to Croydon shopping; Grace and Will came home to supper; made Will’s birthday came; they went to the military tournament

F 22 I went to town shopping and to the Royal Academy; home by 3pm; Mr Robinson came to tea and dinner; thunderstorm at night

S 23 Much colder; Grace and Will went to London for the weekend; I went to the bank in the morning; joined the East Sussex art club by invitation of the president of the committee; picture sent in to them and accepted (Snowball, a cat’s head)

S 24 Will’s birthday; very cold; Father and I alone today; George came up to supper; stayed in all day; Father not so well; Ronald Childe called

M 25 Ditto; did not go out; Father better; Grace got home to dinner, Will later; they spent the weekend at Langham Hotel; Mr Moffatt called

T 26 I went to see Nellie; Agnes called

W 27 Grace and Will went to Derby; I took Father round the garden; Kit and Miss Lucas called

T 28 I left Euston by the 10am train for Skelmorlie, arriving at Glasgow Central at 6.30pm; Ellen met me and we got in at 8.30; Will saw me off

F 29 Wet day; I walked to the village in the morning; Mrs Gilchrist, Ellen and I motored to George’s in the afternoon

S 30 A lovely day; went in the woods early and then we motored to Gourock before lunch; Ellen and I went for a long stroll after tea

S 31 We all went to service in the morning and Ellen and I at night to the Established Church; two grandchildren came to tea

June

M 1 Mr Gilchrist went for a walk with me in the morning; very wet and cold the rest of the day

T 2 A glorious day; I went up early to the wood; at 11am, we went for a motor drive for an hour and a half; Rev Macdonald came to tea – he, Ellen and I went and sat in the wood afterwards

W 3 I went for a long stroll in the morning; Ellen and I went to Miss Blyth’s t tea and went over their grounds; saw lots of nesting boxes; went to the wood after dinner; weather perfect

T 4 Ellen and I sailed, by the Queen Alexandra; at 10am for Lochranza, landed there and spent the day on Arran – picnicked on a mountain side and saw a castle; glorious day, home about 6pm

F 5 Cold and dull; went for a walk with Ellen in the morning and read in the grounds; after tea, we went up on the golf course

S 6 We went for a motor drive to Largs, Fairlie and Scamill in the morning; after tea we walked to Upper Skelmorlie; very cold

S 7 Very cold; we all went to Church in the morning and then Ellen, James and I went at night; in the grounds in the afternoon

M 8 Mr Gilchrist, Ellen and I walked to Kelly, a charming estate of seven hundred and fifty acres, costing £6,000; a lovely glen with a burn; house burnt down by suffragettes; we went to the beach after tea

T 9 Ellen and I went for a sail in Neptune; left 10.25am and arrived home at 4.45pm; called at Rothsay; Brodick and Whiting Bay; cold but bright

W 10 Wet in morning, fine later; motored to Largs after tea; Mrs Macdonald came in the evening

T 11 Left Skelmorlie at 10am for Colmonell; we motored to Largs and then changed trains at Kilburnum and Ayr, arriving at Pinwherry at 2.06pm; Mrs Grant met me with her motor and also Nell and Grace; Mrs Grant stayed to tea with us

F 12 Nell and I drove Grace to the station in the morning – a heavy shower – forded the river; went again at 6pm to meet Jim; all went for a stroll in the evening

S 13 Very hot; strolled and sat about the grounds; after tea, Jim drove us to Colmonell and McNeil Castle, going through Irvine, Troon and Killochan; after dinner, call climbed the hills

S 14 Very hot; Jim and I drove to church, put the pony up at the hotel; Lt Col and Mrs Grant motored over to tea and had it in the garden; Jim, Nell and I went for a walk over the fields after supper

M 15 A glorious day; sat about the grounds all morning and afternoon; Jim left early; Nell and I drove to Ballantrae after tea; went for a stroll at night; servants out, Nell and I picnicked at home

T 16 Very hot; out in the grounds all morning and sat by the river after tea; went for a stroll at night; servants out so Nell and I picnicked at home

W 17 Weather continues perfect; Nell and I sat by the river after tea; Colonel and Mrs Grant, Nellie and John motored over and took me to Girvan in the fat – left Girvan at 5pm and arrived in Glasgow at 9pm; we all stayed at the Central Hotel

T 18 Left Glasgow at 10am and arrived at Euston at 6.20pm; Will met me at Victoria and home at 8pm; happy homecoming, found all well

F 19 Grace went to town with Kit; storm; Father and I were in the garden; went up to Nellie’s for a short time at night

S 20 Grace and Will went to town for the weekend; Father rather better; Mary and I took him up to Kit’s after tea; I planted his primroses for him; very hot

S 21 Went to service; Father and I spent a quiet day alone

M 22 Grace and Will returned at dinner; George and Mrs Pearce came up at night; sent sub of 5/- to the dogs’ home

T 23 Called to see Bessie; Father in the garden; Grace and Will went to town after dinner

W 24 Grace in town all day; both at night; Mary and I took Father out for an hour; Miss Leach and inspector called

T 25 Grace, Trot and Will started for a week’s motor tour to the English lakes; weather perfect; Father and I went for an hour’s drive; George, Nellie and Fannie came up at night; Dr Cressy called to see Father – his cough is very bad

F 26 Lovely day; Father better and in the garden a lot; sent off a lot of RSPCA circulars for Miss Hunter; Miss Leach called; Arthur came up at night; sent PO 2/6 to Mrs Staples

S 27 Father and I in the garden all afternoon; Mr Cheshire came at night; decrepit horse traffic pictures on at Carshalton public hall

S 28 Father still unwell, stayed with him all day; been up several times in the night this last week; we were alone all day; Grace, Trot and Will at Windermere

M 29 Heat intense; Percy called at night; wrote three letters for the papers about animal Sunday; Mary and Hawton went to the picture palace

T 30 Heat wave continues; Gladys came over for the day; Mr Moffatt called

JULY

W 1 Heat still intense – 86° in the shade, 126° in the sun; Grace, Trot and Will returned from a week’s motor tour; Grace and Will got home at 7pm

T 2 Dr Cressy came, Father a little better; Mr and Mrs Rees came to dinner; Arthur came at night; Fannie called

F 3 Will took me to the Henley Regatta – pouring rain but stayed to see eight races; home by 8pm; Trot came over for the day; Eddy came up at night; Jim’s birthday

S 4 Father, Grace, Will and I went for a two hour drive in the afternoon to Rose Walk, etc; Agnes called; Grace and Will went up to Bampfylde after dinner

S 5 Animal Sunday – Rev Rees gave an address to the children at the service; Grace, Will and I went and stayed for the Sacrament; George came up after supper; Father poorly but better later

M 6 I went to the bank before lunch; called to see Mrs Hay; Uncle and Miss Florence came to tea; Grace at home with us

T 7 Grace and Will took Violet out for the day; Mary and I took Father in his chair for an hour and a half and called at Nellie’s; I called on Miss Hunter; Mr Rees called

W 8 I spent the day at Trot’s; Ethel and the children there, also met Mrs Parker, Mr Hugo and Miss Garroway; Mary had a holiday

T 9 Grace in town all day – she and Will went to Bampfylde for dinner; Father better; I wheeled him in the garden for an hour and a half; Mr Moore called to ask advice about their cat

F 10 Made Grace’s birthday cake; Father, Grace and I went for an hour and a half’s drive; George came at night

S 11 Called to see Dr Passmore to consult about Hawton and appendicitis; Will took me to the zoo in the afternoon; came home by bus; Agnes called

S 12 Kept day as Grace’s birthday; Trot came over to dinner and tea; Kit and Arthur came to supper; Will and I went to service in the morning

M 13 Grace in town all day; I wheeled Father about the garden in the afternoon; Mary went for her summer holiday; Mrs Pearce came to stay

T 14 I spent the day with Fanny and Dot at Acton; Mrs Mann and Dick came to tea; Mr Cheshire to dinner

W 15 Grace’s birthday; Grace and Will went to a conference at Leeds; Kit, Arthur and Percy came at night; we made 12lbs of cherry jam from our fruit

T 16 We were in the garden all afternoon; George came up at night; made 9lbs currant and loganberry jam and lbs of currant jelly

F 17 Father in the garden for two hours or more; lovely weather; had neuralgia all week

S 18 Called to see Mrs Rees; Mr Rees very ill still; gave Miss Dunn a parcel of clothes; Agnes came up at night

S 19 Father ill with a heart attack; sent for Dr Cressy – better in the evening; keeping him in his room; Trot came over in the evening; Arthur and George called; Ronnie died on Saturday – two years old

M 20 Kept Father in bed all day, very weak; Dr Cressy came; Trot left after lunch; I went to Bampfylde early and found them all terribly upset

T 21 Father sat up for an hour in the evening, very weak; Grace and Will came home at night; Kit, Nellie, George and Arthur all called; I went to see poor Fannie after dinner

W 22 Did not go out; Grace went to see Nellie; Arthur and Percy called; Father a bit stronger, sat up a short time; Ronnie buried at Bandon Hill

T 23 Father about the same; Kit called; Grace and Will went to Mrs Childe’s to dinner; been with Father every night since Sunday

F 24 Father a little better but still in bed; Kitty, George and Miss Hunter came; Dr Cressy coming every day; I went to see Nellie early; Grace and Will went to Fanny Milum to tea and supper

S 25 Father improving; Grace went to Nellie’s in the morning; I went to Uncle to tea and supper, his 87th birthday; Marian, Kit, Arthur and Miss Avis there; he was very bright and well

S 26 Father up and dressed, in his room; Grace and Will went to morning service; Will and I went up at night

M 27 Grace in town all day; Trot came over for the day; Agnes called; I went to Bampfylde after dinner; Mary came back from her holiday; Mrs Pearce left

T 28 Father better; I went to the dentist; George came up at night

W 29 Father came downstairs for the first time – ten days; Grace and Will spent the day at Trot’s; Hawton had a holiday; Dr Cressy attending us both

T 30 Grace at home; I went to the bank in the morning and to see Dr Cressy; Mr Champness came to dinner and Fannie to tea

F 31 Grace at home; they went to Kit’s to dinner; Agnes called; Father in the garden

August

S 1 Will took me to an exhibition of ‘Sunny Spain’ and the Philharmonic hall at night to see Captain Scott’s expedition pictures; impending European war – began between Serbia and Austria; Stock Exchange closed on Friday, bank rate 8%

S 2 Will and I went to service in the morning; Grace and Will went up to London at night; Father better but I’m feeling very poorly

M 3 Grace and Will went to Eastbourne for the day; Morris and Monica called to see us; Agnes came to tea; Mary Hawton went to the flower show

T 4 Grace at home with Father in the garden; Dr Cressy came to see us both; Miss Hunter came to tea; Marian to dinner and stayed the night; sent Marian two paintings

W 5 England declared war with Germany at 11pm last night; I went to have tea with Violet and found Mrs Wood very ill

T 6 Grace and Will in town; Nellie, Edie and Miss Leach called; Mr Latham came to tea; feeling poorly, went to bed early

F 7 In bed all day; Trot came for the day; Mrs Willmot and Agnes called

S 8 In bed until tea time; went to Nellie’s; Mr Cheshire came to tea and dinner; Mr Statham passed peacefully away; all powers arming for war – bank rate been at 10.5%; Exchange closed

S 9 Grace and Will went to church; George, Nellie, the girls, Fannie and Eddy came to tea and supper; too poorly to go out

M 10 Saw Dr Cressy; in bed all day

T 11 In bed until lunch; Father better; Grace and Will went to Bromley; took in a stray kitten and tried to find a home for it

W 12 Summer weather; Father better; Grace and Will in town all day; Dr Cressy came to see me; Grace and I called at Bampfylde at night

T 13 Grace went to Norwood; I went to see Mr Rees in hospital and took the stray kitten to the lethal chamber; Mr Latham came to dinner

F 14 Uncle and Alice came to tea; Grace home with us; Will went to Derby for the day

S 15 Cooler; at home together; I went to Croydon shopping in the morning; Grace and Will went to town at night; Great European battle impending

S 16 Grace and Will went to morning service; Will took me to Westminster Abbey at night; it was very full and the Rev Hertslet, Chaplain to the Archbishop of Canterbury, preached on the War crisis

M 17 Grace at home; Dr Cressy said goodbye to Father, better; came to see me; Violet came in the afternoon and stayed the night; Aunt Lissie’s birthday

T 18 Father in the garden a lot; I went to Mrs Willmot’s to tea; Arthur came at night; Violet left early; Grace and Will went to a concert in town at night

W 19 Trot came over for the day; Miss Leach and Mrs Moffatt called; I went to Nellie’s in the morning

T 20 Went to the dentist; Grace went to town before lunch; George and Agnes came at night

F 21 Grace and Mary took Father out in his chair; I went to Miss Leach to tea to meet Miss Hunter and Mrs Willmot; Will and I went to Intercession Prayer at the parish church – crowded;

S 22 Grace at home; Father in the garden; Dot came to lunch and tea; Germans in Brussels

S 23 Will and I went to service; Grace and Will called at Bampfylde; we all stayed with Father in the evening

M 24 Grace went to town – back in the afternoon; Grace and Will called at Bampfylde; we all stayed with Father in the evening

T 25 Went to the dentist; Grace went to Violet’s to tea; Agnes came to supper; Hawton had a holiday

W 26 Grace at home; Will took me to see ‘Drake’ at His Majesty’s Theatre, very fine; Drake – Herbert Tree; Mary had a holiday

T 27 Grace went to town; Gladys and Fritz came to dinner, his first visit to us

F 28 I went to town shopping, got home to tea; Mrs Willmot called; Grace and Will went to Uncle’s to supper; Grace and Mary took Father for a ride in his chair

S 29 Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; Kit and Arthur came up at night; sent a box of peaches to Trot and, to Kitty, peaches and pears; apples to Lillie

S 30 Will and I went to service; all in the garden the rest of the day – had tea there; George and Nellie came to supper

M 31 Grace at home; Violet and Marian came down and stayed the night; Arnold came to supper

September

T 1 Grace and Will went to Harpenden; Violet left before lunch

W 2 Grace and Will went to Brighton for the day and to the theatre at night; Mary and I took Father out in his chair; George came up at night

T 3 Will took me to town for the morning –saw the soldiers drilling, recruiting, etc in the park; Lillie came to tea and dinner; Arthur came at night; Grace and Will went to Bampfylde

F 4 Spent all day together; Kit, Dorothy, George, Nellie, Agnes and Mr Cheshire came in to say goodbye to Grace and Will; Father keeping better

S 5 My darling sister and Will left at 9.30am to go on R & G Khyber for Hobart; Trot and family went to Tilbury to see them off – four months’ stay; Father in the garden a lot; Agnes called; Fannie and Edie and Rene called in the morning and saw them off

S 6 Stayed with Father all day; Trot came over to tea and supper; Edie and Eddy cam in the evening; Mary Hawton (cook) left to go under an operation at Carshalton hospital

M 7 Did not go out; Father well and in the garden; George and Nellie came up at night; we sent a box of peaches to Bampfylde and apples to Agnes

T 8 Did not go out; intensely hot

W 9 Sent parcel of clothes to Belgian relief fund and a box of windfalls to the animal hospital; we went for an hour’s drive; Nellie and Rene called; Grace’s wedding day – five years

T 10 Lovely day after rain; Father not well, sent for Dr Cressy; George and Agnes came up at night

F 11 Resigned membership of East Sussex arts club; made pastry; called to enquire after Hawton at hospital Mr Riley called; gave Mary extra time

S 12 Father better; cold, had fires; took basket of pears and apples to Bessie Hay

S 13 Stayed with Father all day, a quiet day alone

M 14 Mother’s birthday; Uncle and Alice came to tea; George came at night; Dr Cressy called; Mrs Pearce came to stay; heard the Khyber called at Marseilles on Friday

T 15 Thirteen years since our darling Mother went; Father better and in the garden; had letters from Gibraltar

W 16 Father in the garden; Theo and Bessie called; George came at night

T 17 Dot came in afternoon to stay a week; gales; had letters from Marseilles

F 18 After lunch, I took our birthday wreath to darling Mother’s grave; did some shopping on the way home; Agnes came at night; Fritz left for the Front

S 19 Cold; called to enquire after Hawton

S 20 I went to service twice; Dr Cressy called; Father better

M 21 Lovely weather but cold; had letters from Malta; went to Bampfylde after dinner

T 22 Dot went to Croydon in the morning; I went to town shopping in the afternoon; saw army airships over London; Mr Moffatt called; Mr Cheshire came to supper; Father in the garden

W 23 Lovely day; Dot and I took Father for an hour and a half’s ride in his chair; George, Kit and Arthur came up at night; Mary had a holiday

T 24 Dot left after lunch; I went to see Hawton in hospital; Nellie called; Mr and Mrs Childe called; Jim arrived in Southampton from Malta

F 25 Lovely day; Mary and I took Father across Beddington Park and called to see Nellie on the way home

S 26 Father well and in the garden; Lillie came to stay; Agnes called

S 27 Weather continues perfect; Father poorly, did not go out all day; sent for Dr Cressy

M 28 Dr Cressy came; Father still poorly; I went to Bampfylde; George came up at night

T 29 Father in bed all day; Dr Cressy came, better; Arthur came at night; did not go out

W 30 Father in bed; did not go out; Mrs Pearce left and Louie Brewer came as supply cook

October

T 1 Dr Cressy came; Father sat up for two hours; Dot came and Lillie left; Trot and I went to Whiteleys to buy Father’s birthday present; had a cable from Colombo, all well

F 2 Father sat up for three hours – better; George and Dorothy came; letters from Port Said

S 3 Ethel’s birthday; Father much better and downstairs again; Dot went to Croydon for me; I called to see Agnes; Kit and Arthur called

S 4 I went to service – the Rev Rees with a special intercession for the troops; stayed for the Sacrament; Dot went to Tooting church at night; George came in after supper; Dr Cressy called

M 5 My precious Father’s 83rd birthday; had 15 letters and many presents; Trot came for the day and stayed the night; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; Kit, Arthur, George, Nellie and Agnes all called to see him

T 6 Fanny Milum came to lunch and she and Trot left directly afterwards; I went to see Kitty

W 7 Gladys’ twenty-eighth birthday; Father much better and in the garden; I went to Uncle’s to tea

T 8 Went to see Nellie before lunch; Dot left after; took Father in the garden for half an hour; Dr Cressy called; George came and Mr Rees called

F 9 Did not go out; Mr Cheshire called and brought some pears; Mary had extra time

S 10 Father better; Mr and Mrs Mann came to tea; Louie had extra time; sent bundles of pampas grass and asparagus grass to church for harvest festival

S 11 Stayed with Father all day; George and Nellie came to supper

M 12 Frost; called to see Miss Hunter

T 13 Fog and rain; Mrs Willmot called

W 14 Ditto; Dr Cressy called; Father better; George, Kit and Arthur came up at night

T 15 Dot came for a week; Trot came for the day; Agnes called; had letters from Aden

F 16 Went to Mrs Wood’s to tea, found her in bed but she knew me; all streets in semi-darkness by order

S 17 Nellie’s birthday; I went up there after tea; George came up at night

S 18 I went to service in the morning; Dot went at night

M 19 I went to Trot’s to tea and dinner; met Lieutenant Deighton there; Mr Moffatt called; had cable from Melbourne, safe and both well

T 20 Mrs Wood’s birthday; went to see Theo and up to Kit’s; Dr Cressy called, Father well

W 21 I went to Agnes to dinner; home early; started oil painting of ‘Moonrise’

T 22 Dot left after lunch; George came at night; Father well

F 23 Did not go out; Kit and Arthur came up in the evening; Mary had a holiday

S 24 Spring like day; Father in the garden twice; Louie had a holiday

S 25 Stayed with Father all day; George came to supper

M 26 Had letter from Bombay; have bad attack of lumbago; Mary had extra time

T 27 Ditto; Father well; Mr Stewart and friends called twice; Agnes came at night; did not go out

W 28 Trot came for the day; I went to a meeting at Carlton House; Fannie and Eddy came in at night for whist

T 29 Dot came for a week; Miss Hunter called; wrote out Xmas letters for Hobart

F 30 Edie came in to dinner and whist; sent 10/- to Belgian relief fund for Grace and 2/- Danny; Peter Hawton came to see me

S 31 I had tea with Uncle and Alice

November

S 1 Went to service and stayed for Sacrament; Dot went at night; Dick Mann came to tea; Father in the garden

M 2 Went to see Nellie; bad cold came on later; sent three flannel bed jackets and two shirts to the Red Cross for our soldiers

T 3 Mr Latham came to tea; in bed with a severe cold and neuralgia

W 4 Ditto; got up in the evening; Jim went to the Front; Amy came to see me to say goodbye as she is leaving Wallington

T 5 Dot went to Croydon for me and left after lunch; Miss Hunter came to tea; George came up at night

F 6 Dorothy called; Arthur came up at night; Father keeping better

S 7 Mr and Mrs Childe called; Agnes came at night; Col Grant sent six pheasants; Louie had extra time

S 8 Stayed with Father all day; my cold still very bad; we spent the day by ourselves

M 9 Have not been out for a week; Father well; Mary had extra time

T 10 Went out for the first time for eight days; George came up at night

W 11 Uncle and Lillie came over to dinner mid-day; Ray planted our grace with double white tulips

T 12 Very cold; Dot came for a week; I went to Bampfylde after dinner

F 13 Had a painting lesson; Trot came for the day; Arthur and Percy came at night

S 14 Bitterly cold; Father well; I had tea with Kit; George came up at night

S 15 I went to service; Dot went at night; Mr Rees came to tea

M 16 Went into Croydon shopping; Mr Moffatt called

T 17 Frost; did not go out; Edie called; sent 7/6 worth of things to Daisy for bring and buy sale

W 18 Went to Sidcup after lunch with Edie; called to see Dr Crombie, the Olivers, the Wests, the Brewers, the Prices and Seagroves; got home at 8pm

T 19 Sleet; cold upsetting Father very much; Dot left; had painting lesson

F 20 Had the sweep in the kitchen; Alive came to tea; George and Agnes came at night; Trot’s birthday; Father better; my little Dick very ill

S 21 Had Dick with me all night and kept the stove on etc, much better today; Eddy and Fannie came in the afternoon and George at night; have had no mail letters since Bombay; Louie had extra time

S 22 Stayed in with Father all day; Father better; Dick nearly got over attack

M 23 Went to see Pearce, who has met with an accident and hurt his knee; George came at night; Mary extra time

T 24 Miss Hunter called; began to put up clean curtains; did not go out

W 25 Mrs Willmot called; lovely day; did not go out; Mary had a holiday

T 26 Little Dick died, my pet for thirteen years; Dot came; I called to see Pearce and Miss Dunn; Louie had a holiday

F 27 Had tea with Violet; Kit and Arthur came at night

S 28 Went to Bampfylde; George, Edie and Agnes called; sent my zither to the National Children’s home, Oxted branch, as a gift

S 29 Went to service; Dot went at night; George and Nellie came to supper; letters from Adelaide

M 30 Gale last night, very wet; did not go out

December

T 1 Fanny Milum came for the day and Gladys stayed the night; I went to the bank; Mr Stewart fetched the billiard table, which we have sold for £10; servants went to a concert at night

W 2 Went to Uncle’s to tea; Kit and Arthur came at night; Gladys left in the morning; made the mincemeat

T 3 Had painting lesson; Dot left; sent Lance Corporal Dunn a muffler and two pairs of socks; wrote to Jim and Hugh at the Front; heard Rev Robinson is going out, as Captain, to the Northumberland & Yorkshire Fusiliers

F 4 Lillie came to lunch and tea; George and Agnes at night; Father well; in all day; boiled Xmas puddings

S 5 Fred and Laurie came to spend the weekend; in all day; had first letters from Hobart; Louie had extra time

S 6 Stayed with Father all day; Fred and Laurie went to service in the morning; Father well and happy talking over old times!

M 7 Fred and Laurie left early; did not go out; cable ‘All well, Hobart’; Arthur came at night; sent Mrs Gilchrist my painting ‘Bluebell wood’

T 8 Did not go out; Hawton called; George came at night; Father and I did Xmas cards together

W 9 Mrs Pearce here for curtain wash; I went to sale of work for a few minutes and spent 14/-; Father and I finished cards; I wrote letters for him and did Grace’s cards.

T 10 Dot came; I called on Mrs Willmot and Miss Leach; Miss Leach and Miss Hunter called; Mrs Pearce here

F 11 Had a painting lesson; sent parcel for Belgian refugees to St Giles’ Mission, including three woollen jackets, one petticoat, one child’s petticoat and one pinafore; I went up to Bampfylde after dinner; got our Xmas letters from Hobart; Jim promoted to 1st Lieutenant

S 12 Went up to see Kit; Mrs Hay called

S 13 Went to service; pouring wet day; Dot went to Baptist church at night; George came in after supper; Father keeping better

M 14 Went to Croydon in the morning, shopping; Trot came for the day; had cable to say Will made Mayor of Hobart last Saturday

T 15 Mr Rees called; rains continue

W 16 Mr Latham called; I went to town in the afternoon, shopping; got home 6.30pm; London in darkness

T 17 Scarborough, Whitby and Hartlepool shelled by Germans yesterday; Dot left; had painting lesson; paid Miss Moore £1/10/-

F 18 Dot came back at night; did not go out; Father and I busy together doing Xmas work

S 19 Had painting lesson; went to Bampfylde after tea and took my Xmas presents; Scarborough, Whitby and Hartlepool bombarded again by Germans on Wednesday – about two hundred casualties

S 20 Went to service; Dot went at night; Father well; George and Nellie came to supper

M 21 Took our wreath to darling Mother’s grave; Violet came to tea sent off most parcels and cards; Father’s Xmas box of fruit arrived

T 22 I called to see Bessie and Miss Leach; Dot left after lunch; Nellie, Fannie, Edie, Rene and Bessie called; sent off rest of parcels and cards

W 23 Dark, foggy day; called on Mrs Pearce and the Dunns with Xmas presents; Pearce brought Father a plant; George came at night

T 24 Took 2½ dozen mince pies to cabmen’s shelter; very foggy; George came to breakfast; Louie had a half day; Bampfylde friends went to Eastbourne

F 25 My darling Father fairly well and bright; we spent a quiet, but happy, day alone; Kit, her family and Mr Champness called in the morning; beautiful winter day; we had lots of nice presents and letters

S 26 Pouring rain, did not go out; Mary had a half day; had a postcard from the trenches

S 27 Spent a quiet day alone; did not go out

M 28 Did not go out; Agnes came at night; awful gale at night with snow; Louie had a holiday

T 29 Ditto; Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to dinner and we had our turkey; played whist; Father better

W 30 Agnes came to dinner

T 31 Father well; I called on Mrs Jonah about the Belgians; George came at night; Mary had a holiday


1915

January

F 1 Pouring rains continue; Father well; Nellie had tea with us; called at Bampfylde; British warship sunk in the Channel

S 2 Trot, Bobbie and Theo came over for the day; Miss Hunter and Miss Leach called re sub-committee; George came at night; lovely day

S 3 Special national intercession services; stayed with Father all day; George and Nellie came to supper; Louie left suddenly through illness at home – had been here four months as a supply cook

M 5 Snow, rain later; Dot came down to stay; I called to see Miss Leach; Hawton returned as cook

T 5 Went to Croydon in the morning; Bertie Dunn came to wish me goodbye before going to the Front; went out with Miss Hunter on RSPCA work for wounded horses

W 6 Father well; Mrs Willmot, Miss Leach and Miss Hunter came to tea – sub-committee afterwards to arrange for Wounded Horse Fund collections; wrote two letters for the papers; called on Miss Hunter; Mr Latham called

T 7 Had a painting lesson; went to Uncle’s to tea; pouring wet; Dorothy called to say goodbye

F 8 Went to see Mr Cheshire – he has been ill for some weeks; called on Mrs Hay; Miss Leach and Miss Hunter came to do committee work with me; wrote to each of the five ministers about the WHF; Dot left after lunch

S 9 Busy doing committee work – Miss Leach and Miss Muriel Hicks called; George came at night; Mary and Hawton went to a concert at night

S 10 Stayed with Father all day; George and Nellie came to supper; Father well

M 11 Inspector called and Miss Leach; Alice came to tea

T 12 Did not go out; Miss Leach and Miss Hunter came to tea; we did committee work after and got collecting boxes ready, etc

W 13 Did not go out; Kitty and Arthur came at night; Percy called

T 14 Dot came to stay; Miss Hunter and Miss Leach called; I spent the afternoon and evening house to house collecting for RSPCA’s sick and wounded horse fund

F 15 Out collecting in the morning and afternoon; called at Bampfylde

S 16 Street collection in aid of the WHF – £3/11/7¼d; Mrs Willmot called; Miss Leach, Miss Hunter and Sabin came to tea as did Inspector Bayliss and his three boys; Mrs Childe and Leslie called; Rev Leo Clarke came to supper

S 17 Went to service; Dot went at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 18 Dot’s twenty-fifth birthday; Fanny Milum came to stay the day and night; Miss Hunter and I spent all morning out collecting; I went again in the afternoon; Miss Leach called; Mary went to a social

T 19 Miss Hunter and I spent all afternoon collecting; called at Bampfylde; scout master Howe called in the evening; I sent the scouts 15 copies of ‘Animal World’; Miss Leach called; Zeppelin raid on Yarmouth and near Sandringham

W 20 Dot collected in the morning; I went to see Mr Cheshire after tea; Miss Hunter and Miss Leach came up after dinner and we opened the boxes; Father was cashier; grand total, including boxes and street collections – £32/11/4d; Mary and Hawton went to a social

T 21 Miss Leach and Miss Hunter called; Dot left after lunch; finished up work in connection with the fund; collected in my box £6/9/0d; Fannie and Eddy came to dinner and whist

F 22 Heaviest snow storm for many years; glorious sight turned to yellow fog later and very cold; did not go out

S 23 Hard frost, snow frozen; thick fog all day; kept Father in bed, his breathing very bad; Trot came over for the day; George came up at night; telephone and telegraph wires broken down; snow seven to nine inches deep

S 24 Father better and downstairs; stayed with him all day; George came to supper; rapid thaw

M 25 Did not go out; Edie and Rene came to dinner

T 26 Sunshine; Rev Rees and Mr Moffatt came; Miss Leach and Bessie called; George came up at night; packed up three parcels of books from our library and two parcels of Punch for the soldiers at the Front

W 27 Posted parcels to Rev Cape, No 9 General Hospital; BEF France, cost 7/11d – 1/7d each; Lillie came in the morning and stayed the night; Miss Leach called; Officers and scouts sent £1 to our branch of the RSPCA

T 28 Lillie left after tea; Dot came down; called to see Miss Hunter and Mrs Hay; heard Uncle was very ill with influenza; Father better

F 29 I went to Bampfylde after dinner; had another £1 sent for WHF, bringing box total to £7/7/0d; Uncle better

S 30 Uncle continues about the same; I went to Kit’s to tea; called on Miss Leach and Bessie; Father well

S 31 Stayed with Father in the morning; Dot went to service; with Father at night; I went to Uncle’s in the afternoon and found him better, now out of danger; sat with him for an hour; Jim arrived home from the Front for a week’s leave

February

M 1 I went to town with Edie to meet Jim, Trot and Gladys – found him well and bright and we had tea together at Collard’s; Edie and I went shopping afterwards and got home at 7.30pm; just as we arrived, hooter went to call special constables – zeppelins expected

T 2 Aunt Janie’s birthday; sent her leather bag and purse combined; went to bank in the morning; Miss Leach called

W 3 Went over to Uncle’s to tea and found him much better; took him hothouse grapes; called to see Mrs Wood on the way home, found her in bed, sat with them for half an hour; Violet came to the bus with me

T 4 Called at Bampfylde; Dot left; George came up at night

F 5 Lovely day; sent Jim Price a parcel of cigarettes, chocolate and cocoa to the Front; Ditto to Lennie Price at Dover; Father well; girls went for a walk at night

S 6 George came up at night

S 7 Stayed with Father all day; George, Nellie and Agnes came to supper; Father well

M 8 My birthday; Violet came down for the day; Miss Hunter called; feeling very poorly; Father not so well; bitter east wind and rain; many loving letters and presents

T 9 Did not go out; Father better again; Fannie and Eddy came up after dinner; Hawton had a holiday

W 10 Very cold; Arthur came at night and I went to a lecture by Keatley Moore on ‘Moods in Music’, illustrated by a choir; Mary had a holiday

T 11 Sunshine and white frost; George and Nellie came to dinner

F 12 Alice came over to tea; fleet of 25 airships made raid on Ostend, flew over from Dover to Dunkirk

S 13 Did not go out; storm of wind and rain

S 14 Stayed with Father all day; George and Nellie came to supper; Father well

M 15 Did not go out; Mr Moffatt called; still got a cold on me

T 16 Agnes came to dinner; George came at night

W 17 Dot returned; did not go out; Dot engaged to Rev Leopold Clarke

T 18 I went over to Trot’s to tea; Gladys in bed for a fortnight; Nurse Chown there

F 19 Went to see Nellie after tea

S 20 Went up to see Kit and Arthur in the afternoon; Miss Leach and Edie called

S 21 Went to service; Dot went at night; Father a little out of sorts, sent for Dr Cressy

M 22 Had tea with Violet, Mrs Wood asleep all the time

T 23 Trot came over for the day; Rev Clarke came down early and stayed the night; Dot and he went for a long walk in the afternoon; a fall of snow

W 24 Ground covered in snow; Dot and Mr Clarke went to Banstead Downs; he left us after lunch; Kitty called; called to see Nellie

T 25 Dr Cressy came – Father better; in afternoon, Nellie and I went to town to see war pictures at the Scala Theatre

F 26 Heart that Aunt Hannah passed away yesterday; Dot left; a lovely day; went through RSPCA prize competition essays for our secretary

S 27 Commenced Spring cleaning; George came up at night; Father well; went into slight mourning for dear Auntie

S 28 Stayed in all day with Father; George and Nellie came to supper

March

M 1 Arthur and Miss Moore came; Dr Cressy called, Father much better; sleet; Aunt Hannah’s funeral; in all day

T 2 Mrs Pearce here; Mr Stewart called; in all day

W 3 Mrs Pearce here; men began on the servants’ room; Miss Hunter called; heard that a hundred and fifty-four of our old Band of Mercy boys are serving with the colours; servants went to ‘Elijah’

T 4 Mrs Pearce here; George came to dinner; Father, George and Mr Lovegrove audited Mill Lane accounts at night

F 5 Mrs Pearce here for half a day; Dot returned; Ethel and Arthur came to dinner; Ethel came for the day; men finished servants’ rooms

S 6 Had tea with Uncle; Dr Cressy called; Agnes called

S 7 Went to service and stayed to Sacrament; Dot went at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 8 Mrs Pearce here; Mr Moffatt called; sleet

T 9 Did not go out; Mrs Pearce here

W 10 Called to see Miss Hunter; Father well; still very cold; Mrs Pearce here

T 11 Sent donation of 10/- to Band of Mercy; Dot left; Mrs Pearce here

F 12 Did not go out; sweep in drawing room and kitchen; Mrs Pearce here

S 13 Miss Leach called

S 14 Stayed with Father all day; no visitors; Father had a turn in the garden, first time this year

M 15 Painters did stair treads; Mrs Pearce here; I went to Croydon about a new carpet; sent Jim a parcel to the Front – fancy biscuits, chocolate biscuits and raisins

T 16 Sent parcel to church for forwarding to Mr Robinson’s men – four shirts, one bed jacket, one body belt and a parcel of Punch magazines; Mrs Pearce here

W 17 Mrs Pearce here; Arthur and Agnes came at night

T 18 Mrs Pearce here; Dot came back; I went to Bampfylde after dinner; finished Spring cleaning; snow

F 19 Went to town; George went with me to Treloar’s to select patterns for drawing room carpet; we had tea at Evans; I did some shopping and got home at 6.30pm; stair carpets put down; Mr Rees called; cold intense; Dot went to a concert at night; Mary had extra time

S 20 Had tea with Kit and Arthur; George came at night; Hawton had extra time

S 21 Brilliant sunshine; gook Father round the garden for an hour; went to service; Dot went at night; put on colours again

M 22 Went to Croydon shopping before lunch; went to Bampfylde after dinner; heard that Jim had had a narrow escape in assault on Neuve Chapelle

T 23 Father in the garden; Dot went home for two days; Mrs Pearce here for curtain wash, two days; George came up at night; Hawton had a holiday

W 24 Father in the garden; Dot returned at night; Mary had a holiday

T 25 I went to Great Central Hotel to have tea with Mrs Grant, Nell and Marian – spent two and a half hours with them; cold intense

F 26 Still very cold; went to see Mr Cheshire and found him still very poorly; called to see Miss Leach; Mr Childe came at night

S 27 Intense cold continues; went to Croydon shopping in the morning; called to see Agnes at night; George came up; sent parcels and letters to Jimmy Price and Maurice Yeats at the Front and to Private Bell at Gateshead

S 28 Went to service; Dot went at night; George and Nellie came to supper

M 29 Snow; I went to Uncle’s to tea; Father well

T 30 Trot came for the day; Dot went home after lunch; I called to see Kit and Bessie Hay before lunch; George came up at night

W 31 Bobbie’s sixteenth birthday; Fannie and Agnes called; did not go out

April

T 1 Edie called; Bampfylde friends went to Trot’s house, Westgate, for a fortnight; Father in the garden; I went to the bank after lunch

F 2 Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to supper; did not go out; Mary and Hawton went to a church service

S 3 Very wet but milder; Father well; Miss Hunter and Miss Leach came to tea; sent hot cross buns to Miss Dunn; sent ‘F Charrington’s Life’ to Mrs Gilchrist; Mary had a half holiday

S 4 Father in the garden twice; Mr and Mrs Hugh Rees came to tea; did not go out

M 5 Spent a quiet day alone; Father in the garden a little; did not go out; Hawton had a half holiday

T 6 A very wet day

W 7 George came to dinner and to stay the night; did not go out

T 8 George came back at night to sleep; Fannie and Eddie came up after dinner; Mr Latham called; we had a new carpet laid in the drawing room; did not go out

F 9 Very cold winds continue; sent income tax claim for £3/19/8

S 10 A lovely day; Father well and in the garden; Uncle and Alice came over to tea; Kit and Arthur came in the evening

S 11 Father in the garden; Fannie and Eddy spent the day with us; did not go out to service

M 12 Mr Moffatt came to tea; Dot returned at night; did not go out; Mary had extra

T 13 Intensely cold; called to see Bessie; Miss Leach called

W 14 Father in the garden; I went to Mrs Wood’s to tea and on to Women’s auxiliary meeting at Studley at night; Kitty took the chair; Kit, Dorothy and I came home together; met several old friends at Studley

T 15 Spring day; Father in the garden a lot; I had tea at Nellie’s; George came up at night; received acknowledgement of books sent to base hospital two months ago

F 16 Father in the garden; I went to see oculist, Sir Anderson Critchett, with George; had tea together afterwards and did some shopping; home by 8pm

S 17 Father in the garden

S 18 Went to service; Dot went at night; George and Nellie came to supper; cold

M 19 Mr Cheshire came over to lunch and tea; Dot went out for half a day with Mr Clarke; Father in the garden; did not go out

T 20 Went to town after lunch to get glasses changed; sent Jim Price a parcel to the Front

W 21 Went to Croydon shopping before lunch; Dot and I took Father out in his chair for an hour; called at Bampfylde; Miss Cheshire called; George and Mr Rees came up at night

T 22 Dot left; Father in the garden; George came at night

F 23 Father and I sent a parcel out to Jim for his men; very cold

S 24 Sent off parcel of books to Front for base hospital; Arthur came to tea; George and Agnes came at night; very cold

S 25 Stayed with Father all day

M 26 Father in the garden a lot; Miss Leach called

T 27 Father in the garden; Hawton had a holiday

W 28 Lovely Spring day; Father in the garden a lot; George came up at night; Mary had a holiday

T 29 Father in the garden; Dot returned

F 30 Summer day; Father had an hour’s ride with Dot and Mary; I went to City Road to hear Dr Watkinson; had lunch after with Fannie, Alice and Miss Florence; went on to Uncle’s to tea; met Mrs Giles there

May

S 1 We took Father out for a short ride after tea; Dot went home for half a day; Agnes came to supper

S 2 Went to service and stayed for the Sacrament; Miss Hunter came to tea; Father in the garden

M 3 Very cold with east winds again; went to bank; Dot went to Croydon after tea

T 4 Posted Grace’s birthday present – a hand-painted nightdress case and slippers; Father in the garden; I went to Bampfylde after tea; George came up at night

W 5 Summer’s day; went to darling Mother’s grace and then on to  have tea with Lillie and Marian; Dot and Mary took Father out for an hour; Arthur came up at night

T 6 Very hot; Dot left after lunch; Mary and I took Father out for an hour and a quarter’s ride after tea

F 7 Trot came over for the day; George and Nellie came to dinner; Lusitania sunk by a German submarine, fourteen hundred lives lost

S 8 Father in the garden, wind and cold; Fanny Milum came to stay the weekend; George came in at night; Mary had extra time

S 9 Fanny went to church in the morning and I went in the evening; Father in the garden, wind and very cold; Mary went home for an hour in the evening

M 10 A beautiful day; Mr Moffatt called; Father very well; air raid on Southend, 90 bombs dropped, 1 killed; Grace went into a private hospital

T 11 George came at night; inspector called to see me about a pony; Hawton had extra time

W 12 Agnes called at night; heard later that Grace had a serious operation today

T 13 Father has a cold, sent for Dr Cressy, kept him in bed all day; Dot came back

F 14 Father better but in bed all day; very cold day; Dot met Fanny in town instead of me and went to hear Rev Campbell Morgan and Lloyd George at Kingsway Hall; Dr Cressy called

S 15 Father came down in the afternoon; I called at Bampfylde; George, Kit and Arthur came up at night; Dr Cressy called

S 16 Father better and in the garden again; Dot went in the morning and I went to service at night

M 17 Dr Cressy called; called to see Mrs Pearce and Mrs Brown; sent parcel to Private Bell

T 18 Very cold, wet day; called to see Bessie Hay

W 19 Lovely day; Dot and Mary took Father out for an hour’s ride; I went to Ethel’s to lunch and Trot’s to tea and dinner

T 20 Called to see Nellie; Dot left; sent parcels to Private Yeats and Private Brown; Father better

F 21 Lovely day; Lillie came in the afternoon to stay; Uncle and Alice came to tea; George and Agnes came up at night

S 22 Marian came down in the afternoon to stay Whitsun; Father in the garden, much better; Dr Cressy called

S 23 Stayed with Father all day; Lillie and Marian went to service in the morning

M 24 Glorious weather; Father in the garden a lot; after tea, Marian and I went through Beddington Park and called at Bampfylde; Mr Cheshire and Mrs Cheshire (junior) called; Will’s birthday; Hawton had a holiday

T 25 Marian left early; Father, Lillie and I went for an hour’s drive after tea

W 26 George and Mr Rees came up at night; very hot; Theo’s twelfth birthday; Mary had a holiday

T 27 Dot returned; I went to Croydon shopping after tea; Lillie left early; wrote Grace’s birthday letter; very cold

F 28 Had fires again; I went to Uncle’s to tea; Father sent Ernest a parcel at the Front

S 29 More fires; Mr Cheshire came to dinner; I went to Bampfylde in the evening

S 30 I went to service in the morning and Dot went at night; egg Sunday – 1,300 eggs give for soldiers; very cold still; Father could not get out

M 31 Weather better; I wheeled Father about the garden for an hour and a half; sent Bertie Dunn a parcel at the Front; zeppelin raid on London, four killed, ninety bombs dropped; alarm hooter woke us all at midnight.

June

T 1 Dr Cressy came; Father better; had tea with Violet and Mrs Wood; we sent sofa to Lillie and Marian

W 2 Mr Latham called; Dot and I took Father up to Bampfylde for an hour; Lillie’s birthday, made her a voile blouse

T 3 Dot left; sent parcel of Punch magazines to No 8 Veterinary Hospital, France; wrote to Private Yeats; went to bank before lunch; Mary had extra time

F 4 Lovely day – we sat in the garden all afternoon; George and Agnes came up at night; Father well; zeppelin raid, hooter woke us at 1am, street lamps put out (Banstead and Gravesend)

S 5 Very close; Mary and I took Father out for an hour in his chair; George came up at night

S 6 Perfect day; Mr Childe and Leslie came to tea; zeppelin raid on Hull, 45 casualties

M 7 Miss Hunter and Mr Rees called; heat intense

T 8 Very hot – 84° in the shade; Dr Cressy called; Trot spent the day with us; Mr Moffatt called; George came up at night

W 9 Dot returned at night; rain

T 10 Lovely day; Dot and Mary took Father to Rose Walk; I went with Violet to our annual RSPCA meeting in Westminster Buildings, Duke of Portland in the chair; we went to Hyde Park afterwards and saw HD drill and recruiting sergeant etc

F 11 Dot and I took Father out for two hours in his chair, through Beddington Park and called at Bampfylde on the way back; George, Kit and Arthur came up at night; Mr Latham called; sent parcels to Private Yeats and Rifleman J Price

S 12 I had tea with Lillie and Marian over at Uncle’s; they are keeping house while Uncle and Alice are at Eastbourne; posted parcel to Private Bell

S 13 Went to service – Dot went at night

M 14 Went to bank in the morning; Eva and Mabel came down after lunch and stayed until6pm; went to see Miss Hunter in the evening; picked 6lbs of gooseberries for jam; colder; took basket of roses to Mr Latham from Father

T 15 Dot left early to go to Westgate tomorrow for a fortnight; did not go out; Father well; Ray planted our grace with white geraniums

W 16 Mr Dash (from Sydney) came in to tea; George came up at night; heart that A Gilchrist had joined colours; did not go out; Kit’s birthday, sent her a book

T 17 Gladys and Theo came over for the day; we all took Father to Bampfylde after tea; Kitty called; had tea in the garden; wrote Violet, Ellen, Jim, A Gilchrist; sent Violet a blouse for her birthday; Hawton had extra time

F 18 Paid final claim of £2/10/- on BAP shares; Violet’s birthday, she came down to tea and dinner; cold; Fritz came home on leave

S 19 Father and I went to Agnes’ to tea, George and Nellie came too; Mr Cheshire came to supper; George came up afterwards; we sent Ernest a parcel to the Front; wrote to the chaplain at Sheerness

S 20 Lovely day but cold later; stayed with Father all day

M 21 Had cables and letters to say our darling sister went under a serious operation on May 12th; last one said she was doing well and been home a fortnight; Oh! Such a sad day!; Miss Leach called; sent cable to Grace – 13 words for 19/6d; Jim came home on seven days leave, very well

T 22 George and Nellie came up at night; Hawton had a holiday

W 23 Had letters from Will and Lil, both say Grace is going on well; wrote to them all today; Miss Hunter and George came in; Queen Alexandra’s Day; Mary had a holiday

T 24 Jim mentioned in French’s Dispatch; sent wire of congratulations; awarded the Military Cross

F 25 Jim came down to lunch with us and stayed until 3pm; Kit came in to tea; Fritz went back to the Front – we sent him a wire; sent parcel to Sergeant Dunn

S 26 Mary and I took Father out for an hour and a half in the afternoon, called at Bampfylde

S 27 Rain, much needed; stayed in all day with Father

M 28 Uncle, Alice and Mr Cheshire came to tea; Jim went to Buckingham Palace to have his medal pinned on him by the Kind; he returned to the Front

T 29 Beautiful rains; George came up at night; sent parcels to Private G Price and Private C Brown; we sent Jim a large box of sweets for his birthday

W 30 Arthur came up at night

July

T 1 Miss Leach called; sent parcel off to Rifleman Price

F 2 Trot came over for the day; Dot returned in the afternoon; I went up to see Kitty after dinner; George came up at night

S 3 Jim’s twenty-fifth birthday; intensely hot; Father, Dot and I went to Bampfylde to tea; I went to Croydon before lunch; took up £100 in new war loan; Mary and Hawton went for a walk

S 4 Went to service and stayed for Communion; Dot went at night; 84° in the shade

M 5 I had tea with Uncle and Alice; Mr Moffatt called; George came at night

T 6 Picked 3lbs red currants for jelly; called at Bampfylde; Dot and I took Father out for an hour after tea into Carshalton Park; very hot; still no news from Hobart

W 7 Raining all day; went to Croydon in the morning; case of Tasmanian apples arrived from Will; Mary had a half day

T 8 George, Nellie and I went over to Trot’s to tea and dinner

F 9 Got belated mail letters and note from Grace; good news of her progress; cabled today for latest news (7 words, 12/-); Dot left; wheeled Father about the garden for an hour and a half, he is very well; feeling very poorly for the last fortnight

S 10 Much cooler; Father in the garden; George came up at night; Miss Hunter called; cabled ‘Anxious for news’ (12/-); Hawton had extra time

S 11 Stayed with Father all day; cold

M 12 Called to see Mrs Hay

T 13 Kit and Dorothy called; Mr Latham came to tea; George and Arthur came up at night; Father in the garden for an hour

W 14 Received cable to say Grace progressing well, thank God; Mr Rees called and stayed to dinner; sent remaining £94/9/4d for my £100 war loan; wet and cold

T 15 Grace’s birthday; got a letter from her written on June 6th, when she was just home; Dot returned; Father poorly, sent for Dr Cressy – he has a cold and catarrh of the throat; George came at night, as did Bessie

F 16 Father very poorly, kept him in bed most of the day; very wet; sent Fannie and Eddy ‘Gospel of the Hereafter’, the first anniversary of Ronnie’s death; awake most of the night with Father, cough very bad

S 17 Father in bed most of the day, better than yesterday; Dr Cressy came; George and Agnes came up at night; Miss Leach called; awake most of the night with Father

S 18 Dot went to service in the morning and I went at night; Mr Foster came to supper; George came up after; Dr Cressy called; Father much better

S 19 I went to Violet’s to tea; Dr Cressy called

T 20 Went to Croydon shopping in the morning; Mr Clarke came down to tea and dinner; Dot and he went to Rose Walk in the afternoon; Dr Cressy called; preserved 8lb cherries out of the garden

W 21 Father not so well; Mrs Mann came to tea; I went to Bampfylde in the evening and took a basket of Tasmanian apples to them; preserved 14lbs cherries from Faversham; Mary had extra time

T 22 Dot left; Dr Cressy called; very wet day; Father’s cough keeps him in bed; made 6lbs black currant jam

F 23 Very wet day; George came up at night; sent parcel to Private Bell and wrote to Rifleman Price

S 24 Father in the garden a little; Marian came down to tea and dinner; George came at night

S 25 Stayed with Father all day; George and Nellie came to supper; Agnes called

M 26 Uncle’s eighty-eighth birthday; I went over to have tea and supper with him; Marian went to supper; Father able to be in the garden; Dot came in the morning and stayed the night; Uncle very well and bright

T 27 Father in the garden, rather better, cough sill bad; Dr Cressy came in; George and Arthur came up at night

W 28 Father in the garden; sent parcel to Sergeant Dunn; wrote to Jim

T 29 Trot came over for the day; Father better; Mary went for her fortnight’s holiday

F 30 Father better and in the garden a lot; George came at night; Hawton had extra time

S 31 Dot returned; we took Father out in his chair for an hour and a quarter; Dr Cressy called

August

S 1 Went to service in the morning and stayed for the Sacrament; Dot went at night; lovely day

M 2 Showery and blustering; Father in the garden for a short time; Arthur came to supper; Hawton went to the flower show in the afternoon

T 3 Pouring wet; called at Bampfylde; Mrs Pearce came for curtain wash; Father much better; Dr Cressy called

W 4 Anniversary declaration of the war; intercession service at St Paul’s; Alice and I met in town and stood on Ludgate Hill and saw the King and Queen, Queen Alexandra; Princess Victoria, Lord Kitchener etc; stood three hours so as to see them return – saw all the wounded soldiers; had tea at Spiers & Pond, a new place. I went to the service in Westminster Abbey at 3pm and then home; Father well; got double mail letters; Mrs Pearce here; Dot and Hawton went to evening service

T 5 George came up at night

F 6 Dot went home in the afternoon; thundery day; feeling very poorly

S 7 Dot returned; Uncle and Alice came to tea; after tea, we all went up to Bampfylde garden for an hour; I went to see Miss Hunter after supper

S 8 Went to service in the morning; Dot went at night; Father well

M 9 Mr Moffatt called; Mr Rees came to say goodbye to us; I called to see Theo Moore and Miss Leach

T 10 Very hot; after tea, Dot and I took Father out in his chair for two and a half hours, calling to spend an hour with Kitty; I went to the farewell meeting of Rev Rees; presentation of purse for £40; zeppelin raid over Margate, Sheerness and Southend

W 11 I went to see Mr Cheshire in the morning; Dot and I took Father out for an hour in his chair after tea; sent parcel to Rifleman Price

T 12 Called to see Mrs Stepney, whose son has been killed at the Front; Arthur came up at night

F 13 Did not go out; Father in the garden a lot; Mary returned from her summer holiday

S 14 Heavy hail shower; called at Bampfylde

S 15 Stayed with Father all day

M 16 A lovely day; Miss Hunter called; sent Aunt Lissie a book for her birthday; Jim has been gazetted ‘Captain’

T 17 Trot and Bobbie came over for the day; George came up at night; Aunt Lissie’s birthday; transport sunk in Aegean sea – a thousand missing

W 18 Zeppelin rain on east counties last night; sent parcels to Signalman Ernest Smith and Sergeant Dunn

T 19 Hawton went for her summer holiday; Trot and family went to Westgate; Hilda, Bentley and baby arrived home from Canada

F 20 A lovely day; Marjory Heaton had tea with us; sent Agnes a basket of fruit to GLR regiment at Front; had double mail letters

S 21 Father in the garden a lot; sent Private C Brown a parcel; George and Nellie went to Bournemouth for a fortnight

S 22 Stayed with Father all day; we spent a quiet day alone; Mrs Hay and Bessie called at night

M 23 Dot returned; I had tea with Uncle and Alice

T 24 Dot and I took Father out in the park for an hour and a quarter; Edie called; I called on Mrs Brown and Mrs Pearce

W 25 Made the pastry; Private Maurice Yeats came to see me, home from the Front, wounded – had an hour’s chat with him; Dot and I took Father out for a very long ride for two hours through some lovely woods; wrote to Private G Price

T 26 After tea, Father, Dot and I went for an hour and a half’s drive; I called to see Agnes and Bessie and took the latter a basket of plums; Mrs Pearce here for the day; sent Mrs Staples 2/6d

F 27 Dot and Mary took Father up to Rose Walk; Mr Cheshire came to tea and supper; Edie and Rene came to supper; I called to see Miss Leach; zeppelin raid on Bow and Stratford

S 28 Father, Dot and I went up to Kit’s to tea; sent basket of plums and roses to Miss Hunter; wrote to Jim

S 29 Went to service in the morning; Agnes and Marjory came to tea and supper; they went to church with Dot at night

M 30 Very cold, had a fire; I had tea with Uncle and Lillie; took them a basket of plums

T 31 Still cold; sunshine later; Father in the garden, very well; had tea with Violet and Mrs Wood, took them a basket of plums

September

W 1 Went to the bank in the morning; Dot left after lunch; sent parcel to Private L Price

T 2 Cold; Mr and Miss Dash (of Sydney) called; Arthur came at night; we sent Signalman E Smith a parcel; Hawton returned from her fortnight’s holiday

F 3 Got double mail letters; Grace getting on well; Fannie and Eddy came at night; very cold still

S 4 Picked 13lbs plums for preserving; Miss Hunter called; George and Nellie came home from Bournemouth

S 5 Father in the garden for an hour; George came up in the morning; stayed with Father all day

M 6 A lovely day; After tea, Mary and I took Father up to Kitty’s – we took her 9lbs crab apples; George came up at night; called to see Mrs Hay

T 7 A lovely day; after tea, Mary and I took Father out for an hour and a half in the park – he is very well; Agnes came up at night; zeppelin rain near, hooter woke us at 12pm and bombs heard in Wallington; bad damage done in London; Liverpool Street Station and Bishopsgate Station, Wood Street, Red Lion Court, Holborn, etc

W 8 I took Father up to Bampfylde for an hour after tea; zeppelin raid on London, hooters going here at 11pm; Mary had extra time

T 9 Six years since Grace’s wedding day; lovely summer weather; Rev Seekings came to tea – his first visit; bought four books and test for Mary’s brother, who is on a mine sweeper; zeppelin got to Chelmsford but driven off

F 10 Dot returned; I called at Bampfylde; George came up at night; we picked apples and damsons; Mary had a holiday

S 11 Preserved six bottles of damsons; east winds; Ray picked some apples; called to see Theo Moore; Father not so well; Hawton had extra time

S 12 Glorious day; Dot went in the morning; Agnes came to tea and supper; we went to service at night

M 13 I went to Trot’s for the day; went all the way by bus; Arthur came at night; took Trot a box of peaches

T 14 My precious Mother’s birthday; Father better; Uncle and Alice came to tea

W 15 Fourteen years since Mother went Home; I took our wreath to Norwood in the morning; Dot and I took Father in the park for an hour and a half; made 12lbs apple jam

T 16 I went to town in the morning to buy Grace’s Xmas presents and Father’s birthday present; George took me to see damage done by zeppelins – Bartholomew’s Close, Wood Street, Love Lane, Aldermanbury; sat troop train leave for Folkestone; Mr Latham called; Father gave him a box of peaches

F 17 Dot left and took home a basket of peaches and apples; glorious autumn weather

S 18 Father well and in the garden; got mail letters; wrote to Hugh and sent Grace’s Xmas presents; sent Private Price a parcel; I wheeled Father up to Bampfylde after tea and we stayed an hour

S 19 Stayed with Father all day; George and Nellie came to dinner, tea and supper and Fannie and Eddy came to tea and supper – a happy day all together; Father well

M 20 Had pears and apples picked; sent Aunties and Lillie a box; Arthur came to supper and stayed the night; gave Miss Dunn a parcel of clothes

T 21 Father in the garden; colder; we gave Mary, Hawton and Ray a big basket of apples

W 22 A lovely day; Mary and I took Father out in the chair for nearly an hour; had a box of white heather from Scotland

T 23 Colonel Snell, of Hobart, and Trot came over to tea and dinner; Father very well

F 24 Rain at last; Father in the garden; wrote letter to the papers; finished knitting my first pair of socks for soldiers

S 24 Dot returned; Hilda and Bentley came down to tea and dinner

S 26 Went to service; Dot went at night; beautiful weather continues; Father very well

M 27 Colder; had tea with Uncle; Mr Moffatt called; great victories of British and French – 20,000 prisoners taken

T 28 Very wet; called on Miss Hunter and took her a basket of pears; sent L Price a parcel to the Front

W 29 Very cold; called to see Bessie; took Agnes a basket of pears and apples;

T 30 Went to the bank to buy Grace’s present for Father in the morning; had tea and supper with Fannie and Hilda at Acton

October

F 1 Father very well; went to town with Nellie shopping in the afternoon; Arthur came up at night

S 2 Dot left early; took pampas grass and asparagus grass to church for harvest festival

S 3 Ethel’s thirty-first birthday; Father in the garden; lovely day; at home all day, no visitors

M 4 Dear Aunt Miriam’s birthday, seventy; made Father’s birthday cake; Ray finished picking apples; wrote to Jim

T 5 Father’s birthday – eighty-four – very well and happy; he had 15 letters and many presents; Trot came for the day and Nellie came to dinner; Agnes called in the evening

W 6 Trot left after lunch

T 7 Gladys’ twenty-ninth birthday; Edie called; Mr Latham came to dinner

F 8 Jim arrived home on leave, well; Dot returned; I went to Croydon shopping; George came at night; had mail letter; Hawton had a holiday

S 9 Went over to Trot’s to see Jim and had tea with them; Ethel, Captain and Mrs Young and Mr and Mrs Hawes there; got home about 9pm; saw search lights over London

S 10 Went to service and stayed to the Sacrament; Dot went at night; Miss Hunter came to tea; feeling very poorly

M 11 Had tea with Fanny at Purley; took bunch of roses to Miss Hunter for her birthday

T 12 Dot and Mary took Father out for an hour after tea; I had tea with Mrs Mann, called at Mr Cheshire’s and found him very ill; Kit and Arthur came up at night; Father very well; wrote to A Gilchrist; Hawton had extra time

W 13 Had a mail letter; posted Xmas presents to Will; Kit and I called on Mrs Seekings – out; I went to Mr Cheshire with jellies, fruit, etc, he was too ill to see me; George came at night, as did Agnes; zeppelin raid – 9.30pm hooters sounded; we heard the guns and saw flashes and searchlights; raid on Croydon; posted Private Price’s parcel

T 14 Had tea with Lillie and Marian, took Marian’s birthday cake and two pots of jelly; went to Croydon on the way and saw damage done by zeppelin raid last night; Jim returned to the Front; Hugh promoted to Captain

F 15 Called to see Nellie; went to see Mr Cheshire – sat with him for half an hour but he is very ill; he sent us a basket of pears; George came up at night; Dot left; official statement on of Wednesday’s zeppelin raid: fifty-five killed, a hundred and forty-two casualties; thirty-seven soldiers – bombs dropped; Strand, Moorgate Street, Leadenhall Street and Croydon

S 16 Sent parcel to GLR

S 17 Stayed with Father all day; Miss Hunter came to tea; have a bad cold

M 18 Feeling very poorly; Mr Moffatt called; wrote Xmas letters to Hobart; dear old Mr Cheshire gone Home after less than a fortnight’s illness; did not go out; Ray picked a bushel of quinces

T 19 Made 12lbs of quince and apple jam; did not go out

W 20 Did not go out; Mrs Wood’s birthday; Father and I sent a lovely wreath for Mr Cheshire’s funeral; Mr Dawe came in and stayed to tea; wrote to Private Bell; Mary had a holiday

T 21 Did not go out; Father well; wrote to Hugh and J Price and sent papers

F 22 Dot returned; called to see Nellie; George came at night

S 23 A lovely day; went to Clapham and found Violet out and Mrs Wood asleep, so came straight back; went to see zeppelin damage in Cherry Orchard Lane as I came through Croydon; streets wrecked

S 24 Went to service; Dot had cold, so stayed in all day; Sunday night services altered to 6pm because of zeppelins

M 25 Did not go out; Father poorly; bitter east wind; wrote to Signalman Ernest

T 26 Father better than yesterday but had a disturbed night; I went to Mrs Morgan’s to tea

W 27 Gladys and Theo came over and stayed the night; George came up at night; got double mail letters

T 28 Had tea with Uncle and went to the bank on the way; Father much better; Gladys and Theo left early

F 29 Dot left; Violet came down to tea and supper; Arthur came up at night

S 30 Sent parcel of clothes to Mrs Brewer and Emma; wrote to B Dunn; George came up at night

S 31 Special intercession services; stayed with Father all day; very wet

November

M 1 Very cold and wet; sent parcel to Robert Bell

T 2 Called to see Nellie; a cold wind; Mary and Hawton had extra time

W 3 Father not so well since the cold weather; Miss Hunter and Mr Stewart called; mail letters received

T 4 Rev Seekings called and stayed a couple of hours

F 5 Dot returned; called to see Mrs Hay; George and Arthur came up at night with Kitty; Father better; Hawton had a holiday

S 6 Foggy; called at Bampfylde after tea; Agnes came at night; Father poorly

S 7 Went to service; Dot went at night; Agnes came to supper; Father much better

M 8 Father well; called to see Miss Hunter and Miss Leach; sent Kit a parcel of old curtains and clothes for the poor

T 9 Lord Mayor’s day, pouring wet and very cold; did some shopping in Croydon in the morning; George and Arthur came up at night

W 10 Went to town in the morning; George took me to Stewart’s to lunch; I went to 1.15pm intercession service at St Paul’s and then went on to Selfridges; home before 6pm; Mr Latham called; Father well; a lovely day

T 11 Dot left; got mail letters; Grace well; Mr Stewart’s men tarring kitchen and pantry; Mary had a holiday

F 12 Alice came to tea ; Mr Millar called on business

S 13 Very cold – a gale last night; Lillie and Marian came to stay the weekend

S 14 Stayed with Father all day; girls went to service in the morning; Mr Childe and Leslie came to tea

M 15 Marian left; Mr Millar came; Mr Moffatt called and George came up at night; girls had extra time

T 16 Snow; Arthur came up at night; eight hundred soldiers billeted in Carshalton and Wallington

W 17 Cold intense; Lillie left after tea

T 18 Dot returned; Mr Dawe called; I went to Bampfylde at night; an officer called to ask us to billet soldiers, excused on account of Father’s health

F 19 Father still not so well; sent for Dr Cressy – feebleness; Mr Dawe, Edie and Theo called; we sent a table, games and books to church for soldiers’ recreation room

S 20 Awake most of the night with intense pain in my ear and head; feeling very poorly; went over to Trot’s to tea to keep her birthday; Father better today; Agnes called

S 21 Went to service; Dot went at night; Kit and Arthur came to supper; soldiers’ club started at our church

M 22 Began get up clean curtains; Trot came over for the day; Dr Cressy came, Father a little better; called to see Bessie; soldiers trench digging and drilling in our field; Ray planted our grace with fifty cottage maid tulips

T 23 Very foggy; had store cleaned; went to Bible Society lecture on war work; Dot went to hear Dr Dixon in the afternoon; Father better; George came up at night; I have neuralgia; Col Grant send us six pheasants

W 24 Had tea with Uncle and Alice; Father got on better; made mincemeat

T 25 Called at Bampfylde; Dot left; Dr Cressy came, Father better; soldiers manoeuvring in field

F 26 Very cold; Father not so well; in all day; got mail letters  – two weeks

S 27 Kept Father in bed, very poorly at night – sent for Dr Cressy – he has had a heart attack; George came up twice; Miss Hunter called; with Father all night; 16 degrees of frost; Hawton had extra time

S 28 With Father all night – very ill until 3am, when he slept; much better today but still in bed; Dr Cressy came; George and Kit called

M 29 My darling better, had a good night; in bed all day – Dr Cressy called; Mr Moffatt and Kitty called; George came up at night; with Father all night

T 30 Father sat up for a short time in his chair; a little better; Kit came to tea and Violet came down in the afternoon, unexpectedly; made Xmas puddings; Hawton went to a concert

December

W 1 Progressing well; sat up two hours; I wrote Father’s Xmas orders for him; George came up at night; very wet

T 2 Still wet; Dot came back; Arthur came up at night; Edie called; Spring-like weather

F 3 Father better, sat up for longer; sent Xmas parcel to Private Yeats; Dot went to Croydon for me

S 4 Arthur came at night; Edie called; sent Xmas parcel to Private Price; officer again called to ask us to billet some officers

S 5 Father sat up for two hours, better but very weak; Dot went to service in the morning and I went at night

M 6 Father much better, sat up for an hour three times; I wrote seven of his Xmas letters for him; sent Xmas parcels to Private R Bell and Private C Brown

T 7 Father able to sit up for longer; Dr Cressy did not call; got Xmas mail letters; finished writing Father’s Xmas letters; Hawton had a holiday

W 8 Officer called asking us to billet soldiers; Trot came for the day; Mr Latham called; George came at night; Father much better; Dot and I went to sale of work at our church – spent 15/-; Mary had a holiday

T 9 Dot left; got mail letters (Will)

F 10 Will’s turn of office as Mayor finished; Father dressed, first time for fortnight – sat up for half a day; Arthur came; weather continues mild; got mail letters (Grace)

S 11 Father dressed for tea

S 12 Father got up to tea; George, Kit and Arthur looked in; Arthur came up ag night for an hour; snow

M 13 Mr Moffatt, George and Agnes came; cold intense; sent Private Price and muffler and £1

T 14 Frost broke; Kit came up to tea; box of fruit arrived

W 15 Very wet; Dr Cressy called; Father much better; I went back to sleep in my own room after nearly three weeks on a chair bed; Trot and family came home from Westgate; wrote Xmas letters for Father; Mary had extra time

T 16 Carrying chair arrived – £5/15/- – we took Father down to tea in it; Alice came to tea; George came up at night; Dot returned

F 17 Father down to lunch, better; Arthur called; I went to Croydon in the afternoon, shopping; sent Sergeant Dunn an Xmas parcel

S 18 Father got on better and came down to tea; I called at Bampfylde after tea

S 19 Hard frost; Dot went to service in the morning, I went at night; George, Kit and Arthur called; sent Private Price a parcel

M 20 Father down to tea; arranged with Ray to help up the carrying chair; went to Croydon shopping after eta; George called; the day Grace was taken seriously ill; Grace had an operation

T 21 Very busy day, writing and getting off parcels; Nellie, Edie and Rene and Miss Leach called; Dot went to Croydon for me; sent on Mrs Staples’ parcels; sent Corporal Price a parcel; Hawton had extra time

W 22 Grace went Home to Mother; Father got on better; called to see Bessie; very mild; Alice took our Xmas wreath to Norwood for me; Father still too unwell for me to leave

T 23 Dot left; Trot came over unexpectedly and stayed a few hours; Fannie Testar came in to tea; Dr Cressy called; sent 2 dozen mince pies to cab men and ½ bushel of carrots for the horses

F 24 Put up decorations; Father down to tea; Lillie and Marian came to stay; Pearce brought father lovely heather; Private Parkhouse called to see me – one of my cabbies now in camp; very wet and warm

S 25 Like an April day, sunshine and rain; we all spent a quiet, happy day together; had dinner at 4pm; Father down in time for it; my darling says it has been a very happy day to him; girls and servants say the same; Thank God; we have been loaded with loving presents and letters; Arthur and Agnes called

S 26 Stayed with Father all day; he got on better; girls went to service in the morning; all at home at night; got mail letters and presents for Father came yesterday; Amy Yates and husband called and brought their baby

M 27 Boxing day; gale and rain; Kit, Arthur, Dorothy and Mr Champness came to tea; Father got on well; Hawton had a half day

T 28 Trot brought over cable she received yesterday; my darling only sister died the 22nd after a sudden operation the day before; Lillie stayed the night; had posted long mail letter to my darling in the morning; sent a cable of sympathy to Will; Agnes called

W 29 Lillie left; George came to stay the night; Kit and Arthur called

T 30 Dot came back and George came to stay the night; Kit, Arthur and Alice came to tea; Fannie, Agnes and Mr Seekings called; Alice went with me to get some mourning; Father keeping about the same

F 31 Feel stunned and dazed by shock and cannot realise anything; Violet came and George and Nellie at night


1916

January

S 1 First New Year’s day without my darling sister; Father fairly well; Edie called; Mary had a half holiday

S 2 Arthur, George and Eddy called as did Mrs Pearce; Dot went to two services

M 3 Mr Moffatt, Nellie and Agnes called; Father pretty well; received our darling’s letter and cards; Mary had extra time

T 4 I went to get some mourning in Croydon after tea; Dot went there in the morning for me; Arthur called; Jim Macaulay left for the Front

W 5 Kit called; I went to Bampfylde after tea for a short time

T 6 Dot left; Mr and Mrs Childe and Arthur came; another letter from my darling sister

F 7 Wrote to Will and Lil and sent £1 to buy a wreath for my darling sister’s grace; Gladys came to stay for a few days; Miss Leach called

S 8 George came at night

S 9 Arthur and Kit called; Gladys went to service

M 10 Jim came home on leave; Miss Hunter called; Gladys left; had fifty cards of sympathy printed and sent them out; sent parcels to the Front

T 11 Spring weather continues; George and Nellie came to tea; Kit and Arthur came at night

W 12 Father keeping better; Agnes came at night; wrote to Will

T 13 Dot returned; Jim came over to have tea with us; I went to Bampfylde at night

F 14 Very cold; Mrs Pearce called; Arthur came up at night; Mary had a holiday

S 15 Theo Moore called; George came up at night

S 16 Dot went to service in the morning, I went at night

M 17 Birthday present from my darling sister – white silk blouse – arrived; Jim left for the Front again; Dot went home; Mary had her other half day

T 18 Wrote to Will; sent a parcel of sweets to Sergeant Dunn and a cake for Stoker Cooper; Dot’s birthday, gave her an embroidered cosy

W 19 Dot returned; I had tea with Uncle and Alice

T 20 Kit and Arthur came in to tea; I called at Bampfylde

F 21 Received two more letters from my precious sister; I went to Waterloo to see Ernest off for the Front; Dot left later; George came up at night

S 22 Fred and Laurie came for the weekend; Trot came over for the day; Miss Hunter called

S 23 Did not go out; Fred and Laurie went out in the morning

M 24 Raid on the east coast of Kent; Fred and Laurie left early; Lillie came for the day

T 25 Kitty and Hebe came to tea; Mrs Willis called

W 26 Nellie came in the afternoon; Arthur at night

T 27 Alice came to tea; have been feeling very poorly since Monday with internal pains

F 28 Finished four pairs of socks; Dot returned; warmest January for seventy years

S 29 Dr and Mrs Crombie came for an hour; I went to Kit’s to tea; sent for Mr Lawton – Danny has spasmodic rheumatism; Father keeping better

S 30 Dot went to service in the morning, I went at night;

M 31 Much cooler; Mr Moffatt called as did Agnes; I called to see Mrs Pearce and Mrs Brown; another zeppelin raid in the Midlands – a hundred and sixty casualties

February

T 1 I had tea with Uncle; Pearce called

W 2 Continues very cold; called on Nellie and Miss Leach; Dot went to a lecture

T 3 Dot left; hurricane and rain

F 4 Received letters from Lil, Will, Maud and Jim telling us about our darling’s passing away; George, Kit, Arthur, Mrs Hay and Bessie, Mr Seekings and Mrs Pearce called; gave Miss Dunn a parcel of clothes

S 5 Trot came over for the day

S 6 Stayed with Father; George, Nellie and Agnes came to supper

M 7

T 8 My birthday, first since my precious sister went; Violet and Kit came; my dear one pretty well ; I had many loving letters and presents

W 9 Nellie came in the afternoon and Ethel in the evening to stay the night

T 10 Dot returned; Hebe called; sent for Mr Lawton – Danny’s rheumatism and lumbago worse

F 11 Father well, called to see Hebe; Danny better

S 12 Went to Bampfylde after tea

S 13 Dot went to service in the morning, I went at night; Mr Childe and Leslie came to tea

M 14 Called to see Mrs Pearce and Bessie

T 15 Had tea with Uncle; Dot went to Croydon in the morning; Father well; gale at night

W 16 Cold gale blowing; called Bampfylde at night; Mary had a holiday

T 17 Dot left; Miss Leach called; Danny better

F 18 Did not go out; Kit, Arthur and George came up at night

S 19 Trot came over for the day; Theo Moore came to tea; Agnes at night; had letters – 2 mails – from Hobart; Mary had an extra holiday

S 20 Stayed with Father all day

M 21 Mr Moffatt called; George and Mr Lovegrove came up to audit the Mill Lane accounts with Father; sent a parcel to the Front; Hawton had extra time

T 22 Called Bampfylde at night; George came up

W 23 Snow storm; Agnes came to supper; Arthur at night; Will’s letters came; sent parcel to Sergeant Ernest

T 24 Thick snow; cold intense; George called; Dot returned

F 25 Heavy snow storm; went to the dentist to have teeth scaled; Gladys came for the day – she and Dot built a snowman 6ft high on the lawn; sent parcel to Private Yates

S 26 Snowing still; called to see Miss Leach

S 27 Dot went to service in the morning, I at night

M 28 Had a letter to say Uncle was dangerously ill and went over after tea – in a heavy snow storm – and found him much better; Lillie there; Mary had a holiday

T 29 George and Mrs Pearce came; Dot went to Croydon; Hawton had a holiday

March

W 1 Leo came to tea and supper; Miss Cheshire called; snow gone, warmer

T 2 Dot left; Kit and Arthur came up at night

F 3 Snow again; bitterly cold; Nellie called; Hebe came to tea

S 4 Trot came for the day; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

S 5 Stayed with Father; we spent a quiet day alone; hooter at midnight – a zeppelin raid; George’s birthday

M 6 Snow storm again; very cold; got Will’s letters (January 22nd) and copy of Grace’s Will

T 7 Snow; Gladys came for the day

W 8 Alice came to tea; George called as did Mr Latham; Sent Mrs Staples 3/-; snowing still

T 9 A white frost; Fanny Milum came down in the afternoon and stayed the night; Kit and Arthur called; Sergeant B Dunn came to see me, home wounded from the Front

F 10 Called to see Mrs Pearce; Fanny left in the morning

S 11 Had word to say Mrs Wood passed away on the 9th; George and Agnes came

S 12 Stayed with Father all day; Father well

M 13 Dear Mrs Wood’s funeral at 11am, Golders Green; pouring rain; Miss Leach came to tea; Mr Moffatt called; I went to see Nellie

T 14 Sunshine, warmer; Arthur came at night; called to see Bessie; Hawton had extra time

W 15 George came at night

T 16 Dot returned here; rain and fog; I went to have tea with Violet

F 17 Had tea with Uncle

S 18 Lovely day; Father had his first turn in the garden this year; went to Croydon shopping after tea

S 19 Dot went to service in the morning and I went at night; Arthur came in the evening; a lovely day

M 20 Dot left; received two letters from Will

T 21 Very wet; called to see Nellie; wrote to Will and birthday letters to Lil

W 22 Very cold and wet; Trot came over for the day; Arthur came at night

T 23 Snow, bitterly cold; Kit came to tea

F 24 Very cold; Mrs Mann came to tea

S 25 Sunshine, frost; Hebe came to tea; Agnes came at night; sent parcel to Private Price

S 26 Snow showers; stayed with Father all day

M 27 Snow showers; called at Bampfylde

T 28 Snow storm and hurricane; bitterly cold; Father well; wrote birthday letter to Will and sent two books

W 29 Called at Bampfylde; sent donation of 10/- to the Council of Justice; Mary had a holiday

T 30 Alice came to tea and stayed the night; Miss Leach came to tea; Edie called; milder; Hawton had a holiday

F 31 Alice left early; took Father round the garden; Mr Seekings called; Bobbie’s seventeenth birthday; had boiler cleaned in kitchen; received two letters and a book from Will; zeppelin raid

April

S 1 Sent parcels to Private Bell and Private B Smith; called at Bampfylde; Dot came at night; zeppelin rain last night on eastern counties; hooter alarm, one zeppelin brought down over the Thames

S 2 A Spring day; Father in the garden; Dot went to service in the morning and I went at night; zeppelin rain – hooters

M 3 Hot day; Father in the garden; I had tea with Uncle and Alice; Lillie was there, too; zeppelins came but were driven off

T 4 Had tea with Lillie and Marian; George called; powder factory in Faversham blown up, 200 casualties

W 5 Cold; Dot left – her engagement with us terminated after 18 months; Rev Bean came to tea; Arthur came at night

T 6 Wrote to Will and Lil; Hebe and Agnes came to tea; George came at night

F 7 Sent in claim for rebate of income tax; took Louie Pearce an ear trumpet; George came up at night

S 8 Father had a long turn in the garden; called at Bampfylde

S 9 Stayed with Father all day

M 10 Started Spring cleaning; Mrs Pearce here; Mr Moffatt, Miss Leach and George came; Father in the garden

T 11 Colder; Lillie came to stay; Mrs Pearce here

W 12 Father in the garden a short time; I called at Bampfylde; Agnes came

T 13 Cold and wet; Lillie left after tea; Arthur came at night; Mrs Pearce here

F 14 Uncle and Alice came to tea; wrote to Will; George called; sent some literature to Violet at Robertsbridge; very cold wind

S 15 Cold continues; called at Bampfylde; wrote letter to the papers on the sick and wounded horse fund

S 16 Father well; I went to part of the service at night

M 17 Sweep in the dining room; Mrs Pearce here; Hebe came to tea; got two letters from Will and one from Lil and Maud; called to see Bessie

T 18 Windy and wet; did not go out; Mrs Pearce here; wrote to Will

W 19 Wet and cold; did not go out; Mrs Pearce here

T 20 Very cold; Mrs Pearce here; wrote to Signalman A E Smith and sent a book; ditto to Private Brown, and a parcel

F 21 Gave my darling pink azalea as a love gift; first Easter since my precious sister went Home; Father in the garden; Kit and Arthur came to tea; Mary had a half day holiday

S 22 Trot, Bobbie and Theo came for the day; children went with me to see Mrs Pearce; very cold; Father gave Bobbie his microscope; both Mary and Hawton went to church

S 23 Father well and in the garden; went to part of evening service with Agnes; Agnes came to supper; Pearce called

M 24 Father in the garden; Theo called; Hebe came to tea and we drew up a plan for the RSPCA collection in the street

T 25 A lovely Spring day; Father well and in the garden for an hour; Mrs Pearce here; zeppelin raid on the east coast

W 26 Glorious day; Father came down in the morning and I took him round the garden for an hour and a half; very hot; Mrs Pearce here; George came at night; zeppelins near Woolwich

T 27 Intensely hot; Father in the garden; Mrs Pearce here

F 28 Still hot; Mrs Pearce here; finished our Spring cleaning; Hebe came; George at night

S 29 Cold winds; called at Bampfylde; Hebe called; Dr Cressy came to see Father – he has a little indigestion; his first visit to him this year

S 30 Stayed in with Father all day; Father in the garden

May

M 1 Mr Moffatt and Edie called; Gladys and Lilian came to supper and stay the night; two letters from Will; Dr Cressy called; Edie came to tea

T 2 Street collection in aid of sick and wounded horses fund – twenty-two helpers and amount collected: £40/0/9d; Hebe and Miss Dann came to help; Gladys and Lilian left early; total for district £201; Will elected member of Legislative Council – Hon W M Williams

W 3 Doing RSPCA work all day; Hebe here; Father helping both days; George came at night; wrote to Will; Mary had a holiday

T 4 Dot came down to stay; I had tea with Uncle, Lillie and Alice; lovely Spring day; Hawton had a holiday

F 5 Went to Mother’s grace and ordered inscription to be cut on stone for my darling sister; did some shopping; Kit and Arthur came at night; Father gave Dot £6 for a wedding present

S 6 Leo came down to tea and supper; Dot returned with him; her last visit before the wedding; George and Agnes came at night

S 7 Letter from Will; Father in the garden; colder; I went to service at night; George and Nellie came to supper; Bessie and Mrs Hay called

M 8 Bobbie started in business; very cold and wet; Hugh returned to the Front

T 9 Very wet; sent RSPCA sub of one guinea; wrote to Will; George came up at night

W 10 A year since Grace went into the nursing home; Trot came over for the day; Father in the garden

T 11 Father in the garden; Arthur came at night

F 12 A year today since Grace had her first operation; called at Bampfylde; Father in the garden; wrote Maud; Mr Latham called

S 13 Cold and wet

S 14 Cold; Hebe came to tea; Kit had lunch here

M 15 Lovely day; Father enjoyed the garden; I called at Bampfylde and Hebe’s; George came up at night

T 16 Mr Latham came to supper; sent parcel to Private G Price; bundles of papers to Signalman Ernest Smith, Private Yates and Private L Price

W 17 Took Father to Bampfylde after tea; a summer day; wrote to Will

T 18 Intensely hot; Father well and in the garden for several hours

F 19 Mary and I took Father through Beddington Park – the chestnuts in full bloom; still very hot; Mary had extra time

S 20 Father and I went for an hour’s drive around the country – lovely; George came at night; heat intense; daylight saving bill comes into operation; Hawton had extra time; put all our clocks on one hour when we went to bed

S 21 Very hot; went to service at night; too hot for Father to be in the garden for long

M 22 Cooler; Mr Wray (oculist) came to test Father’s eyes; I called to see Hebe

T 23 Father well and in the garden for an hour; George came; I called to see Hebe

W 24 Will’s birthday; Mary and I took Father out for an hour in his chair; a lovely day

T 25 Colder, but bright; Father in the garden; called at Bampfylde; received income tax refund

F 26 Theo’s 13th birthday; Jim arrived home on leave; Mary and I took Father into Carshalton Park for an hour; Agnes came at night

S 27 I took Father down to Bampfylde for an hour; Kit and Arthur came at night

S 28 Weather perfect; quiet Sunday by ourselves; stayed with Father all day

M 29 George came at night; got two letters from Will

T 30 Wrote to Will; colder; Father did not go out; Mr Seekings came to tea; Lillie came to stay; Hawton had a holiday

W 31 Called at Bampfylde; Mary had a holiday

June

T 1 Dot’s wedding at Acton Wesleyan church; I went to church and the reception; Jim went over for a short time; all went off happily; fine but cold

F 2 Lillie’s birthday; Uncle and Alice came to tea; gave Lillie a blouse; Kit called

S 3 Cast of my darling’s things arrived from Hobart; Lillie in bed all day with a severe cold; Agnes called; unpacked case when everyone had gone to bed; news of a great battle in the North Sea

S 4 Stayed in all day; wet and cold; Lillie in bed all day; Jim returned to the Front

M 5 Cold and wet; Mr Moffatt and Hebe called; George came at night; Lillie in bed all day

T 6 Wrote to Will; Lillie came down in the middle of the day; called Bampfylde; George came in; news of Lord Kitchener’s death

W 7 Trot came over for the day; Arthur came at night

T 8 Rev and Mrs Seekings and Mildred came to tea; Lillie better; have been feeling very poorly for a week past

F 9 Went to town on top of a bus after dinner to do some shopping; George and Agnes came at night; stray Persian cat came to us

S 10 Thunderstorms; Marian came for the weekend; Arthur Gilchrist came down to tea and supper; tried to find a home for the stray Persian

S 11 Thunderstorms; Kit and Arthur came to dinner; Mr Childe and Leslie came to tea; did not get to service; called on Agnes and Mrs Hay to try to get house for the stray; letter from Will

M 12 Very wet and cold; no public holiday; Hebe came to tea; I called at Bampfylde; Hawton taken ill, sent for her sister, who took her home in a cab

T 13 Very cold and wet; had tea with Uncle

W 14 George came at night; Private C Brown came to see me, on leave from the Front; wrote to Will

T 15 Father in the garden a short time

F 16 Kit’s birthday – gave her a cosy; cold; Father in the garden

S 17 Father in the garden for an hour; cold but bright; Miss Leach called; went to Bampfylde; Hawton returned; Mary had extra time; Ray planted our grace with white geraniums

S 18 Violet’s birthday – sent her two books; Father in the garden; went to service at night

M 19 Continues cold, having fires; Gladys came to stay the night; Edie and Rene came to supper; Lillie left this morning after a three weeks’ stay

T 20 Wrote to Will; Gladys left; Jim received a staff appointment

W 21 Warmer; Father in the garden; bottled some gooseberries out of garden; George came at night

T 22 Father in the garden

F 23 Bessie called; felt too tired all week to go out

S 24 Cold; Father out for a short time; I went to Bampfylde; Hebe and George called

S 25 Cold again; Mr Moffatt and Bessie called; went to see Mrs Pearce; sent ‘Shy Pilot’ to Louie and to Captain Young

T 27 Hebe came to tea; went to see Theo Moore; had three letters from Will

W 28 Wrote to Will; George came at night, told us he had brought a motor car; Mary had a holiday

T 29 Cold and wet; Nellie came; sent Jim a book

F 30 Nellie came to be with Father; George, Edie and I went to the rose show and the botanic gardens; met Trot and Mrs Armstrong there

July

S 1 Bright but cold winds; home defence men in Wallington; sent books to GR; girls had extra time; a great push commenced at the Front

S 2 Stayed with Father all day; in the garden

M 3 Jim’s twenty-fifth birthday; went to bank whilst Father had his rest; George came up at night

T 4 Violet came down to tea and supper; sent parcel to Lennie; Hawton had a holiday

W 5 Mary and I took Father into Carshalton Park; called to see Mrs Brown and Mrs Pearce; Arthur came at night; wrote to Will

T 6 Fanny Milum came to dinner and tea; George came at night; sent parcel to Charlie

F 7 Very wet; Agnes came at night; sent bunch of grapes to Louie Pearce, by Mary; sent parcel to Ernest; had two letters from Will

S 8 Took Father for a long turn in the garden; Hebe called; the great British offensive continued all week

S9 Trot came over for the day; Kit and Arthur came to dinner; George, Nellie came to supper; Pearce called; I went to service; Hawton taken ill and did not return at night; a swarm of bees on the apple tree – twenty to thirty thousand of them; a beekeeper came and hived them; great British offensive continues

M 10 Uncle and Alive came to tea; Amy G called with her baby; Hawton left our service on account of nervous collapse

T 11 Letter from Will with enclosed cheque for £100; Kit came to tea; cold; called to see Hebe; Mr Lawton called to see Danny, who has eczema

W 12 Wrote to Will; George came at night

T 13 Went to Croydon registry after tea to see after a new cook

F 14 Cold weather continues – had a fire; Mrs Hay called; George came at night

S 15 My precious sister’s birthday, a day of sad memories; sent Maud’s boys two books; Agnes called

S 16 Wet and cold weather continues; Father and I spent a quiet day alone; Mary out for a half day

M 17 Dr Cressy came and sent a tonic for Father; milder; went to registry in Stafford Road; George came at night

T 18 Warm; Lillie came to stay; Mary and I took Father out for an hour and a quarter in his chair; Mr Latham came

W 19 Lovely day; Mr Moffatt came; Fannie and Eddy came at night; letters and two cases of apples from Will; Mary had a holiday

T 20 Hot day; I went to Bampfylde after supper; wrote to Will

F 21 Father, Lillie and I went for an hour’s drive

S 22 Went to Croydon after tea to get Louie some grapes – Mary took them down after supper

S 23 Cold; went to service at night; Lillie stayed with Father – Rev Champness preached

M 24 Lillie left after dinner; cold; wrote to Maud and the boys

T 25 Warmer; had three letters from Will and one from Lil

W 26 Very hot; had tea with Uncle on his eighty-ninth birthday; Lillie was there; Edie stayed with Father; wrote to Will

T 27 Hebe came to tea; took Father an hour’s drive after tea; George came up at night; I went to see Louie Pearce and found her dying

F 28 Father and I went for an hour’s drive after tea

S 29 Made the pastry, etc; took Father to Bampfylde and found them all out; George and Agnes came up at night; took basket of apples to Nellie

S 30 Heat intense – 131° in the sun; Father and I went to Bampfylde to tea in their garden; locked up the house; Mr Chaffer called

M 31 Wrote to Will. Called to see Louie and Mrs Brown; sent Louie jelly, junket and scent; heat intense

August

T 1 Still very hot; went to bank before tea

W 2 Took Hebe a basket of Tasmanian apples; sent Kitty one, Father, Hebe and I went for a drive; George came at night

T 3 Father and I went for a two hour drive

F 4 Second anniversary of the war; Edie came to tea; Agnes called; Kit and Arthur came up at night

S 5 Made the pastry; sent for Dr Cressy for Father – weak and indigestion; in the garden a lot

S 6 We spent a quiet day alone

M 7 The bank holiday not observed; George, Mr Moffatt and Hebe called; made 16lbs peach jam; wrote to Will

T 8 Trot and Theo came for the day; Lillie came to stay

W 9 We went for an hour’s drive; George and Arthur came at night

T 10 Violet came to tea and supper

F 11 Heat intense; had tea with Uncle and Alice

S 12 Rain at night; made the pastry; called to see Mrs Pearce; Agnes came; Dr Cressy called

S 13 Father not so well; went to service at night

M 14 Mary went for her fortnight’s holiday; Mrs Parker brought Mrs Books over as our temporary supply cook; Mrs Cropper came; George came at night

T 15 Rain; called to see Miss Leach

W 16 Uncle and Alice came to tea; Father better; sent Aunt Lissie two books; wrote to Will

T 17 Aunt Lissie’s birthday; Dr Cressy called and had tea with us

F 18 Nellie and Edie called; I went there after supper

S 19 Father well; called to see Hebe

S 20 Went to service at night; George came after supper

M 21 Lillie left after tea; Mr Stewart called; Louie died; I called to see Mrs Pearce

T 22 Father and I had a drive after tea; Mrs Brooks went to Beddington Park

W 23 Wrote to Will; George came up at night

T 24 I went to the funeral of Louie Pearce; Agnes called; zeppelin raid

F 25 Called at Nellie’s; Kit and Arthur came up

S 26 Hebe came to tea; Mrs Hay and Bessie called

S 27 Stayed with Father all day; Mrs Brooks’ sailor boy and daughter came

M 28 Mr Moffatt and Miss Leach called; Mrs Brooks left; Mary returned from her holiday

T 29 Pouring rain; Violet came to tea and supper; Father better

W 30 Wrote to Will; very cold – had fire

T 31 Father in the garden; did not go out; warmer again

September

F 1 Trot came to dinner and tea; took home a box of plums; Father well

S 2 Very wet; I called to see Agnes; sent Mary’s mother a basket of plums and apples

S 3 Father in the garden; Mr Moffatt came to tea with us; Arthur Gilchrist killed in action; in all day

M 4 Very cold, had fire; Hebe called; I went to the bank; two letters from Will

T 5 Wrote to Will; Mr Seekings called; Mrs Pearce came

W 6 Kit and Dorothy came to tea

T 7 Father in the garden a lot; a lovely day; called to see Mrs Hay

F 8 Warmer

S 9 Seven years today since my darling sister married; had news that Arthur Gilchrist was killed in action; went up to Bampfylde after tea to welcome them home from Westgate

S 10 Arnold and Beatty came to tea and supper; in all day

M 11 Two letters from Will; George came up at night

T 12 Trot came over to stay till Thursday; Nellie came to tea; I went to town with Kitty, shopping

W 13 I went to our grave and took a wreath for Mother and Grace; George came at night; wrote to Will

T 14 My precious mother’s birthday; Trot left; Ray picked apples and crab apples; Uncle and Alive came to tea; received probate papers re Grace’s Will

F 15 Fifteen years since Mother went Home; George and Arthur came up at night; bitterly cold

S 16 Inspector Bayliss came to see me about a mule and an overcrowded crate; Father well and in the garden for an hour

S 17 Stayed with Father all day; George came after supper

M 18 Wrote to Will; Father in the garden

T 19 Very cold; bottled 12lbs of damsons; Alice Spinks came to see me

W 20

T 21 Father in the garden; Mr Latham called; George came at night

F 22 Called to see Hebe; Della’s birthday

S 23 Perfect day; Father in the garden; Mary’s birthday – went out after tea; gave her an iced cake; zeppelin raid – woken by guns and flashlights at 12.45am; fire balls dropped over Wallington; zeppelins here and in Streatham, Brixton and Kennington

S 24 Stayed in all day with Father; Agnes came to tea

M 25 Mr Moffatt came; George at night; went to see Hebe; zeppelin raid; raised Mary’s wages to £24

T 26 Wrote to Will; called at Bampfylde

W 27 Kit came to tea; Mary had a holiday

T 28 Edie came to be with Father; I went to Sir Alexander Critchett with George; Violet came to tea and supper; made 12lbs blackberry jelly

F 29 Arthur came up at night

S 30 Called to see Kit and Hebe; George came up at night

October

S 1 Stayed with Father all day; no visitors; Father well; warmer

M 2 Feeling very ill; Agnes came in the morning and I went early to bed; wrote to Will

T3 Very poorly, Dr Cressy came to see me; Agnes came again at night and I went to bed

W 4 Ditto; George and Nellie called; made Father’s birthday cake

T 5 A lovely day; my precious Father’s eighty-fifth birthday – he spent a happy day, well; had a lot of letters and gifts; Trot came and Kit and Arthur to dinner; Miss Croft called

F 6 Officers called to ask us to billet a staff officer; Trot left after dinner; Hebe came to tea; George called; Mrs Pearce left; Florence Still, the new cook, came

S 7 Gladys’ thirtieth birthday; gales continue; called at Bampfylde; feeling very ill all week

S 8 Stayed with Father all day; a big bunch of grapes sent from Father to harvest festival

M 9 Very exhausted; Dr Cressy came to see me; Arthur came at night; I went to a lecture with Kit on the Pre-Raphaelites; wrote to Will

T 10 Uncle and Alice came to tea; George and Fannie called; I called to see Hebe; gave Miss Dunn a skirt

W 11 Took Hebe a bunch of flowers for her birthday; very weak still

T 12 Hetty and Marjory came to tea; Father has a cold, sent for Dr Cressy

F 13 Called at Bampfylde; heard Dick Mann has been killed in action

S 14

S 15 A quiet day alone; stayed with Father all day; a Special called to war us against showing too much light at night

M 16 Very cold; Mr Moffatt and Hebe called; went to see Bessie; got two letters from Will

T 17 Very wet; Lillie came to stay; wrote to Will; a letter from Will

W 18 Eva and Mabel came to tea; Kitty came too; Father better again

T 19 Had tea with Uncle; am still feeling ill

F 20 Kit went with me to Streatham in the afternoon to do some shopping; Dr Cressy came – Father better

S 21 Called at Bampfylde and see Miss Leach; Dr Cressy came to see me; sharp frosts

S 22 Went to service at night; Father well

M 23 Had tea with Kit and Arthur; George and Agnes called; a lovely day; Father’s cough bad

T 24 Arthur came at night

W 25 Mr Seekings came to tea; Miss Cheshire called; wrote to Will; Mary had a holiday

T 26 Gladys came to stay at night; Dr Cressy came to see us both

F 27 Gladys left after dinner; called at Bampfylde

S 28 Hebe and George came

S 29 Stayed with Father all day

M 30 Went to bank after dinner; pouring rain came on; Mr Blewett called; have a bad attack of lumbago

T 31 Ditto; Edie came to tea; wrote to Will

November

W 1 Dr Cressy came to see me; still feeling very poorly

T 2 Miss Leach called; Mr Latham came to supper

F 3 Trot came for the day; heavy rains continue

S 4 Got four letters from Will; gales continue; sent Violet 18 copies of the RSPCA journal for distribution

S 5 A dreadful gale of wind and rain; stayed with Father all day

M 6 Called at Bampfylde; George and Mr Seekings came at night

T 7 Mr Moffatt came; George and Arthur at night; Florence Still left our service after a moth; Beatrice Giltro came in as cook

W 8 Sent Hebe a box of silver trinkets for the ambulance fund; Miss Florence and Alice came to tea; called to see Mrs Pearce; wrote to Will

T 9 Sent Dot 5/- to start lantern animal lectures; Jim gazetted Captain and serving Major

F 10 Got letter from Will

S 11 Hebe came to tea; George came; Mary went to the Mission; Father well

S 12 Stayed with Father all day; Agnes came to tea and supper

M 13 Wrote to Will; sent parcel of clothes to Mrs Brewer

T 13 Fog; Lillie came to stay; I went to the Mission; a wonderful service

W 15 Explosion at a munitions factory at 11pm; Kit called; I went to Bampfylde after tea

T 16 Had tea with Uncle; bitterly cold

F 17 Ditto; went to Streatham to buy Father’s birthday present for Trot; went to Presbyterian church at night

S 18 Snow; Marian came in the afternoon to stay the night; girls both went to the Mission

S 19 Sleet; went to service at night

M 20 Trot’s birthday; Father sent Ray over with three vases; I sent a cosy; Fred came to stay the night; George came up; Xmas present of furs arrived from Will

T 21 Lillie left after lunch; Mr Westcombe called

W 22 Mr Foster came to tea; George came at night

T 23 Hugh arrived home on 10 days’ leave; wrote to Will

F 24 Called at Bampfylde; got three letters from Will

S 25 George came in the morning; Uncle very ill

S 26 Alice phoned to say Uncle was worse; went over at once to see him; Edie came here

M 27 Ray went to plant our grace with tulips; Nellie and Fannie came to tea

T 28 Kit came to tea; Father tied up nine parcels for the Front; had mincemeat made

W 29 Wrote to Will; George came at night; Father well; Mary had a holiday

T 30 Had tea with Uncle, still very ill but he knew me – mind wanders; Edie came to be with Father; Agnes at night, so we played whist

December

F 1 Ethel and Alastair came to dinner and tea; Uncle very ill, unconscious; Hebe called

S 2 Uncle worse, unconscious

S 3 We spent the day alone; very cold – somewhat upsets Father; Hugh returned to the Front

M 4 Cold intense; feeling very poorly; Jim awarded Bar to his Military Cross; made Xmas puddings

T 5 Dear Uncle passed Home in his 89th year; Father poorly – digestion; sent for Dr Cressy; I have a bad cold; Kit and Mr Moffatt came

W 6 Feeling very ill; Alice came to talk over business; Arthur and Mr Robinson (of Seaford) called

T 7 Sent for Dr Cressy, Father in bed with influenza; still very ill with it myself but nursing him day and night; had sweep in the kitchen; sent a beautiful wreath for dear Uncle

F 8 With Father all night, very ill, no sleep until 4am; I slept, but restless; Trot came to stay the night; Arthur came; Beatrice had a holiday

S 9 Trot with Father all night so that I might get some sleep; Father rather better but still very ill; dear Uncle buries at Norwood; Trot left after tea; Agnes called – am still very ill myself; Rene had an operation for appendicitis; Kit in bed with flu; Lillie and Aunt Lissie also ill; Father very ill indeed

S 10 Father a trifle stronger, cough dreadful; mine also very bad; Arthur and Agnes called; with Father all night

M 11 Father very, very ill; obliged to send for night nurse; I nursed him all day; Trot came

T 12 Went to my darling first thing and held his hand until 4pm, when he passed peacefully away; George and Arthur came

W 13 Trot left after tea with Gladys; Violet, George and Arthur came; Alice came to stay with me; Agnes called

T 14 Alone most of the day; Alice came back at 4pm; Fannie came, as did Arthur and Agnes

F 15 Bentley and George came; sent the girls to Croydon to buy mourning; Mrs Pearce came; snowing; Arthur came at night; kissed my darling a last goodnight

S 16 My last darling laid to rest at Norwood; service at home – Rev Rees conducted; present were Gladys, Bobbie, Arthur Smith, Hettie, Harry, Marian, George, Arthur, Kitty, Fannie Testar, Arnold, Maurice Champness, Mr Moffatt, Alice, Mrs Pearce, Mary, Beatrice – twenty-four beautiful wreaths; awful fog, took three and a quarter hours to get home – a man with a lantern walking by the horses’ heads all the way

S 17 Alice and I alone all day; Arthur, George, Mr Champness and Mr Latham called; Dr Cressy came to see me; Rev Seekings prayed in church

M 18 Alice left after dinner; Fannie Testar and Kitty came; George at night; am now alone

T 19 Kitty, Agnes and Arthur came; Dr Cressy called to see me – am feeling very ill and so unutterably lonely

W 20 Kitty came in the morning; Nellie to tea; Arthur at night; sent Will £100 legacy

T 21 George and Agnes called; still feeling so ill; sending my darling’s gifts of books or money for Xmas as he would have wished

F 22 A years since my precious sister went Home; Kitty came in to tea with me; Hebe and Arthur came; Dr Cressy came to see me;

S 23 Violet came down to tea and supper; during the week, paid out Grace’s personal legacies

S 24 George, Arthur and Mr Seekings called; Agnes came in to supper; wrote to Will – had a cable from him

M 25 Thinking of all my dearest safe Home and longing to be with them; all Bampfylde friends, Arthur, Mr Champness and Theo Moore called; Agnes came in for the day; servants went out for a half day

T 26 Mr Chaffer, Mrs Hawksley, George and Nellie called; Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to tea; Mary had a half day

W 27 Dot came to tea and dinner; Theo and Dorothy called; awful fog

T 28 Agnes called; Arthur came at night; Mrs Pearce came to wash curtains

F 29 Theo and Bessie called; Kitty came to tea; still feeling too ill to go out; Mrs Pearce came for the day

S 30 Dr Cressy called and took me up to Bampfylde in his motor; had tea there; first time I have been out for a month; Arthur came up to attend to probate; 78 letters and telegrams of sympathy

S 31 Spent the day all alone; Arthur and Dorothy looked in; wrote to Trot and the children telling them of their legacies


1917

January

M 1 Had dinner with them at Bampfylde; George came up at night for business; Theo called in

T 2 Wrote to Will; Agnes called; Arthur came up at night

W 3 Trot came over to stay the night; Mrs Hay and Mrs Landon called

T 4 Trot left; Alice came to stay a few days; Violet came down;

F 5 Mr Woodcock and partner came for the day to take valuation of furniture; I met with Father’s executors here, from 5pm to 10.30pm

S 6 Alice left; went to Croydon in the morning

S 7 Kit and Arthur came to tea and Agnes to supper

M 8 I called at Bampfylde; George came at night

T 9 Wrote to Will; snow and bitter winds; cough very bad still; Hebe came to tea

W 10 Met Trot in town and went to be fitted for a fur coat; Arthur came at night

T 11 Called on Mrs Pearce; Ethel came and stayed the night; Beatrice had a holiday

F 12 Went to Clifton Villa for the day to take the inventory of the house for probate; Kit went there to tea

S 13 Went to see Lillie and Marian and do business matters with them; Theo called; George came at night

S 14 Went to church at night for the first time since my precious Father went Home

M 15 Eva Oliver came to see me; snow

T 16 George came at night; snow and bitterly cold

W 17 Went to Eastbourne on probate business, by the 1.50pm train, arriving 3.25pm; found the Aunties both ill in bed

T 18 Dot’s birthday; spent half an hour by the sea and the rest of the time sitting with the Aunties

F 19 Had an hours walk in the morning; spent the rest of the time with the Aunties; gave Esther a warm dressing gown

S 20 Bitterly cold; out for half an hour; Aunties still both in bed

S 21 Called to see Mrs Shelton; a few minutes’ walk by the sea; Esther went out; spent day with Aunties in their rooms

M 22 Gave Aunties a warm dressing gown each; out for an hour before dinner

T 23 Bitterly cold; only out, for a short time, twice; wrote Will

W 24 Returned from Eastbourne; Alice met me and came home for two nights; first home-coming without darling Father

T 25 Kit called; Arthur came at night and the three of us went to the Commissioner for Oaths to swear Uncle’s Will

F 26 Alice left; Hebe called; cold intense, did not go out

S 27 Had dinner at Bampfylde

S 28 Went to both services

M 29 Went to see Kitty; George came in at night

T 30 Spent the day at Trot’s; Jim home

W 31 Snowstorm; Edie came to tea

February

T 1 Met George and Arthur at lawyers in town to take oath on Father’s Will; had supper with Kit and Arthur

F 2 Alice came to stay; we locked up Clifton Villa

S 3 Went to Lillie’s to tea; cold continues intense, with snow

S 4 Alice and I went to morning, stayed at home at night; Agnes came to supper; snowing

M 5 Had Will’s letter – and a photo of Grace; Mr Moffatt and Miss Croft came to tea; deep snow

T 6 Wrote to Will; called at Bampfylde and to see the Hays; Alice in town all day

W 7 Alice and I went to Sailors and Soldiers convention at City Road – grand services

T 8 First birthday without my darling Father – in loving thought with my three dearest; Trot came to tea; Kit and Agnes called

F 9 Trot left after dinner; Alice went to Croydon; George, Arthur and Hebe came

S 10 Arthur called

S 11 Thawing; we went to service twice; stayed for Communion at night for the first time since Father went

M 12 Feeling very poorly with a bad cold; two months since my darling went Home

T 13 Ditto: in bed all day; Nellie and Edie called

W 14 Ditto; wrote to Will

T 15 Alice went to Beckenham; Violet came to tea and supper; feeling ill

F 16 Ditto; went to commissioner for oaths to swear codicil to Uncle’s Will; girls went to the picture theatre

S 17 Alice and I had tea with Kit and Arthur; still have a bad cold

S 18 Too poorly to go out

M 19 Same

T 20 Went to Waterloo at 4pm to see Jim off for the Front; Trot, Ethel, Gladys, Arthur and I had tea together; George came up at night

W 21 We went to the bank in the morning; Hebe came to tea; wrote to Will

T 22 Called at Bampfylde; Kit and Arthur came to supper

F 28 Went to Trot’s to stay until Tuesday; Alice went to the Isle of Wight – her mother is ill; left servants in charge

S 24 Went to village with Trot, shopping; Theo in bed with swollen glands; Ada Young came to supper

S 25 I went to chapel at Southgate; Ethel came to tea and supper, Ada too

M 26 Did not go for a walk; Neris very ill

T 27 I left after tea and found all right at home

W 28 Called to see Kit; wrote to Will; Hilda had a son; Mary had a holiday

March

T 1 Went to Nellie’s to tea; called to see Miss Leach; George and Arthur came up at night for business; Beatrice had a holiday

F 2 George, Hebe and Mrs Pearce came; I went to Croydon in the morning; called at Bampfylde

S 3 I went to Norwood – took daffodils and narcissi; went on to Lillie’s to tea

S 4 Went to service and stayed for the Sacrament; Ernest came to tea and supper

M 5 George’s birthday; snow; wrote to Will; Arthur came up at night for business; Alice returned to stay

T 6 I went to Acton to stay with Fanny Milum

W 7 Called to see Hilda in the nursing home and her wee son; snow

T 6 Called to see Hilda; Mr Hopper came to tea; returned home at night; cold intense

F 9 Snow and frost; Kit, George and Mr Seekings came

S 10 Alice and I had tea with Kit and Arthur; Mary had extra time

S 11 Went to service both morning and night; warmer and very wet

M 12 Three months today; went to bank in the morning; had tea with Hebe; Kit came

T 13 Called at Bampfylde; George came at night

W 14 Wrote to Will; went with Alice to see over Lyndhurst house again; went to Bampfylde; Beatrice gave notice

T 15 Alice and I went to town shopping in the morning; got back at 5.30pm; Violet came to tea and supper; George came at night

F 16 Called to see Kit; blouse came from Will for February 8th; Mary had extra

S 17 Alice and I went to Clifton Villa to meet Lillie and Marian and settle business affairs

S 18 Alice and I went to morning service; Kit and Arthur came to tea; wrote to Will

M 19 Cabled Will not to come at present; went to stay with Dot at Ridgmont; we went to a lecture in the evening

T 20 Cold intense; went for a walk early and called on cottagers with Dot later; Leo in bed; the Rector, Mr Rust, called

W 21 Leo still in bed; Dot poorly; I took women’s meeting for them; short address, prayers and hymns

T 22 Snow and blizzard – never felt the cold so much; went to the village early; Mrs Clarke came; I left after dinner and got home before 8pm; all right at home

F 23 Still snowing; Alice went to Bromley; had tea at Bampfylde; called to see Mr Stewart; Mrs Pearce came; Mary had extra time

S 24 Went to see Kit in the morning; George went with me to meet the landlord at Lyndhurst House and go over it; Beatrice had extra time; feeling very poorly

S 25 In bed for half the day; did not go out; Agnes came to tea and supper

M 26 Still poorly; snow; had tea with Hebe

T 27 Called Hayes; Kit and Dorothy came to tea; Edie called; Mrs Pearce came to wash curtains; George came at night; wrote to Will

W 28 Violet came to tea and supper; George came; called at Bampfylde; Mary had a holiday

T 29 Too poorly to go out; Edie came to tea

F 30 In bed all day; been sharp attack of influenza; Alive returned at night; Beatrice had a half day

S 31 Bob’s eighteenth birthday; in bed most of the day; wired to Leicester to say I was too unwell to go next week; George came

April

S 1 Very poorly and in bed till dinner; Alice went to both services; wrote to Will; thick snow

M 2 Got up to breakfast; deep snow; Arthur came to tea and supper on business matters; Hebe called

T 3 Had tea with Kit; George called; Alice in town all day; we wrote business letters until 11.15pm; snow storm

W 4 Dot had a daughter; America declared war against Germany; went to Bampfylde and to commissioner for oaths at night; Alice out all day; Mrs Pearce called

T 5 Alice left for good; Agnes called; Trot came to stay for a few days; weather improved

F 6 First Easter since my precious Father went; Trot and I went to service in the morning and to church in Croydon at night to hear Stainer’s Crucifixion; Arthur called; still snowing

S 7 Trot and I went over Lyndhurst and I signed a lease for three years; we went to Bampfylde to tea; very cold; summer time commences at 2am; Beatrice had extra time; both girls went to service

S 8 Trot left after breakfast; went to service in the morning and evening and to Kit’s to tea

M 9 Snow; called to see Hebe and Mrs Hay; had tea at Nellie’s; Arthur came to supper and did business after; Mary had a holiday

T 10 Cold intense with snow in blizzards; Kitty ill with flu, went to see her; Mrs Newbegin came

W 11 Gale and snow; went to see Kit; Hebe came to tea; sent a parcel of hymn books, etc to Seamen’s Mission; wrote to Will

T 12 Went to our grave and took a pot of daffodils – four months since my precious Father went; had tea with Lillie and went with her to see their new rooms; went to say goodbye to Percy Hay before he goes to camp

F 13 Went to Kit’s and called on Miss Leach; Mrs Foster called

S 14 Went to Beckenham to help Marian  get some of things; Agnes called; Beatrice Filtro left our service after five months; very cold and wet

S 15 Went to service in the morning; Mary out half the day

M 16 Mrs Hay and Bessie came to tea; George came at night; hail, thunder and very cold

T 17 Kit came to tea and I went back with her to supper

W 18 Nellie came to tea; Mrs Pearce called; received key of Lyndhurst House

T 19 Had tea with Violet and Florrie; a Spring day; wrote to Will

F 20 Met Pearce at new garden; George, Arthur and I met at lawyers in town to sign transfers; I went to Lillie’s to help them get straight

S 21 Made pastry; Kit went over the new house with me; George and Nellie in the evening

S 22 Went to service; had tea at Nellie’s; wrote to Will; colder

M 23 Trot came over for day; Alice came to stay; Rene has measles

T 24 Alice went to take measurements with me to the house; I took Rene a pot of roses

W 25 Alice and I went to Beckenham to get off part of the furniture and then on to Tulse Hill to help the girls; Violet there

T 26 Met landlord and decorator at the new house

F 27 Came to Leicester by the 4.15pm train; Alice saw me off – staying with Laurie and Fred; still very cold

S 28 Spent the morning out shopping with Laurie; went for a walk with Laurie; feeling ill with a bad cold

S 29 Ditto; we all went to St James’ church in the morning; stayed in the rest of the day

M 30 Laurie and I went for a country walk; Fred took me over printing office of the Leicester Mail in the afternoon; wrote to Will

May

T 1 Lovely Spring day; we went for a walk in the morning and on the top of a tram after tea; did some shopping

W 2 Laurie and I went to opening of first communal kitchen in Leicester and to the picture palace to see ‘Vanity Fair’ after tea

T 3 We went for a country walk in the morning and, after tea, on top of a tram for an hour – a perfect day; had a letter from Will

F 4 Laurie and I went into town in the morning; I went to Coventry to Hetty’s by the 4.25pm, arriving 6.15pm

S 5 Walk in the morning; Marjory motored three soldiers and me to Warwick, Kenilworth, Leamington and Guy’s Cliff and brought them back to tea; Mary had a holiday on the 2nd

S 6 All went to the Congregational church in the morning and to St Michael’s in the evening; walked all the way over the common

M 7 Hetty and I went to see St Mary’s Hall in the morning and, after tea, went up to Bert’s; wrote to Will

T 8 Hetty, Marjory and I went to Birmingham and Dorothy met us; went to the cathedral and saw over it and then went to West Hill training institute, etc; I took them all to tea

W 9 Hetty and I went for a walk in the country and to Harry’s to tea; munition men out on strike here; we motored home in the evening

T 10 Rain; Oliver took us all to Birmingham to see ‘Daddy Long Legs’ at the Prince of Wales; had lunch at Paterson’s, tea at Oak Room; motored to and from Coventry stations

F 11 Went for a long walk with Hetty and Marjory; left Coventry for Euston on the 3.15pm and arrived at 5.15pm; got home at 6.15pm; Kit came up

S 12 Called at Bampfylde – all the girls had measles; did church flowers for Nellie

S 13 Went to service in the morning

M 14 Violet and Florrie came down to tea and supper; wrote to Will

T 15 Went to choose electric fittings with Arthur Stair and Trot; George came up at night

W 16 Mr Latham called to see me; went to help Kit with a jumble sale at Mill Lane Mission

T 17 Hebe came to tea; George called

F 18 Went to Croydon on business; Agnes called; went to Bampfylde

S 19 Called on the Hays in the evening

S 20 Went to service; Mrs Hay and Bessie called and brought me lilies; wrote to Will

M 21 Lillie came to stay a few days

T 22 Came to Eastbourne by the 1.50pm train to help Aunties prepare for their move

W 23 Doing business for them all day

T 24 Ditto; brought Aunt Janie home with me to stay for a week; George came up at night

F 25 Went to Croydon; had five carpets up; Lillie left in the evening; Alice came to stay; Auntie pretty well

S 26 Called at Bampfylde and Mrs Pearce; George and Nellie went with me to the new house; Alice at Beckenham; took Auntie out in the chair; weather perfect all this month; Theo’s 14th birthday

S 27 Went to service – duet of chorister boy and tenor; Alice and I took Auntie in the chair to see the new house; Bessie called

M 28 Mrs Pearce and Mary started cleaning the new house; Alice went to Beckenham; I went to Eastbourne, by train, to help Aunties

T 29 Working for Aunties all day; called to see Mr Shelton; Mary had a holiday

W 30 Arnold came early to help; we brought Aunt Lissie up to Beckenham and Esther; Lillie and Alice there to meet us

T 31 Alice and I went over early to receive, and put straight, some furniture for Aunties; back at 6.30pm

June

F 1 Alice and I took Aunt Janie over to Beckenham in the evening; I gave the Aunties the bath chair and took it over with us

S 2 Alice and I went to Streatham shopping; George came at night; Mrs Pearce working in the new house all week, Mary with her most of the time

S 3 Too tired to go out, stayed in bed part of the day; Mother and Father’s wedding day

M 4 Arthur came up at night and went to the new house with me; sold some of the furniture

T 5 Men in the house most of the day; George came up at night; met Mr Britton at the house

W 9 Trot came over for the day

T 10 Very busy day

F 11 Ditto

S 12 Ditto

S 13 Alice and I went to church in the morning – last Sunday in the old home

M 11

T 12 Began move to Lyndhurst House

W 13 Left dear old home; moved into Lyndhurst House; George came to help

T 14 Nellie and Edie called

F 15 George came

S 16 Kit’s birthday; Edie and Rene came

S 17 Went to church in the morning; heat continues intense – greatest since 1911

M 18

T 19

W 20

T 21 Went to Aunties to tea

F 22

S 23 Trot came over for the day; gave over possession of Sunthorpe – been there 12 years; picked 4½lbs cherries our of new garden and 12lb gooseberries from Sunthorpe

S 24 We went to service in the morning and to Wallington church at night; Jim came home on leave

M 25

T 26 George came, and Edie

W 27 Violet came to tea and supper; Mary had a holiday

T 28 Rene called; I went to Trot’s to see Jim

F 29 Kit came at night; Alice returned and stayed the night

S 30 Alice left early; had tea at Nellie’s

July

S 1 Too poorly to go out; George and Nellie came to tea and supper

M 2 Went up to Kit’s

T 3 Jim’s twenty-sixth birthday; called to see Mrs Brown and Mrs Pearce

W 4 Went up to town by the 6.43am train to see Jim off for the Front; went home with Trot for a few hours; George came at night; gave Mrs Brown and Miss Dunn a lot of things

F 6 Had tea with Aunties and called to see Theo

S 7 Big raid on London; called Bampfylde and to see Agnes

S 8 Went to church in the morning; very wet day; Arthur called; Agnes came to supper

M 9 Very wet

T 10 Went to Lillie’s to tea; Hebe called

W 11 Trot, Bobbie and Theo came for the day; Ethel came to stay the night; George came; Mary had tea with Esther

T 12 Ethel left after dinner; I went to Bampfylde; Hebe came to live with me

F 13 Went to Orchard Leigh all day to help Kit with her mother’s treat

S 14 Heat intense; went to my dearests’ grace and took two plants; Grace’s birthday; called to see Lillie and Marian

S 15 My darling sister’s birthday; went to service in the morning

M 16

T 17 Mary went for her holiday and Mrs Pearce came; George came up at night; Fannie came to tea

W 18 Sent three dozen books for soldiers; Ethel and I spent the afternoon in town together and went to the picture palace

T 19 Went to Fanny Milum’s to stay

F 20 Fanny and I went to town together and had tea at Whiteley’s

S 21 Ethel came to Fanny’s to tea; I left afterwards and came home all the way on the top of a bus – 2 ½ hours

S 22 Went to church and to Bampfylde to supper

M 23 Went to sinner at Aunties’ Alice came to tea; wrote Will

T 24 Gladys came over for the day; picked 6lbs of cherries

W 25 Went to Sidcup to stay with Mrs Oliver

T 26 Called to see Mrs West, Mrs Price, Maggie Watson; we all went to Frognal in the afternoon; went to Wilkie and Clandon homes

F 27 Called to see Rose Cowdrey; returned home by bus after tea; George came at night

S 28

S 29 Went to service twice and to Kit’s to tea; great offensive began

M 30 Fanny Milum came and stayed the night

T 31 Fanny left after dinner; Mary returned from her holiday; Mrs Pearce left; pouring rain

August

W 1 Ditto; cold

T 2 George took me to lawyers to make my Will; did some shopping in town

F 3 Call at Benfleet Hall to ask for party of wounded soldiers for next week; Matron took me over the hospital; called to see Mrs Cheshire

S 4 Went to Nellie’s to tea; Kit and Arthur came to supper; ceiling in Mary’s room fell down; 4th anniversary of the war

S 5 Special intercession service and Communion; Ada and Gladys came to tea and supper

M 6 Went to Fannie’s for the day; Dot and baby there

T 7 Workmen in my house mending the ceiling; wrote to Will

W 8 Made cakes and did some shopping ready for Friday; wrote to four soldiers and sent smokes; Mr Moffatt came to tea

T 9 Had dinner with Aunties; took Aunt G up to the bank

F 10 Had six wounded soldiers to tea from Benfleet RC Hospital

S 11 Went to Bampfylde after supper

S 12 Went to service in the morning

M 13 George came; called on Mrs Brown, Agnes and Bessie

T 14 Went to town and George took me to lunch and met me after at Norwood; we went to my grave; had tea with Lillie and May

W 15 George came up

T 16 Went to the bank and Streatham; called at Bampfylde

F 17 Aunt Lissie’s birthday; went over to tea and supper with them; Marian went to supper; Took Auntie early morning tea set and box of nectarines; took Marian a box of plums

S 18 Hilda, Paul and Bentley came to tea and supper

S 19 Went to service – alone the rest of the dya

M 20 Went to Ethel’s in the morning and stayed the night

T 21 Went to Trot’s to tea and supper; returned home at night

W 22 Met Trot in town and had tea together; took ticket for the Army & Navy stores for 5/-; Marian came to stay the night; Fannie and Rene came

T 23 Bottles 12lbs greengages out of the garden; Agnes called; called to see Mrs Hay; went to the dentist

F 24 Called to see Mrs Pearce

S 25 Esther came over to tea with Mary

S 26 Went to service in the morning; Arthur called; wrote to Will

M 27 Cold and wet

T 28 Called to see Fannie and Agnes, took them fruit

W 29 Went to Scotland – stayed the night at Central Station; left 9.00am and arrived at 7.20pm

T 30 Lovely day – went on to Skelmorlie by 10.15am train and arrived at 11.15am; found Mrs Gilchrist still an invalid in her room

F 21 Ellen and I went for a country walk in the morning; Mr and Mrs MacDonald came to tea; James returned in the evening

September

S 1 In the grounds in the morning; went up to see Mrs George and the children after tea

S 2 We went to service in the morning and stayed with Mrs Gilchrist at night

M 3 Went for a long walk to Upper Skelmorlie in the morning – country lovely; went rest of the day; anniversary of Arthur’s passing

T 4 Walked to Wemyss Bay in the morning; Miss Carruthers came to tea and Mr, Mrs and Miss MacDonald, Miss Laidlaw and Mrs and Miss Cunningham called

W 5 Went through the Kelly woods; after tea; Eileen and I went up in the wood; George came at night

T 6 Went for a long walk alone in the morning over the moor; Ellen went with me in the afternoon

F 7 Walked to Wemyss Bay and went on the beach; box of fruit arrived from home

S 8 Very wet; Ellen and I called to see Mrs George

S 9 Mr George, Ellen, James and I went to service and stayed for Communion; Ellen, Bob and I went at night; my darling sister’s wedding day – seven years ago

M 10 Mr Gilchrist took me to the gardens, four miles across the moor; Mr MacDonald came to tea; wrote to Will

T 11 Walked towards Largs and back by the high road; Ellen and I went to Amy’s to tea and met Mrs and Miss MacDonald there

W 12 Walked to Wemyss Bay; called, with Ellen, to see Miss Robertson, met Mrs and Miss MacDonald there

T 13 Wet, stormy day; in the house all day; Mrs Gilchrist not so well; went round the grounds in the evening; heard Jim slightly wounded; lost my ruby ring

F 14 My precious Mother’s birthday; went for a walk to Upper Skelmorlie, through Kelly woods; Dr Currie, Mrs Given, Mr, Mrs and Miss MacDonald came to tea

S 15 Sixteen years since Mother passed Home; went for a stroll in the morning; Amy came to tea; played chess with James at night

S 16 Mr Gilchrist, Bob, Ellen and I went to church; stayed with Mrs Gilchrist at night

M 17 Walked into Wemyss Bay; Mr and Mrs Robertson came to tea; played chess with Mr Robertson and James

T 18 Very wet; went to say goodbye to Amy in the morning; in grounds with Ellen all afternoon and played chess with James at night

W 19 Left Skelmorlie by the 11.40am train for Glasgow – Mr Gilchrist came with me and we looked at shops and had tea; he saw me off for Killochan – arrived at 4.40pm

T 29 Wet, stormy day, colder; went for a short turn in the grounds with Colonel Grant, and alone. Mr Horncastle came to tea

F 21 Lovely day; went for a long walk by the river in the morning; Mrs Grant and I drove into Girvan after lunch

S 22 Went for a long stroll towards Barr; drove to Girvan with Mrs Grant after lunch; sent rent for Lyndhurst

S 23 Went for lovely walks; no church near here; story day; sent water rates

M 24 Stormy; went over fields by the river and for a long walk

T 25 Went for a long walk over the hills to where there are views; Mrs Grant and I drove into Girvan and called on Mrs Todd

W 26 Very damp, wet day; went for a short walk in the morning; a long stroll in the evening; saw a glorious sunset over Ailsa Craig; a new moon over the river

T 27 Went along the main road and climbed a hill beyond Kiln, with a view of Ailsa Craig; walked by the river in the evening; stormy

F 28 Went for a long walk towards Barr; we drove into Girvan after lunch; all drove to calls on Mr and Mrs Fogle after tea

S 29 Driving most and rain all day; went out with Jock before lunch and for an hour’s walk at night; air raids on London for five nights

S 30 A dull, damp day; Mrs Grant went for a walk with me in the morning; I went over the hills in the evening, beyond kiln

October

M 1 Walked out beyond the old churchyard and the kennels; we called later on Hon and Mrs Watson at Blair; went to see the coachman’s wife

T 2 Went over fields beyond the river walk; we drove into Girvan after lunch; wet later

W 3 Ethel’s birthday; rain and gale all day; much colder; in all day; wrote to Will

T 4 Auntie Miriam’s birthday; went over the hills beyond Lovestone; we drove into Girvan and had tea with Mrs Farquhar Finn

F 5 My precious Father’s birthday; very cold and wet, snow on Arran; went over the hills and was caught in a hail shower; motored to Girvan after tea

S 6 Bitterly cold; snow on Arran; I went over the hills beyond the station and got a fine view of Girvan, Turnberry, Arran, Mull and Holy Isle etc; we drove into Girvan in the afternoon by the long road

S 7 Gladys’ thirty-first birthday; very wet; out for a short time in the morning; went for a walk in the evening – a fine sunset and an afterglow on the hills

M 8 Pouring all day; did not go out

T 9 Sleet, hail and rain – out for a short walk in the morning and got caught in it; in the rest of the day

W 10 Mrs Grant and I left Girvan by the 10.15am train; arrived Glasgow and did some shopping and went to see Nellie and called at Maclure Macdonald and met Mrs Kelso; saw Mrs Grant off on the 5.10pm train and went to look at the shops; spent the night at St Enoch’s Hotel

T 11 Left Glasgow by 9.15am, arriving at St Pancras at 7.45pm; home 9.45pm – Hebe’s birthday

F 12 Hebe went to Bexhill; called at Bampfylde after supper

S 13 Very cold and wet; had tea with Kit and Arthur and took them shortbread

S 14 Went to service, harvest festival; Fannie and Edie came to tea and supper

M 15 Went to see Jim in Endesley Palace Hospital

T 16 Very wet; Lillie came to stay

W 17 Called to see Miss Leach; Alice and Edie came

T 18 Had tea and supper with Aunties; Marian met me there and came on to stay here

F 19 Called on Mrs Pearce; a zeppelin raid

S 20 Went to bank in the morning; Lillie and I went to Bampfylde after tea

S 21 Lillie and I went to service in the morning

M 22 I took Lillie home after breakfast and went on to see Jim; did some shopping; called to see Miss Leach

T 23 Heavy hail storms

W24 Went to RSPCA meeting at Sutton; Mrs Allsopp came to tea; met Captain Fairholme; called to see Kit and Miss Leach

T 25 Mary Cooper left after 6 years’ service; Mrs Pearce came

F 26 Called at Nellie’s

S 27 Cold, stayed in all day

S 28 Went to church twice and to Kit’s to tea

M 29 Mrs Hay and Bessie came to tea

T 30 Had tea with Mrs Mann; three thousand soldiers billeted in the neighbourhood

W 31 Had supper with Agnes; a raid at night; wrote to Will

November

T 1 Went to Sutton shopping; had tea with Kit

F 2 Had tea with Aunties; George came at night; took Aunties a bunch of roses from the garden

S 3 Went to my darlings’ grace with flowers; had tea with Lillie; Marian in bed with a cold

S 4 Went to service

M 5 Met Jim in town for tea – also Trot and Theo, we went to Stewarts; returned home with them for the night

T 6 Returned home after tea, bringing Theo with me to stay

W 7 Nellie came in the afternoon; got a cold and feeling very poorly

T 8 Theo and I went to Bampfylde to tea; bought £200 bonds in war loan

F 9 Took Theo and Hebe to see ‘Tale of Two Cities’ at the picture palace and to tea in Croydon; bought a bookcase out of some of Uncle’s legacy; went to the bank

S 10 I took Theo over to Fanny Milum to dinner and tea; Ada Morley came into our service; have bad cold on the chest

S 11 Bad cold, in all day

M 12 Ditto; Theo returned home; Alice came to stay

T 13 Got up to clean curtains; Alice out all day; bad cough

W 14 Alice out till evening; did not go out

T 15 Violet came to tea and supper

F 16 Alice and I went to the Aunties to tea

S 17

S 18 We went to service in the morning; Mary called

M 19 Went up to see Kit and Arthur; Alice left early

T 20 Trot’s birthday; I went with Esther to buy a jacket and took her to the picture palace and tea

W 21 Went to Nellie’s for supper

T 22 Went to the bank in the morning; Percy Hay came to say goodbye before going up to the Front

F 23 Went to my grace – marble scroll fitted; had tea with Lillie and May

S 24 Charlie Brown came to wish me goodbye; George and Nellie came in; took up £300 in new war loan

S 25 Went to service; Agnes called; George and Nellie came to supper; snow showers

M 26 Went to Aunties to tea and supper; met Arthur there, up to settle some business for them

T 27 Called to see Mr Moffatt, Mrs Hay and Mrs Maitland

W 28 Spring-like; George called

T 29 Trot came over for the day

F 30 Hebe and I went to her sister’s to tea and to the Bible Society meeting in the evening

December

S 1 Kit and Arthur came to tea

S 2 Went to service – bitterly cold

M 3 I went to our grave and planted it with narcissi and forget-me-nots; had tea with Lillie and Marian

T 4 Called to see Mrs Brown; Mr Moffatt and Miss Crofts came to tea; called on Mrs Hay

W 5 Anniversary of dear Uncle’s Home going; Mrs Allibert came to tea and to talk over RSPCA business; wrote to Will; Agnes came to supper

T 6 Miss Leach came to tea; raid last night; Bessie called

F 7 Went to Kit’s to tea and supper; Jim engaged to Ada Young; called on Mrs Allan

S 8 Went to bank and to Bampfylde after supper

S 9 Went to service – very cold and wet

M 10 Had tea with Violet; saw damage done by raid on Clapham

T 11 Fog; went to Kit’s after tea

W 12 A year since my precious Father went Home; I long to be with them! Went to the grave and took flowers; sat with Lillie for a time and went, with Nellie, to a sale of work at the church

T 13 Washed Danny; made pastry

F 14 Had tea with Aunties; sweep in the kitchen

S 15 Hebe went away for the weekend; Mabel came to stay

S 16 Mabel and I went to church; a year since my darling Father’s funeral

M 17 Called to see Kit, Miss Crofts and, at night, Bampfylde; Mabel left and Hebe returned; I accepted secretary of the RSPCA; Miss Crofts consented to help

T 18 Went to Trot’s and to see Ethel; air raid at night prevented my return

W 19 Left Trot early, said goodbye to Jim; thick fog

T 20 Still fog; George called; sent in income tax claim

F 21 Went to Sutton shopping

S 22 Went to my darlings’ grave and took Xmas wreath – two years since my precious sister went Home; had tea with Lillie and May – Mrs Chappell there; went to see Mrs Hay

S 23 Went to service; had wounded soldier in to tea and supper – Private Edwards; went to Kit’s after supper

M 24 Went to Harrods with George, Nellie and Edie after lunch; London very quiet and empty

T 25 Went to service alone; Agnes came for the day; Ada went out for half a day; had four old women in to tea

W 26 George called; went to Aunties for the day to keep Xmas with them

T 27 Went to Bampfylde and to see MRs Hay

F 28

S 29 Mr Lindsay called; Mrs Hay and Bessie came to tea; went to see Kit after supper

S 30 Went to service; very dull and cold

M 31 Had tea with Mrs Cheshire


1918

January

T 1 Very cold

W 2 Hebe and I went to town shopping

T 3 Went to the bank in the morning; had Private Edwards, a wounded soldier, to supper; cold intense and feeling very poorly

F 4 Too unwell to go out; George came

S 5 Went to Bampfylde after tea

S 6 Intercession day; went to service; went to United service at Wallington parish church in the afternoon – a crowded, solemn service – the King’s message read at both

M 7 Alice came to stay; still feeling very unwell; did not go out

T 8 Went round with Alice to see all Aunties house property and collect rents; bitterly cold

W 9 Alice and I went to tea with Lillie and Marian

T 10 Kit and Arthur came to supper; had burst in water tank over bathroom, water pouring through the ceiling and into the hall

F 11 Alice and I spent the day in town shopping; I took Kit to see a specialist, Sir Fred Taylor; we all had lunch at Lyons

S 12 Alice left after breakfast; I had tea with Kit and Arthur; George called

S 13 Went to service

M 14 Snow; called to see Nellie and Mrs Pearce

T 15 Private Stanley Price, a wounded soldier, came down for the day

W 16 Had tea with Aunties; went to the bank for them

T 17 George came; called to see Mrs Hay

F 18 Warmer; planted last of bulbs; had tea with Miss Maitland; called to see Kit; Dot’s birthday – sent her a silk scarf

S 19 Went to Bampfylde after tea; Mrs Brown called

S 20 Went to service

M 21 Went to Sutton; called to see Mrs Allibert; a Spring day

T 22 Fannie and Edie came to tea

W 23 Trot came over for the day; we went up to Bampfylde after supper; Trot stayed the night

T 24 I went to Ethel’s to dinner and Trot’s to tea; took over Will’s present

F 25 Snowing; went up to see Kit; found her ill in bed with flu

S 26 Miss Maitland came to tea; George called

S 27 Went to service

M 28 Went to cemetery, took first snowdrops; sent baby Joan a wool bonnet; had tea with Lillie and Marian; got home as first rocket went up; bad raids over London, first at 8pm and another at 12.30am

T 29 Lovely day; George called; went to Bampfylde after supper; raid at night

W 30 Went up to Violet to tea; helped her get her room straight

T 31 Called on Mrs Allibert with Miss Crofts to arrange about RSPCA work; went up to see Kit and found her better

February

F 1 Went to Fanny Milum’s to dinner and tea, met Dot there; she saw me off from Marble Arch

S 2 Aunt Janie’s birthday; Lillie, May and I went over to tea with them; came back via Tulse Hill because of expected strike; gave Auntie bread and milk bowl, cake and flowers; we all took rations; income tax recovered £29/3/6d

S 3 Went to service and stayed for Communion; Agnes came at night

M 4 Alice came to stay; Fannie called

T 5 Went to town on RSPCA business and to buy Jim’s wedding present; coffee set with tray and cups; Alice and I went up together; called to see Miss Maitland

W 6 Called at Bampfylde; Alice went to see the girls; Agnes came

T 7 Inspector Keeler called; Esther came over with birthday presents from them all

F 8 Violet came to tea and supper; Pearce planted my white broom; Alice and I went to Croydon in the morning

S 9 Jim was married at Old Southgate church; I went over early – a warm, Spring day; all went off happily; Alice left after breakfast

S 10 Went to service

M 11 Miss Crofts came to tea and to begin work of RSPCA; George came

T 12 Called to see Mrs Mann

W 13 Called to see Miss Leach

T 14 George came in; Miss Dunn called – gave her a present of clothes

F 15 Had tea with the Aunties

S 16 Went to Fanny for the weekend, she and Bentley alone; raid at night

S 17 Fanny and I went to Wesleyan church in both the morning and evening; raid at night from 10pm till 12.45am

M 18 Called to see Nellie and Miss Crofts

W 20 Kit came to tea

T 21 Miss Crofts and I attended the RSPCA committee at Sutton and were elected co-secretaries of Wallington auxiliary; fifteen people present; Mrs Hay and Bessie called

F 22 Called on Mrs Ralph on RSPCA work; sent letter to Wallington and Carshalton Herald

S 23 Had tea with Kit and Arthur

S 24 Went to service in the morning and evening; Hebe stayed in with a cold

M 25 Went to Bampfylde after tea

T 26 Had tea with Aunties; met Mr Lyle there; Pearce planted new rose trees in the small beds on the lawn

W 27 Went to see Kit; called on Miss Adams

T 28 Gave lethal chamber to Wallington auxiliary – cost 35/-; Hebe left and went into rooms in Montague Gardens; George called

March

F 1 Violet came down for the day

S 2 Bitter winds; Fanny came

S 3 We went to service in the morning; bitterly cold

M 4 Fanny and I had tea with Kitty

T 5 Fanny and I went over to Trot’s for the day; Fanny went home from there; Gladys broke of her engagement to Hugh

W 6 Kitty and I went to sale of work at Epsom church; called to see Mrs Hay; Agnes came in

T 7 Raid in the night

F 8

S 9 Called on Mrs Hay; Kit, Arthur and Dorothy came to supper; Danny poorly

S 10 Went to service; Arnold and Beattie came to tea and supper

M 11 Mrs Mann came to tea; Nellie called as did Agnes; Mr Lawton came to see Danny – an attack of rheumatism

T 12 Nellie, Mrs Hay and Bessie called as did Hebe; Danny better; I went to Kit’s

W 13 Had tea with Aunties – Aunt Lissie down for the first time since rheumatic attack; Agnes came to supper; Arthur called; Danny better

T 14 Went to Sidcup with Fannie to consult Dr Crombie; had tea with the Olivers; George came up at night

S 16 Went to my grave and took my first violets and some daffodils; had tea with Lillie and Marian; called at Bampfylde – Nellie ill with flu; went to consult Dr Cressy – both agree for an operation; called to see Mrs Pearce; Arthur came up at night

S 17 Went to service; Kit and Agnes came in the evening

M 18 Trot came for the day; George called; Arthur came at night

T 19 Dot came and stayed the night; called to see Hebe

W 20 Dot left after lunch; Violet came and stayed the night; Agnes called

T 21 Violet left after tea; George called; Violet and I went over to Aunties in the morning to tell them about the operation; a Spring day; Fannie and Edie came at night; Charlie Brown killed at the Front

F 22 Sent Will a birthday present; went to Woodcote nursing home for an operation; Trot took me and she, Nellie and Lillie came to tea; Kitty went to home

S 23 Had an operation – very ill

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W 27

T 28

F 29

S 30 Dr Crombie passed Home after an operation

S 31

April

M 1

T 2

W 3

T 4

F 5 Trot and Alice came to fetch me home; Alice stayed on

S 6 In bed

S 7 In bed

M 8 Got up to tea

T 9 Ditto

W 10 Got down to dinner, very weak

T 11 Very poorly

F 12 Sent for Dr Cressy; Kitty came to tea; Nurse Roberts and Nurse Garrett came to see me; also Hebe; glorious Spring day

S 13 Nurse Roberts called; wrote letter for her to the Red Cross

S 14 Very cold; Agnes called; did not go out

M 15 Pouring rain and very cold; Dr Cressy called; we put up new curtains in the bedrooms; I phoned Jim goodbye, too weak to go over and see him

T 16 Snow, cold and wet; Hebe called

W 17 Kitty and I came to Curlews Nest, Westgate by the 3.25pm train from Victoria, arriving 5.14pm; Trot, Alice and Dorothy saw us off; cold and wet

T 18 Bitterly cold, some rain; we did shopping in the morning; went by the sea after tea; was too weak to walk far and strong wind from the east

F 19 Kitty and I walked into Margate to food control officers; had lunch at Bobby’s and took the train back in time for tea; bitter winds, snow and hail; came in very exhausted; Jim returned to France

S 20 Finer day; out in morning and afternoon; sunset on the sea; heard of Dr Crombie’s death

S 21 We went to church in the morning; by the sea after tea and Congregational church at night; weather improved

M 22 A lovely day; went by the sea in the morning; Trot came down in the afternoon

T 23 We all went for a stroll in the morning; Kitty returned home in the afternoon

W 24 A dull morning but lovely later; Trot and I walked to Epple Bay after tea

T 25 We went to Margate in the morning and sat by the sea after tea; fine, but very cold; sirens at night; did not sit up

F 26 Sea mist early; we went for a stroll on the cliff; a glorious evening sunset over the sea; we walked to Epple Bay inland and back by the cliff; sirens at 11pm, men shouting to everyone to go to their dugouts; we got up and dressed and sat downstairs for an hour; distant guns; Jim killed in action near Mont Kemmel

S 27 Went by the sea in the morning and in the evening; cold

M 28 Very cold, rain later; I went to Congregational church in the morning; a lot of soldiers present; we stayed in the rest of the day

M 29 Bitterly cold, strong winds; Trot not well and I did the shopping – we both went for a short walk in the evening

T 30 Ditto; after dinner, we took the bus to Ramsgate and got out at Margate, home at 6pm; Grey and cold; saw damage done at Margate by zeppelins and dugouts along the Parade, etc

May

W 1 Returned from Westgate; Trot saw me off and Alice met me at Victoria at 4.40pm; came home feeling very poorly; received news immediately on arrival that our Jim had been killed on the 26th; Agnes called

T 2 Kit and Hebe called in the morning; Nellie ill with mumps; Fannie and Edie just recovered

F 3 Alice returned home; Arthur came at night

S 4 Hebe and Miss Leach, Agnes, Mrs Hay and Bessie called; I had tea with the Aunties; feeling very weak

S 5 Too weak to go out; yellow fog and rain

M 5 Cousin Fred came to tea; Agnes called

T 7 Hebe called; too poorly to go out

W 8 Went to Trot’s for the day; Flo came to tea; a glorious summer day

T 9 Called to see Mrs Brown, whose Charlie has been killed; Mrs Hay and Bessie called; made pastry; George called, first time we have met for five weeks because they have had mumps

F 10 Mrs Allibert and Miss Jordan called

S 11 Edie called; very poorly still

S 12 Went to church; Mrs Hay, Bessie and Mary called

M 13 Had tea with Miss Crofts and Mr Moffatt

T 14 Went to the bank in the morning

W 15 Went over to Trot for the day; Edie came in the evening; Had a cable from Will – he had just heard about the operation

T 16 Very hot; went to Croydon shopping; Violet came to tea and supper; George and Nellie went to Westgate

F 17 Had tea with Aunties; took Mrs Pearce over to have tea with Esther; Arthur came at night; Mrs Hay called

S 18 Nurse Roberts called; I made the pastry; Lillie and Marian came to stay the weekend; Agnes called

S 19 I went to service; we spent the evening in the garden – gorgeous weather; big raid at night

M 20 A beautiful day; we did not go out, except in the garden

T 21 Marian poorly, kept her in bed all day; I went to Camberwell for her to take the office keys; went on to trot’s to tea; we drove up to Ethel’s and she returned with us to Bay Tree Cottage for tea; went all the way there and back by bus and tram

W 22 Intense heat continues; Marian is in bed all day; heavy storm at night

T 23 Much colder, storm again; George called; Marian in bed all day

F 24 Violet came to tea and supper; Marian in bed still; I called to see Bessie

S 25 Lillie and Marian left after tea; Marian better; Agnes called

S 26 Went to service; George came in after; colder

M 27 Went to Streatham shopping in the morning; Alice came to stay

T 28 I had tea with Aunties; Alice did her collecting

W 29 Alice and I spent the day in town; went to Grafton gallery to see Australia war pictures; had tea at Selfridges; went up and back on top of trams and bus

T 30 Miss Avis came to tea; Alice went to Croydon with her; George called

F 31 Alice left; Violet and I met in town and went to annual RSPCA meeting in Westminster central buildings

June

S 1 Very hot; made the pastry; I did the flowers at the church

S 2 Sent one guinea to the Wesleyan book fund in memory of Jim; went to service and stayed for Communion; James Gilchrist came to tea and supper; Lillie’s birthday

M 3 Had tea with Kit and Arthur; sent parcels to jumble sale at Mill Lane; my darling parents’ wedding day

T 4 I went to Trot’s to tea and supper – Bobbie at home; went to the tailor on the way; Mrs Brown called at night – gave her a parcel of clothes etc

W 5 Pearce went to Norwood to plant the grace with 15 white geraniums – 5/9d; washed Danny

T 6 George came in to tea

F 7 Mr Moffatt and Miss Crofts came to tea; I called on Mrs Hay and Hebe

S 8 I went to tea over at the Arnold’s; met Mr Horace Moffin there – a wounded Australian

S 9 Went to service in the morning; Arthur came to tea and dinner

M 10 Colder; went to Bampfylde after supper; found all well and home again

T 11 Nellie came to tea; I called to see Mrs Pearce; Ethel has a little daughter

W 12 Went over to Aunties to dinner and tea; Ada had Nellie in to tea

T 13 Picked 10lbs gooseberries from the garden for bottling and made jam – 14lbs (with rhubarb)

F 14 Rain; Danny poorly with rheumatism – stayed in with him all day

S 15 Agnes called; Danny better but still poorly; sent Kit ‘Ideal Life’ and Willie West a fountain pen

S 16 Kit’s birthday; went to service, a chaplain from the Front preached; Nurse Roberts came to see me; Agnes came to supper

M 17 Very cold; went to Bampfylde after supper; called to see Mrs Pearce

T 18 Violet’s birthday; I went to Ridgmount to stay; left home at 3.16pm, Euston 5.3pm, changed at Bletchley and arrived at 7.30pm; Fannie and Mrs Clarke here; Les in France; Dot very poorly

W 19 Dot in bed, helped nurse her; Rev MacFadden and a girlfriend came to tea

T 20 Ditto; she got up a bit in the evening; went out for half an hour in the rain

F 21 A lovely day – helped in the house and with errands

S 22 Ditto; colder; went some errands in the evening; Janet came to tea; gave Dot £1

S 23 Animal Sunday; Fannie and I went to service; Ref Ferguson called twice; Fannie and I went out with Joan after tea – too cold to stay out; Dot rather better

M 24 I left Ridgmount by the 12.30pm train and had a two hour wait at Bletchley; arrived home 5.30pm and found all right; Mrs Hay and Bessie called

T 25 Sent rent; Agnes called and Miss Brown

W 26 Went to Bromley to tea with Miss Avis; Alice there; called to see Aunties on the way back

T 27

F 28 Trot and Theo came over for the day; I went to Bampfylde after supper

S 29 Had tea with Aunties – Aunt Janie in bed with influenza; a lovely day

S 30 Went to church in the morning

July

M 1 Alice came in the afternoon and stayed the night; after supper, we went up to Kitty’s

T 2 Sent a bunch of roses to Mrs Hay; Alice and I left Sutton by the 2pm train and arrived at Ryde at 6pm; very hot, but weather perfect; am staying at ‘Grenfell’ for a fortnight; left Mr and Mrs Pearce in charge of the house; Ada went for her summer holiday

W 3 Jim’s birthday; went for a stroll in the morning up a lane with Mrs Giles; Miss Minty came to tea; Mrs Giles took me for a long walk in the evening

T 4 Not feeling well enough to go out; sat about in the garden and helped Alice pick fruit for jam in the evening

F 5 We all went to the Baptist chapel in the morning; stayed at home in the evening; very hot

M 8 Lovely weather continues; walked down to the sea in the morning and sat on the Front; took Mrs Giles for a walk up the lane after tea

T 9 Cooler with showers; I went to the shops and sea in the morning; after tea, Mrs Giles, Alice and I went as far as the sea and sat there for an hour; lovely blue sea and sky; low tide; heavy rains at night; gave Mrs Giles a breakfast cup and saucer

W 10 Alice’s birthday; gave her a china jam jar; went with her to help at communal kitchen in the morning; Alice and I went for a long walk after tea and up Lover’s Walk to Quarr Abbey and monastery; went over Binstead church on the way; lovely country and a perfect evening

T 11 Went to the shops with Alice and helped pick fruit for jam; in the evening, we all went to a lecture at the town hall on ‘Living Christians, their peace’.  Gales still blowing with heavy rains; cold

F 12 High winds continue; Alice and I went to do the shopping and down to the sea for a few minutes in the morning; did not go out again; Eddy came home for a fortnight’s leave

S 13 We had an early dinner; Mrs Giles, Alice and I went by train to Sandown and walked about and sat on the sea front; had our tea at Gray’s in town and got home about 8pm; lovely blue sea and sky, saw a lot of transports camouflaged

S 14 Alice and I went to church in the morning and Eddy and I at night; fine rain most of the day

M 15 My precious sister’s birthday; Alice and I went to sea in the morning, as far as the ornamental lake; did not go out again; warm and showery

T 16 Left Ryde at 2.15pm and arrived home just before 6pm; Alice came back with me as far as Portsmouth and saw me into the train; found all right at home; Ada returned from her holiday at night; heat intense

W 17 Heavy thunderstorm in the afternoon; picked 2lbs cherries and made them into jam with ½ lb raspberries

T 18 Took ration books to all tradespeople to be signed; George came in to tea on his way home from town

F 19 I went over to Trot’s to tea; met Mr Batty at Carshalton station

S 20 Went to Norwood and took a bunch of my best roses for my precious sister’s birthday; very wet; had tea with Lillie and Marian at their new home in Kestrel Avenue

S 21 Went to service in the morning; lovely day, sat in the garden and conservatory all evening

M 22 Picked 8¾ lbs fruit and made into jam; Inspector called and also Mrs Pearce; Alice came to stay

T 23 Sent Fanny Milum a table centre I have worked; I had tea with Violet; Alice called for me on the way home

W 24 Alice and I went to Croydon in the morning; I went to the bank

T 25 Alice went to Lillie’s; Violet went to Ewhurst

F 26 Uncle’s birthday and Arthur’s; Alice and I went to Aunties to tea; Agnes came to supper; very wet

S 27 Alice left in the morning; called at Nellie’s and Miss Crofts after tea

S 28 Went to service n the morning; James Gilchrist came to tea and supper

M 29 Very hot; did not go out

T 30 Took up £200 in new war bonds; called at Bampfylde; Trot, Ethel and family sent to Seaview, Isle of Wight

W 31 Had tea with Mrs Mann; Kit and I went to organ recital in Croydon at night

August

T 1 Went to town and back by tram, to consult the oculist; had dinner at Evans, went to see an exhibition of famous war models in aid of wounded soldiers; went to Bampfylde; bought pianola from George for fifteen guineas

F 2 Showers; George, Nellie and Edie went to Westgate; Kit to Swanwick

S 3 Pianola arrived; a very wet day

S 4 Intercession Sunday; special form of service; Mr Moffatt came in after service; a glorious day

M 5 I met Lillie in town and we went to Royal Academy together; had tea at Victoria afterwards

T 6 Called to see Agnes; Fannie called

W 7 Went over to Aunties to tea

T 8

F 9 Inspector Keeler called; went to Miss Crofts to tea

S 10 Went over to Acton to see Parton, who is home wounded, and had tea with him and Fannie; came home by bus

S 11 Went to service and Communion; Mr Moffatt, Miss Crofts and Miss S Crofts came to tea; Miss Hunter came to supper; Mary and Mrs Pearce called

M 12 Very hot; I went to Beckenham in the morning and fetched Aunt Janie over for a visit; Fannie Testar came to tea

T 13 Called to see Miss Crofts and to welcome Percy Hay home from the Front; went to Dr Cressy to have my ears syringed

W 14 Went to Croydon in the morning to get a present for Aunt Lissie; took Aunt Janie round the garden; went to see Kit after supper, with Danny; gorgeous sunset

T 15 Glorious weather continues; Agnes called; made the pastry and the cakes

F 16 Percy, Mrs Hay, Bessie and Lawrence came in to tea

S 17 Aunt Lissie’s 84th birthday; Lillie, Marian and I went over to tea with her; she was wonderfully well and very happy; Agnes came to tea with Auntie

S 18 Went to service; sang to Auntie after tea

M 19 Lillie came over for the day; I had cab for her to Carshalton and saw her off; called at Bampfylde

T 20 Marjory came to tea; made 9lbs blackberry and apple jam; very hot

W 21 Intensely hot; Hebe called; Auntie better; called to see Agnes and Marjory

T 22 Heat intense; did the cooking; Miss Crofts called

F 23 George and Nellie came; Percy came with Bessie to wish me goodbye before returning to France; Marjory called

S 24 Marian came to tea and supper; I went to see Mrs Hay and Bessie and took them roses – Percy left for the Front; Kit and Arthur came at night

S 25 James came down in the morning to say goodbye before leaving for pre camp in Shropshire; met me on the way to church and I came home with him; walked with him to the tram after dinner; turned wet and chilly in the evening

M 26 I took Aunt Janie home after a fortnight’s visit; have tea with them both at Beckenham;

T 27 Mrs Hay and Bessie came to tea; Mr Moffatt called; colder and wet

W 28 Went over to spend the day with Trot; Ethel’s children came up and I saw Virginia for the first time

T 29 George came to tea and cheered me up; did the cooking; called to see Miss Leach and Hebe; went to Mr Forsdyke’s about some carthorses with rough boys in charge – wrote to the County Council

F 30 Eva and Mabel came to dinner and tea; I called to see Edith Crofts; went to Bampfylde after supper

S 31 Went to see Kit and Arthur after tea; Agnes called

September

S 1 Went to service; colder; Agnes came to supper

M 2 Went to bank and to shop in Croydon; had tea with Kitty; Edith Crofts came up to do RSPCA business; Inspector Keeler called to report

T 3 Edie came to tea; gave Mr and Mrs Pearce £5 to go for ten days to Eastbourne

W 4 Went to Ethel’s for the day; Theo was there; called at Bay Tree Cottage for an hour on the way home

T 5 Spent the morning on RSPCA work; thunderstorm; called to see Mrs Hay

F 6 Did RSPCA work in the evening; lovely sunset across the fields

S 7 RSPCA collecting work; called to see Edith Crofts

S 8 Went to service; Mr and Mrs Pearce went to Eastbourne for ten days; colder and showery

M 9 Grace’s wedding day – nine years ago; had tea with Aunties; called on Mr Riley for RSPCA

T 10 George came; I called on Miss Warlow to arrange for her to collect

W 11 Did RSPCA work all morning; Gladys and Theo came for the day; Miss Warlow called; Mr Moffatt came to plant some shrubs; I called at Bampfylde at night

T 12 Collecting all morning

F 13 Collecting in the evening

S 14 Darling Mother’s birthday; I made a lovely wreath of roses, etc from my garden and laid it on her grave; had tea with Lillie and Marian; very wet, but milder

S 15 Seventeen years since my precious Mother went Home; went to service; much warmer

M 16 Collecting in the morning; Alice came to stay

T 17 Collecting; had tea with Mrs Hay and Bessie; called to see Edith Crofts; Alice out all day

W 18 Alice out all day; washed Danny; collecting all the afternoon; called on Miss Jordan; Hebe and Mrs Warlow called; lovely warm weather

T 19 Edith and I went to committee of wardens of the RSPCA, Sutton, in the morning; Alice and I at home together the rest of the day

F 20 Alice and I went to town by tram to see about my uniform for canteen; both had tea with Aunties; Agnes came at night

S 21 Collecting in the morning, Alice with me; she left me after dinner; very cold; went to Bampfylde after tea

S 22 Very poorly with a bad cold; in bed half the day; had a fire; wrote to Will

M 23 In bed all day; Theo went to boarding school at Southwood Hall, Highgate

T 24 Got up to dinner; Trot came over for the day; much colder

W 25 Went over to Bay Tree Cottage directly after dinner to say goodbye to Bobbie, home on embarkation leave; still feeling very poorly

T 26 Came to Leicester by the 4.05 train from St Pancras, arrived 6.22; Laurie met me; cough still bad

F 27 Laurie and I went for a long country walk in the morning; after tea; we went to a picture palace and saw ‘From No Man’s Land to Blighty’; Fred read us Kipling’s poems in the evening; cold

S 28 Laurie and I went to town shopping in the morning and to market; a friend came to play bridge at night (Mr Moore); bitter winds

S 29 We all went to St James’ church in the morning; rain later in the day; Ernest came to supper, he played the violin and I accompanied him on the piano

M 30 Wet and cold most of the day; did not go out in the morning; after tea, Laurie and I went down town shopping; Fred read us Kipling at night

October

T 1 A bright morning; went for a walk to meet Laurie as far as the park gates

W 2 Laurie and I went to Mrs Willoughby’s to tea; in the evening, we went to the Palace music hall and heard Bramsley Williams and  R A Tramp making rag pictures; very good; Fred fetched us home; Laurie and I went down town in the morning to do some shopping. 

T 3 We went for a walk in the morning.  After tea, Laurie and I walked to Knight’s church, a lovely evening; Mrs Moore came in; Ethel’s birthday

F 4 Laurie and I went down town in the morning; after eta, we went for a country walk; Aunt Miriam’s birthday; Bobbie went to France

S 5 My precious father’s birthday; very cold and wet; I left Leicester by the 4.25pm train for Coventry, arriving 5.45; Fred saw me off and Hetty met me; Hetty alone, Oliver gone to Italy

S 6 Hetty and I went to St Michael’s Cathedral in the morning; Harry and Emma came to tea and supper; cold, strong gale blowing

M 7 Gladys’ birthday, thirty-one; hurricane in the morning; Hetty and I went for a walk across the common, went down town in the afternoon; after tea, we went up to see Bert and Mabel

T 8 Lovely morning, but a cold wind; we went down parts of the old town and into Trinity church; came back up Kennilworth Road and across the common; lovely autumn tints; we went up to Harry’s for tea

W 9 Gale with pouring rain all day, did not go out

T 10 Raining, milder; went for  a short stroll alone along Kennilworth Road; went down town with Hetty to do shopping; Mabel and Norman came to tea; young Harry, Doris and Miss Legender came to supper; we played cards in the evening

F 11 Mild and damp; left Coventry by the 2.32pm train, arriving at Euston at 4.45pm; home at 6.30pm; found all right; great difficulty in travelling

S 12 George called; I called on Miss Warlow and Kitty; Agnes called

S 13 Went to service – harvest festival; Mrs Hay and Betty called

M 14 I started canteen work at Westminster Central hall from 2 – 6pm; Alice came to stay at night

T 15 Had tea with Aunties – Aunt Lissie in bed

W 16 Feeling very poorly; called to see Nellie; went collecting for RSPCA; Alice out all day

T 17 Alice and I went to Sutton in the morning

F 18 Got a bad cold; Alice left early

S 19 Stayed in bed half the day, cold still bad; Dorothy called; got up winter curtains

S 20 In all day with a cold; Arthur came in the morning; very wet and dull; wrote Will’s Xmas letter

M 21 Stayed in bed to breakfast; went to Westminster canteen 2pm – 6pm

T 22 Cough very bad, stayed in all day; Miss Warlow came to pay in RSPCA money – £6/8/6d; Edie and Mr Moffatt called; Inspector came to report

W 23 In bed all day, feeling very ill

T 24 In bed – got up in the evening; sent for Dr Cressy – had flu; Bobbie missing, did not get wire until November 3rd

W 25 Got up to dinner, another very bad night with cough; Edie called

S 26 In bed part of the day; Dr Cressy called; Violet came to stay; Agnes called

S 27 We went for a short walk in the morning as I was still too unwell to go to church; George called

M 28 Violet, Danny and I went out in the morning; we went up to see Kit after tea; lovely autumn day; Hebe called

T 29 Violet and I went collecting for the RSPCA in the morning; she went home after tea

W 30 Made pastry, etc; Dr Cressy called; Violet came back at night

T 31 Violet and I went out collecting in the morning; Agnes called

November

F 1 Violet and I went collecting both in the morning and in the afternoon; Edith Crofts called; lovely day

S 2 Violet left in the afternoon; I went to Aunties to tea – Aunt Lissie still in bed

S 3 Pouring wet day, could not go out; alone all day – in the evening, had news that our Bobbie has been ‘missing’ since 24th – wire came in the afternoon; Violet came back at night

M 4 Went to canteen, very wet; Violet spoke at a mothers’ meeting for Kitty

T 5 Went to Trot’s in the afternoon and stayed the night

W 6 Jim’s little daughter was born at 4.05pm – Annette Gladys; I left at 5pm for home

T 7 Violet and I went shopping in the morning; Mr Moffatt and Edith came to tea

F 8 Violet and I went out collecting in the morning; Nellie, Edie and Agnes called; Dr Cressy came

S 9 Violet left after dinner and I went to Norwood and planted my darlings’ grace with double daffodils (three dozen for 5/3d) and took flowers for Father’s birthday; went on to see the girls and took a parcel of groceries; Marian is in bed with flu, Lillie has had it

S 10 Went to service in the morning

M 11 Armistice signed at 11am, hostilities ceased on all fronts; went to canteen – London delirious with joy; canteen crowded, a very busy time – oh!  to get back at night!!; Called at the Hays on the way back

T 12 Miss Warlow called; very tired; stayed in all day; George came; Agnes came to supper; Ada went to the thanksgiving service

W 13 Went to the West End to shop in the morning, went into St Paul’s to pray for Bobbie and friends at the Front; went to Fanny Milum’s for tea and saw Dot and her babies and Parton; Agnes came in the evening and returned home with me; London gay with flags

T 14 George and Bessie called; frosty and very cold; called to see Rev Irwin

F 15 Had word that Aunt Lissie is very ill; went over at once for the day; Inspector called

S 16 Went over to Aunties all day to help nurse; called to see Edith on the way home; heard Bobbie is a prisoner of war; Auntie’s blessing when I left her tonight:  ‘The Lord bless thee abundantly with the blessings of all those who love thee.’

S 17 Went to service in the morning, a stranger preached – a beautiful service; also went to the United one in the afternoon; Mary called

M 18 Went to canteen; Hebe called

T 19 Went to help nurse Auntie; continues very ill

W 20 Trot’s birthday; went over to tea with her, all the children there; took her a cosy; awful fog, took me four hours to get home

T 21 I came over to Aunties’ in the afternoon to stay and help for a few days; both in bed

F 22 Mr Babister came to see Aunties; Aunt Lissie about the same, her mind wandering but very happy

S 23 Nursing Aunties, left after dinner and went to Lillie’s to tea – did her shopping for her; got home dead tired

S 24 Went to service; warmer; Mrs Pearce and Lissie called

M 25 Went to canteen; Inspector called to report; Bessie called

T 26 Very tired, did not go out; Edith came to settle up RSPCA accounts with me

W 27 Went to Aunties’ for day; brought nursing bed on the way for Esther; Violet came at night to stay

T 28 Edith and I went to Mr Allibert’s to pay in RSPCA money; Violet and I at home the rest of the day; very wet

F 29 Violet and I did the shopping in the morning; Violet gave an address on ‘Kindness to Animals’ at Beddington schools at 2.30pm; I offered two prizes for the best papers sent in; we had tea at Nellie’s; George called

S 30 We did the shopping together; Violet left after tea

December

S 1 Went to service and took Communion

M 2 Went to canteen; called to see Mrs Hay

T 3 Very tired, stayed in to breakfast; went over to see Aunties in the afternoon – about the same; Mr Lyle came to tea

W 4 Violet came in the morning; she gave her address on kindness to animals at Bute Road school – boys and girls – I offered prizes; we went to sale of work at our church and spent £1/4/-d; had postcard from Bobbie sent from Karlsruhe; called at Bampfylde and Agnes

T 5 Did shopping together

F 6 Violet and I did the shopping – and Danny!  Violet spoke at New Town school, Sutton; she went home after tea; called to see Bessie; sent muffler to Percy Hay in France; Kitty and Arthur came in to supper

S 7 A lovely day; cooking in the morning; did not go out; Alice came to stay

S 8 Alice and I went to service in the morning

M 9 Went to canteen – Violet came and helped; Alice went to Beckenham; Bobbie arrived at Dover

T 10 Nellie came to tea; Edie called

W 11 Took prizes to But Road school – had a chat with the master; had tea with  Aunties – Alice joined me there later; called to see Edith Crofts

T 12 Two years today since my darling Father went Home; prevented going to Norwood as intended; Alice had tea with the girls; Mr Moffatt called; sent a letter to coalition candidate re RSPCA

F 13 Took Alice to London for the day; had lunch in Regent Street and tea at Harrods; spent a long time at the stores

S 14 Called Mr Moffatt; did some shopping; went to record my first vote; Alice left early; called at Hebe’s; sent parcel of books to the Front; George came; called to see Mrs Pearce

S 15 Went to service; very wet and mild; Bessie called

M 16 Two years since my last darling was laid to rest; went to canteen

T 17 Went to Aunties; feeling very ill at night; Agnes called

W 18 Feeling very poorly – in bed all day

T 19 In bed all day

F 20 Feeling very poorly – got up to dinner; Mrs Bidencope, of Hobart, came to tea; Agnes called; had sweep in the kitchen

S 21 Cooking in the morning, shopping in the afternoon; Violet came at night to stay; still feeling very poorly

S 22 Three years since my darling sister went Home; such a sad day to me; we went to service

M 23 Violet and I met Bobbie and Theo in town and I took them all out to lunch; took them into Westminster Abbey; went to canteen

T 24 Went to my darlings’ grave and took a large holly cross

W 25 Violet and I went to church; George, Nellie and the girls called; Agnes called; Mrs Hay, Bessie and Lawrence came to tea and stayed part of the evening; a beautiful clear, frosty morning

T 26 I went over to Aunties early to keep their Xmas with them

F 27 Violet and I went over to Trot’s to tea

S 28 We spent a quiet day at home

S 29 We went to church; Violet left to take her class

M 30 Went to canteen

T 31 Violet and I went up to Kit’s after tea


Early Letters

LETTERS

to Adeline Smith

‘WHICH HAVE HELPED TO MAKE LIFE WORTH LIVING’

(According to a note written by Adeline in the pack of letters below)

LETTERS

Date unknown:

The Sidcup A B C

A is for Adeline, who thinks it no sin

To sham various ailments and call doctors in

C is for Crombie a Scotchman so fair

As you tell by his eyes, complexion and hair.

D is for David, a much nicer man

Tho’ not care for by A, as he knows she’s a sham.

F is for Felix who by A is adored

She calls him a surgeon, I call him a graud

G is for Grace, who believes she can play

An opinion not shared by the men of the day.

H is for Hapgood, the best of MDs

Every ill he can cure, every pain he can ease.

J is for John of Jermyn Street fame

Who can’t awe by his words tho’ he can by his name

L is for Literature in which A doth dabble

She calls her works ‘good’ but readers say ‘faddle’

V is for Violet, noble and grand

Well known to be fairest and best in the land.

So endeth the alphabet as you may see

Compiled and sent to you by W.V.

Dalreoch

Colmonell

Ayrshire

July 16th 1893

My dearest Adeline

Your last kind letter reached me in due time.  Thank you very much for the kind and loving words in it – words giving me a newer insight into your character and love.  Nothing, on my part, I hope will tend to stay the growth of love which has been to me a great blessing and privilege.  This love between us is sacred – a love which lifts me constantly out of my poor, weak self. 

Adeline, is but right that I should tell you of the influence you have on me.  After kind, sweet words so full of spiritual insight, have lifted me often to a higher contemplation of mind.  I hope you will not cease to address me out of the fullness of your heart and love, if there is anyone fitted to mould my character and elevate my intellect, it is you.

Remember that you are to me everything that your words are full of power to me.  I have never had a correspondence so elevating and intellectual as this correspondence between you and me.  I se eyou quote my favourite poet, Tennyson.  How beautiful, how noble he was!

You ask if the friend I spoke of in my last letter was the friend I spoke to you about when you were here – no, he is another.  The young fellow whose letter I read you, has gone over to the English church.  I am exceedingly sorry that he left our church.  But he got into the company of some curates who quite overpowered him. 

I may mention he tried everything he could to get me into the English Church, he even got the Rev Erskine Hill of St George’s Episcopal church, Glasgow, to invite me to lunch one day.  I went and the Rev Mr hill expressed the hope that I would see my way to join the church, giving me, at the same time, a book of English church doctrine.

Of course, the very idea of any church being the church was quite enough for me.  I am a member in spirit and intellect of the broad church that is the church which refuses to be bound to a narrow sect and blind to progressive thought and science of the age.  Such men as the late Rev Frederick Maurice, Professor of Moral Philosophy at Cambridge University, Charles Kingsley, Archdeacon Farrar of the present day, are men whom I reverence and admire.  I may mention that the former, the Rev Dr Maurice was a cousin of one of my father’s aunts.

Let me express the unique hope that Grace will be successful at her coming examination and tell her that I have not the least doubt of her success.

I am so glad, my darling, that you are gaining strength daily and I hope you will benefit by the change.  There is nothing here of an unusual interest – save dullness.  Father and John are at artillery camp in Irvine.  I am reading, or rather finishing, the life of Lord Macaulay – his life does fire one’s ambition – he was a prominent figure in British politics and a great critic.  Anyone who deserved criticism got it severely.

Thank you very much, dearest, for your enquiry about my eyesight.  I have to be very careful as my eyes are not very strong.  I generally stop when I feel them beginning to be sore.

Now, love, I will stop as it is church time.

With my very best love to your dear self

Believe me

Your very loving

Alick


45 Studley Road

Clapham

January 25th 1898

Dearest, dearest Adeline

I cannot read our letter through even now without crying, I am so awfully sorry about it all.  How can you be such a brick to bear it all so patiently, if were only me………….

I do think your letter is the most beautiful one I have ever received from anyone, I shall never part with it as long as I live.  Aristidis was called ‘The Just’; King Alfred, ‘the Great’ was also designated Alfred, The Truth Teller, the Prince Consort, Albert the Good, but you are known among your friends as Adeline the Noble.

Nevertheless, write me another letter in any way like it and I’ll wait for you round some corner with a flat iron, however as some philosopher says ‘he who knows all things, forgives all things’ and so being myself a philosopher, I suppose I must forgive you this once.

Kent is still in existence and I shall be delighted to make any enquiries you like.  Last night I went to the Tabernacle to hear John McNeill; the place was literally packed, he convulsed the audience with laughter many times and was exceedingly good, but not up to George Clarke or Mr Haslam.  This afternoon, I have to go to Regent Street and shall call, alone, upon John – how delighted he will be, I will write again tonight and tell you all about it.

Florrie is much better and has been out twice.  I am very glad Mr and Mrs Smith are both well now, and that there is a probability of your being more comfortable now with servants.

I have heard nothing yet from Belgravia.  How would the Christian Herald or one of those papers do for your manuscript?

I am sorry about poor Mr Wright, I hope he will get strong again soon.

Mr Best is able to walk now, with help, but he can never do any business again. 

Do you remember Florrie Spencer at school?  I have a good deal to tell you about her when we meet. 

If at any time, when you are in town, you would like to see me for a few minutes, you have only to say the word for it is so easy to get anywhere from Clapham.  You know how more than delighted we should be if you could spend a day with us, but that I’ll leave to your discretion.

Primrose grows more lovely every day.  Herbert went to Sandown yesterday for the first time and is aching terribly from the effects of it. 

I think I will borrow Minnie’s story for you, it could not fail to do you good.

Now there is all the beautiful spring before you, all the animals waiting to welcome their champion back to health, for they can’t afford to let you be an invalid too long. 

I am waiting for your valued opinion on Dreyfus – and other lectures, and so you must put an end to the shamming as soon as possible.

So, with fondest love

Your ever loving friend

Violet.

I have not forgiven Mr Smith for saying he didn’t know whether he should like me as a son-in-law.  If he’s not careful, I may carry you off from your home now like the gallants of old.


Ealing Park

Ealing

February 3rd 1899

My darling Adeline

You see your Emily has not quite forgotten you.  I have been home once since I saw you, and I intended to go to see you then and thank you and dear Gracie for those pretty, very pretty cards you sent me but I had to do some shopping and the time went so quickly that it was too late after.

I had to go to see you but I am going home on Wednesday and I will call and see you for an hour or two before I go home and I shall be able to wish my Adeline many happy returns of her birthday.  I hope I shall see Gracie this time.

I hope your Papa and Mama are quite well and Gracie getting quite clever at school.

Goodbye till Wednesday with best love and lots of kisses for both my pets

from their ever loving

Emily.


45 Studley Road

Clapham SW

September 15th 1901

Darling Adeline

I have this moment received your telegram and we are all heartbroken, our sorrow is for you and yours, and mine also largely for myself – for our dear one, we cannot really grieve.  Heaven was home to her and it was selfish to wish to keep her here.  I cannot think of what you must all be feeling, it can only be described as an aching void and ever again to be filled here.  You have some consolation, however small it may appeal now, and that is that your life and love chiefly contributed to her happiness, never during a whole lifetime have you any one thing to regret.

If she is looking at you now, her only pain will be to see you suffering, which may seem unnecessary where she is well.  Know how soon you are all to be together again.

I should have written for dear Mrs Smith’s birthday, but I somehow felt I could not, but had arranged a little present and letter to arrive, not as a birthday gift, Monday evening. 

Mother is terribly upset, and so are we all.  Fondest love to Grace and Mr Smith.  We can only thank God for taking her for so much pain. 

I cannot write all I feel, you will understand how deeply we all sympathise and how I feel that I have lost a dearly loved friend and relation.

Do ask the doctor for an opiate and gain a little rest for intolerable agony, the worst any human being could suffer, and I selfishly beg you to try to live for my sake.

In deepest love and sympathy

Your ever devoted friend

Violet


Highden

Sidcup

December 5th 1901

Dear Miss Adeline

Very many thanks for your delightful little book.  I have read the daily portion at our breakfast table and can now express my full appreciation of its beauty and truth.  I also showed it to Mr Crawford and he has offered to present each member of the band with a copy; that will be nice.  So sorry Mother had not the pleasure of seeing it in full completion.

I have been loath to write you for some time, for we seemed in such a sorry plight about the board, but I am glad to say light has appeared and we are now busy preparing for work.  Miss Witt has accepted the secretary-ship and will work; we have also gone into the rules etc and are having a new issue.  Mrs Crawford gives the first lecture, on bees illustrated with slides.  The lads’ supper goes on and I hope to get Mr Greaves to speak.

Glad to tell you that Mrs Kendall continues to improve, though she is still very feeble and will, I am afraid, continue so. 

The Wesleyan church here had a most successful mission – Mr Greaves is most energetic and is much liked.

We are all well and enjoying these bright days but dreading the fogs.

With kindest regards

Yours sincerely

James Crombie.


37 High Street

Gateshead

November 18th 1902

My dear Aunt Adeline

I don’t think you are a bit like an aunt; we are on much better terms than ordinary aunts and nephews.  The very morning I received your letter I was meditating writing to one of you three at Carshalton, so my conscience was beginning to prick me.

Do you know, without meaning any flattery, your letters are the most interesting I have ever read; they are purely mental productions without any nasty newspaper facts.

I am glad to say we have heard from Paul again, for the first time for six weeks.  He has ‘chucked his job’ and is now working as a labourer, for a dollar a day and his keep; though he said that early in November he was going to his own land to work, with a team of horses which he has borrowed.  I rather envy him, his work is a pleasure to him, and his pleasures are doubly pleasures.  That mode of life I think is more calculated to produce character than any other, because his eye is necessarily ‘single’ and if to produce character is the aim of this life, he is undoubtedly on the right track in following his own bent.

I have lately read ‘The Adventures of Captain Kettle’ as a pastime, perhaps you have seen it; a little man with more vigour and force of character cannot be imagined, and such a man as he is could only be produced by a ‘knock about’ life.

In ‘Still Hours’,  Professor Rothe says ‘most people cannot think of piety apart from something peculiar’ and ‘do not realise that real piety is enjoying life by living on the fat of the land as God meant us to.’  Some good folks here, who look upon Paul as a bit wild, will be surprised perhaps, in the Day when Creeds are all past – knowledge and done away together, with the word hay and stubble, of material things, and character, the aim of all, remains.

Little mother is rather knocked up, for the first time in the new house;’ but she has been doing too much public work.  On Saturday, she read a paper on the ‘improvement of the Class Meeting’ before a convention of the class leaders of the circuit.  I have just started a junior class for lads, it will be a going concern shortly.

My study is simply delightful, better than any Father had; I don’t know whether it is a good thing for me or not but, as far as material comforts go, my ideal is reached.  I feel under a great responsibility and if I don’t turn out good sermons, woe is me!

Uncle Richard tells us of the very pleasant stay he has had with you.

With best love to Grandpa and Aunt Grace,

I remain your affectionate nephew,

Parton


Bampfylde

Croydon Road

Beddington

September  15th 1908

My dear Adeline

You are a very sweet darling to write me when you must have so many other letters to attend to, we are all very glad to know that the weather has improved and hope it will behave well, until you return at any rate.

Above all, it is so nice to hear you are feeling better, is this improvement owing to your having settled as to which of the sons it is to be, Eh!

Nell, I am glad to say, is better, much.  We were both round at Sunthorpe on Sunday to supper and found them both very jolly.

During the week, I played Grace a game of billiards and she whacked me – what do you think of that, the cheek of the rising generation.

Your father seems very fit and well and I hope he will keep right as the winter draws near so that he will have strength to stand the cold days.

We should very much like to be with you, dear old Scotland, and I shall hope to visit it again shortly, perhaps we may all go New Year.

Hope you will be home for the opening.

Now my dear goodbye you may have a quarter of a kiss if you are good.

My love, as ever

George.


47 Trouville Road

Clapham Park

July 26th 1909

My dearest Adeline

Outside a death, I have never heard of anything more dreadful.  I have been crying all the morning.  I am writing to Grace, of course, for her I think it is very nice.  I like Mr Williams immensely and Australia, especially with the Berrys, and other old friends will be like home, not a detestable place such as America.  But for you and Mr Smith, it is too dreadful.  The only thing is that what seems the most awful thing possible, when it really takes place, often turns out for the best.

I only hope for the future you will look upon me entirely as a brother and, in any that I possibly can take her place I will.  When you can, write and tell me more details, I suppose they will be married at Wallington.  How little Grace thought when she used, as a little school girl, to write to him what would eventually come of it.

I wish books comforted you, the ‘Heir of Redclyffe’ would console one more now than anything else.  I can’t tell you how truly grieved I am, but we must try to see the bright side and no doubt it is for her happiness.

How kind of you to send that programme to Mr Williams and so very kind of him to come, it just made all the difference having someone there I knew and it was almost like having you to walk away with him afterwards and he was so nice. 

Do try, for everyone’s sake, to let the sea air do you good and clear up somehow.  I don’t believe anyone ever had such awful sorrows as you have.  I am crying the whole time I am writing.

The Daily Mail has taken up the old horse traffic thoroughly and they always carry their things through.

Much love and sympathy

Violet


47 Trouville Road

Clapham Park

July 29th 1909

My dearest Adeline

I am afraid no words of mine can give you any comfort.  I have had a perpetual headache since your first letter and my eyes are still aching.  It kept Florrie awake one whole night.  We are both so awfully grieved for you.  I don’t think it will be nearly so bad for Mr Smith as for you.

If Fanny came to stay, and he had George and other friends constantly with him, it will take it him off but it is you.  Be out as much as possible in the air.  I think that, with air, both tend to raise ones spirits.  I am sure Mrs Smith would have liked the match, if not the residence, but all the same what a pity he ever came.

The only thing is that God works in such a wonderful and mysterious way that the most dreadful things often turn out the very best in the end.  Had we been comfortable in Jeffreys Road, we would never have had this flat which. is just what we wanted.  Certainly you will feel more than ever before that Sunthorpe is merely ‘the inn of a traveller on his way to Jerusalem’.  Don’t think about dying, you know how quickly time flies and this time two year we may be expecting her back.

Flossie Green, who was at Florrie’s wedding with her husband, has just lost him.  Their married life was quite unlike most persons, she said herself it was a nearly perfect as anything earthly could be.  You can imagine then what she is feeling and left very badly off.

Mr Cuthill and Vi are coming to tea today.  I shall be visiting again both to you and Grace.  Mind you are not silly and have her to yourself now, as he will have her afterwards.

Give Grace my fond love and say I don’t know if she wants me to chaperone her again, but I have fees and they must be paid.

A lion is a grand respectable animal but a kangaroo very contra.

May I have the largest slice of the cake.

Directly I came down from the platform at Caxton Hall, I was seized by reporters and made to give up my speech; directly it is printed I will send you a copy though I daresay you will have no heart for it.

Tell Grace she had better pay me to give her some ju jitsu lessons before she goes to where bushrangers abound or she may be carried off by starlight.

Very much love dearest

Your ever loving friend,

Violet

Do you remember poor Margot when Valerie married Paul?

© VCRT

(Edith) Adeline Smith’s husband – Fred Maitland

Fred MaitlandLittle is known about Fred Maitland before he married (Edith) Adeline Smith in 1920.  Apparently he had known Adeline for some years – and had admired her from afar – but how, and where, they met is unknown.

Fred’s first wife was Louisa and, according to the Census of that year, they were both living in Beckenham in 1911.  They had nine children: Lionel (1881), Violet (1883), Oswald (1884), Herbert (1886), Winifred (1890), Dorothy (1893), Cyril (1894), Norman (1896) and Alfreda (1899).

Fred was a merchant, dealing mainly – as far as has been established – with gloves, both the finished product and the materials with which they were made.  He died in South Croydon in 1930.


Scotland By Water

A trip taken by Fred Maitland

August 12th 1882

HOLIDAY 1882

Where shall I spend my holiday?  This had been a question, in full discussion, which occupied my mind for some time during the year 1882.  And I eventually arranged to go, with two other young men, to Scotland – and also to go by water. 

I was fortunate in knowing one of the traffic managers of the General Steam Navigation Company and he kindly arranged for our party to berth in the saloon cabin, which is the roomiest in connection with the vessel and, after settling other preliminaries, we waited patiently for the day.

The morning of August 12th began dull, but soon opened up with a fine day.  By 10 o’clock, I was on board the SS Virgo, to meet my friend Captain C.  By him, I was introduced to the captain of the Virgo and, afterwards, shown over the vessel.  I then accompanied him, as far as London Bridge, in his small boat, looking over one or two other steamers en route.

After a brief visit at home, and something to eat, I was back on board again by 12.00, where I met my companions.  We were soon clear of the landing and on our way down the river, passing Greenwich and Woolwich and on to Gravesend, where the river broadens very considerably.  The Essex coast now became conspicuous by its monotonous flatness. 

Unmistakable pangs of hunger, however, soon drew our attention away from the shore and we were considerably cheered by the sound of the dinner bell.  Our party of three decided to contract, that is, we each paid a lump sum for all our food during the journey, and took what came.  We were very glad afterwards we had done so; I expect the steward was ‘sorry, Sir’! 

We sat down, seventy in number, to a very magnificent dinner and I can vouch that ample justice was done all round.  In fact, this was the case throughout the journey, for about an hour after every meal, we began to get hungry again.

I, for one, felt quite satisfied, at the end of the journey, that the sea air agreed with me and think the steward must have thought so too, Sir!

During dinner, we had passed to the mouth of the Thames and we were up in time to see Southend and Sheerness, between which we rode into the open sea.  Our course after this continued along the coast, but at some distance from it, and the falling shadows of evening soon hid it from our view. 

Quite satisfied with our experience so far, we turned in to our berths but, probably on account of the novelty, did not sleep until the following day had commenced.  We arose next morning at 6.00 and had coffee, breakfast not being served up till 9am.

We were, at this time, crossing the Wash and out of sight of land.  Some little time before breakfast, we saw Flamborough Head, the commencement of the Yorkshire coast.  This, I was enabled to see well through the captain’s glasses, which he kindly lent me.  The cliffs were easily distinguishable, with their white streaks, caused by the mixture of chalk and marl, this being the only place on the coast, between Scotland and Essex where the chalk is distinguishable in the cliffs.  We passed the lighthouse.

The weather, which had been threatening all the early morning, now gave way to tears, which continued for some time – in fact, the remainder of the day was dull and cold. 

During breakfast, we passed Filey and Scarborough and were up in time to see Robin Hood’s Bay.  The next object of interest was Whitley Priory, the ruins of which stood out very plainly and we were able to have three different views of it.  Whitley and the pier followed. 

Some little distance beyond this point, a thickness set in near the coast so that we could not distinguish anything until opposite the Northumberland coast, where Newbiggin church came in view, with the Tynemouth priory looming up in the distance behind it.  The heaviness still continued for some time and a few heavy swells, now and again, caused the boat to roll a little, sufficient however, to send some below. 

We now passed, in succession, Craster, Dunstanburgh Castle and the Farne Islands, with their ugly, sunken rocks.  The weather now cleared up somewhat and objects on the land could be easily distinguished along the coast of Berwickshire.  The little fishing village at Eyemouth is very prettily situated, and looked picturesque from the boat.  We came next to St Abbs Head – with its lighthouse; this forms a point or promontory in the coastline and was the wildest and grandest object that, up to that time, we had seen.

In the foreground, high up on the rock, was the low-situated lighthouse and, in the rear, the white houses of the coastguard.  From this level, the rocks descended, in precipitous and broken magnificence, into the sea.  The shadings and colour of the velvety herbage, with which these rocks are covered, is of a brown heathery green making, in all, a wonderfully pretty picture in the fading light.  The coast now became more dim and soon faded into a dark outline.  We could, however, distinguish the Bass Rock looming out of the darkness as we passed it. 

At 11pm, we turned in and slept soundly until 6.00am the following morning.  We could hear many were making a move as we turned out and, after swallowing a cup of coffee, walked to Granton station where, after waiting about one and a quarter hours, we caught the 8.20am train to Edinburgh and found, on arrival, that the hotel (Darling’s, Regent) was close by the station, where we had soon engaged our room and made a substantial breakfast.

After writing home, we walked down Princes Street as far as Scott’s Monument – at the foot of which we met Mr Kershaw and found our way to the top, from which a very fine bird’s eye view of Edinburgh and the surroundings may be had.  On our way down, we called in at the museum which, among other interesting things, contains thirty-two photographs of the works of the monument. 

From here, we walked to the Royal Institution and saw through the scientific gallery.  Then on to Charlotte Square, in the centre of which stands the national memorial to Prince Albert.  St George’s church, an imitation of St Paul’s, on the west side of the square, was undergoing repairs. 

From here, we went to the Dean Bridge, over the Water of Leith – this afforded very pretty views and led on to the Dean cemetery, one of, if not the, finest one we had ever seen.  It contains some very fine tombs and monuments – one we noticed was a portion of some ancient pillar; another, a huge red granite pyramid, about 14ft high and 12ft square at the base – another very large monument raised to James Buchanan of Glasgow.  The lower portion was solid granite and, at the top, under a dome supported by six large stone pillars, was the bust.  I consider the Dean cemetery well worth a visit. 

From here, we retraced our steps and proceeded by Moray Place and Ainslie Place and George Street to Carlton Hill; after seeing all that was to be seen here, we walked down to our hotel in Waterloo Place, and recruited the inner man.  We next struck off to Edinburgh Castle which, however, we were too late to see thoroughly, the rooms being closed; we were, however, at the top and saw the big gun, called ‘Mons Meg’. 

Leaving the castle, we proceeded down the Castle Hill to St Giles church, the outside of which we examined narrowly.  We noted the ‘Heart of Midlothian’ in the pavements and John Knox’s burying place, in the rear of the church near to Charles 1st statue in front of the old Parliament House.  Continuing on down the high street, we passed the Iron church on our right and John Knox’s house on our left, a little below which is the old tollbooth or court house, and the present police station (into which we saw a woman ‘lugged’ by two policemen).

It has not been my lot before to pass down such a rough street.  I should think the very lowest of the low live here.  Your nostrils are constantly offended by noxious smells; your eyes by half-clad, dirty people and your ears by shouts and yells proceeding from some of the alleys, or doses which perforate the houses on either side, more particularly, the right.

We eventually emerged into the open space opposite Holyrood Palace, in front of which stands a very beautifully carved stone fountain, erected by Prince Albert.  After admiring this piece of workmanship for a few minutes, we passed Holyrood on our left and went straight for the Salisbury Crags. 

After nearly reaching the top, I re-joined my friends, who  had not made much progress, and together we ascended to the top of Arthur’s Seat.  It is a good climb and, although we refreshed ourselves at St Anthony’s Well, near St Anthony’s little, ruined chapel, we found it exhausting.  The view from the top, however, fully repaid us for the effort.   We could well see the Bass Rock far away.

In the descent, I met with a slight accident – my foot slipped upon a small stone which threw me upon the right knee, tore my trousers and also tore all the flesh from my knee.  I did not know I had hurt myself as much until I descended to the Loch and washed it, when I tied my handkerchief around it and limped home to my hotel.

After having had a wash and brush up, we went to Mr Shaw’s house (Mr Handley’s friend) and spent a very pleasant evening with them; we did not have supper till late and it was after 12.00am when we arrived at out hotel.

The next morning, we bent our steps to Holyrood Palace and went all through it.  The picture gallery is interesting and Lord Darnley’s room, but the most interesting is Mary, Queen of Scot’s rooms, where we saw the bloodstain upon the floor which is said to have flowed from Rizzio’s veins, and the secret stair, which the conspirators ascended, was also seen.

After leaving the palace, we went through the old chapel, which has evidently been a fine pile in its time.  There are a few interesting historical graves and, in the south east corner, is a vault which was the burying place of the kings of Scotland at one period.

After leaving here, we made time for dinner and then took the train to Hawthornden station.  The weather as not very promising, however, we walked on past the usual entrance to Hawthornden and entered at Lusswade, after going down a very long and pretty road called Rough Road.  So soon as we had got fairly in among the wood, it came on to rain and continued to, with more or less severity, until we arrived at Roslin.  Even in this weather, we quite enjoyed the walk through the Hawthornden and could quite understand its magnificence of a sunshiny day.

We kept close down to the paths – or as close as we could, for the path was one continuous ascent and descent and so had full benefit of the beautiful glimpses of scenery that are to be obtained here.  From one point, or little way from the path, we had a lovely view, very wild and very rugged.  We also came to a well which bubbled from the rocks overhead and saw, on the opposite side of the river, what is called Wallace’s cave, about half way up a very precipitous bank of rocks.

At one time, we were walking up the bed of the river, picking our way by the stones and rocks which offered their resistance to the course of the stream, causing the otherwise placid water to dance into foam, and then the path would wind up a steep ascent, until we viewed the stream from a height of 100ft, or so.  In some places, we noticed the banks were literally perforated, like a sponge, ‘where the water rats had worked their way, by many a hole, to the light of day.’

We continued our walk, feeling delighted at the beauty of our surroundings when, suddenly, we came to the old gateway of Roslin Castle and found it a pretty steep climb from the level of the river to the top of the castle.  We did not enter, but passed on to the cemetery which has, at one time, been entered from the castle, if not wither its walls.  Spending a few minutes in the cemetery, we wended our way up to Roslin chapel: at a farm adjoining, we got some good milk.

The outside view of Roslin chapel is very fine and we were assured, at the first glance, that our journey would not have been unsatisfactory if we had seen nothing else.  It is prettily situated and surrounded by historical scenes and associations.  On entering, however, the greatest magnificence awaits you in the form of stonework.  In fact, Roslin chapel is one magnificent piece of architecture.

The oldest portion of the building is that which is now used as a vestry, the floor of which is 30ft below the level of the chapel.  This portion was used as a chapel in the 14th century for the space of forty years, during which Roslin chapel was being built, and is decidedly plain and uninteresting. 

One of the most extraordinary features in connection with the Roslin chapel is the varied style of architecture.  There are, I think, twelve pillars, no two of which are exactly alike, and the most magnificent being the one known as the Apprentice’s pillar, in connection with which there is a legend to this effect, verified by the heads of the master sculptor, the apprentice and his mother, occupying a place not far from the roof, the apprentice’s face being represented with the gash over the eye.  The lady chapel, which is very fine, illustrates the general character of the whole.

The roof is divided into four sections and each section is differently carved and worked.  One style of ornaments adopted is that of the Scotch curly green; there were represented around some of the pillars.  The apprentice’s pillar is the most marvellous of all, however, being a series of pillars joined together and turned around, the whole is a handsome wreathing of flowers, reaching from the top to the bottom and almost defying you to imagine that it was put on any other way than by being done and laid on after the pillar was complete.

The newest portion of the building is that erected by the Earl of Roslin two years ago and forming the main entrance to the chapel immediately facing the altar.  In the centre of the porch, stands the font and, overhead, the organ is in place, so that the new portion forms the porch, baptistery and organ lofts.  It is finished, worked and been a fitting part in the general beauty of the whole.  We returned to Edinburgh from Roslin station, tired but well satisfied with our day’s outing.

The following morning (Wednesday), I went to the Waverley and bid goodbye to Macarce and Handley, who were going on to the Trossachs.  I had made all the arrangements to leave by the 11.30am train but, in consequence of getting my tickets by the wrong route, I was turned out of the train just at the last moment and had to wait until 1.40pm.  The meantime I spent by going down to Leith by train and walking about.  On my return to Edinburgh, I saw a detachment of the 3rd Dragoon Guards pass up Princes Street, a very fine sight.

I got away at last and went straight to Melrose, where I broke my journey to see the old Abbey.  I spent three hours there and quite enjoyed my roam over the old place.  A young lady (one of those in charge) was particularly clever in her descriptions and took much pains to show all the most interesting objects and points. 

The heart of Bruce lay buried beneath a tablet where the altar at one time stood.  And I noticed there, as at Roslin, a Scotch curly green was introduced into the carving.  The east and south windows are both very fine – of the two, however, if liked the south.  The view from the outside is best when taken from the south-south east point.

After leaving Melrose at 5.30pm I saw, for the first time, the whole and hilly district of the border and fells.  After passing Hawick, it is particularly fine and I think, at Riccarton junction, you reach the centre of the fells.  I soon after discovered the river Tyne wandering in and out very prettily among the hills.

‘Where the winding Tyne’s continuous sweep

By fertile meadows ‘twere mountains steep’

Before I reached Hexham, the darkness had settled down, so I slept the remainder of the journey and, arriving at a part of the Central station that I was unacquainted with, did not know I had arrived.

The day previous I had written, on today, I would arrive at 9.45pm but, in consequence of my error in the morning, I had to travel by a train that arrived at 10,55pm so, by the time I arrived home, they were gone from the station.  I found all well and I saw all except Henry that night – I was glad to get to bed, which I was not until 1.30am.

The following day, I went down to see JHB, but he was not there, so I walked to the Journal office and saw Joe, with whom I spent the evening; I found Janet very well and anxiously waiting to be relieved.  Before going on to Lily Crescent, I called and saw Eliza.

On Friday morning, Ian Annie and I went down to Tynemouth.  We went immediately to the Longsands and walked by the rocks to the pier, which we went along.  On our return, we went up into the castle yard, where Ian Annie had not yet been.  In the course of our rambles, we mounted the lighthouse and saw the lanterns, which were remarkable for their cleanness.  The lighthouse man very kindly lent us his glass, by the aid of which we could see the Cheviots and Coquet lighthouse and, also, Souter Point and the Rothbury Hills.

After descending, we went to Nelson’s Monument and, from thence, as far as Whitley by Longsands Road, Cullercoats and then on to Rocks.  We got back to Nile by 5.00 and Aunt Mary came about 6pm.  I went on to Jack afterwards.

On Saturday, I was at Joe’s to dine and, after, I accompanied him to the East End parks.  On Sunday morning, I visited Old Brunswick again and heard Mr Grubb, their retiring minister.  Mrs Tom asked, very kindly, after you and the family.   

After dinner at St Thomas Street, I went up to the 3.00pm services as Jesmond, where I addressed the children at the close of the meeting.  JHB then showed me over the new chapel and I then accompanied him to tea.  I was astonished to find he had a family of seven.  He was particularly good and kind and Mrs Tom was equally hospitable.  She wished to be remembered to you and made me promise the next time we came down, to go and visit her.

I again went to Brunswick and heard J H Stephenson and then went home to St Thomas Street after walking over the low end of Ledges with Mr Coverdale.

Monday was a day spent in saying goodbyes.  I did not have an opportunity of seeing Harry Padgham after all, as he was away from business, unwell.  Had a long conversation with G Bainbridge and bade goodbye to Mr Tom, who took me all over the warehouse, showing me the various alterations and improvements made recently.

Tuesday morning, having arrived, the time for leave-taking has arrived also, and once more, I bid adieu to the old town and new city.

Left Newcastle by the 11.40am train – Aunt Hannah, Tom, Ian Annie, Eliza and her boy, saw me away from the station.  The day was fine and bright, so that the picturesqueness of the Waverley route was seen to advantage.  Ryton, with its familiar hillside, soon appeared – and passed – Prudhoe castle stood out well, showing to great advantage.  It is a very pretty and romantic pile and only wants the pen of Sir Walter Scott to make it – and many other spots in Northumberland – popular and much sought after.  The fields looked healthy and well, the crop being well advanced.

Passed Corbridge and saw the roadside house where we stayed and had dinner during the rain, on the occasion of the Orphan House trip to Dilston Castle.  I think I have seen Acomb at last, on the left of the line between Hexham and Wall.  I saw a church which appeared to be at the head of the village.  Near Hexham, the river was very pretty, but somewhat shallow, its course is impeded by large stones and rocks, which were scattered over the bed of the river, making a continuation of small waterfalls and cascades and presenting a scene of wild frolicking and tumbling confusion, which I quite enjoyed.

The country between here and Chollerton is very pretty and, from one point on the line, a beautiful view of the valley of the Tyne is obtained.  Chollerton is a one-sided station.  At Barrasford, Haughton Castle formed the centre of a very picturesque scene.

After passing Bellingham, the journey continues through a range of hills and fells for many miles; these hills are probably the continuation of the Cheviots and are only useful for pasture, as they are covered by course, green herbage; they are called the Peel Fells.  Some of the scenery among the hills after passing Riccarton is grand in the extreme, presenting a constantly changing panoramic view, until we arrived at Hawick.

I had an unexpected opportunity of seeing this town and district.  We changed trains here and I was told the Carlisle train would still be twenty minutes, so I walked down the high street and returned in time to find my train gone, so I had to wait two hours for the next.  While I was bemoaning the fact, and enquiring where best to spend my time, a gentleman offered to accompany me for a walk, which turned out very enjoyable.  After passing through the town along by the river, we ascended a hill from which a good view of the town and surrounding country was obtained.  And then we returned by another way along by the banks of the Teviot, a pretty river with a pebbly bottom.

My friend, a Mr Fisher, and a teetotal traveller, took me through Pringle & Sons hosiery factory and showed me the looms.  He also interested me very much by an account of the annual ‘March of the Marches’, or town lands, which constitutes a two day holiday – viz, the Monday and Tuesday of the second week in June.  At this festival, they always sing an old Hawick song in commiseration of the Battle of Flodden and the taking of a standard from the English – sung by the boys of the town, during the absence of their sires at the battle.  The chorus of the song, which is of a wild and savage character, is ‘Tere bus, tere oden’ – and the beauty of the song is that no-one knows what the chorus means!!

The country surrounding Hawick is very fine and it seems a fairly lively town.  My friend told me there was a large antiquarian society there and a good parliamentary debating society.  Altogether I was very pleased with my mishap.

I caught the 5.17pm train to St Boswells and a gentleman, who was going on to Melrose, promised to drop my luggage on the platform there.  From St Boswell’s, I had a fine walk.  I found I had not time to see the abbey as, as soon as I had got a little way from the station, I discovered I had to walk nearly eight miles to Melrose and I had only one hour and thirty-five minutes to do it in.  I had to walk at a very rapid pace, but I managed it and saw some glorious scenery on the way; one view of the Tweed was particularly good.  It was obtained from the side of the road high up above the Tweed, where its windings could be followed by the eye for a distance of about a mile, in the course of which it took three distinct bends, or curves.  A pleasant, shimmering sound came up to the ear, although some quarter of a mile away and, in the distance behind the Tweed, rose a dark, wooded hill which found a perfect background to a fine picture of river scenery.

I arrived at Melrose rather warm and just five minutes before the train was due.  My haste was repaid by having to wait twenty-five minutes in a cold station.  However, the train came at last and, in due course, I arrived in Edinburgh, where I changed trains and went on to Glasgow, arriving there soon after 11pm.  I went to the Cobden Hotel, gave instructions to be called at 6.20am and went to bed.

Punctually at 6.20am, the Boots called me and, when I arose and looked out of the window, my enthusiasm was considerably damped by seeing a wet and dull morning.  I hesitated but, seeing a slight break in the clouds, took courage, dressed myself and just got to the saloon steamer, Columba, at 7.20am.  All this time, it was raining but, by the time I had disposed of a substantial breakfast, the rain had been superseded by a strong north wind, which continued to blow all day. 

After passing Greenock, the sun broke through and the scenery, which was very fine, was continually varied by sunshine and shade, including Helensburgh, Gairloch and Loch Long.  I think the effect was even better than it would have been if quite clear.

The scenery from here, until quite through the Kyles of Bute, continued to increase in magnificence, of which any attempted description would be out of the question.  We arrived at Ardrishaig at noon, having travelled ninety miles.  During the trip, I made acquaintance of a gentleman from Leeds and his daughter, who I found very interesting company.  She had travelled a great deal in England and was able to declare upon the comparative merits of the Scotch, English and Irish scenery.  She proved such an intelligent, sensible girl, I was almost sorry I was not going on to Oban.  However, the boat started back at 1.10pm and arrived in Glasgow again at 6.45pm.

I was not particularly impressed with the Cobden Hotel and shall take care not to stop here again on any future visit I may pay to Glasgow.

Having a couple of hours to spare, I went as far as the Glasgow cathedral, which is a wonderful old pile, 319ft long and there are, descending from it, in different directions, old chapels, etc, which are various ages.  The crypt, which is under the choir, was founded by Bishop Josceline in 1171.  In the south east corner of this crypt is St Mungo’s Well.  The choir, all the woodwork of which is sold, dark oak, was also founded by Bishop Josceline.  There is also a crypt and chapter house founded by Bishop Lander in 1408; in this building, there are some very fine old oak seats, beautifully carved.  There is another crypt, which is more familiarly known as the Laigh Kirk, that was founded by Bishop Blackadder in 1490.

Between the Lady Chapel and the choir, are two enormous stone pillars in the fluted style, which are quite three yards square at base.  The stained glass windows, of which I should think there are over a hundred, are very fine. 

After leaving the cathedral, I crossed the bridge of the necropolis, the height of which is crowned by a monument of John Knox.  I think there is almost a larger collection of fine monuments, vaults, stones, etc, here than at the Dean Cemetery in Edinburgh. 

Hurrying to the station, I noticed, among others, a fine granite monument erected to Benjamin Sword Esq, eighty-four years – Merchant, Glasgow.

I left Glasgow at 11.15am for Ballock pier, where I changed on to the boat, which took me up Loch Lomond.  We were, at this time enjoying clear, bright sunshine, which continued throughout the day, so that I saw the Trossachs under exceptionally favourable circumstances. 

The steam up Loch Lomond did not seem long – we soon reached Luss, having threaded our way through the many pretty islands, which dot the lake here and then crossed to Rowardennan, just beyond which Ben Lomond rose majestically to the height of 3,192ft almost from the water’s edge.  We next reached Tarbet, where there is a fine hotel.

After Tarbet, we soon reached Inversnaid, from whence we went to Stronachlachar by coach and got the Loch Katrine boat, which is a similar boat to that on Loch Lomond, but smaller.  After another lovely run down this lake, we landed at the Trossach and, as there were not sufficient numbers of coaches, I joined a gentleman and had a charming walk to the hotel. 

From there, after waiting about half an hour, we started, by coach, to Callander.  This ride takes in the finest views of the whole run but to get the full benefit, you want to ride from Callander on to Balloch.  The ride to Callander is a long one and we were not sorry when we arrived.

I went on to Edinburgh, but had to change at Stirling, where I waited quite an hour for my train.  When I arrived at Edinburgh, I found the Regent Hotel could not take me, so had to put up at the Waterloo, a very magnificent place, but equally expensive.  On Friday, I walked right round the Salisbury Crags, Arthur’s Seat, etc and had a general look round.

On Saturday morning, I went over the Firth of Forth and had a walk along the Fife coast, getting back in good time for my homeward journey in a boat which, after my comfortable quarters on board the Virgo, I did not half appreciate.

This constitutes another of the very cheap and enjoyable trips which the Edinburgh people are favoured.  If I may trust my memory, the return fare from Edinburgh is 1/-.  This includes 10 miles of railway and about 8 miles of steam boat travelling.

I was back in time to catch my boat and meet my two friends again and a considerable portion of the afternoon was spent in telling each other where we had been and what we had seen since parting.

© VCRT

Husband of Ethel Della Cade – Arthur Cecil Stair

Arthur Cecil StairArthur Cecil Stair was the eldest child of Alfred Stair, a Civil Servant whose last position was Comptroller General of Inland Revenue (1900-1910), and his wife, Elizabeth.  Arthur had four younger sisters; (Constance) Gertrude, (Frances) Lilian, (Beatrice) Maude and Eva Margaret Adele, and a brother, Vernon.

Arthur Cecil obtained his original training at Waring’s, a well-known furnishing house in London and then went to New York shortly after the turn of the century to run the decorating department of the Crawford Company.  While there, he met Valentine Andrew, later to become his business partner.

He returned to England in 1904 and lived in Finchley, where he met Ethel Della Cade.  They were married in July 1908 and made their home in North London.

1911 saw the opening of Stair & Andrew, at 25 Soho Square, London, specialising in English antique furniture; one of the directors of the company was Percy McQuoid, who wrote ‘The Dictionary of English Furniture’.

A year later, they opened a small branch in New York City and Val Andrew returned to the United States to head the business there.  The business flourished and, in 1920, the company moved to premises in E 57th Street.

Arthur retired from active participation in the company in the 1950s but the business continued, on both sides of the Atlantic, being run by his son, Alastair Arthur Stair.

Letters from Arthur Cecil Stair to his wife, Ethel Della Cade

Aboard SS Finland
May 31st 1916

My dearest girl

Just a hurried line to tell you that we are not due to arrive till Saturday week, as this is a ten day boat, so don’t worry if you do not hear till Monday week of our safe arrival.

We got up to Liverpool all right and had little trouble in getting on as all our papers are in order. 

Give the children a tight hug from me and just such a tight one as I should give you if I could.

No time to write more but do your best to have a good time whilst I am away.

Yours ever

Arthur

 

Stair & Andrew
668 Fifth Avenue
New York City
June 16th 1916

My dearest

I am leaving here on Saturday next, the 24th, sailing on the St Louis, and I shall be in London on the following Sunday week, July 1st.  I shall be very glad to get away from this noise and bustle for I never get a moment’s rest, meaning late nights and early mornings.

Val wants me to come out again at the end of the year and I have arranged that, if I do that, I shall bring you as I know you will enjoy it.

Yesterday afternoon, we went down to Highlands and stayed the night with the Hartshorns!  Mrs Hartshorn is poorly and is in the city under a trained nurse but Mr Hartshorn is just the same and Polly is wonderful.  She is quite a young woman and must vivacious.  You will call her good-looking but owing to her colouring you would notice her anywhere and she is dressed very well and allowed to go anywhere and do anything.  Dick is quite a young man and is just about to enter a public school before he goes to Yale.

On Thursday night, Val and I went with Laban to the ‘Allies Bazaar’, which is more like a fair but at the same time they are taking a great deal of money, for some days ago they had got over a million.  Val bought you a night cap which I will bring home with me!!!!!

Business is very good but we have had an anxious time over the store transfer as they misunderstood the position in London but I think it is all right now, anyhow, I hope so.

Tomorrow, Val and I are going, with Harry, to see the house that he has taken in New Jersey and I will let you know what I think of it in my next letter. 

I hope you and the kiddies are well, darling, and enjoying the sea but I suppose when you get this letter you will have returned to Linden Lodge.

Give a kiss to them both and with heaps and heaps of everything to you, dearest

Yours, as ever
Arthur


668 Fifth Avenue
New York
June 13th 1916

My dearest Ethel

I arrived in New York on Friday last and at once cabled and let you know.  Andrew was very pleased to see me and met me at the dock together with all the Bentall family.  I came straight here and am delighted with the show Andrew has got and there is no doubt we have a great future, if things continue to go so well.

Today we have got our finance scheme through and are in a much better shape than we anticipated because our bank over here are advancing us the money to purchase the shares, so we shall not require Dexter and shall own the business ourselves – Isn’t it fine!!

On Sunday, I spent the day with Willis and family and enjoyed it very much.  Mrs Willis is a charming woman and I am sure you would like her and she is quite prepared to welcome you as she has heard all about you from Billy and loved the photo of the children.

In the afternoon, Billy took me for a motor ride in his car and it was very interesting seeing all the homes round about where he lives.

I had a letter both from Polly and her father this morning – the latter asked me to lunch, but I couldn’t manage it owing to an engagement with the bank officials, but I am accepting an invitation from Polly to stay at their house on Thursday night. 

Last night I went to dine with Harry and his wife and, after dinner, Victor and his girl joined us.  The flat is ripping – and so it ought to be as he pays nearly £400 a year for it, but they are moving to the country in September.  Harry is getting very deaf but Victor is just the same; I do not care for his wife (Mrs Victor).  They have asked me down on Tuesday next for the day and I shall, of course, go.

I think I have now told you all I have done and am likely to do as I hope to get away on the ‘Kroonland’ leaving early on the 22nd and, if so, I shall be back in London on the 1st or 2nd July.  I want you all very much and am looking forward to my return. 

Give my love and kisses to the children and with heaps and heaps of both to yourself, dear

Yours always
Arthur

© VCRT

Edwin Arthur Cade’s eldest daughter – Ethel Della Cade

Ethel Della CadeEthel Della was the eldest child of Edwin Arthur Cade and Sarah Elizabeth Smith (Trot).  She was educated at home with her sister, Gladys Mary (1886) until, in 1901, they were sent, to boarding school at The Beehive, Bexhill on Sea.

It seems the lease on their house in Southgate was up and most of their furniture sent into store so, being more or less homeless – because Edwin Arthur could not decide on where to live – boarding school for the girls seemed the best option.  At the time, their father was very unwell, which made planning the move difficult.

Eventually, the family settled on a house in Finchley and the girls were able to return home.  However, that was the end of conventional school for both of them with Ethel going on to a finishing school in Belgium with Nell and Lilian Daw, daughters of John Daw, mining engineer, who worked in Ashanti with Edwin Arthur Cade; Ethel then went, with Nell and Lil, to Paris, where they all stayed for several months.

Ethel met Arthur Cecil Stair, an architect and decorator, who had returned to his parents’ house in Finchley after living for several years in New York, where he ran the decorating department of the Crawford Company.  While in New York, Arthur met his future business partner, Valentine Andrew.

Ethel and Arthur married in July 1908 and their first daughter, Elizabeth Della, was born in June 1909.

In 1911, Arthur and Val Andrew set up a decorating and antiques business at 25 Soho Square, London, calling the company Stair & Andrew.  Directors of the company included Mr Percy MacQuoid, author of the well-known ‘Dictionary of English Furniture’.

In 1912, Stair & Andrew opened a small branch in New York City, which Val Andrew ran while Arthur remained in London.

Ethel and Arthur’s second child, a son, Alastair Arthur, was born in March 1913.  Their third child, another daughter, Virginia Cade, was born in June 1918.

Ethel kept a diary from 1918 until 1965 and these will be published in due course: the first is entitled ‘A Private Life – Linden Lodge; 1918-1926)

Ethel died in September 1968.


1906 Journal

THEATRES and THINGS – 1906

Mostly Things

1906

MAY

9th An account of plays, etc seen by me is to be kept in this book.  E D Cade

Bluebell

About Jan 5th of this year, Mother and I saw ‘Bluebell’.  This, I think, was the first thing I saw this year.  Seymour Hicks and Nell Carter were playing that afternoon, as Ellen Terry was indisposed.  Seymour Hicks was quite too charming over his diary, and also when he and Bluebell were playing at Operatic antics.

Brother Officers

Mother took Mrs Dalby and me to see this play.  I enjoyed it more than I can say, as the lamblike Violet Vanbrough was taking the part of Lady Roydon; Arthur Bourchier was playing as John Hines.  The scene, when John Hines opens champagne for his guests, in the afternoon, and everyone refuses till Lady Roydon comes to his relief is …………!!!!!!!!!   Superb!!  Any love scene which Violet Vanbrough plays in, is totally different from any other actress’s rendering that I have ever seen.  We had the three front seats in the middle of the stalls.  (Very badly put: I should say, the three middle seats in the front row).

Little Cherub

A party was made up for this play, on Monday, March 12th.  Arthur, Gertrude, Vernon, Stem and I went to see it, after dining at the Florence with Mr and Mrs Stair, and Val Paton.  It was pretty.  Gabrielle Ray, Zena Dare, and I forget who else, were the principal girls.


MARCH

She Stoops to Conquer

15th Fred took Kathleen Flower, Gladys and me to see this the day after Arthur sailed for New York.  We all enjoyed it immensely, it was dear and quaint.  Cyril Maude, Winifred Emery and Beatrice Ferrer were the principal persons.  We had very good seats, as everyone does have with Fred, in the dress circle.  Because he never paid for them!!!


MAY

Brigadier Gerard

2nd. Lovely!  Mr Daw took a big party of us, and we had seats in the stalls – twelve of us – Mother, Mr and Mrs Daw, Messrs Albert and Jack Daw, Mr and Mrs Harry James, Nell, Lil, Gladys and me.  Lewis Waller and Evelyn Millard – she almost too lovely for this earth; he, Lewis Waller, just too lamblike.  Her dresses were the acme of beauty.  Her purple velvet cloak, trimmed with ermine, exquisite.  Napoleon was grand; taller, and a beast, and a spiteful cat.  Poor Napoleon had too much brainwork to do to have the least room left in him for patience.  But he was very just, and made his soldiers love him.

Fred’s fore-car (Mother’s, I know now).  On Wed 16th May 1906 Fred brought it home.  On Friday I went to town in it.  Sinclair came on the arm of Fred’s seat.  On Saturday, he took Mother to Haileybury to see Jim.  Today, Sunday, Mother has gone with him to Halstead to see Bobs and Theo, who are staying there with Nurse, at her home.  It is raining fast, has been since 2o’clock, and it is now 6.20pm.

My brown habit and hat came yesterday.  They are both beyond reproach.

Books.

The Hill by Horace Annesley Vachell.  Splendid

Extracts:    Head Master’s sermon after Desmond’s death

Tall, eager, a face to remember,

A flush that could change as the day;

A spirit that knew not December,

That brightened the sunshine of May

Chap 13 – Harrow’s term ending hymn the same as the Beehives. Chap 13

If I perish, I perish

Since we deserved the name of friends

And thine effect so lives in me

A part of mine may live in thee

And move the on to noble ends

Chap 11 – self-questioning.

Friend, of my infinite dreams

Little enough endures

Litle however it seems

It is yours – all yours

Fame is a fleeting breath

Hope may be false or fond

Love shall be love till Death

And perhaps beyond

This was John Verney’s friendship for Desmond.  In my idea, it is the most beautiful friendship I have ever met.  I should say this and Tennyson’s love for Arthur.

Chap 1 – The Manor

Five hundred faces, and all so strange

Life in front of me – home behind

I felt like a waif before the wind

Tossed on an ocean of shock and change

Chorus

Yet the time may come, as the years go by,

When your heart will thrill

At the thought of the Hill

And the day that you came so strange and shy

Chap 2 – Caesar

You come here where you brothers came

To the old school years ago

A young new face and a Harrow name

Mid a crowd of strangers.  No!

You may not fancy yourself alone

You who are memory’s heir

When even the names in the graven shone

Will greet you with ‘Who goes there –

You?  Pass friend, all’s well.

Chap 3 – Kraipale – the result of a debacle

Life is mostly froth and bubble’

Two things stand like stone

Kindness in another’s trouble

Courage in your own

In this chapter, John says I am not a liar but all the same, I would lie if I thought a lie might save a friend’s life.  Truth is not always the right thing to speak (EDC)

Chap 5.-.Fellowship

Fellowship is Heaven and the lack of it, Hell

Chap 6 – A Revelation

John sings at the school concert.  First two verses to Earl Roberts, then to Caesar.  The Harrow song -40 years on, was Fred’s school song, too

To abuse or curse another is almost as degrading to oneself as to strike him.


JULY

M 30 Mother taken ill at Mother’s meeting.

T 31 Mother got up after breakfast, but she saw Dr Armstrong and was told to lie on the sofa all day.  Maurice came in the evening.  Dr Armstrong says Mother has a very bad heart.


AUGUST

W 1 Mother worse.  Day fixed for Devon.  Nurse Cross arrives 7.pm.  Dr Armstrong brings Dr Woodcock in the afternoon; her heart very bad; feared appendicitis.

T 2 Bit better, but she had a pain in her right side, and she must be kept very still.  Uncle John, came, and Auntie Adeline, but they are not allowed to see Mother.

F 3 Mother a bit better, but her temperature is still up.  Bobs left for Wallington with Auntie Grace

S 4 Nurse and Theo go to Wallington, to stay with Auntie Adeline.  Mother is apparently better.

S 5 Today Mother has bad pain, and her temperature is up again

M 6 Pain bad, ditto

T 7 Ditto ditto.  I write to Mr Collier

W 8 Mr Collier comes, about 3pm, says he must operate at once – he believes there is a small tumour there.

T 9 Mr Collier comes to operate at 11.15am.  Auntie Polly is not allowed near Mother, for fear of infection – supposed measles.  Nurse Symons comes

F 10 Mother sends down word to pay the men cash from the £10 note.  Mr Collier comes to dress the wound in the evening.  Awful pain for Mother, but we are allowed to kiss her goodnight.

S 11 Mother going on well, as far as we know – we are allowed to see her for a minute.  I brush her hair.  Mr Collier comes.

S 12 Mother wishes us to go to church to return thanks.  First three days are over at 1pm.

M 13 Mother going on well still – we may see her a little while each day.

S 18 Gladys, Jim, Eric, Nurse and the children went down to Tavistock.  Fred and I saw them off at Waterloo.

S 19 Fred has a bad throat – lies on the sofa all day.

M 20 I pack Fred’s things, and he goes off to Folkestone in his car.  I went to the QH with Uncle Hillier Antill.  Came home in the motor bus, find Nurse up, and Dr Woodcock here.  Mother’s temperature is up and they have sent for Mr Collier.  Mr Collier arrives at 3am – Dr Woodcock sits up for him.  Mother has colitis.

T 21 Mother’s temperature is better, and she is going on all right so far.

W 22 Still going on well; Mr Collier comes to see her.

T 23 Nurse called me at about 6 o’clock to go and bring up some brandy for Mother – then a hot water bottle and then I ran across to ask Mr Cooper to go for the doctor.  Came back to find Nurse had fainted!!  I sit and fan Mother while Nurse dresses.  Auntie Polly comes in.  I get dressed.  Dr Woodcock rides five miles, in nineteen minutes, to get here.  Strychnine is injected every four hours.  Nurse Symons comes for night work and Mother slowly gets better.  Her heart had been unable to stand what must have been a drop in her temperature of seven degrees.  Nurse Symons is a dear.  Mother goes on well each day now.  The night nurse only stops for a week. 

Fred had an accident on his way down at Hythe.  Turning a corner too suddenly, he ran into the wall.  The car turned over on top of him.  He hurt two fingers on his right hand.  He wires to write each day.  On Mon 27th, he came home in the evening – looked in through the open dining room window and called to me while Nurse and I were having our supper.  All the week Nurse dresses his hand, which is really bad.  On Saturday they find his little finger is broken.


SEPTEMBER

10th I should tear this page out if I could but it means I should have to destroy bits about Mother.  Goodness only knows, I would wipe his name out if I could, from everything except his debts to Mother.  She loaned him the money to buy his car, and he has not repaid one single penny of it.  ‘And better had they n’er been born who read to doubt, or read to scorn’. (Sir Walter Scott)


DECEMBER

19th Mother and I went, in the front row of the stalls at the Apollo, to see ‘Peter Pan’ – it was lovely, one of the best things I have seen for a long time.  Marion Terry was Peter’s mother.

A Schoolboy’s Essay

Henry VIII was the greatest whichever whoever lived.  He was born at Anno Domini in the year 1066.  He had five hundred and ten wives, besides women and children.  The first was beheaded and afterwards executed, the second was revoked, she never smiled again.

The greatest man in the reign was Wolsey.  He was called the ‘Gay Bachelor’, being born at the age of fifteen, unmarried.  Had he served his wife as he served his King, she would not have deprived him of his grey hairs.  In this reign, the Duke of Wellington discovered America and invented the Curfew Bell to prevent fires in theatres.  The Bible was translated into Latin by Titus Gates, who was ordered by the King to be chained up in the Churches.  Henry VIII was succeeded by his great grandmother, the beautiful and accomplished Mary, Queen of Scots, sometimes known as the Lady of the Lake.

Anne hesitated a moment, and then began to read:

I had journeyed some way in life, I was travel-stained and weary when I met Love.  In the empty, glaring highway I met him, and we walked in it together.  I had not thought he fared in such steep places, having heard he was a dweller in the sheltered gardens, which were not for me.  Nevertheless, he went with me.  I never stopped for him or turned aside out of my path to seek him, for I had met his counterfeit when I was young and I distrusted strangers afterwards.  And I prayed to God to turn my heart wholly to Himself, and to send Love away lest he should come between me and Him.  But when did God hearken to any prayer of mine? 

And Love was grave and stern.  And as we walked he showed me the dew upon the grass and the fire in the dew, the things I had seen all my life and had never understood.  And he drew the rainbow through his hand.  I was one with the snowdrop and with the thunderstorm.  And we went together upon the sea, swiftly up its hurrying mountains, swiftly down into its rushing valleys.  And I was one with the sea.  And all fear ceased out of my life and a great awe dwelt with me instead.  And Love wore a human face.  But I knew that was for a moment only.  Did not Christ the same?

And Love showed me the hearts of my brothers in the crowd.  And, last of all, he showed me myself with whom I had lived in ignorance.  And I was humbled.

And then Love, who had given me all, asked for all.  And I gave reverence and patience and faith and hope and intuition and service.  I even gave him truth.  I put my hands under his feet.  But he said it was not enough.  So I gave him my heart.  That was the last I had to give.  And Love took it in a great tenderness and smote it.  And in the anguish the human face of Love vanished away. 

And afterwards, long years afterwards, when I was first able to move and look up, I saw Love who, as I thought, was gone, keeping watch beside me.  And I saw his face clear, without the human veil between me and it.  And it was the face of God.  And I saw that Love and God are one and that, because of this exceeding glory, He had been constrained to take flesh even as Christ took it so that my dim eyes might be able to apprehend Him.  And I saw that it was He, and He only, who had walked with me from the first.

To be vain, a woman must be unselfish because it means a certain amount of trouble taken for others.  To dress well, you know, and all that.

A Musset

You are more than the earth, though you are such a dot

You can love and think and the earth cannot!

W B Rands


1908

FEBRUARY

8th I wonder if I shall ever put down anything about a theatre again.  I have been heaps of times since the last account.  The thrushes are singing so hard all round the house.  EDC

I wonder if Jock will ever see all this foolishness  EDC

21st In Absence

All that thou art not, makes not up the sum of what thou art, beloved, unto me;

All other voices, wanting thine, are dumb; all vision, in thine absence, vacancy

J B Tabb

I’ve had a lovely lot of dances this year.  I wonder if I can remember them all: 

I think Gladys’ 21st was the first, on the 7th October.  It was lovely, and all went well. 

At the end of October, the first Cotillion; 

Nov 30 or 31st, the second Cotillion, also jolly; 

Dec 31st, the  Hunt Ball, lovely;

Jan 7th Hockey dance at Woodside Hall, again lovely;

Jan 29th Third Cotillion dance, still lovely; 

Feb 10th, the Young’s dance at the Midland Hotel.  A real live piper piped up and down during supper.  A leap-year lancers, I missed the leap part, I mean, as Arthur had to come to it late; 

Feb 26th.  Fourth and last Cotillion dance.  This was, if possible, better than any of the preceding ones.  Arthur, and Mr Andrew, were not able to come till an hour after it had started, so I made their programmes for them.  Daisy Cooper came with us, also Tom ,

Mrs Butler and Mr C H Scott.  Arthur and Val Andrew (VSA) came back to spend the night here.


MARCH

4th Mother, Gladys and I went yesterday to see the things at Warings that Arthur and I had previously chosen.  Arthur looked a dear

OUR WEDDING

Acceptances

Dr & Mrs Tom Godfrey

Mr & Mrs Butler

Rev & Mrs Mayall

Rev Stooks

Mrs & Miss Compton

Mr & Mrs W G Rice

Mr & Mrs Hay

Mr & Mrs H J Mason

Mrs & Misses Palmer

Miss Mason

Miss Langley

Dr & Mrs Armstrong

Mr & Mrs Jones

The Misses Smith

Mr & Mrs Giles

Mr & Mrs Heathcote

Mr G Mellor

Miss K Berry

Mrs & Miss Flower

Rev & Mrs Thornton Smith

Mrs & Miss Hare

Mr & Mrs Layton

Miss & Mrs Hugh Layton

Mr & Mrs Munro

Mr & Miss Edwards

Miss Chown

Mrs Burn

The Misses Burn

Dr Leigh Canney

Mr & Mrs White

Miss White

Mr Tom Blackman

Mr & Mrs Paterson

Mr W Butler

Mr Arthur Tannahill

Mr & Mrs Humpreys

Mr & Mrs Herbert Nield

Mr Val Andrew

Mr & Mrs Burgin

Messrs Burgin

Mr, Mrs & Miss Nicholls

Mr & Mrs Jutrum

Mrs Mellor

Miss Gill

Dr & Mrs Bainbridge

Dr & Mrs Ted Godfrey

Mrs Child

Mr McAdam

Mr Leicester Homan

Mrs & Miss Scarfe

Misses Planbeck

Mrs Hill

Mrs Arthur Haydon

Mr & Mrs Herring

Mr & Mrs Cranfield & family

Mr & Miss Spencer

Mr M Maine

Miss Lois White

Mr & Mrs Morgan

Mr & Mrs Cooper

Misses Cooper

Mr & Mrs Stair

Mr & Mrs Daw

Misses Daw

Capt & Mrs Knight

Mr Fenning

Mr & Mrs Kerly

Mrs Andrew

Mr & Mrs Arthur White

Mr & Mrs Morris

Mr & Mrs Jack Chivers

Mr & Mrs Swell

Mr & Mrs Layton

Mr & Miss Burgess

Mr & Mrs C H Clayton –

Mr & Mrs Charter – vase

Mr Harold Cooper

Mr & Mrs (May) Neale Turner

Mr & Mrs Pitcher

Mr & Mrs Sturn Nicholls

Mr Walter Andrew

Miss Elston

Mr W R Andrew

Misses Fowler

Mrs Cowen

Mrs Alexander

Refusals

Mr, Mrs & Miss Lyle

Mr Compton

Mr & Mrs Simmons

Mr Walter Blake Odgers

Mr & Mrs Pixley

Mr Palmer

Mr & Mrs Stead

Mr & Mrs Harry Hanson

Mrs & Miss Munro

Mr R Mellow

Mr & Mrs Olive

Dr & Mrs Chadwick

Mr & Mrs Atthill

Mr & Mrs Haslehurst

Mr & Mrs Dilley

Mr & Mrs Parker

Mr & Mrs Teil

Mr & Mrs A Tannehill

Mr & Mrs Tunnicliff

Miss Fenning

Mr, Mrs & Miss Gill

Mr & Mrs F Archer

Mr & Mrs Tillie

Miss Valetta Dark

Dr, Mrs & Miss Blake Odgers

Mr Cecil Brown

Mr & Mrs Jay

Mr C H Scott

Mrs & Miss Planbeck

Mr Haydon

Miss Edith Stair

Misses Messervy

Mr Arthur Smith

Mr & Mrs Cowen

Mr & Mrs Wagner

Miss Grace Stair

Mr George Haydon

Miss Kellett

Mr & Misses Stair

Mr & Mrs Mann

Mr & Mrs W Stair

Mr & Mrs Wallace

Mr & Miss Goody

Br G Blackman

Mr & Mrs Wimbush

Mr Leslie

Miss Childe

Mr & Mrs Bruckman

Mr & Mrs Tomkins

Miss Ada Perry

Mr Childe

Dr & Mrs Woodcock

Mr Harold Woodruff

Mr John Burton

Mr Messervy

Miss Grace Perry

Mrs Dyson & family

Mr & Mrs Parry and family

Mr & Mrs Parry

Mrs Harold Cooper

Mr & Mrs Rothbarth & family (4)

Mr & Mrs W Berry

Miss H White

Mr & Mrs Sprigg

Mr V Bendell

Mr & Mrs Geo Belshaw

July 31st The Lyles (no Liles) have not answered yet and I have been married three weeks yesterday!!  Too bad

Wedding presents

Mr & Mrs Butler Silver sauce boat

Nurse Chown Sandwich server

Auntie Parker Evening cloak

Mr and Mrs Val Paton Gold bracelet and cufflinks

Mr & Mrs Park Lyle Silver-handled carvers

Mr & Mrs Rice Pair of entrée dishes

Gladys and Jim Embroidered linen bedspread

Dr & Mrs Armstrong Long white feather

Mr & Mrs Jones Silver tea knives

Auntie Grace and Adeline Royal Crown Derby tea set

Dr & Mrs Chadwick Muffin dish

Mr & Mrs Nicholls Four silver vases

Mr & Mrs Dilley Entrée dish

Grandpapa Travelling clock

Mr & Mrs Cooper Silver salver

Mr Fenning Cur glass rose bowl

Mr & Mrs Teil Silver cigarette box

Mr George Haydon Bread platter

Mr Willie Butler Photograph frame

Mr & Mrs Giles Tea set

Mr C H Scott Silver sweet basket

Mrs & Miss Edwards Silver tea knives

Mrs Stair Sewing machine

Mrs Dyson Silver table centre

Miss Onslow Cheque

Mr & Mrs Daw Set of liqueur glasses

Holmes, Cook and Alice Silver-plated sugar basin

Mrs Radley Butter knife, bread fork and jam spoons

Mr & Mrs Walter Stair Fish servers

Mr & Mrs Harry Hanson Egg boiler

Mr & Mrs Gill Coffee service

Misses Gill Paper knife

Mr & Mrs Hill Silver-topped scent bottle

Mr & Mrs Walter Berry Silver fruit spoons

Mr & Mrs Swell Silver photo frame

Mr & Mrs Hartshorne Fan

Mr & Mrs Tilly Two silver candlesticks

Mr & Mrs Simmons Copper flower jar

Mr & Mrs Thornton Smith Embroidered tablecloth

Mr & Mrs Tunnicliff Drawn thread tray cloths

Mr & Mrs Edell Silver sugar sifter

Mr & Mrs Bruckmann Silver candle sticks

Mrs Burgess Bread platter

Mr & Mrs Hay Oriental jar

Mr & Mrs Neild Silver ink stand

Mr Messervy Silver candlesticks

Mr & Mrs Pritchard Copper rose jar

Mr & Mrs Compton Silver tray

Mr & Mrs Mellor Silver rose bowl

Mr & Mrs Ernest Hare Silver purse

Mr Frank Clayton Silver sugar sifter and cream jug

Grandmama Cade Tea tray

Mr & Mrs Kirby Folding table

Mr & Mrs Chas Layton Silver ink stand

Mr Leslie Cut glass jug

Nell Picture

Dr & Mrs Ted Godfrey Hammered copper spirit kettle

Mr & Mrs Cranfield Old copper scuttle

Mr & Mrs Flower Silver sugar and cream set and tray

Mr & Mrs Archer Copper candlesticks (pair)

Mr & Mrs Childe Cloissone bowl

Miss Childe Coffee tray

Mr & Mrs Spencer Silver cheese, butter and biscuit tray

Miss Spencer Silver cake knife

Mrs & Miss Scarfe Silver tea spoons

Mr & Mrs Nicholls Silver salt cellars

Mr A C Smith Breakfast plate heater

Mr & Mrs Paterson Barometer

Mr & Mrs Heathcote Entrée dish

Mr & Mrs A Haydon Rose Bowl

Miss Langley Book

Mrs Planbeck Cushion

Mr & Mrs Stair Perry Two silver vases

Mr & Mrs Herring Cigar lighter

Rev & Mrs Charter Vase

Mr & Mrs Nicholls Toast rack

Misses Fowler Cushion

Mrs Craven Cushion

Mr & Mrs Mann Four silver vases

Mr T Blackman Pair of silver salt cellars

Mr W Black Odgers Books

Mrs and Miss Munro Two volume Jane Austen

Mr & Mrs Mason One dozen tea knives

Mr & Mrs Layton and Miss Layton Tea knives

Mr John White Miniature

Mrs Alexander Vase of Satsuma

Mr & Mrs Wallace Sliver ink stand

Mr Leicester Homan Terracotta figures

Capt & Mrs Knight Picture

Mr & Mrs Parry Cake basket

Mr & Mrs John Morris Glass rose bowl

Mr &^ Mrs Wimbush Silver menu holders

Mr & Mrs Haslehurst Cruets (salt)

Mr & Mrs George Belshaw Two pictures

Dr Leigh Canney Japanese panel

Mr & Mrs Neale Turner Pewter and enamel inkstand

Stanley Neale Turner Silver pepperpots

Margaret Butter knife and jam spoon

Mr Pixley Silver flask

Mr Maine Grape scissors

Mr & Mrs Flynn Silver vase

Miss Kate Berry Drawn thread cloth

Mr & Mrs Birch Silver salt cellars

Mother’s meeting Silver spoons

Dr & Mrs Tom Godfrey Antique silver sifter

Gladys Embroidered cushion

Misses Stair Dinner service

Mr Waring Silver mounted claret jug

Mr & Mrs Pitcher Two pairs nut crackers

Mr & Mrs Morgan Two gravy boats

Mr Douglas Morrison A pipe

Mr Valentine Andrew Salad bowl and servers

Mr & Mrs Ellis Young Lamp

Mrs Jay Scent bottle

Mr & Mrs Humphreys Pair of silver vases

Mr McAdam Picture

Miss Eva Stair Coffee machine

Mrs Milner Jutsem Two pepper pots

Mr James White Case of ivory hairbrushes

Mr & Mrs Oliver Fruit dish

Rev & Mrs Mayall Silver butter dish and knife

Mr & Miss Palmer Afternoon tea cloth

Mr & Mrs J Rothbarth Silver cake basket

Miss Rothbarth Silver-topped jam jar

Miss Theo Cade Picture of herself

Mr Bobbie Cade Picture of himself

Mr Walter Andrew Silver-mounted claret jug

Mr & Mrs Layton Silver muffin dish

Mrs Andrew Rose bowl

Mr & Mrs Chivers Fruit dish

Nurse Jam jar

Mrs Burn Pewter coffee set

Penrose Fitzgerald Silver pencil

Vernon Stair Salad bowl and servers

Mrs Clayton Silver salts (4)

Dr & Mrs Bainbridge Butter dish knife

Mrs John White Tea service (china)

Miss Elsie White Tray cloth

Mother Pearl pendant

Bride Pearl tie pin

Bridegroom Diamond and sapphire bracelet


1908

JULY

30th Waltz Dream

Valli, Valli, charming and graceful, my first ‘married’ theatre!  Tickets for the stalls given us by Mrs Heathcote.

Lady Frederick

Ethel Irving – forget the date.  Perfectly splendid.  Tickets for the stalls given us by Mr Douglas, who came with us.


SEPTEMBER

2nd Arthur, Gertrude and I saw Maud Allen, Simply wonderful.  Lost my comb, but found it next day.

10th Evelina

“Remember, my dear Evelina, nothing is so delicate as the reputation of a woman: it is, at once, the most beautiful and most brittle of all human things.”

Frances Burney, in a letter

14th Fraulein Schmidt and Mr Anstruther

“All is clean for ever and ever.  Everything is natural and everything is clean, except for the person who is afraid it is not.”

Goethe

Then one evening I heard lovely sounds, lovely, floating, mellow sounds coming up in floods through the orchard into my garden, where I was propped against a tree trunk, watching a huge yellow moon disentangling itself slowly from the mists of Jena.  Oh, but exquisite sounds, sounds that throbbed into your sould and told it all it wanted to hear, showed it the way to all it was looking for, talked to it wonderfully of the possibilities of life.

First they drew me onto my feet, then they drew me down the garden, then through the orchard, nearer and nearer, till at last I stood beneath the open window they were coming from, listening with all my ears.  Against the wall I leaned, holding my breath, spell-cound, forced to ponder great themes, themes of life and death, the music falling like drops of liquid light in dark and thirsty places.

_____

The house feels very odd tonight.  So do I!  It feels haunted.  So do I.  I want to scold you, and yet I cannot.  I have the strangest desire to cry.

______

Saturday afternoon, 188 Clarence Gate Gardens

26th My boy has gone from us for usual game of golf.  It is a glorious afternoon, the brown and yellow leaves are just beginning to drop off the trees, how beautiful it will be on the links.  I believe Jock guessed a wee bit today how I felt, an unusual thing for him to do because he asked me if I would like him to stay with me.  Of course I said no, certainly not.  Still, I think even then he did not quite believe me.  He went out to the lift but came back saying ‘no, I won’t go today.  I’ll stop with you and we’ll go for a walk in Regent’s Park!’ 

Poor old boy, did he think I would really take him at his word?  I rung the lift up myself and so now he has gone; heavens, how I wish I were a man who could play a really good game of golf.  I dare not stop to think, or I know I shall cry, when I think of all the spirits of fine Saturday afternoons that mock at me with golf clubs in their hands.  How glorious to go off for a whole Saturday afternoon with my boy, I hardly know what it would be like, I think I could make it happy for him too.  Once, when we were engaged, we went off for a whole day by ourselves.  We went to Godalming – looking for a house for Mother.  It was one of the happiest days of my life. 

I really am not jealous of his favourite game, but I always feel so lonesome when I realise each week how, to thoroughly enjoy himself, he must be miles away from me.  Of course, on our honeymoon we were together alone, except when he was rummaging in curiosity shops, but those days, heavenly as they were, have not the same feel as the one afternoon in the week.

Tomorrow we are to spend in town.  It will be the first Sunday we have done so, so I have thought of lots of lovely things we can do but, just now, at lunch, Jock said that one of Waring’s men wanted to show him a photograph of a chair, so I am sure he will go and look at it.  He said he would only be gone an hour, I know now what that means, therefore I shall walk with him to the house of the man and wait outside, he couldn’t possibly be so long then.  It is rather housemaid-ish is it not!  But I don’t see how it can be helped.  I really envy those shop men and things that go off on Saturday afternoons with their best girls, on their bicycles.  Lucky girls, to look forward to the end of the week.  I will not cry, it is too weak.  Will he always go from me I wonder?  Or will he, when we have a boy, stay with me sometimes.  Every other week.  Anyhow, I will not think of these dreadful, awful Saturday afternoons.


OCTOBER

3rd  My birthday; the twenty-fourth of my life.  In the morning, Arthur gave me a lovely purple dressing case; Mother a sweet pale grey purse bag, which I chose the evening before at Vickery’s with her.  Gladys gave me a pair of grey suede gloves to match my costume; the girls, a love of an ‘early tea set in deep blue; Mrs Stair, a white, china hot water jug; Vernon, two volumes of Sense and Sensibility.  Maud and I looked over flats in Hampstead in the morning.  After lunch, Maud went home and Jock and I went to the Victoria & Albert Museum.  It was ripping.  We came back to dinner, and then went and saw Marie Tempest in ‘Mrs Dot’.  One of the nicest plays I have seen.  This was the loveliest Saturday I have had since my honeymoon, I had Jock all to myself, he even gave up golf for the whole afternoon – and he enjoyed himself, I know he did.

I forgot to say, Margaret gave me a lovely bunch of lilies of the valley and roses, wasn’t it sweet of her?

Extract from ‘The Wingless Victory’

In that second, she hated him with the petty, pin-point hatred that is half-contempt.  She remembered only the tiny mannerisms that jar in closest intimacy – how he gulped his food, how he shuffled his feet, how he scraped the spoon on his plate.

____

One of the most frequent of the many wonderful statements made about woman by man is that she is the inarticulate portion of the race.  He usually proves his point by reference to the epic, the opera, and the creative arts in general, forgetting in his haste the greatest creative art of all, of which the others are but shadows, the great creative art of motherhood.


1909

APRIL

24th Arthur sailed for New York on March 6th.  He was to be home in three weeks time – at the most in four weeks.  He is not back yet.  I went, on the 10th of March, to Devon for five weeks.  This morning I had a note, from Val Andrew, saying SJW has promised to sail next Friday, the 29th.  His promise means absolutely nothing. He has been promising to go on the next boat for the last four weeks.  Arthur cannot be home for another four weeks at the least.  Will he be in time, I wonder?  I feel in my most inward part, my heart, I suppose, that if he is not in time I shall not be able to keep alive.

Mrs Stair came yesterday and rammed, with all the force of her powerful tongue, the fact down my throat that everyone knows my secret and mine no longer as I had to tell her.  She says herself she tells everyone who asks, and I begged her not to.


MAY

7th  Arthur comes home next week, the end of it.  I had a wire from Val Andrew last Wednesday night saying he had cabled for him to come home!!!

17th Arthur came home yesterday.  He arrived about 3.pm.  Mother and Gladys went to meet him at Euston.  He walked – or ran? – from the station, because he could not wait for a cab.  We had lunch – we two – Gertrude went up to The Chestnuts with Mother and Gladys.  After lunch we went upstairs to unpack.  Arthur had brought me six shirt waists and four pairs of lovely stockings – also a back scratcher.  We forgot about tea till 7pm, when it was time to get ready to go to No 1 for supper.  He brought me three books too, two by Browning and one Oscar Wilde.


JUNE

7th Why will people sort of take for granted that a girl with a pale face must wear pink and one with a lot of colour in her cheeks must wear blue or green?  It is silly.  If a pale faced girl wears a pink frock, the wee bit of colour that she has in her face is quite drowned, poor thing – whereas blue would bring into relief a very small amount of face colour.  Also, if a very pink girl wears blue, the contrast is so great that it almost knocks you down whereas if she were to wear a pale pink it would take off from the colour in her face and instead of a hard contrast, she would have that lovely pink glow all over her like a pink sweet pea.  Besides, very pink girls almost always have a bluish tinge in their face which is aggravated by wearing blue.


1910

JANUARY

3rd English things last forever – English peace, English power, English fidelity.  It is a country of much serenity, of order, of stable affection. 


FEBRUARY

24th This morning I heard that Aure is dead!  It is awful to me to know that I shall never have my dear, obedient, dog again.  On Sunday, Arthur and I left her at the vet – and a man held her in his arms; that was my last sight of her alive.  The poor little thing, they say, must have had an internal blood vessel burst during the night.  I saw her dead this morning.  So thin, her eyes half open.  She must have wanted me, when she died.  I wish I had never let her go there.  Poor little dog, to die all alone.  I thought they could do her more good if they had her with them.  Mother gave her to me on my 20th birthday – she was only three months old then.  What evil spirit ever induced me to let her go?  I know she wanted me.  She always loved me more than anyone else, and I loved her so much.


1915

FEBRUARY

5th Jim returns to the War tomorrow.  He came home for leave last Sunday – how quickly the time has gone, how awful the return to all the horrors and terrors.


APRIL

19th  From Jim’s letter, written at the Front, after the battle of Neuve Chapelle, where his regiment had seven officers killed, one died of wounds and seven wounded.  The Colonel, Young and Jim are among the only officers left.  It all took place within a quarter of an hour!!  Jim is in command of B company, which came out with six officers and 240 NCOs and men – they stand now: 1 officer (Jim) and 143 other ranks – and that in spite of the fact that they were almost up to strength on the fatal morning. 

‘However, what does it matter, our regiment has been wiped out before this war – it will rise, Phoenix like, afterwards, with extra honours on its colours.  We are only pawns.  I am afraid this letter is not a happy one but please excuse me.  Remember, I lost many of my best friends and saw my regiment almost knocked out.  Life is bound to appear grey after that.’

At the end, he puts

‘What if the best of our wages be an empty sleeve, or a stiff set knee

A crutch for the rest of life, who cares

So long as the old flag flies and dares.’

How proud Father must feel of Jim.


JUNE

21st Jim came home on seven days leave.  He arrived at Bay Tree Cottage at 6pm.  We did not expect him till the next day.

28th Mother, Gladys, Theo and I went up to town with Jim in Eaton’s car.  We sat in the courtyard of Buckingham Palace while Jim went in to receive the Military Cross from the King!!!  Had lunch at the Regent Palace Hotel and saw dear old Jim off from Victoria by the 2o’clock train.  He was so funny at the station.  When we kept asking him what the various badges were, he turned to Arthur and said ‘It is like having them all at the zoo, isn’t it?’  Jim was mentioned in dispatches also while he was on leave.


OCTOBER

8th Jim and Reggie arrived at Victoria about 2am, Leicester met them.  Ada and I went to Bay Tree Cottage directly after breakfast. 

9th   We spent that day at Bay Tree Cottage

10th Mrs Young and Reggie came to lunch.  We all went to Bay Tree Cottage for tea and supper.  Val Paton came to Bay Tree Cottage and returned with us to spend the night

11th Mother, Mrs Young, Evelina, Gladys, Ada, Leicester, Jim, Reggie and I dined at the Trocadero and then went to see ‘The Man who stayed at Home’.

12th The dance here.  The boys were in mess kit.

13th Lunch at Bay Tree Cottage, Ada, Gladys, Reggie and I went to ‘Push and Go’ and then had tea at the Piccadilly and taxied all the way back to Bay Tree Cottage for dinner.  After dinner, the Zeppelins came (Strand theatre time) and we went out to see what we could.  Reggie and I watched the shells burst from the Mall.  Jim and Reggie walked home with Ada. 

14th Lunch at Bay Tree Cottage.  Jim and Leicester went first to town – then I – to buy Jim a pipe and Reggie a stick.  Met Jim and Leicester at the Criterion; went shopping with Jim, and then to Victoria.  The car with Mother, Mrs Young, Gladys, Ada and Reggie arrived – Theo was almost late.  Jim gave us four girls a box each of Fuller’s chocolates.  Reggie loved the stick I gave him – it’s like the one I gave Jim.  They went off, smiling and cheery.  It is a great thing to have them for brother and friend.  Something to be very proud of.  God bless them.


DIARY 1914

January

At the start of the year, Ethel, Arthur and the two children –Elizabeth and Alastair – live in a rented house: Holmwood, The Mall, Old Southgate

W 14 May’s day out.  Ordered a skirt from Shoolbred’s yesterday.

T 15 Elizabeth goes to ‘Peter Pan’ with Mrs Stair.

F 16 The dentist, Mr Shelton, at 2 o’clock

S 17 I go to the theatre with Maud, a matinee performance.

S 24 Jim goes to Malta

W 28 Dentist 2 o’clock

S 31 Gladys comes to play with Alastair.  Arthur and I go to a fancy dress ball.


February

M 2 Dentist, 2.15pm and then back to Bay Tree Cottage for tea.

W 4 We go to Saltwood till Sunday

W 11 4.30pm to see Mr Shelton

T 17 To Mr Shelton

W 18 May out for the day

T 24 Go to town to shop – a book from The Times Bookshop, a green coat for Elizabeth, some pink crepe de chine, and other small things.

T 26 May’s evening out.  Arthur and I dine at the Trocadero and then go and see ‘The Attack’

F 27 Arthur and Elizabeth are at Saltwood till Monday

S 28 Lilian Bevan’s birthday


March

M 2 Elizabeth and Arthur return.  Mr Stair dies half an hour after Arthur and Elizabeth leave The Croft.

T 3 I go to town to order wreaths, change Elizabeth’s coat, buy shoes for Alastair and a black blouse for me.  At 4.30pm, Miss Gosling comes to tea.  Val Andrew dines here.

W 4 May’s evening out.

T 5 Lunch, with Lilian Bevan, at Woolwich.

F 6 Lunch with Lois Moffatt

T 10 Nell’s birthday.  Mr and Mrs Hawes dine here.

W 11 May’s day out

F 13 Lunch with Lois

M 16 Alastair’s 1st birthday.  We go to Westgate.

F 27 A bazaar at Wood Green – Mother is to open it

T 31 Bobs birthday – he is fifteen!  Lois to lunch etc.


April

W 1 Go to St Albans

T 2 Go to Enfield and see Red Roofs

F 3 Have my hair shampooed, and then meet Lilian Bevan.  Go and see Mr Shelton about a plate.

S 4 Go to Richmond to see the international lacrosse.

M 6 Take Elizabeth to see Grandpa

T 7 Take Elizabeth to Charing Cross to meet Eva at 1o’clock to go to Saltwood, and then I go on to meet Lilian Bevan for lunch. 

W 8 Arthur and I dine at 60 Harley House at 7.30pm

T 9 Arthur and I go to Saltwood

M 13 We all go to the point to point races at Smeeth.

T 13 Arthur and I return to town.

T 16 Go to Bay Tree Cottage, at 10am, so that Gertrude can ring me up there.  I then go on to Hampstead to look for a house.

F 17 Go to Great Missenden

S 25 Arthur’s birthday – he is thirty-four years old!

S 26 Gladys is engaged to Fritz!

W 29 Kathleen Cairn’s reception.  May goes for a week’s holiday.  Call on Mrs Green.

T 30 A whist drive at the Village Hall


May

M 4 Father died this day in 1903, three weeks before Theo was born.

T 5 Buy a new bed for Elizabeth

W 6 May comes back.

S 10 Lil and George Bevan at Bay Tree Cottage.

M 11 Elizabeth’s bed arrives

T 13 Gladys and I go to see the King of Denmark from Fritz’s office

W 13 May goes out for the evening

T 14 Go to Mary Hay’s wedding

F 15 Go to Esher

S 16 A tennis party at Hollywood.  Grace Owen comes.

M 18 Arthur goes to Sandwich – via Saltwood, so he can see Mrs Stair

T 19 Have my hair shampooed.  Dine at Bay Tree Cottage – Auntie Grace and Will there.

W 20 May and Grace go out.

T 21 Go to White City, to the Anglo American meeting, with Mary Hanson

S 23 Go to Knotty Green till Sunday to stay with the Pinchards

T 26 Theo’s birthday, she is eleven years old.  Arthur and I go to see ‘An Ideal Husband’.

W 27 May’s evening out

T 28 Elizabeth goes to Saltwood

F 29 Mr Willis comes to dine – and also Kate, too.


June

M 1 Go to Hollywood

M 8 Kate goes to Margate

T 11 Fritz and Gladys dine here

S 13 Mrs Stair and Eva come

T 18 Evelina Hawes, and co, come to dinner.

S 20 Go to Nazing for the weekend

M 22 Write to Elizabeth

T 23 Elizabeth’s birthday, she is five years old today.

T 25 Lois and Douglas Moffatt come to dinner.  Write to Jim for his birthday.

F 26 Go to Mr Shelton


July

F 3 Jim’s birthday.  Elizabeth has her birthday party today.

M 6 Dentist at 3pm.  Kitty comes home

T 7 May goes for a week and a day.

T 9 Married six years ago today

T 14 Arthur and I go to the Templar’s concert.

W 15 May comes back

T 16 A fete at Southgate House.

M 20 Lunch with Arthur and Mont, and then go to the dentist at 4.30pm

S 25 I go to Hurlingham with Joan in the morning and, in the evening, Arthur and I go to White City.  The children both go to Westgate to stay.

W 29 Auntie Grace and Uncle Will come to Bay Tree Cottage for the day.


August

T 4 WAR!!!!!!

F 7 Go for our holidays.  Jim starts for home.  No, because War has been declared, all is off.

S 8 Go and see Lil

M 10 Go to Westgate

F 14 Go to Margate with Kate and Mont

There is then a time when the only pages written are full of shopping lists.  I believe they are interesting and shows what people bought then – and how they had to buy food almost every day.  The shopping, I presume, was done while she was at Westgate, as there is no mention of her returning to town.

W 19 Loaf sugar, cheese biscuits, strawberry jam, ale, stout, broad beans, blackberries, apples, cake, veal and ham pie, blancmange powder.

T 20 Haddock, melon, onions, potatoes, castor sugar, cheese tarts, candles, white loaf stuff, Goddard’s

F 21 A joint, fish, raspberries and red currants, bacon, mushrooms, mustard, china tea and salad.

S 22 Ale, fish, kippers, potatoes, biscuits, veal, vegetables, fruit, melon, sponge cakes, sardines, jelly, corner of gammon, flour and soda.

M 24 Loaf and demerara sugar, jam, marmalade, onions, cutlets, flour, veal and ham pie, and fruit.

T 25 White socks, Arthur’s stockings, paper and envelopes, war map, face powder.

W 26 Cooking eggs, lemon cheese, cheese, steak, fruit and dessert, salmon

T 27 Joint, vegetables, potatoes, onions, carrots, vinegar, eggs and a comb

T 28 Wood, coffee, carrots, onions, potatoes, blackberries, apples, kippers


September

M 28 Move to Linden Lodge, Winchmore Hill


October

S 3 My birthday – I am thirty!!!!  Jim and Leicester come to see me.

M 5 Grandpa’s birthday

W 7 Gladys’ birthday

S 17 Marie comes

F 23 Fritz’s birthday

F 30 See Hanfield Jones


November

T 3 Wash the spare room furniture, and ask Arthur if he can find a mirror to go in there.  Put up pictures in our room, and ask Arthur for a cushion to go in there.  Do Elizabeth’s frock – hang the pictures in the night nursery – put a bow on Alastair’s cot!  I ask Arthur if he can find a fender for the spare room grate.

M 9 We hear that Jim went to the front on Wednesday, 4th.

Nothing more is written in this diary, just empty pages.


DIARY 1916

January

M 10 The boys come home on leave.

F 14 I have tea at North Villas,

S 16 The boys go back to the Red Lion – on Jim’s Indian motorcycle.

M 17 The boys go back on the 1.30pm train from Victoria


February

M 7 Go to see Mr Shelton, the dentist at 1.45pm

T 8 Auntie Adeline’s birthday

W 9 Reggie’s birthday.  I go to Scunthorpe for the night

T 10 17 Park Lane but before, at 1.45pm, I go to the dentist.  Mrs Stair comes to stay.

M 14 The dentist again – 2.15pm

W 16 Park Lane

T 17 Park Lane

M 21 Mr Shelton at 2.15pm


March

S 4 8 years!!  Gertrude and Maud come

M 6 Nurse out.  Dentist at 2.15pm

W 8 Lunch at Bay Tree Cottage and then to Park Lane

T 9 Send Nell’s present off.   Go to Park Lane in the afternoon, and then Arthur and I go to the theatre.

F 10 Nell Mackenzie’s birthday

S 11 We go to the theatre with Gertrude and Maud

M 13 Dentist at 2.15pm

T 16 Alastair’s birthday


April

S 15 Margaret died

M 17 Go shopping and buy coat stuff for Elizabeth and Alastair, and roses for Margaret’s funeral.

T 25 Arthur’s birthday

S 29 Reggie came home on leave


May

M 1 Hugh came home on leave

W 3 Reggie came up to Linden Lodge with me to see Arthur

M 4 Reggie and Mrs Young lunch here, and then I go to have tea at the Savoy with Arthur and we go to the cinema.

F 5 Lil and Mrs Gregory dined here.

S 6 Baby ‘Wood’ came home on leave.  Bobs walked home with me from Bay Tree Cottage

S 7 Reggie returns to France

M 8 Hugh returns to France

M 26 Theo’s birthday.  Jim came home on leave

S 27 We go to a party at the Trocadero in town

M 29 Lunch in town with Arthur

W 31 Arthur goes to New York – he catches the 10.30am train from Euston, and sails in the ‘Finland’, an American ship.


June

T 6 We all went to Westgate to stay for about three weeks.  We heard today that Kitchener had drowned.

F 23 Elizabeth’s birthday


July

S 1 Return from Westgate.  We heard Reggie had been wounded.

J 2 Arthur returns from New York – arrives at Euston at 4 o’clock, and comes home in one of Eaton’s cars.

M 3 Jim’s birthday.  I take Elizabeth to have her hair cut.

W 5 Arthur is on RC (Reserve Commissioned Officer) duty all night

T 6 Heard from Mr and Mrs Young about Reggie and I received a card from him that night.

S 9 Eight years since we were married!

F 14 Tea at Woodside.


August

M 7 Mrs Stair’s birthday


October

T 3 My birthday

T 5 Grandpa’s birthday

M 23 Hugh’s birthday

Nothing more is written in this diary but it is very small indeed so it is remarkable that it has survived at all!


DIARY 1917

January

M 1 Nothing written today

T 2 Dine with Sir Alfred Figgis at 19 Portland Place.  A car is coming for us at 6.10pm.

W 3 Nothing written today

T 4 I go to town to change my blouse at Debenham & Freebody.  Arthur goes to Ross.  Miss Berkeley was out today.

F 5 Nothing written today

S 6 Let Miss Britton know I cannot go to 17 Park Lane on Monday

S 7 Write to Jim, Miss Beutelle, Auntie Adeline, May and Mrs Stair

M 8 Mother takes me and the children to ‘Where the Rainbow Ends’ – Arthur supplies a car for us all.

T 9 The oak dresser is to come, and also George to polish the oak furniture here.

W 10 Nurse is out for the day.

T 11 17 Park Lane. Then I go to Wallington to stay with Auntie Adeline

F 12 Return from Wallington – a bus from Croydon to Oxford Circus and then on.  Hear of Mr Cooper’s death.  Miss Berkeley is out.  When I get home, the children are in the bathroom with Nurse and Elizabeth says ‘it seems as if you have been away a month, Mummy’.

S 13 Arthur sleeps at the YMCA, as he is on duty.

S 14 We, Arthur and I, go to Bay Tree Cottage for tea and supper.  There is an almost tame vixen in the garden.

M 15 Nothing written today

T 16 Arthur brought home a lovely chandelier.  Mrs Young comes to tea.

W 17 Nurse goes to the hospital; Arthur is on RC duty.

T 18 17 Park Lane. I go to town to do some shopping – get cretonne for May and then on to Shoolbreds to buy some things for the house.

F 19 Go to Sainsbury’s, and the on to see Kitty.  I hear an explosion at the gunpowder factory – near Palmers Green – heard it quite distinctly.  Later I hear it was at Silvertown, and was very bad.

S 20 Gertrude returns from Stamford!

S 21 Do the pianola rolls at Bay Tree Cottage.  Jim came home today to stay for a month.

M 22 17 Park Lane.  The picture arrived from Stair & Andrew but there is still no coal.

T 23 Call at Bay Tree Cottage, and then go to the gas shop at Palmers Green about out little stove.

W 24 Go to Bay Tree Cottage for the evening – Jim was there.

T 25 17 Park Lane.  Nurse goes to the policemen’s concert.

F 26 Go to Bay Tree Cottage after dinner.  Miss Berkeley is out today.

S 27 Go to Bay Tree Cottage – Arthur comes with me, and Mont is already there.

S 28 Mrs Stair comes to tea and then we go to Bay Tree Cottage to supper – Eva is there to dinner, too.

M 29 17 Park Lane.  Go to the Ritz to get a baby angel and on to Evans re the cretonne and to John Lewis for baize.

W 31 Miss Berkeley goes to 17 Park Lane for me re Mrs Britton.  I tell Eaton’s car to call at Number 25 for the screen, the chair and a wastepaper basket.  Nurse goes out for the day


February

T 1 Dinner with the Maines – Jim and Gladys to be there, too.

F 2 Mother, Gladys, Jim, Kitty, Mont and Mr Potter dine here.  I wash Fuzzy.

S 3 Go to tea with Kitty

S 4 Bay Tree Cottage to tea and supper.

M 5 17 Park Lane

T 6 South Lodge re skating – Kitty came with Mr Potter, but she says she cannot find Arthur’s gloves.

W 7 Nurse is out for the day and Arthur is at RC.

T 8 17 Park Lane.  Auntie Adeline’s birthday.  There is thick snow today – we went tobogganing with the Tuckers, Mont and Bobs – got there in the Tuckers car!!

F 9 Reggie’s birthday, twenty four years old.  Miss Berkeley out.

S 10 Arthur sleeps at the YMCA

S 11 Bay Tree Cottage for tea and supper

M 12 I go to town to do some shopping – Maples, Shoolbreds etc.

T 13 Mother, Jim, Arthur and I have lunch at Simpson’s in the Strand.

W 14 The screen, chair and picture etc come

T 15 17 Park Lane

F 16 Want to go and shoot with Jim, and I can’t as I have neuralgia – there is a hard frost today, dash it.

S 17 Jim goes to Buckingham Palace to be decorated by the King – a Bar to his MC.  I go to Bay Tree Cottage for tea and supper – Jim reads to me after tea from a ‘Rhymes of a Red Cross Man’ a book by Robert Service.

S 18 Bay Tree Cottage

M 19 I go to town to shop – and to meet Jim at Number 25 Soho Square at 12.45pm – and we have lunch together at the Rendezvous.  Came home to Bay Tree Cottage with Jim – but first a taxi to The Times, where I bought all four books by Robert Service.  Kitty and Mont came in to Bay Tree Cottage for tea.

T 20 Jim returns to France at 4pm from Waterloo.  ‘Oh! Tiber, Father Tiber, to whom the Romans cry!’

W 21 Nurse out in the evening

T 22 Go to 17 Park Lane and then I do some shopping.

T 27 Take Elizabeth to have her hair cut and then I meet Gertrude at 12.45pm at Number 25

W 28 Go to 17 Park Lane


March

T 1 Do Mother’s desk.  Welsh flag day today.

F 2 Nothing written today

S 3 Gertrude comes

S 4 Nothing written today

M 5 Nothing written today

T 6 Nothing written today

W 7 I go to see the dentist, Mr Shelton, and then on to 17 Park Lane.

T 8 Nothing written today

F 9 Go to Bay Tree Cottage.  A cat with a bell on followed me home – a black one.

S 10 Joan comes for the weekend

S 11 Nothing written today

M 12 Nothing written today

T 13 Nothing written today

W 14 Go to Mr Shelton at 12o’clock, and then do some shopping.

T 15 Nothing written today

F 16 Alastair’s birthday.  Kitty and Jimmy come to tea.

S 17 Nothing written today

S 18 Go to Bay Tree Cottage

M 19 To the dentist at 2 0’clock and then shopping in Shoolbreds

T 20 Nothing written today

W 21 Nothing written today

T 22 Nothing written today

F 23 Nothing written today

S 24 Nothing written today

S 25 Nothing written today

M 26 Nothing written today

T 27 Nothing written today

W 28 Nothing written today

T 29 Nothing written today

F 30 Go to town to try to find a letter case for Bobs’ birthday tomorrow.

S 31 Bobs’ birthday – there is snow and darkness all round.


April

S 1 There is thick snow and fog everywhere.  The gas man comes at 10.30am

M 2 Thick snow on the ground – and I feel ill all day.

T 3 Even thicker snow.

W 4 17 Park Lane – and then to the dentist.

T 5 Nothing written today

F 6 Gertrude, Lilian and Mrs Pelham come to lunch and tea.

S 7 Gertrude and I go and flat hunt.   Saw ‘Wonderful James’ at night, rotten thing.  Gertrude came back for the weekend.

S 8 Got to Bay Tree Cottage – George and Lil there

M 9 Thunder and lightening – and snow!!  Alastair was dear to me at lunch time – ‘Why are you looking at me like that, Mummie?’  ‘How, darling?’  ‘With a sad icicle face, Mummie.’

T 10 Snow!

W 11 17 Park Lane at 3pm, and then on to 22 St James’ Street re Mesopotamia Day.  Still there is snow.

T 12 Call at St James’ Street re Joan of Arc day.

F 13 Mesopotamia Day.  I have a city depot, 7 Falcon Square, Aldersgate, and arrive there at 8am.  Arthur and I dine with Mr and Mrs Baker

S 14 Miss Isaacs comes for a week and the children go to Dorothy and Vernon for the weekend.

S 15 Nothing written today

M 16 17 Park Lane and then shopping at Shoolbreds.

T 17 The dentist at 2 o’clock, and then go to a concert at the Ritz – where I meet Victor Howard and bring him back to dinner.

W 18 Nothing written today

T 19 Miss Berkeley returns

F 20 In bed all day – dash it!

S 21 Nothing written today

S 22 Nothing written today

M 23 Go to the dentist at 11, and meet Mrs Brewer at St James’ Street at 12 o’clock.  After, I buy a map of the Front and then go to Maples to get some material for dining room curtains, and also to Shoolbreds to buy Arthur’s present.  I arranged, this morning, for the spare room and dressing room to be spring cleaned and the curtains there, too – and my room to be washed.

T 24 Spring clean my bedroom.

W 25 Arthur’s birthday.  I meet Lady Rees in town between 12 and 1 o’clock

T 26 Spring clean the bathroom etc

F 27 Spring clean stairs and landings – all paint to be washed!  Mrs Young comes to tea.

S 28 Spring clean both the day and night nursery.

S 29 The cuckoo!!!  The first this year.  Last year I heard it first on Arthur’s birthday so it is later this year.  The wind is blowing from the south – I can hear Southgate church bells!  There is a baby lamb in the field, quite near.

M 30 Dentist at 12 o’clock, 17 Park Lane at 3am.  Go to the Corner House in Coventry Street re May 8th.


May

T 1 Lifeboat Day.  I am near Kensington Town Hall.  Dine, with Arthur, at d’Italia.

W 2 Lunch with Ada at Harrods, and then go on to 17 Park Lane, before shopping at Shoolbreds.  Met Kitty, Jimmy and Mr and Mrs Potter

T 3 Spring clean the rest of the stairs and landing etc.

F 4 Fourteen years since Father died.  There was a wonderful moon tonight.  Arthur and I walked to see the Armstrongs – the doctor was out but we saw masses of daffodils in their garden!

S 5 Meet Kitty at Palmers Green at 1.15pm – she tells me that her maid ‘bolted’ on Monday!!  Write to Will Daw.

S 6 Nothing written today

M 7 Take the children to Harrods to see the toys, and then to Shoolbreds for boots, shoes, hats, gloves and socks.  Phone Miss Jenkins

T 8 Joan of Arc Day – I am at the Corner House in Coventry Street.  I see Miss Baker and we go to tea with Hilda at 37 Clarence Gate Gardens

W 9 Miss Berkeley out.  I go to Bay Tree Cottage, and then on to 17 Park Lane

T 10 Nothing written today

F 11 The dentist at 11.45am, and then I go on to buy presents for Donald Mackenzie, Mrs Maine and Theo and also to send flowers or fruit to Hilda.

S 12 Fourteen years today since Mrs Childe came and told us Father had died.  Bobs had brought in a spray of white May that day – such an unlucky thing to have in the house.

S 13 Nothing written today

M 14 Donald Mackenzie’s birthday

T 15 Nurse goes home for a fortnight.

W 16 Nothing written today

T 17 Arthur takes Alastair to Saltwood for a long weekend

W 18 Nothing written today

T 19 Nothing written today

F 20 Nothing written today

S 21 Nothing written today

S 22 Nothing written today

M 23 Nothing written today

T 24 The gramophone arrives today!!!!

F 25 Nothing written today

S 26 Theo’s fourteenth birthday

S 27 Parish Church supper at The Hut.

M 28 Nothing written today

T 29 Nothing written today

W 30 Nothing written today

T 31 Nothing written today


June

F 1 Nothing written today

S 2 Reggie’s wedding day

S 3 Nothing written today

M 4 Nothing written today

T 5 Nothing written today

W 6 Nothing written today

T 7 Nothing written today

F 8 Nothing written today

S 9 Nothing written today

S 10 Nothing written today

M 11 Nothing written today

T 12 Nothing written today

W 13 Nothing written today

T 14 Things Elizabeth wants on her birthday: an exercise book, a bookshelf, a Hilda Cookham doll, a tennis ball, paint box and brushes and a picture postcard album.

F 15 Nothing written today

S 16 Nothing written today

S 17 Nothing written today

M 18 Nothing written today

T 19 Nothing written today

W 20 Nothing written today

T 21 Nothing written today

F 22 Lunch at Bay Tree Cottage – Aunt Polly there, as well as Margaret’s two boys.  Nurse Griffin comes to tea.

S 23 Elizabeth’s eighth birthday.  Elizabeth, Alastair and I go to the zoo, with Gertrude and the two Bostock boys, Miss Daw and her niece, Violet as well as Miss Berkeley and, after seeing the animals, we have a party there.

S 24 We were at tea at Bay Tree Cottage when who should walk in but Jim!!!!!  Home till the 4th July.  Arthur is at tea with the Maines – Mont is threatened with consumption! A spot on his lung, they say.   Jim looks fine – he has just had three days in Paris.

M  25 To Bay Tree Cottage in the evening

T 26 Jim came on his red Indian motorcycle.  Lil came to tea and I went to see Mont.

W 27 17 Park Lane and then do some shopping at Shoolbreds

T 28 Bay Tree Cottage with the children to tea – Auntie Adeline there, and also Leicester.  Stay there to dinner – Arthur comes in afterwards.

F 29 Rain all day

S 30 Nothing written today


July

S 1 May’s birthday – and I forgot it!

M 2 Nothing written today

T 3 Jim’s twenty-sixth birthday.  He came to say goodbye to the children – Arthur and I dined there and I had a long talk to Jim in the garden

W 4 Jim goes back to France on the 7.50am train – he takes the kitten, ‘Blighty’ with him – he has a Pullman car, on the right hand side with a window, but it opens only a wee bit at the top.  Jim has his back to the engine and puts his kit on the rack high up.  Blighty is on the floor.

T 5 Nothing written today

F 6 Nothing written today

S 7 An air raid – saw the squadron of aircraft from the bathroom window

S 8 Val Paton to tea and supper

M 9 Nine years today since we were married.  I go to town shopping at Shoolbreds and met Mother, who gave me a blouse.  We have lunch with Arthur at the Rendezvous, and then go to the V&A Museum.  Arthur and I have dinner at the Berkeley and then go to see ‘Zig Zag’!  Some Day!!!!!!

T 10 Arthur plays golf

W 11 17 Park Lane and then on to Wallington for the night.

T 12 Nothing written today

F 13 Nothing written today

S 14 Nothing written today

S 15 Nothing written today

M 16 Miss Berkeley takes the children to tea at Bay Tree Cottage.  Bobs goes to Arnos Grove to see if there is any fruit to be had.

T 17 The children and Nurse go to Saltwood, they leave Charing Cross at 3 o’clock.  Arthur and I go to Colville Gardens.

W 18 Meet Auntie Adeline at Victoria Station at 3 o’clock, and we have lunch at Selfridges and then go on to Shoolbreds to shop.

T 19 I make jam at Linden Lodge.

F 20 Nothing written today

S 21 I have lunch with Auntie Fanny

S 22 We go to lunch at Bay Tree Cottage.

M 23 The dentist at 12 o’clock, and then on to 17 Park Lane.  I buy picture postcards for the children.

T 24 See Lil off at Waterloo at 12.30pm, for Swanage, to meet George and then I go back to Bay Tree Cottage

W 25 Nothing written today

T 26 Bob goes to Berkhamstead and I go to lunch at Bay Tree Cottage, and then on to tea with Mrs Brewer at Acton.

F 27 We get to Kingston at 9am, and then go on to lunch at Windsor and then to dinner and stay the night at the Red Lion in Henley.

S 28 We have lunch in Wallingford.  Between Henley and Shiplake, we look at a houseboat and then at The White Hart at Sonning as a possible place to stay for a long weekend.  There is no room at The Mitre so we dine and sleep at the East Gate Hotel, having looked round the town before we ate.

S 29 Nothing written today

M 30 Arthur goes to Birmingham, and I go to town and went to see ‘Where are my Children?.  Had lunch at Selfridges, and tea at Fullers.  It rained and rained and rained all day.’

T 31 To the dentist at 3 o’clock.  Rain, rain and more rain.


August

W 1 17 Park Lane.  Rain, rain, rain.

T 2 I went to town, and the children were due to go to see the dentist, Mr Shelton, at 3.45 but Nurse and the children came by train into town in the morning instead of the afternoon – and there was no-one there to meet them!!!  They came to Number 25, and I found them there!

F 3 Mother gave me a tip of £3.  I went to the Finsbury Park Empire with Mother and Gladys.

S 4 Nothing written today

S 5 Bay Tree Cottage to tea and supper.

M 6 Gertrude to lunch and tea.

T 7 Mrs Stair’s birthday.  Went to see things at the sale of the Countess of Ely – I marked a gramophone I would like.  I was ill in the night with a fever.

W 8 17 Park Lane in the afternoon, and then the dentist at 5.45pm, but as I am unwell, I stay in bed all day and Miss Berkeley goes to 17 Park Lane for me.  Gladys and Theo come in to tea.

T 9 I stay in bed all day.  We hear we have the gramaphone from the Countess of Ely’s auction

F 10 In bed till the evening, but I dress and come down to dinner.  The gramaphone came and, with it, some lovely records.

S 11 I come downstairs, but I still feel rotten.  Arthur is late home – Mr Paige comes in to give me a phone message from Arthur.  The children go to stay the night at Colville Gardens.

S 12 An air raid warning sounds at 7.30pm – the children have not yet come back home.  Arthur is to be late again – he has RC duty.

M 13 Go to Bay Tree Cottage for lunch and tea – Mrs Edwards is there with Agnes.

T 14 I stain Nurse’s floor, and then paint the garden seat while Nurse takes the children to Bay Tree Cottage to fetch Alastair’s hat, and my umbrella, as well as a book and a picture form Auntie Adeline.  In the afternoon, I take plums to Mother and also a tablecloth that she wants.

W 15 17 Park Lane and then meet May at Liverpool Street Station off the 6.30pm train from Felixstowe.

T 16 Mother, May, Theo and Mr Mann came up this morning to see us.

F 17 Dentist at 3 o’clock.

S 18 Nothing written today

S 19 Nothing written today

M 20 Auntie Adeline to lunch and to stay the night.

T 21 Bay Tree Cottage to tea with Auntie Adeline.  Mr and Mrs Paige come to dine with us – then the Paiges couldn’t come, so I invited Mrs Britton to come instead.

W 22 17 Park Lane and then shopping in Maples for a rug for the night nursery and then on to Bourne & Hollingworth for lace for the nighties I am making.

T 23 Nothing written today

F 24 Put another coat of paint on the garden seat and make some plum jam, bottle some greengages and wash the pink nursery rug.

S 25 Put an enamel top coat on the garden seat and then write to Jim, Hilda, Kitty and Gertrude. 

S 26 Bay Tree Cottage – Will was there, he tells us he has a Commission in the Royal Engineers.  Bobs is home for a time, too.  The Hares, Mrs Berry, Ada, May and Lilian are all there for tea!

M 27 Nothing written today

T 28 Lilian and Will dine here

W 29 17 Park Lane and then some shopping.

T 30 Bay Tree Cottage for tea.

F 31 Will’s birthday – he is thirty-four years old.  I go up to town to change the notecase I bought on Wednesday, and take back some records I got for the gramophone, and go on to Shoolbreds for some household shopping.


September

S 1 Will goes to Sandwich.

S 2 Nothing written today

M 3 Nothing written today

T 4 We picnic in the woods – but tea only.  A bad air raid went on for a long time, so we all went next door and into their cellar.

W 5 17 Park Lane and then Shoolbreds shopping.

T 6 Bay Tree Cottage to tea – there is a poor horse in the field, so we contact the Police Station to let them know.

F 7 Nothing written today

S 8 Nothing written today

S 9 We all go to Bay Tree Cottage for tea – Mr and Mrs Brewer were there – Ada whimpers!!

M 10 Nothing written today

T 11 Mr and Mrs Paige to dine here.

W 12 17 Park Lane.  Saw Captain Matthews there.

T 13 Gladys and Lil came to tea.  Mrs Paige sent in some lovely red apples from her garden.

F 14 Go and see how Mrs Britton is.

S 15 The piano has to go, dash it.  And May comes on Monday, too!

S 16 We go to Bay Tree Cottage to tea.

M 17 May and Billie come to stay.  Heard from Jim that, at long last, he has been given the DSO.  Winter time, dash it – had to light the gas at 6.30pm.  In bed till tea time – I have a cold.

T 18 In bed all day – a fiendish cold on my chest.

W 19 In bed till tea time.

T 20 I go to Bay Tree Cottage to tea with May.

F 21 Phone the grocery order to Shoolbreds.

S  22 Nothing written today

S 23 The children and I go to Bay Tree Cottage to tea.  Arthur is in bed all day with a cold.

M 24 A beastly air raid at night – it started just as we sat down to supper.

T 25 May and I walk to Enfield after lunch.  In the evening, the children give a performance, simply sweet.  Alastair is a Red Indian in the first scene and he attacks the Princess (Elizabeth), and he is slain by the Prince (Billie) and lies horribly still in a roll huddled heap for ever so long.  Another air raid, and Arthur is held up at King’s Cross by it.

W 26 17 Park Lane but, before that, I have lunch with Arthur and May and then go back to Bay Tree Cottage for tea.  Hugh comes home.

T 27 Left, at three hours notice, for the farm at Welwyn where Mr Gregory lived.  Arthur met and saw us off at King’s Cross – May and Billie, too.

F 28 Nothing written today

S 29 An air raid at night.

S 30 Arthur came for the day to the farm – there is a gorgeous moon and May and I walk part of the way back to Welwyn with him.  Another air raid tonight.


October

M 1 We go to Knebworth during the day.  An awful air raid, so bad we had to bring the children downstairs.

T 2 Nothing written today

W 3 My birthday!  We go to Alpha Cottage to see Mr Hewlitt.  Had a wire from Arthur – I order the turkeys for Christmas for Mother and for us – 20 and 18lbs.

T 4 Pouring rain today.  Don’t go out all day – Miss Berkeley and the children get caught in the rain in the afternoon.  Miss Claire goes into Welwyn.

F 5 May and I walk to Bells Farm and have some hot milk and rum at Codicote – a ten mile walk!!!

S 6 Hugh returned to France today.

S 7 Gladys’ birthday – I give her some silk stockings.

M 8 Go home – on the 4.25 train from Welwyn.

T 9 Go to Bay Tree Cottage in the morning.  Arthur phoned to Bay Tree Cottage to say that he had been to the War Office re Jim.  He heard that he was at 2nd General Hospital, Rouen.  At 9pm, when we are home, there is a phone message from Bay Tree Cottage to say that Jim is at Endsleigh Palace Hospital in London!!

W 10 17 Park Lane.  In the morning, go and see Jim – the old dear makes no fuss of the horrible holes in his arm and back.  Lots of roses in his room.

T 11 Miss Berkeley goes out to tea, and we go to Bay Tree Cottage, dear Doc is there as well.

F 12 Go to town with the children – we took some jam to Jim – Mother and Gladys were in the room with him, as well as Leicester and there was a girl waiting downstairs to see him as well as Mr Taggart and Mr Pennicuik – all in one afternoon!  Mother, Gladys and Mr Taggart come to dinner with us.

S 13 Lois comes to lunch

S 14 May and I go to Bay Tree Cottage to tea and supper and, on our way home, see a man lying in the road.  Bobs, at training camp, came up from Berkhamstead on Saturday for the weekend.

M 15 May and I shop in the Broadway.

T 16 Nothing written today

W 17 17 Park Lane.  I wire the farm that Miss Berkeley, Nurse and the children are to go down there for a week on Friday, 25th.

T 18 Arthur goes to Saltwood to stay for as long as he can.  I go to Bay Tree Cottage to tea – Jim rang up from hospital – downstairs for the first time.  Alastair was funny – he said we were having ‘dead duck’ for dinner! 

F 19 Nothing written today

S 20 Gertrude came to tea.

S 21 Bay Tree Cottage for tea

M 22 May goes to Fourth General London to see Captain Pead.

T 23 Hugh’s birthday.  The anniversary today of Jim’s Zenith Trench affair.

W 24 17 Park Lane, and then Shoolbred’s for general shopping.  Wire Arthur to let him know what train I am coming by on Friday.

T 25 May goes to Selfridges, and the children to Bay Tree Cottage.

F 26 Miss Berkeley, Nurse, May and all the children go to Welsh’s farm, and I go to Saltwood to Arthur, but see Jim before I go, if possible.  The children catch the 12.48 at Winchmore Hill and the 1.40 from Finsbury Park to Welwyn, and they should get to Sandling at 3pm.  Tonight Arthur and I go to a dance!!  Gorgeous!  When I arrived at Saltwood, Mr Harris was at tea with them all.

S 27 Went, with Eva – in Major Maclean’s trap – to Hythe, and I bought some flowers for Mrs Stair for 2/-.  Colonel Hooper came in to tea.

S 28 Miss Skinner and Colonel Hooper to tea, and Mr Harris and Captain Pead in to supper.

M 29 Colonel Hooper in to dinner, and Mr Harris and Mr Groves came in in the afternoon, as did Mr Mackintosh.

T 30 Go into Folkestone to do some shopping.  In the evening, we went to the Thompsons and Colonel Thompson read lots of his poems to us.

W 31 Arthur and I went for a long walk across fields in the afternoon and, in the evening, we played bridge.  There was a bad, horrid raid at night


November

T 1 We go to tea with Mr Haddon – walked into Hythe with Arthur in the morning, and went to the Castle and saw Mrs Day.

F 2 Arthur returns to town, by the 8.30am train.  Eva goes to the Mackenzie’s dance and Colonel, Mrs and Miss Thompson, Major Madeleine and Colonel Hooper come to tea.

S 3 Mrs Stair and I go to Folkestone in the morning and buy some music and some household goods.  Eva, Mrs Stair and I go to tea with the Thompsons, and then Eva, Mr Harris, Mr Grove and I go to see ‘Three Cheers’ in the evening. 

S 4 Mrs Stair and I go to church, and Eva goes for a walk with Mr Harris, who comes back to tea and then I go, with them both, to see Mrs Day.

M 5 I go to Hythe with Eva about her boil and then get the 3.20 train back to London

T 6 Tea at Bay Tree Cottage – Auntie Adeline there.  Theo went back to stay with her.

W 7 17 Park Lane

T 8 Meet May at 12.15pm at Bourne & Hollingworth and then on to meet Jim at Simpson’s at 1 o’clock, where we have lunch, and then go to see ‘Trelawny of the Wells.’

F 9 Kitty came to tea – I have beastly indigestion.  May phoned the doctor who says I must stay in bed tomorrow. 

S 10 I have such a rotten pain – gastritis – and am allowed only milk.

S 11 Only milk again today.

M 12 Gladys came for a few minutes in the morning, and again in the afternoon, with Miss Cooper to tea.  Mr Paige also came in.

T 13 Nothing written today

W 14 Theo came in – she has had a lovely time with Auntie Adeline.

T 15 Mother came to tea.  Feel beastly ill all day.

F 16 Arthur brought the gramaphone home this evening.  I feel a bit better – Miss Cooper came in the car with a chicken for me from the St Dunstan’s bazaar.  She’s nice, I like her.

S 17 Doc didn’t come, but I do feel better.  Lil comes to tea and Bobs and Theo call in for a time en route to the Palmers Green pictures.  Bobs has leave till tomorrow night – he looks fine.

S 18 May and Arthur go to tea at Bay Tree Cottage – Arthur complains to Mother about my being unwell!!

M 19 Nothing written today

T 20 Mother’s birthday.  I go downstairs to tea!!

W 21 Nothing written today

T 22 Nothing written today

F 23 Nothing written today

S 24 Nothing written today

S 25 Go to Bay Tree Cottage to tea, and come back in a cab.

M 26 Nothing written today

T 27 Bay Tree Cottage to tea, and come back in a cab

W 28 Nothing written today

T 29 Go to Palmers Green, by bus with May and Billie, to get a grey jersey for him.   Kitty was in the bus with us.

F 30 Go to the city with May – Mr Frank Turner – and then on to Shoolbreds for shopping.

December

S 1 May and Billie go back to Felixstowe.  I go to Bay Tree Cottage to tea – Randall Berry there to tea, too.  Lil and Gladys walk home with me.

S 2 Gertrude in to lunch, and Vernon and Dorothy come to tea and supper.  I sold my British Eastern to Vernon for £1/10/-.

M 3 In bed till tea time.

T 4 Nothing written today

W 5 Mr Grover to tea and dinner – Arthur on duty, but returns at 9.30pm.  Gladys and Miss Cooper call in the morning, and Lil came in in the evening.  Arrange to meet Mr Grover at 2.45pm, at the Regent Palace Hotel, tomorrow.    Arthur and I went to the New Gallery and dined at the Café Royal.

T 6 I go to town for Christmas presents

F 7 Gladys came in this morning, just as I got out of my bath, to say Jim is engaged to Ada Young!!!  I go to Bay Tree Cottage for tea, and Arthur comes in to dinner, too.  Feel beastly ill all day.

S 8 A note from Mr Grover to say he enjoyed his visit here.  Gladys, Jim and Ada Young go to Westgate for a week.  Still feel beastly ill all day.

S 9 Nothing written today

M 10 Arthur has his people in to play bridge here.  The doctor came today and told me I am to see a specialist.

T 11 Nothing written today

W 12 Nothing written today

T 13 Doc came and told me I am to lie down for four weeks!!!!!

F 14 So I go to town to finish my Christmas shopping before I can be stopped!  Maples, Shoolbreds, Debenham & Freebody – choose a sweet little blue gown – and then on to Marshall & Snelgrove.  Have lunch at the Rendezvous with Arthur, and choose a lovely string of pearls in Bond Street – Arthur’s present to me.  Go to Buzzard’s for tea, and then home.

S 15 Had a devil of a night last night, and feel beastly ill today.  No margarine or butter to be had anywhere.

S 16 Kitty and Jimmy come in the morning, Gertrude comes to lunch – and Lilian to tea!

M 17 Write to Agnes Edwards, and make a shopping list for things Arthur will buy for me at Buzzard’s and at Shoolbreds.  Must get some holly.

T 18 Auntie Adeline comes to see me before lunch, en route to Bay Tree Cottage.  An air raid started soon after 6pm and went on till 9.30pm.  The children and Miss Berkeley sleep downstairs.

W 19 Bobs comes home for Christmas leave.  Came to see me as soon as he got home – he looks so fine in his cadet uniform.

T 20 Bobs and Theo come and also Doc.

F 21 Doc and Gladys came and collected a 13lb turkey and half a Stilton back to Bay Tree Cottage.

S 22 Stayed in bed till after lunch.  Mother and Theo came for the 16lb turkey.  Bobs, and his friend,Colwell came about 10am and took a 9lb turkey.

S 23 Jim and Ada came in the morning and also Kitty Maine.

M 24 Gertrude and Mrs Stair come for Christmas

T 25 Arthur gave me a lovely string of pearls, Mother a blouse etc.  The children came in to us for their presents and Lilian, Maud, Vernon, Dorothy and Eva came about 12.30pm.  After lunch, Eva, Elizabeth, Alastair and I went to Bay Tree Cottage in a cab – met Gladys along the road there!  Jim gave both Elizabeth and Alastair scooters!  All my people came here about 9.30pm, and Mother and Mrs Young were singing carols in the porch.

W 26 After lunch, I had a cab to Bay Tree Cottage and spent the rest of the day there.  Bobs went back to Berkhamstead about 8pm.

T 27 Nothing written today

F 28 Nothing written today

S 29 Nothing written today

S 30 Nothing written today

M 31 Nothing written today


Letters Fomr Her Grandfather

Sunthorpe

Wallington

Surrey

June 23rd 1909

My dear Ethel and Arthur

We were delighted when we received the wire about half an hour ago.  It is indeed good news and we all send you much love and heartiest congratulations and the best of wishes for all three of you.  I have not have not yet decided whether I care about being a great aunt but we shall do our best to get used to it.  It seems to pile a few years on to one’s already advanced age.

Anyhow, baby will just look sweet in her bassinette and blue ribbons and I am quite sure we all join in your gladness.

With much love

Yours affectionately

Grace


Sunthorpe

Wallington

Surrey

September 6th 1909

My dear Ethel and Arthur

What a perfectly delightful tea basket!  We do thank you most sincerely for it.  I am sure it will be a just most useful thing whilst we are travelling and also after we get to Hobart.  They are great people for picnics, apparently.  I do think it is so good of you to send it to us.

I have been packing my clothes today and cannot say it is a particularly cheerful thing to do.  I am so glad we both saw you altogether on Tuesday.  I did so much want Will to have seen you all.

With much love and many thanks

Yours, lovingly

Grace


Sunthorpe

Wallington

Surrey

October 7th 1910

My dear Ethel

Your beautiful baby arrived on the 5th to wish me all good wishes on the return of my birthday anniversary.  I was very pleased to welcome her and see her bonny face amongst many other who came to greet me on that day.  I shall be very proud to introduce her to our circle of friends, feeling sure that she will not only be admired but will bring much credit to her parents, whom I love very much.

May wisdom be given you to train her for a useful and happy life is the prayer of

Your ancient, loving

Grandad


Sunthorpe

Wallington

Surrey

October 2nd 1911

My dear Ethel

Just a line to wish you and Arthur a very happy anniversary of your birthday, and many more to follow; God has been very good to you in finding you such a good husband and giving you such a beautiful treasure of a daughter.  I am almost inclined to be jealous of such happiness!  The thought of a home like yours makes me wish I was young agin, but my old, shaky bones tell me this cannot be so I will try to be contented and wish you may long be spared and enjoy a long and happy life.

Your affectionate, old

Grandad

 

© VCRT

 

Edwin Arthur Cade’s elder son – Arthur Gordon Cade

Arthur GordonArthur Gordon Cade (Jim) was the third child, and first son, of Edwin Arthur Cade and his wife, Sarah Elizabeth (Trot).   His two elder siblings, Ethel Della and Gladys Mary, were seven and five years older than him, respectively.

He was sent to Bengeo, a preparatory school, Hertfordshire and it was while he was there, in May 1903, that is father, Edwin, died in Dominassi, Gold Coast and was buried in Obuassi.  From Bengeo, Jim went on to Haileybury (1905-1908) and then decided to make the Army his career.  He joined the Middlesex Regiment, whose headquarters were in Mill Hill, not far from the family home in Southgate.

After training in Malta in 1913, he was sent to the Front in 1914 and took part in many crucial battles during the ensuing four years, being awarded the Military Cross at Neuve Chappelle in 1915, a Bar to his MC in December 1915 and a DSO in September 1917: he was also mentioned in despatches three times.

He married, in February 1918, Ada Young and returned to the Front on 18th April 1918.  He was killed, at Mont Kemmel, on 26th April 1918.

His daughter, Annette, was born in November 1918.

 

Letters Written Home By

Lt-Col Arthur Gordon (Jim) Cade DSO, MC and Bar

(The Duke of Cambridge’s Own) Middlesex Regiment

To his sisters, Ethel (1884), Gladys (Dad, 1886) and Theo (Feo, 1903),

his younger brother, Bobbie, and his niece, Betty

Jim married Ada Young in February 1918 and returned to the Front on

18th April 1918.  He was killed at Mont Kemmel on 26th April 1918.

His daughter, Annette, was born in November 1918

 

Letters Home From Arthur Gordon Cade (Jim) & friends, inc Reg(gie) Young and Fred (see Journal)

December 21st 1914 (a card)

Dear Ethel

Many thanks for your letters, I’ve no time to write much at present so am only sending PCs.

Wishing you all a Merry Xmas and prosperous New Year.

Yours truly,

AGC

Please thank Gertrude for the mittens

AGC


February 24th 1915

Dear Ethel

Many thanks for your letter of the 19th.  No! I haven’t gone to the MG Course yet but I hope to in due course.

I haven’t heard from Mont yet – nor have I seen or heard anything of Leicester.  What a hero-worshipper you are!  It would rather change your opinion of me (as a soldier) if I raked a DSO in – wouldn’t it?  However, that is not likely, especially in this sort of warfare.

We are carrying on in the same old way, so you will understand that there is nothing whatever to tell you.  The weather is just the same as a rule, but nowadays we get an occasional fine day which is truly a treat.  This morning I took the Company to the baths (those of which you have seen pictures in the papers) and then afterwards I went and had a bath at a Convent – it was a real treat – although the bath was small and made of zinc.  Well!  I’ll dry up now – best wishes to Arthur and much love to yourself and offspring.

From your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


May 15th 1915

Dear Ethel

Just a short note to let you know that I’m still alive.

You ask what I mean by frozen feet – I mean that those whose feet were frozen during the winter still suffer with them as soon as they begin to get cold.

No!  Wilkinson is, of course, a civilian, and joined us a Hensley Park. 

I’m surprised at you not knowing the Middlesex colours – I enclose two fragments which will remind you.

We have been having a rather poor time during the last few days in the way of shells.  Three men, in my Company alone, went raving mad – I understand from the Doctor that they will probably be sane in about two months’ time.  Tomorrow is the anniversary of ‘Albuhera’ – last year we had boat races on the Marsamxett Harbour – this year, I wonder?

The French have been putting up a good show haven’t they?  I only wish Italy would come in – not only for Hunny to protect, but it would release the large force of French at present guarding the Italian frontier.

Well, I must in church now – love to all your family and especially yourself from

Your affectionate brother

Arthur G Cade


B.E.F May 23rd 1915

My dear Ethel

Coming home on leave 27th for seven days!!!!  Too mad with joy for words. 

See you soon.

Yours ever

Reggie J Young


B.E.F October 5th 1915

Jim and I coming home, arrive either Friday morning on Monday morning! 

Hope Friday

Yours ever  ALS


May 30th 1915

Dear Kiddie

I’m afraid you must think me an awful brute to have forgotten your birthday, for that’s what I did, had I remembered it, I would have written in time.  Better late than never, however, so here very many happy returns of the day.   I hope you enjoyed yourself, and in fact are still doing so.

You would laugh, wee sister, if you could see me as I am out here – I’m quite different to what I am at home.  I’m wearing very shabby uniform with lyddite stains all over it, I didn’t shave this morning – my hair is so short that it won’t part at all, my boots haven’t seen any polish since they came to France, and my skin is even spottier than usual.  What a brother to have!!!

If I do get any leave, I shall have to clean myself up and put on new clothes or my ‘kid sister’ won’t know me, will she?

Whilst I’m writing this, in a funny little house made of sacks and mud with a corrugated iron roof, the Hun shells are passing overhead and bursting about 2,000 yards behind – you’d wonder what it was if you heard a big shell going over, they make such a funny noise.  You’d also thank your lucky stars that they were not stopping anywhere near you.

Please thank Dad for her letter and ask her not to address me as Captain until I’m gazetted one – also thank her for the fruit, which arrived last night.

I’m so looking forward to getting some leave – to be away from this sort of life, even for a few days, would be such a treat.

Well, kiddie, I don’t think I can write any more so I’ll end by sending my very best love to you – hoping to see you within the next week or so.

Your brother (big, what smokes)

Jim


October 20th 1915

Dear Ethel

Thanks so much for your letter – I’m just sending you a short note to tell you that Eva came to Folkestone to see us off last Thursday.  We had to walk about half a mile over platforms etc to get to her as she was not allowed into the station.  How she has grown since I saw her last!

I wonder what it can be that I shall find on the wall of my room when I next come home?

I’m awfully sick with life just now – they’ve turned us into a lot of schoolmasters again – teaching all day long, under the direction of a d———-, ———-, ———— fool who insists of altering everything to his own blasted way.  Well so long for the present.

Love to all the family from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


December 18th 1915

Dear Ethel

Reggie told me that you had been strafing because I had not written to you for so long – it’s no use my saying I haven’t had time because I have, so I’ll just say that I’m sorry.

We are ‘resting’, so if you know our Charlie Chaplin Army you may be sure we are having a strenuous time of it.

I’m afraid the Staff job is ‘off’, but I’m in for Adjutant of our 12th Battalion – I may get it.  It will have its disadvantages, but I think it would be a good thing.  However, I won’t count chickens before they are hatched.

The last few days have not been too bad, but the preceding weeks have been ———   ———-.  Rain day and night.

Reggie is very fit, and so am I, in fact fitter than I ever have been out here as we are playing a fair amount of Rugger.

I really cannot write a real letter so I’ll stop by wishing you, Arthur and the kiddies as happy a Christmas as is possible in war time. 

With love from

Your affectionate brother

Arthur G Cade.


B.E.F January 31st 1916

Cheery Oh!  Ethel

Just a wee note to tell you that dear old Jim and I are still alive and kicking!  Thanks ever so much for your letter, which came while we were in the trenches.  We came out last night and now we shall have quite a peaceful time for some time.  We go to ‘where it is quite different’ soon.

Now for those questions of yours to answer!  Well, we were out for four blessed days and a bullet fired from a machine gun through the roof of the French Headquarters couldn’t possibly do any harm to an Adjutant sitting in an apology for an Orderly Room.  At least, it would be jollied lucky if it did!  I mean the bullet would! 

While we were out last time the dear, delightful Bosch was clever enough to get eight direct hits with a ‘pip-squeak’ battery on the house, so that a little more of the roof was absent when we staggered in there again!   The blighters also shelled our tents like blazes the other afternoon for about two hours.  I was almost sick with fear the whole time!  I wouldn’t have minded if Jim hadn’t happened to be there.  Oh!  It’s a weird existence Ethel!

Yesterday there was a thick fog the whole day and that kept Fritz quiet, thank Goodness!  I’ve had an awful lot to do lately.  Everything seems to sail in at once, and it seems as if everything ought to be answered at the same time and I’ve only got one satellite just at present as the other one is on leave, lucky blighter!  They have, it seems, much more like two months than a fortnight since that Monday. 

We are back again in the village I told you of that Fritz likes to ‘crumb’ at times though up to date he hasn’t polluted us with any more!  I had rather a miserable time this last time at French Headquarters, as I had to do the Padre’s job for him as he is ill, and we had rather bad luck in getting three poor devils killed.  I do hate having to do it, though I suppose it is nicer than to have no service read at all.

It was simply ripping of you and Arthur to give the dear little mater such a topping time, Ethel.  She was full of it when she wrote to me about it.  My hat! There are some extraordinary kind people in this funny old world.  How is Arthur and Betty and baby?  I heard from Mrs Cade the other day, and she told me Arthur had been out to meet a lot more trains.  As far as I know, nothing has been happening.  Hugh told me at Boulogne that it was often simply an accumulation of people who had been laid out for a month or so and they were just sending them home to make room.

I had a topping bath just before dinner and feel quite clean again and, thank heavens, I don’t have to get up at 4am tomorrow!  I must stop now, Ethel, and go to bed.  I am so weary!  I haven’t seen Jim today.  He’s rather far away and I haven’t had time.  Give my love to Betty and baby and ‘salaams’ to Arthur.

With love from

Reg

PS  I said this was going to be a ‘wee’ note.  You must be bored stiff by now!  R


February 23rd 1916

Dear Wee-one

Thanks so much for your letter – you see I am really going to try and write you a letter – though I’m afraid it won’t be a very interesting one.  I’m writing this from my dugout, the baby who lives here with me is sitting on his bed trying to take his boots off, which is no easy matter judging from the grunts and puffs which are going on.

Everything outside is covered with snow and looks quite pretty but it’s very cold – especially at night.  Reggie came down to the trenches this morning, looking very ‘twee’ as usual.  I guess you would just love to be here now with your ferrets – there are tons of rats here in the dugouts and ditches and we could have great fun.  I guess.

A German shell dropped into the village where we were billeted the other day and killed a little girl and wounded another girl.  How would you like to live in a place like that?  These French people seem to have got quite used to it, though they still get somewhat upset when they hear shells whistling overhead.

Well kiddie, I’m going to try and get some sleep now (2pm) so as to be fit by the time night begins.  Love to all at home.  Baby sends his love.

Your loving brother

Jim


March 14th 1916

Ethel

Just a short letter to thank you for your letter of the 3rd and for your parcel of ‘nose-treats’, which arrived this afternoon.

I’m so very busy in this new job that I have practically no time to myself, hence so few letters.  When the next course starts, I shall have more time, as all my lectures will be prepared.

I’m very comfortable here and it really is a treat to get a real change – also I hope to get a staff job from this, if my luck holds good.

I expect to see Reggie and the Blue Eyed Babe again tomorrow evening.

Will Arthur be called up?  It does seem hard luck after all the work he’s been doing – advise him from me to try something other than Infantry, such as RAMC or Artillery.  It’s poor fun being a Private in the Infantry.

Well old girl, excuse more now, but I must write several letters tonight and I want to go to bed before breakfast time.  Love to all the kiddies and chin chins to Poppa from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


Aug 10th 1916

Dear Feo

Many thanks for your letter.  I didn’t know who it was from until I saw your name at the bottom.  I expect you’re glad to see Reggie sometimes nowadays – have you seen Colonel Sandys?  If so, do you like him? 

I should like to come home for a few days now whilst its such nice weather.  It’s quite hot here, but heat with us means flies and nasty smells.  I’d like to go to the Curlews Nest for a week and just laze about.

I wonder if you’d like to change beds with me.  I’ve got plenty of little friends in mine and rats have a habit of running across one’s body during the night – personally I don’t care very much for either, but perhaps you would like them – what say you?

I shall be due for some more leave about the 3rd of September but I have my doubts as to whether it will be open by then.

Well, kiddie, I know that this is a rotten letter but I don’t feel much inclined to work today.

Au revoir – with love from

Jim

Enclosed is a little present – it may come in useful.


B.E.F  April 8th 1916

Thanks so much, Ethel, for your long letter that came yesterday.  I was awfully glad to get it.  Here’s another of my few and far between ‘scrawls’.  I am a lazy beggar aren’t I?  Have I told you about our new home – dugouts on the top of a colossal hill from which one gets a grand view of the Hun on the hill opposite.  It is ripping being able to see something at last.  This is such a topping country, beautifully open and hilly and we had the most glorious gallops while we were out in Billets. 

Jim and the CO and the Baby and myself all went out one afternoon and had a high time and simply chased about all over the place after hares and goodness knows what not!  Zephyr is simply topping now and much better about lorries.  The other day I made her nearly put her nose into a goods train which was moving across a level crossing with a huge engine pouring out smoke and she didn’t care a bit.  I think she can easily beat anything else in the Battalion. 

I took on the CO and the Battery the other day and left them absolutely standing.  She’s a dear little thing and always ready to go simply ‘all out!’ 

We are going to get some more gallops when we go out.  Jim is still with us.  I don’t know when the school is going to open again, very soon I think.  He is doing sort of extra Regimental Staff Officer at present. 

These are topping trenches, ripping and dry and chalky (I believe I’ve already told you all this!) and quite far away from Fritz except in one place where we are only thirty yards apart.  Nasty spot, altogether, which the Hun loves crumping with trench mortars and rifle grenades.  He is much too uppish here just at present.  I don’t think he has been strafed enough just lately. 

Poor old Stewton had his left blown to pieces this afternoon by one of the beastly things.  I am afraid he is very badly wounded and a dashed good chap too.

By Jove, Arthur must have had a hopeless time in that train the other day.  I do hope those wretched Zeppelins haven’t been worrying all you dear old people again. 

The weather is rather too nice for them.  It’s rather cold here just now though we have had some perfectly heavenly days. 

Yes, Ethel, I am longing for leave again and I think your suggestions about Brighton or any old where so long as it is at home would be ripping.  I can’t get away just now, whatever happens, I wish I could but there are still several to go before myself and Jim.  When our turn comes, I dare say Jim will be able to get away with me.  I do hope so.

How are the dear wee kiddies and Arthur?  Give them all my love won’t you.  I must stop now and go to bed.  I still have to get up at 4am each morning.

Lots of love, Ethel dear

From

Reg


September 26th 1916

Dear Ethel

Many thanks for your letter of 21st.  I’ve got nothing particular to write about but as I’ve got a few hours to spend, I thought I’d write whilst I can.  You will have heard I expect from Reggie what sort of a time we are having out here just now – nice isn’t it?  We are lucky!

Reggie’s engagement came as a bit of a shock to me – however, she’s a dear little girl and boys will be boys, n’est ce pas?

I don’t see much chance of getting leave just yet awhile – things are moving too fast for leave for the likes o’me.  But I certainly don’t grudge our extra strain since things are going so well.

Please thank Arthur for his letter of the 17th.  No more just now. 

Love to all the family

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


October 4th 1916

Dear Ethel

Just a short note to wish you many happy returns of the day – though I admit I don’t remember which day your birthday falls on.  I know that it’s either 3rd or 7th and I rather think it is the latter.  We are having a strenuous time of it hereabouts nowadays – winning the war?  I’m a trifle fed up with things in general.

Today Major Thompson, my old Company Commander who was wounded at Neuve Chapelle, came out to take over command – so now, when Col Finch returns – and he expects to do so on the 15th – I go back to Company Command again.  But NOT for long, I’ll see to that alright.

I’ll try and write more often when the powers that now are here have got into the swing of things, meanwhile you must excuse a real letter.

With love to you and the family from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


October 27th 1916

Dear Ethel

Just a short letter to thank you for yours of the 10th – you will, I expect, have heard my little bit of news ie that I’ve been awarded a bar to my MC, otherwise I’ve absolutely no news whatsoever.  I’m rubbing along in the same old way and am just about bored stiff with it.  No!  nobody else sends me ‘smells’ and by the way, I should very much like another bottle of that hair stuff – I know you won’t mind me asking – I think it’s quite stopped my hair coming out.

No, I was not the young Officer in the Chronicle yarn!  I’ve been very lucky, twice only have I led a bayonet charge, and each time I’ve been given an MC for it.  The satisfactory part of the business is that if I’m knocked out now, I shall have “done my bit” in having killed eight Bosch at close quarters (two at Neuve Chappelle and six the other day).  I don’t know when I shall be getting leave, I’m sure – I hope soon, but things are not easy these days.

You horror – standing for a theatre!  I wouldn’t do it for a pension, not even in war time.

Well, I’ve blink to gas about so I’ll ‘cut it out’ – au revoir. 

Love to all the family from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade

Please excuse edge but the quality of these pads is ————–


November 8th 1916

Dear Feo

I expect you wondering whether I’m ever going to answer your letters, aren’t you?  Sorry, I’ve been so long, but as I expect you have heard, I’ve been very busy lately ‘Hun killing’.  However, I’m now back again in civilization for the first time for three weeks or so.  No, I’m afraid there is still no chance of leave just at present but if all goes well, it ought not to be long now before I’m back again at Bay Tree Cottage for a week or so.

I’m looking forward to seeing my ‘kiddie sister’ in her new white sweater; I may be quite wrong, but the kit I like best for your sort of people is a short serge skirt, sweater and woolly cap.  Is that anything near the fashion these days?  Of course, I need hardly add long silk stockings – that is more to be the thing.

I suppose you will be quite grown up by the time I see you again – it’s more than five months already, and I used to notice a big difference after three.

I hope that next time I come home the King will pin something else on my chest – but I’m not counting too much on it because I don’t want to be disappointed.

Well, little girl, I’ve got no real news to tell you so I’ll stop. 

With much love

From your brother,

Jim

PS please ask Mother to put some candles in her next parcels.


December 16th 1916

Dear Ethel

I’m thoroughly ashamed of myself for not having answered your letter before this, but I’ve been daily expecting the hair stuff to turn up, so I kept putting it off.  The parcel turned up last night, having taken ten days en route!  Very many thanks for it, you’ve no idea what a comfort it is after having to stick one’s hair down with water which makes one’s heat itch like billy oh!

Yes, you’re quite right about the machine gun – and what is more, we’ve obtained special permission to keep it for the 77th Foot so, après la guerre, you will doubtless find it in our Mess together with the Russian drums captured at Sevastopol etc.

As usual there is nothing much to tell about but, such as there is, you shall certainly hear next time we meet.  You ask when I’m coming home – I wish I knew, but I fear it will not be before Xmas now.  Anyhow, if leave is still open early in the New Year I shall do my best to get back then.

Well old girl, I’ve nothing to write about so I’ll chuck my mitt in right here see.  Best wishes to Poppa and the kiddies from

Your affectionate brother,

Jim


December 22nd 1916

Dear Feo

I’m sending you a card for yourself because I thought it might be a souvenir, if you collect such things, of this jolly little war.

I can’t send one each because of the shortage of cards – I ordered two thousand, five hundred but they were bought up like hot cakes.

Well, little kidlett, I hope you’ll have as good a Christmas as possible and that you have good luck in 1917.

Au revoir for the present – I hope to see you early next year.

With much love from

Jim


December 24th 1916

Dear Ethel

Just a short letter to thank you for yours of the 16th.  Many thanks in advance for the pipe – the one you gave me some time ago is at present in my mouth, but I admit that it is in need of a rest, whenever I smoke it, it sounds like someone dropping water on a hot stove!

I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve been having such a rotten time – I hope that by the time this reaches you, you will be quite fit again.

Really you should curb your imagination as far as your brother is concerned, don’t make an idol of him, in case you find that one day that his feet are of clay. 

‘We ain’t no thin red ‘eroes, but we ain’t no blaguards too, but single men (?) in khaki (apologies to RR) most remarkable like you’.

Please thank Arthur for his letter and congratulations.

With all best wishes to you, Poppa and the kiddies for good luck in 1917.

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


Christmas Day

Dear Ethel

I hope that you enjoyed yourself on Christmas Day, in spite of Arthur’s departure on Boxing Day.  Do cheer up, for Mother’s sake, because if you make yourself ill over a dog, I cannot imagine what you will be over Arthur’s departure, even if it is only for a month. 

With much love – and wishing you all good wishes for a happy New Year.

I remain

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


March 26th 1917

Dear Ethel

I’m quite ashamed of myself for not writing to you before since I returned to this charming country – many thanks for your letters of the 4th and 17th.

Yes – as you say, things are happening at a pace out here.  We are doing quite different things to what we’ve ever done since I came out to this country.  I expect you can pretty well guess what I mean by the papers.

We’ve been having topping weather for about a week, although very cold, especially at night when it usually freezes – today, however, it’s changed its mind and is raining ——– it!  Drips are already coming through the ceiling (save the mark) of my suite of rooms – ie my bed-sitting-dining-card-billiard-bath-smoking room. 

Am I depressed?  YES.

There is nothing about which I may say anything, so I’ll chuck my hand in.  Please remember me to Joan and give my love to the kiddies.  Salaams to Arthur. 

With much love from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade

My hands are ——–  cold hence the ‘worse than usual’ writing.


April 2nd 1917

Dear Feo

It’s a long, long time since I last wrote to you, isn’t it?  But I’ve not forgotten you – the fact is that, except for writing to Mother, I’ve hardly written any letters lately.  Many thanks for your letter – you will be interested to hear that I had a letter from Pat (she said you seemed very interested when she was writing it) and I’ve today sent a note in reply.

I only got back to this place (a ruined village) this morning but in spite of being mighty tired, I feel I must write a few letters at once in case we are hauled out at short notice – which happens fairly often these days.

We are having a mighty poor time of it nowadays because – the ………. Hun burns all the villages and blows up most of the cellars before we can chase him out.  However, we caught him bending the other day; we surrounded a village in the dark and attacked it by day.  We captured sixteen ‘Hunletts’ and 1 machine gun.  Other Huns, who were in the village, we scuppered accidental-on-purpose-like.  It’s quite a different war to what we’ve been used to for the last two years, and makes a welcome change.

The weather’s beastly cold and very wet, but I suppose there will be some spring weather one of these jolly old days.

Well, there really isn’t anything to write about, so I’ll stop.  Best of luck.

With love from

Jim


April 27th 1917

Dear Feo

It’s quite a long time since I last wrote to you, isn’t it?  I’m sorry but we’ve been kept on the go pretty well lately.

Congratulations on being bottom of dictation!!!  I’m sorry I upset your majesty by the term ‘little’, but I wish to point out that it’s a term of endearment.  However if you don’t like it, I won’t use it, so there.

We’re at last having some decent weather but it’s still quite cold for this time of year.  We haven’t been treated to a snowstorm since April 12th, which certainly is a great treat.

At present we’re out of the line and I’m living in a bell tent, which is luxury these days.  But one does get somewhat fed up with the sight of ruined villages, farms etc, and cut down trees and blown up roads, bridges, railways, etc.  The Gentle Hun has laid everything waste behind him, not to mention leaving any number of ‘booby traps’ for us. 

Well, ‘girl’, I’ve nothing especially interesting to write about so I’ll stop.  Please give my love to Dad and tell her I’ll write to her soon.

With much love from

Jim


May 20 1917

Dear Theo

Just a short letter to wish you many happy returns of your birthday – I can’t get you a present here as there are no houses, much less shops, so I’m sending £1 so that you can buy yourself anything you want in a small way.

I’m sorry to hear that you’ve got the worst of your argument with a bee and hope that your face is better now.

Yes, it does make a difference if you leave a ‘not’ out of a sentence, doesn’t it?  This is the 1st chance I’ve had for writing letters by daylight for weeks and I do expect to get another for some time so they must all be short.

With much love to you little girl, from

Jim


May 27th 1917

Dear Ethel

I expect you’re beginning to wonder whether you’re ever going to hear from me again, n’est ce pas?  Sorry, but we’ve been kept pretty busy lately.  We are out of the line at the moment, so one gets less time to oneself than ever.  The weather is very hot these days, so hot in fact that we keep getting thunderstorms which are a beastly nuisance.

Have you seen anything of ‘Freddy Baker?  He’s home on a month’s leave.  It is just about time he had a rest, poor devil – he was getting into an awful state. 

I don’t see much prospect of leave yet a while for myself – I’m sorry, as I should have liked to be in town on June 27th.  I feel somehow that one owes it to a pal to see him decently buried – or married.

It must be topping in England now – out here, of course, our friends the Huns have chopped down practically every fruit tree or current bush, not to mention their wholesale destruction of villages.  Also they blew in all the wells, result is, of course, that water is often scarce, which certainly is unpleasant in this weather.

It’s curious when one thinks of this, isn’t it?  I haven’t seen a civilian for over three months.  One would hardly credit such a statement, would one?

The other night we went to a ‘show’, one of the artistes was an officer dressed as a girl and he made a topping one – the sight of long silk stockings and ‘oddments of that kind’ nearly made me faint.  You can have no idea what a shock it was.

The eau de quinine hasn’t turned up yet – I don’t know whether it’s been torpedoed or pinched en route.  I’d be glad of some now (since you asked me to tell you).  Please, please remember me to Joan when you next see her’ and tell her that I haven’t had that letter she promised me!!!!!

Love to Poppa and the kiddies from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


August 23rd 1917

Dear Arthur

Many thanks for your letter of the 15th.  I’m just sitting down to scribble an acknowledgement – I’ve no time to write real letters these days.  I’m sorry to hear about Ethel’s finger, and hope it will be alright by the time this reaches you.

If you happen to see my name in the wounded list (which I don’t think you will) don’t be surprised as it would only be referring to 4 scratches I collected in our last attack.  Nothing at all to count.

I expect you’ve heard that we’ve been ‘over the top’ twice in the last 3 weeks – the first time, I was left at Battery HQ in our front line, but the second time the CO was sent back to a camp six miles behind the lines and I had the running of the whole show – I hope to pick up something out of it, I know the General is pushing it forward – so that’s alright.

You’re a lucky dog to have a gramophone – we can’t carry them about in these stirring times worse luck.

Baker went off after our first attack (for which he has just got an MC) as 2/in Command to another Battalion in our Brigade so we’ve lost him, although I see him fairly often.

By the way, I’ve at last got the address of the make of those cigars you liked so much, do you remember?  (Quorn toothpicks):  J H G Hamilton, 26 St Georges St, Canterbury. 

Well cheery oh, old bird.  Love to Ethel and the kiddies.

Yours, as ever

Arthur G Cade


September 13th 1917

Dear Ethel

Many thanks for your letter of the 7th.  Well you need no longer remain on tiptoe as I’ve been awarded the DSO, so that’s that.  What with a gold stripe, a DSO and an MC (mit Bar) I shall be quite one of the dogs, n’est ce pas?

Yes, you certainly do appear to have been gingered up a bit lately by our friends the Hun.  I quite agree with what you say about ‘fear breeding fear’ – my original fear has been breeding for three years now, and I’m about plumb full of ‘wind up.’

I don’t know what you mean when you say that perhaps I’m a woman’s man!!!  I may have spoken to young females, other than relations, once or twice in my life, but I’m sure you would be the last person to suggest that I still continue such practices – am I not right?

Did Arthur get my letter all right?  I sent him the address of the make of those cigars he liked so much.

Well, please excuse so short a letter but I’ve a lot to write.

Love to Poppa and the kiddies from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


September 27th 1917

Dear Peter  (written to his brother, Bobbie)

Many thanks for your letter and for the tress, much congratulations.  No of course you didn’t tell me about Paul’s hair – how could you have done so, you haven’t written to me for months, you little villain.  I don’t know that I should like it cut short – however we’ll see when I next come home.

I’m hoping to be able to get home for ten days about October 6th, but of course, one never can be certain of anything these days.

I’m writing this from a dugout at Battalion HQ, which I share with umpteen rats, not to mention mice and creepy crawlies, and other such small game.  Thank goodness the weather is keeping pretty decent as we are not having too bad a time of it taking things all round.

Have you seen Pennycook yet?  I wonder what you will think of him when you do – he’s a topping fellow.

Please thank Dad for her two letters and ask her to keep the kitten until I get home on leave again.

Have any of you seen us on the film yet?  Well Peter, I’ve got nothing to say, so I guess I’ll stop right here. 

Please give my love to Pat and Paul when you see them.  The former owes me a letter.

Cheer oh!

Your loving brother

Jim


September 29th 1917

Dear Ethel

Just a short note to wish you many happy returns of the day.  I hope you won’t celebrate the occasion by having an air raid. 

Very many thanks for your letter of congratulation – I’m hoping to be able to get home about the 9th of next month, and then I shall have to go and see NM about it!  I’ve never seen a DSO close to, I believe it’s very pretty. 

Well, I’ve really nothing to tell you and, as I’ve no present to send, I’m enclosing a little bit of DSO ribbon. 

Cheer oh, love to all the family from

Your loving brother

Arthur G Cade


October 19th 1917

My dear Betty

Many thanks for your letter and cards, it was very good of you to write to me and to paint the postcard.  I’m sure it must have taken you a long time to do.  I’m sure I couldn’t paint half as well. 

It’s rather a job writing, as I can’t use my left hand and the paper keeps running away from my pencil – just try yourself and write something with your left hand under the table.

I’m really having quite a good time up here because, you see, everybody treats me as if I were ill, whereas I’m really quite well except for five punctures.  I was allowed downstairs for the first time yesterday and today I was allowed to go for a half hour’s walk in the streets.

I’m hoping that it won’t be long before I’m allowed to come down to Bay Tree Cottage and then I shall see you all. 

Until then, au revoir.  Please give my love to Alastair and thank him for his card.

With much love from

Your uncle

Jim

This letter refers to Cecil Ewart Cade (Bobbie) who was reported missing

15 Sussex Road

Southsea


November 8th 1918

Dear Stair

I called at the 5th Southern General Hospital yesterday afternoon and saw Lieutenant Smith, but am sorry to say I could not get much information from him.  He seemed surprised to hear about Cade as he (Cade) was one of the Moppers up, and therefore did not go over till after Smith.

The Hun never retook anything as the Middlesex got to their objective, and then the Argylls came through them and carried on.  Smith was hit in the foot; he told me he knew Cade very well and said what a bright young fellow he was.  Smith has written to an Officer for full particulars so I may hear something more as I am going to see him again next week. 

They went over at Le Forest and he seems to think you will hear that Cade is alright, as he could not be a prisoner; probably got mixed up with another Battalion, which often happens.  Sorry I am unable to tell you more.

Kind regards to Mrs Stair, and tell her there is every chance of some good news of her brother before long.

Yours sincerely

Signed H B Gregory.


From ‘FRED’ – real identity unknown.

Dear Edie

Bert says you want a letter, so I must write a line

Tis Sunday, no day better, to write you sister mine

The stars appear once nightly – when I retire to bed

I’m feeling fit and cheerful, each morn I’m like a lark,

There’s little news to tell ‘E’.  In camp or on the road

The days pass by so quickly – time never makes a load.

The two years I’ve resided, in Salonique so bleak,

I’ve learnt to love Old England, and learned to curse in Greek.

The people whom I deal with – the Native here I mean –

Are out to do their damndest.  They think a Tommy’s green.

And should one chance to do them, their actions are must vulgar

To start one fairly cursing, just say he is a ‘Bulgar’

For at the great Creation, when all thins first were made,

A great conglomeration of scrappy bits were laid.

Where powers above could see them, and with ‘Let there be peace,’

Came this, that heap of rubbish, will do ‘Let there be Greece.’

The people match the country, they’ve naught to recommend

Them to a keen observer, have guile without an end.

I’ve spent most days a travelling, through town or countryside,

The engine loud a travailing, its L.G.O.s first pride –

It’s noisy, yes, and troublesome, and bad from plugs to rods

We do our best and muddle some, while we invoke the Gods.

She knocks her way through snowdrifts, thro’ dust and rain and much

And groans while she’s a working, she’s happy when she’s stuck.

She’s fed up with the Army, and I can safely bet

That since she left old England, her life’s been one regret.

When Gabriel sounds the trumpet to make the dead arise,

D’you know who’ll take the front seat, d’you know who’ll get first prize?

The ordinary person, to heaven or hell will go

Saint’s hallow wait the MT’s who drive an LGO.

Appreciate your brother, while on the earth you are,

We shall not meet above dear, you are a fallen star. 

Maybe I’ll be a harpist, perhaps I’ll even sing,

My voice is fit for heaven – a most unearthly thing –

If from the golden gateway, my hymns of praise shall swell

They’ll pain and cause commotion, to tortured coves in Hell.

T’will give a joy delicious unto my soul so meek

If Hades holds a tortured, perspiring bally Greek.

From Bert I hear once weekly, like me, he’s got no news,

He’s had a touch of shivers, which left him with the blues

But now he seems quite happy and much inclined to joke,

The thanks me most profusely, because I sent a smoke.

His life is most exacting, to face a Bulgar mob

Would give me fits forever, I shouldn’t like his job.

If I were in that stunt, dear, with bayonet and with gun,

My motto first and last, dear, ‘Look after number one,’.

And now I’ll get to business, I think it is a shame

That air raids are so frequent, but no one is to blame.

Tis easy to so criticise, and try to call disgrace

On people in authority – above there’s too much space.

Protecting planes might wait for Huns, for aye and never copy ‘em

While Gothas, bring their bally bombs to London and then drop ‘em.

For in the air there are no roads, no tracks but room galore

For many thousands of square miles, all this and then some more.

I’m sorry for the people who in London have to live

To be in fear of sudden death, a constant strain must give,

But ‘E’, before another plane should bring a bomb and drop it

Take your fond brother’s sound advice, ‘Pack up your traps and hope it’.

Just where you are till peace arrives, O that most happy day

I’ll be as happy as a king and hope to reach home quick,

To find yourself and all at home a-waiting – yes and Vic –

I can’t forget I brought him down to this his present level,

Perhaps he recollects it too and sends me to the devil.

I had the best intentions, he seemed so much alone

When I gave invitation to hear that gramophone.

He came, but had he known, dear, what fate had held in store,

He would have got quite ‘sozzled’ and we’d have been friends no more.

Of all the bally courtships which I have ever known,

For sheer unholy haste dear, yours surely stands alone,

I’ve lived to five and thirty and single I remain,

To see you people rushing as you do gives me a pain.

I wish you all the best dear, I do admire your taste,

The old ‘Repent at leisure’ will not affect your haste.

Some day I may do likewise, perhaps I’ll take a wife,

Who makes me pay for waiting and drives me from this life.

Perhaps she’ll say she loves me, then may the fates be kind

To me and place her safely with those of unsound mind.

Whatever sort of girl I choose, I’ll take her down to Mother

I’ll show her to my sisters yes, I’ll show her to my brother.

Then if my playful little ways, in homicide should stop her,

She’d say if you came round for me ‘am I thy brother’s keeper?’

At this I end this merry lay, read this if you can stick it,

A Censor has to wade through it and I shall get my ticket.

That is if he can stand as much, maybe t’would make him faint,

This would not worry you or me, because we know he aint.

Yours affectionately

FRED


OVILLIERS-57D 3E.4 23/8

Report by Captain Arthur Gordon Cade


The Battalion, in conjunction with the remainder of the 8th Division, assaulted the German front line system between OVILLIERS LA BOISSELLE and LA BOISSELLE at 7:30am after an intense bombardment lasting 65 minutes. The assault was carried out in 4 waves – the leading wave consisting of 2 Platoons of “B” Coy on the right and 2 Platoons of “A” Coy: The second wave, which followed at 50 yds distance, consisting of the remaining Platoon of “A” & “B” Companies.

The third and fourth waves, similarly composed of “D” and “C” Coy, followed the proceeding waves at 50 yards distance. The Battalion Bombers were distributed by squads amongst the four waves & the 8 Lewis gun teams amongst the 2/D 3/D & 4/d waves.

On the right were a battalion of the TYNESIDE SCOTTISH belonging to the 34th Division & on the left were the 2/D Devons R.

As soon as our leading waves left our trenches to assault, it was caught by heavy machine gun fire and suffered heavy losses. As soon as the succeeding waves came under fire they doubled forward and before anyone reached the German front line the original wave formation had ceased to exist.


About 200 of all ranks succeeded in reaching the German lines – passing over the front line they entered the 2/D line of trenches, but after a short fight, during which about half became casualties, they were forced to retire to the German front line. There, under the leadership of MAJOR H.B.W. SAVILLE, CAPT & ADJ. R.J.YOUNG, 2/LIEUTS P.M.ELLIOTT W.SPATZ & H.C. HUNT, the survivors proceeded to consolidate. 


By 9:15am the handful of unwounded men, numbering perhaps a dozen, were forced to retire to the shell holes outside the enemy front line, were the majority remained until darkness enabled them to regain our lines.


Of the 23 Officers who took part in the assault only 2/LIEUT H. C. HUNT regained our lines unwounded. Of the 650 NCO’s & men who took part in the assault, a lone 50 answered their names in the early hours of July 2/D.


The following Officers were reported as casualties. Killed. CAPT. C.S. HILTON, 2/LIEUTS P.M. ELLIOTT, R.E.GRUNDY, W.SPATZ, J. WILSON, CAPT MEEKE.

WOUNDED LT.COL. E.T.F.SANDYS, MAJOR H.B.W. SAVILLE, CAPT & ADJ R.J.YOUNG, CAPT G. JOHNSON, LIEUTS W.J.CLACHAN & R. McDYORSTON, H.PECKHAM, 2/LIEUTS C.H.RAWSON, O.N.S. DOBBS.

Wounded & missing 2/LIEUTS C.S.DAVIS (K), W.S.FORGE (K), G.SCOTT (K), T.S. McMANUS, F.VAN-DEN-BOK (K), H.D.WOOD (W), A.I. FROST (K).

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Edwin Arthur Cade’s wife, daughter of John Smith II – Sarah Elizabeth Smith

TrottSarah Elizabeth (for some reason, always known as ‘Trot’ – perhaps she ‘trotted’ around?) was born in Scotland, the second daughter of John Smith II and the first of his second wife, Philadelphia Wright; her elder, half-sister Della, was five years old at the time.

Delphia went on to have two more daughters, Lucy (1861) and Alice (1863) but, sadly, neither survived for more than a few days and Delphia, herself, died only a few days after Alice’s death, leaving John Smith II a widow for the second time and with two small, motherless daughters.

Before she died, Delphia dictated her last wishes (see John Smith II) one of which was that Della and Trot should be brought up as sisters and never parted, save for when Della went to visit her grandmother Collins in Birmingham!

By this time living in south London, John Smith married, for the third time, Mary Anne Fowle, who raised Della and Trot as her own, along with their own two children, Grace Marian (1870) and Edith Adeline (1872).

By this time John Smith and the family were involved in the Methodist church and, in 1880, Trot became engaged to the Reverend Terry Coppin, a Methodist missionary.  While there is no mention of the engagement being broken off, Trot married, in 1883, Edwin Arthur Cade, eighth and last child of Robert Cade of Ipswich.

They had five children: Ethel Della (1884-1968), Gladys Mary (1886-1937), Arthur Gordon (1893-1918, known as Jim), Cecil Ewart (1899-1967, known as Bobbie) and Theo Daphne (1903-1991), born three weeks after the death of her husband in Obuassi.

Trot died in 1931.

Letter Extracts

Trot letter Nov 10

Trot letter Nov 10

Trot letter Nov 11

Trot letter Nov 11

Trot letter Nov 30

Trot letter Nov 30

 

 

Letters To And From Her Daughters

The GREEN

Southgate

May 7th 1899

My dearest Mother

Yesterday, my bicycle came home and it does look fine.  It has all be enamelled and done up beautifully and all the afternoon we were riding around the tennis lawn.  I was on mine, Mary on yours and Father on his.  Father has not been to business since last Tuesday.

On Wednesday afternoon, he gave us a half holiday.  On Saturday morning, he had a very hot bath and I put some fir tree oil in it and it made his cold much better, for he said so himself. 

I am going to have my plate put in on Friday.  We had a lovely box of sweets sent us on Wednesday afternoon from Plymouth, but we do not know who sent it.

This morning, Father asked me if I had got a photo of you in my desk rolled up and as I did not know, he came with me while I looked but it was not there, but there was a silver watch, and he gave it to me.  It is a great, big, man’s watch.  I do wish you could come home tonight, it does seem such an age since you were at home.

The lilac will very soon be out now.  We have got up at either 6 or 6.30 every morning now for ever so long and gone out in the garden.  I do wish you would come home to baby because, you know, he has something the matter with his head!  And then, on Saturday, Nurse said that there was something the matter with his back and Mary says he is weak altogether (which means he must lie down and they cannot nurse him – nothing else) but nobody will say what is really the matter with him and we have not seen him have his bath for nearly a fortnight.  I believe there must be something very much the matter with him, poor little soul.

Every night, when I go to bed, I can’t help thinking whatever can be the matter with him and I do wish somebody would tell me, really and truly, because I do imagine such dreadful things and then I dream he has got all sorts of things the matter with him.

Father wants you home very badly, but he and Mr and Mrs Childe and Mr Hill think you ought to get your face quite well first. but I do want you home.

Don’t forget it is my turn to get a letter

From your loving ‘fille’

Ethel

PS  I send my love to dear little May


THE GREEN

Southgate

September 20th

My darling girls

I have just got home from Carshalton with Father.  We have had a very sad day, leaving dear Grandma’s body in the grave – but we know she herself was not there – but is far better off even than she was in her home.

Do you know when she died there was still one of those lilies which we took her – quite fresh – and Auntie Adeline put it in her hand and it is still there.  There were such beautiful flowers.  Uncle Charles and Aunt Miriam and Lizzie and Janey sent a lovely harp of white flowers that was at the head of the coffin.

Then there was a lovely cross from Grandpa and Aunties – then your cross – across the foot, then Father’s and my wreath of white chrysanthemums hanging at the end – and down each side such a number from friends.

Now, dears, you must not cry over it – she is quite happy.

Do you know your letters this morning gave me temporary blindness – do you guess why?  You must cheer up, you know, try and see a funny side of everything.  ‘It is better far to laugh than cry’.

We are all coming on Monday and Grandpa is bringing his carriage – you may be sure we shall soon come and see you.  Perhaps I shall have some surprising news for you – I am not sure.

Isn’t it kind of Mr White – he has got your coats and skirts done already – they are here now – and I shall bring them.  It is too bad of the Matron to take your sweets – but I suppose she will give you them back sometime.  She isn’t likely to eat them, she would be too sick.

Mrs Daw sends her love to you, so do Grandpa and Aunties.  They all said it would have been quite too bad not to let you sleep together.  I do hope you will keep the rules and not get separated.

Now, both remember and tell me everything because you don’t know how to spell them.  Of course, I’d rather have the spelling right but if it isn’t I shall know what you mean. 

Father does not quite like the idea of sending your bicycles just for one ride a week – because I’m sure they wouldn’t get cleaned properly.  So if you very much want to go with the others, you had better hire. 

Lots and lots of love from us all and kisses, too.  I wish I could just give you some from all of us

Your loving

Mother

All the animals are well at present.  Cap sends love


Sackville Hotel

Bexhill on Sea

September 27th 1901

My dear Gladys

Father has sent Merrylegs down and I thought you might like to go for a ride tomorrow afternoon with Jim, the rest of us in the carriage. 

If you would, then pack your habits and caps in a card box and I will send for them tomorrow morning. 

Jim goes with a Miss Attwood, a riding mistress, and she will look after you. 

I’ve not heard from Father, so do not know whether he is coming tomorrow.

Much love,

From

Mother


Sackville Hotel

Bexhill on Sea

October 4th 1901

My darling Girls

I am obliged to go back today – I am so sorry to disappoint you but I have left tickets with the Aunties and my birthday presents to you both.  Accept them with very much love. 

Your birthday cake will arrive on Saturday and you can take it to school with you. 

Father says he ‘has been left to his own resources’ all this dreadful summer and is now without children, home, wife or anyone to care what becomes of him here or hereafter!   You know whether this is true – but of course I must go.

The Southgate house is dismantled, things are to be stored but where we are going I don’t know.  Auntie will call for you tomorrow – and try and be happy to please

Your loving

Mother


The GREEN

Southgate

October 8th 1901

My darling Gladys

Very many thanks for your and Ethel’s nice long letters.  I am very glad to hear you had a nice cake, it certainly is a nice one – and that you enjoyed the concert. 

Thanks, too, for the photos – aren’t they nice, children?  Countess looks beautiful, and goes very fast, I hear, though I’ve not been out with her. 

I have to rush away now to look at houses – furnished – won’t it be queer? 

Baby is at Mrs Parker’s.  Nurse has been horrid to Collins – I don’t think I can keep her much longer. 

Will write tonight and tell you more

Very much love

From

Mother.


The GREEN

Southgate

October 8th 1901

My darling Ethel

You must understand that my letters are to both of you. 

I have been looking at furnished houses nearly all day – and it seems a toss-up between 10 Chester Terrace and 23 Russell Square.  The former has a most beautiful look out over Regent’s Park and is comfortably furnished, within 10 minutes of the zoo and botanical gardens – and one could ride a bicycle and drive all about the park.  The other is splendidly furnished, has electric light and is within 10 minutes of Father’s office – and I think he will decide on that. 

The house here is queer; in the dining room there is only the table and chiffonier; in the hall, the stand.  In the morning room – the settee, 2 arm chairs, tea table, piano and pianola but, as the carpets are down, it isn’t so bad.

The spare room is quite empty and ours has the bed, sofa and ottoman.  Father is sleeping in town tonight, as he is so busy, so it is quiet – no Jim and no baby – he and Nurse are at Auntie Parker’s.

The new horse is black and very nice-looking.  Woodcock thinks he can be ridden.  Countess goes beautifully in Mr Eaton’s trap – is nice and fast.  Joseph was here when I arrived and only left this morning. 

I have sent dear old Bobs to the William’s at Sutton – we could not possibly keep him and they wanted a dog, and were delighted to have him.  The kitten is a dear, clean little thing.  Your birds are all right and jolly.  When Maple’s vans pulled up yesterday outside here, I expect the Burrows pricked up their ears and opened their eyes.  It is something for the village to talk about. 

The Armstrongs came in last night and Father read out some of your letters, so he got your message.  Their baby is better and goes out now.  I did not go to church on Sunday, so did not see Kate, or anyone. 

Thank you for the photo, – shouldn’t you like to play like those children?  Stick to your practising so that you may get on well.

I can’t tell you how pleased I was to hear such a good report of you both from Miss Browning.  I am sure she is very nice and you would like her if you had not made up your minds not to. 

I’ve sent two shawls – but they are rather large and I thought I had better put a few sweets in – I daresay you will have them on Saturday.  I got them at Fuller’s this afternoon.

We have some lovely things for the pianola now – Sonata Pathetique, Taratelle de Bravura by Liszt, Piccaninnies (yours);  The boy guessed right the very first time; several of Mendelsohn’s songs without words and some of Wagner’s.

Perhaps you may see Father soon.

Lots of love to you both

from

Mother.


The GREEN

Southgate

October 19th 1901

My dearest Ethel

I send the box to you because I wrote to Gladys yesterday – but four of the collars are for her.  I think I gave you some before you left, so I only send you two, but if you already have enough, let Gladys have them all.

The drawings and letter arrived after mine was posted.  Thank you both very much, I think they are really nicely done – especially the beans and chestnut – and I feel sure Father will think so, too.

I was in bed all yesterday and, in the evening, Dr Armstrong called so Auntie Parker must needs bring him up and he said I was to stay there till he had been today because my temperature was up – so I did.  But I’m up now.  He is very kind, isn’t he?  I shall be most awfully sorry to go away from them both.

Father and I are going to dinner at the Feiling’s next Tuesday.  The new horse looks very nice indeed and doesn’t mind trains or motors or rollers. 

Auntie Parker is here packing things – she is most kind – has been here nearly every day. 

My love and thanks to Gladys for her letter.  I could not give her message to Mr and Mrs Young as I did not go there last night – but I gave it to Dr Armstrong and he sent his love to you both and hopes you are getting to like it by now.

Ronald Childe has chickenpox.  They have got a double-fronted house down the road, just before you reach the crescent.

Lots of love to you both

from

Mother.


The GREEN

Southgate

October 24th 1901

My dearest Ethel

You will have received a bottle of medicine from Dr Armstrong, I expect – if you are all right, keep it in case you want it any other time – though it will only do you good.  I will get Gladys’ paper as soon as I can go to town. 

I can’t say the house is especially quiet and tidy, in fact there isn’t one tidy room – if the house were all right, I should miss you both dreadfully – as it is, I haven’t any home now and should be glad to know when we are likely to get one.  This is most miserable, all my things packed – nowhere to put anything and, when I want to put on a clean garment or a different dress – have to unpack a box and then pack it up again.

I was expecting Father last night, and had such a nice little dinner – fish and pheasant – meringues, etc and just at 7.30 he sent a wire ‘staying in town’. 

Baby climbed onto the study table when I had left him with Jim and gone upstairs this morning and he fell off onto his face – such an awful bang  – in my room, I thought it was a chair till he screamed.  He has such a bruise on his forehead and his nose is swollen and cut a little – it bled rather a lot.  I was frightened, but he seems all right now. 

It was very jolly at the Feilings.  Elise was away – May Ricketts was there – very fat ,and very cow neck – Florence looked very nice.  I never heard a family cow each other so – they seemed to be quarrelling all the time and calling each other every name they could think of – but it didn’t mean anything.  Father did not like them much.  Two footmen waited – and the silver was lovely – and the flowers.

I’m afraid I’ve not answered all your questions – but can’t think of them.  Miss Amy had better get your hockey sticks.

Heaps of love to you both

From

Mother.


The GREEN

Southgate

October 27th 1901

My darling Gladys

I expect we shall have letters from you in the morning and then I shall have some questions to answer, so I will write again. 

I am going to see Jim’s school tomorrow at Bengeo, near Hertford. 

Father has been ever working and is going to Bournemouth on Tuesday for a week and I am to go, too.  I don’t like leaving dear old Jim and little Bobs but I suppose I must.  Bobs fell off the table on Thursday, such a bang on his head, he was so sick and has a scar under his nose, but is all right again.

Father has ordered a Ralli car for Countess.  I don’t know at all where we are going to live yet.

I have given Kate one of Ethel’s photos, and Mrs Childe, too. 

Nina Sawyer came up yesterday and sent her love. 

Certainly wear your red blouses if you like – they will be too small if you save them. 

Heaps of love, dears – I do miss you so – you didn’t say when the half term holiday is.

Your loving

Mother


The GREEN

Southgate

October 29th 1901

My dearest Ethel

I hope you won’t be very disappointed to hear that we are going to Bournemouth today for a week.  Dr Armstrong said Father ought to go – and he wants me to go, too.  Mrs Parker is coming to stay with Jim and Baby. 

I should awfully like to see you both – but as I cannot come, I am going to ask Uncle Parker to come down and spend Friday with you if that is the half term holiday.  If it is not on that day, send word to Auntie here at once.  If it is on Friday, never mind.  So think what you would like to do on that day and, if there is anything on in the afternoon, tell him of it. 

I am sending you some orchids out of the greenhouse.  Aren’t they lovely.  I will send you two more merino bodices. 

One of your little birds – Jack I expect – sings so prettily and jumps up and down while he sings. 

I have asked Mr Bolton to send you some more of your inhaler.  I hope you use it very hot and do it thoroughly.

I am sorry to hear you are not very well – keep on with Dr Armstrong’s pills. 

Your letter to Father made me very sad – I can’t bear to think of you being homesick – do try not to be.  This isn’t a bit like it was – so you wouldn’t like it much if you saw it. 

The Pams are at the Burlington and Mr & Mrs Daw are going in a day or two.  It was very interesting to meet with a friend of Jack Kirk. 

Tommy Lipton is coming home on Thursday and they are going to decorate the village, take out the horses and pull the carriage from Greens, the Bakers, up the village and have illuminations at night.

Dr Armstrong said he would write to you – he always asked after you both.  He is a good sort, isn’t he?

I went to see Jim’s school yesterday – at Bengeo at Hertford.  It is a nice place – Mr & Mrs Bowden Smith are delightful – he will enjoy himself there.  Try and be jolly and happy like dear girls.  I shall be awfully glad when you come home.

Always your loving

Mother.


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

October 31st 1901

My darling girls

I have sent you some cakes from ‘The Bungalow’ to have on Friday at the Sackville – they are in charge of Mr Wolff, so ask for them and enjoy them – but do not make yourselves sick.  I should not eat all on Friday, but take some back with you.

Tiddy and Gretel send their love.  Tiddy has been having influenza. 

Mr and Mrs Feiling arrived here last night – it was a mutual surprise.  It is very windy and cold here and there are no interesting people staying here now – no pretty girls.

How strange that you should see Mr Willis. 

Mr and Mrs Daw are coming down soon, I believe – I don’t know how long Father will stay.   

Uncle is bringing the warm bodices and the thick coat.  I don’t know who is to have it, but someone ought to wear it to save the best as they were expensive.

Lots of love, darlings

From

Mother


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

November 1st 1901

My darling Gladys

I quite forgot to tell you in my two last letters of the very sad news which was wired to Father last Tuesday morning. 

Mr Starley died, very suddenly, on Monday night under an operation which had to be performed in a great hurry.  I can’t explain to you what it was – but he was only ill a few hours.  Isn’t it dreadfully sad for poor Flo and, Gertie at school. 

How little we thought, at Bryn Eithyn, that within two months he would be taken. 

I hope you are enjoying your day with Uncle and Jim. 

Tell Ethel to keep on with the pills and inhaler. 

Very much love to your both

From

Mother


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

November 4th 1901

My darling Ethel

I have just come in from Bournemouth – where I bought you both some sweets, but I did not send any chewing gum – for it really isn’t nice for you. 

I feel very anxious about your cold and cough, dear – I can’t leave off thinking about it and am going to write to Dr Wills about you.  I wish you to speak to Miss Browning about the draught onto your bed – it won’t do at all.  I suggest that you sleep in Gladys’ bed both together – it would be warmer.

Of course, you are wearing your combinations?  You have the fur collars now, haven’t you? 

Poor dear Gladys, how terrified she must have been – and you, too, I am sure.  I hope the bruises don’t hurt her now.  She might have been terribly injured.  I am glad she got on again and rode home.  Who was with you?  Did not any passer-by come to help?  Tell me all about it next time you write.

I do really think you ought to take Scott’s Emulsion.  I could send it down.  Your health is most important.  Fancy if you grew like Auntie Adeline. 

Mr Pam and Gretel have gone home today.  She came with them because she has grown so immensely, and isn’t strong – she is taller than she was at Colwyn.  It is a pity she is so plain, I believe she is a nice child but her learning is too much for me – she talks like a professor – about ‘geometrical progressions’ and ‘logarithms’ etc.  I think it awful.

Darling Gladys – try not to dislike it so much.  What has happened?  I thought you were getting to like the girls and to think it was not so very bad.  My dears, even if you left there, the fact is that we really haven’t a home.  Except that, wherever we are together, is a sort of home. 

The Green looks awful – nothing in the dining room but bicycles and table – nothing in your room, and just a bed in Nurse’s.  I don’t know at all where we are going finally.  You see, when Father sent the things away, he thought he was going to Ashanti this month – now he is not going so soon.  So, wherever we do go, we shall have to stay nine or ten months – that would be very expensive at a hotel.   

Don’t imagine your letters could be too long.  You don’t know how glad I am to get them.  I was ever so disappointed this morning, for I expected to get them by the first post, like I do at Southgate – but there was not one for me.  They came in about 12 o’clock.  I always have my breakfast alone here, for the Pams come down about 9.30 or 9.45 and Father about the same time.

Sometimes I’ve had my breakfast and written half a dozen letters before I see them.  I don’t know how long Father means to stay.  I am supposed to lunch with Mrs Burn on Wednesday.  I am so glad Dr Armstrong wrote to you, it was very kind of him.  Tommy Lipton came back on Thursday and there were fine goings on in the village.  I expect Jim told you all about it.

The pretty lady here is a Jewess, a Mrs Holt.  She does have such lovely garments.  I’ve not worn my coat yet.  I wonder if Father will stick to what he said.  It would be awkward if he does – as I shall be jolly cold.  I bought two cotton ties for you both the other day – to wear riding – you put them on like those wired or corded ones and make a sort of sailor knot if front.  I’ll send them soon.

It is getting towards dressing time, so I must stop.  Do you properly use the inhaling stuff?  I think you had better stop that morning bath.  Tell Miss Browning you have never been used to it at home and can’t stand it.  Do you take the pills?  I feel awfully worried about you both.  Do take care of yourselves. 

Lots and lots of love, my darlings,

From

Mother


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

My dear girls

Just one line, with my love. 

I’m so glad you had a good time on Friday. 

Sorry Gladys got a fall.  Trust most sincerely that she is all right. 

Am better, but not quite well

All my love, dears

Yours affectionately

Father


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

November 6th 1901

My darling Gladys

How are you both getting on?  I hope your bruises are gone and that Ethel’s cold is better.  Have you told Miss Browning about the draught and leaving off the bath?  As soon as I get home, I am going to send you a rug each – which you can put on your beds.  At Jim’s school, each boy has to have a rug and he is most particular always to have his own rug on – even in the hot weather.  Mr Bowden Smith says he has known some of them to turn off the blankets and counterpanes but still stick to their own rugs.

I wonder if you have had any fogs – in London they have been awful for days – no end of accidents and trains stopped.

Father is very unwell, not actually ill – but constant headaches.  He doesn’t talk of going home.  I don’t know how Auntie Parker can manage to stay on at the Green, I’m afraid it is inconvenient. 

You know there is a craze about smallpox – well, there have just been two cases sent away from The Bourne – Southgate – you know where that is.  Where the pub called ‘The Woodman’ is – beyond Mr Miles.

Did I tell you Shoolbreds have sent me a bill for over £50 for the things I had to get for you two.  Everything is for you, except my golf cape £2.17.  Isn’t it perfectly awful?  I’m sure I don’t know how I am going to pay it – unless out of my own account.  And now I really ought to get you a frock each.  Ethel had better send her white silk blouse, by post, in a little box to Auntie at home – with a note inside asking her to send it to Mr White’s and ask him to let me have it as soon as he can – that is, if it is really dirty.  They did my black cloth skirt (Bobs was awfully sick all over it) between ten in the morning and four in the afternoon. 

Do you know Kate’s brother has gone to Australia?  I’ve seen nothing of the Rosses for a long time – but Winnie is better.  The others have not gone to school yet.  Gretel and Mr Pam had an awful time getting home on Monday – the train was over two hours late. 

There is a very healthy-looking girl here for hysteria, who goes riding – she does look a caution when she walks about the hall.  Her skirt is a ‘patent safety’ one – and comes down halfway between her knees and ankles on the left side and, on the other side, there is just a long piece of skirt which she hooks round her legs when walking but, when mounting, she unhooks it and stands there in trousers, exactly like a man’s!

The cooking here is not nearly so good as it was.  There is a new manager – Father says he has not had anything decent to eat since he came.  We went to Bournemouth yesterday and had lunch at the Mont Dore Hotel – the most ghastly, dull, establishment I was ever in, I think.  I really have not a thing to write about but I know you like getting letters even if they are about nothing.

Did I tell you, Father has ordered a Ralli cart for Countess?  How I wish I could find a house to live in.  After reading your letters, Father said ‘Well, I feel quite disappointed.  I thought they were settling down to like it – but they don’t seem to’.  I can’t bear to think of you unhappy – do try and find something nice there.  There are a nice lot of girls surely?  Can’t you like them?

When you write, be sure you tell me how Ethel’s cough is and your bruises.  Now you and Jim have both had the same experience – but yours was the more dangerous – being a bigger horse.

Lots of love, dears – I am constantly thinking of you – you may be sure.  Be happy –

from

Mother. 

Tiddy sends her love to you both.


NB on a card

Thursday

My dearest girls

I am so sorry I forgot in my two last letters to thank you both for the pictures you have bought us.  I don’t think I would send them by post – either give them to Uncle Parker to bring or keep them till you come yourselves. 

Father bought you a blouse each this morning and we sent them by post.  I hope they will fit and you will like them. 

There has been a grand wedding here today – a rather pretty bride.

The beach has been lovely here – such breakers.  I shall think of you tomorrow.

Lots of love

From

Mother.


On a postcard

November 8th

Very many thanks for the letters received this morning. 

Father is better and has been for a long walk on the sands. 

Mr & Mrs Feiling left today. 

Jim and Baby are all right.

Much love

Mother.


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

November 10th 1901

My dearest Girls

Of course I don’t think it selfish of you to want to see us – if you didn’t, I should think you were horrid little wretches – but I expect Miss Browning didn’t exactly mean that.  She meant you ought not to make yourselves miserable about it.

Father has been quite ill and yesterday I sent for a Dr McGillicuddy to come and see him and we telephoned to Dr Armstrong and he said he would come down today, but this morning Father was so much better, having had the first night for a week without a raging head, that I telephoned him not to come.

Don’t say a word – but Father is trying to get a furnished house in Ipswich for a time – how do you like that?  You can say when you write to me.  You are good children and write so often, and such long letters. 

This morning Father and I went down the gardens and found a hedgehog.  We brought it into the lounge, where it is now. 

Father talks of going home next Tuesday, so you had better write to Southgate after that. 

There is the sweetest toy Pomeranian – black – here you ever saw.  Its body is about the length of this paper open – has a huge tail and the sweetest face, even Father is quite gone on it. 

Fancy!  Woodcock has a baby girl, came last Friday.  I’ve been buying Baby Jaeger and sleeping suits – I hear he does not like that style, prefers the old fashioned night shirt – like the man at the Gaiety Theatre. 

Am glad you got on so well at hockey – did you two play? 

I’ve worn my coat twice and Father went out with it and said nothing – it is most lovely. 

As soon as I get home I shall be most awfully busy about the Bazaar and must get you a dress each somehow.

Heaps of love dears

From

Mother


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

November 11th 1901

My dearest Ethel

Were you not surprised to hear about the new baby? 

Many thanks to you both for your long letters.  Certainly if it is likely to do it good, Gladys may have her hair short.  Not close to her head you know, but about four or five inches long. 

Mrs Pam and Tiddy left this morning – Father and I walked with them to the Station and then on through Bournemouth across the Square into the gardens – by that time Father was tired so had a rest and came back on the hotel bus.  He got up in the middle of lunch and went to lie down – where he has been ever since – it is now 5.30.  I went up three times to see if he was all right and last time got him a glass of hot milk.  The Doctor here says he is to drink a quart a day – but when I asked him to drink it he said he ‘couldn’t be disturbed’.  So I lit the fire – but he said ‘Oh that beastly skirt’, meaning the silk lining – so I came down. 

It is ghastly dull here – not a creature to speak to – even when Father is up he won’t talk.  How I do wish I had one or two of you four here.  I’m positively dying to see some of you.  It is all very well of Father to preach ‘self-control’ to other people – (he says it is the one great lesson you two have to learn) – I just wish he would slightly control his irritability. 

For goodness, sake don’t you ever allow yourselves to get into the way of fidgeting about every little thing that is not quite to your liking.  I’m sure all last week, while his head was so bad, I crept about like a mouse and did everything I could think of to relieve him, but he was as irritable as he could be.  I should be glad to go back to Southgate. 

I wonder how much your theatrical frocks are going to cost!  I suddenly remembered your aprons the other day – but, as you have managed so far, I suppose it is all right.  I am looking forward to the 19th.  You will be in time for at least one day of the Bazaar.  I hope you will come by the early train, otherwise I could not come to meet you – as I should have to be at Queen’s Hall. 

Isn’t it good of Auntie Parker to stay at Southgate all this time?  I expect it is not very convenient.  Mrs Starley has asked me to let her girls spend a day or two with you in the holidays.  They had intended asking you there – of course, though, we couldn’t have spared you)

Goodbye dears, keep well.

Lots of love

Mother


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

November 13th 1901

My darling Gladys

Thank Ethel for her letter this morning.  Your fur caps are at Southgate, waiting till I go home – they are with my muffs and fox fur – I want to see them before they are sent.

Father had quite a good night and no headache.  I don’t know when we are going home. 

May I suggest, dear, that you write much closer – your paper won’t last any time if you spread it out so. 

Do you know – you must not mind my saying so – but it really does seem as if you go out of your way – really take pains – to spell words in the maddest way you can.  Do try to get them right, there’s a dear.

I expect you got your ties today – hope you like them. 

Mr and Mrs Daw don’t seem to be coming – I wish they would. 

I’ve done nothing about the bazaar yet – I shall have to look sharp.  Fancy, only five weeks – lovely.

I wonder where we shall spend Xmas this year? 

Yesterday was awful, pouring rain and a hurricane of wind – down at the pier, I could hardly stand and though the waves reached up to the breakwater, they broke very far beyond the end of the pier.  I never saw it so rough.

Lots of love, dears, to you both

From

Mother.


Hotel Burlington

Boscombe

Bournemouth

November 15th 1901

Darling girls

I think you had better leave off your combinations at night – it gives them a chance to get aired.  I wish you to have your hair cut short so you can tell Miss Browning so, if she says anything.

Father’s head is better but he is not at all well and I don’t know when I am going home.  I am getting in a stew about the bazaar for I’ve done nothing towards it yet.  I suppose I shall have to buy all the things myself – as well as pay that £50 to Shoolbreds.  By that time, I shall be pretty well cleared out.

We went over such a delightful house, close by, the other day – did I tell you?  Exactly the house for us, if it could be transferred to the neighbourhood of Southgate or Hadley – you would like it.  Parquet floors, two bathrooms, a lovely big nursery – all quite new – electric light and about an acre of garden – no stabling. 

But how could we live all this way away from town? 

t has been, and still is, bitterly cold here but now the sun is shining.  Father and I have taken to playing patience – fancy!! 

Lots of love, dears, to you both

From

Mother.


The GREEN

Southgate

November 17th 1901

Dearest girls

I came home last night – and was very glad to see the boys again, I can tell you.  Isn’t it kind of Auntie to have stayed here all this time – nearly three weeks?

I left Boscombe in brilliant sunshine, bright blue sky – by the time we got to Woking, the ground and trees were white with hoar frost, like a Christmas card and just afterwards we ran into an awful fog – which got worse and worse.  We could see nothing from the windows – it was like a grey whale and the glass was frozen.  We kept stopping and finally got to Waterloo at 6.15, just an hour and a half late.

Woodcock had been waiting about an hour and three quarters – he was nearly frozen.  The fog was so bad that, crossing Waterloo Bridge, conductors had to lead omnibus horses.  Up at the end of Bow Street, it suddenly disappeared.

It is frightfully cold here, the ice is thick on the ponds and it seems impossible to get warm. 

Father goes to Coventry tomorrow – I don’t know when he will come here – but he wants to see your caps before I send them, so you must wait a little longer.  They are fearfully expensive – one would never guess from looking at them that they could have cost so much.

I went to the Rosses this afternoon – Winnie looks all right – has been to Scotland for the Exhibition.  They sent their love to you both.  The three have gone to Enfield High School – as day boarders. 

Mr Ross seems to delight in teasing me – he says he has been telling people that Mr and Mrs Cade had gone to Bournemouth to a home for inebriates – and he was going to get an order form the Guardians to take charge of Jim and Baby!!!!

Sammy Hodgson is an abominable boy – he is nineteen and, the other day, went off and married a girl of eighteen – and wrote telling his parents next day – there’s treatment from an only child.  Of course, they have nothing to live on at all.  Idiots! 

They birds and animals are all right. 

Lots of love, dears.  Kate walked up the village with me and sends love

Your loving

Mother.


The GREEN

Southgate

November 22nd (on a card)

Dearest girls

Here are your caps – the biggest, of course, is Ethel’s – are they not nice?  Lizzie will sew the other end of the elastics I expect, if you ask her.  Father is here – came last night.  He doesn’t look at all well – but is better.

I am awfully busy about the bazar.  I am having chiefly leather goods – purses, etc – suitable for presents – such beauties.  The Lord Mayor opens it the first day – in state.

Dr Armstrong has been elected medical officer to the board of Guardians – he got twenty-one votes, Runsome, fourteen.  Isn’t that fine! 

Countess is beautiful – the cart and harness will be ready in ten days.

Heaps of love

From

Mother


The GREEN

Southgate

November 29th 1901

Darling Gladys

I’m so sorry about your toothache dear, but I would much rather you did not have it out.  I’d like you to have it broken off, like Ethel’s, at Mr Hugo’s.  See if Dr Wills can kill the nerve to stop the pain.  You could go as soon as you get home. 

I’m nearly out of my mind with house hunting, Father, and never being able to find anything – it’s positively maddening. 

I’ll look again for the ballet shoes. 

Thanks for the dear little curls – much love, dear, I do hope the pain is better

Mother


The GREEN

Southgate

November 30th 1901

My dearest Ethel

I’m afraid you have not had many letters from me lately since I came home for Father has been away from business and you know what it is like when he is at home; either I must be with him or going out somewhere with him.  For a whole week I think I went up to town every day, either to look at flats or houses, or go to the dressmakers, or something.  And now we are not one bit forwarder – we have no house. 

Last Friday morning we drove to Hampstead Heath to see one and Father was very much gone on it.  I was not.  There was no stable, and only a small garden, though the house was very convenient.  This morning we drove Mr and Mrs Ross over to look at it and they don’t like it at all – so it’s off, and I’m glad.  Then, on Friday afternoon, we drove down to a most charming little house called The Cottage at Kingsbury near Hendon – a lovely place – very lonely, miles from everyone.  Father is gone on that now.  Where we shall finally go for Xmas I can’t imagine.

You had better send your silk frocks and white blouses home to be cleaned at the end of this week or you won’t have them for Xmas. 

Yesterday Father and I went to lunch and tea at Mr Ross’s and had a very pleasant time.  Father seems a little better on the whole, though he has a bad head just now. 

This afternoon we drove to Mr Cranfield’s at Enfield – (you remember us going one Saturday with Mr & Mrs Rice).  I took baby, and Mr & Mrs Parker went.  They made us stay to tea and baby had a high time with the children.  He is a little dear.  You will think he has grown a lot when you see him. 

Countess has been clipped and does look swell.  I think we shall use the Ralli car and the harness this week.  People will see us coming then, I assure you.  I am counting the days till you come home – be sure and come in the morning because I have to be at the Bazaar by 2pm – it opens at 2.30pm. 

How is Gladys’s toothache?  I’ve so often thought of her and do hope it is better.

Much love dearies

From

Mother


The GREEN

Southgate

December 3re 1901

Dearest Gladys

Thanks for your letter and cards – they are very pretty.  We think you had better not be vaccinated again as it would very likely interfere with our arrangements for Xmas time. 

I can’t find the white ballet shoes yet, but will turn out another box and send them if they are there.

I’m sorry if Ethel is disappointed about Titania – but, never mind, perhaps it is better for a girl to have it who has been there longer. 

Auntie Grace has been here today – sends lots of love to you both. 

I wonder if you will want a new party dress each?  You must come home in the morning of the 19th or I shall be at the bazaar.  Mary Ross, Kate, Tiddy and Lois are going to sell for me. 

Have been looking at no end of houses – am thoroughly tired of it. 

I told Baby the other day you were both coming home in a fortnight and he said ‘That’s all right’.  You will find he has grown.

Father seems better, but has not gone to business yet.

Lots of love to you both

From

Mother

Have got rid of flowers you had at dancing?


The Sackville

undated

Dearest Ethel

I send the hair wash – and I meant to ask you if you had your riding gloves as I should not like you to wear the new black ones.  Send word by Jim if you have them – if not, I will get you some in the town. 

This, of course, means both of you.

Much love to you both

From

Mother

 

© VCRT

 

John Smith’s third wife, mother to Grace and Adeline – Mary Ann Fowle

Mary Ann FowleMary Ann Fowle was the second child, and first daughter of James and Mary Ann Fowle (Hill), who married in Stoke Newington on 23rd October 1823.  There were three other children, all girls: Elizabeth, Jane and Maria.  Her parents were strict Wesleyan Methodists as letters from both her parents show.

In 1869, she married, as his third wife, John Smith II, a widower whose two former wives had died either in childbirth, or shortly afterwards; he already had two daughters, Ellen (Della), daughter of his first wife, Anne Collins and Sarah Elizabeth (Trot), daughter of his second wife, Philadelphia Wright.

Mary Ann and John Smith had two daughters, Grace Marian and (Edith) Adeline.  Mary Ann died in 1901.

Example Manuscript Letters

James Fowle 1860

James Fowle 1860

Mary Ann Fowle Snr 1841

Mary Ann Fowle Snr 1841

 

Letters to Mary Ann Fowle (1830–1901) from her Father and Mother

Ramsgate

September 18th 1841

My dear Mary Ann

We were pleased last evening to receive the letters from yourself, Ellen and Charles and very thankful to hear so good an account of you all – they did not come to hand till 8 o’clock, just as I was writing the letter I wrote yesterday to Ellen.  Therefore I had scarcely time and space to let you know they had been received, the Post Office finally closing for the day at half past eight and it being, as you will remember, some distance from our lodgings.

We were pleased to hear that you passed your birthday on Tuesday last so pleasantly and that you had two visitors whose company would be so agreeable to you on that occasion.  May you live to see very many happy repetitions of that important day, the eleventh (I believe) anniversary of the day when you commenced a never-ending existence – it has been a cause of thankfulness to us to hear that your throat has been better.   

You may be sure we have sympathised and wish you on that account and, therefore, gladly join you in thanksgiving to our Heavenly Father, the Author of all our Mercies in this fresh existence of his goodness to you and to us and are especially grateful that he has, by his Holy Spirit, made you acquainted with his Love of the Source from whence all our blessings and lasting happiness flow.  May he continue to bless you and to lead you on in the good and the right way.  May you prove faithful to His Grace; enjoy his Peace now and his Glory hereafter.

Although it has no doubt been a trial to you to have had your Mother so long absent from you, I am sure your affection for her and the hope that a change of air, with the Divine Helping, would improve her health, has made you willingly submit to it, and I sincerely hope you will see her return better than when she left home and that her visit here will be beneficially felt by her for a long time to come.

Tell your Grandmother we all unite in love to her and thank her for feeling so much interest in our account and for that disinterestedness in keeping the attentions of your Mother for a season; a few more days, I hope, will again unite us.

The weather has been very delightful nearly all the time we have been here, only one rainy day.  Yesterday was particularly fine.  Ramsgate continues pretty full of Victorias and I suppose will continue to do so as long as the weather continues so favourable.  This morning we will walk to Broadstairs and back between breakfast and dinner.

You will, no doubt, do your best during Ellen’s absence for three or four days next week (if all be well).  If she should come along your attention will be necessary to both Maria and your Grandmother.  Should next Tuesday morning be wet, Ellen had better defer coming till Wednesday as she would find it very unpleasant to be so long on the wet in a rainy day.

We propose, at present, returning on Friday next, but I shall write to Charles next week and fix the day positively.

Please to give our kind love to you and Maria and tell her to keep the cupboard sufficiently supplied during Ellen’s absence.

With kind love to you all and to Uncle, Aunt and cousins.

I remain, dear Mary Ann

Your affectionate Father

James Fowle

Tell Charles there is a list of prices of stuff in the yard, I think, in the top drawer under the back parlour bookcase – 1: beech 2½d – 1¼d, 3¼d and so on.

Should Bickford’s, No 4 Little Bolton St, not be suited with a house, which Charles will perhaps hear on Monday, they could stay another week or two (on paying rent, of course) without my requiring notice from them.

Should we be spared I have the opportunity of paying another such a visit in a year or two to this place or somewhere, it will be your turn and Charles’s to participate in it


Ryde

Isle of Wight

August 28th 1846

My dear Mary Ann

Perhaps you have thought me a long time in fulfilling my promise of writing to you, your Father having occasion to write to Charles, was the reason of my delay, you have already learnt from your Father that we have lost no time in circumnavigating the Island; as to its length and breadth and inland beauties, we are still mere strangers, having had only one ride, that to the lovely village and castle of Carisbrooke.

I am a poor companion for your Father, not being able to walk so far, as in the neighbourhood of Stockwell, on account of the hills and dales

We have abundant reason to offer praise to our heavenly Father for his preserving mercies, the early paprt of our visit was rendered uncomfortable by our not obtaining suitable lodgings, we seem now just to be settled at last after the great trouble we have had, we should not be despaired to leave home again this season, so I hope you will not think the time long if we stay eight or nine days longer, as it may with the blessing of God be more likely to benefit my strength.  Upon the whole, I feel better. 

Yesterday, we had a delightful sail to Southampton, the sea was so rough that General Tom Thumb’s mother told me she had experienced more sickness than when fifteen days crossing the Atlantic, her son Charles (alias Tom Thumb) was also one of our companions, which excited no small degree of interest; I shook hands with him. 

He was very amusing in his ways, a chubby, fresh-coloured face and beautifully formed hands and feet; he was carried into the boat like a baby.  His French governess was also with him.

Southampton is a fine old town; it equalled our expectations but did not exceed them.  The Queen visited this town yesterday during our absence.

We expect Mrs and Miss and Master Storr to tea this afternoon.  You would be pleased to hear of our acquaintance with Mr and Mrs Goff, they are nice people.  Your father has made so many acquaintance that he seems quite at home here, in good health and cheerful, chatting with one or another.

I can assure you we much long to have you all here with us but cannot have all we desire on this side of Heaven. 

We have thought it would be desirable for Jane and Maria to come for a week, if Ellen could have someone to supply her place, from Wednesday next to Friday next; for instance, Mr Gee or Caroline and William for a night, if she can; or Mrs Saltmarsh.  It would be giving Ellen a break and I could entrust my little darlings to her care.  Ellen would require nothing but night clothes and the others night gowns, pinafores, white frocks and best bonnets – to come in claret frock and black Spencer; also black mantles on, or if Ellen cannot find the claret, or think the green and white better, they may wear them but I had much rather they should wear the claret.

I think they are in one of the trunks, I am sure they are not in the great chest.  Ellen must be wrapped up warm, it is very cold on the water.  I got a bad cold in coming, stiff neck and rheumatism in my shoulders but I have quite lost all those pains and also those in my head and neck.

A small band box with a wrapper round will be sufficient; Ellen should bring an umbrella but no parasol; she can use mine unless it is in case of rain her parasol may serve one of the little ones.

I trust, my dear girl, you are drawing daily supplies of living water from the fountain of life, to refresh your thirsty soul.  May the Father of Mercies, and the God of all comfort, pour the influences of his Holy Spirit upon you all, and upon us, that we may ever hunger and thirst after righteousness, for then shall we receive of his fullness grace to help in every time of need.

I remain, my dear children,

Your loving and affectionate

Mother, Mary Ann Fowle

On the same letter:

Dear Mary Ann

I wish it to be understood that Ellen and the little ones must not leave home if there is any difficulty or doubt of getting someone to stay with you and apply her place that would be satisfactory to us and pleasant to you during her absence.  We only wish her to come in that case on Wednesday morning by the nine o’clock train and return to you by the middle of Friday.  The little ones, if they came, would remain till we return.

If they should come, Ellen must take third class tickets for Gosport, where I should be at the terminus by 12 o’clock to meet them.   The charge for Ellen to Gosport in 3rd class would be 6/6d and half that price for each of the others.

I have altered the days to Wednesday to Friday as I think it will not be the week for Charles’ long weekend and as it would give him another opportunity to write next Monday so that we might have a letter on Tuesday in case anything unforeseen should arise with us to make it necessary to put off him coming.

In case of their coming, Charles should go with them to Nine Elms and see that there is no mistake in their being put into a carriage for Gosport, otherwise by might be carried to Southampton.  Charles will supply Ellen with more money than ticket money, in case of such a circumstance happening as her missing of me when she would have to go to Gosport pier and cross to Ryde to our lodging at 9 Castle Street, Ryde.

Your affectionate

Father, J Fowle


25 Addington Place

Ramsgate

1848

My very dear Girls

Your Father has this morning left us for a few hours, for a peregrination round about the town of Deal; he went by rail and we expect him home to tea, although I have little to communicate to you, yet I know right well, a few lines from your affectionate Mother will impart pleasure, not only to yourselves but also to your dear Brother.

We were much gratified by your sparing him to participate in our recreation for a few days, we only regret that you cannot conveniently have a turn, if our heavenly Father spares us to each other another year and prospers our lawful undertakings, we shall anticipate the pleasure of you both having a turn here, or elsewhere; we find our own home so happy and comfortable, that we seem very unsettled and uncomfortable for some days after we leave it, and are wont to think we shall never do so again. 

Nevertheless, after a while, feel more satisfied and thankful that we are thus permitted to make such an experiment, hoping and trusting to be benefited thereby.

We had come conversation with Mrs Pennington yesterday, she had heard from Mrs Harris she said she did not know what they should have done without Charles, they found his assistance in looking after their luggage and conveyance home truly acceptable.

We heard Mr Hoare preach at Christ Church on Wednesday; he is so plain and faithful he reminded me of our local preachers, but so searching pointed and separating I was also reminded of Mr Dawson.  His text was ‘Enter in at the Strait gate’.  He remarked God would take care that no secret sin should squeeze in through the narrow Gate.

Thursday we hear Mr Bevis, the Independent Minister and last evening we attended a very interesting Bible meeting at the Town Hall, the speakers were two clergymen, two Baptist and 1 independent and our Wesleyan Minister, it is very delightful to see those of different denominations so united.

Elizabeth’s face was so sunburnt coming here that it is very tender to the touch and skinning, she also suffered a little from sickness.  Your father and I were pleased to hear you had your esteemed friend with you and that you find Fanny tractable.

I cannot think much of your knowing that in the absence of Elizabeth as well as myself, you have much more to do and much more to think of but I consider such exercises profitable, it is well that young folks should occasionally thus be tried, if it is a mean of preparing them for future life, being case on their own resources for arrangement of household concerns; and what is still more important, as more duty devolves upon you, as the children of God, your petitions are fuller, your faith in more lively exercise, you feel your dependence more, in short you are let to lean and to trust more sensibly on the arm of your beloved and your friend, whilst engaged in the duties of each succeeding day, and at the close of each, to unite in raising your fresh Ebeneezers saying ‘Hitherto hath the Lord helped us, to him be ascribed continual praise and thanksgiving for the daily and hourly fulfilment of his promises.’

I believe your Father mentioned in his last that we purposed returning on Thursday next.  We have not heard from your  Uncle, therefore do not expect the pleasure of seeing him, we were sorry to hear of Williams’ indisposition, hope by this time he is recovered.

Remember us kindly to all friends.

With our most affectionate regards to you all

Believe me

Your loving Mother

M A Fowle

PS  Jane longs to receive a few lines form Miss Bodnam


Clapham Road

November 17th 1854

My dear Mary Ann

Although I have nothing of importance to write about yet knowing that a letter from home is generally welcomed by the absentees, I proceed to write to you a few lines.

Your Mother’s letters would inform you that we arrived safely at home last Saturday at the time we expected all well after a dull ride as to weather, but the journey was relieved somewhat of its tediousness to me in consequence of a communicative person becoming our fellow traveller to London from the Tunbridge Wells station, who being fortunately well-informed and sitting next to me caused the later part of our journey to be more pleasant than it would otherwise have done in such gloomy weather.

This person was present at the funeral of ‘Old Humphrey’, who died at Hastings on the 2nd November and was buried there at All Saints Church on the 9th, the day I went to Folkestone.  Had I been aware of this circumstance, I should almost have been tempted to have given up my journey and have become a witness also of his consignment to his last resting place.

Our travelling companion, who knew ‘Old Humphrey’ personally informed me that he was very partial to Hastings.  Though generally resident near London, supposing that his recent illness would terminate as it did, he chose Hastings as the place of his last conflict and as the locality where he desired his flesh might rest in hope of a glorious resurrection.

His juvenile works went far to prove him today a pious man.  You will remember him as the author of ‘Grandfather George’, ‘Grandmamma Gilbert’, ‘Wanderings in the Isle of Wight’ and many other pleasing and instructive books for little folks.  May he now be of the number of those who surround the Throne.

We have now the usual November weather as we have scarcely seen the sun this week; rain and fog mostly prevailing.

I am glad we did not determine upon going from Hastings to Tunbridge Wells to stay a few days – it would have been more unpropitious at the latter place than at Hastings or London, since he country around Tunbridge Wells is the principal charm of that delightful place.  We regret, too, that the weather has not been more clear and settled so as to admit of Mr Hall’s little family getting daily outdoor exercise, but perhaps it has been finer at Hastings than with us, which also we hope it has been for all your sakes.

I believe the rain has been much heavier in the country, therefore we will lose sight of personal discomforts and be thankful in that which will be likely to prove generally beneficial.

In the time you receive this letter, the week which Mrs Hall at first invited you to stay with her after our departure will have expired.  We find by your last letter that she has kindly invited your to remain over Wednesday next.  We are greatly obliged to her and as they are managing very well at home will leave the day of your return next week to be determined by her and yourself.  Write the day before and inform us what train you will come by and either myself or Charles will meet you at terminus London Bridge.  Most likely Mr Hall has a timetable, if not you can get one at the station.

I think there is a train that leaves Hastings a little before twelve, arriving in London about three, which I think would be well for you to come by, the journey to is not being much more than three hours.

Your mother has been sorry, especially as your stay has been prolonged, that you have not another dress with you – had we thought immediately on our return of forwarding you another, you would no doubt have been very glad of it.  Under the circumstances your Mother trusts Mrs Hall will excuse the scant supply.

Since Sunday, I have been looking forward with pleasure hoping with one or tow others to attend the Brixton Hill missionary meeting this evening, it being the first meeting in this circuit this year.  There is a considerable attraction on this occasion, Dr Bunting being advertised as being beside the speakers, Reverends Jobson, Wiseman, Rule, William Jackson, Ackroyd and others.  Should the weather clear up, they will no doubt have a good meeting.  While I am writing it is not promising, being both foggy and rainy.

Hoping to see you again in a few days and with improved health, and with united love to you and kindest regards and thanks to Mr and Mrs Hall and remembrances to friends at Hastings, whom you may again see (viz Mr and Mrs Phillips and Mr Cooper, etc)

Believe me to remain, dear Mary Ann

Your affectionate

Father

James Fowle


Spring Well Cottage

Cheltenham

September 14th 1855

My dear Mary Ann

You will be surprised at home to have another letter from me so soon, but as this is your birthday, and as I cannot in person have the pleasure of wishing you may happy returns of this day, I avail myself of the pen, ink and paper to do so, and to unite with yourself in offering our humble tribute of praise to the Father of Mercies and God of all comfort, for the help and grace he has graciously vouchsafed you through another year.  We can sing of his grace from our earliest days, ever near to allure and defend. 

Hitherto he has been our preserver from sin and I trust he will save us to the end.  All the paths of the Lord are Mercy and Truth to those who fear him and keep his commandments, you my dear Mary Ann like myself have been the subject frequently of p ain and weakness, but we have proved even on earth that all things work together for good to them that love God, and at the last this note above the rest shall swell our Jesus has done all things well.

In  the retrospect of the past year, I doubt not, but you have received riches and fuller communications of the voice of God the Father through faith in his dear Son, day by day you have felt his Spirit’s quickening power, and his consolations, neither few nor small.  Be encouraged, my dear girl, in looking at the past to trust for the future.  May the year on which you have entered be the best of your life, pray daily for an increase of faith, for a strong faith honours God; look less at yourself and continually to Jesus. 

How sweet is this privilege that our lives may be one continual act of praise on account of that love wherewith God has loved us, in giving his dear Son to die for us.  Oh, for this Love let rocks and hills, their solemn silence break, and all harmonised human tongues their Saviour’s praises speak.

Ellen and Charles went to Bristol this morn, though the sun does not shine, it is dry and pleasant walking after the rain of yesterday.  Jane and I found this morn a road we had not traversed before a little more than a mile hence and we were interested by seeing an aviary in some nursery grounds – only a penny each for admission.  Charles saw them yesterday.

Your Father has been very kind in writing such pleasant letters, it has been quite a comfort to us to hear he has got on so well.  We should have been glad of a letter from Elizabeth or Maria to have heard how you three got on with school and household duties.  I hope you have not found it too fatiguing and I hope Elizabeth’s cold is well by this time. 

This air, I think, suits me as I am unusually free from soreness of the throat and cough.  It is considered a very dry air.  My hair never drops as it did at Leamington.  I shall be very thankful to have another week such as this has been for Father’s and your sake.  You will not find it so troublesome as we did because you’ll have a nice quiet home to come to.  We have as much attention from our two servants as we can wish as to cooking punctuality and cleanliness.

Mrs Smith says she has been a servant all her life.  You would be surprised Charles and Ellen returning tomorrow.  I should have been glad for them especially Ellen, to have stayed till Monday but of course she will prefer having company, such a long journey alone and not getting to London till dark would be very unpleasant.  I am afraid she will be tired going today and setting off tomorrow again.

With united love to all

I am your very affectionate

Mother

Mary Ann Fowle


Clapham Road

July 7th 1859

My dear Mary Ann

By the time this reaches you, you will, I suppose, be thinking of getting ready for your journey to Hastings, a brief visit to which I would hope, after the kindly prolonged stay at Mr Gough’s, will enable you to return to us and to scholastic duties invigorated in body and mind.

Your absence from home has appeared to us longer than in reality it has been and your return to us will be very agreeable to all.  Nevertheless, we have, for your sake, been thankful for your prolonged visit at Mountfield and are greatly obliged to Mr and Mrs Mountfield for their kindness in entertaining your for so long and so well.

On Tuesday afternoon, Mr Root called here with a note for your from Mrs Root at Hastings.  They seem to have been puzzled by our note to Mrs Root being dated from ‘Home Hill’, them not knowing there was another Home Hill besides the one near Camberwell and supposed you had returned to London and proposed going from thence to Hastings.  Mrs Root consequently some London to Hastings timetables thinking they might be of use to you. 

Of course, our interview set the matter right.  Mr Root intimated that Mrs and Miss Root would return home about the end of last week.  They had enjoyed their visit there and were occupying the same apartments, we think, that we had when last there, viz, 6 Spring Terrace.

Yesterday, the Southville school children, teachers, etc went to Richmond and the affair passed off very well.  Charles and your sisters, I understand, did their best to amuse the children, neither of them going on the water.  There was a cold dinner provided at a house or, rather, under a tent at the back of it, near the park at the low charge of 1/3d each and there were about thirty teachers and friends who partook of it. 

The dinner consisted of fowls, ham, beef, salads and tarts and was very satisfactory and acceptable.  Among the visitors were Mr, Mrs and Miss Tweddle, Mr Root and daughters, Mrs Champness and ditto, and Mrs Moseley and several of her family.  Tea was provided at the same place at 6d each.  I fear the entertainments were not very imaginative.

The weather here is very hot – July weather of olden time – but I presume it has been seasonable for the hay and corn. 

Last Saturday night, about midnight, the rain came down in torrents and the road in front of us was like a river, the water not being able to get to the drains fast enough.  The lightning had been very frequent and vivid in the evening.  We understand Mr Spurgeon is to impress, on Sunday afternoon next, the death of a young man who was killed by the lightning while standing for shelter under a tree on Clapham Common in the manner of last Sunday week.

We are all her about as well as usual.  Ellen and Ignatius were here last evening.  Ellen seem pretty well – Ignatius has got the school circulars printed which are very neat and satisfactory.

And now, with earnest wishes for your improved health and increased happiness and with our kindest regards and thanks to Mr and Mrs Gough

I remain

Your affectionate

Father, James Fowle

They all write in love to you.


Clapham Road

July 25th 1860

My dear Mary Ann

Charles received your letter this morning by which we learn that through the kindness of Mrs Gough, you have been availing yourself, as weather has permitted of being out and, of this, derive what benefit you could from change of air and pleasant country scenes.

We regret not only in your account the unpropitious state of the weather but on account also of the loss already sustained by Mr Gough and the anxiety its continuance must occasion him and others engaged in agricultural pursuits.  Let us hope that August may prove more seasonable than July has been and that the fruits of the earth may yet be ripened and safely gathered in, proving sufficient for man and beast and giving us fresh cause for gratitude to Him who is the bountiful donor of all we enjoy.

I had to be in town Friday, Saturday and Month, the first and last of which day and I got very wet with the rain, the latter day being exposed to it for about three hours.  I had given it a thought a week or so ago of fetching you home, that is on the day of your return of going down by the first train and returning by the last so as to have four or five hours to spend at Mr Gough’s but I am not quite so well as I was then and am obliged to relinquish the design finding the fatigue would be too much for me to encounter. 

I shall, however, be happy to meet you on Saturday at the London Bridge Station if you will let us know by what train you intend returning.  There is one that leaves Faversham at 2 o’clock, arriving in London at a quarter before five – and another leaves at 4 and arrives at 7 – by one of which you will probably come.

Charles is gone to Richmond this afternoon with Mr Thomas to arranged about Tuesday next.

On Sunday, Mr Cocks preached for us instead of the Conference appointment who had not arrived.  Most of the other chapels were similarly circumstanced in our circuit.  Mr Cocks spent the day with us.

Last evening, I attended, by invitation, the open Methodist Committee Meeting at Central Hall – there were perhaps about 159 of our ministers present, many lay gentlemen; the meeting was interesting.

Tomorrow your Mother and Maria are invited to spend the day with Mrs Falmer at Gunnersbury and propose going weather permitting.

On Friday evening last I posted the Illustrated London News to Mr Gough and today I forward a ‘Times’. 

Ignatius was commissioned yesterday to send from the City a knife sharpener to MR Gough – hope it has arrived.

Ellen and the baby are going on ‘as well as can be expected’, the latter is an object (of course) of general interest here – they all say it is a nice little thing but I fear it is at present very delicate.

The want of time obliges me to conclude.

With best regards to Mr and Mrs Gough

I remain, dear Mary Ann,

Your affectionate Father

James Fowle


611 Waterloo Street

King’s Road

Brighton

September 9th 1860

My dear Mary Ann

I write a line to say that if you hear nothing to the contrary from us by tomorrow evening, that you may expect to see Maria and myself at home some time on Tuesday.  I cannot exactly say what time as I have some idea of staying some house at Reigate at the Hill on the way up and if we should do so, it would be about 6 o’clock but if we go direct to London, we should get home I think about 2 or 3. 

Ignatius arrived at the Simmons last evening about half past eight where I met him, all well this morning and he, I and Maria went to the chapel in Dorset Gardens, North Street where we heard the Lewes new preacher.  His text ‘You are my portion, O Lord’.  A good sermon and an attentive company.

We hope sometimes that Jane appears a little better but a few more days will better show if the change has been beneficial.

Elizabeth had better hold herself in readiness to come down on Wednesday afternoon.

With our united love to all at home

I remain, my dear Mary Ann

Your affectionate father

James Fowle


Stockwell Terrace

June 4th 1868

My own precious Marian

Oh how can words with equal warmth, the gratitude declare which flows within my ravished heart, but Thou can’t read it there.

The superabounding love and mercy of my heavenly Father, on the past day, calls forth long and of loudest praise; though my dear girl, our loss is unspeakably great, yet I feel truly thankful that you are united to one whom there is every reason to believe will be to you all that yourself could desire, in affection and companionship.

We were indeed glad to receive your cheering letter this morning, it was more than we could have expected.  This morning is dark and raining, yesterday was a glorious day.  Jane compared the sun to the bridegroom and the moon to the bride.

All nature seemed to shine upon you especially all nature’s God.

It was truly a time of refreshing from the presence of the Lord.  What shall I render to the Lord for all his benefits bestowed upon me, the number of my children which the Lord gave me has long been deficient on earth.  But yesterday, I had the happiness like Job of seeing the number made up again it is worthy of remark.

The Lord has given me three sons in law, in the place of dear James, John and Henry and Lucy fills the place of dear Ellen.  We had indeed a delightful gathering we only wanted Mr Avis and Mrs Gough to complete it.  Mr Avis returned about 4 o’clock and was much vexed he had not remained with us now most of our gests had gone, even Walker and Maria. 

We felt it a comfort to be alone after so much excitement.  Elizabeth, Charles and I breakfasted about eight, we are all of us, including dear Jane, quite as well as we were yesterday.  Hannah has just called in to enquire after us.  She desires her love to Mr Smith.

Miss Scott was highly gratified it was so interesting to have the three ministers near us and hear their conversation.  Tell John the dear children went off in high spirits with Mr W Smith and the joys Elizabeth brought them from Worthing.

I must hasten to conclude.  Wishing you every blessing both temporal and spiritual and with best love from each of us to you both

I am, my dearest Marian,

Your loving Mother

Mary Ann Fowle

The coat was forwarded last evening to Vauxhall, carriage paid, let us hear soon whether you have received it.


Stockwell Terrace

January 13th 1869

My dear Mary Ann

How very welcome your letter was, I have truly felt anxious to hear how you were, the reception of your epistle turned the spirit of heaviness into the garment of praise. 

I was thankful you were able to attend the Covenant service and glad to hear you had a little fire in your bedrooms.  I had thought of sending one of our fire baskets in the carriage for that purpose.  The weather has been much colder since you left us and damp.

How cheering for you to be received by the dear children so lovingly.  I am sure your affectionate husband will take care of you.  I do hope to hear you are suited with a servant, the one you saw here, I declined, Louisa went to the house and found her with her hair tied up with scarlet and long earrings, so I am obliged to put up with my dirty Scotch till I can get another.  It is a long lane that has no turning.

I am thankful to say I have been partaking of the green pastures since you left Sunday.  Jane and I heard Mr Crump in the morning from the Blowing the Trumpet and the Fall of the walls of Jericho.  In the evening, Ignatius got through the service wonderfully well; the subject was Hezekiah receiving the letter from the King of Assyria and going directly into the House of God to spread it before the Lord.

Monday evening, Jane and I went to the service and also yesterday; we intend going tonight, indeed I hope I shall each evening, the attendance has more than equal expectations.  The body of the chapel was full as a Sunday morning.

Yesterday the Communion rail was surrounded with Penitents.  Lucy and Ignatius had to go down to help Mr Stevenson.  They are interesting services.  I trust we shall long feel the quickening influence.

I received a nice letter yesterday from Sarah Bradford informing me her Mother had another little boy and was doing well.  Maria and darlings dined yesterday here.  Hoping you will continue to gather strength and above all that you and your beloved may abound in hope through the journey of the Holy Ghost.

With much love from all to all

I am, my precious child,

Your loving Mother

Marian


No address

Undated

My dear Mary Ann

Elizabeth and I found the bassinette much more expensive than I had anticipated, the lowest price was 25/- without any bedding, it was stiff coloured furniture, I was quite at a loss how to act.

I thought it better for you to be spared further trouble so we ordered one and you must allow me to be a Sovereign towards it as a thanks offering for your safe deliverance. 

Elizabeth remembers Maria’s was a guinea without anything in it and she had to pay 10/- for the bed besides sheets and blankets, etc/

Della and Trot were delighted with it.  I am sure baby needs it and if it was put off or home made it would be a long, blundering, tedious concern.

I think the cloaks are reasonable.

I hope nurse is regaining her strength.

With much love

I am your affectionate Mother

M A Fowle

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Wesleyan Missionary and husband of Ellen (Della) Smith – John Milum

John MilumThe Rev John Milum, born on 10th April 1848, was a Wesleyan Missionary to West Africa; he was also a Fellow of the Royal Geographical Society and author of a biography of his predecessor, Thomas Birch Freeman.  He married, firstly Charlotte ‘Chatty’ Warner, who died.  He married secondly, Ellen (Della) Smith (1855-1879), eldest daughter of John Smith II by his first wife, Anne Collins.  They were married on October 22nd 1878 in Clapham.

Della went with John, her new husband – and accompanied by her half-sister, Sarah Elizabeth – to West Africa and, almost immediately, fell ill with dysentery and advised to return to England.  Sadly, less than a day after setting sail, Della died on board the SS Gaboon on January 18th 1879 and was buried the same day in the burial ground of the North German Missionary Society at Quittah, Gold Coast Colony.  There is a memorial to her in Kensal Green cemetery.

John Milum married, thirdly, Frances Mary Parton, who was born on December 20th 1851, the daughter of John Parton, of Woodchurch, Kent, a miller.  They had ten children: John Parton, Paul, Harold, Ruby, Beulah, Gordon, Rita, Stanley, Wesley and Richard.

Frances  died, in Acton, London, on 9th November 1935.

John Milum died, in Cullercoats, Northumberland, in 1901.


History Of The Wesleyan School, Lagos

Preliminary Discussions

The establishment of a school for the higher education of Methodist youth in Lagos had been a want felt for many years and had been the subject of conversation among our educated people since the year 1868.

In the year 1870, the subject was brought to the notice of the resident minister by one of our catechists, but little or no attention was paid to it at the time.  Two laymen of the Connexion, in 1873, conversed often on the subject and determined to urge the matter further; and, after consultation with the catechist, their desire, as representing the Methodists of Lagos, was brought to the notice of the ministers.  To test further the desires and opinions of the people a public meeting was called on January 13th 1974, in the Olowogbowo church under the Presidency of Rev John Milum, the Superintendent of the Circuit, who stated in a few words the object of the meeting.  A free conversation then ensued, the speakers being the Rev W Jones – Messrs. JB Thomas, JS Leigh, WP Richards, TF Cole, IA Byass and CJ George.  The meeting was unanimous in its expression of the necessity for a high school and, after it had been decided that the old Mission House was too dilapidated to begin the school in, it pledged itself to raise £500 towards the erection of a new building suitable for a high school, and thought that there would be little difficulty in raising that amount.  Mr JB Thomas was requested by the meeting to draw up a suitable memorial to present to the Cold Coast District Meeting and the Missionary Committee in England and to have it ready to be read at a adjourned meeting.

On January 22nd, the adjourned meeting was held at Olowogbowo and was attended by a large number of supporters.  The meeting was enthusiastic and received the reading of the memorial by (later Rev) JB Thomas with applause.  The memorial expressed so precisely the views of the meeting that no alterations were deemed necessary.  It received the signatures of twenty-five influential members of the Wesleyan Methodist Society, who made themselves responsible for raising the £500 proposed.  The memorial was then handed to the Rev John Milum in duplicate to present to the District Meeting and the Missionary Committee in England, as he was then returning to England, his term of three years on the Coast having expired.


THE MEMORIAL

To the General Secretaries and Committee of the

Wesleyan Missionary Society Lagos, January 27th 1874

Rev and Dear Sirs

We the undersigned members of the Wesleyan Methodist Society of this place are desirous of bringing to your notice certain barriers that stand in the way of the effectual working of the Society in connection with this Mission and to make some humble suggestions as to the best plan to be adopted for their removal, provided it will meet with your approval: –

  • That the majority of the community of this town have directly or indirectly been brought under the influence of the teaching of Methodism, but on account of the facilities which are generally afforded by the Church Missionary Society, as regards the higher standard of education, many of our people, who have passed under its teaching, have become Churchmen.  Were it not that we feel that we have much to lose by thus allowing things to go on continually, we might not become uneasy about this matter.
  • All our schools in connection with this Mission are of an elementary kind, and as soon as our youths have received all they can obtain from them, they require something higher, which our Society does not provide.  Hence the necessity of their being sent to the Church Missionary Society Grammar School, and the result is, after their training, it always becomes very difficult for them to shake off the prejudice which they have imperceptibly imbibed against that Church with which their parents have had the honour and privilege to be connected.
  • We can point to scores of Methodist youths who have completed their education under the training of the Church Missionary Society, and who hold responsible positions in our community, but because we were not in a position to make a lasting impression on their minds, ere they started out in life, we have become the loser.
  • As this state of things has been the subject of our anxious solicitude daily, we have thought it necessary to make known in our minds to you, so that it might be properly represented to the Missionary Committee in London, who, we trust, will sympathise with us in our difficulty.
  • As Lagos is an important emporium to the interior of this vast country, and as our Society has already been successful in the establishment of its Mission on the mainland at Abeokuta and Porto Novo, we are desirous to bring before your notice the necessity of establishing a kind of training institution in this place, which may answer a two-fold object, viz., ‘A Native Training Institution and Grammar School.’  That from it we may obtain qualified men to act as native agents, to occupy new stations that may be opened and to supply vacancies that may occur.
  • That the Institution be opened to our people who may wish to give their sons a higher standard of education by paying one guinea per head every quarter, which sum we propose to give for the support of the young men who are to become native agents.
  • That whatever be the surplus after every expense of the Institution is met, shall be devoted to the improvement of the Institution.
  • That a period not exceeding three years be the time allowed for the training of young men who are to become native agents.
  • That their number shall not exceed eight  unless there be a necessity for its increase.
  • And in order to show how anxious we are about this subject, and to further its interest, we do solemnly pledge ourselves on behalf of our Society in this town to hand over to the Missionary Committee in London (as soon as they shall be ready) the sum of Five Hundred Pounds sterling to assist in the erection of a building for that purpose, on a suitable piece of land belonging to us, and situated near our present Mission House, provided the Committee will accede to our wishes which may be summed up in the following words, viz:
    1. To sanction the establishment of the Institution
    2. To supply it always with a competent European teacher from Westminster, who may be expected to act as a Missionary at the same time as those sent to Sierra Leone for educational purposes used to do, even as far down as the late lamented Rev John Waite
    3. And in order that the Institution may be kept in proper working order, permit us to suggest the desirableness of selecting a promising youth from the number of students, and let him have the benefit of a thorough European training in every branch of study, either here on in England, so that he may always be on the spot to assist the European in teaching and in case of ill-health or sudden removal, on the part of the European, the studies of the young men may not be interrupted as has been the case generally with those at Sierra Leone.
    4. But, perhaps, it may be thought that we are asking for an additional European missionary, and your reply may be, ‘The financial state of the Society cannot allow it now.’  We are not asking for the appointment of more than two Europeans, which has already been granted to Lagos; but we wish to suggest what we consider the best way of distributing their services, so as to secure to us the greatest benefit, especially as the District Meeting last year saw the necessity of granting to Lagos a native minister, but which we trust to be in a better position to meet the pressing demands of that part of our Society which does not understand the English language.  What we ask for is this: – that while you retain both of us, let the service of one be devoted to the Training Institution and the service of the other, with the co-operation of a native minister, be directed to the work of the station and by so doing we may hope for great results.

And should our petition meet with your approval, and the approval of the Missionary Committee in London, we shall consider that the long desired want of the Methodist people in Lagos and the Yoruba Mission in general, is well supplied.

Signed: JN Porter, JB Thomas, ET Davies, TF Cole, J Richards, John Metzgar, Thomas Joe, TGHoare, JS Leigh, W Euba, HC Sawyer, RA Alder, JS Bucknor, CJ George, WP Richards, JW Cole, John L Baptist, JB Carrol, JJ Williams, JT Ashley, CW Cole, IA Byass, ET Ludlow, SS Davies, CW Pratt


HOPES REALISED

The above Memorial was duly laid before the ensuing District Meeting and recommended to the Missionary Committee.  Whilst in England, Mr Milum fully discussed the scheme with the Secretaries, with the result that the Committee accepted the Memorial and sent a favourable reply to the District Meeting.  On the 4th day of April, 1875, a public meeting, presided over by the Rev John Milum, was held to receive subscriptions and to take further steps for the accomplishment of the proposed object.  At this meeting the most sanguine hopes of our people were realised, and a sufficient sum of money was promised to warrant the commencement of the work.  A building committee was formed and the work began in earnest.  A plan of the proposed building was afterwards presented to the building committee by Messrs. JL Baptist and JJ Williams and the ground plan marked out.


LAYING THE FOUNDATION STONE

On December 16th 1875, the foundation stone was laid by His Excellency Captain George Cumine Strahan, CMG, in the presence of the Ministers of the Church, Baptist and Weslelyan Missionary Societies and a good gathering of people.  A handsome silver trowel was presented to the Governor with a few words from the Ref John Milum.  After making some appropriate remarks on education, His Excellency laid the stone and the interesting ceremony was brought to a conclusion.

The following is an extract from the diary which the boys of the CMS Grammar School used to keep: –

Friday, December 17th 1975 – yesterday afternoon at 5 o’clock, the memorial stone of the Wesleyan Boys’ High School was laid by His Excellency the Governor-in-Chief, Captain G C Strahan.  Bishops Crowther read a portion of Scripture and Rev JA Maser prayed.’ JO Wilson


THE OPENING CEREMONY

The building was completed in June 18177 and was described as being ‘beautifully furnished with educational appliances of the most modern description.’

Of the opening ceremony, which took place on March 14th 1878, the Rev W Terry Coppin, the first Principal of the School, writes in a letter dated September 4th, 1926: –

‘I well remember the opening day of our High School.  It was a proud hour for my Superintendent, the Rev John Milum.  Lagos Methodism owes much to him.  Being greatly respected throughout the Colony by all classes a fine assembly filled the school hall.  The European community at that time consisted of but two or three score whites of different nationalities.  But with many of the chief African residents it was well represented.  All that flags, military band and guard of honour could do, with a well-dressed, smiling and appreciative gathering, was done to make the occasion festive and auspicious.  Dear old Bishop Crowther gave us his blessing, and the good Governor, ever quiet and dignified and kindly, John DA Dumaresq, CMG, performed the opening ceremony.  Alas!  In a few short weeks the Venerable prelate committed his remains to their last earthly resting place.  Mr John Field (CMS) and the Rev WW Colley (Baptist American Mission) moved votes of thanks.


THE EARLIEST DAYS OF THE SCHOOL

The school was opened to scholars in April 1878, when there were on the roll twelve names only.  In addition, however, there were six Mission agents in training.  Before the year came to a close, these numbers had been increased to twenty-three boys and seven agents.

Of these early days, Mr Coppin writes in the letter already quoted: –

We made a good start and things went well until that fateful morning when a tornado unroofed the school.  Then, later on, we found the termites had got into almost every door post and window frame in the building.  But I do not remember any worse troubles.  Of course, we had the schoolmaster’s usual difficulties with restive and rebellious boyhood.  Yet it was not on a scale to greatly exercise us or call for discipline.  For the most part, they were good lads and many in after years rejoiced my heart.

One amusing memory projects itself.  A certain chief had a truant son.  Consulting the irate father, he earnestly insisted that I should get a chain and fasten the scion of his house to a school desk and keep him there night and day until he showed signs of penitence and reform.’

The first staff consisted of the Rev W Terry Coppin (Principal) and Messrs WB Euba and JH Samuel.  The latter two afterwards entered the ministry and became Principals of the School.  All three are living at the time of writing


GROWTH AND CONSOLIDATION

Even were adequate records available, space would not permit a detailed account of the years which followed those early days.

By the end of 1879, there were thirty-five names on the roll, but this number included five Mission students.  Those must have been fortunate days for the scholars for, when His Excellency Governor Moloney distributed prizes on December 23rd 1879, there were sixteen prize winners among the thirty-five lads attending the school.  George Smith (Dr Obasa) headed the list.

In 1890, the Twelfth Anniversary of the opening of the school was celebrated on April 29th and 30th.  Prizes were distributed on the latter date and on the three following days there were torchlight processions.

Six years later (1896) there were about seventy pupils attending the school and on the staff there were eight masters.

With the opening of Wesley College, Ibadan, in 1905 the training of Mission agents was no longer carried on at the High School.

By 1910, the number on the roll had risen to 150 and the need for more classroom accommodation began to be acutely felt.

Indeed, the extension of the premises had been considered early in 1907.  Certain additions to the front of the school hall were made in 1912 and thus several new classrooms became available for the increasing number of scholars.

A few years later, certain portions of the interior structure of the building showed considerable signs of decay; indeed, some parts of the premises became unusable.  Plans were made for pulling down the whole of the old school building and for replacing it with premises of considerable magnitude.

A picture of the proposed building, which had been designed by J Bagan Benjamin, CE was printed in the District Report of 1917.  The high prices ruling during the Great War made this scheme impracticable, but in 1916 a spacious hall measuring seventy-eight feet by forty-two feet was constructed near the Broad Street entrance.  As indicated above the scheme had assumed the demolition of the original school building.  After the visit of the Rev E W Thompson MA one of the General Secretaries of the WMMS, and Sir Arthur Black, however, the possibility of re-construction was suggested.  The foundations were examined and pronounced to be firm and solid.  By the early part of 1923, the work of reconstruction, which cost about £2,000, was completed and the classroom and boarding accommodation was very considerably increased.  The average number on the roll is now a little over two hundred and fifty and, on the staff, in addition to the Principal, Vice-Principal and Bursar, there are ten Assistant Masters and two Visiting Masters.

The addition of a school chapel, chiefly for the use of the boarders, has proved of inestimable value.

During the years 1886-8, there existed a Debating Society and a Field Club.  The members of the latter went around the countryside on Wednesdays and Saturdays identifying flowers, birds, animals, etc, one purpose being to secure the correct correlation of English and Yoruba names for these objects.  From time to time attempts have been made to revive the Debating Society but, after a few meetings interest has flagged.  The decease of the Field Club is greatly to be regretted.

On two occasions, a School Magazine was started.  In 1891 ‘Grapnel’ was issued bi-monthly.  It was written by hand and was run entirely by the boys but, after a very few numbers had been issued, it had to be discontinued owing to the irksome method of production.

The second effort, made in 1896, was printed and went under the name of ‘The High Schoolian’.  This lived for about two years only.

It is sincerely hoped that at no distant date a magazine worthy of the School will become a permanent feature in the life of the institution.

In 1891, the Princiipal (Rev WB Euba) introduced the College of Preceptors examinations and at the end of the year fourteen candidates were successful.  In three years, no less than forty-seven certificates had been awarded to pupils of the High School – the highest number, so the prospectus announced, of any school on the West Coast.  In the examination of 1920, MAAS Agbaje gained the ‘Soames’ prize – a prize awarded to the candidate securing the highest mark for Scripture in the Junior Grade.

While the thoroughness with which instruction has always been given has kept the school in the front rank of Nigerian schools, the other aspects of school life have not been neglected.

In May 1916, the troop of Boy Scounts was commenced by the late Rev LC Mead.

In 1919, the school was divided into four houses (Didsbury, Handsworth, Kingswood and Westminster) and each boy, on being admitted, is placed in one of other of them.

FB Mulford has presented two splendid shields, one for cricket and one for football and His Honour Mr Justice Pennington, a silver cup for athletic sports.  These trophies have given a great impetus to the friendly rivalry between the four houses.  An annual sports meeting has been held on the Race Course since 1921.

For a number of years, the school uniform, which was worn on special occasions only, consisted of black trousers and a white coat.  Just recently, however, the uniform, which is now worn daily, has been changed to white trousers, brown blazer with the school badge, and a straw hat with the school hatband.

The school colours are chocolate, blue and gold and the school motto ‘Non sibi sed aliia.’

The original motto appears to have been ‘Nunquam non paratus,’ and the colours white and gold – the change of motto having been made in the time of Principal Euba.

For several years, the boys have maintained a bed in the Wesley Guild Hospital, Ilesha, and have subscribed £15 annually to the British and Foreign Bible Society.

Four or five years ago an Old Boys’ Association was formed but remained dormant until a few months ago.

Towards the end of the year 1918, the School suffered a severe blow in the deaths of the Rev AW Moulton Wood and the Rev LC Mead, the former in the influenza epidemic and the latter by drowning, one of the many victims of the Great War.  The Rev EG Nightingale and the Rev LF Webb came to the assistance of the School until the new Principal arrived.

The old minute book of the School Committee records some facts which are interesting – some because they deal with problems which no longer exist and some because they show how time has changed public opinion.

To the first group belongs the statement on page after page of the record that the work of the school was crippled because of unpaid school fees.  The Principal, the Treasurer, and often a specially appointed member of Committee were burdened with the task of collecting the very considerable sums owing.  The ‘Collection of Fees’ often received payment – so onerous was his task.  More than once the assistance of a lawyer as called in.  Happier conditions now exist.  All fees are paid in advance and the time and energy once spent in collecting debts are now spent in the classroom for the benefit of the scholars.

The members of the School Committee and even the parents were not as much interested in their duties as they should have been.  The former did not attend regularly the committee meetings and on one occasion, when parents were invited to come together to consider the question of school hours, only five persons were present.

This indifference, too, has passed away and all are fully alive to the value of our schools.

There is, moreover, a pleasant contrast in the amounts received from the Government as grant-in-aid.  In 1892, the grant was £71/9/-.  The sum received for the past year or two has exceeded ten times that amount.

It is also interesting to note in passing that in 1890, the total grant for all the Wesleyan Methodist Schools in the District amounted to only £152/3/-.  Last year, the sum exceeded £3,500.


LIST OF PRINCIPALS

Rev W Terry Coppin 1878-1883

Rev George W Baxter 1883-1884

Rev Edmund Tomlin 1884

Rev MJ Elliott 1885

Rev JJ Willington 1886-1889

Rev WB Euba 1889-1896, 1902-1912

Rev JH Samuel 1896-1902

Rev AW Moulton Wood 1912-1918

Rev H W Stacey 1919-1927

Rev JA Angus 1927

 

FAMILY HISTORY

The Rev John Milum, a missionary of the Wesleyan Missionary Society in West Africa, was born on 10 April 1848.  He was a Fellow of the Royal Geographical Society and author of a biography of his predecessor, Thomas Birch Freeman, missionary pioneer to Ashanti, Dahomey and Egba, in West Africa, published by Partridge in London about 1890.  He married, firstly, Charlotte ‘Chatty’ Warner, who died.  He married secondly, Ellen Morrison (Della), eldest daughter of John Smith II of Coventry and London, by his first wife, Anne Collins.  They were married on 22 October 1878 at Studley Road Wesleyan chapel, Clapham, by Rev W Nicholson.  Della was born at 7am on 22nd September 1855 at Foleshill, Coventry, Warwickshire.

Della accompanied John, her new husband, to West Africa and almost immediately fell ill.  On her early return voyage, she died of dysentery on SS Gaboon, on 18 January 1879 and was buried on the same day in the burial ground of the North German Missionary Society at Quittah, Gold Coast Colony.  There is a memorial to her in Kensal Green cemetery.

John Milum married, thirdly, Frances Mary Parton, who was born on 20 December 1851, the daughter of John Parton, of Woodchurch, Kent, a miller (died 18 October 1851) and sister of Richard Jinkins Parton, born 21st May 1850, Tom and John, who died young.  She died 9th November 1935, having borne him:

John Parton, of whom below**

Paul, born 20 November 1883, married Carrie Day, a Canadian, and daughter of a farmer. They lived in

Golden, BC.  He died in 1956.  They had issue:

Harold, who married and had issue

Ruby, who married and had issue

Beulah, who married and had issue

Gordon, who married Phyllis, a former land girl, and had issue

Rita, who married and had issue

Stanley, who married and had issue

Wesley, who married Milly, sometime housekeeper to Mrs E A Maitland at Croydon, England

Dick, who married and had issue

After Carrie’s death, John remarried but had no further issue, and he died in 1956.

(Frances) Hilda, born 19 October 1988, married in 1913 in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, Bentley Claughton.  She died about 14th August 1954, leaving issue:

Frances Dorothy (Dorrit), born in Edmonton, Alberta on 8th March 1914 and killed in an air raid in

Kensington, London on 20 October 1940

Richard Bentley, FRBS, Sculptor of Castelnau, Barnes and, later, Telham Lodge, Battle, Sussex.  Director of Sculpture, the Slade, London University; born 28 February 1915, he married Edna **** (88 Old London Road, Hastings, East Sussex).  He died 9th March 1997, having had issue:

A daughter, who died in infancy

Russell, a journalist, born 1944, who married 5 April 1975 Sheila Souvane, from India, and

has issue:

Kit

Piers

John David, born 19 March 1929, married Elizabeth Jane Mitchell, born 13 April 1941, and has issue:

Fraser Bentley, born 18 March 1963; married Julia Ruth Pine, born 2 January 1963 and has

issue:

Max Angelo, born 27 August 1986

Marcus Daniel, born 15 February 1989

Bruce Richard, born 1 Mary 1964 and married Jacqueline Mary Turner, born 31 January 1968

And has issue:

Josephine Jade, born 11 October 1993

Emma Louise, born 13 June 1995

Alexander James, born 9 June 1998

Andrew Robert, born 13 February 2000

Dorothy Kathleen, born 18 January 1890, married Rev Charles Leopold Clarke, a minister, son of a printer of Wimborne, Dorset (who died young), who was born on 3 July 1894 and died 20 October 1952.  She died at Croydon on 12 April 1957, having had issue:

Joan, born 1917, who married on Mar 25 1955 Major John Charles Wilder, born 18 October 1904, of Old Manor, Twyning, Tewkesbury, Gloucestershire, educated at Eton and King’s College, Cambridge; late Royal Berkshire Regt, served in WWII, Officier de L’Ordre de Leopold, only son of Francis Langham Wilder.  He died 21 December 1981.  They adopted:

Fanny Helen, baptised Feb 1961

Charles

Helen, born 1918, who married John Howard Peploe Summers and had issue:

Richard, born about 1946, educated at King Alfred’s school

Jill (adopted), born about 1951, educated at Letchworth

Paul, born 1953

Pauline Hilda (Church Farm House, Bottisham, Cambridge), born 1921, a writer of children’s and other books and 1962 winner of the Library Association’s Carnegie medal for the book of the year for children for ‘The Twelve and the Genii’.  She married on 27 February 1969, Charles Henry Hunter Blair, university teacher, Emeritus Reader in Anglo Saxon history at Cambridge university and Vice-Master of Emmanuel College, Cambridge.  He died 9 September 1982.

**John Parton Milum:  he entered the Methodist ministry in 1903 and spent a year at Minehead.  He was

instituted in 1904.  Born 8 June 1882, he married Nellie Wilkins; they has issue:

Veronica, who married William Tull, with whom she ran the Waverley Hotel, Clacton on Sea, Essex; 

they had issue:

Christine

Another child

Robert

Leo, schoolmaster in the Anglo-Americal school of Malaya (Singapore and Penang 1936 – 1939).  He

was killed in action at Arnhem, Netherlands, as Lieutenant, Royal Artillery, on 24 September 1944,

aged 33.

Eirene Myrtle, born 1 March 1916 who married and had issue:

A daughter

Stella, who married but whose whereabouts are unknown;

Rev John Parton Milum died 23 April 1952


Newspaper cutting

Jubilee of a West African Mission School

In 1870, when Christian missions had only been at work in Lagos, West Africa, for eighteen years, our Wesleyan community began to talk of founding a school for the higher education of their youths. 

Talk led on to action, and under the leadership of the Rev John Milum, over £1,000 was raised locally and a grant of £950 obtained from home. 

The Wesleyan Boys’ High School was opened in March, 1878, and recently celebrated its jubilee.

A thanksgiving service was held, the preacher being one wo was on the staff when the school opened.  At the public meeting there were on the platform as speakers two who remembered the opening day – a member of the staff and the first senior boy, and during the course of the meeting a cable was sent to the first Principal, the Rev W Terry Coppin.

The school has had an honourable history.  Starting with less than 20 boys, it now has over 270 and is forced to turn away as many boys as it takes in.

It ranks as one of the best schools in Nigeria, is classified by the Government as in the highest grade, and is self-supporting.  It is now planning to erect new buildings which will give it improved equipment and enable it to render still better service for God and humanity in the days to come

J A ANGUS


OBITUARY

Born April 1848, at St Mary Clist near Exeter; converted when twelve years old, he began at an early age to preach, serving meanwhile, a long and busy apprenticeship, and attending science classes, which all stood him in good stead in after years.  While at Richmond College, he offered himself for the Gold Coast, where it was his joy to participate in a remarkable spiritual movement among ministers, leaders and people which drew multitudes of heathen into the church and brought many nominal Christians to cull consecration.

Lagos became his headquarters, where for ten years he laboured earnestly, enduring sore bereavements and much personal suffering.  His work as Chairman of the District was characterised by foresight, method, judiciousness, patience, solidity, firm but conciliatory discipline and Christian manliness.

The General Missionary Committee showed their confidence in him as an organiser and administrator by entrusting him with special commissions of re-organisation at the Gambia in 1879, and on the Gold Coast in 1882 and in 1884-5 to adjust certain difficulties which had arisen at Lagos. 

His preaching was spiritual, thoughtful, and convincing and indicative of a well-furnished mind; thorough culture, wide observation and conscientious and diligent preparation. 

In 1882, painful affliction induced by the climate compelled him reluctantly to leave his much-loved field of labour and enter the home work, in which, for fourteen years he ably and faithfully ‘served his generation according to the will of God/,’ 

In August 1896, he was seized with sudden paralysis.  He waited submissively for the coming of the Lord.  On the morning of April 19th 1901, he had another stroke, and the following day he fell asleep, ten days after completing his fifty-third years. 

He was a good man, full of faith and of the Holy Ghost.

His career, as follows:

1879 Institution (1 year)

1871 Gold Coast, etc, Dist West Africa (11 years)

1882 North Hill (2 years)

1884 Buckfastleigh (3 years)

1887 Clacton-on-Sea (3 years)

1890 Ossett & Horbury (3 years)

1893 North Shields (3 years)

1896 Sunderland St John’s (1 year)

1897 Sunderland St John’s (Sup) (1 year)

1898 North Shields (Sup) (1 year)


PAULINE HUNTER BLAIR’S LETTERS

Church Farm House, Bottisham, Cambridge

October 1st 1982

Dear John

Thank you and your mother so very much for your letter and your sympathy.  My loss is immeasurable and my grief profound.  I have had, though, the help and comfort of both Joan (widowed last Christmas) and Helen (who lives so close) and, as it is only three weeks yesterday that darling Peter died, and seems an eternity, I suppose that I must expect to feel tired and ill for some time.  we kept him at home, which was wonderful for us both.

I have always been so sorry that I muddled the dates on that stupid way on the occasion we hoped to see you.  And have always trusted another occasion would arise, and greatly regret that it has not.

We have only been in this house since May 1980, and had just finished the details of the garden, conservatory and house together.  Peter retired from teaching and lecturing in 1977 but was College Archivist and always went in three or four days a week. 

If you are near, please come; as I shall to you.

Ages ago, John, you said you had a note of some kind about Grandfather John Milum’s second wife, Charlotte (Chatty) Warner being remembered in Lagos and that I could have a copy.  I would greatly like it, if you still have it. 

My love to ‘cousin’ Theo as Mummy always called her.

Yours ever

Pauline.


9 The Glebe, Penshurst

January 10th 2002

Dear Pauline

It was a lovely surprise when you telephoned a couple of days ago.  I am sorry that I took a moment or two to pull my thoughts together after so many years.

Since that time, I have looked out my Milum file, but I haven’t found anything for 1965 when you say that I send you some information.  However, there were a lot of other bits and pieces.

I have, therefore, updated and typed out on this word processor the genealogy of the Milum family in so far as it is known to me.  I enclose a copy for your and two others, for Joan and Helen, if you think they wold be interested.  You will note that you will be able to send their copies on to them.  What I am hoping is that I’ll be fed back with corrections and additions so that I can further update the record.  It being on the word processor, I can amend it without great difficulty.

I shall also be sending a copy direct to David Claughton and another to Edna, who is now with Russell.

When it is further improved, I’ll be sending copies to my brother and sisters.

I don’t think I quite finished telling you about the reason for the beheadings.  It is certainly not mainly the ghoulishness of the matter, though that does seem to interest many.  It is because there were occaions of great drama, almost always relating to persons of note, and what’s more, I don’t think it has ever been done before.  It is not the relevant plots but the actual occasions themselves, their locations and any odd details of the process at that time.  this is almost entirely from my own library, which includes the DNB and the Complete Peerage.

I should be very interested to have copies of any Smith or Cade papers yhou have.

With kind regards

John (Flower)


Church Farm House, Bottisham, Cambridge

February 19th 2002

Dear John

Forgive me for my late reply.  I have been head down in the Parton/Milum papers.  First, thank you very much indeed for sending the three copies of you Milum stuff.  I am returning one copy, corrected, modified and added to.  Joan will have the original version amongst John’s papers and won’t want, or have space, to accumulate more papers now (the Ludlow house is enchanting but not spacious like Twyning!)

Helen did not marry Searle-Jordan and wouldn’t want any reference made to it, so I’ve deleted it.  Since, as I explained, it is her son, R J Summers, who has stolen the diaries of John Milum the missionary, which I lent him at her pressing instigation, I think I won’t involve her in archive matters just now.  I have put in both my sisters’ current addresses.

John Milum, the missionary: I enquired of the Royal Geographic Society about being a Fellow.  There is no accolade about it.  All you have to do is be recommended by another (present) Fellow, which John Milum was by a friend he made out there in West Africa, a ‘Consul’, as it was called then.  No doubt his keen interest in the people, fauna and flora of West Africa revealed in his description of his journey into the interior, made him very eligible.

Thomas Birch Freeman’s book was by that evangelist himself.  John Milum brought it back hoping to get publication in London.  We had a copy, which for the moment I have mislaid in my barn room.  My feeling is the book may have been a joint effort but till it turns up, I can’t determine this.

Fanny Parton II (Mrs John Milum, third wife of the missionary) was born posthumously, on December 20th, two months after her father, John Parton II had died (October 18th).  She became ‘the ewe lamb’ having three brothers older than she.  But it didn’t spoil her – she had great sweetness and contentment, despite her own early widowhood, which she passed on to my mother.

My publications: after the Carnegie medal one, you could re-word this: ‘She published twenty-seven books for the young and four novels for the general reader;.

This is because I shall put the complete list onto our archive at the proper place.  If you would like a copy, I will put it on the copying list.  I have this new copier in my barn room and it will get christened with the family papers.  I have already got a list of those you will enjoy: Grace and Adeline when children; John Smith II to John Milum; Della herself; Arthur Cade to John and Fanny Milum; Aunt Adeline to me; etc, etc.  John Smith II was a most prolific letter writer and, indeed, a most loving and understanding father-in-law.  Johm Milum made ‘Holmwood’ where they lived, his second home in England.

My best hews is that I have had Christine Leighton and her brother, Alan Tull, to lunch here (I had written to her explaining everything, when R J Summers divulged her address in a list of relations he had rounded up).  They are on your page 4, daughter and son of Veronica, our first cousin.  Alan is the proper male guardian of the archive in their generation (as poor Leo, Veronica’s brother, died at Arnheim, and he had no children). 

They showed me the greatest kindness; we felt familiar at once though had never met before.  Christine and her husband, Roger, and family chose to live at Woodchurch (our maternal native heath) not knowing that the two mills had been owned by her family!  Alan had already invited R J Summers to his club to hand over the Milum diaries.  He served him the same trick as he played on me – turned up with the copies not the originals.  Alan is still in pursuit and I know will do his utmost.  This man (RJS) has separated the diaries from all the other John Milum material, 400 letters, and much else.

I expect I should have done better to ring you up, dear John, but as I had your Milum papers to return, I decided to write.  I do hope this screed won’t weary you.

Christine has promised me they will come and bring me to Woodchurch (when the weather is better!) aand that we shall try to visit you.

Yours ever affectionately

Pauline (Hunter Blair)

PS  What does ‘wef’ mean after Charlie’s name?


Church Farm House, Bottisham, Cambridge

28 November 2005

Dear John

Thank you for your letter.  I was glad to hear from you but very concerned that you call yourself ‘no longer mobile.’  What a good thing you have Nicholas.

As to my (amateur) tree; I had a lot of trouble.  The specialist I was put in touch with by the County offices in Cambridge clearly distinguished between the ‘pedigree tree’, when someone simply wants to know who is great, great grandfather was, and the ‘spider tree’, beautifully so called, dealing with the linked web of many families and usually drawn by hand.  (I, of course, had done my initial copy by hand, knowing nothing of computers). 

I landed up with a woman who, though I had refused her at first, rang again saying she was sure she could do what I wanted.  I employed her and very soon wished I hadn’t.  it led to much trouble, exasperation and expenses.  She made the same mistakes (which I’d already corrected) over and over again, being more concerned with her computer than with the people who should have been coming alive for her.

I knew John Smith had three wives but your yellow book had gone with the archive papers to Alan Tull before I at last had the tree done, so I couldn’t check the details.

Thank you so much for the Cade information, I’ve corrected my master copy at once and I shall look forward to the Cade narrative genealogy.

It was really lovely getting in touch with David again – we hadn’t contacted each other for years though had known each other well when he lived in South Croydon for a bit during the War, with my mother and me.

All good wishes

Pauline


Extracts from the private journal of Rev John Milum FRGS, Pioneer Missionary, Nigeria, Dahomey & Lagos

Ellen (Della), John Milum’s second wife, was born in 1855, only daughter of John Smith and his first wife, Anne Collins (who died in 1857).  John Smith then married Philadelphia Wright, who bore him three daughters; Sarah Elizabeth (Trot – though why she had this nickname is unknown, unless she always ‘trotted around’!), Lucy and Alice (the latter two died within days of their birth) and ‘Delphia’ died shortly after Alice. 

Sarah Elizabeth went on to marry Edwin Arthur Cade in 1883.  She accompanied Della and her new husband out to West Africa, where she thrived but Della became ill with dysentery. 

It became clear that the climate did not suit Della, who became ill with dysentery, so the three boarded ship to return to England.  Della died on 18 January 1879, and her body was taken ashore at Keta and buried in the German Missionary Cemetery at the mouth of the Volta River.

October  26th 1878

‘Della, Trot and I said ‘goodbye’ to Ma and Pa, who had come to see us off on board the SS Biafra, which was lying off in the river at Liverpool, bound for Madeira and the West Coast of Africa…….  By a mysterious providence, here are three of us in company, bound for West Africa.  My own return is no marvel, as I have learnt to feel more at home in Lagos than elsewhere, but that Della and Trot should accompany me does seem a marvel ……

7pm: All the passengers appeared at dinner and my old friend, Captain Rattray, congratulates them and hopes they will appear tomorrow…..  Glass going down rapidly, indicating bad weather.  Telegram from

America, warning of a heavy gale crossing the Atlantic, every prospect, therefore, of our having a bad time.’

There follows the day to day diary of the next twelve weeks, the tragic story of Della’s death, on January 18th 1879; the agonising journey home with Trot; the loving welcome from Ma and Pa Smith; the sharing of the heavy grief; the searching of heart as to whether or not it was the Will of God for him to go back; the decision to do so; the last days in England before sailing again.

Sadly, this journal no longer exists.

 

April 1879

7th Went to the Mission House, Trot accompanied me.

9th  Went to the Mission House by appointment……….  Went to the Army & Navy Stores and then to Richmond College.  Took Trot over the College and showed her my old study.

10th My 31st birthday; God has blessed me, and I have been an unworthy servant.  Packing all day.

11th Good Friday; very cold, snow even falling again; said goodbye to the dear ones at Holmwood; Trot came down to Euston with me, and Papa, to say goodbye.  Dear old girl; I wish I could have taken her with me, but it is best as it is; got down to Lawrence’s Hotel at 11pm.

12th Papa and I, with Brothers Elliot, Pullen and Dixon, got on board the SS Coricco bound for West Africa.  Once more I am on my way back to the coast.  This is my fourth voyage out and just now……… I feel very sorrowful.  I have said goodbye to Papa and have left behind all the loved ones who are living.  One little gleam of comfort arises.  It is all for Christ. 

The previous dust of the two dear ones in Africa seems to draw me on.  It is useless to speculate as to what may be, what the next two years may bring forth, but, whatever it may be, I am Christ’s.  If it might have been, how pleasant, how delightful, it would have been to have had my dear Della with me.  God knows why He has done it, and I leave it there, though my heart is very sore.  The weather is bitterly cold and snow is falling as we start from Liverpool at 3pm. 

Sent post cards back, by pilot, to Trot, Mother and Aunt Baker; went to bed at 9.30, and thought of Papa getting to Euston about that time.  I am sure he and all the dear friends are thinking of me.

13th Awakened by a rat running over my face – afterwards, felt a pushing against my side and found that the rat had got there to get warm;  I, of course, turned him out without any notice; 7.45pm – the dear friends at home are just now finishing their evening service.  I daresay they have had a glorious Easter Sunday. 

My thoughts have constantly been with them and I have specially thought of, and spoken of, dear Trot.  I do most earnestly pray for the dear girl.  She has so many splendid qualifications for usefulness.  I believe God has something great yet for her to do.  It was dear Della’s great object in life to win her thoroughly over to Christ and to save her from harm; it shall be, with me, a most sacred duty to continue my darling wife’s work in this respect.  I have learnt to love her most dearly and am proud of having such a sister.  May our great Father protect her from all evil, and may her splendid abilities be sanctified and consecrated to His use.  She is one of the most tender-hearted and sensitive of girls and, to cover this, puts on an assumed air of indifference which is too often taken as an indication of her real character.  To me, she has been the most tender and loving sister.  God bless her and preserve her.  I feel thankful that she has promised to pray for me and write to me very often. 

My heart is very full tonight.  How the memory of that dear home at Holmwood will cling to me.  Dear Mr and Mrs Smith have been, indeed, to me father and mother.  I love them most sincerely and, when I think of home, my mind will wander there with pleasure.  The dear little ones too, Grace and Adeline – what loving little sisters they have been.  I wish I could kiss them all and say goodnight to them.

August 1880

29th  (ie a year and four months later); preached at Faji; Evening: preached at Olowogbowo

30th  Drove to Geeko and married a couple; received letters from home containing news of Trot’s engagement to the Rev Terry Coppin, which has quite upset me.  Why?  I cannot make it out.  I do not know whether I am jealous.  I think not, but I think the real source of the feeling is that I have harboured in my heart some feelings of opposition to Coppin arising from the foolish, pompous conduct shown previous to his leaving for England.  May God help me to think rightly about this matter.  I love dear Trot very much and wish her welfare, but I fear I shall feel henceforth a barrier to my making known to her so fully my heart, as in times past; I can scarcely expect her to keep from Coppin my confidences and many things that I now write to her, I could not confide to him.

This is how I seem to go on blundering through life, stumbling upon some dear soul that I dearly love, when the prop is suddenly kicked away.  I think that is what I feel so keenly now; the old blank has come over my heart and, there comes up that dreadful sense of loneliness that I have felt so often before.

Trot says nothing about it in her letter, showing that her confidence is withdrawn; Coppin writes about it in his usual, pompous style and Mr Smith writes telling me of it, and asking my opinion.

I suppose the dear girl might have done worse, for when I analyse it what, after all, have I against Coppin?  According to my thinking, he has a good deal of conceit but then I probably may not have sufficient self-respect or may have a superabundance of conceit myself.  I suspect him, too, of listening to tales about me during my absence and of being influenced by them and of acting upon them to my prejudice; but then I have no right to expect that he should approve of me, any more than I approve of him all round. 

These very thoughts prove to me that I am far from being perfect.  I fear I have not ‘charity that thinketh no evil, etc’.  I can make out a long list of complaints against myself and, if I can do so, I must expect other people to do so…  But, whatever is the matter with me, this much I am certain of; that I love Trot and want to see her happily married.

I have had to give up self many times in my life, and must do it again.  I see, however, that I cannot trust myself to write much on the subject to Mr Smith or to Trot, so must be wise and cautious.

31st Have scarcely done anything today for thinking of Trot but am beginning to be reconciled to the shock.  It is time I was getting past all such feelings as these.  I have kept the matter so far a profound secret (ie from his colleagues) and trust I shall be able to do so till Coppin himself makes it known to the people of the coast.

Among family papers still in existence, there is no reference to the ‘breaking off’ of the engagement to Rev Terry Coppin, or what happened to him

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